Fresh & Fit - May 29, 2024


A Fresh Match With Fresh&Fit


Episode Stats

Length

1 hour and 22 minutes

Words per Minute

175.6388

Word Count

14,458

Sentence Count

1,628

Misogynist Sentences

54

Hate Speech Sentences

23


Summary

CastleClub is the last bastion of free speech and we re here to bring you all the info you need to know about it. Today is the final day to get your membership before it goes up to $35.00 a year! If you don t have a membership, you re not going to want to miss out on this deal. We re building a community of likeminded likeminded individuals that are RP-aware and aren t Blue Pill s or aren t blue pill s. We are here to help you become an influencer and become a viral influencer. We re going to teach you how to become an Influencer and make a bunch of money in the process. We're going to give away some trade secrets and we might even sign you to the platform if you want to become a part of the community. We want to build a community and we're here to build it. Get your membership today and get in for only $17 a month and you re gonna get a lot of value and experience that you can t get anywhere else. Get in for $17/month and you get access to all the cool stuff you ve been asking for! Get your tickets to our upcoming events, meetups, events, and meetups here at CastleClub. Castle Club is the place where you can become a member and experience all of the cool things that we ve been talking about! We ll be giving you guys a chance to be apart of a community that s going to build and build a business that's going to be like no other than your own. . . . and we ll be the community that you ve ever been dreaming of and have the chance to become part of it! . We will be building it and you can be part of that community and build it . . and we will be there to support you guys! And we ll give you guys the best community in the entire country. , and we'll give you the best experience in the world! - Mario - P.S. - Thank you for listening to this episode of the podcast. - I hope you guys enjoy the podcast! - Mario XOXO - - Thank you, Mario - The Best Podcast - AKA: & is the Podcast Logo by Mario and , ( ) Thanks for listening and Support us!


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Thank you.
00:06:57.000 So, we'll just make some announcements right now.
00:06:58.000 Sorry that my voice is bad.
00:07:00.000 I was destroying some kids that I've watched earlier.
00:07:01.000 Couldn't tell.
00:07:02.000 I was cooking.
00:07:03.000 I was cooking, man.
00:07:03.000 He was, he was.
00:07:04.000 But guys, as you guys know, Costco.tv, today is the last day.
00:07:09.000 It expires tomorrow morning.
00:07:12.000 Yeah.
00:07:12.000 So, get in there now, guys.
00:07:14.000 $17 for CastleClub.tv, man.
00:07:15.000 We're almost $5,000 strong in there.
00:07:17.000 Let's go!
00:07:18.000 We want to get to $10,000 strong in there.
00:07:19.000 We're drowning out the haters.
00:07:21.000 They're losing power.
00:07:22.000 They're sitting there saying a bunch of BS. No, bro.
00:07:27.000 This is a support rumble.
00:07:28.000 You support us.
00:07:29.000 You support rumble.
00:07:29.000 You support free speech.
00:07:30.000 Then we can continue to give you guys the interviews that you guys want.
00:07:33.000 We got Rich Cooper coming this week.
00:07:34.000 We got Tommy Son of America coming this week.
00:07:36.000 How is that fuel?
00:07:37.000 That's fueled through Rumble and our ability to be able to do free speech so we don't have to worry about all the other BS, man.
00:07:42.000 So we got fire guests coming.
00:07:44.000 We got Aiden Ross and Charleston White coming tonight.
00:07:46.000 You guys want us to keep giving y'all this fire?
00:07:48.000 It costs money to do this stuff, guys.
00:07:50.000 We have value in Zoom calls, meetups, masterminds, workshops.
00:07:54.000 I'm telling you guys, Castle Club's the last bastion of free what?
00:07:57.000 and speech.
00:07:58.000 And just for the people out there that don't understand, guys, not only are we going to put a portion of that, let me just be very clear about this one more time because people still don't get it.
00:08:06.000 Guys, the majority of the content is going to be free and it's going to stay free.
00:08:11.000 The Money Mondays, the dating shows on Wednesdays, the Friday guests, etc.
00:08:15.000 All that's going to be free.
00:08:16.000 The only thing that's going to go behind the paywall is a portion of after hours.
00:08:19.000 However, we're not just going to give you guys after hours.
00:08:21.000 We're going to give you guys live updates, news.
00:08:24.000 I'm going to be tweeting on that.
00:08:25.000 Locals, I'm already starting to tweet in there.
00:08:27.000 The stuff that I can't even tweet on X, I put on there on Castle Club.
00:08:30.000 We're going to be having Zoom calls weekly or bi-weekly where you guys can ask us questions and we answer.
00:08:34.000 We're going to be doing meetups where it's going to be dating workshops, fitness workshops.
00:08:46.000 If you want to be an influencer, we're going to open up an Influencer Academy where we're going to teach you guys how to become viral.
00:08:51.000 We're actually going to give away some of our trade secrets, which we never have done before.
00:08:54.000 We might sign you to the platform if you're good.
00:08:57.000 So keep that in mind.
00:08:58.000 For all you guys that want to become influencers, and then we're also going to do yacht parties, all this stuff, live events, all that stuff is going to be there.
00:09:06.000 Also, we're trying to build a community, guys.
00:09:08.000 What I want is we want Castle Club chapters in major cities in the United States.
00:09:12.000 We can come visit you guys.
00:09:13.000 We already got a stable in Dallas.
00:09:15.000 We did a meetup over there.
00:09:16.000 We want We're good to go.
00:09:39.000 When you do Zoom calls, guys, I want everyone to drop where they're from because I know one of the big things that I notice when we do the calling shows and you guys actually talk to us is, hey, Mario, where do I find like-minded guys?
00:09:50.000 Hey, we're going to network with individuals that are RP-aware and aren't Simpson or aren't Blue Pill.
00:09:55.000 Guess what?
00:09:55.000 Castle Club is going to be that place now.
00:09:57.000 We're going to be putting all our effort and focus into Castle Club.
00:10:00.000 That's community.
00:10:01.000 We're going to build it.
00:10:02.000 And again, you can get in for only $17 a month, man, and your grandfather in, or you can go ahead and get in for a year and...
00:10:08.000 It'll be $97, but it's going to reset to whatever the yearly price is.
00:10:11.000 So if you want something consistent, guys, just get the $17 a month, man.
00:10:14.000 Get it now while you can because it's going to shoot up to $35 after tomorrow.
00:10:18.000 It's going to shoot up to $35 after tomorrow.
00:10:20.000 If you guys are wondering, that's double the price of Hulu and Netflix.
00:10:23.000 Well, Netflix and Hulu isn't going to give you a community.
00:10:26.000 Hulu and Netflix is going to teach you how to make money.
00:10:28.000 Hulu and Netflix is going to teach you how to become an influencer and make a bunch of money.
00:10:31.000 They're not going to give you the community.
00:10:33.000 They're blue-pilled on Netflix.
00:10:34.000 If anything, they're going to push more of that LGBT, all this weird stuff, feminism agenda that they're pushing right now.
00:10:40.000 We're teaching you guys how to become the best version of yourselves.
00:10:42.000 You guys are going to be able to meet as a person and everything.
00:10:43.000 You want to communicate with us.
00:10:45.000 It's going to be on Castle Club.
00:10:47.000 So it's not just after hours.
00:10:48.000 It's all the other stuff as well that you're going to be able to get in there.
00:10:51.000 The community, guys.
00:10:52.000 So CastleClub.tv, man, get in there.
00:10:54.000 We're going to go hard as hell in there.
00:10:55.000 We're probably going to have a Zoom call after this because we've got a little bit of extra time.
00:10:58.000 I think Aiden and them are going to come in a little bit later.
00:10:59.000 Yes.
00:11:00.000 And then the last point here, for the OGs and Castle Club, we're giving you actually a chance to come to Miami, listen to the studio, watch a live show, chill with the boys, and have a good time.
00:11:11.000 So if you're OGs and Castle Club from back in the day...
00:11:13.000 We got you, bro.
00:11:15.000 We got you.
00:11:15.000 We got you.
00:11:15.000 Don't worry.
00:11:16.000 We're going to run a sweepstakes specifically for y'all that were here from the beginning, man.
00:11:19.000 So, guys, I mean, at this point, if you want to sit there and say, yours is a money grab and we hate you guys or whatever, you probably never rock with us anyway.
00:11:27.000 You're probably an Auburn preacher, Ethan D. Klein fan, and you got paid to come in our chat and talk a bunch of crap, and that's fine.
00:11:32.000 It is what it is.
00:11:33.000 But the real ones know that it's not cheap to run this.
00:11:36.000 I showed earlier while I was on stream 46K that I had spent already on running the podcast.
00:11:41.000 In the past 16 days, it's not cheap to run this, guys.
00:11:43.000 There's a reason why you guys see it run the way it does, very smoothly.
00:11:48.000 Things are happening behind the scenes that you guys don't even see.
00:11:50.000 Girls are getting kicked out.
00:11:51.000 I don't have to get up.
00:11:52.000 All this stuff that you guys don't see, you're able to enjoy the show at a very high quality because it's not cheap to run, guys.
00:11:57.000 And the fact that people are even sitting here saying, well, just get rid of the staff.
00:12:00.000 It's like, okay, sure, let's just do that.
00:12:02.000 Let's just cripple a business because you don't want to pay for a fucking subscription service.
00:12:06.000 Come on, man.
00:12:08.000 Like, incredible.
00:12:08.000 And listen, as creators, we made mistakes.
00:12:10.000 We're not perfect, but at the same time, we had a lot of value, so we got you guys.
00:12:14.000 Yeah, man.
00:12:14.000 And if you guys want the interviews, you guys want the edgy guests, etc., the Tommy Sotomayor, the Nick Fuenteses, all that stuff, guess what?
00:12:20.000 We have to be independent, guys.
00:12:23.000 That is what it is, man.
00:12:24.000 Anyway, let's get into the dating show, guys.
00:12:26.000 Let's go!
00:12:26.000 Match.
00:12:28.000 Match.
00:12:57.000 All right.
00:13:18.000 We are back and And once again, it's a dating show, but not any dating show, a fresh match with Fresh and Fit.
00:13:25.000 Welcome back, guys.
00:13:26.000 MK, how are you doing today?
00:13:27.000 I'm doing awesome.
00:13:29.000 I'm super excited to see these couples today.
00:13:31.000 And we added some props here on the actual stream.
00:13:33.000 You see this button right here?
00:13:35.000 If you're not going to be a match, we're going to say, you're out!
00:13:38.000 You're not a match.
00:13:39.000 Anyhow, MK, tell us about dating nowadays.
00:13:41.000 What's your expectations and what's happening in the marketplace?
00:13:45.000 You know, it's interesting.
00:13:47.000 I was actually on a different, a virtual blind dating show last night.
00:13:50.000 I got asked to comment on it.
00:13:51.000 And there was a guy who's like, and this is such a problem with most singles today.
00:13:55.000 He's like, man, there's just so much dating advice out there, you know?
00:13:58.000 Like, I don't know which one to take, you know?
00:13:59.000 It's like, someone's telling me to do this.
00:14:01.000 Someone's telling me to do that.
00:14:02.000 And guys, and those watching you probably can relate to that.
00:14:05.000 At the end of the day, Just do what feels right.
00:14:08.000 Like, I know this sounds so cliche, but if someone's, like, spitting out some garbage, you're like, really?
00:14:13.000 Is that how I should pick up a girl?
00:14:14.000 But, like, you're like, I can't see myself doing that.
00:14:16.000 Don't do it, because it's going to come across as cheesy and forced, and that's, like, so unattractive, it's not funny.
00:14:21.000 So, take the advice in this whole social media era that we live that resonates with you, and disregard the rest.
00:14:28.000 I would say as well, if you're going to take advice from somebody, make sure they actually have the results that you want.
00:14:33.000 But also, whatever they tell you doesn't work.
00:14:36.000 Like for example, if I give you a method of talking to girls, it doesn't work.
00:14:39.000 Then obviously it's not going to work for anybody else.
00:14:41.000 But at the same time, if it works, then okay, I can try this again, different ways.
00:14:45.000 So it's about using things that actually work for you as an individual.
00:14:48.000 Granted, today we're going to do an icebreaker challenge again.
00:14:51.000 Some questions here.
00:14:52.000 So we have some guests here on the panel right now.
00:14:54.000 We have Emily and Dylan.
00:14:56.000 So, we'll start with the intros.
00:14:57.000 Name, age, reader for a living.
00:14:59.000 And we'll go from Dylan first.
00:15:01.000 My name is Dylan.
00:15:02.000 I'm an image consultant.
00:15:03.000 And I'm 26.
00:15:05.000 And as an image consultant, I help people elevate their personal brand on an online image.
00:15:11.000 Okay.
00:15:12.000 Yeah.
00:15:12.000 Emily?
00:15:13.000 I'm Emily.
00:15:14.000 I'm 26 and I coach women with insecure attachment styles.
00:15:18.000 So maybe you've heard of like anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, things like that.
00:15:21.000 So I coach them to become healthier so that they can attract healthier relationships.
00:15:25.000 Yeah, that's pretty good.
00:15:26.000 Okay, so question for both of you.
00:15:28.000 Why do you want to find love and why do you want to be with somebody?
00:15:32.000 I want to find love because I think it's important to form a relationship with someone and be able to be there for each other.
00:15:40.000 And when you can't handle something on your own, it's important to have someone to support you and just being able to guide you through those tough moments and also be able to have fun with each other, go on adventures, be able to learn from each other.
00:15:54.000 I think there's a lot to gain from having a relationship.
00:15:57.000 Okay, well said.
00:15:59.000 Yeah, I think there's something very just inherently like human about wanting a partner.
00:16:05.000 And I know, for example, a lot of women, they have this like really deep desire to be a mom.
00:16:10.000 And while I do have that, I've just always known that like a fulfilling long term partnership is one of the things that is like one of the biggest dreams and goals of my life.
00:16:21.000 I think there was another part of your question that I might have forgotten.
00:16:24.000 That's actually pretty good.
00:16:25.000 That was good.
00:16:26.000 Well, we can all agree here dating is kind of almost like dead stuff out here.
00:16:29.000 However, we're going to bridge the gap here on the show and see it live.
00:16:35.000 So we'll do a five minute timer here on Icebreaker Challenge between both of you guys here.
00:16:38.000 I'll start the clock right now and let it rip.
00:16:41.000 But hell on if you need help.
00:16:42.000 Yes, so we have...
00:16:43.000 I'm going to set you up if you want.
00:16:45.000 Okay, they're here to support you.
00:16:46.000 So we're going to give you two icebreakers each.
00:16:49.000 Yes.
00:16:49.000 Go for it if you want to.
00:16:51.000 If you already got a question that you know you want to ask Emily or Emily, you know you want to ask Dylan, go for it.
00:16:56.000 All right.
00:16:56.000 You guys ready?
00:16:57.000 We'll start the timer right now.
00:16:59.000 There we go.
00:17:00.000 Five minutes.
00:17:01.000 Where do you see yourself in five years?
00:17:04.000 Ooh, I see myself probably still living here in Florida.
00:17:08.000 I moved here a little less than a year ago.
00:17:10.000 Really love it so far.
00:17:12.000 And I see myself continuing to grow my business.
00:17:15.000 It's something I'm really passionate about, and it's just so fulfilling that I get to help women really change the trajectory of their lives and their relationships.
00:17:24.000 And I hopefully see myself maybe married at that point, but obviously there are things that are within my control and things that aren't.
00:17:31.000 So those are the main things.
00:17:32.000 That's cool.
00:17:34.000 I was going to ask you the same thing reflexively, but I think I might use one of mine.
00:17:37.000 What's a hidden talent that you have?
00:17:39.000 A hidden talent that I have is that I'm really good at being entrepreneurial.
00:17:47.000 So just being able to find the best approaches in life, being able to minimize time and being efficient.
00:17:59.000 It's a weird thing, but yeah, just being entrepreneurial.
00:18:02.000 Yeah, no, I totally get that.
00:18:03.000 That's cool that we have that in common.
00:18:05.000 It definitely changes your perspective on so many things, I feel like.
00:18:10.000 Oh, do you want to ask another one?
00:18:13.000 Yeah, what made you move to Miami and what are you looking to get out of being here?
00:18:21.000 Yeah, I feel like it was kind of divine intervention.
00:18:25.000 So I'm originally from the Atlanta area, but I actually moved from Nashville.
00:18:29.000 I went to school there, lived there for many years, really loved it for a while.
00:18:33.000 And then it just became very, very hard to keep living there.
00:18:37.000 Like all my housing situations kept falling through and I literally just had this feeling like I was supposed to move to like Miami, which was so bizarre because I'd only visited like once or twice.
00:18:48.000 And ultimately, when I moved here, things just kind of fell into place.
00:18:52.000 And so for right now, it just feels like it's where I'm supposed to be.
00:18:56.000 Like, you know, like the stars have aligned in a way.
00:19:01.000 Okay, awesome.
00:19:06.000 Let's see.
00:19:06.000 Would you call yourself a saver or a spender?
00:19:11.000 I am a spender.
00:19:13.000 I used to be a saver, but I'm definitely a spender now because I try to utilize all my money and all my assets and put it to its optimal use.
00:19:24.000 So I think saving is...
00:19:26.000 I don't think people who are rich don't really save.
00:19:29.000 They use it to invest and to generate more revenue and more income and more assets.
00:19:36.000 How about yourself?
00:19:37.000 Yeah, I think that makes sense.
00:19:39.000 Yeah, I would tend to agree.
00:19:41.000 I think especially that's a pretty natural trajectory when you, I don't know, think about money a certain way and then you kind of become an entrepreneur.
00:19:48.000 I think there's a tendency for a lot of people to like sit on money and kind of hoard it.
00:19:52.000 And then when you realize that like you're your safest asset, you're like, I'm just going to dump all this money into, like, my own skills and my business and things like that.
00:20:03.000 So, yeah, I would say a little bit more of a spin.
00:20:05.000 We've got a few minutes left on the clock.
00:20:06.000 Real quick, this is a hot topic, by the way, finances, okay?
00:20:08.000 As we know, I mean, Google it.
00:20:10.000 It's either the number one or the number two reason why marriages end in divorce and finances.
00:20:14.000 So, yeah, how important is that to have that conversation in the early stages of dating for you guys?
00:20:19.000 And have you been proactive about that in the past?
00:20:23.000 Hmm.
00:20:24.000 I don't think I've been too proactive in the past.
00:20:27.000 I'd like to, you know, just being able to work on my business and, you know, focus on that and being able to provide for those in my family and those I'm in a relationship with.
00:20:41.000 But I think it is important to, if I'm looking for a longer term relationship, to talk about finances and how we want to go about that.
00:20:50.000 So I think it's definitely important.
00:20:52.000 Let's be honest here.
00:20:53.000 Do people actually talk about that generally when they date or it just like happens to pop up every now and then with issues?
00:21:00.000 I feel like when I've seen this come up, it's often been because there's tension around it.
00:21:05.000 I don't think many people are very proactive about it.
00:21:09.000 And I mean, I can say that I haven't been either.
00:21:11.000 And this was a very good question.
00:21:12.000 Like, hmm, this is something I could work on.
00:21:14.000 You know what you should ask?
00:21:15.000 What's your credit score on the first date?
00:21:18.000 And then I'll tell me all I need to know about you.
00:21:20.000 But yeah.
00:21:20.000 Wait, actually someone did that.
00:21:22.000 Really?
00:21:23.000 Yeah.
00:21:23.000 He's like, I think it's normal to ask that question.
00:21:25.000 And the girl's like, don't do that on the first date.
00:21:27.000 Because typically, if you go back on the score, you're a bad person.
00:21:30.000 Just saying!
00:21:31.000 You don't pay your bills.
00:21:32.000 You'd be doing other stuff.
00:21:34.000 I'm just saying.
00:21:35.000 You're categorized as a bad person.
00:21:38.000 You know what?
00:21:38.000 Everyone's got a story behind their credit.
00:21:41.000 For example, yeah.
00:21:43.000 I don't know.
00:21:44.000 You've got to be honest with it.
00:21:45.000 If someone tells me they've got 400 or something, it's like, what are you doing about that?
00:21:51.000 Let's break the ice here.
00:21:53.000 What gender is the worst with money?
00:21:56.000 Men or women?
00:21:58.000 In your opinion?
00:21:59.000 In my opinion, I think probably women, honestly.
00:22:04.000 Okay, what about you?
00:22:05.000 Misogony.
00:22:06.000 Being honest here, being honest here.
00:22:08.000 I don't, it's hard for me to say like one or the other because I think a lot of it has to do with like each individual's relationship with money.
00:22:16.000 If you had to guess the average between men and women, just generally speaking.
00:22:20.000 What would it be?
00:22:21.000 Come on, girl.
00:22:21.000 You want me to say women?
00:22:23.000 No, no, no.
00:22:24.000 You tell me.
00:22:25.000 You tell me.
00:22:26.000 I genuinely do think it depends on the individual.
00:22:29.000 And I think that there definitely are...
00:22:31.000 There could be women who maybe don't understand the value of money if they aren't the ones who are perhaps more in the provider role or they haven't really had to provide for themselves.
00:22:41.000 On the other side of that, I also think that there are men who will, like, throw money at women because they're trying to win them and they don't really have a...
00:22:51.000 You should work in PR. You're very good at questions.
00:22:54.000 Okay.
00:22:55.000 Last round here.
00:22:57.000 Fire round.
00:22:57.000 One minute left.
00:22:58.000 Let's go.
00:22:59.000 And by the way, if you want to leave at any point, press the button and that person will leave actually.
00:23:03.000 So whoever wants to...
00:23:03.000 Yeah, we forgot to mention that.
00:23:04.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:23:05.000 We just get rolled away.
00:23:06.000 Pretty much.
00:23:08.000 Okay, go ahead.
00:23:09.000 So what are you looking forward to do the next year?
00:23:13.000 Ooh, definitely continue growing my business, but also life just feels so fulfilling at this point in time.
00:23:20.000 I have really, really amazing friends.
00:23:22.000 We all just like are challenging each other to grow and continue to evolve as humans and just to continue dating and getting to know myself more, continuing to grow.
00:23:32.000 I also have a cat that I took in recently who just had kittens.
00:23:38.000 I'm gonna have one.
00:23:38.000 And so seeing them grow up will be fun.
00:23:41.000 And yeah, Mary-Kate is getting one of them.
00:23:44.000 So if you want a kitten.
00:23:46.000 Yeah, if you want a kitten.
00:23:47.000 She had six.
00:23:48.000 I think most of them have homes.
00:23:49.000 Do you even like cats or do you like dogs more?
00:23:51.000 I honestly like cats more.
00:23:53.000 Okay.
00:23:54.000 This is a big thing in common, by the way.
00:23:56.000 You're a dog or you're a cat.
00:23:57.000 Dylan's very smart for saying that.
00:23:58.000 I grew up with cats, so...
00:24:00.000 Okay.
00:24:01.000 I like it.
00:24:02.000 I like it.
00:24:03.000 So, do I get to...
00:24:04.000 Yeah, go for it.
00:24:05.000 Okay.
00:24:05.000 Last one.
00:24:06.000 Who is a woman in your life that you deeply admire, and what do you admire about her?
00:24:11.000 Ooh.
00:24:11.000 I think the woman I would deeply admire is my mom, just...
00:24:17.000 Naturally, just because my mom and dad are divorced, and my mom just stepped up and raised me, and my older sister also raised me, so I have two sisters and one mom, and I grew up with all of them, so I just deeply admire the woman in my family who helped raise me and helped provide for me while I was learning and educating myself in school, so my mom has worked a lot and definitely want to be working hard here in Miami to provide back for her and my family.
00:24:47.000 Okay.
00:24:48.000 We'll stop right there.
00:24:50.000 So Dylan, Emily, would you go on a first date with this person?
00:24:53.000 Yes or no?
00:24:55.000 Yes.
00:24:56.000 Would you?
00:24:57.000 Also yes.
00:24:58.000 Great.
00:24:58.000 So think of a first date.
00:25:01.000 Dylan, where do you want to take her?
00:25:02.000 And we'll plan that next time, okay?
00:25:04.000 Okay.
00:25:04.000 Cool.
00:25:04.000 Awesome.
00:25:05.000 Good job.
00:25:05.000 Thanks, guys.
00:25:06.000 Thanks.
00:25:07.000 All right.
00:25:07.000 Next.
00:25:08.000 MK. Yes.
00:25:09.000 What do you think so far?
00:25:10.000 I liked it.
00:25:11.000 I liked it.
00:25:11.000 There was good banter.
00:25:14.000 They didn't feel awkward asking pretty interesting, non-surface level questions.
00:25:19.000 They were comfortable.
00:25:21.000 I think Dylan was a bit nervous.
00:25:23.000 I agree.
00:25:23.000 I agree.
00:25:24.000 Because he was still on point, but he was almost like, let me ease into it a little bit more, but he wasn't there yet.
00:25:29.000 It wasn't smooth.
00:25:30.000 It was a little rigid.
00:25:31.000 Kind of like robotic leg.
00:25:33.000 But I think most guys are going to be like that because they're on a date for the first time.
00:25:36.000 It's like, oh, she's hot.
00:25:38.000 She's cute.
00:25:38.000 I don't know if I want to mess this up.
00:25:40.000 Let me just talk slower.
00:25:41.000 So it happens.
00:25:42.000 As a guy, it does happen.
00:25:44.000 Oh, yeah, definitely.
00:25:45.000 But if you want to get around that, guys, this is a trick that is a little bit unconventional.
00:25:49.000 You go home.
00:25:51.000 You take a shot of whiskey or tequila.
00:25:54.000 You've got to kind of like drink the chicken a little bit, get out of the way, and then come into it refreshed.
00:26:01.000 Oh, really?
00:26:02.000 Really?
00:26:03.000 And we're going to focus on, you know, I already did my thing, you feel me?
00:26:06.000 Alright, alright.
00:26:07.000 Everyone's got their stuff.
00:26:08.000 Everyone's in different ways.
00:26:10.000 Welcome, guys.
00:26:11.000 Welcome, welcome.
00:26:12.000 Eddie and Erica.
00:26:13.000 So at any point, guys, if you want to buzz the other person, if you're not feeling it, with all due respect, there's no hate here.
00:26:19.000 So this is the life support for your life, actually.
00:26:22.000 So if you want to get them away from you, press this button right here.
00:26:25.000 I have some questions here for you.
00:26:26.000 Here we go.
00:26:27.000 Alright guys, we're going to provide you with two questions.
00:26:30.000 Icebreakers, feel free to use them.
00:26:31.000 Feel free to use your own.
00:26:34.000 And ladies first.
00:26:35.000 Let's do the intros real quick.
00:26:36.000 Name is We Do For Living, and then why do you want to find love?
00:26:39.000 Okay, I'm Erica.
00:26:40.000 I'm 31.
00:26:42.000 I'm an event planner, and I guess love would be just the cherry on top of my life right now.
00:26:53.000 Okay.
00:26:55.000 Eddie?
00:26:55.000 I'm Eddie.
00:26:56.000 I'm 28 tomorrow.
00:26:58.000 I'm a personal trainer.
00:27:00.000 Thank you.
00:27:02.000 I don't know.
00:27:04.000 I think it's hard to find love out here in Miami.
00:27:05.000 It's tough.
00:27:06.000 It's tough, for sure.
00:27:07.000 We're going to the same gym for boxing.
00:27:09.000 Okay, so we'll start the clock.
00:27:12.000 Five minutes on the clock.
00:27:13.000 Icebreaker challenge.
00:27:14.000 Just talk, get to know each other.
00:27:15.000 And then questions are here if you need help.
00:27:17.000 And if you want them out of here, here's the button.
00:27:19.000 Let's go.
00:27:22.000 Okay, what is the funniest thing you've done in the last week?
00:27:26.000 The funniest thing I've done?
00:27:29.000 I don't know, like, I don't really do anything too funny, I guess.
00:27:33.000 I live a simple life.
00:27:35.000 I go out, I train my clients, because I'm a personal trainer, like I said, but go home, just kind of relax after that.
00:27:43.000 Funny?
00:27:43.000 I don't know if there's anything too funny about that.
00:27:47.000 Pretend we're not here.
00:27:48.000 It's just you guys.
00:27:50.000 Imagine the lights are off and I'm black.
00:27:51.000 You can't see me.
00:27:52.000 Go ahead.
00:27:54.000 You know what?
00:28:00.000 Let me find another question.
00:28:02.000 Oh, this is a good one.
00:28:03.000 Have you ever ghosted someone?
00:28:06.000 I have not actually.
00:28:07.000 I don't believe in ghosting.
00:28:09.000 I feel like I would rather be a very authentic person and if it makes me look a little too vulnerable or emotional, I would rather be perceived as that and keep my humanity.
00:28:24.000 I respect that.
00:28:25.000 That's hard to find.
00:28:27.000 I feel like out here in Miami a lot of people get ghosted for sure.
00:28:30.000 I would say my personal experience, like, I traveled the country, you know, met a lot of people, and there's definitely some people I ghosted along the way.
00:28:39.000 Not because they were bad people, but, you know, you just kind of, there's a few people out there, you kind of just gotta let them go.
00:28:45.000 For sure.
00:28:48.000 So you don't believe in, like, communication and telling someone, hey, with all due respect, this isn't going anywhere?
00:28:53.000 Like, yeah.
00:28:54.000 I love communication, but at the same time, I feel like when you're with them, you communicate enough and you let them know, like, it's not going to work out.
00:29:02.000 Or, like, in my case, I was traveling, meeting a lot of people.
00:29:05.000 I was like, yeah, I'm not looking for anything serious.
00:29:08.000 Then you find those few people that are like, but I can change you.
00:29:13.000 I'm like, oh.
00:29:14.000 Yeah.
00:29:15.000 Okay.
00:29:16.000 Typical.
00:29:16.000 Typical, for sure.
00:29:17.000 You cannot change anyone.
00:29:19.000 Like, I'm not going to stop traveling the country just because, like, somebody in South Dakota wants to get to know me, you know what I'm saying?
00:29:25.000 Yeah, a wall drug.
00:29:27.000 Like, you realize I've got to go to Miami still, right?
00:29:29.000 W-man.
00:29:31.000 Alright.
00:29:32.000 Cool, cool.
00:29:33.000 I'll pay you.
00:29:33.000 So, next question.
00:29:35.000 Are you a city person or a country person?
00:29:38.000 That's a good one.
00:29:40.000 So, I was born in L.A., but I grew up in Iowa.
00:29:43.000 So...
00:29:44.000 Out here, my friend's got to get used to me listening to country music, so I'll still bop some Morgan Wallen, some Luke Holmes, you know.
00:29:50.000 Yeah, you know, come on now, come on, you know.
00:29:53.000 I'll bop that, you know.
00:29:54.000 Post Malone and Morgan Wallen just came out with a song, so I'll definitely have that going.
00:29:58.000 But I have to, like, when certain people show up, it's like, alright, turn that off.
00:30:02.000 So I'd say I still got those country roots in me, but I do love living in the city.
00:30:07.000 There's a lot more to do.
00:30:10.000 It gets old being in a cornfield and drinking with your friends.
00:30:16.000 I'm from Michigan so I feel the same way where I love going back home to visit and my friend has like two acres with meadows of flowers to attract butterflies so I love going back home and doing things like that but then also being in the city and having all of the opportunity here is great so I like a balance of both.
00:30:36.000 So I'm curious real quick.
00:30:37.000 We're at a three minute mark here.
00:30:39.000 Erica, right?
00:30:40.000 You're 31.
00:30:41.000 Why do you think you're still single?
00:30:42.000 You seem very nice, very polite.
00:30:44.000 Why do you think you're still single right now?
00:30:46.000 Because I gave too much time to someone who didn't deserve it and was in an 11 year relationship.
00:30:52.000 Wow.
00:30:53.000 That's a marriage.
00:30:54.000 That's a marriage right there.
00:30:55.000 Yeah, I was engaged.
00:30:57.000 Why'd you guys break up?
00:31:00.000 Probably not.
00:31:02.000 I can't explain the whole thing in a podcast, but that happened about three years ago.
00:31:06.000 So, yeah, two and a half years ago or so.
00:31:10.000 So that's why I've, like, eased back into dating, just because I wanted to take some time to just...
00:31:16.000 Reset.
00:31:17.000 And decide what I want for my life and build that.
00:31:21.000 So that's actually why I moved to Miami.
00:31:23.000 So I've been enjoying that.
00:31:25.000 And now that's why I'm open to something.
00:31:30.000 Excellent.
00:31:31.000 You're in the right place for that.
00:31:32.000 One thing I can say about that is when you live in the Midwest, the lifestyle is finding love.
00:31:38.000 So different.
00:31:38.000 Right out of high school, get married, have kids.
00:31:41.000 That's the lifestyle.
00:31:42.000 When I realized that was the lifestyle, I was like, ugh.
00:31:45.000 I don't think I belong here.
00:31:47.000 Eddie, would you be opposed to dating someone older than you?
00:31:50.000 Not at all.
00:31:51.000 Okay.
00:31:51.000 Not at all.
00:31:52.000 That's typically what I do.
00:31:54.000 He like the cougars.
00:31:55.000 Okay.
00:32:00.000 Eddie, no.
00:32:02.000 Playing with him.
00:32:03.000 No.
00:32:04.000 This is good.
00:32:04.000 This is good.
00:32:05.000 We have 20 seconds left on the clock.
00:32:07.000 Well, I'll just ask questioning right now then.
00:32:09.000 Eddie, would you take Erica to be your first date?
00:32:13.000 I would say yes, just because we're both from the Midwest.
00:32:15.000 I feel like we probably have a lot in common.
00:32:17.000 And this three minutes just flew by, so gotta get to know somebody, you know?
00:32:22.000 Nice.
00:32:22.000 Erica, would you take Eddie to be, well, sorry, take you on the first date?
00:32:27.000 Yeah, I'd be open to that.
00:32:29.000 Wait, hold on.
00:32:29.000 Is that yes or no?
00:32:30.000 You're open to it.
00:32:31.000 Okay, cool.
00:32:32.000 Awesome.
00:32:32.000 Are you both going to leave here?
00:32:34.000 And good job.
00:32:34.000 Awesome.
00:32:35.000 Thanks, guys.
00:32:35.000 All right.
00:32:37.000 How was that one?
00:32:38.000 I loved the foundation of compatibility they had.
00:32:42.000 Both growing up in the Midwest or some version of that country and all that.
00:32:45.000 They totally shared that interest.
00:32:47.000 But starting off...
00:32:49.000 Man, you can't just say, I don't do humor.
00:32:51.000 Like, you gotta wing it somehow because humor is so important.
00:32:54.000 It's so sexy.
00:32:55.000 So, I've heard girls like funny guys.
00:32:57.000 Wink, wink.
00:32:58.000 So, I would add that in there.
00:33:00.000 Maybe, like you said, mix it up a little bit because saying you're not funny at all is kind of like, eh, no fun stuff.
00:33:05.000 And girls hate to be bored.
00:33:06.000 So, if you're gonna bore her, she's gonna be like, ah, you know, I need to be exciting outdoors, have fun, or something.
00:33:11.000 Just exactly.
00:33:12.000 You can't start it like that.
00:33:14.000 Like, oh, actually, nothing funny.
00:33:15.000 But the good thing is, I don't think he was nervous.
00:33:16.000 Like, the first guy, Dylan, he's definitely more confident.
00:33:19.000 The answers need to be more deliberate.
00:33:21.000 No, it's good.
00:33:22.000 It's overall good.
00:33:23.000 Welcome.
00:33:24.000 We have Jose and Crystal.
00:33:29.000 Welcome to the first Icebreaker Challenge.
00:33:32.000 So we're going to do five minutes on the clock.
00:33:34.000 These are your life support.
00:33:35.000 If you want them gone, hit the button.
00:33:37.000 And then they're gone.
00:33:38.000 And the question is here for you guys if you need help with the actual icebreaker.
00:33:42.000 So we got some icebreakers here prompting you.
00:33:45.000 Oh no, use these ones right here, Crystal.
00:33:47.000 Those are the last ones.
00:33:50.000 Use them if you want them or make up your own whenever you feel comfortable.
00:33:54.000 Yeah, so first start with your name, your age, and what you do.
00:33:57.000 And why are you looking for love?
00:33:58.000 Sure.
00:33:59.000 Ladies first, please.
00:34:00.000 Oh, ladies first.
00:34:01.000 Gentlemen.
00:34:02.000 So, my name's Crystal.
00:34:03.000 I'm from Florida.
00:34:05.000 I'm an entrepreneur.
00:34:05.000 I own a couple of salons.
00:34:07.000 Oh, I own a couple of salons.
00:34:09.000 My company is called The Face Wardrobe, and yeah, I'm looking for love because I just feel like I'm at that age.
00:34:17.000 Are you tired of being independent?
00:34:18.000 Oh yeah, I've never been built for the independent life.
00:34:21.000 It's not by choice.
00:34:22.000 I'll do it because it needs to be done, but it's not by choice.
00:34:26.000 Okay.
00:34:27.000 Amen.
00:34:27.000 Jose?
00:34:28.000 You know, multi-entrepreneur, a trap, a scam, I do a little something.
00:34:32.000 I'm kidding.
00:34:33.000 I'm totally kidding.
00:34:34.000 I'm totally kidding.
00:34:36.000 I'm in construction.
00:34:40.000 You're out!
00:34:42.000 Yo!
00:34:43.000 He's got humor.
00:34:44.000 He's got humor.
00:34:45.000 He's funny.
00:34:46.000 That's good.
00:34:46.000 That's good.
00:34:48.000 She's laughing already.
00:34:49.000 And on the next episode of Fed Reacts.
00:34:52.000 All right, brother, go ahead.
00:34:53.000 Now I'm looking for love because Cinder don't work, you feel me?
00:34:56.000 So, how are you?
00:34:57.000 But you have a very infectious smile.
00:34:59.000 It's the most beautiful smile I've seen in that room.
00:35:01.000 Oh, wow.
00:35:01.000 Thank you so much.
00:35:03.000 Okay.
00:35:04.000 Confidence.
00:35:05.000 All right.
00:35:06.000 We'll start on the clock.
00:35:07.000 Five minutes.
00:35:07.000 Let's go.
00:35:10.000 Actually, I want to start with this question.
00:35:11.000 Have you ever ghosted someone?
00:35:13.000 Oh, definitely.
00:35:13.000 It's interesting.
00:35:14.000 Yeah?
00:35:14.000 Why?
00:35:17.000 You know, it's just that toxicity.
00:35:20.000 You got to run from it.
00:35:21.000 I feel like a lot of us are used to toxicity.
00:35:23.000 It's like our norm.
00:35:25.000 And so if I notice like toxic traits, I... Imagine we're not here.
00:35:29.000 Look, just like...
00:35:30.000 Oh, okay.
00:35:30.000 Perfect.
00:35:31.000 Yeah, no, men are creepy.
00:35:32.000 I see that.
00:35:32.000 I felt that.
00:35:33.000 I think I've ghosted a couple people myself.
00:35:36.000 When I was in high school, I didn't know how to talk to people, so that's how that pretty much went.
00:35:39.000 Yeah.
00:35:40.000 Yeah, I just went on a couple dates, asked them a couple questions, and then literally walked off.
00:35:45.000 And I had to see them in class the next day, so it was...
00:35:48.000 It was kind of weird.
00:35:49.000 But other than that, I haven't done that since because I'm growing up.
00:35:51.000 Okay, yes, yes.
00:35:52.000 I was going to say, have you ghosted anyone as an adult?
00:35:54.000 Nah, because then you have to see them the next day.
00:35:57.000 You know what I'm saying?
00:35:57.000 Somehow, someway, you bump into them.
00:35:59.000 Florida's too small.
00:36:00.000 Yeah.
00:36:01.000 Yeah.
00:36:02.000 Okay.
00:36:02.000 So, I like this one.
00:36:05.000 What are your pet peeves?
00:36:08.000 Um...
00:36:09.000 Disorganization, man, and...
00:36:16.000 When somebody texts me if I got a dime at 3 a.m.
00:36:18.000 while I'm asleep, that's crazy.
00:36:19.000 I can't be doing that.
00:36:20.000 No, no, no, I'm kidding.
00:36:21.000 I'm kidding.
00:36:22.000 I'm totally kidding.
00:36:23.000 I'm totally kidding.
00:36:26.000 Yo, son.
00:36:28.000 This is crazy.
00:36:32.000 Miscommunication is a big one.
00:36:34.000 I really think that communication solves a lot of problems.
00:36:38.000 Without communication, you have a bunch of breeding ground for violence, and that's what most of our problems as humans is.
00:36:46.000 I try to derail from that and try to bring in a lot of communication, be very open, honesty.
00:36:52.000 I've lost a lot of things because of my honesty, but Hey, I'm still here.
00:36:56.000 So I've won the appropriate things.
00:36:58.000 Yeah, I can relate to that.
00:37:00.000 I feel like a lot of people don't really know how to take my personality because I'm very honest and it's very, like, forward and blunt.
00:37:08.000 So sometimes it can be, like, it can seem a little rude if you don't really know the person.
00:37:13.000 So I can relate to that.
00:37:14.000 You do well in New York.
00:37:16.000 Give me an example of telling someone the truth where it came across maybe as rude.
00:37:21.000 Oh, man.
00:37:22.000 Man, I got a ton of them.
00:37:26.000 Oh my god, you know when you have to think of an answer, you can never think of it, but let me just let him go first.
00:37:33.000 I know ladies are first, but yeah.
00:37:34.000 Okay, so usually I've kind of gotten to understand that like There's people that say just brutal things to kind of feel empowered and then there's the actual truth.
00:37:45.000 So my thing is I kind of give bland answers and people take them the wrong way.
00:37:50.000 So I had a friend who she likes to get a bunch of group of people together and take them to different churches.
00:37:58.000 And then she asked us, what do we think about this church?
00:38:01.000 So I've been to a couple of them, and I've witnessed this.
00:38:04.000 I'm saying, man, if this church is nice, the message, everything is great, but if it wanted to be this church, they should have just did that.
00:38:11.000 And she got so upset, and my other friend was like, man, you should think about your answer.
00:38:15.000 But I'm like, why did she ask me about what I thought?
00:38:18.000 You know what I'm saying?
00:38:18.000 And I haven't said, like, this church is trash.
00:38:20.000 I didn't say anything about the denomination whatsoever.
00:38:23.000 I'm just giving my observation in terms of look and feel.
00:38:25.000 You know what I'm saying?
00:38:26.000 But I said it was hot, though.
00:38:27.000 The message was hot.
00:38:27.000 I got it.
00:38:28.000 But whatever.
00:38:30.000 Okay.
00:38:30.000 I actually do remember a time.
00:38:33.000 So I work in a salon.
00:38:35.000 I own a couple salons.
00:38:36.000 Face wardrobe in the building.
00:38:37.000 My mom used to do that too.
00:38:39.000 But I work at a salon and I made friends with a girl and one day she came in with this red sweater and I just told her, I was like, Heather, I don't really like you in red.
00:38:49.000 And I wasn't trying to be malicious at all.
00:38:51.000 I was just like, you know, I don't think that's your color.
00:38:53.000 Yeah, that's not her color.
00:38:54.000 I felt that.
00:38:55.000 I felt like because she's kind of had these red and pink undertones, like red is just like making you look more red.
00:39:02.000 So I just was telling her like, girl, I don't think that's your color.
00:39:05.000 I feel like I'm really good at like style and beauty.
00:39:07.000 And she took it so offensively.
00:39:10.000 Our friendship almost ended.
00:39:11.000 But I had to tell her like, girl, I would never say anything to intentionally like hurt your feelings.
00:39:15.000 And then, you know, we made friends again.
00:39:17.000 But that's just a little example.
00:39:19.000 Yeah, and they all want that friend to be honest and tell us, but I'll take it.
00:39:23.000 They don't really want the honesty.
00:39:24.000 No, you don't.
00:39:25.000 You don't want that.
00:39:26.000 You guys are both honest, right?
00:39:28.000 Yeah.
00:39:28.000 So you're very honest?
00:39:29.000 Yes.
00:39:29.000 What is something someone could do on the first date to turn you off?
00:39:33.000 Try to kiss me.
00:39:34.000 So you don't kiss on the first date?
00:39:36.000 I don't kiss on the first date.
00:39:38.000 I just don't.
00:39:39.000 Nigga, what?
00:39:40.000 Yo, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:39:42.000 Jose, you what?
00:39:43.000 I agree with that.
00:39:44.000 First and foremost, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:39:47.000 It's Miami.
00:39:48.000 First of all, it's a nasty city.
00:39:50.000 Period.
00:39:51.000 It's a real nasty city.
00:39:52.000 Even if you're not at Booby Tribe, it's a real nasty city.
00:39:55.000 But when you...
00:39:57.000 I told you I'm from the trap.
00:39:58.000 But anyway, when you kind of get to see what goes down in Miami, yeah, just hold my hand for now.
00:40:08.000 We'll wait until that third date.
00:40:10.000 You know what I'm saying?
00:40:11.000 Yeah.
00:40:12.000 I actually like men that don't try to kiss me on the first date.
00:40:15.000 Yeah, that's hard.
00:40:16.000 Yeah, I see that.
00:40:17.000 I see that.
00:40:18.000 I have so many questions.
00:40:19.000 Okay, hold on, hold on.
00:40:20.000 How would you know he's really into you if he doesn't go for the actual, you feel me, like, affection?
00:40:27.000 How would you know he's like, he might just want to be a friend, he's just cool.
00:40:31.000 How would you?
00:40:32.000 I want to answer that for her.
00:40:33.000 I feel like a man should have that answer, but...
00:40:36.000 I love his confidence.
00:40:38.000 A little song, call it the Henny, but anyway...
00:40:42.000 So, I feel like it's in the conversation.
00:40:45.000 A man, when he wants something, that he goes after it.
00:40:47.000 He chases it.
00:40:48.000 He asks questions around it.
00:40:49.000 How to get into it.
00:40:51.000 How to get...
00:40:51.000 If I really like a girl, I want to know what makes her laugh.
00:40:54.000 I want to know her favorite color.
00:40:55.000 I want to know what's her favorite food when she's upset.
00:40:58.000 I want to know...
00:41:00.000 I want to know what's her favorite show that she could binge or what's the type of show that she could binge.
00:41:03.000 I want to know all those things.
00:41:04.000 You know what I'm saying?
00:41:04.000 Because if you don't, at the end of it, somebody told me that at the end of it, when you get like 60, 70 or maybe older, I don't know what age it is for men, but your body parts start working.
00:41:15.000 You feel me?
00:41:15.000 You ain't going to be horny for this person no more.
00:41:17.000 So you got to come up with a conversation.
00:41:19.000 And back then, like sitting on a porch with your partner was like a cool thing.
00:41:22.000 You know what I mean?
00:41:23.000 So, you know, when you get there and you're old, you're sitting on a porch looking out.
00:41:27.000 What are you going to be talking about?
00:41:28.000 Is it going to be that same sexual conversation that y'all had in the beginning?
00:41:31.000 Or, you know, if it's really like a good partner, he should be really into you and want to know that these conversations could go on forever and it feel like it's been five minutes, but it's eight hours.
00:41:39.000 You know what I'm saying?
00:41:40.000 So, yeah.
00:41:41.000 Yo, Jose, you're a good talker, bro.
00:41:42.000 This is good.
00:41:43.000 This is good.
00:41:43.000 Just think of Jose.
00:41:44.000 Did you practice?
00:41:47.000 Okay, so that's the time right there.
00:41:50.000 Before we end this...
00:41:51.000 Damn, that was 30 minutes.
00:41:52.000 It went fast, right?
00:41:54.000 So, Jose, would you take Crystal on a first date?
00:41:58.000 100%.
00:41:59.000 I already got the place and everything.
00:42:01.000 Yeah, yeah, no, don't worry about it.
00:42:03.000 Yeah.
00:42:04.000 Crystal, would you go on the first date with him?
00:42:05.000 I would, yes.
00:42:07.000 Yeah.
00:42:07.000 Lit, lit.
00:42:08.000 I like that little t-shirt.
00:42:09.000 Appreciate that.
00:42:11.000 Somebody told me not to fix it.
00:42:12.000 J-Cole, yeah.
00:42:13.000 Is that a fresh match?
00:42:15.000 Okay.
00:42:15.000 I think it's a fresh match.
00:42:17.000 Definitely.
00:42:18.000 Oh, I like it.
00:42:19.000 I like it.
00:42:20.000 This is actually really funny and insightful.
00:42:22.000 Appreciate that.
00:42:23.000 You should learn from this actual example here, but go ahead.
00:42:26.000 We'll come back to you.
00:42:27.000 Thanks, guys.
00:42:28.000 Thank you guys for having me.
00:42:30.000 So, MK. First and foremost, if there are any men, which I know all of the viewers are probably men at this point, please take notes.
00:42:38.000 We want a couple girls here.
00:42:38.000 Please take notes.
00:42:39.000 All right, yeah, to the ladies, too.
00:42:41.000 For the men, take notes for what he was doing.
00:42:43.000 Yeah.
00:42:44.000 I thought he was just catering.
00:42:45.000 Like, not in a weird way.
00:42:46.000 You know what I'm saying?
00:42:47.000 So...
00:42:47.000 Typically on a date, you want to get to know the person and ask questions.
00:42:51.000 What he was doing, he was filling the blanks for her so she could talk, be comfortable.
00:42:56.000 And as a result, she was laughing.
00:42:57.000 She was chill.
00:42:59.000 She was laid back.
00:43:00.000 And he lowered her defenses by just being genuine and being funny.
00:43:04.000 And I think if you're funny enough with a girl on a date and she's responding to it positively, then you can...
00:43:11.000 You know what?
00:43:11.000 You can ask her anything.
00:43:12.000 Definitely.
00:43:12.000 She's feeling comfortable.
00:43:13.000 Exactly.
00:43:15.000 And it wasn't too much, by the way, because I've seen some guys who are like, put the grace on the humor.
00:43:20.000 He didn't force it.
00:43:21.000 No, no, no.
00:43:21.000 But he also got deep, too.
00:43:23.000 You know what I'm saying?
00:43:23.000 He wasn't just keeping it at the surface of funny.
00:43:25.000 I just want to make her laugh.
00:43:26.000 No.
00:43:26.000 It was good.
00:43:27.000 Good.
00:43:27.000 It was depth.
00:43:28.000 Yeah.
00:43:29.000 Welcome back, guys.
00:43:30.000 Okay, so this is the round here.
00:43:31.000 We're going to do a little bit different.
00:43:34.000 So Dylan and...
00:43:35.000 It was Emily, right?
00:43:37.000 Do you want to switch with anybody?
00:43:39.000 Or do you want to stay as this couple?
00:43:42.000 Anyone here in the room?
00:43:43.000 Do you want to switch?
00:43:44.000 I'm fine with staying.
00:43:45.000 Do you want to switch?
00:43:46.000 No.
00:43:47.000 Okay, perfect.
00:43:48.000 Oh, this is getting serious now.
00:43:50.000 Goddamn!
00:43:52.000 Okay, so here's the actual rules for this round.
00:43:55.000 This is the first date.
00:43:56.000 Dylan, you're taking her out.
00:43:57.000 Pick the time and place where you want to take her.
00:43:59.000 And then we're going to make it very romantic.
00:44:03.000 I see.
00:44:03.000 Melissa, bring in the special item.
00:44:07.000 Glass ice cake.
00:44:08.000 I see.
00:44:09.000 She knows.
00:44:09.000 Yeah, she knows.
00:44:10.000 But before we begin this part of the segment, Dylan and Emily, in your experience, why do you think that you're single?
00:44:19.000 I think I'm single because I just want to explore my options out there.
00:44:25.000 I've been developing who I am and exploring myself as a person and just been traveling and seeing what the world is like.
00:44:34.000 So now that I've experienced a lot, I'm looking to get deeper into dating.
00:44:40.000 Okay.
00:44:41.000 Emily?
00:44:42.000 I mean, I feel like I'm not that old.
00:44:44.000 I'm only 26, which some people are married by now, but, you know, not me.
00:44:49.000 And I think every, like, relationship or dating experience I've had thus far, I've kind of needed to develop more as a person.
00:44:56.000 And so, yeah, I feel good about how much I have grown at this point in my life.
00:45:01.000 But there obviously is still more growing that I... And everyone needs to do, and so I hope that the next relationship I have is like it for me, but there's also a possibility that it won't be, and I'll take that as it comes.
00:45:15.000 Okay, so we'll begin this segment here.
00:45:17.000 Here's the candle of love.
00:45:18.000 Here we go.
00:45:20.000 Here we go.
00:45:23.000 Christian Fitz, collaboration, only candles.
00:45:27.000 Alright, we'll begin the timer.
00:45:29.000 Five minutes on the clock.
00:45:30.000 Let's go.
00:45:31.000 Alright.
00:45:32.000 Well, I have a date planned out.
00:45:35.000 Are you into museums?
00:45:38.000 No, but I'm willing.
00:45:40.000 That's good, because I'm not into museums that much either.
00:45:43.000 This needs some music.
00:45:44.000 So, how do you like the beach?
00:45:47.000 I do enjoy the beach.
00:45:49.000 Okay, so, let's go to the beach.
00:45:52.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:45:53.000 I'm up here, brother.
00:45:55.000 You plan a date.
00:45:56.000 She comes along.
00:45:57.000 She can't say anything because you're planning the date.
00:45:59.000 You're paying.
00:46:00.000 You're the guy.
00:46:01.000 You're taking charge, brother.
00:46:02.000 Tell her where you're going and this is it.
00:46:04.000 We're on a date in real time.
00:46:06.000 What's happening?
00:46:07.000 Time and place where we're going.
00:46:08.000 I'm going to be at the beach at 2 o'clock.
00:46:10.000 Come join me.
00:46:12.000 Okay, sounds good.
00:46:13.000 Alright, so we'll start here.
00:46:15.000 Candlelight dinner on the beach.
00:46:17.000 Is that cool?
00:46:17.000 Yeah.
00:46:18.000 Or lunch.
00:46:18.000 I imagine we're not here, just two of you guys talking on the sand, getting sandy feet, all that stuff.
00:46:23.000 Let's run it.
00:46:24.000 Hey, it's great to see you.
00:46:26.000 It's great to see you too.
00:46:28.000 You want to walk down to the water area?
00:46:30.000 Sounds good.
00:46:31.000 Alright, let's set up this picnic.
00:46:32.000 I got some...
00:46:34.000 Some meat.
00:46:35.000 Do you like meat?
00:46:36.000 I do.
00:46:36.000 I hope you're not vegan.
00:46:37.000 I am not a vegan.
00:46:38.000 I will never be a vegan.
00:46:39.000 Cool.
00:46:40.000 And, you know, some fruit, too.
00:46:42.000 Let's set this up.
00:46:43.000 Got a little charcuterie situation going on.
00:46:46.000 All right.
00:46:47.000 All right, we set it up.
00:46:48.000 Cool.
00:46:48.000 It looks pretty nice, right?
00:46:49.000 It does.
00:46:50.000 You did a great job.
00:46:52.000 Here, you can have the first piece.
00:46:54.000 Oh, that's so sweet of you.
00:46:55.000 Here, you can eat it.
00:46:57.000 Cool.
00:46:59.000 So, how...
00:47:02.000 So, it's been a while since I've seen you at the Fresh and Fit Podcast.
00:47:07.000 Have you been since then?
00:47:08.000 You know, I've been pretty good.
00:47:10.000 Yeah.
00:47:12.000 Not a whole lot has changed.
00:47:13.000 Still thriving.
00:47:15.000 And, yep, still here.
00:47:17.000 How about you?
00:47:18.000 Yeah, I've been chilling, you know.
00:47:20.000 You know, thinking about you maybe a little bit.
00:47:22.000 Not too much.
00:47:24.000 So, done anything exciting since then?
00:47:30.000 Since about 20 minutes ago?
00:47:32.000 No, no, no.
00:47:32.000 Since the Fresh and Fit podcast.
00:47:34.000 Oh, a while ago.
00:47:35.000 A while ago.
00:47:39.000 Yes.
00:47:42.000 I have been hanging out with my cats.
00:47:46.000 Oh, wow.
00:47:48.000 How many cats do you have?
00:47:49.000 Well, remember how I told you that?
00:47:52.000 Yeah, so technically I have seven cats right now.
00:47:55.000 I will not permanently have seven cats, but I became an overnight cat lady, it seems.
00:48:00.000 How many kittens are you giving away so far?
00:48:03.000 I'm planning to give away all of them except one.
00:48:05.000 Except one?
00:48:06.000 Except one, yeah.
00:48:07.000 Are you in the market for a kitten?
00:48:09.000 Potentially.
00:48:10.000 Potentially.
00:48:11.000 I don't...
00:48:12.000 I'm not too sure about that, though.
00:48:14.000 Okay, well...
00:48:14.000 Taking care of a kitten is a lot of work.
00:48:16.000 It is.
00:48:17.000 It is.
00:48:17.000 They're also too young to be separated from their mom still, so we could revisit this topic in about eight weeks.
00:48:24.000 Sounds good.
00:48:25.000 You want to go in the watering?
00:48:27.000 Okay.
00:48:30.000 Let's try it out.
00:48:32.000 Sounds good.
00:48:33.000 Cool.
00:48:33.000 This water is pretty cold.
00:48:36.000 Actually, let's go back to the sand.
00:48:37.000 I don't want to be here.
00:48:38.000 That's a good plan.
00:48:41.000 Actually, I wanted to ask you a question.
00:48:44.000 I was curious about your business and how long ago you started it.
00:48:49.000 Yeah, it started about almost two years ago.
00:48:52.000 It started off as a photography business, but it slowly evolved into image and brand consulting.
00:48:59.000 So I help individuals elevate their personal brand online and also help them with coaching and real life as well.
00:49:06.000 So self-improvement and then just making sure that they're really optimizing their opportunities in life and generating the most leads possible and just becoming the best version of themselves.
00:49:17.000 Very cool.
00:49:18.000 What do you find is the most rewarding part of that?
00:49:21.000 Just being able to help people, being able to help them transform, and seeing the results that...
00:49:28.000 Puts them into the person they want to be and just seeing that happen.
00:49:33.000 So I think that's really cool.
00:49:34.000 And then I also learn a lot myself being able to work with others.
00:49:37.000 I learn a lot of new techniques and I also have friends that makes me accountable to do better as well.
00:49:44.000 So it's like almost creating a brotherhood while I'm doing business too.
00:49:48.000 So it's pretty cool.
00:49:50.000 That's super cool.
00:49:50.000 That's awesome.
00:49:51.000 I think it's really important to have like community around you as you're doing those things.
00:49:54.000 I think entrepreneurship can be really lonely.
00:49:57.000 Yeah, so I think that's really cool that you've got a community with you.
00:50:01.000 Yeah.
00:50:02.000 And what about you?
00:50:04.000 How long have you been doing your business?
00:50:06.000 Yeah, it's been about a couple years as well, so got like a similar trajectory, it seems, with our businesses.
00:50:12.000 Yeah, yeah, started about a couple years ago.
00:50:15.000 Okay, guys.
00:50:16.000 Okay, MK made the call here.
00:50:18.000 She's calling the date off.
00:50:21.000 I want to give some feedback.
00:50:23.000 So I noticed that you loosened up when you started talking more about yourself, but you felt a little bit more rigid just with her in general.
00:50:30.000 Did you feel rigid?
00:50:32.000 Yeah, I might be, you know, a little nervous.
00:50:34.000 I get that.
00:50:35.000 I can tell too.
00:50:36.000 You're a bit nervous.
00:50:37.000 I can tell.
00:50:37.000 Yeah, I totally get that.
00:50:39.000 Understandable.
00:50:39.000 And do you feel that way on most first dates?
00:50:43.000 Yeah.
00:50:43.000 Like if you haven't really known this person, maybe just like, hey, you want to meet tonight or tomorrow?
00:50:47.000 We have a quick intermission here with someone who wants to say something.
00:50:51.000 What are you saying?
00:50:52.000 Oh, you're saying it right now?
00:50:54.000 Okay.
00:50:55.000 Derek Myron?
00:50:58.000 Durag Myron ranted from Rumble and says actual NPC chatting LMAO. He's saying that you're NPC just because you're talking kind of like robotic in a way.
00:51:09.000 Sorry, go ahead.
00:51:09.000 Oh, I feel that.
00:51:10.000 Okay, okay.
00:51:12.000 So you feel it.
00:51:13.000 Yes, you understand it.
00:51:14.000 And then, yeah, just a piece of advice, you know...
00:51:18.000 Women, of course, love to be asked questions, you know?
00:51:21.000 Like, who doesn't, you know?
00:51:22.000 And so it's like when something like about like the six kittens, like, hey, so remember you're doing the six kittens, like, you know, like, what's that like?
00:51:27.000 Like, that must be like, what are you up all night?
00:51:28.000 Is it like six babies?
00:51:29.000 Like, you know, like, ask a little bit more information-seeking questions, because then you're like, oh, wow, he's taking intention and actually cares.
00:51:36.000 Yeah.
00:51:36.000 So listen, listen, this is from me to you as a guy, because, bro, it's tough out here, bro.
00:51:40.000 Dating, not being nervous, being on point is hard as hell, especially when she's cute, you know what I'm saying?
00:51:46.000 She's pretty cute.
00:51:47.000 So...
00:51:48.000 She is pretty cute.
00:51:48.000 So Dylan, very simple.
00:51:50.000 You know what I do on dates?
00:51:52.000 I barely talk.
00:51:53.000 Well, for one, I stutter sometimes, but it's because I don't want to give too much out of the bag, you know?
00:51:57.000 So what I do is ask questions, very deliberate questions.
00:52:00.000 I'll answer.
00:52:01.000 I respond basically like...
00:52:03.000 Tell me more.
00:52:04.000 Really?
00:52:05.000 No way.
00:52:05.000 You have cats?
00:52:06.000 Seven?
00:52:07.000 That's crazy.
00:52:07.000 Why'd you do that?
00:52:08.000 You want to give some enthusiasm with answers to questions?
00:52:12.000 Make it more fun.
00:52:13.000 You're kind of like monotone, kind of like chill, which is fine.
00:52:16.000 But on the first thing, you need to be there present with enthusiasm.
00:52:19.000 That's what I'm saying.
00:52:20.000 First impressions going so far.
00:52:21.000 And if you're nervous, just ask questions.
00:52:23.000 Keep it off of you.
00:52:24.000 Keep it on her.
00:52:24.000 Now, Emily, for you, real quick.
00:52:26.000 How was that first experience?
00:52:28.000 And tell him the truth.
00:52:29.000 Don't lie to him.
00:52:30.000 Don't hold back.
00:52:31.000 Transparent.
00:52:31.000 It was pretty awkward, which I feel like I have a lot of, like, grace for that.
00:52:36.000 I think it makes sense that people are normal on dates, and I also, like, think that it is harder for the man to actually, like, guide the conversation.
00:52:47.000 So...
00:52:48.000 Yeah, I don't feel like judgment at all towards you, but I definitely did feel like some awkwardness.
00:52:55.000 And like, I mean exactly what he was saying, like, if you ask me a question, I'll ask you a question back.
00:53:01.000 It could be a great little thing.
00:53:02.000 Let it flow.
00:53:04.000 So right now, this is the last question from me.
00:53:08.000 Emily, would you go on a second date with Dylan?
00:53:12.000 I think I would because I feel like a lot of like the awkwardness was just nerves, you know?
00:53:18.000 So I think it's worth like getting to know someone, you know, like giving them another chance if you just think that there's nerves there.
00:53:26.000 Yeah, I like that.
00:53:27.000 Dylan, how do you think you did?
00:53:29.000 Based on what you said, I did horrible.
00:53:32.000 I wouldn't say horrible.
00:53:34.000 It's because, one, there's chemistry, for one.
00:53:37.000 But two, it's like, as a guy, we have this, I want to say, fear of rejection.
00:53:42.000 And we manifest in different ways.
00:53:44.000 It could be, for example, stuttering.
00:53:46.000 It could be, for example, talking slower.
00:53:48.000 But you're a guy that's well put together.
00:53:50.000 You know, you're definitely in shape.
00:53:52.000 So I think your confidence just needs to be there to match that, you know, physique.
00:53:56.000 And then from there, you got it, bro.
00:53:57.000 You got it, man.
00:53:58.000 All right.
00:53:59.000 100%.
00:54:00.000 Thank you, guys.
00:54:01.000 Yeah, thank you.
00:54:01.000 Emily, I think you're trying to be nice here.
00:54:04.000 So I'll keep you in the runnings just in case you want to go to somebody else.
00:54:07.000 But good job, guys.
00:54:08.000 Good job, guys.
00:54:09.000 Thank you.
00:54:11.000 She's like, we're friends, though.
00:54:13.000 No, he did it awesome.
00:54:14.000 Oh, geez.
00:54:15.000 Okay, who's next?
00:54:17.000 Who's next?
00:54:18.000 I ain't gonna lie fresh.
00:54:19.000 I saw that too, bro.
00:54:20.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:54:20.000 She being nice, man.
00:54:22.000 That white girl nice.
00:54:23.000 But it's okay.
00:54:24.000 You know, like I said before, this is very, very, very intensive because you're on camera and it's like a first date.
00:54:33.000 It's gonna be tough, you know?
00:54:34.000 Especially on one of the biggest platforms, bro.
00:54:36.000 Anyone would be nervous.
00:54:37.000 Absolutely.
00:54:37.000 I'm telling you, man.
00:54:38.000 Fresh and fit.
00:54:38.000 Let's go!
00:54:39.000 Oh, God.
00:54:40.000 Okay.
00:54:40.000 Welcome back, guys.
00:54:41.000 This is the date segment of the show.
00:54:44.000 We got Eddie and we got Erica.
00:54:46.000 Now, granted, Eddie, you're the man.
00:54:48.000 Yeah.
00:54:49.000 Date, time, place, where it's going to be.
00:54:52.000 Candlelight dinner, if you want to, as well as candles right here.
00:54:54.000 And Erica, you're just going to follow suit.
00:54:58.000 And we'll do five minutes on the clock.
00:55:00.000 Let her rip.
00:55:00.000 Can I ask a question before we start?
00:55:02.000 Of course not.
00:55:04.000 No, I'm just kidding.
00:55:04.000 Go ahead.
00:55:06.000 I'm curious.
00:55:07.000 Is height an issue for you?
00:55:08.000 Oh, is height an issue for you?
00:55:12.000 No.
00:55:13.000 No?
00:55:13.000 Wait, how tall are you?
00:55:15.000 I'm 5'7".
00:55:16.000 How tall are you?
00:55:17.000 5'6".
00:55:18.000 Could you stand up real quick?
00:55:20.000 Both of you?
00:55:22.000 Yo, chat!
00:55:24.000 Is she way taller than him, or is it comparable?
00:55:28.000 It's not too far off, right?
00:55:31.000 No.
00:55:31.000 I think it can work.
00:55:32.000 Totally.
00:55:33.000 Put some Jordans on.
00:55:34.000 Yeah, with some Jordans on.
00:55:37.000 Here's the secret.
00:55:38.000 McQueen's.
00:55:39.000 McQueen's give you that extra height.
00:55:41.000 Don't ask me how I know.
00:55:43.000 Wink wink.
00:55:43.000 But what if she wears heels though?
00:55:45.000 Fresh, how you know?
00:55:46.000 Nigga, I be wearing them shits.
00:55:46.000 Come on, man.
00:55:47.000 Oh, okay.
00:55:48.000 If she wears heels, I'll throw this Tim's on.
00:55:50.000 Ah, okay, okay.
00:55:52.000 There you go.
00:55:53.000 There you go.
00:55:54.000 There's a woman who's confident in her skin that says, yeah, I don't need this, like, this whole illusion that, like, they've got to be so tolerant of me for me to feel safe and secure.
00:56:02.000 No, she doesn't need that.
00:56:03.000 I'll tell you this.
00:56:04.000 A shorter man is closer to what?
00:56:07.000 the cooch We're gonna start this bad boy Five minutes on the clock.
00:56:19.000 Let's go!
00:56:20.000 Alright, so, date idea.
00:56:22.000 Thing is, we're both from the Midwest.
00:56:24.000 There's not a lot to do.
00:56:26.000 So for me being out here, I'm not big on the Miami, take someone to an expensive dinner and do all this stuff.
00:56:32.000 I actually want to get to know someone.
00:56:34.000 So it's like, let's go out, we'll get coffee, we'll walk around, we'll get to know each other.
00:56:38.000 You kind of tell me more about you.
00:56:40.000 We'll have things in common.
00:56:42.000 Obviously, Midwest, we'll have a lot of things in common.
00:56:44.000 But I'm not trying to show out on the first date.
00:56:48.000 That's definitely not me.
00:56:49.000 Especially being new.
00:56:51.000 So that's a good setup.
00:56:53.000 But what are you taking here?
00:56:54.000 What time is it?
00:56:55.000 And I imagine you're there in real time.
00:56:57.000 Let's go.
00:56:58.000 Alright.
00:56:59.000 We're out.
00:56:59.000 I'll pick you up.
00:57:00.000 We'll go get some coffee.
00:57:01.000 We'll walk around.
00:57:03.000 How about we go to South Beach?
00:57:04.000 We'll walk on the beach.
00:57:05.000 Get to know each other.
00:57:06.000 Talk.
00:57:07.000 Sit down.
00:57:08.000 Look at the ocean.
00:57:10.000 So coffee's in hand.
00:57:11.000 Really get to know each other.
00:57:12.000 Yeah.
00:57:12.000 I feel like coffee's like, you know, I don't want to like chug some tequila, you know?
00:57:17.000 Coffee's in hand.
00:57:18.000 Sitting on the beach.
00:57:18.000 Yeah.
00:57:19.000 Go.
00:57:21.000 Okay, what's your coffee order?
00:57:24.000 I actually get made fun of for this, but I love a good lavender latte.
00:57:30.000 I'm not going to lie to you.
00:57:31.000 I get a lot of heat for that from my boys, but yeah.
00:57:33.000 Sorry, I'm messing with you.
00:57:37.000 I'm not like a black coffee drinker.
00:57:41.000 I'll take that right now.
00:57:42.000 Do you know my coffee order, bro?
00:57:44.000 What is it?
00:57:45.000 Black coffee.
00:57:46.000 Black coffee.
00:57:47.000 Cookie crumble.
00:57:47.000 Frappuccino.
00:57:48.000 Cookie crumble.
00:57:52.000 I'll tell you what, man.
00:57:54.000 A real man drinks what he wants to drink.
00:57:56.000 Sorry, what's your coffee order?
00:57:57.000 Get him fresh!
00:57:58.000 I'm kind of the same, actually.
00:57:59.000 I love the lavender omelette latte.
00:58:01.000 Oh!
00:58:02.000 Oh!
00:58:04.000 But a few things in common.
00:58:06.000 Okay.
00:58:07.000 Alright, so we're going to drink some lavender latte.
00:58:09.000 We're going to sit on the beach.
00:58:10.000 We're going to talk about...
00:58:13.000 You.
00:58:14.000 Because I'm big on getting to know somebody.
00:58:15.000 I don't want to really talk about myself.
00:58:17.000 I've done a lot in my life, but I want to get to know the person I'm on a date with.
00:58:20.000 I hate going on a date and somebody's just constantly talking about themselves.
00:58:24.000 I want to actually interact, go back and forth, get to know each other.
00:58:27.000 I don't know about you, but if you go on a date and somebody's talking about themselves the whole time, for me at least, I'm going to sit there and be like, I don't want this date to continue.
00:58:35.000 I kind of want to leave.
00:58:36.000 Alright, so start asking.
00:58:38.000 Okay, so imagine we're not here.
00:58:40.000 You guys are on a date.
00:58:41.000 Let's go.
00:58:41.000 Alright, so what brings you to Miami?
00:58:43.000 The weather was number one for me, and then obviously working in events, it's a great place for that, so Miami was kind of a no-brainer.
00:58:53.000 Okay.
00:58:53.000 What about you?
00:58:54.000 Okay, on my side, like, in Iowa, like...
00:58:57.000 No offense to people in the Midwest, but working out isn't big there.
00:59:01.000 People will kind of just be like, oh yeah, I'm cool, I'm content with life, we're good.
00:59:07.000 But for me, I played college football.
00:59:10.000 I wasn't good, don't get it twisted.
00:59:12.000 But...
00:59:13.000 I was big on, like, fitness and, like, working out and stuff like that, so I think, like, that's really important in a lifestyle.
00:59:18.000 If somebody is consistently going to the gym and dedicating to themselves, I feel like that shows a lot about a person because if somebody's dedicating to themselves, it probably means they have a clean household.
00:59:29.000 They probably really, like, take things, like, they'll make a checklist of things they gotta get done.
00:59:34.000 I don't like being around people that are messy or don't want to get things done.
00:59:39.000 Proactive people are like, oh yeah, I got this thing I gotta do, but I'm gonna do it next week.
00:59:42.000 Let's do that.
00:59:43.000 It's like, no, let's get what we need to get done now.
00:59:46.000 So then, in a week from now, you're free.
00:59:48.000 And then we can go on that second date, third date, keep going, kind of thing.
00:59:52.000 You don't want someone that's messy.
00:59:55.000 Agreed with that.
01:00:00.000 Perfect.
01:00:01.000 So, are you messy?
01:00:02.000 Like, I'm curious.
01:00:04.000 No.
01:00:05.000 Oh, hello.
01:00:06.000 Sorry.
01:00:07.000 No, I'm not a messy person.
01:00:08.000 I like my place very clean.
01:00:10.000 Alright.
01:00:11.000 Are you a cat or a dog person?
01:00:13.000 I feel like that shows a lot about a person.
01:00:15.000 It depends, honestly.
01:00:17.000 So, when I lived in Michigan and I had a backyard, I had pit bulls.
01:00:20.000 I loved it so much.
01:00:25.000 I have a very special place in my heart for my cat who passed away but he was a sphinx cat so they're like very sociable he would always greet me at the door he loved going out like he would do beach walks and coffee shops and everything like that so I like him but he was a very different type of cat what about you?
01:00:52.000 So I actually had a dog, and then I started traveling, and I realized that my dog had motion sickness, so I couldn't really bring my dog with me, so it's sad, but I try and see her as often as I can.
01:01:05.000 Her name's Bashful.
01:01:06.000 I love you, Bashful.
01:01:08.000 Anyways, but something that is important to me is, like, fitness.
01:01:11.000 Like I said, I'm a personal trainer.
01:01:13.000 I love being in the gym.
01:01:14.000 Is that something that's important to you, or do you kind of put it on the back burner, like?
01:01:18.000 I wouldn't say backburner, but it's not.
01:01:21.000 So I try to do like Pilates and yoga.
01:01:23.000 I like very slow.
01:01:24.000 I don't like very high intensity.
01:01:27.000 I like very calm movement.
01:01:29.000 So I would say more yoga, Pilates, everything like that.
01:01:32.000 And I try to do that three times a week or so.
01:01:34.000 But I wouldn't say I'm in the gym six times a week.
01:01:38.000 Nothing like that.
01:01:39.000 That's good though.
01:01:40.000 I mean, for me at least, I always like to switch it up.
01:01:43.000 I like to try new things, so I would be open to trying a Pilates class.
01:01:48.000 I don't know if a lot of guys are open to that, but I'll always do something to just try and find common ground.
01:01:55.000 I want to be able to like, all right, if we have this in common, we both like this, let's keep doing that.
01:02:00.000 Because then it kind of keeps the relationship going.
01:02:01.000 You can grow from there and get to know each other more.
01:02:04.000 Yeah, and I also think it's healthy to have separate things, too.
01:02:08.000 Oh, for sure.
01:02:09.000 Yeah.
01:02:10.000 I'm definitely the type of guy where it's like, I don't want your life to change because you met me.
01:02:14.000 I want you to have your life, do what you have to do, and then whenever it's our time, we'll have our time together.
01:02:19.000 I'm not big on text me and call me wherever you're at.
01:02:23.000 No, I'm not on that, no.
01:02:25.000 Okay, that is time.
01:02:28.000 Okay, so Eddie and Erica, that was your first date.
01:02:32.000 I want you to tell me, Erica, would you go on another date with Eddie?
01:02:37.000 Be honest.
01:02:38.000 No, no, no.
01:02:39.000 Be brutally honest.
01:02:40.000 Brutally honest?
01:02:41.000 And if you say yes, why?
01:02:43.000 No, why?
01:02:43.000 I would say yes if it wasn't coffee.
01:02:47.000 Okay.
01:02:47.000 So you want tequila shots?
01:02:49.000 Alright, that's fair.
01:02:51.000 And Eddie, would you take her on a second date?
01:02:52.000 For sure, yeah.
01:02:54.000 I think we can definitely keep finding more common ground.
01:02:57.000 She seems cool.
01:02:58.000 So this was a very chill date.
01:03:01.000 Yeah, the first date has to be chill.
01:03:02.000 Tell me what you think went wrong, and then what went right.
01:03:07.000 And we'll start with Erica.
01:03:09.000 Okay, so I don't mind a coffee date for the first date, I'll be very honest.
01:03:14.000 But sometimes it can feel just a little lack of intention, I guess.
01:03:21.000 But for a first date, I'd be willing to give it a try and see how it went.
01:03:25.000 But for a second date, I need a little more than coffee.
01:03:29.000 Okay.
01:03:31.000 Heidi?
01:03:31.000 I wouldn't say there's anything bad.
01:03:33.000 I'd say, you know, we do have a lot in common.
01:03:35.000 There's a lot of things that we agree on, so I would definitely be down for another day for sure.
01:03:40.000 Cool.
01:03:40.000 Cool.
01:03:41.000 Okay.
01:03:41.000 Thank you, guys.
01:03:42.000 Thank you.
01:03:43.000 Appreciate that.
01:03:43.000 Thank you.
01:03:44.000 MK, thoughts on this real quick.
01:03:46.000 So, yeah, I know that Eddie, I felt nervousness, you know, from him.
01:03:50.000 And I get it.
01:03:51.000 Like, this is a fake scenario, you know.
01:03:54.000 But yeah, the questions seem forced.
01:03:57.000 And it's funny because you're saying, you know, I love talking about them and ask them questions.
01:04:01.000 And then he just started talking about himself.
01:04:03.000 Did you notice that?
01:04:04.000 Yes.
01:04:05.000 I think I did it pretty good as well.
01:04:07.000 I just wish it was more like, I want to say again, enthusiasm with questions, more like banter back and forth.
01:04:13.000 Because the problem is, if you're just talking, conversating regularly, it's okay, but there's no energy behind it.
01:04:20.000 Yeah, for sure.
01:04:20.000 It's not going to go anywhere.
01:04:21.000 Versus, there's intent energy behind each question and answer.
01:04:24.000 Like, really?
01:04:26.000 Wow, that's amazing.
01:04:27.000 You're really cute, by the way.
01:04:28.000 Nice smile.
01:04:29.000 You're putting attention behind everything you say, so there's a result.
01:04:32.000 This was no result here.
01:04:33.000 Dating is all energy.
01:04:34.000 It's all energy.
01:04:35.000 So you've got to put in the energy for people to feel it.
01:04:37.000 It's a give and take.
01:04:38.000 But I will say this, though.
01:04:40.000 I thought that was honest.
01:04:41.000 They said, I will do a second date.
01:04:43.000 I believe her.
01:04:45.000 I think that was genuine on the second date.
01:04:47.000 Hear me out, because there wasn't any spark.
01:04:49.000 There wasn't a big spark.
01:04:50.000 But they did have common ground compatibility.
01:04:52.000 And guys, that's enough.
01:04:54.000 That should suffice it.
01:04:55.000 That should be enough for a second date.
01:04:57.000 Screw the chemistry, as I say.
01:04:59.000 That will build.
01:05:00.000 Think about this, though.
01:05:01.000 I think this girl here didn't like the coffee day at all.
01:05:05.000 No, he didn't.
01:05:06.000 She wanted to go out on a town, have a great time.
01:05:08.000 So that right there might have turned her off.
01:05:10.000 I don't know if it was like the happy, you know, got to be whatever, like, smith and woolen.
01:05:15.000 She's like, I don't think you got to put out all the tricks.
01:05:17.000 But yeah, I think she needed, like, she associated intention and effort by doing something more.
01:05:22.000 And that's, most girls, they're like, you know what, if it's a coffee day, I don't know.
01:05:25.000 But if it's going out, having fun on town...
01:05:27.000 They want to go.
01:05:28.000 What about a lunch day anyways?
01:05:30.000 We're just saying.
01:05:32.000 Okay, so the segment is going to be the last date here.
01:05:35.000 Well, sorry, your first date actually.
01:05:37.000 You decide where you want to take her.
01:05:38.000 Time, place, venue.
01:05:40.000 And you're going for the ride.
01:05:42.000 Are you ready?
01:05:43.000 Yeah, I'm ready.
01:05:44.000 First date, though?
01:05:45.000 That's the question?
01:05:46.000 First date?
01:05:46.000 First date?
01:05:47.000 You're going to tell us, everyone, the date, the place, the time, and then you're going to act it out in real time on that date with her.
01:05:57.000 Alright, alright.
01:05:58.000 And if you want to leave at any point, just hit the red button.
01:06:00.000 And vice versa.
01:06:02.000 Okay.
01:06:03.000 That's the acting part.
01:06:04.000 Yeah.
01:06:06.000 So imagine we're not here.
01:06:07.000 No, we're not here.
01:06:08.000 Okay, okay.
01:06:09.000 It's midnight in black.
01:06:10.000 So I'll say, look...
01:06:13.000 All right.
01:06:14.000 All right.
01:06:17.000 Don't ignore that one.
01:06:20.000 So let's say, all right, it's about seven o'clock.
01:06:25.000 We done met up.
01:06:26.000 Slink in a row.
01:06:27.000 Yo, I'm in the drop top.
01:06:33.000 I ain't trying to get copyrighted right now, but anyway.
01:06:38.000 So yeah, it's about 7 o'clock.
01:06:39.000 We're in Lincoln Road, right?
01:06:41.000 We're getting some ice cream.
01:06:42.000 Something simple is the first date.
01:06:43.000 Because the conversation is what's important.
01:06:46.000 You feel me?
01:06:47.000 Then out of nowhere, pow!
01:06:49.000 Pull up that Sephora, you feel me?
01:06:53.000 Unlimited credit, you heard me?
01:06:56.000 I said, unlimited budget, you can have that.
01:06:59.000 Whatever it is, you want.
01:07:01.000 Right, right, right.
01:07:03.000 And then at the end of the day, We put both our emails, right?
01:07:08.000 So she could get that free gift on my birthday.
01:07:10.000 What's up?
01:07:20.000 Just for you, baby.
01:07:21.000 Just for you.
01:07:22.000 Just for you.
01:07:23.000 Period.
01:07:24.000 I'm kissing on the first day.
01:07:29.000 That's cause we can't kiss.
01:07:30.000 I'm trying to get that kiss right there.
01:07:32.000 That's a smart man.
01:07:34.000 That's a smart man right there.
01:07:37.000 He knows what he's doing.
01:07:41.000 That email was a good tip, brother.
01:07:47.000 I got a bunch of those.
01:07:53.000 We gotta win the prize!
01:07:56.000 Do we even need his date right now?
01:07:58.000 Not really.
01:07:59.000 I can laugh my way into something.
01:08:02.000 Save some girls for the rest of us, man!
01:08:06.000 Listen, man, that was impressive.
01:08:10.000 Appreciate y'all.
01:08:11.000 I'm just feeding off the energy, that's all.
01:08:14.000 Oh my goodness.
01:08:15.000 That's hilarious.
01:08:17.000 That was real spontaneous because I just made it up right now.
01:08:19.000 We've got somebody commenting right now.
01:08:21.000 I think he finds you very amusing.
01:08:25.000 What do you say?
01:08:26.000 500 bucks!
01:08:28.000 Shout out to you, bro!
01:08:29.000 That boy wanna be heard!
01:08:30.000 There we go!
01:08:31.000 Shout out to you, man!
01:08:34.000 Lincoln on ranted from Rumble and says, I'll say it right now.
01:08:38.000 Boy is a FK an idiot.
01:08:41.000 If you ain't never had a girl, just say that, my boy.
01:08:47.000 You didn't see her reaction when I said the email?
01:08:50.000 Forget the unlimited budget.
01:08:52.000 That was just to get her in the Sephora.
01:08:55.000 When I got her in the Sephora, I said, put my email.
01:08:57.000 She was down.
01:08:58.000 You tripping.
01:08:59.000 You paid $400 just to look stupid on the comments.
01:09:02.000 Like, come on, man.
01:09:03.000 She's smiling at the end of the day.
01:09:04.000 That's all I'm saying.
01:09:06.000 It's definitely smooth.
01:09:07.000 Okay.
01:09:08.000 Honestly, MK, I think this is good.
01:09:10.000 I like it.
01:09:11.000 I like it.
01:09:12.000 How are you feeling, Crystal?
01:09:13.000 I love it.
01:09:14.000 He's so cute.
01:09:16.000 Is that a French match?
01:09:19.000 Is that a French match?
01:09:22.000 Listen, we're good for the audience here because this is very good what you did, Jose.
01:09:28.000 But before we get to that point, Crystal, could you tell me From your experience, just this one interaction right here.
01:09:36.000 What'd you get from it?
01:09:37.000 And is it good?
01:09:39.000 Yeah, I think he really paid attention to detail.
01:09:41.000 I love makeup.
01:09:43.000 So, suggesting Sephora on the first date was a really good play.
01:09:47.000 I love men who pay attention to detail.
01:09:49.000 And yeah, he's super cute.
01:09:50.000 He's super sweet.
01:09:51.000 I love it.
01:09:52.000 It's a 10 in my book.
01:09:54.000 Wait, wait, wait.
01:09:56.000 I just have one question.
01:09:58.000 Don't hit that buzzer, though.
01:09:59.000 No, no.
01:10:00.000 I'm not going to hit the monster, but I have one question.
01:10:03.000 Do you believe in Jesus?
01:10:05.000 Of course.
01:10:06.000 Of course.
01:10:07.000 I just went to a couple churches.
01:10:09.000 I'm looking for them.
01:10:10.000 I believe them.
01:10:11.000 I believe them.
01:10:13.000 Work to the silk god himself, you know?
01:10:15.000 I like that.
01:10:16.000 I love that.
01:10:17.000 Hey, yo, Jose, man, thanks again for donating to the non-profit organization.
01:10:20.000 Thank you, Jose.
01:10:21.000 That's what I do.
01:10:22.000 I'm mad of honor.
01:10:23.000 That's what I do, man.
01:10:25.000 Shout out to you, bro.
01:10:25.000 God, you feel me?
01:10:27.000 Church of Christ, that's what I'm saying.
01:10:29.000 Amen.
01:10:29.000 Jesus.
01:10:31.000 Okay, thank you for that.
01:10:32.000 That was great.
01:10:33.000 You guys can head out.
01:10:34.000 Awesome.
01:10:35.000 That's a fresh match, man.
01:10:36.000 That's a fresh match.
01:10:37.000 I loved it.
01:10:39.000 That was the freshest match I've ever seen, bro.
01:10:41.000 Yeah.
01:10:41.000 So, yeah, that boy killed it.
01:10:43.000 No, I'm serious, man.
01:10:43.000 I want to say the same thing.
01:10:44.000 That boy killed it.
01:10:45.000 Like, take out your notes.
01:10:46.000 Like, he's doing really well.
01:10:48.000 Hey, I'll tell you this, man.
01:10:49.000 They go to church on...
01:10:50.000 Sorry, they go to party on Saturday, go to church on Sunday.
01:10:52.000 Anyway.
01:10:53.000 So, listen.
01:10:53.000 Listen.
01:10:55.000 She looked like she's already got pregnant.
01:10:57.000 What was that interaction, you think, just now?
01:11:00.000 Was that even in most guys' wheelhouse to, like, do that, what he just did?
01:11:04.000 Well, first of all, wait, you think you'd legitimately do the whole credit card thing and support?
01:11:08.000 No, no, no.
01:11:08.000 I'm just saying, him even just saying that in his, like, funny demeanor won her over.
01:11:13.000 Oh, 100%.
01:11:15.000 Like, he was already, and it was passed from the first interaction.
01:11:18.000 Locked and loaded.
01:11:19.000 Like, I mean, do you see how much she was smiling?
01:11:21.000 You know, and he read off that.
01:11:23.000 Imagine if she was a wall.
01:11:25.000 Yes.
01:11:25.000 I don't think he would have taken it the same way.
01:11:26.000 Yes.
01:11:27.000 But he was going with her energy.
01:11:28.000 Energy between the two of them, fire.
01:11:30.000 So see, here's something that people don't understand about dating as well.
01:11:33.000 When it comes to men and women and having that actual desire and attraction, you say certain things to get a reaction.
01:11:43.000 When a reaction is given from that individual to you and you respond to that in a certain way, it kind of grows that attraction even further.
01:11:51.000 So...
01:11:52.000 That being said, him saying the shopping and the email stuff was funny, but her hearing that made her in the zone.
01:12:02.000 Her hearing that was like, wow, this guy's like, got money on point.
01:12:05.000 He's funny.
01:12:06.000 He's charming.
01:12:06.000 I'm down for it.
01:12:07.000 And she even said, I don't kiss on the first date, but she'll do what?
01:12:12.000 Kiss him.
01:12:12.000 Which tells me, again, as we know on the show, women make rules for guys that they find attractive and alpha, so to speak.
01:12:19.000 Mm-hmm.
01:12:19.000 Screw the rules.
01:12:20.000 You make your own rules between the people.
01:12:22.000 How can I apply a rule with this guy?
01:12:25.000 It's going to be a different rule with that guy.
01:12:26.000 But also, we talked about her comfort level, but with that said, trust goes up.
01:12:32.000 She feels safe with him.
01:12:34.000 She was laughing multiple times.
01:12:36.000 Oh, I feel so safe.
01:12:37.000 I'm willing to break one of my own rules.
01:12:39.000 And I have a feeling that she makes more than him, but his confidence is on point.
01:12:45.000 She doesn't need like she's out.
01:12:47.000 You're like...
01:12:48.000 But hold on.
01:12:49.000 MK, we had a couple last time.
01:12:53.000 Can you give us an update on the couple?
01:12:54.000 The girl in the red.
01:12:55.000 I forgot her name.
01:12:56.000 Yeah.
01:12:56.000 Nexus.
01:12:57.000 Nexus.
01:12:57.000 And then the guy.
01:12:58.000 What's his name again?
01:13:00.000 Demarius.
01:13:04.000 Thank you.
01:13:04.000 Thank you.
01:13:04.000 Darius.
01:13:05.000 And Nexus.
01:13:06.000 The black guy and the Venezuelan girl.
01:13:08.000 Oh.
01:13:08.000 Yeah.
01:13:09.000 Yeah.
01:13:10.000 They went out on a date after last week's episode.
01:13:13.000 And that's not the only couple that has gone on a date outside of Fresh and Fit.
01:13:20.000 No, there's been another couple the previous week that went out drinks and a show.
01:13:27.000 Yeah, so no, we'll be doing, at some point, guys, we'll be doing a show on the update of the couples who are out here.
01:13:32.000 We're in the reunion of people that have been on the show that are dating currently or dating in the past.
01:13:37.000 But this is a good episode.
01:13:38.000 This is great.
01:13:38.000 This is awesome.
01:13:39.000 And people, look, chat, I understand, you know, you might not like the format of this show, but this is not for you if you don't like it.
01:13:45.000 This is for people that want to find love, understand dating dynamics, and if you don't get it, it's fine.
01:13:50.000 Maybe watch a late night show with the girls that want you to get roasted.
01:13:53.000 But it's not a kind of show.
01:13:54.000 This is more for you to learn from, interactions, see in real time where people actually operate, and also understand that life is not about black and white.
01:14:00.000 There's some great areas here in between.
01:14:02.000 You need to learn as a man and a woman.
01:14:04.000 Amen.
01:14:05.000 Amen.
01:14:05.000 No, and I will say, yeah, this is for the person who wants to up their game.
01:14:08.000 If you're for the person and you're not getting on dates, there's a reason why.
01:14:11.000 Tune into this show, you're going to learn something.
01:14:13.000 And you want to have both perspectives, man and woman.
01:14:15.000 You got some chats here?
01:14:16.000 Yes, we do.
01:14:17.000 Cool.
01:14:18.000 Direct Myron says, niggas that complain about $17 shouldn't even be in the chat talking shit.
01:14:24.000 Laugh my ass off.
01:14:25.000 Like, bruh, you got bigger problems if $17 is too much.
01:14:28.000 I agree.
01:14:29.000 Granted, I want to say this for myself as well and for the chat.
01:14:32.000 If you don't want to pay, bro, I understand completely.
01:14:34.000 It is fine.
01:14:35.000 You don't have to.
01:14:36.000 But if you support us, you support Rumble, you support other creators in the space that do this type of content, I understand it helps us go a long way.
01:14:43.000 And yes, the money you donate to this actual local Castle Club goes a long way helping us do events and give you guys back as well.
01:14:50.000 And we're doing a giveaway as well after this show.
01:14:53.000 $500 to five people in Castle Club only.
01:14:57.000 Chris A. King says...
01:14:59.000 Whatever happened to the part two with all the tall, sexy, luscious, 1.6 shoulder waist to ratio, European man, I mean, Menno Henselman, it turned into a credit card episode.
01:15:10.000 Oh, so he wants to know about the episode with Menno.
01:15:13.000 So we're doing that collab again, part two.
01:15:16.000 Not yet, of course, because he's traveling and stuff like that, but once he's down and he's more concrete, we'll do that for sure for you guys.
01:15:21.000 We got you.
01:15:23.000 977 says simp card.
01:15:25.000 What?
01:15:30.000 Okay, so, hold on.
01:15:32.000 Hold on, hold on.
01:15:33.000 My switch.
01:15:33.000 Real quick.
01:15:34.000 When it comes to being a simp, people misunderstand what that actually means.
01:15:40.000 When you're out here dating in the real world, you might understand what that actually means, okay?
01:15:44.000 I'll just say that part.
01:15:45.000 Go ahead.
01:15:47.000 Oh, I mean, we're about to end, though.
01:15:53.000 Catcho says, just on Castle Club, shout out to you.
01:15:57.000 WFNF, can't wait for meetups and interact with the community.
01:16:00.000 Yeah, oh, guys, by the way, we're doing free meetups in the community there as well, but we're doing some actual big ones with some celebrities coming into town, but you're only going to see them in Castle Club, not on the actual stream, because they can't be, you know, on the stream because, you know, sponsors a lot of stuff, but it's fine.
01:16:16.000 What's next?
01:16:19.000 Mighty77 says, this guy needs this shirt.
01:16:22.000 Ah, man.
01:16:24.000 Which guy?
01:16:25.000 I think he means...
01:16:26.000 Jose's a nice guy, though.
01:16:28.000 Yeah, man.
01:16:29.000 Yeah, I don't know.
01:16:30.000 I think I'm a little jealous of his game.
01:16:32.000 He means either Eddie or Jose.
01:16:33.000 I think he meant me, Eddie.
01:16:34.000 Maybe.
01:16:35.000 Question for the lady.
01:16:37.000 How are you still single?
01:16:38.000 I think the 31-year-old.
01:16:40.000 Oh, yeah.
01:16:40.000 That's what I asked earlier, right?
01:16:41.000 Yeah.
01:16:42.000 Daydream says, Zesty Boy definitely played both sides of the field.
01:16:45.000 Oh, I think his hand movements were kind of like out there.
01:16:48.000 That's probably what he's talking about.
01:16:50.000 I mean, that boy got some swag, man.
01:16:52.000 Yeah, man.
01:16:53.000 He says, I should have seen this coming.
01:16:56.000 Yo, cat lady!
01:16:57.000 I think he meant the girl.
01:16:58.000 Yeah.
01:16:59.000 Broke is complaining about the paywall.
01:17:01.000 Yo, lower your fucking voice.
01:17:03.000 Yeah, man.
01:17:03.000 I mean...
01:17:03.000 Yeah, look at the whole thing.
01:17:05.000 Teller says, so did you want to deposit the whole three dollars?
01:17:08.000 Me.
01:17:09.000 Your effing voice, bro.
01:17:13.000 It's showtime.
01:17:14.000 I was OG Castle Club member.
01:17:16.000 I reached out with a discount.
01:17:18.000 Will I be able to get into the sweepstakes?
01:17:19.000 Yes, you can, brother.
01:17:21.000 Just hit up Mo, because Mo would know for sure.
01:17:23.000 Yeah.
01:17:24.000 And I think I remember seeing you in the chat as well, so shout out to you.
01:17:27.000 Joshua Dunn again says, deleted Netflix sub to join Castle Club.
01:17:32.000 WFNF, L-SYOPs, L-Liberals, W-Free Speech.
01:17:35.000 Shout out to you, bro.
01:17:37.000 Hold on, bro, real quick.
01:17:38.000 Just so you guys understand, we are not Netflix.
01:17:41.000 We're not Hulu.
01:17:42.000 We're not a platform that is only videos.
01:17:45.000 We're doing actual Zoom calls, question and answer.
01:17:48.000 We're bringing in guests.
01:17:49.000 We're doing meetups.
01:17:50.000 We're doing brotherhood.
01:17:51.000 We're doing things that are not...
01:17:52.000 You can't pay for that really anywhere else.
01:17:54.000 So it's not the same thing as a subscription-based service, okay?
01:17:58.000 It's actually going to help you move forward in life, in real life, and as well online.
01:18:03.000 So it's way more than just a sub to Netflix.
01:18:06.000 Okay.
01:18:08.000 Damien says, just join at these broke people.
01:18:12.000 I've done awesome in crypto and credit card points since finding you exactly a year ago.
01:18:17.000 Thank you.
01:18:17.000 Mo, how did we join this Discord?
01:18:19.000 Don't have Instagram to DM you.
01:18:21.000 If you have a Discord account, you can find me on Discord as well.
01:18:24.000 So just DM me if you're on the free Discord.
01:18:26.000 What is it?
01:18:27.000 As BigMo underscore B-I-T-W. Okay.
01:18:35.000 Let's do it.
01:18:37.000 We have Jus.
01:18:39.000 Haters would prefer to support Korn, OnlyFans, behind the paywall, but not support people that help us thrive.
01:18:48.000 I mean, bro, that is the most...
01:18:50.000 Craziest thing I've seen as well.
01:18:52.000 And it's funny, they'll donate and support those girls after the show, but talk about supporting us and you're like, oh, it's too much.
01:18:59.000 Okay, buddy, you got it.
01:19:00.000 We have here, Joseph Cenarius says, WFNF guys, the world needs people helping men to stop being Honestly, bro, I would put it into actually getting more skills in your endeavor.
01:19:27.000 Or, for example, I'd invest into maybe, if you can, real estate.
01:19:31.000 So, I mean, it's a lower amount, but build up a little bit more and get to real estate as well.
01:19:36.000 Anymore?
01:19:39.000 SauceGodFPS says, please put this segment behind a paywall.
01:19:42.000 We don't want it.
01:19:43.000 Listen, brother.
01:19:44.000 It's going to be free for people to learn.
01:19:46.000 If you don't like it, don't watch it.
01:19:47.000 It's simple.
01:19:48.000 There's a lot of gems in here, though.
01:19:49.000 A bunch of gems.
01:19:50.000 But again, if you're paying attention, you'll find it.
01:19:53.000 If not, it's not for you.
01:19:55.000 But in any case, Mary-Kate, where can they find you?
01:19:58.000 What's new for you?
01:19:58.000 And let's close out.
01:20:00.000 Yeah, guys, all the single men out there, you need to come this Friday.
01:20:04.000 You're invited to Successful Singles.
01:20:06.000 So if you're looking for love, you're serious about it, you want to get behind, I mean, get away from the apps and actually meet people in real time, then come this Friday, mkmatchmaking.com.
01:20:14.000 You can purchase your tickets.
01:20:16.000 Men right now are half off.
01:20:17.000 That's right, men.
01:20:18.000 It's in your favor because there are a lot more ladies coming, okay?
01:20:20.000 Okay.
01:20:21.000 There you go.
01:20:22.000 Yeah, come on.
01:20:23.000 It's a deal you cannot pass up.
01:20:25.000 MKMatchmaking TikTok, MKMatchmaking YouTube, MKMatchmaking Instagram, and get your best practical dating and relationship tips.
01:20:32.000 Link down below.
01:20:33.000 And I want to thank the team as well.
01:20:35.000 Shout out to Icy, MK herself, for bringing the girls.
01:20:37.000 Icy, come on, real quick.
01:20:38.000 Yeah!
01:20:39.000 Get here, girl.
01:20:40.000 Icy!
01:20:42.000 She's putting a lot into the podcast as well.
01:20:44.000 She recommended The Buttons, which I saw in an actual episode.
01:20:47.000 Yes!
01:20:47.000 Shout out to her with The Buttons.
01:20:48.000 Good job on that.
01:20:50.000 And yeah, man, this is a great show.
01:20:52.000 I think people need to understand that it can't always be bad talk about certain things.
01:20:57.000 It needs to be a positive, good light sometimes.
01:21:00.000 And you know what?
01:21:00.000 A change of pace.
01:21:01.000 Of course.
01:21:02.000 And not even that, you guys, like, genuinely, I'm gonna say this.
01:21:05.000 I have over 44 ideas that me and the Discord done came over for Castle Club.
01:21:10.000 So, Castle Club, get ready, because we got some shit for you guys.
01:21:13.000 Let's go!
01:21:18.000 We've been doing this for three years, Fresh.
01:21:20.000 The After Hours with Myron and all of that.
01:21:22.000 It's time to change it up.
01:21:24.000 Let's have some fun.
01:21:25.000 I agree.
01:21:25.000 You know what I mean?
01:21:26.000 This is light.
01:21:27.000 By the way, I love how y'all love my cousin.
01:21:29.000 So shout out to Jose.
01:21:31.000 That's what I'm saying.
01:21:32.000 That's what I'm saying.
01:21:33.000 Down the wall.
01:21:35.000 That's what I'm saying.
01:21:36.000 There you go.
01:21:37.000 That's why.
01:21:37.000 We're out of the family.
01:21:38.000 Right?
01:21:39.000 Nah, let me stop.
01:21:40.000 And shout out to her new teeth, by the way.
01:21:42.000 Thank you, daddy.
01:21:43.000 So yeah, enjoy the show, you guys.
01:21:47.000 We're really putting in a lot of work behind this.
01:21:49.000 I'm hoping to recruit.
01:21:50.000 Mary Kay's doing a very great job.
01:21:52.000 And, you know, enjoy the show, you guys.
01:21:55.000 Alright guys, so we have Adrian Ross and Charleston White later tonight on After Hours, and we'll see you guys there.
01:22:00.000 But guys, don't forget, Castle Club membership, it ends literally tomorrow morning.
01:22:05.000 $17 is the price right now.
01:22:07.000 It's going to go to $35.
01:22:08.000 Get it now while you still can.
01:22:09.000 It's a low price, and you're locked in for that for life.
01:22:11.000 But I understand, once it goes up guys, you see the value, I'll be sorry that you didn't sign up sooner.
01:22:16.000 I'm telling you guys.
01:22:17.000 Alright, later guys.
01:22:18.000 Peace!