Fresh&Fit After Hours w- YBN Nahmir
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2 hours and 55 minutes
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190.94121
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349
Summary
In this episode of the Fresh Fit Podcast, we have a special guest, YBN Ammar and his girlfriend, Olivia, join us to talk all things Fresh Fit. We talk about how they met, what they do for a living, their relationship status, and what they are up to now in their 20 s. We also get to know a little bit about YBN and Olivia and talk about their relationship and how they got into the fitness industry. We hope you enjoy this episode and stay tuned next week for a new episode of Fresh Fit with the Merch Gang! Fresh Fit is a hip-hop and comedy podcast based in Fort Lauderdale, Florida. Produced and Hosted by Chacho and Chris. If you like what you hear, please HIT SUBSCRIBE and leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcasts and other social media platforms! We appreciate all the support we get from you guys. Thank you so much for all the love, support, support and support! Peace, Love, Blessings, EJ & Cheers, Cheers! - The Fresh Fit Crew. - Chris and Chacho & Chacho xoxo - Fresh Fit Team and Cheers - EJ and EJ - Cheers. EJ, Ej & EJ - Ej & Ej, Thank you Ej and Ej! - Ej. Love, Chacho, - Chacho + EJ ( ) Cheers:) , EJ: EJEJ:) Ej: Ej ( ) EJYB ( ( ) ( ) & CHEJ ( ) ( ( , ) (Chacho:) ( ) AND EJV ( ) - (EJ & EK ( ) , EjY ( ) Thank you, Cheez ( ) . (YBN AMBOW ( ) ! (CHEER ( ) :) (THANK YOU, CHEK ( ), EJ AND CHEERIE ( ) and CHEERS ( ) ? ( ), AND YBN ( )( ) & CHEED ( )!! ) & CHOOT ( ) !! . , CHECK OUT THE PODCAST! (CRYSTO ( )!!! ( ) ... ) ,
Transcript
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After our edition, we're joined with a bunch of lovely ladies and YB in the mirror.
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After our transition, man, we join a boy with a bunch of little ladies in YBN Amir.
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As you guys know, that is the home base for us.
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So, if we ever get canceled, you know exactly where to find us because we make some controversial content every now and then.
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Man, this show was definitely hard to pull off with the girls, man.
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These girls will be flaking, rescheduling, showing up late as fuck and shit.
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We got new shows, new hours next week, by the way.
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Ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course.
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Alright, we're just gonna say we're single because...
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Listen, I don't want to say that because there's multiple people.
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I have a clothing business and a new YouTube channel, so tune in.
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Hey guys, I wake up in the morning, I breathe, I eat, I side bows, I go to the beach.
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Well, when I go to events and when I do shit, like lit shit, I don't really do like a day in my life, but I do like...
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Like when I go out to events, when I travel, have vacations, a lot of shit is lit in Miami, so I'll record in Miami.
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No, uh, okay, I think I'm, okay, did you used to date a guy that like worked at a box place or something like that?
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Alright, Puerto Rican, and what's the other one?
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So, my Instagram name is Stacked Astoria, which is an anagram of my full name.
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Honestly, I'm from all over, but I spent like half my life in California and half in New Hampshire, but I'm Jamaican.
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I'm not even going to say it because I don't want them people seeing me, but I'll just say Concord.
00:13:09.000
And then the other part you said is, what part?
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Well, you're pursuing your bachelor's degree, I'm assuming?
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And she's been here before, too, like two years ago.
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I grew up in Boulder, but most recently lived in Denver before I moved to Miami.
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Do you live here in Miami now or are you just visiting?
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I have my associate's degree, but I left because I wanted to be an esthetician.
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Okay, it's different because the Spanish that I learned was in Colorado, which is mostly Mexican Spanish, so it is a little bit different than Latin American Spanish.
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Yeah, it's very different than Latin American Spanish.
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It's like when they write books and everything, they typically do it in Mexican Spanish, but that's fine.
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Here, right now I'm going to school, but over there I always went to school and to a bilingual school.
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Oh, so you're here on an F1 visa probably, right?
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No, because my dad is Cuban, so because we're Cubans, they give us papers.
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No, we moved, the whole family moved together here like three years ago, so whenever we move, yeah, we apply at the same time.
00:17:16.000
Yeah, yeah, yeah, before the wet foot, dry foot thing.
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Yeah, I mean, it's like, we've been together for, like, a couple months.
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And you're from the UK? I am from the UK. What part?
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I would probably take, on a good day, five hours.
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There's a little stick down the bottom of England.
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If you look at the island, there's this little stick down the bottom.
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Well, she don't got to worry about getting stabbed.
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I'm not the only fucking person in this world that thought that.
00:20:08.000
It's so different from the U.S. We're so 100% into this shit.
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I've been saying it for years that London sucks, man.
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The most overrated city right next to New York City.
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So you would be the functional equivalent of a country person in the UK. With brains, yeah.
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I am a TMS therapist, transcranial magnetic stimulation therapist.
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I provide a specialized treatment for depression and anxiety, and I'm also a therapist and coach.
00:21:03.000
Did you get it in the UK or did you come to the United States to study?
00:21:17.000
Yeah, because there would be no point for her to get a degree here.
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So you're single now, or divorced in this case?
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I am in a very healthy relationship, but it's not the Cuban boy.
00:21:46.000
He's the most amazing human I've ever had in my life, but we've been about a year official for about seven months, but genuinely both in amazing places in life.
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No, I'm very spiritual and I believe in forgiveness and love and happiness.
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We were very opposing on so many different things that it wasn't working out.
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We went our separate ways, but we stayed friends.
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We're still really good friends to this day, and that's now how I met my current boyfriend, and my ex-husband was actually the one.
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I was like, that's not the right way to go about that.
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I don't know if you guys are familiar with Cava Bars.
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It's a plant from the Indonesian islands, the South Pacific islands.
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It's an alternative for alcohol, marijuana, all of it.
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It doesn't penetrate your blood-brain barrier, which is really cool.
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So you can sit and get a little buzz without doing anything outside of your brain.
00:24:11.000
Okay, so it gets you drunk without, I guess, the negative effects?
00:24:20.000
But no, because alcohol penetrates your blood-brain barrier.
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Neither of them penetrate your blood-brain barrier.
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Imagine a small penis that can't penetrate and a big one.
00:25:30.000
I have a clothing line and I also sell hair extensions.
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I feel like the industry is very saturated in men.
00:25:42.000
And it's like, I feel like women would be probably a little bit more comfortable if it's a woman running it, you know?
00:25:50.000
Because it's true, like, a lot of the OnlyFans people that you see promoting or that are managing are men.
00:25:54.000
So you have these girls that are being around men being videotaped all the time.
00:25:58.000
You're probably going to be more comfortable around a lady.
00:26:03.000
Yeah, I would be more comfortable around a lady.
00:26:06.000
You would do more, like, for your platform around a lady than you would around a man?
00:26:11.000
Yeah, but who do you think you'd make more money with?
00:26:41.000
I don't put my relationship on, like, you feel me?
00:26:46.000
No, he's actually, he's actually not from here.
00:27:01.000
Yeah, but you could be Muslim and be white, too.
00:27:59.000
But, I mean, he's Greek citizen, but Bangladeshi are origin.
00:28:26.000
They're very sweet people, and they take care of business, for sure.
00:28:53.000
I tried, but it's just the water that be getting me.
00:29:01.000
I love that he does that because it shows his devotion to his culture.
00:29:08.000
Like, they don't eat, don't drink, can't, like, um, they can't do shit.
00:29:48.000
I'm originally from New York, Buffalo, upstate girl.
00:29:53.000
I work in fashion marketing for Kate Spade, and my side hustle is like kind of a dominatrix, but I'm like getting out of that lifestyle.
00:30:02.000
I was in it for too long, so I'm kind of like weaning into like, you know, more professional reputation and giving myself that professional credibility than rather just like in like the dark lifestyle.
00:30:19.000
Beating a man for money, caging them up, dressing them as a woman, taking them to a sex club in a collar or a leash.
00:31:09.000
I dressed a girl up as a woman for $4,500, took him to a sex club with me with a collar and leash, and then afterwards he wanted me to drive his car to an empty, snowy parking lot, leave him there with zip ties behind his hand, and drive his car to his house.
00:31:23.000
So I did that, Ubered home, drove his car, left him in an empty parking lot, drove to his house, Ubered home.
00:31:33.000
You said dressed up a girl, so it was a guy you dressed up.
00:31:51.000
I bought my dream car, moved to Miami at 24 by myself.
00:31:56.000
And then when I moved here, I started working for Kate Spade to get more into a professional credibility and reputation for myself instead of just being in like the dark dominatrix.
00:32:12.000
They're not going to be worried about that, but you're not going to find, oh, I was a dominatrix on my background check.
00:32:25.000
I specialize in travel journalism and the other one's human services.
00:32:32.000
Why not do social work instead of being in a job?
00:32:38.000
Yeah, one of them is just a salary-paying job and the other one's a side hustle, like I said.
00:32:43.000
So, like, any other girl would have, like, a normal...
00:33:06.000
He knew I was a dom, but he wasn't into that type of thing.
00:33:09.000
He just knew I did it for like a job and a lifestyle.
00:33:19.000
He would like, yeah, some of the guys, like, say I like have like a new session and this is a new client and I go to his house, I'd have my boyfriend and I'd like lie and be like, you know, my security guard is right here.
00:33:28.000
If you try anything crazy, they see my big black scary boyfriend, they'd be like, oh no mistress, I don't, I don't want to hurt you.
00:33:41.000
We're still good friends, but, you know, I'm single now, 10 months.
00:34:24.000
My dad, he's Arabic, he's Egyptian, and my mom is Irish and white.
00:35:07.000
But, um, I am a rapper from Birmingham, Alabama.
00:35:16.000
Like, a lot of people might not know me that's on this stream, but...
00:36:09.000
Do you have a question that you want to hit first?
00:36:11.000
If you have a question for the girls, let us know.
00:36:14.000
Obviously, the special guest always gives the guest first round of refusal if you want to ask the chicks or anything.
00:36:21.000
Yo, Myron, can you please try and get Gary Brekka on the pod?
00:36:25.000
He was on Rogan two weeks ago and Milk Boy's pod.
00:36:36.000
The tech boy goes, Ladies, earlier the fellas discussed first impressions such as hygiene and game on a first date.
00:36:49.000
What has to happen or go well for a guy to lay at the Smackdown at Bedmania?
00:36:59.000
On a first date, for a guy to smash, what do you need to happen on that date?
00:37:21.000
I'd want us to spend, like, the whole night together.
00:37:23.000
Not spend the night, but, like, say we're hanging.
00:37:29.000
I don't play that into my day-to-day lifestyle.
00:37:33.000
Maybe I'd probably hang out for him, say, from like 7 o'clock at night until it'll be 3 o'clock in the morning.
00:37:39.000
From that 7 o'clock to 1 o'clock, the vibes will be immaculate.
00:37:42.000
Going on a date, going back to his house or my house for a nightcap, or maybe a second date to a movie.
00:37:48.000
You know, everything feeling right, wine going good, maybe a little weed.
00:37:58.000
So you want multiple experiences that are vibeful, fun, and...
00:38:14.000
I find it disrespectful to have sex with somebody on the first date.
00:38:30.000
Like, if you think, like, you know, I'm pretty.
00:38:34.000
But, like, a lot of people think just because I'm pretty, like, I'm either shallow or I don't think a lot.
00:38:38.000
Like, I just don't disrespect myself like that.
00:38:40.000
I grew up with all boys, so, like, my brothers always tell me don't play that shit.
00:38:44.000
So you're telling me you never had a one-night stand before in your life?
00:38:52.000
But even, like, if I get older, I wouldn't do that.
00:38:55.000
No, because you can get an STD from a one-night stand.
00:39:01.000
Like, people just be having sex to have sex to fill boys.
00:39:08.000
You know, before you have sex with someone, you should always get their paperwork.
00:39:14.000
Like, it's just, when you have it on the first night, first of all, your standards, that shows that you don't have no standards.
00:39:29.000
But just for me and my standards, I wouldn't do that.
00:39:34.000
But let's say in a world of dreams, let's say it was going to be possible for me.
00:39:38.000
What do you need to have to happen in that case?
00:39:41.000
I can't even think about it because it just wouldn't happen.
00:39:49.000
Like I said, I grew up around all boys, so my brother...
00:39:51.000
So you've never hooked up with a guy after first meeting him?
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Like, my brothers would beat the shit out of me.
00:40:11.000
Like, even if you could be the fucking most famous person and had the most money, I don't give a fuck about none of that shit.
00:40:41.000
If I feel the need that I want to have a one-night stand...
00:40:48.000
The question is simply, what would it take to get there?
00:40:55.000
I do agree with her as far as it having to be the vibe.
00:40:59.000
Like, I'm not just gonna walk in there and pick any guy.
00:41:10.000
I'm not gonna sit here and try to hold it back.
00:41:44.000
As far as one night stand, you have to have confidence.
00:41:46.000
You have to walk up to me and say yes, bitch, tonight.
00:41:55.000
That ain't nothing that I'm going to be like, okay, this is something that's for my future.
00:41:59.000
But if a guy comes up to me straight up and is like, we want to go fuck right now and they give you some details, exceptions.
00:42:05.000
Well, earlier you said that you were in control.
00:42:07.000
I guess, wouldn't that mean that the guy needs to be in control then, at that point?
00:42:18.000
When it comes to everything else in my life, I guess I like to be in control.
00:42:23.000
When it comes to one-night stands, I like to control who I take him.
00:43:29.000
So it was kind of a little thing where I didn't want to disrespect my ex-husband.
00:43:33.000
He didn't want to disrespect his friend and I didn't want to disrespect either of them and my ex-husband was obviously...
00:43:44.000
So there was a lot that it was a little different, which made it better for our relationship because that buildup of respect between my ex-husband, between me, between my current partner, months of respect.
00:44:16.000
That doesn't mean, dick, if you can actually be someone...
00:44:23.000
He can be ugly and confident, and you'll be okay with it, then.
00:44:35.000
You can still find someone handsome that does his due diligence as a man.
00:44:43.000
I'm just saying, because you said, oh, I could do an ugly thoroughbred.
00:44:54.000
Then, like, outside it'll make you look even better.
00:44:57.000
Knowing that, like, you're a good person on the inside.
00:45:01.000
I make a lot of good money myself, so I'd like for my man to do too.
00:45:09.000
I don't know, because I would take care of my nigga if it came down.
00:45:35.000
Honestly, I just like to listen to your guys' responses because...
00:45:41.000
No, I just want to let you guys talk for a little bit.
00:45:44.000
But you're going to answer the questions too, though, right?
00:45:57.000
What would you need for a one-night stand to happen?
00:46:01.000
We don't got to say one-night stand, but what would you need?
00:46:52.000
So for me, lost my virginity was like at 19 years old.
00:46:56.000
There was a girl on the show that said she was a virgin.
00:47:04.000
So at this point, I don't believe none of y'all, man.
00:47:08.000
Was she solo or was she doing it with a partner?
00:47:17.000
Hypothetically, what would it take for you to maybe consider it then?
00:47:35.000
How long did the guy that you're with now, how long did he have to wait?
00:47:57.000
When I wait for a month, I ain't gonna lie, I've been in a relationship where I did that, I ain't gonna lie.
00:48:01.000
But I was still, I was still doing my thing before.
00:48:12.000
That was the one that I wanted to be with at the time.
00:48:16.000
Did you stop sleeping with these couples after you committed yourself to her?
00:48:21.000
Daily driver, but you still have the rentals and the side cars.
00:48:25.000
Every day, everything was smooth every single day, but that's the bitch that I wanted.
00:48:28.000
After you and her were an item, were you stopping intimate with other women?
00:48:33.000
Yeah, when you were committed to her, did you stop being intimate with other women?
00:48:39.000
Oh, you're talking about starting dating for real.
00:48:49.000
I need a bitch that's going to hold me down 100%.
00:48:51.000
And after I understood she held me down, when she held me down, I was like, fuck it.
00:48:58.000
So you have to see that she's writing for you first?
00:49:03.000
I'm going to look at you and be like, damn, she cold out.
00:49:08.000
But it's still the respect that I got for myself.
00:49:11.000
The words, like, I wouldn't put myself in a position like that.
00:49:15.000
Like, it depends on who you is and how your mindset go.
00:49:19.000
If you in a relationship and you feel like you need to fuck another bitch, you're going to fuck that bitch.
00:49:25.000
Everybody not gonna feel like, oh yeah, I gotta be loyal.
00:49:29.000
Everybody ain't loyal, so it's no- You don't wanna put salt on the wound.
00:49:47.000
I'm being honest, I'm a woman with needs, okay?
00:49:51.000
I'm not saying that like in every situation, you know, the vibes, the energy, everything is right.
00:49:57.000
Honestly, I'm very shy, so I kind of like to like ease into it, but sometimes the vibes, the energy is right.
00:50:05.000
You know, he's funny, he's confident, he knows who he is, and we're just like having a good time and...
00:50:19.000
If a guy can make me laugh, he's confident and the vibe is right.
00:50:26.000
Alright, could he be ugly and not have money then?
00:50:45.000
See, I love how women always love to leave that little fact out.
00:50:55.000
Sorry, I forgot to mention that's a really big asterisk.
00:51:21.000
But my one-night stance, I've turned into relationships.
00:51:29.000
Um, okay, so like the first one-night stand, um, honestly, I grew up like super strict Jamaican parents and stuff, and I felt like it was like the first guy who really saw me for me.
00:51:39.000
So, oh sorry, it was like the first guy that really saw me for me.
00:51:43.000
So we were together for like three years after a one-night stand, and...
00:51:46.000
Well, technically it's not a one-night stand, though.
00:51:49.000
Yeah, you smashed him the first time you met him, but it was a one-night stand.
00:51:58.000
That's why I specifically said, have you ever hooked up with a guy the first time you met him?
00:52:02.000
And then you guys could have continued on, it's fine.
00:52:07.000
But some of the girls here are fucking lying, which is fine.
00:52:13.000
I don't want to say what I really want to say, but I'm full of fucking shit, man.
00:52:44.000
So he was really sweet to me and he took care of me.
00:52:49.000
What environment did he create for you to do that?
00:52:59.000
I mean, he's only two years older than me, so it's not like we had much, but like, you know, I was in college and...
00:53:04.000
I was going to ask how old were you at the time?
00:53:35.000
I've never had a girl say, I look better than...
00:53:39.000
I'm talking to you because you're the only one saying anything having to do with my age and stuff.
00:54:04.000
You said earlier, he was only two years older than me, however...
00:54:19.000
Because from a biological sense, women typically tend to be attracted to men that are seven to ten years older than them.
00:54:23.000
So you knew, being with a guy that's only two years older than you, there's probably going to be some disadvantages that he's going to have when it comes to mating with you and being attractive.
00:54:32.000
But I find it interesting that you insulted us for the very thing that is actually an attractive trait in men.
00:54:47.000
Okay, because you know how like usually on the show that they be saying like, oh, men want older women.
00:54:55.000
Women want older men for like being established, money, all of that.
00:55:00.000
We don't really care about like their feelings and all of that, right?
00:55:06.000
It wasn't about like what he could do for me or any of that.
00:55:10.000
I understand that, but then you went ahead and you kind of qualified it by saying, hey, he was only two years older than me.
00:55:18.000
So basically, I can't expect him to have millions of dollars or buy me a Lambo or buy me Chanel or whatever.
00:55:29.000
Then you went ahead and said, I look better than you guys, and you try to put us in the same box as you as being old, as if that's an insult when we're men.
00:55:38.000
Okay, let me make it simple for you, because you don't understand what's going on here.
00:55:57.000
All of you need to be quiet for two seconds, okay?
00:56:00.000
I know you don't like to hear this, but the reality is your guy who's a female is heavily dependent upon your age.
00:56:07.000
Because from a biological sense, men want women that are fertile.
00:56:15.000
There's a reason why it's called Forever 21 and not Forever 41.
00:56:20.000
Taylor Swift's dumbass running around saying, I feel like I'm 22.
00:56:23.000
She said, I feel like I'm 42 for a fucking reason.
00:56:26.000
So though you guys don't want to accept this reality, the truth is your beauty is heavily contingent upon your age.
00:56:32.000
So, us, however, we don't have to deal with that because we get more attractive as we age because the things that make us attractive take time to acquire.
00:56:38.000
Status, resources, competence, confidence, that comes from age.
00:56:52.000
Whether it's between Jeff Bezos, the guy that runs the telephone company in Mexico.
00:57:19.000
Do you realize that you just used an extreme example to try to prove a generality you're correct?
00:57:29.000
The generality I'm trying to say is that people like who they like.
00:57:34.000
Sometimes it's not about color, whatever, right?
00:57:39.000
I made a biological statement that a woman's attractiveness is heavily contingent upon her age.
00:57:45.000
Let me take this extreme example of the CEO of Amazon Billionaire with this girl who's his age.
00:57:51.000
That proves my point that men don't care about age.
00:57:53.000
No, in general, men actually do care about age.
00:57:56.000
That shows that age and looks don't correlate because the woman is beautiful, she's older, and he still shows her.
00:58:12.000
That's irrelevant to my point that men in general prefer younger women.
00:58:15.000
Younger women tend to be more attractive for most men in general.
00:58:19.000
You don't know if Jeff Bezos is getting escorts on the side.
00:58:24.000
We gotta be your age, because I be like an older bitch.
00:58:51.000
You gotta change your opinion when you get older, bro.
00:58:53.000
That's the limit to where it's like 100% is real life.
00:58:57.000
But like, since I'm 24, like, I still be like...
00:59:23.000
Yeah, for smashing, but she's trying to say, like, oh, like, older women still, like, nah, man, like, well, fuck with y'all, but, like, we're not gonna take you guys seriously, like, if we have options of younger, hotter girls.
00:59:35.000
Again, going back to what I was saying, this whole started because you tried to compare us being in our 30s to you being in your 30s, and what I'm trying to say is that it's not the same at all.
00:59:45.000
I mean, it is different, but in this case, I look, me and you and him are around the same age, and I look significantly longer than both of y'all.
01:00:29.000
I guarantee we got less wrinkles than you, bro.
01:00:33.000
But you know, honestly, I can wipe off the makeup.
01:00:36.000
I actually have really good skin, so I'll do that.
01:00:55.000
I'll tell you this man, she's sweating right now.
01:00:58.000
I won't make her take the makeup off because I don't find it as an insult and if a girl says like you're old to it I'm like yeah like older men are attractive.
01:01:25.000
If you give me my photo, I'll show you a natural picture of me.
01:01:38.000
I want to take off my makeup, but I'm not taking the wig off.
01:01:59.000
I'm ugly, but my money made me handsome, bitch.
01:02:05.000
You ever heard the saying, you're not broke, you're not ugly, you're just broke?
01:02:38.000
That's how she met the ticket from the warehouse.
01:02:54.000
I said the energy, chemistry, attraction, it will all have to be there off the first date.
01:03:03.000
You gotta feel comfortable, especially for a Pisces.
01:03:08.000
What's the tangible answer you give them right now?
01:03:10.000
Because that's very, like, you know, in the air.
01:03:15.000
It just has to be based off of a person's energy, the chemistry that we have, and the attraction that I have towards them.
01:03:25.000
Everybody's been saying vibe, so I'm trying to explain it more.
01:03:29.000
But yes, the energy, the vibes, the chemistry, the attraction.
01:03:34.000
Guys, if you're not sure what vibe is, we did an episode earlier on things to do on a date.
01:03:41.000
Alright, and last but not least, what about you?
01:04:09.000
You gotta feel like a soulmate from the past life or some shit.
01:04:14.000
Like, we have to feel like we were supposed to be here.
01:04:17.000
And it's like, damn, this is supposed to happen.
01:04:36.000
Let's say we started off with dinner and then we could go to a movie.
01:04:42.000
The fact that we made it to that next date, you're most likely.
01:04:50.000
And if he's doing that just for me to put out, then I'm not going to.
01:04:59.000
I'm in control of my night, so I'm going to decide if I want to go on a second date with you.
01:05:08.000
It just happened by accident, just her being there.
01:05:18.000
I'm not saying I've slept with a lot of men, but I've gone on dates with a lot of men.
01:05:22.000
You date, you experience, you know what you like and you don't like.
01:05:33.000
No, it doesn't have to do with me taking me out multiple times.
01:05:38.000
Say Myron's a piece of shit and we go out all night and I still put out...
01:05:42.000
I'm not doing it because he took me out a whole bunch of nights.
01:05:44.000
Maybe I might still let him smash because he looks good or something like that.
01:05:49.000
But it doesn't have to do with him taking me out.
01:05:52.000
It depends on the characteristics, the vulnerability that I put in, the comfortability that I put in, and the capacity that I'm comfortable enough to want to do that with you.
01:06:03.000
I'm going to initiate if I want to do that with you.
01:06:05.000
I don't care about how many venues you take me to.
01:06:07.000
Your body, your choice, but I said all that as well.
01:06:14.000
Let me take her to this, this, and this, and she's going to put out.
01:06:22.000
You missed the whole point of that, but it's okay.
01:06:28.000
You missed the whole point of that, but it's okay.
01:06:56.000
These three or fours are already giving me a migraine.
01:06:59.000
Can't wait to see how many are disappointing their fathers.
01:07:14.000
Ladies, if you were on OnlyFans and wanted to have a family, how would you keep them safe from others exposing you to your family?
01:07:25.000
Can you get stuff removed off of the internet though?
01:07:36.000
I'll be seeing shit like that I don't want to see.
01:07:39.000
So, you said how I keep my family protected from seeing it?
01:07:48.000
So how would you figure this out for your family?
01:08:07.000
I mean, right now it's melanin, but sometimes I go.
01:08:10.000
So if someone said to your father, hey, do you know melanin?
01:08:28.000
No, but what do you do to prevent that from happening?
01:08:31.000
So I obviously wouldn't start my OnlyFans with melanin.
01:08:36.000
No, because I go by melanin on all platforms right now, literally.
01:08:39.000
So if I was to go in that route of sex worker, it would definitely be nothing.
01:09:06.000
Yeah, like she said, you could just use other names, be discreet, as private as you could be with it.
01:09:15.000
Yeah, but if you're discreet, like, not everybody knows everything you're doing.
01:09:34.000
Like, I have no problem with doing it, but personally, I want to do it.
01:09:39.000
I condone anyone making their own decisions, but me personally, like, that's a little bit too much for me.
01:09:48.000
More power to you, but for me, that's too much.
01:10:05.000
I did it about four years ago for like two months.
01:10:18.000
Like, I've done it in the past, and it is what it is.
01:10:22.000
And then also, I mean, if I did, just keep your kids off the internet.
01:11:03.000
Just because she's sexy doesn't mean she has to do OnlyFans.
01:11:20.000
When shit was getting really bad with my ex-husband and it was going wild, I was trying on every ground to do, you know, open relationship, whatever it was that would try and fix it.
01:11:33.000
Didn't really do much with it, but I have set one up, so I'm not going to sit here and discredit anyone that does that.
01:11:56.000
Regardless of all the shit that was happening, I still made a promise to be there.
01:12:02.000
And I tried to do multiple different things that would make it happen.
01:12:22.000
So the question was, how do you avert people Away from my OnlyFans!
01:12:28.000
And I just, I put all my, the places that I advertised it, I... Blocked all my family and all that bullshit.
01:12:37.000
Let me tell you, no one ever found it important, but still, if I'd actually pursued that, they were going to find it within the next 30 seconds of my day.
01:12:50.000
Everyone's going to find out, so that's one thing you have to be okay with.
01:12:54.000
If you're fine with your life being sacrificed to everyone in your life being okay with it, Cool.
01:13:05.000
But if it's going to destroy things that matter to you, what the fuck?
01:13:15.000
I wouldn't do it, but I could give like a solution that I would probably think of like, um, maybe like what she said, wear ski masks.
01:13:26.000
Like, y'all ever seen that Scream guy that be like on the stripper pole and shit and he got a Scream mask on with the stripper heels on TikTok?
01:13:33.000
I see this nigga that be in a clown mask fucking everybody in Atlanta, too.
01:13:37.000
Like, oh, I see this nigga in the Mercedes Stadium fucking the bitch on the side of the road.
01:14:11.000
Yeah, those guys that I work with, there's like senators, politicians, governors.
01:14:24.000
I was born and raised in New York, so a lot of them come from out of state to New York for conferences and whatnot, and their friends tell them.
01:14:32.000
Probably start from, I want to say, 37 all the way up until maybe 64 was my oldest client.
01:14:41.000
I don't know what fetishes or kinks he'd have, but if he'd want to book a session, then yeah, of course I'd help him.
01:15:02.000
Okay, Namir, let's say you had a sister or shorty.
01:15:45.000
And it's like, oh yeah, bitch, you want to impress other niggas and it's like, oh, you trying to...
01:15:57.000
Who the fuck want to see that bitch on OnlyFans?
01:16:05.000
You feel me 100%, if you with your bitch like...
01:16:10.000
You with your bitch, and she on OnlyFans, and you providing everything in her life to make sure everything good.
01:16:26.000
Like, it's like it gets to that point where it's like, no, it's embarrassing me.
01:16:30.000
It's not even embarrassing you, it's embarrassing me.
01:16:32.000
I don't even have a kid with you, but if I have a kid, imagine how my kid going to feel.
01:16:36.000
Because it's going to be on the internet forever.
01:16:48.000
That's why I was in a five year relationship, 100%.
01:16:54.000
Right when she made the OnlyFans, I started cheating.
01:17:11.000
It's a respect thing that you have you supposed to have it for your nigga especially if you've been together with him so long and you you holding it down you know everything that's going on and It don't even gotta be no street shitter or no real shitter or nothing.
01:17:31.000
What if she came to you and spoke to you about it before she started it?
01:17:50.000
I even made a fake one to see the fucking message.
01:18:06.000
My bitch at the time, that was my dog, you feel me?
01:18:11.000
I was like, oh yeah, all these bitches are for everybody.
01:18:55.000
Especially, well, if you let it happen, it's going to happen to you.
01:18:58.000
It's a lot of alpha males and it's a lot of people in the world that understand life or what the fuck it is.
01:19:09.000
I'm looking at it like, I love her, I love her, I love her, I love her.
01:19:27.000
When you show so much love, people know how to manipulate you.
01:19:37.000
It's joints in this world that don't never have to go through that.
01:19:41.000
I ruined my whole career dealing with an OnlyFans bitch.
01:19:45.000
She probably saw you were fully devoted to her and took advantage of that.
01:20:11.000
Oh, you think you ruined your career being loyal to her?
01:20:14.000
Because you put your emotion on stop because of her?
01:20:23.000
That's a lot of people's career, but it didn't grow in mine.
01:20:28.000
It made me do a lot of shit that I didn't want to do.
01:20:30.000
Like, the whole time, like, I'm an outside nigga.
01:20:36.000
And I'm sorry, I apologize for calling everybody in here.
01:20:57.000
Yeah, especially if you put your motion to the side for the girl.
01:21:00.000
Then you're going to be like, fuck every bitch.
01:21:02.000
And you've been kicked out before I go to sleep.
01:21:11.000
No, a lot of men slow their motion down for a bitch.
01:21:17.000
But if you get in a relationship, I feel like it's the same thing.
01:21:24.000
Like, I like a bitch that's gonna hold me down.
01:21:35.000
But at least you went through it, you learned from it, and you moved on.
01:21:43.000
Like, he's like, nigga, what the fuck is you doing?
01:21:59.000
Especially when you're young and you feel like you missing something and you feel like this is what you love.
01:22:05.000
And they know how to manipulate you too because this is the closest person to you.
01:22:08.000
But once you get out of that, life is a lot better.
01:22:25.000
And Namir, thank you for sharing that, bro, because that was real.
01:22:34.000
Yeah, a lot of guys fuck their lives up over girls or aren't motivated or they don't take their job seriously or don't go to the gym or whatever because of a girl.
01:22:58.000
You want someone to be your confidant and your lover.
01:23:03.000
They've never had that in their prior lives because of the previous generation.
01:23:07.000
And that's the point where you've got to cut that shit off and be awful because you have to be yourself.
01:23:13.000
And I didn't understand it at the time, like me being young.
01:23:19.000
I didn't understand it, like, but now growing up and I'm 24, I'm like, what the fuck was you doing?
01:23:23.000
Like, nigga, you didn't even enjoy the moments.
01:23:26.000
Like, you left tour, you was in Europe, you did all this type of shit, and I let it all go to the side over the bitch, bro.
01:23:33.000
I swear to God, and it sucks, but it's life for what the fuck it is.
01:23:43.000
Like, you leave a tour and everything, but that's what she wanted.
01:23:46.000
Fuck what the bitch want, because straight up, 100%.
01:23:51.000
I'm the one putting everybody in Memphis, paying $4,500 a day for three months.
01:23:56.000
I'm the one that's doing airy shit that's turnt up, buying Ferraris and buying all this shit for bitches that ain't doing nothing.
01:24:04.000
So it's like, this is the principle and the status that you're supposed to have, man, like when you're not getting treated the right way.
01:24:09.000
And then you getting shit put in front of your face to where it's like, hold up, it's downplaying me.
01:24:20.000
I think the most important thing to take away from that, straight up, is that like...
01:24:30.000
I think the most important thing to take away from that is, and I don't think women really understand this, is that your actions can absolutely hurt your man's image.
01:24:41.000
So if you do some dumb shit, that could come back to haunt him later.
01:24:44.000
And the fact that you told her not to do it, and then she did it?
01:24:53.000
And also, bro, you had her back for five years, bro.
01:24:56.000
You made talk about this for her, leaving the show?
01:25:03.000
I'm on tour with Lil Uzi, G-Eazy, motherfucking I'm in Europe.
01:25:10.000
And it's just like a slap in the face because it's like, I do everything for you, but you ain't do everything for me.
01:25:15.000
And it's not an everything feeling that I'm asking for.
01:25:26.000
And that's where a lot of bitches get it fucked up because they don't understand how they nigga feel.
01:25:29.000
And it's not a point to where it's going to be like, Oh, yeah, please don't do this.
01:25:36.000
Because niggas embarrassing for a nigga to even ask his bitch to even say that.
01:25:40.000
And that's why a lot of bitches get cheated on and fucked over.
01:25:58.000
I feel like a lot of women downplay men's feelings.
01:26:14.000
But if you got a cold bitch, a down bitch for you, Do right.
01:26:18.000
Everybody don't got the same mindset that I got.
01:26:20.000
Everybody don't got the same mindset that you got.
01:26:22.000
Everybody don't got the same mindset that they could got.
01:26:27.000
And if you got a down bitch and a loyal female, stay with her, do your thing.
01:26:32.000
But like at 100%, like, nigga, most of these people that's watching this shit right now are young as fuck.
01:26:37.000
Like, nigga, what the fuck is you trying to get in a relationship for?
01:26:45.000
Yeah, but you had to fend through that to know that, right?
01:26:50.000
If you're 18 and you own the internet, if you're below 25 and you own the internet, if you're on Instagram, you got an Instagram account, you active, highly active, not even famous or nothing.
01:27:14.000
It's gonna come later on and I feel like us being so young like we put this like we put the whole generation into involvement like oh yeah I want to be like this or I want to be like that.
01:27:23.000
I want to be like I want to be in love like how these Instagram couples is and I want to make money like how these things do and all that type of stuff.
01:27:34.000
It's not going to be what the fuck you expected to be because you're not that.
01:27:40.000
You're not going to run into the same person that he ran into or she ran into.
01:27:48.000
That's what I had to learn, especially being 24 growing up.
01:27:52.000
Social media really did take a massive hit on how people perceive their image of life.
01:28:01.000
Well, obviously porn, that mainly goes out to the men, 100%.
01:28:06.000
When it comes to women, it is worse than porn for men.
01:28:21.000
What do the women suffer from versus what do the men suffer from?
01:28:23.000
The men, politics, and the females are more relationship.
01:28:31.000
What do you mean by it's politics that affects...
01:28:33.000
A lot of the men that sit in my chair are distraught at the way that I... Nothing I'm saying right now is my vision.
01:28:49.000
They're distraught and worried about their grandchildren, their children, their legacy...
01:28:58.000
They don't understand from when they were a kid, from how it is now.
01:29:04.000
They don't know how to navigate it from technology to politics to all of it.
01:29:10.000
Okay, so they don't like the direction that the UK is headed.
01:29:17.000
Okay, I wasn't sure if those were clients in England or in the United States.
01:29:22.000
So the men have issues with the way the country's going.
01:29:35.000
And a lot of the women I get in that suffer with their relationship...
01:29:39.000
Have a really good, long-standing relationship with their men.
01:29:43.000
You know, I have women in their 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s, even 90s that have either been with their men for a really long time or they have not been with a man for a long time.
01:29:57.000
Okay, so it's always rooted in a relationship problem with the females.
01:30:04.000
Alright, so for the men, it's more about The objective reality that they're in.
01:30:09.000
Wanting to protect, wanting to make things right.
01:30:12.000
Okay, so for the men, it's typically, hey, the country's going to this shit.
01:30:16.000
I don't know if I could provide in this environment, etc.
01:30:19.000
So it's more about the environment around them and their objective reality versus the women.
01:30:23.000
It's, oh, my relationship sucks or has to do something along the lines of a partner.
01:30:31.000
Would you say that Instagram has made it, I guess, more pronounced where women are dissatisfied with their relationships or social media?
01:30:44.000
Okay, so we can objectively say it's affected women more than men.
01:30:53.000
Do you think it's created more anxiety for them or more depression or what?
01:31:09.000
A female's comparison is they always see and compare and want more.
01:31:18.000
Men primitively want a woman that's going to be by their side, that's going to be 100% what...
01:31:58.000
I'm glad that we have someone that's a therapist that can confirm what I've been saying.
01:32:07.000
You got ugly chicks that think they deserve a man that's six foot three million dollars a year.
01:32:11.000
You got girls that are fours that think they deserve tens.
01:32:17.000
I can't tell you how many times I go out with girls and they're fucking retarded.
01:32:20.000
They don't really understand how the world works.
01:32:27.000
And, you know, they might be educated, but they're still stupid.
01:32:30.000
Education has nothing to do with your actual thinking.
01:32:37.000
And the other thing, too, that I've noticed is that women have an issue with objective reality a lot of times.
01:32:42.000
If I say something objectively true, such as, you know, men create the world and women just live in it, oh, whoa, that's sexist!
01:32:55.000
When I say things that are objectively true, women have an issue with that.
01:32:58.000
Or they'll say, oh, that's fucked up, that's misogynistic.
01:33:02.000
Women don't really create anything besides debt.
01:33:04.000
So, the men create the world and the women just live in it.
01:33:15.000
And anyone can give birth, but not everyone can build a building.
01:33:19.000
Not everyone can build society the way that it's been built.
01:33:42.000
And they're effectively useless because they're weak and they're inferior.
01:33:45.000
Biologically speaking, women are inferior to men in almost every way.
01:33:58.000
When it comes to biology, that is absolutely the standard truth.
01:34:07.000
I don't know why they joined police departments.
01:34:10.000
Well, that's great, but I think there should be one standard in the military.
01:34:16.000
Can I just say one thing about the military, though?
01:34:18.000
Okay, so the military has every job that's in the civilian world.
01:34:25.000
I was going to say there should be one military standard.
01:34:28.000
And if women can't match it, they just have to go into positions that support positions.
01:34:35.000
I don't think women should be in combat positions.
01:34:37.000
I don't think they should be on the front lines of police departments either.
01:34:41.000
You effectively weaken the force when you bring women in because they're weaker, they're smaller, they're not able to carry another individual.
01:34:48.000
I mean, if I want to be all the way honest, women suck at almost everything in society.
01:35:01.000
Like, what can you, like, okay, so what's your reason?
01:35:04.000
Name one thing that women are better than men at in general.
01:35:06.000
I don't know, but, like, that's why I'm asking women are better at sucking dick then, too.
01:35:15.000
I'm not saying that I disagree with you because you're right.
01:35:19.000
You're partly right, but I'm just asking what's your reasoning behind it?
01:35:23.000
It's an objective fact that they just suck at everything.
01:35:26.000
Women don't really contribute to the world besides create debt.
01:35:36.000
Men built up the world, and then women say, oh, well, we didn't get a chance.
01:35:39.000
Well, y'all have had a chance for the past 70 years.
01:35:44.000
It's kind of like half and half, because you guys definitely do that, but isn't it like...
01:35:47.000
No, I'm going to tell you exactly why, because women are inherently lazy, that's why.
01:35:51.000
You said, I want to be an entrepreneur, run the OnlyFans thing, but your guy pays all the bills.
01:35:58.000
I like that, but that's what I was back in the days.
01:36:02.000
We want to have our future life to be like what it was in back in the days, where men was the provider and you just take care of the home.
01:36:08.000
Oh, no, no, but didn't y'all fight for feminism, though?
01:36:24.000
But women still want a man that makes more money than them, that once has more status than them, is able to provide and do everything else.
01:36:28.000
So it's like women have all the same rights and privileges, but they still want a man that's better than them in every way.
01:36:38.000
And what I'm trying to say here is that women just have a natural proclivity to be lazy, in general.
01:36:42.000
Like, men have a natural proclivity to be productive because our sexual market value is based on that.
01:36:46.000
If I don't make money and become successful, I don't get bitches.
01:36:48.000
But you don't have to make money and become successful to get men.
01:36:52.000
Do you think that there's more, like, lazy men to men that actually work?
01:37:01.000
But what I'm saying is that there's no burden of performance on females, which is why they suck at so many things.
01:37:09.000
If I get a female Uber driver, I'm like, what the fuck?
01:37:17.000
So you don't think that there's anything that a woman can do better than a man?
01:37:23.000
They're definitely, like, socially smarter than men.
01:37:25.000
Do you think that a man would make a better nurse or a doctor than a woman?
01:37:30.000
I mean, that's dependent on knowledge, though, wouldn't it?
01:37:33.000
I feel like it depends on how much a person really pays attention to their job.
01:38:17.000
If women didn't have vaginas, we would've talked to them, bro.
01:38:25.000
First of all, I love hanging out with y'all homeboys.
01:38:37.000
But now, since y'all want to talk about, yeah, you getting on cut ass, now I'm finna get on y'all.
01:38:41.000
But 100%, I feel like we all do play a part in this world.
01:38:46.000
You're way more productive hanging out with other men that are successful than hanging out with females.
01:38:50.000
That's anybody you hang around that's successful.
01:38:54.000
If you hang around five broke niggas, you're going to be the six broke niggas.
01:38:59.000
If you're talking about cars, nigga, and you buy a car, you're going to see that car on the fucking road all the time.
01:39:05.000
If you see a bad bitch, you gon' look for bitches.
01:39:13.000
Look, man, you're a little bit younger, so let me just break, be honest with you here, bro.
01:39:18.000
Being around women all day is gonna make you weaker.
01:39:22.000
You wanna be around other dudes that are more successful, more competent than yourself.
01:39:26.000
Very rarely are you gonna find women that are more competent, successful than yourself.
01:39:29.000
Unless, like, she's a businesswoman or whatever, but do you really wanna be around that?
01:39:32.000
You're better off being around You're going to sit at home.
01:39:42.000
A lot of girls are ladies, so that's a whole different way.
01:39:50.000
But no, I get exactly what you're saying, big bro.
01:40:01.000
You get more comfortable with yourself when you run a female.
01:40:12.000
You said you want to be around motivated businessmen.
01:40:15.000
That's cool, but when you're around a girl, do you want to have business meetings?
01:40:18.000
I thought we were just hanging out, going on a date.
01:40:19.000
So yeah, I'd love to watch Netflix or just hang out.
01:40:39.000
Because, like, if you're married, like, when you get married, it's supposed to be like a partnership.
01:40:43.000
I wouldn't live with my chick if that's your question.
01:40:56.000
If you want to stay sharp, either live with other successful guys or live by yourself.
01:41:03.000
That's how every man in this world wanna be, but it's hard for everybody to connect to that part.
01:41:12.000
You have to go through these experiences to understand how to be a grown-ass man.
01:41:20.000
That is absolutely right, but if you have the right kind of woman that does bring out the alpha in a male...
01:41:28.000
I would never ever take advice from you in my life.
01:41:51.000
Ain't you met the guy that you're with right now to your ex-husband?
01:41:58.000
If you were a therapist, you're supposed to have morals.
01:42:09.000
That are not real morals for other people, though.
01:42:11.000
It benefited every single person in the situation.
01:42:15.000
My ex, me, and my current boyfriend benefited all three of those people.
01:42:21.000
You really think that your ex-husband is not feeling the type of way about you being with somebody that you met?
01:42:39.000
I ain't gonna lie, out of all these chicks, I feel like she's the only one that got morals.
01:42:42.000
Like, I mean, I'm not the only one, but you got some good morals, though.
01:42:47.000
Because you, like, speak about your man, and you, like, hype him up.
01:42:51.000
You know, he probably looking at you like, damn, I like my girl in the locker.
01:42:54.000
We talked about it before coming on here, and he was like, you feel me?
01:42:57.000
Like, he didn't mind me, but I let him know, like, I'm respectful.
01:43:01.000
And you talking about you met the guy that you with right now?
01:43:06.000
But what I was saying was the fact that I can let go.
01:43:21.000
I'm not like coming at you, but I'm just genuinely curious on why you wouldn't.
01:43:31.000
They don't have the same proclivity to work as hard as men are.
01:43:35.000
And a girl that's super feminine, she has soft energy, that needs to be regulated.
01:43:39.000
You can't be getting that all the time because what ends up happening is you start getting lazy.
01:43:43.000
A lot of times they've done studies on this with guys that are married.
01:43:48.000
And the thing is that women tend to grow bored faster in relationships than men do.
01:43:54.000
So living with your girl all it does is accelerate the process of her getting bored with you.
01:44:05.000
And the other big thing I'm a big believer in is the woman needs to like the man more than the man likes the woman for the relationship to last.
01:44:21.000
I know I've probably set some concepts here that you don't like or you don't agree with, but I'm gonna explain exactly why I'm correct in your inquiry.
01:44:28.000
No, it's not an opinion, it's an absolute fact.
01:44:30.000
Women get bored in relationships faster than men.
01:44:33.000
Women are more likely to break up relationships than men.
01:44:37.000
So, now that we know that women get bored in relationships faster, women tend to break up relationships faster, and women have higher standards than men doing what they want in opposite gender, what does that mean?
01:44:46.000
I'll tell you, it means one party is way more selective than the other, correct?
01:44:55.000
So, if someone is pickier, has more options, is more likely to leave the relationship, who needs to feel more satisfied to stay in the fucking relationship?
01:45:05.000
How does a woman stay satisfied in a relationship?
01:45:07.000
She needs to feel like she has the best guy, correct?
01:45:10.000
She needs to feel like she has the best deal, right?
01:45:13.000
So if she feels like she has the best deal, she's not going to leave.
01:45:15.000
So guess what she needs to feel to feel like she has the best deal?
01:45:19.000
She needs to like the guy more than he likes her.
01:45:25.000
When the man likes the woman more, she feels like she's better.
01:45:32.000
That's why girls suffer from so much anxiety and depression in relationships.
01:45:36.000
You have a therapist here telling you, I already knew this shit.
01:45:39.000
With social media and the way women move and the way they want the bigger, better deal, social media has exacerbated the problem, so the man needs to absolutely be in a position where the woman adores him.
01:45:48.000
It never works the other way around because the women need the emotional stimuli.
01:45:52.000
I don't have to be, oh, I need to be deadly in love with my girl to stay with her.
01:45:58.000
If we got a girl by our side that's not a fucking slut, we're not leaving.
01:46:02.000
But women, on the other hand, they need to feel like they got the best guy to stay there.
01:46:15.000
If you have common sense and you understand how women are, there's no way you can repeat what I just said.
01:46:22.000
Because women will leave for their happiness and a guy will stay just to make it work.
01:46:27.000
Like if he had kids, he'll be like, okay, I will make that sacrifice and a woman will be like, nah, fuck that.
01:46:32.000
Yeah, because you guys look at me like I got three heads when I said the woman needs to like the guy more.
01:46:36.000
But it's literally based in scientific evidence where We know that women are less likely to be satisfied in relationships.
01:46:43.000
So therefore, she needs to be with the best guy that she can get and feel like, damn, I gotta be chasing this guy because otherwise I can't stay with him.
01:46:50.000
That's what girls need to feel to stay in a relationship.
01:47:19.000
I think that nowadays, in general, that men and women get into relationships with the wrong person.
01:47:26.000
For example, let's say I'm in a relationship with a man that I really, really like, so I'm willing to do whatever.
01:47:34.000
I forgo all my standards, everything, because I just want to be with him.
01:47:47.000
If I die for him, he gonna go with somebody else.
01:47:56.000
The equivalent of that is that there's men that also, you know what I'm saying, that will literally do anything for their women.
01:48:02.000
I feel like the real problem is you're doing the wrong thing for the wrong people, and not necessarily because if you're with the right person who's willing to give you that much devotion or whatever, then it's fine, right?
01:48:12.000
But we're giving it to the wrong fucking person, and that's why you get burned.
01:48:18.000
What I'm saying is if a man chooses the wrong woman and she uses him, right, then it's the man's fault.
01:48:23.000
If the woman chooses the wrong man and he uses her, it's the same thing.
01:48:29.000
I'm saying that we're choosing the wrong people.
01:48:34.000
I'm not necessarily saying that it's a gender thing.
01:48:37.000
I'm just saying that we as a collective community choose the wrong person and that we get mad that that person is not the person we thought that they should be.
01:48:46.000
I'm still waiting for you to refute my argument.
01:48:47.000
Okay, well, you're trying to say that, basically, like, as women in relationships, that we need to like the man more, right?
01:48:55.000
I'm saying that, in general, you just need to like the fucking person.
01:48:58.000
Like, I need to like you as much as you like me, and we have to like each other in the same way.
01:49:02.000
So if you want a relationship and I want a relationship, that's cool.
01:49:04.000
But if you just want to fuck me and I'm cool people, right, then we clearly are not on the same page.
01:49:21.000
So if it's rare, how can you hope for that to happen?
01:49:23.000
I mean, you just gotta, like, you know, vet people.
01:49:28.000
You know, single mothers or single mothers who have like a deadbeat whatever baby father or whatever, right?
01:49:43.000
We see the red flags, but a lot of us forego it because we just have love for the people.
01:49:54.000
I don't think that a woman should like a man more for the relationship to work.
01:50:00.000
I think that they both have to want the relationship in general.
01:50:08.000
Assuming they're in a relationship, because that's what I'm talking about here.
01:50:11.000
I'm saying when they're in a relationship, the woman needs to like the man more.
01:50:17.000
You're talking about, like, in the beginning stages and everything.
01:50:19.000
No, I'm talking about if they're in a relationship, the woman needs to adore him more than he adores her.
01:50:23.000
The reason why I disagree with that is because ultimately most women want security and men don't want the same thing.
01:50:29.000
So, like, let's say that you are an established man, right?
01:50:36.000
So you technically, you're an established man at a young age.
01:50:38.000
There are a lot of young, established people, right?
01:50:41.000
You could get where her, her, me, her, her, her, her, right?
01:50:48.000
So, technically, you have the bigger advantage.
01:50:54.000
Like, women, like, yeah, okay, let's say that she cheats on him, right?
01:51:00.000
She might find a better nigga, but chances are, no.
01:51:06.000
Are you saying it's like you like who you like and you love who you love?
01:51:13.000
Honestly, like Gen Z is kind of doing it nowadays.
01:51:27.000
There is a lot of young and successful people that are like from 17 to 25.
01:51:34.000
Okay, let me just attack your argument because it's a random tangent.
01:51:38.000
Okay, so you're making the argument that when men have the advantage, the relationship isn't as stable as when women have the advantage.
01:51:45.000
No, I'm saying that men have the advantage in general, right?
01:51:49.000
You think men in general have the advantage in relationships over women?
01:51:57.000
Okay, let me give you some numbers because you're unaware.
01:51:59.000
Women find only about 5% of men attractive on dating apps.
01:52:02.000
Women swipe right less than 10% of the time on men on dating apps.
01:52:09.000
Okay, but how is that an advantage if you were born ugly?
01:52:14.000
You're trying to say only 5% are found attractive, right?
01:52:19.000
If I don't find you attractive, then I don't find you attractive.
01:52:21.000
What I'm trying to tell you is that a majority of women don't find a majority of men as attractive.
01:52:24.000
However, a majority of men do find a majority of women attractive.
01:52:28.000
I mean, most men would fuck a fucking horse, so.
01:52:31.000
Okay, so thank you for proving my point that women have an extreme advantage when it comes to dating.
01:52:39.000
So, what ends up happening when women have the advantage?
01:52:42.000
We have the highest divorce rates we've ever had.
01:52:44.000
We have women leaving relationships higher than ever before.
01:52:47.000
Women are dissatisfied with the majority of men.
01:52:48.000
We, right now, In 2024, women have the advantage, but why are they more miserable than ever before?
01:52:55.000
What I'm saying is that the man needs to have the advantage for the relationship to work.
01:52:58.000
Because women, unlike men, are attracted to men that can attract other women.
01:53:03.000
We already know if we see an attractive girl, other guys are gonna want her.
01:53:06.000
But women, they need that validation that their guy is attractive.
01:53:10.000
That's why if I come into a fucking nightclub with girls, a bunch of girls are going to want to hang out with me.
01:53:19.000
With all the girls with the guys in the section.
01:53:28.000
So when men have advantages, it's more attractive to the woman.
01:53:32.000
We might go fuck another bitch, but we're not going to leave our main girl.
01:53:35.000
Women, on the other hand, they'll leave if they don't feel like they got the best deal.
01:53:40.000
You guys cheat just for that temporary sexual connection.
01:53:42.000
If I'm cheating, it's because I'm about to be with that man.
01:53:49.000
So who is it more important to have the advantage if we know that the consequences are that severe when women have the advantage?
01:54:00.000
If you want to call the stats, then that's cool.
01:54:02.000
I just cited a bunch of numbers as to why it doesn't work when women have the advantage.
01:54:07.000
Right now, in 2024, women have the most advantage they've ever had in relationships than ever before.
01:54:13.000
Why are women reporting the highest levels of depression?
01:54:15.000
Why are one in four women taking anti-anxiety medication?
01:54:19.000
Why are women less happy now than ever before when they've been the most free, they have the most money, they have the most success?
01:54:32.000
All of their sadness is rooted in relationships.
01:54:40.000
I just feel like if you can't make yourself happy, you will never be happy in a relationship.
01:54:44.000
You must first find happiness within yourself before you get in a relationship.
01:54:48.000
Because I'm not going to walk around miserable, self-sufficient, because I don't got a man.
01:54:55.000
Okay, so anyway, like I was saying, you guys might not like it, but the man has to have the advantage in a relationship, and I just said a bunch of reasons why.
01:55:04.000
I'm still waiting for any of you to refute why a woman needs to have the advantage in a relationship.
01:55:11.000
I feel like the man should be able to be the one to...
01:55:19.000
If the guy's pedestalizing the girl, she's eventually going to get bored, and when she gets bored, she will fucking leave.
01:55:24.000
Women get bored in relationships way faster than men do.
01:55:26.000
Men aren't going anywhere if the girl's good, bro.
01:55:30.000
We might fuck another bitch, but it'll make you appreciate your girl even more.
01:55:41.000
I'm just trying to explain to you that even in the worst case scenario where the guy commits infidelity and he cheats on you and has sex with another girl, I'm telling you he's still capable of loving you.
01:55:51.000
So if I have two bads, the girl cheats and I know it's over.
01:55:59.000
You guys just don't like hearing it because women have...
01:56:01.000
Lack critical thinking skills, to be honest with you.
01:56:03.000
That's why I said earlier, you guys lack critical thinking skills.
01:56:05.000
I'm telling you guys, objective fact, I give you guys the numbers, I give you guys the stats.
01:56:08.000
She's still shaking her head like, I don't agree.
01:56:11.000
It doesn't matter what you agree with or what you don't.
01:56:13.000
What I'm telling you is the truth is, when men have the advantage, women are more happy in relationships, period.
01:56:17.000
They need to feel like they have the best fucking deal that they can get, because that's just how women are.
01:56:46.000
If I don't want to reproduce it, I'm doing just fine.
01:57:01.000
Could you look like you're living right now on Kate Spade?
01:57:08.000
You said it got you through college and helped you through a lot of stuff, right?
01:57:23.000
Cool, yeah, I needed men for those four years to get my degree.
01:57:27.000
So, at the beginning, you needed men regardless?
01:57:29.000
Either way, I was still working at 9 to 5, like I said.
01:57:32.000
I was still working at McDonald's, Burger King's.
01:57:33.000
Alright, you've already contradicted yourself multiple times.
01:57:37.000
Even when you did your side hustle, you even admitted I would bring my boyfriend with me for security.
01:57:46.000
Okay, because you said you don't need a man to survive, right?
01:57:48.000
And then number two, if the lights turn off tomorrow, you would be fucked.
01:57:59.000
I'm talking about from a hardcore survival standpoint.
01:58:03.000
You might say, I don't need men to survive, but what you don't understand is that men keep the lights on, the police forces men that keep you alive, the military, etc.
01:58:10.000
Like, we live in such a civilized world, right?
01:58:17.000
We live in such a civilized world that you guys forgot that it's men that keep you guys safe in the first place.
01:58:22.000
Because you guys really can't do anything if a guy attacks you, realistically speaking.
01:58:26.000
At the end of the day, we're just miserable and useless.
01:58:31.000
If someone attacked you on the street, you would hope a man would come and save you because you can't physically fight a man.
01:58:39.000
I got a gun in my back seat, and I got a gun in my purse, and one of them in my mattress.
01:58:46.000
If you're dealing with someone that's, like, not an idiot, he's going to hit you one time, and you're going to fall on the floor before you can even get your gun out of your purse.
01:58:54.000
Before you can even get your gun out of your purse, man.
01:58:59.000
If you were a girl, if you was walking your dog at night, you're not watching your surroundings be ruined.
01:59:02.000
I'm trying to tell you that I used to work in law enforcement with women that are way more trained than you are.
01:59:08.000
And they would get fucked up by a less trained male.
01:59:15.000
And if you really wanted to attack you, it's going to come from behind you, hit you one time.
01:59:20.000
I never said that I was going to fight him, Myron.
01:59:21.000
It's just like, yo, you got to live in reality.
01:59:23.000
I'm just saying, I'm more capable to protect myself.
01:59:24.000
I might not win, but I am more capable to put up a fight.
01:59:39.000
Y'all are using every hypothetical situation to make it worse saying women are miserable, unselfsufficient, unreliable.
01:59:55.000
I'm still waiting for you to refute the argument.
02:00:06.000
I'm acknowledging it, taking it in, and then giving my opinion.
02:00:12.000
Man, nigga, we will fuck you and leave you alone, man.
02:00:21.000
Do you have a preference of a man you'd be with?
02:00:30.000
So you got financial preference of a man that would be...
02:00:36.000
I'd say in a month, I make like $7,500 in a month.
02:00:47.000
You feel like somebody's going to settle down with you, though?
02:00:48.000
Oh, I don't need no one to settle down with me.
02:00:52.000
I'd like to just relax and gain my independence back.
02:00:55.000
You feel like you're going to feel the same way in 30 years?
02:00:57.000
I might be a different person in six days, six hours.
02:01:05.000
Alright, so does anyone have anything that can actually refute my argument that the girl needs to like the man more?
02:01:20.000
Like, you just came behind the scenes and you was like, yo, my mic was muted, so can you talk?
02:01:49.000
Did you feel the same way before this happened?
02:02:01.000
Did you feel like the man that you was before you started getting into the environment that you were in right now?
02:02:06.000
And you're asking if we all have felt changes in the past few years.
02:02:14.000
Because I look at you like a big brother and I don't even know you for real.
02:02:20.000
Did you feel as much of alpha male before as how you feel right now?
02:02:33.000
Yeah, I wouldn't consider myself like the alpha male.
02:02:40.000
Like, I watched all that shit, like, with all the Twitch shit and everybody.
02:02:46.000
Obviously, as I talk to more women, I just realize certain traits, right, and characteristics, right?
02:02:51.000
I mean, yeah, you get older, you get wiser, right?
02:02:55.000
You just start to realize certain things and learn certain things.
02:02:57.000
Then you obviously get around other like-minded individuals and you learn things from them.
02:03:00.000
Yeah, I mean, there's this culmination of experience, you know, reading, seeing how the world really works, talking to women every day, you kind of see things.
02:03:08.000
You know, no offense to you guys, but a lot of you guys lack critical thinking skills.
02:03:12.000
Like, I've said things that are objectively true and you guys look at me like I'm crazy, right?
02:03:15.000
Whereas, like, if I said something along the lines of, most guys are bums and idiots and incompetent fucks, they're not going to look at me wild.
02:03:22.000
But when I say something that's like, you know, might not be flattering to women, they don't like hearing that.
02:03:30.000
And that's what I mean when I say women lack critical thinking skills.
02:03:33.000
It's like, oh, I'm offended by what you're saying, so I'm not going to critically think and analyze what you said and be like, damn, that's actually true because I'm so offended by what you said because you're saying this about women.
02:03:41.000
But it's like, I say negative things about men too, but men never look at me and say, well, not all men.
02:03:45.000
Like, if I say most men are fat retards, they don't say, well, not all men.
02:03:48.000
But if I say most women are bimbos, not all women.
02:03:53.000
They're not able to properly assess the English language and understand, oh, he's not speaking about everybody.
02:04:01.000
But women get offended immediately because you guys, I don't know what it is, but it's very interesting to see the dynamic because when men communicate, we're very direct and we're very avert what we say.
02:04:09.000
But when you guys communicate, you guys say a bunch of bullshit and go around it.
02:04:12.000
Like when we asked you guys earlier, what does it take for you to get laid on a first date?
02:04:22.000
I feel like it's categories of everybody, though.
02:04:36.000
A lot of people are from places that are unknown to deal with any of this stuff.
02:04:41.000
But I've lived in many places in the United States.
02:04:43.000
So I've dealt with people from different walks of life and spoken to different types of people.
02:04:50.000
I just wanted to know where you was feeling like.
02:05:07.000
Everybody in this motherfucker really want to know because we don't really pay attention to a lot of shit on the internet even though we do.
02:05:38.000
I got a couple properties in West Haven and a couple in New Haven, too.
02:05:43.000
But, yeah, I grew up in Connecticut, and then I worked as a special agent in Homeland for a while, and then started doing podcasts.
02:05:50.000
And then, like, my law enforcement career also, like, helped me look at things, like, a lot differently, you know?
02:05:56.000
And like listening to people when they say things.
02:05:58.000
That's why I listen very closely to whatever you guys say and write shit down.
02:06:04.000
Do you have sisters or is your relationship with your mother close?
02:06:09.000
My mom is the one that told me about the female fuckery.
02:06:15.000
No, one thing the mother is definitely gonna protect her son.
02:06:19.000
I have a sister and I had a very honest discussion with her.
02:06:26.000
And I had a discussion with her when she was in her late 20s, and I told her, yo, you need to find a man while you still can, because when you become older and you make more money, you're not gonna be able to find the same level of man.
02:06:37.000
She was like you, very hard-headed, strong, independent, that type of shit.
02:06:49.000
She was on that independent vibe just like you.
02:06:59.000
If a man comes along and he sees like, damn, this woman really handling her shit.
02:07:16.000
Let me give you guys a fucking example of this, alright?
02:07:18.000
Because you guys like, women like to say this dumb shit.
02:07:21.000
Let's say every time before, we're together in a relationship, right?
02:07:31.000
So let's say I'm in a relationship with you, right?
02:07:37.000
You like to wear certain shoes, I one-up you every single time and I make sure I wear better shoes than you do.
02:07:44.000
You get dressed and you wear a nice dress, I make sure I get clothes that's more expensive.
02:07:51.000
I just make sure that I always look more on point than you do physically when we go out.
02:07:57.000
How long would you tolerate that until you say, God damn this nigga's a bitch!
02:08:14.000
Because you guys obviously have a stake in trying to say that you would agree.
02:08:23.000
That I'm always trying to one-up you and look better than you when we're going out.
02:08:32.000
If you're trying to one-up me, then it's different.
02:08:43.000
That always went up to you and made sure to get take longer to get dressed than you and made sure that he always wore better clothes than you.
02:09:02.000
Yeah, he's trying to, like, look better than you at all times.
02:09:04.000
Then that would be a problem, but if you just, you know, mention my energy, I'm okay with that.
02:09:33.000
This is what I'm trying to say when I say women are fucking retarded.
02:09:38.000
For the purpose of this argument, you don't want to agree with me.
02:09:40.000
But however, if you were the fucking man and he took longer to get dressed than you, he wanted to be prettier than you, you wanted to make sure that he had to show up every single time y'all went out more than you, you would be fucking annoyed.
02:09:50.000
I'd be so irritated because why the fuck is you taking so long to get ready?
02:09:55.000
You're going to be irritated because you're going to be waiting downstairs or waiting in the room.
02:10:13.000
You're basing an example on a whole hypothesis then.
02:10:19.000
Myra, you want a woman to depend on you for everything?
02:10:36.000
Listen, if you want to be so super independent, why would you want to be with someone?
02:10:41.000
I'm doing that because I can self-suffice on my own.
02:10:48.000
You could just see, like, this woman could take care of herself.
02:10:57.000
Yeah, like y'all want us to need you instead of want?
02:11:07.000
No, if you understood what I said, you wouldn't be arguing right now.
02:11:13.000
A man that takes a ridiculous amount of time to get ready is annoying and has feminine tendencies that aren't attractive.
02:11:20.000
Just like a woman that wants to chase a career and say that she's independent and she's a boss, that's annoying to us.
02:11:34.000
She is more attractive than you even if she doesn't do nothing.
02:11:39.000
She could literally be doing nothing and she's still more attractive than you.
02:11:43.000
I can't care what a man thinks about me and what I'm doing with my life.
02:11:58.000
Yo, this is why so many people don't fuck with black women, man.
02:12:00.000
I'm going to keep it all the way in the middle of the show.
02:12:12.000
Because you know who's the only group of women a lot of times that run around and sit there and say, I'm strong and independent, blah, blah, blah, because you guys are fucking...
02:12:24.000
You guys follow the fucking Beyonce, strong, independent lady.
02:12:27.000
You follow the fucking dumbass whores that sit there and tell you that you don't need a man.
02:12:31.000
If you grow up in a father's house, which a lot of black women do, niggas ain't shit.
02:12:37.000
It fucking indoctrinates you to think, I don't need a man, I don't need a man, I don't need a man.
02:12:40.000
So you can say ridiculous things like, I don't care what a man thinks.
02:12:42.000
What if men walked around and say, you know what?
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But women sit there and say, oh, I'm not gonna do anything to get a man.
02:12:59.000
We understand that we have to provide something, and we have to be somewhat attractive to get women.
02:13:09.000
And you guys are like, and black women are the only group of women, really, that spouse is bullshit.
02:13:15.000
Because she keeps talking about her mic that she's not capable of talking into the mic.
02:13:51.000
All I'm saying is that the only group of women really that like shout this independent bullshit and it's a whole mantra.
02:14:02.000
Like she says, I'm just telling you that this is what's spatted all over the black community.
02:14:09.000
But y'all don't know that she's with Jay-Z. He fucking cheated on it.
02:14:17.000
This is something that y'all were talking about.
02:14:34.000
I just find it funny how it's like, I'm addressing something because you guys did it.
02:14:38.000
Honestly, the delivery was kind of crazy the way you came in, but what you said, you are right.
02:14:47.000
If you guys don't understand what I'm saying, because I've said it a million different times...
02:14:54.000
I literally gave you guys an analogy that men, right?
02:14:58.000
We don't want a woman that's going to sit there and try to be, I'm independent, compete with us.
02:15:01.000
And I gave you an analogy where if I took forever to get dressed, you'd be annoyed by it.
02:15:05.000
And you guys are like, well, I don't know, blah, blah, blah.
02:15:08.000
If you had a dude that was being a bitch and had to get manicures when you did and had to one-up you every time you got dressed, you'd be annoyed by that.
02:15:13.000
But you don't want to admit that because you know it would make your argument look bad.
02:15:17.000
Who said we're with men like that though, Myron?
02:15:21.000
Who said we're with men like that though, Myron?
02:15:28.000
I'm simply creating an analogy to tell you that independent, strong women are the same as dudes that take forever to get dressed.
02:15:35.000
So you want a woman to depend on you for her survival?
02:15:38.000
And you want a bitch to be lazy than her asking you to eat?
02:15:50.000
What I am telling you, just like you would want a guy to take care of himself but not be a fucking metrosexual, there's levels to it.
02:15:58.000
This is what I mean when I say, y'all don't have critical thinking skills, no offense, but that proves my point.
02:16:03.000
So, just like you want a guy to take care of himself and not be a slob, I want a girl that maybe...
02:16:07.000
You took it to the extreme, too, though, with the getting ready.
02:16:11.000
Because you guys are so dumb that I have to do that to explain it.
02:16:25.000
So again, I'm not saying a girl has to depend on me.
02:16:28.000
I'm not saying that a girl has to depend on me.
02:16:31.000
What I am saying is that no one gives a fuck about an independent woman.
02:16:34.000
Like she said before, I make a lot of money doing estheticians.
02:16:39.000
An independent woman or a woman asking for everything for her survival?
02:16:45.000
Most men would prefer a girl that was not a pain in the ass, that didn't make a lot of money, and they could support her to a degree, over a girl that yells every two seconds, I'm strong and independent, I make a bunch of money, I don't need you.
02:16:56.000
I wouldn't yell that to my man, that would make him emasculated.
02:17:00.000
But most of these men that are watching can't even provide for these women.
02:17:07.000
Ladies, he's just saying in a nutshell, if you want a man to be for you and actually want to take you seriously, if you're a masculine, he's not going to want to be with you.
02:17:16.000
I'm masculine because I have a good job and I do for myself.
02:17:20.000
Your actions from being in survival mode will dictate how you move in a relationship.
02:17:26.000
But you being masculine and you being the independent woman that you are today will affect your relationship in the future.
02:17:34.000
I swear to God, I'm still a self-sufficient girl, and I still live in my soft girl era.
02:17:40.000
When I'm with a man, I'm not in that big boss girl, like with that nightify that I'm doing.
02:17:44.000
As soon as I'm with my man, I am a petite princess that needs everything, and I'm fragile.
02:17:52.000
When you get shaky, you turn into that same person you were before at work.
02:17:55.000
When it gets shaky, I turn into that boss girl?
02:17:58.000
That's why you gotta make sure the man that you with...
02:18:00.000
That it's going to be a real thoroughbred ass nigga that can handle you through and through.
02:18:06.000
I'm saying I'm not going to express myself in that dominant masculine way because I have no reason to if I'm in my software.
02:18:14.000
I feel like when I get mad it's more so a conversation.
02:18:17.000
I've grown to have communication than dilemmas.
02:18:23.000
We don't work and make a bunch of money to handle anything, bro.
02:18:29.000
I'm trying to explain to you, dudes that got money don't want to fuck with problematic women that are going to sit there and argue with them or think that their opinion is valid.
02:18:38.000
We don't give a fuck how much money you guys make.
02:18:39.000
We don't care about your political opinions or whatever because we know at the end of the day, when you're with a strong man, you're going to follow what we do anyway.
02:18:46.000
If I'm a Nick fan, you're going to become a Nick fan.
02:18:55.000
So that's why we don't really give a fuck what y'all think, what you guys do, et cetera.
02:18:58.000
So you shouldn't mind that, like, we got our, like, she got a good job.
02:19:04.000
Maybe they're saying if you're overly independent.
02:19:05.000
I guess if you got too much going on, you got too much money, you too much of a boss, they feel like, oh, she's a man.
02:19:10.000
Maybe if you're too expressive about it, I guess.
02:19:14.000
Why am I gonna go for you that's gonna argue with me or potentially argue?
02:19:20.000
When I can go get a girl, that's not gonna argue with me.
02:19:24.000
Miserable, lazy, and don't do shit, but let her man pay for everything.
02:19:29.000
I did that shit when I lived in my parents' house.
02:19:35.000
You do realize that as women have made more money and become more successful, they're less happy now than ever before.
02:19:51.000
I swear to God, I really am not trying to differentiate from y'all opinions at all.
02:20:00.000
I'm not taking away from what you're saying at all, because I agree.
02:20:12.000
But that's not going to take away from me working a good salary, paying job, and making my money.
02:20:16.000
I'm still going to live in my soft girl airframe.
02:20:18.000
I'm not always going to be that boss, hard-working girl when I'm around my man.
02:20:21.000
I want to be that soft girl, so I will do that if I know he's going to be able to lead.
02:20:43.000
If she wants to leave, it's fine, but he's arguing with Icy in the bathroom.
02:20:47.000
You should have been sat your ass down at the panel, man.
02:20:59.000
Why the fuck are you sitting here all over ice in the fucking bathroom, man?
02:21:18.000
Shout out to the girls on the BTS. But when I went back there to see what the fuck is happening, she was in the bathroom arguing with IC about why she didn't take a piss.
02:21:53.000
This all started because I said women need to like men more, and then all the girls go fucking crazy.
02:22:06.000
Ladies, do you consider yourself a prissy princess or a masculine queen?
02:22:14.000
Does anyone else have anything before I read these chats?
02:22:19.000
Like, imagine you doing with girls day after day, man.
02:22:25.000
Alright, Nitaj Boy, by the way, welcome to FNF Ladies.
02:23:54.000
Y'all explain this to me because I'm so confused.
02:24:22.000
No, as a matter of fact, you can be a slut, a prostitute, then an escort.
02:24:45.000
Have you seen a nigga dick when you get in the room?
02:24:50.000
I swear to God, they don't perform sexual acts on me and I do not perform sexual acts on them.
02:25:01.000
Okay, I thought you were saying like prostitute, like this bitch sell pussy.
02:25:18.000
Bro, you are also a prostitute if you're selling sexual services.
02:25:25.000
And then the blade is where you go to get prostitutes.
02:25:29.000
The blade is where you go to get some coochie when you want some coochie quick.
02:25:33.000
But like girls just walk up and down the blade.
02:25:45.000
Do they only have blades in LA? In Chicago, if you go to the strip clubs, if it's liquor, you cannot take off your clothes.
02:25:55.000
And if it's no liquor, then you can only be full nude.
02:26:00.000
If you wanted to go to a strip club, for example, and you want to go get liquor, You can go to the strip club, but it's not like here.
02:26:10.000
They can show you their titties if they wanted to.
02:26:54.000
I was trying to say something earlier, but it wasn't working.
02:26:59.000
The mic was on the whole time, but what did you want to say?
02:27:07.000
How do you forget about the thought when the mic come on?
02:27:17.000
No, but you gotta think about that question and go ahead and ask it right now, 100%.
02:27:55.000
I never literally spent money on Coochie, but I didn't pay for Coochie.
02:28:03.000
Not on, like, okay, I'm going to pay for Poochie, but like, I mean Poochie.
02:28:07.000
But like, don't y'all, like, okay, so I have brothers.
02:28:10.000
Don't y'all spend so that way y'all could get in a girl's pants, though?
02:28:16.000
If you're paying directly for pussy, it's an L. So like, Because it's not genuine.
02:28:23.000
You're just like, I want to pay for this, fuck me, type shit.
02:28:26.000
But if you don't buy the bitch a Chanel bag, like she said.
02:28:29.000
But what you should do is go on a date, create an experience, have a connection, then if it happens, it happens.
02:28:44.000
Like, how do y'all feel when y'all pay for coochie?
02:28:48.000
Like, you know how you be like, after it, it'd be like, what the fuck did I just do this for?
02:28:56.000
Why would I put this money on this coochie when I could just get it from anybody else for free?
02:29:01.000
But like, respectfully, how much do you rate yourself?
02:29:10.000
Just as a person to be with, everything, just all over.
02:29:25.000
I honestly feel like you've been respecting me, OD, and I respect you for that.
02:29:29.000
Myron, I think you cool as fuck too, but I mean, even if we have our differences, I still respect you.
02:29:33.000
This show should, you know, I still respect you.
02:29:53.000
I think the two in the back, man, they're just like chillin', they're just like...
02:30:08.000
I just got done working out at the gym, lost 50 pounds thanks to you guys.
02:30:13.000
I had an attractive lady come up to me and tell me how good I looked.
02:30:17.000
Never had that happen before and I want to know if I should pursue or is that a red flag?
02:30:29.000
I would have gained some weight watching y'all niggas.
02:31:05.000
Okay, but who's, what am I? Egyptian with the hair hat.
02:31:08.000
I don't have the Mexican though, that's for sure.
02:31:26.000
He says, big homie Fresh, I know you see when I see that tight shorty Olivia.
02:31:30.000
Olivia, we're taking you to Komodo, the club and crib for bedroom fun.
02:32:18.000
But it can be Canada, Mexico, or the United States.
02:33:36.000
Yo, Mexico, Mexico might have never give her lips that again, bro.
02:33:57.000
Delusional blonde white girl dipped in shit, four.
02:34:02.000
And happy ending massage therapist, seven, Kofi Kingston's daughter, four.
02:34:24.000
What y'all think drunk hoes think they look like versus what they actually look like.
02:34:34.000
Dean for the truth says, why pay for milk when the cow's free and giving it up?
02:34:39.000
These three or fours give relationships without doing what it takes to retain men.
02:34:53.000
Just say you wanted to talk to Byron and Fresh.
02:35:00.000
Do you honestly believe that a man will marry you one day?
02:35:07.000
A grown-ass man paying $100 to talk to other grown-ass men.
02:35:11.000
I actually have been engaged twice, and I broke them off because I wasn't ready to commit.
02:35:18.000
I'm sorry, white boy here, that don't feel good about it with the cornrows.
02:35:40.000
But when I talk to you, I never point out your color.
02:36:38.000
I was actually gonna ask you who did your braids and do they have feed-ins?
02:36:42.000
Nah, I did it in LA. I have my little braiding lady over there.
02:36:57.000
You don't want me to ask you the same question.
02:37:26.000
He says, After hours, literally turning to summer school hours right now.
02:37:35.000
DudeDiglet says, I'm surprised no one in the chat has called her Savannah James.
02:37:42.000
I'm assuming that it's me because I always get told that I look like Savannah James.
02:38:10.000
You look like a 45% Ruby Rose, but you cold though, like I can't lie.
02:38:15.000
You cold like a kangaroo, like the kangaroo is always cold.
02:38:29.000
Okay, ladies, we're going to do live thoughts on the show.
02:38:41.000
It's always just like the women trying to understand Myron and Fresh.
02:38:47.000
Because you guys don't want to understand us, but it's always the women trying to understand you guys.
02:38:55.000
You do understand for me to make a counter-argument towards what you say.
02:38:58.000
I have to understand what you're saying precisely, right?
02:39:01.000
No, you just have to have your opinion and base it off of your opinion that you've already had.
02:39:19.000
And I cited a bunch of facts to substantiate that claim.
02:39:38.000
Because your first stance was, you don't care to understand us, and I actually have to understand you to be able to make the arguments that I make.
02:39:49.000
Men lack emotional intelligence and women lack critical thinking skills.
02:40:17.000
I feel like we have more emotions than y'all and just don't show it as much.
02:40:29.000
They care about what's actually real and what's actually prevalent.
02:40:33.000
They care about the only minimal things that are important.
02:40:39.000
They will do what is right because they are primal animals.
02:40:43.000
They are so primal in the extent that women need to come back to that too.
02:40:53.000
So if we're more logical, doesn't that mean that we're more factually based?
02:41:05.000
Yeah, but we're having a discussion about facts.
02:41:08.000
So what's more important, to be more logically sound or to be more emotional?
02:41:17.000
If I understand women, that's how I'm able to make the factual statements that I make.
02:41:21.000
No, you're making your statements off of the statistics, the numbers, the facts.
02:41:26.000
So that means you must understand women to understand those facts.
02:41:35.000
You can just Google some shit and get some numbers.
02:41:38.000
That doesn't change the fact that it's true and it's factual, which means you understand it.
02:41:58.000
Yeah, bro, like, you don't realize how you just sounded just now.
02:42:09.000
Yo, if I was a dude, if I took your brain and put it in a man's body, that nigga would be in poverty, bro.
02:42:23.000
I don't want to sound like an asshole, but if I took half y'all brains and put them in a man's body, y'all would be struggling, bro.
02:42:34.000
We can't use our sexuality to our advantage and be retarded.
02:42:39.000
You probably have an 80 IQ. I'm not even trying to be an asshole right now.
02:42:45.000
If I was a dude and I had that IQ, I'd be fucked.
02:42:49.000
I'd be in front of a subway, fucking, I don't know, dancing shit.
02:43:01.000
I'm not trying to be that much of an asshole, but damn, bro.
02:43:14.000
Watch the show back and you'll see how crazy you sounded.
02:43:25.000
I'm kind of shy, so it's a different experience for me, but definitely got a lot of insight from all of you.
02:43:35.000
I just heard a lot of different opinions, and it's just interesting to hear everybody's stories.
02:43:38.000
Give us the most important insight or opinion that you heard.
02:43:49.000
You can't just be here for no reason, and I have a point.
02:44:25.000
All jokes aside, did you, like, smoke or do a Xanny before you came on the show?
02:44:52.000
See, this is why I didn't want to come on this show.
02:44:57.000
Because I knew you guys were going to roast me.
02:45:02.000
So when you leave here, you're going to be more charismatic.
02:45:20.000
I like to hear the different opinions about everybody.
02:45:27.000
If you don't want to come, by the way, you're free to leave at any time.
02:45:30.000
Like, I always love when girls, like, say that dumb shit and I'm like...
02:45:35.000
Like, you're in front of 30, 50,000 people and the girls be sitting there like, I didn't want to come.
02:45:40.000
I noticed today, like, everybody, nobody really spoke too much.
02:45:46.000
No, it's just not, because, bro, like, that's the one thing that, like, always, like, I'm just like, bro, like, Nobody knows you bitches.
02:45:53.000
And it's like, yo, y'all come in here and act like you guys are fucking famous.
02:45:57.000
Like, it's like, you don't have to fucking come.
02:45:59.000
There could have been other girls that could have sat here or whatever.
02:46:08.000
It's like, it's very dismissive when girls say that dumb shit.
02:46:19.000
It's just not my usual thing because I am actually naturally shy.
02:46:22.000
Well, fix your fucking attitude because this is an opportunity.
02:46:30.000
Involve yourself more to the things that you need to involve yourself in.
02:46:54.000
Like, the fact that girls come on this shit and have the audacity to be like, well, I didn't even want to come.
02:47:03.000
Like, you should be happy that you even got the fucking opportunity.
02:47:12.000
I'm shy naturally, but I still put myself out of my comfort zone and I came here.
02:47:21.000
Like, yo, if you don't want to come here, then why the fuck are you here?
02:47:23.000
Like, yo, I'm tired of girls coming on the platform trying to disrespect me like, ooh.
02:47:59.000
Some people in the chat might be saying something or whatever, but the reason why I harp on this shit is because This is just the attitude of average females.
02:48:10.000
They're like, oh, well, I'm special, blah, blah.
02:48:29.000
She said she had a good time hearing from people's opinions.
02:48:56.000
I went through hell in the past, like, ten so years.
02:49:17.000
And this was actually a really cool opportunity to come up here and actually be a human being and sit and talk to other human beings.
02:49:25.000
Some of it might not have been very pleasant listening to other human beings.
02:49:49.000
All right, stop playing with me before I get on your last.
02:49:57.000
Anyways, I'm very thankful and grateful for this opportunity.
02:50:02.000
I really respect y'all opinions, and y'all help me get a little bit better insight on my man, because you know I'm in a relationship or whatever.
02:50:12.000
Well, it just gives me more insight in my relationship and how my man may be thinking, so I appreciate that, because you feel me?
02:50:19.000
Oh God, because we be having conversations like this, and I don't like, I don't be like, you know, trying to, I just be listening, I just be like, sometimes I don't be understanding it, but you feel me?
02:50:28.000
I just listen, and it's really cool getting to listen to y'all, because it's like, it's different perspectives, it's facts, you feel me, whatever, but I'm grateful.
02:50:46.000
I'm able to adapt to the different personalities.
02:51:13.000
See, they're having fun because they're drinking.
02:51:18.000
I'll be on the Twitch streams, I'll be on the Kicks streams, I'll be on the Pornhub, all that.
02:51:40.000
I appreciate everybody that really brought me out like my doors really brought me out today and um it mean a lot to me and you know um I've been going through a lot of shit in real life I don't talk about it.
02:51:52.000
I got this fighting boxing shit with Aiden Ross.
02:51:55.000
I got all this extra ass shit with all these extra niggas that don't mean nothing.
02:52:25.000
I appreciate you like a motherfucker, bro, too.
02:52:30.000
A lot of people don't give everybody a flowers.
02:52:35.000
I really love y'all to death and I appreciate it.
02:52:38.000
Thank you for being open and sharing your story on stream.
02:52:44.000
Man, I just want to say, bro, I've been seeing how you and Myron, Fresh and Myron, how y'all been coming, bro, and I just want to say, bro, like, it's cool to see it in real life, bro, and, like, the difference between you guys...
02:52:56.000
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I do, and I understand what y'all both do, bro.
02:53:00.000
What I really do want to say is, like, the difference between you guys and 99.9% of the females is that you guys always talk factual and not feelings, bro.
02:53:14.000
And I also have some real experience, so I know exactly what you mean.
02:53:19.000
You are like a fucking cult hero, bro, for these people.
02:53:40.000
If you really want some good smelling cologne...
02:53:54.000
Creed Aventus never fails, but it's $500 for a big bottle.
02:54:01.000
And then, have you ever met a loyal, high-value man that is faithful?
02:54:11.000
If she doesn't fuck after three dates, if she doesn't fuck after three weeks, if she reschedules three times, don't waste your time on these 304s.
02:54:25.000
If you a smooth nigga and you not focused on 100% just fucking all the time, then you will understand it.
02:54:32.000
It took me three months to fuck my bitch that I'm with right now.
02:55:20.000
I ran, I ran so far away I just ran, I ran all night and day