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00:03:02.000I went ahead and broke down the trial day by day with the different testimony.
00:03:06.000A lot of the predictions that I gave you all came true.
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00:04:36.000Okay, so ladies, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, education level, and if you want to, of course, your body count.
00:10:51.000You can either just say your age or the dudes in the chat are going to stalk you and then they're going to find out your age and they're going to roast you in the chat.
00:19:36.000So it's really funny because my dad and my mom were together for 11 years and then he said he would never be with her again and then they ended up living together in the same house for like Four or five years.
00:38:04.000Why would he choose you, the average man?
00:38:08.000Okay, I would stay with the average man because, like, some people, it's like, you could live however you want to live as long as, like, you could pay for your home and, like, you feel happy.
00:38:24.000If you loving me right, and I'm not, like, an average girl, but, like, I'm not gonna disrespect nobody for, like, choosing an average life.
00:39:17.000Yeah, but he's always growing, so it's not something that I care a lot about, but he makes money, but I'm not going to say he's rich or anything like that.
00:39:47.000Why do you claim men can't get you off, yet you desensitize yourself with high-powered toys if it takes you 20 minutes to get off from the real thing you're desensitized?
00:52:54.000I had a person, like, he didn't have a car, like, he was driving a rental, and he would get, like, a driver, like, this big SUV truck for, like, our dates every time and stuff like that, just so he won't drive in his Nissans.
00:53:07.000I think that's, I mean, because I could say money and, like, money experiences, but I feel like that was, like, just something that stood up to me.
00:53:54.000Well, he wanted to, but he didn't tell me to go to his crib or invite me to his crib or ask to come upstairs when I got dropped off and nothing like that.
00:54:47.000I was seeing this guy and I asked for a break and after like the first day, he was like, I'll give you a thousand dollars if you end the break.
00:57:32.000I don't know if he is looking right now or not, but he always texts me under my pictures, come back to Moscow, I'll get married, or I'll give you money.
01:00:24.000During lunch, he took the microphone, like, I don't know if anybody else could ever did this, but it was always something going on at lunch.
01:00:32.000So he took the microphone, stood up on the bench, and literally apologized to me, like, trying to, like, beg me to come back.
01:03:08.000Let's say out of a thousand times you do simps one time, it's a girl that's simping for a guy that literally is pretty much giving her a good D game.
01:03:16.000But in terms of actually simping for somebody without any type of value, you guys are not that type of people.
01:04:14.000Real quick, why do you think there's more female sims?
01:04:16.000Because, like I said, when we're really down for you, I'm not speaking in terms of people who have been hurt and then they go into situations.
01:04:24.000No, I'm asking, when I said, are there more male sims or more female sims, which gender has more people that will give free resources to someone that doesn't give a fuck about them?
01:04:37.000What makes you think that there's more female simps?
01:04:39.000I feel like that based on everywhere that I've seen, it's normally the female that stays down with the man and the man doing the dirt, no cap.
01:06:07.000It's harder for a guy to get a girl than a girl to get a guy.
01:06:10.000Like, you guys do realize that, like, the reason why you're able to finesse a guy and get him to send you 500 bucks and not jump on a plane, or you saying I'm a woman of God, which is Cap, or you saying that I was able to go ahead and tell my boyfriend on the loudspeaker I don't accept your apology, is because women have the leverage all the time.
01:08:28.000Depending on the type of woman that you're going for, that's the type of person that's either going to simp for you or not going to simp for you.
01:08:35.000There's a lot of average guys that want to go for above average and vice versa as well.
01:08:39.000There are women that want to go for above average and they're average as well.
01:08:42.000But what I'm saying is as far as like really simping for you, even if you're not attractive, even if you're not making money, if you went towards somebody that's not like the baddest, the IG baddie, whatever the case may be, that woman will simp for you.
01:10:38.000Like, the guy's got to, you know, put the charm on, the charisma, etc.
01:10:41.000Then the girl likes him, then she starts to invest.
01:10:43.000The only way I've seen, personally, this is from my experience, I'm not saying it's all women of this stature.
01:10:50.000I'm just saying, from my experience, what I've seen, if a girl is dating a guy and simping on him, is because either she does OnlyFans, she's a porn star, or she's an industry, and she's kind of like, do extra to make him like her because she's seen as a whole.
01:12:04.000The thing is, is that if you post your cash app and I post my cash app, you have a way higher likelihood of getting simps to send you money versus me getting women to send me money.
01:12:13.000Actually, I think, okay, any other guy, no, but you, you probably would get girls.
01:12:17.000Like, girls would probably send you money.
01:18:01.000A guy was sent through marriage, through, like, years of, like, look, for example, the guy's been texting her, like, how long has he been texting you?
01:18:53.000I don't think y'all gonna stay and like y'all act like just saying bless you to somebody that sneezed on the street y'all feelings are hurt like I don't think y'all would stay knowing like especially if you put a man in a woman's perspective and they go through a text message or whatever the case may be That man is not staying.
01:19:12.000They will continuously think of that same text message.
01:19:15.000Every argument that you have, they're bringing it up.
01:19:17.000And I'm not saying that women don't bring it up too, but we're more susceptible to like bury how we feel about it just for the sake of, oh, I remember when it was good and he is trying or let me try to...
01:19:29.000Because men cheating is not the same as women cheating.
01:20:47.000But you are incorrect because I literally have proven that there are entire economies and infrastructures created upon men being simps, but there are not entire economies and infrastructures on women being simps.
01:20:57.000No man's going to want to be with a woman that sleeps with everyone.
01:21:00.000You can only name two men that you've simped for, yet there are more men that have simped on you.
01:22:35.000The pornography industry, the nightlife industry, these are billion dollar industries predicated on male sexuality trying to simping on women.
01:23:34.000But if men aren't in a position in which they have to ever make the choice to accept or deny that payment, because like you're saying, women aren't shelling out bans to see men flex, then how are you in a position to declare the moral status of women How are you in a position to call women hoes for doing OnlyFans or prostitution?
01:23:52.000Like, how can you say women are privileged because they get these opportunities, but then judge them for acting on that privilege?
01:23:59.000Well, privilege is invisible to those that have it and no one respects anything that is easy.
01:24:02.000So if a girl decides to monetize her sexuality and put herself in a certain light, well, there comes with consequences typically.
01:24:08.000And when you objectify yourself as a woman, men in return objectify you.
01:24:12.000But then when it is easy for a man to sleep with many women, if he is an alpha man, but let's say he's Justin Bieber and he sleeps with many women, that's easy for him.
01:25:32.000If you're a man and you're broke, most likely your woman isn't going to respect you.
01:25:38.000If you're a man with money, most likely she's going to do as she's told because she wants to keep the guy who brings the bacon, takes care of her.
01:28:55.000I'm telling you, every man I know lost count.
01:28:57.000The point is that a woman, I mean, except for her, I guess, but most girls are not going to disqualify a guy that they like off of their body count.
01:29:03.000But a man will absolutely disqualify a girl he likes off of her body count.
01:29:51.000Black Blossom 6, Chica Chi 5, Ghost Chick 5, Megan the Male Horse 4, Mia Khalifa 5, Bootleg Charlotte Flair 4, Black Bubbles 5, and Transformer Buttercup 3.
01:30:29.000Andrew Tate as a truck driver, I've been able to increase my income from 175 to 375k per year using their tools and advice and hustle I can do from the road on my phone and laptop.
01:32:24.000But want to be fair to say that if you want to get married and you want to be elevated to that position, that you probably have to play the part so that you get elevated to wife.
01:32:34.000So wouldn't it be fair to say that you need to do wife and material things so that you can get wifed up in the first place?
01:33:47.000Depending on the tone, I most likely will.
01:33:50.000If he's like, yo, like, how you said, kinda like, I don't really like how you're wearing that, you know, nigga's probably gonna look at you type shit.
01:33:58.000Can you just please wear something else?
01:34:53.000I think you should wear whatever you want, because it's all relative.
01:34:56.000Like, there are hijabi women who will look at our definition of modest garb and consider us whorish.
01:35:01.000And likewise, I've heard men say that they consider their girlfriend even wearing makeup in a relationship to be them seeking attention from other men.
01:35:08.000And I feel like if you just use the male gaze as guidance, you're just being controlled.
01:35:15.000So, okay, so you think they should be able to dress however they want?
01:35:18.000Yeah I mean obviously if I was dating a guy and he said this makes me feel a bit insecure then I would like be amenable to that discussion but I don't as a blanket rule think that like what I wear is a reflection of my loyalty to him.
01:35:31.000But wouldn't it be fair to say that people judge a book by its cover in today's society?
01:35:35.000Yes and like I said some people judge that in a very dumb way and in a way that's a projection of their own insecurity same way a guy would look at like I said a girl wearing makeup Well, if a homeless person, right, or let's say someone dresses like a homeless person and they look dirty and dingy and they come up to you and say hello,
01:35:56.000Are you asking talk to them like in a romantic sense?
01:35:59.000No, but like if they came up to you and they were like, give me some money and wanted to have a conversation with you or whatever, would you talk to them?
01:36:05.000If someone shouted at me, give me money?
01:37:59.000So if your guy told you to change, you would not change?
01:38:05.000Obviously, in a relationship, you compromise and you do things for the other person's insecurity, but that doesn't mean that I think it reflects on my value.
01:38:14.000So if that made my boyfriend insecure and I value the way he feels, then maybe I would change, but it's not because I think I have less value dressed in a certain way in a relationship.
01:38:24.000Do you think it's really insecurity or more about him trying to make sure that you...
01:38:30.000Present yourself in a way where people respect you and don't look at you as an object.
01:38:34.000Well, like I said, what do you think of the example of makeup?
01:38:36.000If my boyfriend were to say, stop wearing makeup, why are you wearing makeup if you have a boyfriend unless you're trying to attract other men?
01:38:42.000Do you think that's insecurity or valid?
01:38:44.000I mean, that does not equate nearly to the same level as dressing provocatively, showing your tits and having your body out.
01:39:07.000If you're showing your ass, your titties, etc., you're over-sexualizing yourself.
01:39:10.000Enhancing your beauty is one thing, but sexualizing yourself is a completely different thing, let's be honest here.
01:39:16.000I've seen a video where a girl walks down the street of Manhattan for 12 hours wearing a white v-neck tank top tucked into jeans and people say she's asking to be catcalled.
01:39:25.000Would you consider that a provocative outfit?
01:39:57.000I'm saying if you take, we're taking two extremes here.
01:39:59.000And I'm saying when you dress extremely modestly, it reduced the amount of catcalls significantly.
01:40:07.000Obviously, it doesn't have to go to that level, but it just goes to show the difference that, yes, men are going to catcall you no matter what, but how you dress and how you put yourself out to the world does increase or decrease how you are received by the world.
01:40:19.000So that standard outfit, white t-shirt, jeans, she just happens to have curves.
01:40:25.000Should she dress like that if she has a boyfriend?
01:40:27.000That adds even more credence to what we're saying because even if you dress regularly, guys are going to catcall you, so wouldn't it behoove you to think, damn, if I dress provocatively for real, then that's going to be even worse.
01:40:39.000If the standard quo gets you that type of sexual attention, it's only going to get worse if you dress with your tits out and in a short dress.
01:41:38.000Generally speaking, now that video, I get it.
01:41:39.000It's a good example, but it's kind of staged, just so you know.
01:41:42.000Also as well, regarding this whole topic here, look, if you want change for your man because you think it's insecure of him for thinking that, I get that.
01:42:01.000Except when girls then say to their boyfriends, I don't want you to watch porn, I don't want you to check out other girls, then it's assumed we're operating out of insecurity.
01:42:09.000But if men do it, then we're supposed to take, put all their feelings on a pedestal.
01:43:13.000What ladies don't understand is that when you dress a certain way and you put yourself out in a certain way and you say, oh, I'm not listening to you, whatever, that tells me effectively you can't handle instruction.
01:43:21.000If you can't handle instruction, you can't obey me, you don't deserve to get me as a man.
01:43:28.000If I'm responsible for your safety, if I'm responsible for taking care of you, I'm the leader in the relationship and you don't listen to me.
01:43:35.000And I think more guys need to have stern boundaries with women because when girls dress a certain way, they put you in a compromising situation.
01:43:42.000It's disrespectful to you as a man if you're going to dress a certain way.
01:43:44.000And on top of that, not respect my authority.
01:43:46.000So I'm responsible for you, but I don't have authority over you?
01:44:06.000Because men are going to look at you and objectify you.
01:44:09.000And it's one thing if you dress provocatively with me there, but if you do it when I'm not there, well, I'm not there to do anything to protect you or to keep you out of harm's way.
01:45:08.000But for me, in my case, the reason why I said it depends is because we're still getting to know one another, right?
01:45:14.000So, like, you can genuinely have some form of, like, issue with control, or you can genuinely have some form of issue with, like, overtly asserting your dominance when it's not needed within our relationship.
01:45:28.000And so from then, like, depending on how they act, depending on what the situation is, will dictate, like, what I do.
01:45:34.000But, like, if it's a perfect, perfect world, he's treating me right, everything is right, I'm gonna change.
01:45:38.000Let's be honest, men don't ask for much.
01:45:40.000And the small things that they don't ask for is because they actually care about you.
01:45:43.000If they didn't care, they'd be like, wear whatever you want, girl.
01:45:46.000But that's, yeah, like, that's what I'm saying.
01:45:47.000That's the right, like, type of energy within that person.
01:45:51.000Like, there are some people who genuinely will ask you, hey, you're gonna have to get a job, you're gonna have to come home clean, take care of the kids, and you're gonna have to change.
01:45:57.000You can't wear this, you can't go here, you can't do this, you can't do that.
01:46:00.000Like, there's some men that will, like, they do overtly too much within that relationship.
01:46:05.000And like, like I said, the relationship phase is for us to get to know one another to see if we're compatible.
01:46:11.000That can happen, but the question was just closed for this point.
01:46:16.000I mean, I think guys do have to be overtly dominant with girls nowadays because women in the United States in general think that they know it all and they think that they're right and they think that being super open sexually and doing whatever the hell they want to do and dress whatever the hell they want to do and fuck male authority.
01:46:32.000I think guys have to be overly dominant in the United States to combat a lot of women that are indoctrinated by feminism.
01:47:35.000A female promiscuity can fuck up a man's legacy.
01:47:38.000That's why guys have such issues with girls being hoes in their relationship.
01:47:43.000We're just saying how men think, right?
01:47:45.000And it's because if you have a man that's good to you, taking care of you, and you don't have stuff like that, he might actually leave you.
01:47:51.000So we're just trying to close the gap.
01:48:46.000Oh, he's saying that person stole jokes from somebody else's channel.
01:48:50.000Okay, Pacmatic says, WFNF, ladies, are you looking for a traditional man?
01:48:56.000If yes, will you accept the tradition where the other son takes care of his parents by hosting them?
01:49:01.000Oh, he's saying if a guy is taking care of his parents, is that okay for you?
01:49:06.000Let's say you find a guy, he's successful, he's doing his thing, you wife him up, and he's taking care of his parents to bring him into the house, would you be cool with that?
01:53:16.000What if he was actually Gemini, and he might have finessed it, and he's about to marry you, and he says to you, look, babe, I'll be honest, I'm actually Gemini.
01:54:23.000Being big into it is, like, actually knowing, like, the background histories of all the astrologers.
01:54:27.000But what if he was, like, the perfect, like, perfect dude, like, the perfect height for you, making rich bank, treating you right.
01:54:36.000No, but I'm saying, like, what if, like, he's, like, the perfect dude, like, he genuinely listens to you, genuinely is taking you out on the days that you want to be taking on flowers.
01:54:50.000Precious That's crazy because these dudes aren't here.
01:54:53.000I don't know, but obviously, hypothetically, right?
01:54:59.000Hypothetically, five years go by and I just now found out that he's a Gemini.
01:55:03.000Depending on how the relationship been for five years, I'll stay.
01:55:08.000But if the relationship been terrible within the five years and he asked me to marry him, I'm saying no.
01:55:15.000Especially because he's a Gemini on top of that.
01:55:17.000So I have a theory, right, where I believe if a woman has a past with somebody and that individual has a specific star sign and it's an emotional, like, past of, like, negativity, they carry it to the next person and say, you know what, if you're an Aries, you're like this.
01:55:30.000And I'm just like, that's that emotional, like, damage, pretty much, because you're bringing the past up in your present because of a star sign.
01:55:38.000How many ladies here believe in astrology?
01:55:46.000Are you guys aware that a study came out, I think, in 2021 that said that people that believe in astrology tend to be narcissistic and lower IQ? I don't know.
02:04:22.000Well, because even in the face of irrefutable fact, you refuse to accept reality, which is typically a trait of a woman that doesn't have a strong male figure in her life.
02:04:31.000And then also, you just don't understand and or respect male authority.
02:04:35.000Like when we say certain things or whatever, you question it even though you're wrong.
02:12:04.000She gave me an Instagram shout out like a year ago.
02:12:06.000She was like the first celebrity to actually like tag me.
02:12:09.000But I think she's a great role model and we can like diss her for doing porn, but she's like renounced the industry and talked about how toxic they are.
02:12:15.000And if you guys are anti women going into porn, then I think there's no better role model.
02:12:19.000I find that so funny because you look just like her.
02:15:06.000No, she made it where she was the victim and, oh, well, I did it because, like, I was pressured or whatever and you guys are going to get me fucking killed, but she actually did do it.
02:15:15.000So, the hijab scene, she actually was the one that came up with that idea.
02:15:17.000There's a whole website dedicated to this where they expose all of her lies.
02:18:31.000Happy holidays, FNF. As ladies, what they think the average woman brings to the table and how that differs from what they bring to the table, since I am sure they all believe they are above average.
02:19:41.000Ladies, but based off your current life experience, if you could be born again and pick your gender, would you pick being a female again or being a male and why?
02:20:50.000Ladies, based off your current experience, if you were born again, if you could pick your gender, would you pick being a female again or a male?
02:21:52.000Oh, you mean like more outfit patterns and stuff like that?
02:21:55.000And also they have creative freedom in terms of like they could do art, do rapping at young ages because they don't have any real burden of performance.
02:22:04.000I'm just saying, I'm just saying, bro, like they can do whatever they want.
02:22:08.000I mean, but the best entertainers are all men.
02:24:14.000We're going to give you realistic male to female scenarios and gonna give you typical excuses that girls give guys and I want to see how you guys handle them as women if you guys think it's so easy to be attractive.
02:24:26.000I'm gonna go ahead and set up some mics.
02:24:29.000So we haven't done this segment in a while.
02:27:07.000The scenario is they matched on Bumble, so Fresh, you have to message her first, and then we'll go through the text message thread, and then I want you to set up a date and get laid.
02:44:39.000See, it's funny how, like, you didn't have, like, any, like, none of y'all were really able to combat, like, the common objections that girls give guys.
02:44:45.000So do you really think you could still get girls as a guy?
02:44:47.000I feel like girls are a little bit more nicer.
02:46:18.000Y'all think it's easy, bro, but now can you guys see why men that can get girls are respected versus girls that get guys are not really respected?
02:46:41.000Whatever happened to the lie detectives y'all have put it on Walmart Mia Khalifa now The North Pole, even after that spaced out answer, she still get another thousand DMs tomorrow.
02:55:39.000Would you give up the Bottle Girl life and get into something else that might be a little bit, you know, more, how do I say this, appealing to guys?
02:55:46.000Yeah, I'm in school for surgical tech, remember?
02:55:50.000I mean, eventually I'm going to be in surgical tech.
02:55:54.000Okay, so you're going to get out of the Bottle Girl thing.
02:55:56.000But how many years is that going to take you, though?
02:57:58.000So it's kind of to make things fair and more, I guess, civilized.
02:58:04.000Yeah, monogamy definitely benefits average men and women in general, but guys that are higher status don't play by those rules.
02:58:14.000But monogamy definitely, and they've shown this too, societies are far more stable than With monogamy in play.
02:58:21.000This is why Christianity, etc., Western countries, they typically tend to be more stable because monogamy promotes that.
02:58:28.000Versus you look at polygamous countries where the highest status men get all the girls.
02:58:32.000I hate to say it in Islamic countries a lot of times.
02:58:35.000They're less stable because they've shown studies that if a man is single and doesn't have a family or children, they're more likely to be committing acts of violence.
02:58:43.000And that happens a lot of times from not getting sexual access.
03:00:02.000My fucking question was, if you had a porn star, the girl that you like the most, or whatever, and you guys have, like, a really good connection, and you really like this girl, but, you know, she has a past, would you give her a chance?
03:00:14.000I mean, based on my actions, the answer is no.