7 Things To Do Before A Date To Hook Up
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the 7 things you need to have in place in order to be successful with dating. If you miss one of these things, it starts to become a recipe for disaster because you mess up one thing, then everything else falls behind it. You need a system in place that you can replicate every single time you go on a date so that you don t fail. And when you fail to prepare for a date, you're setting yourself up for failure. You need to know how to create a vibe, and a vibe is the key to a successful date. And in order for a girl to have a good date, she needs to have the vibe. And if she doesn't have the V vibe, she's not going to be interested in you, and she's going to leave the date feeling like she's just not into you. And that's not a bad thing, but it needs to be a good vibe. We'll talk about how you can create the vibe that you want in a date and how to get her to be into you and give you the vibe you need in a relationship so that she won't leave you feeling good about you and wants to be with you. This episode is a must listen! We're live streaming right now on CastClub.tv, so be sure to check it out! We are live streaming live streaming on the CastClub on YouTube, so you can catch us live streaming the full episode! and all of the other platforms that are going live right here on the Fresh Fit Podcast! Stay tuned for more episodes coming soon! Subscribe to stay up to date with us on all of our social media platforms, and stay tuned for the latest episodes and everything else going on the freshest and the best in the best of what we're going to talk about dating tips, tips and advice we can give you guys can be found on the internet! - The FreshFit Podcast. - Freshfit Podcast and much more! . - Cheers, Cheers Cheers! Cheers. Cheers from the FreshFit Crew! CHEVERYTHING FreshFit, - Jon & Jon and the guys at The Fresh Fit Crew! - Jon and Willy and the Freshfit Crew - Jon & Willy, & the guys from the Podcast, , and the crew at The Cheers Crew Check us out!
Transcript
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Welcome to the Fresh Fit Podcast, regular edition.
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It's Wednesday, which means we're going to talk about some dating.
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And then they're like, wait, what do these guys actually talk about?
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And, you know, obviously you guys know we had to cleanse our YouTube.
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So, of course, it's over there on Rumble, rumble.com slash freshfit.
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So if we ever get canceled, you know exactly where to find us and castclub.tv.
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But, you know, obviously we're live streaming right now on YouTube and all the other platforms.
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So we're going to go back to basics on this one, guys, because a lot of you guys...
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And then you wonder why you're frustrated when you actually do, you know, get the date set up and everything else like that.
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You know, failing to prepare typically prepares yourself to fail.
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So we're going to help you guys prepare properly so that you don't fail.
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And actually, back in the day, these are some of our most fun episodes.
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Just talking about, you know, dating with the boys, chopping it up.
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So we're going to go ahead and count down, guys, seven things that you need to have in place.
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Now, some of these things might seem like rudimentary or basic, like, whoa, I knew that.
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But you guys would be shocked at how many guys don't do a lot of the things that we're going to talk about.
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And if you miss one of these things, what ends up happening is it starts to become a recipe for disaster, right?
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Because you mess up one thing, then everything else kind of falls behind it, right?
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It's kind of like a domino effect because you guys got to understand that When it comes to dating, right?
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And being successful with dating, you need to have a system in place, okay?
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And I know people are like, whoa, what do you mean a system in place?
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Well, you need to have a set of behaviors, right?
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That leads to success that you can replicate every single time.
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Obviously, you tinker around and everything else like that based on the individual that you're going to meet with or whatever.
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And the problem is that a lot of you guys just kind of wing it.
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Like, oh, I haven't been on a date in seven months.
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And again, If you fail to prepare, you're preparing to fail.
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And when it comes to dates, you need to go ahead and have things set up in a proper fashion so you set yourself up for success, man.
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And the thing is, and we talked about this on the podcast after hours, right?
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You know, like, oh, I went on a date, but the vibe wasn't there, blah, blah, blah.
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Guys, you need to understand one thing when it comes to going on dates with females, right?
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If she doesn't have fun on a date, she's never going to say...
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Or damn, I could have really been more interesting.
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Or man, I could have contributed more to the conversation.
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She's going to say, it was whack because it was his fault.
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Okay, you're the protector, you're the provider, etc.
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The girl's never going to take responsibility for having the vibe.
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And what all the vibe basically means, guys, and I hate using that term, but we're speaking in womanese for a second here.
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All the vibe basically means is creating an ambiance that is conducive to intimacy.
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Because I've got to show you guys, this is how modern women talk, so you've got to understand what the fuck they mean by this shit.
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When a girl says the vibe, what that means in plain old English is you need to create a certain ambiance that will allow for intimacy to occur.
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The way you speak, your tonality, the dates, etc.
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I don't want to make this a legal thing, saying to a title of the circumstance, but it really does come down to that, man.
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So I don't want to try to, like, complicate it for you guys or whatever, but this shit is a science, and you need to get a system, okay?
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But what I will say, there's a song, and in the song it says, girls, just want to have fun.
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But we're using it for you guys because that's how they talk, right?
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So you have to be the person bringing the vibe.
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Now, granted, we're going to cover seven steps today you can actually do to get success.
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Just because you do these seven steps doesn't mean you're going to get laid.
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It means you have a better chance because obviously her body, her choice, so we're just telling you guys up front, don't expect this to happen every single time.
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Yeah, we're going to set you guys up for success, but obviously, you know...
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No one bats, you know, a hundred percent, a thousand percent.
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So, and then different girls have different rules, right?
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And then obviously different guys have different sexual market value, right?
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So if you're not the best looking guy, guess what, bro?
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You might have to go on two or three dates to make it happen, right?
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If you're in a very attractive guy, but you have no confidence, you have no personality, it might take you two dates.
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You might be a very good looking guy and you're a charming guy.
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Then you might be able to do it the first day, but every guy is different.
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You guys got to understand you guys were watching the show.
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If you've been watching the show for a while, you understand that girls have different rules for different guys.
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Okay, obviously, we want you guys to be the guy that she breaks the rules for.
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However, some of you guys might not be there yet, and that's fine.
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But we're going to set you up where you at least have a rudimentary understanding of how to set this up properly.
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Have fun on a date, have a plan, and enjoy the process.
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Yeah, so we're going to start with yourself and then work our way out, okay?
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Obviously, everything that we're going to talk about is pretty much in your control, but we're going to start with the most personal.
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Guys, I'm amazed I even had to say this, but after doing how many episodes now?
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Well, we've talked to almost 3,000 girls, but we've done...
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If you're one of these guys that sweats all the time, etc.
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And it's crazy I have to say this, but you know what?
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I don't give a shit if you say, oh, bro, I showered this morning.
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Because the amount of women that have complained about guys smelling bad is crazy.
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I know some loser might say, well, there was a study done, and we found that the girls were most aroused by the guys that had higher testosterone that smelled bad, blah, blah, blah.
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She needs to be attracted to you first for her to accept your scent, okay, guys?
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So for her to accept your scent, she's got to be attracted to you in the first place.
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So, guys, shower, shave, keep yourself clean, okay?
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Look, your beard, if you're gonna have a beard, it needs to be nice and trimmed and clean.
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If you have longer hair, make sure it's styled appropriately, okay?
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Like, guys, like, it's, you know, I really hate that I even had to start here, but after all the complaints I've heard, you know, it's wild.
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How many of y'all just fucking stink and it's crazy?
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I've been complimented a number of times in my life for women.
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And guys, I give you a while back a secret on what I wear for cologne.
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But if you're not aware of it, I'll tell you tonight as well, it's Westlil Tuxedo.
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It's a really good cologne, it smells good, and women love it.
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But guys, like Myron said, hygiene is important because even on the show, girls always say, oh, it's hygiene.
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Like, bro, also, whoa, let's see what a blowjob.
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So I was like, bro, come prepared for the date beforehand.
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You need to assume that you're going to get some action, guys.
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So I'd be talking to some of y'all when you guys come up and talk to me and shit like that.
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I've had supporters come up to me and shit like that.
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And I've told them, yo, you're fucking breast stinks, bro.
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I tell them, yo, if I was a chick, I wouldn't fucking talk to you.
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Where supporters come up to me and they'll be like, yo, you know, I'm having trouble with girls, blah, blah, blah.
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And I'll tell them right then and there, you fucking smell, nigga.
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Guys, you know what I do before every single date?
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Yo, I fucking brush my teeth and then I carry a pack of Orbit gum.
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Peppermint, which is I think the green one or the blue one.
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Because when you're chewing gum, Well, number one, it's good for your jaw anyway.
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If you guys are still out here doing this dumb shit, you're a fucking bum.
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You get a mechanical toothbrush, it's only going to cost you like $100, right?
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They will tell you a mechanical toothbrush is superior to a regular toothbrush.
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Like, bruh, mechanical toothbrush, Listerine, get some teeth whitener, keep your teeth...
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When your breast smells, I'm telling y'all, man, girls can't stand that.
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She might have found you cute, but now you can't kiss her because your breast smells.
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If you guys smoke weed, you guys smoke cigarettes, quit that right now.
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Bro, like, yo, you guys that smoke pot and stuff like that, quit it, bro.
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Bro, the amount of guys that I've met where their fingernails are dirty, because they're rolling up weed or whatever the hell, they're smoking black mouths.
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They say, I look at a man's hands, and if they're long nails, I can picture him putting his hand inside of me, hurting me.
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Secondly, then there's dirt underneath his fingernails, like dirt.
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So on that level alone, bro, it's kind of like having dirty hands or even long nails can fuck you up.
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I got calluses and everything else like that, lifting weights and stuff.
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And again, I don't mean to be a jerk with y'all, but I gotta give it to you guys straight.
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A lot of y'all are some dirty motherfuckers, man.
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Make sure it's nice and combed before you go out.
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Like, some girls will accept it, but trust me, if you don't have, if you're hairless, It's not going to hurt you.
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Like, you can have a little hair on your chest, but hair on the back, unacceptable, man.
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Can you give them something that's a little bit...
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Do you have a more affordable one that the guys can get like today?
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I forgot what it's called, but that one's a little bit cheaper, I think.
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You've got to take care of yourself, man, from a holistic standpoint.
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Hair clean, beard trimmed, unibrow gone, hairless back, balls trimmed, cologne.
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Like, it's amazing to me how many of you guys don't wear deodorant.
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Wear deodorant, guys, because you don't want to raise your arm up like this, and then it smells.
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Worse yet, you don't want to have a pit stain either.
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When you're going out with the girls, and here's the thing, too, that I want you guys to know.
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Some of y'all might go on a first date and a girl might not call you back.
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Bro, it might be because you smelled or your breath smelled or you were just unkempt.
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Some of you guys lose the girl before the date even started just because you went up to her and said, hi, and then she smelled your breath and it was disgusted.
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Always brush your teeth before you meet up with her and carry gum with you, okay?
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They're not even paying me to tell y'all this, but carry some kind of breath mint gum at all times, man.
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DHV. You give her a piece and be like, hey, you need it.
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Because what are you implying when you do that?
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I'll give her a piece and I'll say you need this.
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It's a demonstration of higher value, number one.
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Number two, it makes her feel like, oh, okay, whoa, my guard's up.
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If he has the audacity to tell me that I need it, like, wow, this guy's probably really clean.
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If your teeth are clean, guys, you already send a message like I'm better than you.
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Like, I hate to say it like that, but that's what it comes off as.
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When your teeth are nice and straight, guys, it comes off as better.
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And that's what you want because if your teeth are clean and straight, that means you care about your hygiene.
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Look, some of y'all might not be able to afford braces.
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They were still wet because I brushed my teeth every single day.
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So you are absolutely in control of how your teeth look from a cleanliness standpoint.
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Also, for your tongue, tongue scrapers are very important too.
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And we brought up actually on the screen an affordable cologne any guy can get.
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And honestly speaking, guys, when I go see you for the first time, she'll look at you.
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So this is going to do wonders for you as well.
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Listerine, Chanel, they need to cut us a check.
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Oral-B, mechanical toothbrushes, that's what I use.
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We're giving you all the sauce today because we want you guys to win.
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We don't care about whether these guys sponsor us or not.
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Yeah, get Listerine no alcohol, by the way, guys.
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The point is, guys, is you need to ensure that you're clean.
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And I know I spent a lot of time harping on this, but bro, fingernails, hair, I'm a beard, back hair, I mean pubic hair, make sure that's controlled.
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I wouldn't have spent this much time on it if we didn't get the overwhelming amount of complaints that we've gotten from women about this on first dates, man.
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Some of y'all lose the fight before you even get in just off of your breast smelling bad.
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Like, yo, girls assume the worst if your hygiene is bad.
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But, yeah, supporters have come up to me and said, yo, I'm having this issue with girls, blah, blah, blah.
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And I tell them right then and there, bro, you smell.
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Make sure that your hygiene is even more on point, okay?
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Asians and Indian guys typically are some of the least desired races by women.
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So guys, don't align with the stereotypes, bro.
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There's a bunch of guys from India and Pakistan that do really well, right?
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But they do it by overcoming the negative stereotypes, man.
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You want to be the guy where you come in and you overcome the stereotypes.
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Like, girl meets me, she might be like, oh, he's black.
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But then I'll speak and they'll be like, oh, he's well-spoken, he's educated.
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So the point is, guys, is that you never want to align with negative stereotypes attributed to your race, your religion, etc., right?
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Some of you guys have a disadvantage when it comes to dating.
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Simply by your race, simply by your ethnic background, whatever it may be, I'm here to tell you guys that you can overcome those stereotypes.
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I'm not going to go out and date because girls are going to automatically assume I'm not attractive.
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All of you guys can beat the stereotypes, right?
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Now, obviously speaking, you don't want to be like Poindexter, have everything super tight.
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You want to be at least on some level, some room to breathe, but looks good on you for your physique.
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Hopefully in your gym, doing better, like myself.
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I believe if you want to be cost-effective and get the best achievement possible, it's H&M, Zara, your local store that has, like, what's that store that everyone goes to?
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The point is, you want to have clothes that you can afford, that look good on you.
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And what I've realized, guys, I used to buy designer all the time, used to buy all this crazy stuff for the name.
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And I just realized, guys, if you're more in shape, you can wear anything.
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A black tee, you know, some fitted clothes from Zara, and you still look good.
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You guys try to clown me for wearing merch, but I still look better than some of you dusty, disgusting, slobby-looking pieces of shit.
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You guys are out here wearing a Mary, still looking like shit, though, because you don't fucking go to the gym.
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I spend more time in the gym than I do in a fucking Nordstrom, you idiot.
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I'm not gonna spend money, right, on stupid-ass designer, right?
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When in reality, what I should be doing is going to the gym and designing my physique, getting in and going fucking hard.
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I spend the money on eating well, going to the gym, training hard.
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The harder you work in the gym, guys, the less you have to worry about fashion and being trendy and all this other stupid shit.
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Wear stuff that fits, wear stuff that looks good on you.
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You don't gotta spend a bunch of money on clothes.
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You shouldn't be spending money on that dumb shit.
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You should be investing in your future and in your health, right?
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Like, if you're over here dropping $200, $300 on jeans and shit like that, why?
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So guys, spend more time on getting yourself in shape.
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You wear some nice fitted jeans, some basic Chelsea boots, a black tee.
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You'll get more girls with that if you're in good shape than wearing a bunch of designer, bro.
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Like, are there some girls out there that love guys that are fashionable?
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But you ain't gonna lose no girls by not being fashionable either.
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So, I'm saying, work hard in the gym, so you don't have to spend the whole bag on designer.
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Now, if you're one of these guys and you enjoy fashion, it's a hobby for you, whatever, cool.
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But the point is that you can't get around wearing fitted clothing that looks good on you and you need to get in shape, guys.
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If you're one of these fat boys and your stomach's all hanging out and shit like that, hey, you got some work to do, bro.
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You're on Fashion Ford, like Maura said earlier.
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You want to have things that are nice, but not too crazy.
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Pieces are collectibles that are vintage more often than not.
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You can find them in, like, thrift stores sometimes, or maybe even, like, closet stores.
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And they still look good, but they're half off because they're vintage or, you know, not that year.
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So, getting pieces of clothes, for example, if pieces of, like, Louis Vuitton, a mirror that's way cheaper, it's, like, half off.
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You find that in those stores, it's way better than buying it from the store.
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So this idiot Donkey D. Luffy says Meyer needs to work on his fashion.
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Get a nice leather jacket, one jean jacket, whether it's black or regular jeans, get a pair of black jeans, get a pair of dark navy jeans, and then get a pair of light jeans if you want.
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Then, you get some white shirts and black shirts.
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You can go ahead and mix and match off of that alone and now you got a foundation.
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Get a pair of Chukka boots, Chelsea boots, and then one pair of black boots.
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They could be Chukka or they could be Chelsea's, right?
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You probably want it, if it's going to be black, to be leather versus suede because leather will last longer.
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Like, if you want to go ahead and be more fashionable and all this shit, that's fine.
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Those basic things, you're going to absolutely be good.
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Get a pair of maybe some white tennis shoes if you want.
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You can get some Nike Air Forces or some Adidas shell tops, whatever it may be.
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If you want to dress up a bit, you can get yourself a pair of khakis.
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Obviously, get some blazers if you want to be more business oriented.
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I was talking more on the streetwear side, but obviously, go ahead and get a blazer.
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You want to have at least one to two suits, one black suit, one navy suit.
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One white dress shirt, one navy blue dress shirt, you know, a tie, whatever.
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But in general, bro, you guys are going to be fine if your stuff is fitted.
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I would absolutely take fitted clothing, right, that's not the most trendy, over clothes that's super trendy but not that fitted.
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Like, because there's some styles that just stand the test of time.
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Like, leather jackets are always going to be in style.
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Jeans jackets typically always stand the test of time.
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You get a pair of black jeans, a pair of navy jeans, and a pair of regular blue jeans, you'll be fine with that, right?
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And then if you want to go ahead and expand with khakis and then tennis shoes and all this stuff, fine.
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Get yourself some lace-ups as well, whether it's wingtips or the strap ones.
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It's really not rocket science when it comes to...
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When you're in good shape, you have more options available to you.
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Now, obviously, if you're bigger, you're fatter, whatever, you can't get away with certain things.
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You gotta, you know, wear looser clothing, etc.
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But no, man, like, guys, I want y'all to be in shape anyway.
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Because, like, what's gonna happen when you deal with the girl and then you take your clothes off and your stomach all hanging over your belt?
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Hey man, shoot me out of there, you know what I'm saying?
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This is very simple, but people forget because either they're excited, they get in the mood, and they go, I'm going on a date, oh my god!
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There we go, single monk or double monk, that's what it was.
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And it's going to be clean your freaking room, make it spotless before the date happens.
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More often than not, guys will go on a date, let's say they bring it, and it magically happens where the girl likes you, on some level, right?
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However, you open the door up, she smells dog, she smells old food, she smells maybe your shit.
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Who knows what she's gonna smell in there, right?
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Now granted, she comes inside, she likes you, but now she's turned off.
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However, if it was clean, spotless, maybe, you know what, let's say you're lazy like me, hire a maid.
00:32:04.000
100 bucks, cleans your room, cleans your house, good to go.
00:32:07.000
But the point here, guys, is like, you don't want to have minimal distractions when it comes to Scoring.
00:32:14.000
You don't want to have anything where she's like, oh my god, the smell, the look of it, it turned me off.
00:32:19.000
You want to be as smooth as possible because you know what?
00:32:22.000
The vibe is going to be the mood you set in your place as well.
00:32:25.000
Whether it's a car, whether it's your house, whatever it may be, you want it to be spotless.
00:32:31.000
He's well kept, a man of value, and at least he's clean.
00:32:44.000
So make sure there ain't no poop streaks in there.
00:32:48.000
Make sure that you don't got no embarrassing medication in your fucking cabinets or whatever.
00:32:51.000
If you got some weird medication, whatever it may be, bro, hide that shit.
00:32:55.000
Nigga, if you got Bluetooth in there, hide that shit too, nigga.
00:33:02.000
So, guys, like, make sure your place is spotless, man.
00:33:05.000
Like, you wanna go, like Fresh said, you got a little bit of extra coin, go ahead and hire a mate before, you know, it's important.
00:33:10.000
Have your clothes folded, make sure your room is clean, make sure your apartment is clean, make sure it doesn't smell, make sure that you don't got food lying all over the place.
00:33:17.000
Like, guys, you don't understand, like, remember how I mentioned the vibe or whatever?
00:33:22.000
Like, make sure that your place, maybe you can have some music playing when you walk in, like, If you have roommates, you can tell them more about this.
00:33:30.000
If you have roommates, how's the best way to navigate that?
00:33:34.000
If you've got a roommate, you're down 10 points already.
00:33:47.000
I mean, have you lost opportunities from having a roommate before?
00:33:57.000
And by deduction, he's like, oh, what room is that?
00:34:03.000
You might hear some noise in there, but it's just my cleaner.
00:34:06.000
The point is, I make up an excuse because there's noise in there.
00:34:18.000
The point is, though, make it as possible that someone's living with you, right?
00:34:49.000
Okay, so if you've got a roommate, that's how you navigate it?
00:34:51.000
You need to tell your roommate to basically stay there?
00:35:03.000
You know, he'd be like, yo, what's that noise I'm hearing?
00:35:09.000
But if you're an adult, bro, living with a roommate, it kind of lowers your chances a little bit more because obviously you're an adult.
00:35:15.000
So just keep that, like, to the side until you smash.
00:35:27.000
I guess all of y'all got storage rooms now that have roommates.
00:35:40.000
If you have a roommate, that's how you navigate it.
00:35:42.000
But the point is, is the place needs to be spotless, bro.
00:36:16.000
I mean, that's good, because Casey actually does...
00:36:18.000
I remember, he's a good cook, and he would cook all the time.
00:36:21.000
So you would use the situation, I guess, to your advantage.
00:37:12.000
A lot of the guys that are watching the show have roommates.
00:37:30.000
This is kind of crazy, but like, let's say it's your homeboy and it's your roommate, right?
00:38:17.000
Once I got on the job being an agent, I was like, bro, I can't have roommates.
00:38:20.000
I would have guns and shit, or my work laptop, or law enforcement documents.
00:38:27.000
I was like, it's probably best if I just live by myself.
00:38:31.000
And then I was in Texas, like in Laredo, Texas, bro.
00:38:43.000
Alright, so now that we talked about you being...
00:38:48.000
Yeah, let's read some chats, guys, and then we'll go ahead because we're like midway right now, alright?
00:39:00.000
Like, Casey plays along and shit like that with whatever Walt said.
00:39:03.000
So, obviously, because, you know, Casey's in the game.
00:39:08.000
You guys would be lucky if you had a roommate that's, like, aware.
00:39:10.000
Some of y'all might have a roommate that's, like, blue pill and doesn't know what it takes to get laid and shit like that, and they'll be weirdos and stuff.
00:39:16.000
So if you got one of those types of roommates, bro, like, I ain't gonna lie, man.
00:39:20.000
You might need to go look for something else or just get the coin and live by yourself because those guys will hurt you a lot of times.
00:39:25.000
Like, let's say your roommate's a dweeb or a dork, and, like, he doesn't listen to you or he'll, like, walk out and he'll be looking all dirty and shit.
00:39:31.000
Because here's the thing you guys gotta understand, right?
00:39:36.000
If you have a friend that's a weirdo, she's going to think you're a weirdo too.
00:39:40.000
You're better off getting a studio apartment by yourself than with a roommate like that.
00:39:47.000
Like, having a weird roommate, she'll think you're weird too.
00:39:50.000
Like, it's definitely going to decrease your likelihood significantly.
00:39:54.000
Can we get a Money Monday guest on to talk about working as a freelancer?
00:40:00.000
Maybe he can come on and talk about his days as a graphic designer.
00:40:06.000
Chris is pretty good with freelancing, so yeah, that'd actually be a good episode.
00:40:11.000
Yeah, and Chris is a graphic designer, too, by trade, so yeah, we'll do that for y'all.
00:40:19.000
Because Chris is such a bum, we didn't even think about it.
00:40:23.000
Yo, to his credit, he did a good job on last show.
00:40:39.000
Hey, FNF, can you do a podcast on breaking down how you would treat each girl in your rotation and reasons why they should get kicked out the motor and moved up to one of your mains?
00:40:52.000
Most of the guys in here are struggling to get one girl, man.
00:40:55.000
So, I mean, we could do that, but that's, like, advanced.
00:40:58.000
If you guys really want it, we'll do it, though.
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The problem is, bro, if you take it, you don't smash, nigga?
00:41:17.000
I'm just taking a blue chew before you go on a date.
00:41:24.000
You're going to be a horndog, and you're going to make bad decisions to say dumb shit and do dumb shit.
00:41:27.000
What you should do, if you're smart about it, and you know you're going to smash, take it right before.
00:41:43.000
Is it possible to put your vids onto a playlist?
00:41:44.000
Rumble is difficult to try and find certain episodes.
00:41:47.000
We'll talk with Chris about that about playlists.
00:41:56.000
Not in the right position to start dating or hooking up right now.
00:41:58.000
Got evicted from my first apartment and starting from the ground up again.
00:42:11.000
Yo, since you got evicted from your apartment...
00:42:13.000
Bro, that's going to ding your credit big time, bro.
00:42:16.000
So your number one goal right now is to, number one, get a spot.
00:42:20.000
Number two, get your credit back up because an eviction will absolutely hurt you and your credit score, bro.
00:42:24.000
And that's not a good look because me as a landlord, bro, like, yeah, nah, it's not a good look, man.
00:42:29.000
Bro, I mean, at that point, bro, you gotta start...
00:42:35.000
Yeah, he said he's not worried about that right now.
00:42:38.000
You need to get your money up and find a spot and get your credit back on point.
00:42:42.000
Hey, here are my date night recommendations for all you musty ninjas out there.
00:42:51.000
All right, y'all need to see the names right there.
00:42:58.000
Honestly, bro, you need like two or three, my nigga.
00:43:16.000
You know what's crazy about this whole statement here?
00:43:47.000
Zaddy goes, top compliment I get from attractive girls that have nicely to smell good.
00:43:55.000
Girls will not give you a compliment, maybe on your looks, but how you smell, for sure they will, bro.
00:43:59.000
Because it's actually very rare, unfortunately.
00:44:03.000
Babywise for the W. Girls aren't going to want to smash your dingleberry out of their ass.
00:44:21.000
You should, like, bro, you shouldn't be using toilet paper, man.
00:44:29.000
Before I met y'all niggas, bro, wipe with toilet paper.
00:44:35.000
Then I was like, dude, this shit's dry as hell.
00:45:04.000
They're not paying us either, but I'll tell y'all, dude wipes, man.
00:45:07.000
Yo, y'all should not be wiping toilet paper, bro.
00:45:13.000
I would waste a whole roll to make sure it was clean, though.
00:45:29.000
When Myron said you got time to do his eyeballs, I was looking at Fresh.
00:45:50.000
You out there in California still talking shit, man.
00:45:53.000
You probably wear some Dickies right now, some dirty-ass white socks all the way up to your fucking knees.
00:46:00.000
You crip walking with dirty white beater on, man.
00:46:07.000
You about to take a BART train to your fucking job at the fucking subway, you fucking bum.
00:46:11.000
You taking a subway to go to the subway, nigga.
00:46:25.000
Plan two or three places beforehand for a date.
00:46:29.000
Now, granted, you should know where you're going before you go on a date because you're planning the date.
00:46:35.000
So having maybe a drink spot, a lounge spot, Maybe a quick bite spot.
00:46:40.000
Whatever you normally do for yourself, you just bring in a plus one to add to your fun.
00:46:45.000
So my thing is like, guys, a date should be fun for you and for her.
00:46:53.000
So bring her into it as a plus one where you're having fun already.
00:46:59.000
And if you're smart about it, let's say you go, for example, to certain lounges, certain restaurants, the staff should know you.
00:47:18.000
So having multiple venues that dictates that gives you a lot of leverage when it comes to looking good.
00:47:29.000
And I recommend maybe a chill-alone spot, maybe a drink spot if you want to, and then back to your crib.
00:47:35.000
It's kind of OD. But multiple kids will lead to multiple experiences, lead to multiple, I want to say, advantages to looking good in front of her as well.
00:47:47.000
You take her to a spot that's not that fun or weird or whatever, or you take her somewhere that you're not able to build up a little bit of sexual tension.
00:47:57.000
And again, this is based on your strengths, okay?
00:48:03.000
You're a good talker, you're able to hold a conversation, etc.
00:48:07.000
The first place you want to take her to is somewhere where you guys can sit down and talk.
00:48:10.000
It could be a coffee, it could be a drink outside a bar, whatever it may be, a rooftop spot, whatever it is, where the music isn't too loud.
00:48:16.000
Then, if it works out good, then you can take her to somewhere else where you guys can get a little more intimate.
00:48:21.000
A lounge, hell, even maybe a club where you guys can dance.
00:48:27.000
How you plan is up to you, but you need to have a plan, all right?
00:48:30.000
And what I want you to also do is when you have this plan is you tell her, and this kind of segues perfectly into the next thing, you tell her what to wear, all right?
00:48:37.000
And the reason why we say this, guys, is that guys don't plan dates like that anymore, and guys aren't creative.
00:48:42.000
So you want to plan a date, tell her what to wear, pretty much you want her to focus on just coming and being pretty and just having a good time.
00:48:49.000
Like, you don't want to stress out like, oh, is he going to make me pay half?
00:48:58.000
So planning the place, telling her what to wear, and then pay for everything.
00:49:03.000
They're three steps, but they're all together, right?
00:49:05.000
And the reason why, guys, is that these three things shows leadership, it asserts dominance, and it puts the girl in her feminine, okay?
00:49:13.000
I can't tell you guys how many times girls go on dates, and what they won't tell you is that they're nervous that you might try to get them to pay half the bill, all right?
00:49:21.000
And you don't want her to feel that way because she's not going to be in her feminine, guys.
00:49:28.000
She's gonna say, oh, they don't plan dates, they don't want to pay, and more importantly, they have no plan at all.
00:49:36.000
They take her to like some, it could be like Goku's bum ass.
00:49:41.000
Trying to get a half off on a chicken breast sandwich.
00:49:51.000
Nigga, crib walking while the sandwich is being made and shit like that.
00:49:55.000
With some dirty chucks and some dickies on, you know what I mean?
00:49:58.000
With the button at the top and the shit going like this, looking like a big ass hay.
00:50:05.000
So, guys, make sure that you have a plan, it's a good plan, and you have your shit together, all right?
00:50:11.000
Because one of the biggest complaints that girls give nowadays is that guys don't plan dates.
00:50:16.000
And the other thing too, obviously don't take her to Nobu or a super expensive spot.
00:50:26.000
See, if you're going to do something like that where you take her to a nice spot on a first date, number one, you need to know what you're doing.
00:50:33.000
And hopefully you have done some screening before that.
00:50:36.000
Because that's an ambitious play when you do that.
00:50:39.000
And you want to make sure that you really screen the girl out before you do something like that.
00:50:46.000
You need to pay for it, so make sure that it's within your budget.
00:50:50.000
It's something that you can easily afford, no problem.
00:50:53.000
And it's a couple of places, and then like Fresh said, you want some social proof.
00:51:00.000
Because all this stuff is very important, guys, because when people in the service industry greet you or say what's up or whatever, it's social proof.
00:51:11.000
So she's gonna judge you Very strongly off of all the interactions and how people perceive you.
00:51:16.000
So if people perceive you as like, oh, this guy's really cool, blah, blah, blah, it's gonna put her at ease.
00:51:20.000
Your goal, guys, when you're going on a date, is you want her to be as relaxed as possible.
00:51:25.000
Because guess what happens when she's not relaxed?
00:51:28.000
If she's stressed out, oh, am I gonna pay half?
00:51:32.000
Oh, I gotta tell them where we gotta go and shit like that.
00:51:36.000
And the other reason why it's important for you to plan a date is because you deal with some girls, right?
00:51:40.000
There's some girls that will sit there and tell you, oh, I wanna go here.
00:51:42.000
No, man, that's not how this is gonna go because what she's gonna do, she's gonna pick the most expensive steakhouse in town, right?
00:51:48.000
There's some girls that are like professional serial daters where they'll sit there and they'll go with the guy.
00:51:54.000
And they'll be able to finesse it and be like, oh, I want to go here.
00:52:04.000
Thinking, oh, I might get laid because I took her where she wanted.
00:52:10.000
And then she goes and gets plowed by some other fucking dude.
00:52:16.000
Because you're stupid and you didn't plan ahead.
00:52:22.000
You control the frame in every single situation.
00:52:28.000
Or you could tell her, oh, if you behave, I'll take you to this cool spot that I know.
00:52:32.000
Like, you want to kind of keep her at the edge of her seat the whole time.
00:52:51.000
But also, guys, like Myron said, you're creating experiences at each location to show social proof, but at the same time, have an experience where they want to be around you and like you.
00:53:01.000
But at the same time, guys, I mean, this goes without saying, but like, bruh, like, if she's a mildly attractive girl, don't take her to Subway or fucking Burger King or McDonald's or some shit.
00:53:16.000
Like, bruh, like, you know, that's funny and shit.
00:53:21.000
But like, guys, I mean, I hate I have to even say this shit, but don't do that.
00:53:25.000
You can find a local spot that's not a fast food spot that you like that's cheap as well.
00:53:30.000
It doesn't have to be McDonald's because you're trying to look cool, man.
00:53:35.000
The only chick that's going to accept that is some good rat.
00:53:43.000
Tacos are cheap, inexpensive, and good food, bro.
00:54:13.000
You can do some dumb shit like that thinking you're blue-faced.
00:54:28.000
We're rich nigga take on a cheap date, you know what I mean?
00:54:34.000
Thinking, oh, yeah, I'm about to get this shit.
00:54:37.000
Next thing you know, you end up with blue balls, man.
00:54:41.000
You can be like Goku, bum-ass, got the blue flag on the wrong side with your dumb-ass blue dickies on looking stupid.
00:54:56.000
Check out that rich nigga take her on cheap date.
00:54:58.000
Then you end up at your fucking trap house with the blue balls, nigga.
00:55:11.000
Yo, if you guys live in a shitty neighborhood or some shit, we should have said this shit before.
00:55:15.000
Yo, you live in a shitty neighborhood, you live with your mama or some shit, nigga, get a hotel or some shit.
00:55:20.000
Or if you want to take it to the next level, Go to Airbnb and say, this is my spot.
00:55:30.000
When I talk to you, bro, I'm kidding half of the time, okay?
00:55:40.000
But what you do want to do is not do it at your mom's house.
00:55:46.000
Yeah, or if you live in a shitty neighborhood, bro, like, unless she a hood chick, man, I don't know.
00:55:58.000
Whenever my mom is home, I'd be like, yo, listen, I'm working on this project.
00:56:23.000
So for y'all that, like, don't got your own spot.
00:56:27.000
Again, you don't want to get judged, so you might have to make some improvisation.
00:56:31.000
So whether it's a hotel or Airbnb, get that handled, man.
00:56:40.000
Oh, and always make sure the places that you pick are close to your spot, guys.
00:56:47.000
I mean, shoot, that should be a no-brainer, but...
00:56:57.000
Okay, so we got JLB Fitness goes, I have a friend who jerks off on a daily basis.
00:57:06.000
How do you know your friend jerks off every single day?
00:57:29.000
He says he was going to stop, but keeps getting drawn back into any advice you guys give to him.
00:57:42.000
If you've ever met some of these women in person, bro, they don't look the same, bro.
00:57:46.000
So you're jerking off to a little AI bot, because that's not her, bro.
00:57:51.000
These girls don't look like their pictures, guys.
00:58:00.000
Yo, your nigga's sitting there watching that video like, I've got you in my sights.
00:58:04.000
And the next thing you know, you meet her person.
00:58:13.000
That nigga's watching a girl thinking she a 10, bro, but she a 4 in real life, man.
00:58:17.000
That's filters, Photoshop, face masks, everything.
00:58:23.000
She a 4 in real life, but she thinks she's better than a 4 for 4.
00:58:32.000
Ray says, any chance y'all can raise the mic volume?
00:58:41.000
Probably listen to some fucking Zenith TV or some shit from the 1980s.
00:58:46.000
Disposable Toilet says, any tips on setting up multiple dates?
00:58:58.000
Guys, the key is that, like, when it comes to, like, dating, you have to understand it's a numbers game.
00:59:16.000
You know, a cat might have died right before you were taken on a date, you know?
00:59:23.000
So to avoid flaking, here's a counteraction you could take to actually help this situation, which is basically set up multiple dates.
00:59:30.000
Now, stagger it so it's like one hour behind, so you're not really messing up the actual time frame.
00:59:35.000
And if the girl's cool, cancel the rest that were set up afterwards and keep with that same date.
00:59:39.000
However, let's say the date sucks, like she's terrible or she flaked, well then guess what?
00:59:43.000
An hour later, another girl's coming because you plan three dates in one night.
00:59:47.000
So my thing is, I would plan two to three dates in one night.
00:59:55.000
Hey, maybe she just flaked because her cat died.
01:00:10.000
So, with girls, what they'll do is they'll have the options light up, and they always go with the best option.
01:00:22.000
So, what girls do is they'll always go with the best option.
01:00:24.000
So, they're literally doing the same thing, right?
01:00:31.000
So me personally, I didn't like to stack because it was just too much work and a headache.
01:00:34.000
So what I would do is I would just make sure I screened the hell out of the girl so I make sure that it wasn't going to deal with flakes.
01:00:39.000
But if you're working a lot of leads, etc., then yeah, you can absolutely stack.
01:00:43.000
It's actually a smart way to go about it so that if a girl does flake, you don't got to deal with that.
01:00:48.000
We know that the female flake rate in 2024 is astronomical.
01:00:56.000
It is the number one problem that men deal with in modern dating today is females flaking.
01:01:03.000
That's the biggest issue because girls have more options than ever before.
01:01:11.000
If she lives in a major city, you already know she's going to have a bunch of options, man.
01:01:17.000
The best way to deal with it is either A, you screen and you do a FaceTime call with her, build a connection so that You can mitigate the risk, but obviously you can still flake.
01:01:28.000
So you can stack the dates like first we're saying.
01:01:30.000
Listen, you want to avoid getting mad at all costs.
01:01:40.000
And whatever you do, yo, guys, if she does flake on you, bro, please don't send a message cursing her out or anything like that.
01:01:49.000
When she flakes on you, she's looking for any excuse to feel like she made the right decision.
01:02:01.000
And if you go and you swear her and you, whatever, she's like, oh, he's a psycho.
01:02:07.000
They'll say some stupid shit like that to rationalize their stupid decision or their fucked up decision.
01:02:15.000
So you can just be like, you can do two things.
01:02:17.000
You can either A, be like, alright, no problem.
01:02:19.000
Or B, you know, you can do what I do, just don't respond.
01:02:24.000
So it's up to you how you want to deal with it.
01:02:27.000
If she flakes and it's legit, you could give it another shot, too.
01:02:37.000
So the thing is, though, is that, like, whatever you do, don't curse her out and talk a bunch of crap because then all you're doing is going to make her realize, like, oh, I made the right decision.
01:02:48.000
Because she's looking for any excuse to rationalize her bad behavior.
01:02:50.000
Yeah, it could be a shit test, too, by the way.
01:02:59.000
Like, yo, guys, there's some fucked up girls out there that flake on you just to see how you respond.
01:03:03.000
So they can put the response in their group chat with their girls.
01:03:09.000
But I would say, if you're getting a lead list, like, for example, you got leads in your funnel, don't burn the bridge.
01:03:15.000
Keep it there because you don't want to assume the sale.
01:03:18.000
I mean, it'll happen this time, but, hey, maybe next week.
01:03:30.000
I mean, first, I've seen him, like, work at LEED for like a year and close it later.
01:03:38.000
Because, like, bro, we told you guys this before.
01:03:42.000
She might see you having fun, going out with people, getting lit.
01:04:01.000
Oh, it's XYZ. I'm like, oh, you played games before.
01:04:10.000
Like, yeah, they'll hit me back and I'll be like, fuck you.
01:04:18.000
Like, I'm telling y'all not to do that because that's counterproductive to the situation.
01:04:30.000
Because, like, she'll treat the next guy better.
01:04:45.000
Anyway, you get to choose for yourself what you want to do.
01:04:49.000
But I'm telling y'all, if you want to close the most of these guys, don't do that.
01:04:54.000
That's me just being, like, you know, get some...
01:04:59.000
Get some revenge for all the guys that you've played.
01:05:11.000
As a man, I could never sleep at night knowing they're struggling because I want me some cat?
01:05:26.000
You bring a chick back to your crib and you got a full family back there.
01:05:31.000
Yo, you need to work on getting out of your family house, bro.
01:05:40.000
But you bring her in and your kid's telling her bom dia and shit.
01:05:49.000
I didn't marry guys that have another apartment separate from the house.
01:05:53.000
Down far, further away, they bring girls there.
01:05:59.000
I mean, you could do it in your car, but that's kind of comfortable.
01:06:10.000
So, a lot of you guys struggle with, like, having...
01:06:13.000
Being able to hold a conversation with girls, etc.
01:06:18.000
Some of y'all are just some boring-ass niggas, man.
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Like, some of y'all are engineers, doctors, whatever it may be.
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And I've noticed this from being on consoles with guys.
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The brighter and more intelligent you are, the harder it is for you to be social.
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I've just realized this with a lot of guys that are fucking brilliant, but they have social issues.
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You know, suffer from being social or holding conversations with women, etc.
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And try to steer those conversations towards things that she's interested in so that she can talk with you back, right?
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Because if you go in there and you start talking about Pi is 3.14 and, you know, the root of XYZ and, you know, oh yeah, I'm a doctor and I, you know, we're working on this medicine or some shit like that, whatever.
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She ain't gonna be able to contribute a lot of times, guys.
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And I'll just be honest with y'all, the hottest girls tend to be stupid, alright?
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You're gonna go ahead and have to play at her IQ level a lot of the times, alright?
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So, research some things, have some conversation starters that Or open-ended that she can contribute to.
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She's going to have at least one or two hobbies that you can talk about.
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And just do your research so that you can actually hold a conversation, man.
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What do girls love to do on the show all the time?
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A lot of girls have an innate ability to be so conceited.
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And they actually thrive on telling you about themselves because to them it's like, oh, I'm the shit.
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Now that I know this, let's use that to my advantage.
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But you want to open up any questions because you want her to talk as much as possible.
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And then she tells you something and you're like, really?
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Just doing add-ons like that, like add-libs like that, nigga, it works wonders because you've got to understand, bro.
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Guys, number one problem is messing up by saying dumb stuff on a date.
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So you want to minimize talking as much as possible.
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And listen, the more you do this, guys, you're going to experience certain things you could do, like patterns.
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For example, I have patterns I do all the time.
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There's a video, actually, you could bring up on the screen.
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But it's more like I'm just observing and questioning her life, her lifestyle.
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But when you add all these ellipses, it's like, really?
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You want to always leave an expression in enthusiasm.
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But when I get some pussy, I'm going to go crazy.
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If I was that, if I was your boyfriend, that would never be me.
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So the point is that you want to understand, guys.
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But at the same time, listen actively so you can respond to her.
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If you can do this for long enough, she'll feel like, wow.
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I know nothing about you, but you know nothing about me.
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And by the time she said that to you, bro, you got it.
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So some of you guys, when you're on a date, bro, real talk?
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Some of y'all just need to shut the hell up and let her talk, bro, because some of you guys say some dumb shit when you're on a date.
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Some of you dumbasses will take a honey pack before the date.
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Like, don't do what Chris did in the other episode, man.
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Yeah, Chris can do that because he's in the studio.
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Yeah, you do it on a real date, and then she'll be like, what the fuck's wrong, dude?
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But, yeah, bro, in any of this scenario, Chris would have failed.
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But to be frank, though, hey, it's Chris, you know?
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It's hard because, guys, we want to talk about ourselves.
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You either A, research the girl and have some good things to talk about, right?
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Or, which to be honest with y'all, this is probably going to be easier for a lot of you guys.
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Go Freshers route and just ask provoking questions in ad-lib during the day.
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I have friends that are very good storytellers.
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They understand that, you know, people that ask questions are in the driver's seat.
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And if you want a good example, watch the Greenland episode with me and Michelle.
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Yo, she was in love with you by the end of the episode, bro.
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If I can do this shit, you can do it too, my nigga.
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Don't go on there and fucking debate a girl, bro.
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Don't watch my episode and be like, I'm going to do this on a date.
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We just want you guys to understand, don't get mad at them for being who they are.
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No, but overall, guys, take the info right and look at it from a holistic standpoint.
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And say to yourself, okay, knowing this, I won't get mad.
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I'm going to have fun, enjoy the experience, and see where it goes.
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If you go with that energy, guys, it's a good vibe.
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But if you're relaxed, you're chill, you're fun to be around, you ask questions, you go in at it too.
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Sometimes the show don't go on for y'all things, man.
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You're going to be on a date like, we're going to do this.
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Next thing you know, you end up with a Me Too case, man.
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Yeah, if she don't like you, she don't like you, bro.
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Take that motivation and put some more work in, man.
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She's looking around like, could somebody save me?
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Sometimes it's time to go on to the next episode.
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Things be out there on a date with a girl that clearly don't like them.
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Screening before the date with a FaceTime call.
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Yeah, we're assuming you actually got the date and she's not gonna flake on you and doesn't hate you and shit like that.
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To mitigate flakes, do like a 15-20 minute FaceTime call with her, man.
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That way, because it's personable, she gets to hear your voice, gets to hear you talk.
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She doesn't think that you're a weirdo or whatever, because a lot of guys are weird, so you're going to convey yourself in a more congruent, honest manner.
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Because, let's be honest, man, most dudes like to text and shit like that.
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When she's able to hear you speak and stuff like that, and especially if you're a well-spoken guy, you're a good orator, it'll be good.
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Or you can do the first technique and just listen.
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And, let her know that you have a fun day planned for her.
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Shower, brush your teeth, shave everywhere, okay?
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Three, have your apartment or your spot clean, okay?
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Make sure your toilet don't got no poop streaks in it.
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Food that isn't all over the place doesn't smell like dog.
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And obviously places where you can escalate physically.
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Like, obviously you want the girl to be in her feminine and be relaxed and submissive, etc.
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And for a girl to be in her feminine, bro, she don't got to pay.
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Tell her, hey, all you got to do is be pretty and show up.
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Don't take her anywhere expensive so you don't have to like, you know, then the bill comes in, oh my god.
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And then obviously you have interesting topics to talk about or be like fresh and ask thought-provoking questions and, you know, act amused and interested.
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And guys, remember, going on a date is for you because you want to have a good time.
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You want to give her a good experience, so she has a good time as well.
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But you're doing it because you want to go on a date, get to know a little bit better.
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But at least you went into it with effort, having fun, and it happened where you both had a good time, and she leaves you.
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Waiting seven days to smash is, I don't want to say the R word, but it's dumb.
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But a third day if you didn't smash, my nigga, drop that shit, bro.
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Yeah, at that point she might be on a fishing expedition.
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Alright, YoYoGoes, you guys discouraged spending money at strip clubs, but what's the difference in making it rain?
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At a strip club and buying bottle service at a nightclub.
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Both are a flex of money and status to get attention to women.
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There's club game and then there's dumb nigga game.
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What you should do, bro, is look at it from a business standpoint.
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Either for a client I'm trying to do business with, or for example, it's a write-off.
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The point is that, like, guys, I do it for business.
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You're young, you want to have fun, but look at your money, bro.
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Yeah, you throw money at a strip club, that's L, bro.
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I mean, I don't even go to the club, but when Fresh goes, it's pretty much comp most of the time.
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You guys over here spend a thousand dollars on a bottle of Grey Goose and Some of you niggas are so dumb, you can't even spell goose.
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You know, you idiots over here, you know, spending all this money on liquor and y'all can barely fucking spell.
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Liquor, dumbass jewelry, like, you know, guys, like, bro, stop being niggas, man.
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I said I'm a nigga, but like, I'm a smart nigga now.
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But for real though, like, yo, some of these idiots be out here, yo, I'm getting bottles of Grey Goose.
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Q-W-A-N. Jake goes, strippers always talk about how they hate the dudes that don't spend, but do they deep down actually respect those dudes more than the ones spending and are more likely to hook up with the non-spenders outside the club?
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They're more likely to actually hook up with the non-spenders because the problem is that once you spend money on a dancer, guys, you go into the customer frame automatically.
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And I know this from talking with, at this point, like, we've talked with over a thousand dancers on this show easily.
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And I've dated a few dancers myself, and they told me this.
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Unless he's paying for a box, but you don't want to be in that either.
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Because you go into the customer frame as soon as you spend a dollar.
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And that goes for bartenders, bottle girls, dancers, like all that shit.
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Once you start spending money, bro, you're in the customer frame, she ain't gonna smash you.
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H3's triple chin ass can give fire tips like these.
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His wife gonna leave him, unfortunately, I'm sure.
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I mean, we're wishing the best, but that nigga...
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I mean, he said he was depressed and he had, like, issues with, like, impotence and stuff.
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Hey, FNF, can y'all do an episode on what haircuts to rock and not to rock increase your sex appeal attraction to the majority of women?
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I don't know if we could do a full episode on that, but as far as like your hair goes, bro, like every man is different and different styles look good on them.
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You might not want to be like, you might not want to get a low haircut, man.
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When you go on a date, what you're going to see your confidence?
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And then also what you're willing to deal with.
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You got to tell your barber, cut it with the grain.
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So make sure that you, number one, it's a hairstyle that you like.
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And number two, it's a hairstyle that you can maintain.
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Bro, you're going to have to, you know, get it cut off and trimmed, et cetera.
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So whatever hairstyle that you get, make sure that you have the tolerance level to maintain it.
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It was a great pleasure randomly meeting both of you guys this past summer.
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Yeah, we're going to have another sandwich episode soon.
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You want to be like about to own my truck, make it 100K per year, have an endless collection of Jordans, one pieces for fruit pops.
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What about taking my daily car on a first date or taking the weekend car with the Turbo WFNF? Bro.
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I mean, if you want to be low-key, then daily car.
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But to be honest, bro, at any day, what do you prefer?
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Because I think, for me personally speaking, bro, I'm going to drive whatever I want to drive.
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Yeah, but if you got a hoopty, don't pick her up in that.
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Like, I ain't picking up no chicks in my 2200, nigga.
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And she's opposed to it's, you know, something nice.
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For us black dudes, how often do you recommend guys with mini fro to shampoo hair when you work out a lot to avoid hair smell?
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I don't wash my hair every day because obviously you got the waves.
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And obviously, depending on what you do, I got like a shampoo bar, like a strawberry shampoo bar.
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You know, I did record a video on how to like wash in your waves and shit like that.
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I'm like, you trying to get us banned on Rumble?
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Nigga, if we did it with you, it would have to be a widescreen camera angle, man.
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Got a BNB at the icon and said, this is my spot.
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I agree with you about why men and women can't be friends.
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I remember I was going to link up with a baddie and she asked me over the phone, do you want me to pick you up or you pick me up?
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Yo, this is going to be saying the weirdest shit.
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It's been a few years and you said some very...
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I'm starting to wonder, like, who is this nigga, bro?
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Like, what the fuck is wrong with this nigga, man?
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He's been doing this shit for years, like saying weird shit, man.
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Guys, you can be nice, but do what you want to do.
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I think for most guys, it's all right, I'm going to be an asshole.
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Should guys with the money hide their wealth when meeting women so that they know that- You know who you remind me of, bro?
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Like, just in my head, this popped up for all the OGs out there.
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You remember that rapper on Smack DVD? His name was Shea Davis, a.k.a.
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You probably still wear baggy jeans and big-ass t-shirts, bro.
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You look like the Irish fucking mascot for the Celtics doing this shit.
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Bro, you probably still wear baggy jean shorts, nigga.
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They be the dustiest niggas that say dumb shit like that, bro.
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Bro, you could have used that shit to go get yourself another white tee.
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Oh, wait, no, you can't find those anymore because they're not a fucking style, you fucking weirdo.
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Nigga, I'm burying you in my YT! Yo, in my YT, yo!
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So, Yess says, should guys with money hide their wealth when meeting women so that they know that the connection is genuine and that they aren't getting just chasing money?
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You can, bro, but, like, for me, I do, like, tests.
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Just because I want to see over a period of time when people act.
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You want to show that you're financially stable, bro.
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You definitely want to show that you're financially stable.
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You want to at least have like that type of like knowledge where like, okay.
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You don't want to be one of these niggas like looking at the receipt like analyzing and shit like, bro, don't do that, man.
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For example, we've got money right now, but this guy next door has money too.
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Guys, we're going to go ahead and have an after-hour show for you guys coming up soon.
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We'll catch you guys back here in a little bit.
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I ran so far away I just ran I ran all night and day