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00:03:31.000Anyway, also guys, check me out on Spada 1811, as you guys know, on that channel.
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00:13:14.000I would say that's when I started to really get invested in social media, so I was really focused on building my career.
00:13:21.000My fault is I definitely wasn't putting that much effort into it anymore.
00:13:25.000And I would say with him, I think I just was looking for someone with a little bit more drive that matched my drive because I was really trying to make something myself and he wasn't really at that spot yet.
00:24:27.000I don't think, really, you can look in the mirror and be like, I'm a bad bitch, and then go across the street, they're going to be like, girl, you look crazy.
00:24:33.000So, society has to deem her a bad bitch.
00:27:56.000Since we're talking about looks wise and everything, I would say like keeping yourself like kept like taking care of yourself as far as like skincare and making sure like you know everything else looks good like Everything.
00:28:06.000I guess keeping up with yourself, like going to the gym, making sure you feel good.
00:28:10.000And then as far as to consider a bad bitch, it should be yourself.
00:28:15.000Because you got to have confidence in yourself that you believe that you're a bad bitch.
00:28:42.000Like, nigga, I made a couple girls cry because I just told them, like, girl, your pussy stinks, nigga.
00:28:47.000I don't know what the fuck you're saying.
00:28:51.000It's so crazy because it's like you guys say, girls are just not used to being held accountable because they're like, oh my god, why would you say that?
00:32:17.000If they think that their confidence matters, then they want the confidence in their woman to matter as well.
00:32:23.000But if they're not confident and they're just fucking around and they don't care, then...
00:32:30.000Yeah, I just found it very interesting how you guys named a bunch of traits that women typically find attractive in men, and you think that men are attracted to the same things.
00:32:39.000And I'm here to tell you guys that men in general don't really give a fuck about your confidence.
00:33:00.000I was just saying, men do not, we don't like the fucking competition because what comes with confidence in women is like a lot of masculine fucking traits.
00:33:30.000And I was like, I was like, okay, well, like, do you understand that if, like, you guys, I asked someone, I said, do you guys all want, like, tall men?
00:33:37.000And she was just like, they were like, yeah.
00:33:38.000And I was like, well, I was like, if you like tall men, then why the fuck would...
00:33:44.000Or if you guys like men that are taller than you, why the fuck would we like women that are just as tall as us?
00:35:02.000My question is, so you've never been with a woman, and not just a fuck, I mean, like, if you actually like her, and, you know, you give her compliments, and you're like, oh, baby, you're beautiful.
00:35:18.000Like, turning down every single compliment you give her because she doesn't have, like, she doesn't have any confidence, like, that kind of gets annoying.
00:35:31.000Like, I'm not saying I want to know that hates life.
00:35:34.000Like, I don't know where I am, blah, blah, blah.
00:35:35.000But what I am saying is that typically, right, when women are confident, bad habits come from that.
00:35:41.000And it's very annoying to deal with a girl that's extremely confident because most girls are extremely arrogant and cocky about themselves thanks to, like, social media and Instagram and stuff.
00:35:52.000There needs to be a balance because there's a difference between being confident in your abilities.
00:35:56.000But most girls don't have that balance.
00:35:58.000There are some girls that have confidence in their abilities and confidence just, you know, oh, I can confidently go jump off this building or I can confidently wear these high heels that I've never worn before and walk into a building.
00:36:22.000So we're just saying, look, as a guy, we want a girl that's secure in herself, but at the same time, she knows, you know what, my man has, I want to say leadership, and I'll follow suit, pretty much.
00:36:31.000A lot of girls have quite a bit of hubris, and that is very annoying and a turnoff to most guys.
00:36:40.000And I blame, like, social media and the internet, etc., because girls get so much attention that they think, okay, well, I deserve the top-tier guy when them themselves are average thanks to the internet.
00:36:48.000It's kind of made things oversaturated.
00:36:51.000But what I'm saying is I just find it very interesting that when we ask girls, you know, what makes a bad bitch, they typically name masculine traits.
00:37:17.000None of y'all mentioned anything about going to the gym and keeping a slim figure.
00:37:19.000None of y'all mentioned anything about keeping your hair nice, long, and thick.
00:37:22.000None of y'all mentioned anything about exuding a feminine presence.
00:37:25.000None of y'all talked anything about walking in a certain way, maybe that's more feminine, not walking and acting like a guy.
00:37:31.000You guys name things that are surface level, and then on top of that, not necessarily things that men are actually attracted to.
00:37:38.000You might get our attention with some of these things, but you guys didn't mention true feminine traits, which You know, I think speaks more to the volume of the day and age that we're in now where women are more masculine and act more like guys.
00:37:55.000One, he's either just trying to fucking lie to you because he wants your fucking pussy.
00:37:58.000Or two, he himself is a fucking pussy.
00:38:00.000Because the only niggas that actually get in tight, the only niggas that sit there and are actually impressed by a woman's confidence, they're probably just intimidated by your confidence.
00:38:09.000And like, they're just, you know what I'm saying?
00:38:10.000Because I can tell you right now, if a girl comes with me with too much fucking confidence, it's just like...
00:38:14.000I'm not talking about too much confidence.
00:38:16.000I'm talking about just having, like, the balance that I was saying.
00:38:19.000But it's like, you guys say that shit, but it's like, you guys probably have way more confidence in this balance than you're talking about.
00:38:29.000Confident comes with personality, though.
00:38:31.000You're going to fuck with a girl or, you know, want to fuck with her as soon as how she move around, even though you don't want to fuck with a girl that's getting too drunk in front of all your homeboys and acting up at the end of the day.
00:38:42.000What does it have to do with confidence?
00:38:44.000Because confidence, girls know how to manage themselves at the end of the day.
00:38:47.000They know how to drink, manage their drink.
00:38:50.000You will never see me drunk in a club.
00:40:29.000But the thing women don't understand when they're successful and make money in entrepreneurs is that typically comes with more masculine traits.
00:40:35.000Being argumentative, less agreeable, etc.
00:40:37.000Which is great for making money, but men don't give a shit about any of that stuff.
00:43:20.000The point of the argument, the point I'm trying to make is, it sounds good on paper to say some BS like, let's build together.
00:43:27.000But the reality is, women don't build, they move in.
00:43:30.000And what I mean by that is, when a man is built up and he's attractive, the girl comes in and compliments him and she might help him a bit.
00:43:36.000But you don't want a guy, because if you have to build a guy up, it's an L already.
00:44:33.000Like, they take your car, y'all say, baby boy.
00:44:37.000Like I said, I think it's because we kind of live in this world now where we tell women that they can do everything a man does and they can support a man.
00:44:44.000But the reality is your biology is not designed to do it.
00:44:46.000That's why when a girl is in a breadwinner position, she is in a leadership position.
00:44:50.000Like, Society tells her, no, you're strong and independent.
00:46:56.000You're dating a guy seriously for two months that makes $100,000 annually, finally introduces you to his recently divorced millionaire father who shows obvious interest in you.
00:50:07.000Somebody carries that role and I feel like as a woman, being with a woman, Me, personally, the roles fluctuated too much between the both of us.
00:53:33.000Are you really a bisexual woman if you don't see yourself being in a long-term relationship with another woman?
00:53:38.000Because I can mess around with a chick and I can have fun and all that, but I don't see myself being in a relationship with a woman, so I don't call myself bisexual for the exact reason that you said.
00:53:49.000I like your definition because when a woman says she's bisexual, most of the time she says that.
00:54:32.000If I'm just like hanging out, girls, but if I was like at the gym or something, I would rather be with my guy friends because the girls will just want to like chat and stuff.
00:54:39.000But typically, if I'm just hanging out, I'd want the girls.
00:54:59.000What I've realized is, and I think you guys are just trying to be contrarian just for being it, but most girls, a lot of times, have given the choice to hang out with their guy friends and their female friends.
00:56:29.000Like, no offense, like, she couldn't name three countries, but she's attractive enough where a guy, she'll meet a guy that can't name three countries.
00:57:15.000What he's really thinking, all that respect shit, what he's really thinking is like, the moment I get to cheat, I'm like, how about you You're messing with somebody and his friends are your friends as well.
01:02:54.000Can you repeat the question one more time?
01:02:56.000So the question is, let's say we go into an imaginary world where you have a little brother or son and you want to equip them with knowledge to deal with a trifling hoe in the future.
01:03:07.000What are three things you would tell them, three secret ways that girls cheat on guys that they could watch out for, that regular guy might not know?
01:03:17.000I would say biggest red flag is if they're hiding their phone.
01:06:44.000I'll definitely say, like, if she's, like, way too controlling, she uses, like, manipulation to get him, like, get him to, like, do whatever she wants.
01:06:52.000And then also, like, if she, like, lies about, like, little things.
01:06:59.000Go a little bit deeper into why you think the manipulation is an indicator that she's cheating on him.
01:07:04.000Okay, because it's just like, okay, if you're in a relationship and you really are, like, happy and everything like that, why does manipulation have to be involved or anything like that for him to, like, believe something?
01:07:13.000Like, you could also manipulate him to believe, like, this certain thing, but really it's something else.
01:07:39.000Most of the time, and this happens with men or women, if you have to go out and control, like, your partner so much, it's because, like, you don't want them to do the things that you are already low-key doing.
01:09:02.000I feel like cheating hasn't been really a thing in my life, but I would say if a girl all of a sudden doesn't want you in her pictures, like if she's like...
01:09:18.000I would say, yeah, I would say if she's trying to dodge her pictures together, maybe I would say acting differently on one spectrum or another.
01:09:28.000If they're all of a sudden super distant or if they're all of a sudden super clingy just randomly, I think that they're guilty about something.
01:09:35.000They're either kind of not interested anymore, the cheating made them realize they don't really want you, so all of a sudden they're kind of taking a step back.
01:09:40.000Or they feel super guilty, so all of a sudden they're love bombing you and really nice to you, really obsessed with you.
01:11:05.000You're my homeboy and I'm going to bring my girl.
01:11:07.000And if you started hitting up on my girl and see how she reacts to you or how she responds to you or how she even answers to you, if she entertained you, then she's for the street.
01:11:17.000So you want to test her to see how she interacts with other men.
01:11:51.000If your best friend covered for you and you're next to your boyfriend, you've already been messy for so long and she covered for you before.
01:15:13.000Because you just said right now you don't use guys for what they have.
01:15:16.000But attention is a commodity to women.
01:15:18.000So the fact that you're saying that you don't use men for what they have, but you just said right now you used them for attention because he's a nice guy.
01:16:26.000If they start arguments out of nowhere for no reason, like she was saying, they're just trying to make up an excuse to get away from you so they can go fuck somebody else.
01:17:01.000I've been involved sexually or physically or anything with another person while I came in a relationship.
01:17:07.000Now, one time I actually had this, not in this relationship, old relationship years ago, I had a conversation with a man and I actually had a connection and I felt like I cheated even though we just talked.
01:18:56.000Basically, however she's talking about her friends is a reflection of her.
01:19:01.000So if she's saying, oh, so-and-so did this, and her and her man are going through this, she's basically comparing your relationship that you have with her to her other friends, so she's looking for something else.
01:19:36.000If you had a son and he was with a girl and you found out that her friends were promiscuous, would you allow him to continue your relationship with that woman or would you give him some advice?
01:24:33.000If you and your man works the same hours, but he makes more than you and pays all the bills, will you be mad at him for not doing house chores as frequently as you do?
01:26:41.000Does your guy, since you don't take care of house chores, and I'm assuming he supports you everything and you're able to stay home and live a certain lifestyle, I'm assuming this guy does well financially?
01:27:26.000Because let's be honest here, if the dude has this kind of money that you're talking about, more than likely other women are going to find him attractive too.
01:28:15.000Like I said, it's an option if I want to do laundry for four hours a day or I want to do just basic shit and have the other girl come and do the laundry for four hours.
01:28:48.000But yes, I would suck his dick and make him forget.
01:28:50.000But no, I personally don't want to do any chores, nothing like that.
01:28:53.000And if he forced me and made me or is going to put a strain on our relationship, of course I'm going to compromise and be like, babe, I will do the fucking dishes.
01:29:00.000So, I don't know if all the ladies here know this, but let me give you guys an uncomfortable truth that women typically, I think you guys know this deep down, but you don't want to accept it.
01:29:38.000Again, so men typically are as faithful as their options.
01:29:41.000So if this guy's affording you a certain lifestyle where you're able to stay home and chill and you don't have to worry about doing chores, more than likely other women are going to find him attractive too.
01:29:48.000So what I'm saying is that It's not a matter of if.
01:29:52.000It's just a matter of when or if you do catch him having sex with other girls.
01:29:56.000It would be foolish for you to break that off with that guy when he takes care of you because you're never going to sexually satisfy your guy by yourself because, quite frankly, ladies, none of y'all are that special.
01:30:56.000He might be a threesome virgin because he doesn't want to have sex with two girls, but that doesn't change the fact that he doesn't want other women.
01:31:04.000Men typically bust their ass to become successful so they don't have to be monogamous.
01:31:10.000Most guys are monogamous out of necessity.
01:31:12.000Yeah, but I feel like those are the traditional type men.
01:31:16.000I guess if you have somebody that is a little more fun, I mean, we go to strip clubs together, we smack bitches ass together.
01:31:22.000You don't think he fucks other bitches when you're not there?
01:32:29.000I got literally, I got rings, I got cars, I have literally everything that's in my name, his name, so it's like he can't go nowhere without me really knowing.
01:36:46.000Most guys that are aware of how women think and operate don't want to put one of their main chicks in a threesome with them because they're going to deal with headaches after.
01:39:53.000Do you think he loves her more if he tells her the truth, hey, I'm having sex with other girls and you're just going to be one of them, but I love you?
01:39:58.000Or he doesn't tell her about it and lets her kind of live in her illusion?
01:40:50.000I think if a guy is having that thought, like, I really want to go fuck other girls, like, I don't really think he's in love with a girl and should stay with her.
01:41:31.000Men want to have sex with other girls.
01:41:33.000Does he love his woman more by telling her the truth about his biology and want to have sex with other girls or B? Letting her live in an illusion.
01:41:40.000I guess I'd have to say A. You think the truth?
01:42:30.000He may or may not have already been doing it, but he's telling you.
01:42:32.000I think if he just wants to, like you said, that's just a normal, like a guy wants to sleep with other girls, but if he's not doing it, then just lie to him.
01:42:41.000He's about to do it, or he's already doing it.
01:43:42.000So you guys see how you're saying on one side, the man loves the woman more by telling her the truth, but the reality is most women can't handle the truth.
01:46:01.000Men must do and say anything to get laid because women's egos are all the way fucking up here and it comes back to the hubris I talked about in the conference and all this other shit.
01:46:09.000Men know that most women can't handle the truth so they give you guys comforting lies.
01:46:13.000W. And if you don't believe me, let's talk money.
01:48:10.000I mean, essentially, we're kind of born to be manipulated.
01:48:13.000You think about babies and men, like, we're kind of born to be lied to and manipulated.
01:48:16.000So it's been working for however long.
01:48:18.000The reason why girls like comforting lies is because y'all can't handle the truth.
01:48:22.000And it comes with relationships, it comes with advertising, et cetera.
01:48:25.000If we told y'all the truth, hey, stop being a bitch, stop being fat, stop being a hoe, et cetera, all you guys are going to feel some type of way, get offended, and call me a misogynist.
01:49:30.000You take all your ass pictures off the internet.
01:49:31.000I expect you to be my girl, my girl only.
01:49:34.000However, I'm going to go ahead and go out there and have sex with other women.
01:49:37.000I'll come back to you, but you'll be my main girl, but I'm going to have sex with other women.
01:49:40.000The reason why most guys can't say what I just stated is because most guys don't have the ball, the game, the attractiveness, or maybe the income or status to be able to tell most women that.
01:49:49.000Only a small percentage of men can actually do this.
01:50:30.000I actually did a YouTube video on this.
01:50:31.000I said he don't want that, so I can't force him.
01:50:33.000I actually did a YouTube video on this where, like, you know, girls, they always tell me, oh, if man would just be honest with us, then we would, you know what I'm saying?
01:50:39.000We would give them the pussy if y'all just said that that's all y'all wanted from the beginning.
01:53:34.000I'm trying to figure out what's the correlation between, you know, just fucking men just for fucking it and then, like, telling them the truth.
01:55:10.000Yeah, and also in LA, bro, you asked if moving to LA is better.
01:55:13.000It's definitely better than the Bay, but just the thing about LA you got to be aware of, if you're going to move there, niggas ain't going to just fuck with you immediately just because you're trying to be a content creator.
01:55:23.000LA is a lot of out-of-towners that move there and they just want to act like they're actually part of this LA lifestyle.
01:55:29.000But honestly, real LA niggas don't act like that.
01:55:31.000So everybody who's really over there and they're doing real content, being in the entertainment industry, they're going to want some type of value from you.
01:55:37.000If you're going to go there, you better come with some type of value or build your own before you sit there and expect all this fucking attention from other content creators.
01:58:20.000I think the biggest thing to understand is that men and women are different.
01:58:22.000If a woman presents a man a problem, it's in his nature to come up with a solution because men are deductive problem solvers.
01:58:29.000That's why men are 99% of the inventors.
01:58:31.000Yeah, that's why I apologize, because I was like, you know, it wasn't at a mail-in center or anything that you gave me that, so I was like, my apologies.
01:59:37.000Do you think that a girl should have guy friends, in your opinion?
01:59:41.000Well, as serious as I am, I don't think it even should be a question if you should have male friends because I don't even think you need to put yourself in that position to have a problem like that.
01:59:51.000Like, if you love your man, definitely don't put yourself in that position.
02:02:34.000If you're with a man, that's worth a damn, that has options, that's actually attractive to a majority of women, do you think he's going to wait for you to apologize?
02:11:24.000If a dude can go on your Instagram immediately and see that you have a boyfriend, he's at the top pinned nine out of ten times, it's like, yo, this is a red flag.
02:14:33.000I need you to be quiet for two seconds, because I'm gonna give her some game real quick, because you guys, again, really don't know how men think, right?
02:14:39.000So, Chris, just open up her profile real quick.
02:14:42.000Here's the thing, when a man opens up a girl's profile like this.
02:16:43.000The point is, the real reason you're rejecting him is because he didn't put himself in a certain light to be attractive, therefore you rejected him, right?
02:16:50.000You made a judgment off a book by its cover.
02:16:53.000What I'm saying is that men do the same shit.
02:16:55.000But y'all get mad when men do it to y'all, but you guys do it to us every single day.
02:16:59.000And what's even worse, he can't even control the tick on his head.
02:17:02.000You, however, can control what you post on Instagram, right?
02:18:07.000Okay, so you need to care about the opposite sex case.
02:18:14.000Yeah, but even as like, you know, the world kind of perceives you, if you are going to look like wife material, like I still have some very raunchy stuff.
02:18:22.000Like I cleaned up my Instagram so much after I got engaged.
02:18:37.000Yeah, it was way worse, and I had actually females coming to my profile, like, DMing me, like, why are you still, like, with these videos on your page?
02:19:22.000I gotta talk to the people real quick.
02:19:25.000This experiment is so revealing because girls are able to say stuff like, I don't care what the opposite gender thinks, blah, blah, blah, but yet y'all want to get wife.
02:19:33.000How would you guys, would it make sense if I just said, you know what, I'm gonna sit in home, play video games all day, eat Cheetos, be a fat piece of shit, and I deserve a bad bitch.
02:19:41.000Would I be delusional for saying that?
02:20:22.000Just like you wouldn't get to know me if I eat Cheetos all day and I'm a fat bum because I haven't done anything to be attracted to the opposite gender.
02:20:28.000But why is it such an issue when guys have standards and y'all don't want to adhere to them?
02:20:32.000Like, I don't care what y'all niggas think.
02:20:51.000I'm giving y'all a game instead of you guys shutting up and listening and saying, damn, maybe I should work on this to get married, to get a guy that actually values me, etc.
02:27:47.000Dudes are going to automatically assume, number one, you're single, number two, she might be for the streets and try to hit on you, and that's going to be an L. Hold on, hold on.
02:30:50.000Most girls fail this test because I've always found it interesting when girls are in long-term relationships with guys and they don't post their guy right up front.
02:31:50.000Yeah, I know y'all are saying, like, do men assume this, blah, blah, blah.
02:31:54.000We're just telling you guys how men assume.
02:31:55.000Anytime you're, like, showing your body all over the place, you're in foreign locations, you're with sports cars, etc., guys are going to assume she's with dudes, she's probably a hoe, blah, blah, blah.
02:32:13.000Y'all, again, we're just telling you guys how men think.
02:32:16.000Like, you guys don't like it, but this is the truth.
02:32:18.000Just like you guys don't want guys that are 505, short guys don't like hearing that truth, well, you control what's on the internet, and if you put yourself out in a certain way, men are gonna be like, oh, she's for the streets, they're gonna assume.
02:32:28.000They want us taking pictures in the crib, y'all.
02:32:30.000So can I ask you, what would you look for a woman to wife?
02:35:57.000I don't want to be an asshole or sound like a jerk, but this is why I always tell guys, don't believe what women say, only believe their actions.
02:36:04.000She says some bullshit about, I want a guy that's low-key, but the dude you're fucking and sucking right now is not low-key.
02:36:09.000So your actions do not go with what you're saying.
02:37:11.000Like in my past I wasn't and I had lower standards for men now with the man that I'm with I never see myself like I like I look back at my past and I'm like what the fuck was I thinking?
02:37:24.000Not saying I want to be a sugar mama, but...
02:38:37.000What if that attention was contingent upon you not getting attention from simps?
02:38:41.000In other words, you would have to deactivate all your social media profiles, not be outside, etc., to get that man's respect and attention.
02:39:56.000Men are the ones that give commitment out.
02:39:58.000So if you want to go work at a prestigious law firm, you have to have an education, maybe come from a good school, have a couple referrals, be qualified for the job, dress well for the interview, be well-spoken, be prepared to do whatever comes up, and then be ready to go up the totem pole, correct?
02:40:12.000Because a lot of people are applying to this law firm.
02:40:14.000So what the hell makes you think you're going to qualify for a higher status guy just by being you and we're just dating and all this other bullshit?
02:46:04.000Anything that restricts a woman's ability to exercise options, be a hoe, be promiscuous, etc., dressing a certain way, is always considered controlling.
02:46:17.000So here's the thing that women don't understand.
02:46:19.000When your girl goes outside, when she does certain things, she represents you.
02:46:23.000If your girl's outside looking crazy or whatever, that's a representation on the man.
02:46:27.000Anytime I see a girl disrespecting her guy, dressing provocatively, putting herself in a certain light out in public, I know that that guy doesn't have his shit together.
02:46:36.000Because when a woman's with a man she truly admires and respects, she knows what she can get away with and what she can't.
02:46:42.000And most of the time, that girl isn't going to put herself in positions where other men can approach her, talk to her, or whatever, to fuck up her situation with that guy.
02:47:21.000We respect each other and we don't have those type of issues because we set boundaries from the beginning.
02:47:25.000We both respect each other's boundaries.
02:47:26.000Now, there are men that are controlling to a point that you step one foot outside to go to the grocery store because I know I have friends that are with crazy controlling dudes and they lose their shit.
02:47:36.000So that's what I meant by controlling.
02:48:08.000It was about You know, I'm gonna give her some game right now.
02:48:12.000If your guy's a higher status as you're saying and he's great, whatever, take that video down, post a picture of him and stop doing anything on his show.
02:51:12.000I would say what surprised me is, I mean, I guess I could be understanding wrong, but from what I understand is, if a guy is successful in making money, he's going to cheat on you.
02:52:22.000Like 2% might not cheat on you, but to be honest, you probably won't be attracted to those guys.
02:52:27.000If they can cheat and get away with it, you'll find out.
02:52:30.000The men that you find attractive, the bad boys, the guys that have money, the guys that have status, the guys that have abs, the guys that are tall, the guys that you fucking want.
02:54:04.000You're not interested in it at the moment.
02:54:06.000But what if I told you that overwhelmingly, when polled, women want a child and family?
02:54:11.000yeah no i totally believe that that's not surprising so you do realize as you get older that window closes yeah absolutely to get that family and children yeah because and we've had girls come on the show that are 33 34 35 that had a career make money successful but they can't find a guy stay out of here yeah so i'm not saying that's yeah yeah so what i'm saying is that i always find it funny how girls don't want to go ahead and try to find a guy when their value is the highest like if you're in a casino and you're up Want to be best to cash out when you're up?
02:54:42.000Where's it better to wait until 5 or 30 in the morning, 30 minutes before it closes, and you're maybe down 100?
02:54:58.000And I think it'd be awesome if I found somebody else to do that with.
02:55:02.000But right now, I'm not going to be like, well, I'm going to get a boyfriend just because then down the line, I might not be able to get one just because I feel like I have to.
02:55:18.000So, you do realize as you get older and you make more money, which you're probably going to do, Your ability to find that guy is going to go down with it.
02:56:29.000And per se, I've seen actually the opposite.
02:56:31.000I've seen women that kind of like thrive just being stay-at-home moms, stay-at-home wives and just raising their kids, taking to private school, soccer.
02:56:37.000I think the biggest thing is You only have a finite amount of time to have children and a family, but you can always go ahead and chase a career after the family.
02:56:45.000And I think a lot of women make them...
02:56:48.000This is girls that come on the show a lot of times that kind of adopt feminist ideology of chasing a career first and trying to settle down later on.
02:56:54.000The problem is that when you make the money and you try to settle down later on, the very man you want doesn't want you.
02:57:07.000And this is how a lot of guys that make money think.
02:57:09.000Like, yo, I don't care what my girl makes because men understand I become rich so that women can be dependent upon me and the child and the family.
02:57:15.000But women, when they make money, y'all don't want nobody to be dependent upon you.
02:57:18.000You guys want to be independent of men, which is cool.
02:57:20.000But you fuck up your own ability to find a guy by making this money.
03:00:05.000And the reason why is because, in general, guys, you know, don't want their girl being too loud and obnoxious in public because it embarrasses them.
03:00:11.000Which is why they say women are to be seen and not heard.
03:01:38.000But now I know that people really look at it.
03:01:40.000She should worry about it though because more people were saying that you were less for the streets than they were saying for her.
03:01:46.000McQueen, what we just witnessed was just a perfect example of women giving each other bad advice.
03:01:54.000When we were telling them, hey, this is why your Instagram looks like it's for the streets or whatever, a bunch of the girls would give them cheering up advice like, oh no, girls, not that bad.
03:02:05.000Oh, you're so pretty, blah, blah, blah.