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00:03:56.000It's interesting, because I did a podcast with him, and he asked me questions about what it was like being working for the government, being a Fed.
00:16:08.000I just, I think, like, you know, it's kind of like when guys like each other, they like to roast each other, and that's how they show love to each other, and I feel like maybe girls should feel like that, too.
00:16:19.000I don't have any brothers, but a lot of my friends are guys and we roast each other.
00:16:24.000You know, I want to ask this because we've brought medical professionals on before.
00:16:30.000When you went to med school and when you were going to school, etc., was it 50-50 with the men and the women in your med school or was it mostly becoming more women, more men?
00:16:43.000Do you see the medical field equalizing as far as doctors go versus nurses?
00:16:48.000Yeah, right now I think there's a barrier because a lot of women have children, a lot of women have to do domestic housework and stuff like that.
00:16:59.000And so it is really hard for a woman to be full-time as a surgeon.
00:28:58.000It's not something to be ashamed about.
00:29:01.000Has erectile dysfunction exploded in significance over the past few years?
00:29:06.000Because I've Because I've looked at shit on this as far as like, you know, with the emergence of porn becoming more ubiquitous, ED has gone up alongside of it.
00:31:15.000This is something nobody talks about this, but one of the most common late-night ER visits in America, if you look this up, is people with objects stuck in their buttholes.
00:32:06.000As a journalist then, I'll ask because we do know in Florida and some of the hospitals across the country, they were inflating coronavirus rates.
00:32:18.000Maybe it was counted as a corona infection.
00:38:48.000And so for me like I don't I'm 30 years old and I don't I've never I know right like that you have the sound effects right but no seriously I'm 30 years old and I understand that I'm 30 and I'm single, but that's because of my choices, right?
00:39:06.000It's not that I wouldn't prioritize a man, but it's just really hard these days to meet somebody that wants to accept your lifestyle, right?
00:39:14.000It's not that I'm out here hoeing around or I'm not even on Instagram.
00:39:20.000I'm not on dating apps, none of that stuff.
00:39:22.000But I just think that when you're a public figure and you work a lot and you're in the limelight You have people that want to clout chase.
00:39:31.000You have people that sometimes they want to date you.
00:39:33.000Like, I get asked that all the time, but it's like, I don't want to date a fan, right?
00:39:38.000You don't want to date fans because they have this idea of, like, who you are, and they don't really want to know who you are, if that makes sense, right?
00:41:49.000And it's funny, because when Elon took over X, he even admitted that when he looked at the numbers, that conservative creators were banned something like three to five times as much as liberal creators.
00:42:08.000No, and so, you know, like, there's all these groups, right?
00:42:11.000Like, you have the ADL, and you have all these, like, Jewish organizations that push for censorship, but then when you have a Jewish person that is censored and actually shut down and, you know, like, really banned on extreme levels, they don't want to help because, well, I'm conservative, right?
00:42:25.000And so it's a tough spot to be in, but it's all right.
00:42:45.000I just came really excited because usually you guys have, like the panel you had the other night with the porn star that was lying about, you know, being a virgin.
00:43:33.000So I wish we had read that one on air, but we missed it.
00:43:36.000Okay, Aurelian Views goes, seeing as this panel is on the last 20% of their eggs, how important is it for you to have kids?
00:43:44.000And would you give up your career to be a stay-at-home wife, or would you continue to pursue it and let them be raised by an iPad babysitter in the public school system?
00:43:52.000So how important is it for you to have kids?
00:43:54.000And would you give up your career to be a...
00:44:53.000I actually did give up my career, not to have kids, but to be engaged.
00:44:57.000Like, I was, like, at the top of my modeling career, and my ex-fiance was super controlling, and he, at first, acted like he wasn't, and then when I started getting close to, like, Lil Wayne and Lil Baby and those big artists, He was like, oh no, you need to be closed in.
00:45:13.000And I literally retired because of that.
00:46:06.000You were basically saying, I don't know the word for word verbatim, but you basically said like the Shaniquas and the Shaquandas, like you don't like girls with names and shenanigans.
00:46:19.000And like me, I'm light-skinned, but I have a black sister, like dark-skinned sister.
00:46:26.000I'm like, wait a second, you as an African-American dark-skinned individual to say something like that, I was like, wow, like that's crazy.
00:48:30.000I'm not anti-Muslim, but I am anti-Islam.
00:48:34.000Like, I'm not a fan of Islam, because, you know, it's an oppressive ideology.
00:48:37.000I think that it's a supremacist ideology, and it oppresses women.
00:48:41.000And, like, you yourself, you said you were joking, but you're not joking, right?
00:48:45.000When you said your parents left because you're Christian, you left because in these countries where they have Sharia law, you are not able to practice your religion fully.
00:48:54.000And so here in the United States of America, where they say we have so-called freedom of religion, yeah, well, like Muslims here in America are not living in reality because that's not the reality for like 90% of the world's Muslims, right?
00:49:06.000Like two billion of the world's Muslims.
00:49:08.000And so because I speak out about human rights violations, right, like I'm not in favor of stoning women, only whores, right?
00:49:20.000Um, I'm not in favor of throwing gays off of buildings, right?
00:49:25.000I'm not a fan of all these, you know, free Palestine whack jobs running around the streets of Miami that are calling for the eradication of Israel and Jews.
00:49:39.000I'm a fan of Islam as an ideology, but I look at people on an individual basis.
00:49:44.000But yeah, you can't really read Google because I like to joke, and it's not really even a joke because it's real, but Jeffrey Dahmer, you know, the serial killer, we have the same birthday.
00:49:54.000We have the same birthday as Jeffrey Dahmer and he has a nicer Wikipedia page than mine.
00:49:59.000Like, they give him a nicer Wikipedia than me.
00:50:53.000It's like you could have said like my preference is this, but saying things like Shanika or Shaquanda and dabble in the dark, I feel like that's almost borderline racist.
00:53:53.000Ricky Sticky goes, ask the ladies, if you were trying to get as much sex as possible, how many different guys would you sleep with in a month?
00:55:55.000She hit her right on the head on the nail, you know, we sisters, so we probably was thinking about the same thing.
00:56:00.000But, yeah, just really honestly thinking that they don't have to court us.
00:56:08.000I believe, I don't know, maybe I'm just traditional, like, you know, the new feminist, feminism wave and stuff.
00:56:14.000Maybe other people view it differently, but this is my opinion.
00:56:17.000I think that men, if you see a beautiful woman, not even just beautiful, but if she has something going on for herself and, you know, she not a bum, she out here trying or whatever the case may be, and she got like some type of value, you are supposed to court her.
00:56:35.000She's going to be the one that's going to have to carry your baby for nine months.
00:56:38.000She's going to be the one that's going to have to sit down and watch the kids or whatever the case may be, unless you don't work, unless you don't get money or whatever the case may be.
00:56:46.000I just believe that men need to realize that a good woman, not like a hoe or nothing like that, a good woman is the prize.
00:57:06.000Honestly, I don't think it's the women.
00:57:08.000In this day and age, let's be honest, we can all live in Princess, Disney World, La La Land, where it's like, oh, you know, I'm a princess, and I'm going to have my little Prince Charming come and swoop me up.
00:57:20.000I deserve to be treated like a princess.
00:57:29.000But I sure as hell know that, like, you know, any guy that, like, I would be dating or have dated in the past or, like, you know, any guy out there who's on these sites is going to be inundated with a million girls a day online, like, just showing their tits and ass for free.
00:57:42.000So, like, there's kind of, like, this incentive.
00:57:47.000Like, why would a guy, like, put effort into courting a woman these days when there's so many whores online that are willing to just give everything to everyone?
00:58:18.000You're not going to meet many loyal men these days.
00:58:21.000A lot of guys will say things like, oh, well, I just don't believe in monogamy, or I don't need to be loyal, or, you know, I'm a high-value man.
00:59:09.000If I like somebody, I mean, I don't, look, like, I'm not, I'm not anybody's sugar mama, like, I'm not gonna be some guy's, like, sugar mama, you know?
00:59:36.000I'm talking about the beginning stages of a relationship.
00:59:39.000Once you realize that a man is, like, a good man, obviously, that's our job, to nurture them, to love them, to uplift them, to show them that they're a king.
01:00:11.000Let me book you a pedicure and a massage and rub your feet.
01:00:13.000Oh, and we hang out, Netflix, chill, whatever.
01:00:15.000Whatever it is that people do these days, right?
01:00:18.000Like, what about, oh, hey, baby, like, I know you're working really hard, and, you know, you took me out for dinner last week, and it was really nice.
01:00:29.000Like, I just think that women are very demanding, and I think that, like, as a woman that doesn't act like a hoe, it's really hard because so many of these men have been just so emotionally damaged by women that take them for a ride, right?
01:01:06.000That's not the idea that I'm talking about.
01:01:08.000I'm not really talking about like materialistic stuff or like, you know, just like really naive stuff like, oh, if he don't spend $100,000 a million the first month, he can't keep me, no.
01:01:19.000I'm talking about a man seeing your worth and coming to you saying like, okay, I want to take a hold of your hand through the club, making sure you stray, not leaving you.
01:02:00.000If you're working as an artist, right, and you're performing or you're getting paid to perform at a club, then fine.
01:02:05.000But if you're a woman that's like, you know, girls night with her friends, then it's different.
01:02:09.000So I guess you could be the exception to the rule.
01:02:12.000But no high value woman is going to be in the club unless they're working like as a DJ or an artist, right?
01:02:18.000But the problem here is that those guys that are going to date you are going to be like on different time of time and they're like trying to smash them down.
01:02:45.000Okay, so your ex-fiance didn't like it, and then I guess once you left the industry, you just stayed out the industry and found another guy?
01:02:51.000So I'm not gonna lie, I've met the other guy, it's funny, he used to be, he would provide jet skis and yachts for the videos, and I never really paid him no mind, and then out of nowhere, it's funny, he tells me that,
01:03:07.000because he got his teeth done, I finally gave him the time of day, which is not true, I'm not shallow, but...
01:03:41.000How long have you guys been dating at this point?
01:03:43.000We literally was dating for a month, and he made it seem like to me, he was like, he got me the Rolls Royce, he got my teeth done, he got me the AP, and he's like, I want you to be this big artist, right?
01:03:54.000And then when I became this big artist model, I was getting too much attention, and he was like, oh wait, hold on.
01:05:03.000So there's models that you book for, like, $200, $300, and then there's models that are getting books for a couple thousands, like, main parts.
01:15:20.000Another question, if he bought me a car, you expect for my ex to be like, You can't drive that car anymore.
01:15:26.000What I'm saying is that there's sentimental value attached with everything.
01:15:30.000And so it's the same reason why people get upset with their partners or whoever they're dating or talking to for talking to their ex, right?
01:15:40.000And so anytime you're going to be, whether you want to admit it or not, subconsciously, if you're driving a car your ex got you or you're wearing a piece of jewelry or you're wearing a shirt, you're going to be thinking about your ex.
01:16:05.000But some things I really don't, like, when you got, I'm not saying I got a lot of stuff, but, like, you don't remember where everything, like, for example, do you know where you got that shirt from?
01:17:25.000I couldn't actually relate to a lot of what you said, just to be honest.
01:17:29.000Yeah, I mean, like, the one thing, like, I'm in SAG after I've done a music video or a commercial with Paul McCartney, so I kind of understand, like, that kind of lifestyle.
01:17:46.000I just can't, like I, first of all, like I don't like to talk too badly about my exes because at one point I feel like I love them and it's important to keep that kind of privacy.
01:17:58.000You know, there's some level of respect that you should have for your previous partner.
01:18:23.000You could rent a Lamborghini, pick a girl up, and then she'll like you or whatever.
01:18:29.000To be honest, I went on a date last night with this dinner with this Colombian guy, really sweet, matched on Raya, but he was a paraplegic.
01:18:47.000For the audience, real quick, because they might not know, Raya's an app for celebrities to meet girls.
01:18:53.000Like, for a girl, you can just get on there if you're pretty.
01:18:55.000But like, as a dude, you gotta have some kind of like, you gotta be on TV or have a social media presence or whatever to get on there.
01:19:01.000You gotta get accepted to get on there.
01:19:03.000But I think these days, like you said, it's so hard to find, like, a quality man.
01:19:07.000Or, like, that's what you're looking for, right?
01:19:10.000And you really want to make sure that that person's going to be with you.
01:19:13.000And I'm not talking about, like, be good to you now.
01:19:16.000I'm talking about, like, I see my patients.
01:19:24.000And their partner still visits every single day, takes care of them.
01:19:28.000You know, suctions if they're in the ICU. Suctions, all right.
01:19:33.000Chris, that's what you took from that?
01:19:35.000And so these are the important things like who's gonna stick around, who's gonna be there for you and your children and the rest of your family.
01:19:43.000I don't care if you buy me a car like you could save that money and like put it in an account for the kids.
01:19:51.000The question is are you gonna go out that Columbia guy again?
01:20:27.000Well, he's doing something, then, if he's on there, is what I'm trying to say.
01:20:30.000Because, like, I feel like a lot of guys are pressured to be, like, this perfect, like, rich, like, put together, like, know exactly what they're doing, and it's like, there shouldn't be that pressure.
01:20:41.000Like, nobody knows what they're doing at, like, this age or even older.
01:22:05.000I mean, I think it's important to show them that, like, you're there for the experience of hanging out with them, of spending quality time with them.
01:22:15.000Like, not, like, I mean, you shouldn't be wasting your time to get a free meal.
01:22:19.000Like, you could do that with the promoters here.
01:24:42.000It is, but not in, like, a lifelong partner, you know what I mean?
01:24:45.000It sounds like for a lifelong partner, you're looking for someone that's going to be there, and I'm not saying that sex isn't important because it is, so...
01:25:41.000And then you got the other guy that has money, maybe he's boring, but he pays for things and he's a good provider.
01:25:49.000Girls typically, if they're attractive enough, can easily compartmentalize men in these different categories and then use them for their utility.
01:25:55.000I think ideally, girls would prefer to have one man that just has it all, that's attractive, has the money, the status, all that shit.
01:26:00.000But that's very difficult to find in one man.
01:26:02.000I dated a guy in Miami who had it all.
01:28:45.000If you're saying that he was a catch like that where he was attractive and he had money, etc., he's going to have women, which I tell girls all the time.
01:28:52.000Rarely are you going to find a guy that's attractive and has everything together and he doesn't have a girl already.
01:28:55.000Yeah, I mean, he lives on the islands.
01:30:37.000We don't fight the bill over, like, the boyfriends.
01:30:40.000Because in Korea, Korean boyfriends tend to pay for everything for the girl.
01:30:45.000And we've been taught, at least from my Korean family, if a guy buys you dinner, right, at least offer to pay for the drinks or buy them dessert.
01:30:55.000Yeah, you have to do something and like, yeah, you can never expect things.
01:31:01.000Yeah, but fighting for the bill is within family or like close friends.
01:31:20.000I think that if you're not planning on pursuing something with a man or you're, I mean, I guess I'm not a fan of casual sex, but like a lot of people do sleep together on the first date.
01:31:31.000If you're not going to sleep with somebody and you're not, you know, sexually attracted to them and you have no desire to continue things further, then you should offer to pay because I just think that...
01:31:43.000I just think that a lot of men, and I know women who have done this, I literally know women that are like, I'm on Bumble, and I'm going to literally just go out with a new guy every single night.
01:31:52.000And there's people that post about this stuff on TikTok, like these girls that had another night.
01:32:06.000That's why I don't mind paying on a first date.
01:32:09.000It's because if I don't like somebody especially, a lot of times men think, oh, I bought her dinner, so she's going to let me sleep with her.
01:32:30.000Real quick, for you, because you guys are okay with doing it.
01:32:33.000So would it be fair to say that you guys pay when either A, you don't like the individual and just want to cut ties without any expectation?
01:33:09.000Like, if you're going out with them, since time is limited, etc., you're not like one of these girls that, like, just serially date to get shit.
01:33:17.000Well, I think it's also a way to show, guys, too, if you are interested and you don't have a lot of time, like, especially as a public figure, you don't have time to, like, you know, be going out on dates all the time.
01:33:38.000You're going to have something together.
01:33:39.000And so you should be able to go out and have a nice night out with your boyfriend or with your girlfriend, and then either person put your card down and say, okay, I've got this, right?
01:35:19.000But I'm, like, with the whole Valentine's Day thing, I'm the type of woman, if I like you, I'm going all out.
01:35:25.000I'm talking about romantic rose petals, candlelight, dinner, you want me to rub your feet, your back, you want me to run your bathwater, what's the song?
01:36:26.000I don't care if you wanna eat Chipotle.
01:36:27.000And that's what I meant by I've been very humbled because like with my man now, we could literally go to freaking Raisin Cane's and watch freaking The Boys on Netflix and that is the best day ever.
01:38:03.000Um, I do have, like, I feel like a manly personality in the fact that, like, I like what a lot of men like, you know, versus being, like, girly.
01:38:42.000So they don't make plans and they don't protect.
01:38:44.000Yeah, and then emotionally as well, I feel like women are more emotional because of the PMSing, stuff like that, and I feel like men nowadays, they act more off emotion, you know, instead of reason.
01:43:09.000He was an alcoholic, but he had been hiding it very well because, obviously, I would go over at certain times, and then he would, you know, taper off of it.
01:43:18.000But being with him for that extended period of time, he was an alcoholic, and he raised his voice at me, he put his hand on me, and that's when I... You're scaring me right now.
01:43:30.000That nigga went to Costa Rica because there's probably no DB loss.
01:46:05.000I have no problem with men expressing their emotions, as long as it's not borderline abusive.
01:46:11.000Because I think back then, when it was really traditional, men tend to, they were taught to hide their emotions and be like, oh, just tough it out.
01:46:19.000I always told all my ex-boyfriends, oh, if you have any problem, come to me.
01:51:13.000Laura, what do you answer that one for us?
01:51:15.000Yes, okay, let me see the question again.
01:51:17.000What are the principles and values I should prioritize?
01:51:22.000Well, okay, I know that maybe you guys aren't going to agree with this, but I know you're not going to agree with this, but I personally think that more men should be loyal and monogamous.
01:54:28.000So at the Darien Gap, it's like a very...
01:54:30.000When people want to come to the United States illegally, a lot of times they go through the Panama route, and they'll end up through the Darien Gap, and Panamanian immigration is way more lax in here.
01:54:38.000So they'll go through there and then eventually into Mexico and then come into the United States illegally.
01:54:50.000And so you have this jungle border between Colombia and Panama.
01:54:55.000And because it's more lax in Colombia and it's controlled by the cartels, largely, you have people coming in...
01:55:02.000Going through the jungle, a lot of people die, as you said, and then they get to Panama, and that's where they then, you know, are met by NGOs.
01:55:11.000But yeah, basically, because we got Biden in, so everyone's like, oh, this is my opportunity, so we get mass people trying to come through.
01:55:21.000And actually, Trump, he posted your trailer on Truth Social, he pinned it.
01:55:28.000Yeah, so I was there for about 10 days, and like I said, I'm making a documentary, and then I also decided to make a campaign commercial, an advertisement for President Trump, and I released it last night, and he posted it as his top truth on Truth Social today, so he pinned it to his account.
02:00:55.000Okay, so emotionally I would say, and then I wanted to clear something up from earlier of the other question of how men are more feminine.
02:01:05.000They should be providers, but I feel like a woman should also have her shit together enough to where if the man fails, he could lean on her.
02:01:14.000But I don't think it should be 50-50 or solely on the woman.
02:01:19.000So, I feel like what I would bring to the table would be emotional support, and then I should have my shop soon, so, you know, I would be getting more clients, financially stable, and then if I have a man, you know, anything happens, he could lean on me.
02:01:34.000Yeah, he could lean on you, but for how long, though?
02:01:37.000I mean, however long it takes for him to, I guess, get back on his feet.
02:01:45.000I would just have to see, I guess, that he's trying.
02:01:50.000You know, if I see that he's just like, that he doesn't want to work and he doesn't want to get his shit back together, then that's different.
02:03:28.000Because you're not the first girl to say this ridiculous concept of alpha female.
02:03:33.000When a girl says, I'm an alpha female, that's the equivalent to a guy saying, well, yeah, I'm a feminine man.
02:03:37.000No, so I'm an alpha female to other females, but when it comes to my man, I'm in my most feminine state because he's allowing me to be there.
02:03:47.000So you're telling me that, okay, so I can wear, okay, so by your logic, you're saying you're alpha around other women, right?
02:04:33.000No, I feel like you should soften up when you're around your man.
02:04:36.000And then when you're out in the business world, you should stand up straight and lead.
02:04:41.000As a woman, especially an entrepreneur as myself that owns businesses and I have people that work for me, I have to project myself in that way.
02:04:49.000All I'm simply demonstrating is You obviously would not be attracted to a guy that wore heels around his friends, right?
02:04:56.000So I find it interesting always how women want a guy to accept them for being masculine and having these alpha characteristics.
02:05:03.000Because when you say I'm an alpha female, all you're basically saying is I'm a masculine female.
02:06:05.000I think that's probably why I'm single, too, but I at least own it.
02:06:08.000I'm pretty aggressive, but I'm not going to sit here and be like, oh, poor me, why am I single?
02:06:14.000I decided to prioritize my career throughout my 20s, and I didn't go out, and I'm not on dating apps, I'm not on Instagram, and I probably have a very masculine energy with the work that I do and the profession that I'm in, and I don't expect Men who are surrounded by women on OnlyFans and Instagram all day that are just sitting around doing nothing but having their sugar daddies pay for their salon appointments while they go on vacations and crop their man out.
02:06:44.000I think that's going to come across as maybe more feminine.
02:06:48.000Because I used to think, and this is something I'll thank men for, right?
02:06:53.000I used to think to myself, oh, well, guys are really going to care about your accomplishments, and as long as I'm accomplished, a guy's going to have more respect for me than the hoe.
02:07:03.000How could he respect this hoe when he's not going to respect me?
02:07:07.000But at the end of the day, like, if a guy's gonna cheat on you, he's gonna cheat on you.
02:07:10.000And you having, like, a valedictorian position on...
02:07:34.000People cheat for different reasons, but I do think that we like to convince ourselves that that's normal, and I've been guilty of it too, but I don't think that that's really how men and women are supposed to operate, right?
02:07:48.000We've convinced ourselves, because we're living in an era now where women are working, where in the past, right, like, People used to be married for longer periods of time.
02:07:56.000Now you're lucky if you stay married for five years before you get a divorce.
02:08:00.000And people are not necessarily in monogamous relationships anymore, and I think that has a lot to do with the fact that there's been this warped mentality of gender roles.
02:08:11.000Like, people would say, oh, you're a hypocrite, right?
02:08:13.000Like, you say you're married to the game, Laura.
02:08:15.000You say that, you know, you're always working.
02:09:15.000Like, guys don't care about your accomplishments.
02:09:18.000And this was something that was, like, really hard for me to accept because I used to be that girl that thought, oh, well, I'm, like, better than all these other girls because I'm not a hoe and I'm smart and, you know, I'm accomplished.
02:10:20.000If you're older and you're living in a world where, you know, men are surrounded by tens with a click away, whether it be like Bumble, Tinder, whatever, okay?
02:10:31.000Like your chances of really finding a lifelong partner are pretty slim.
02:10:36.000I think that's the reality that most women need to accept because...
02:10:40.000How many girls on the panel think they're tens, just out of curiosity?
02:10:42.000Are we going by looks, or are we going by personality?
02:10:45.000Looks only, because we don't care about your personality.
02:12:10.000I don't care if a man wants to fuck me or not, because if he's gonna fuck somebody, he's gonna do it regardless of whether I give him permission or not, right?
02:13:56.000Nowadays, we look at, like, tens as, like, the girls with the perfect noses, the big boobs, the airbrush on Instagram, the European beauty standards.
02:14:04.000Me, personally, I think, like, a 10 out of 10 is, like, the beautiful ethnic girls from Africa with, like, the big noses and big foreheads, skinny jawline.
02:14:49.000However, I'm not a good example, but the majority of people, the world itself, will tell you what you are.
02:14:56.000Yeah, like, yeah, like, the thing I've always found that's interesting, and I think it's actually destructive for females, is them self-assessing themselves and saying that, like, oh, I'm perfect or whatever.
02:15:04.000And it's only females that do this shit.
02:17:14.000But this is with females in the West in general, in the United States.
02:17:17.000And I think this whole concept of not living an objective reality and saying, I'm a queen regardless of how you behave, no need for self-improvement.
02:17:25.000Because we don't tell women that they're fat.
02:17:26.000We don't tell women that they're stupid.
02:17:27.000We don't tell them that you look like shit.
02:17:36.000When I say that women should regard themselves in the highest esteem, I mean having confidence.
02:17:41.000But that does not mean that you can't look in the mirror or look at not even only the physical, but just look within yourself and say, I need to work on this.
02:17:51.000I need to work on my anger management.
02:17:53.000I need to work on why maybe I am a little oversensitive and not like I last shot on people or I don't understand where people's coming from or I need a...
02:18:01.000Pick up a book and like, I don't know.
02:18:35.000So it ends up working in a very bad thing.
02:18:36.000And I think also, like, you know, like, we live in a kind of pussy world now where, like, bullying is frowned upon, you know, internet bullying.
02:20:00.000I don't like Instagram necessarily, and I'm also less likely to...
02:20:04.000One of the first things I ever ask a guy, seriously, this is a rule I have, if I'm going to date somebody, if a guy is on Instagram, that's generally a red flag.
02:20:14.000There's a difference between having an Instagram and then being on Instagram.
02:20:19.000I don't really feel like you're going to meet a loyal man or somebody that's going to be a lifelong partner if they're on Instagram.
02:23:05.000Damn, if it's this good, the next floor's gotta be absolute perfection.
02:23:09.000And then they go up to the next floor, and then it's just a big sign that says, this floor exists to show that women are never happy, and they always want better, you must exit the store now.
02:23:22.000And then what ends up happening is they fucking leave, and they can't go back through the store again.
02:23:25.000And I always attribute that analogy to like you being in your 20s, just going up the escalator over and over and over.
02:23:30.000It's like, yo, I could do better, I could do better, I could do better.
02:23:32.000And then you get to the top floor and you realize, fuck, what the hell?
02:23:34.000But then you spent 10 years going up through the store and you can't go back through.
02:23:39.000And it just goes to show versus like you go on the other side, right?
02:23:42.000The other part of this analogy is the wife store, right?
02:23:46.000On the first floor, all the girls are available.
02:23:49.000Second floor, they're attractive and like sports.
02:23:51.000And then the men never go past the second floor.
02:25:03.000Yeah, and I see a perspective that it can go both ways, but for it to go both ways, the man's got to be exceptional to even pull girls off Instagram.
02:25:10.000And then the second thing also is that most of the time if a guy has a good girl, he might go and fuck another girl, but he's typically not going to leave his main chick.
02:25:41.000And to be honest, when the average guy DMs you on Instagram, you don't respond to that DM. That's your celebrity, somebody's status, blue check.
02:25:47.000Average guy DMs you like, what the fuck?
02:25:49.000Average guy's taking stupid pictures in the bathroom on his IG. Selfies in the bathroom.
02:25:53.000So like, yeah, I mean, it could go both ways, but I've noticed that like with women, like they'll feel like they can do better, thanks to Instagram, versus like dudes, it's like, bro, you can't even play the game on Instagram unless you're of a certain status.
02:26:04.000But I don't know, do you guys agree with that?
02:26:06.000I don't know, I'll open it to y'all, whatever.
02:26:07.000I agree, like for example, Valentine's Day, like, People are scrolling down, and they see guys getting their girls Chanel bags, Van Cleef necklaces, and they're looking like, dang, if my man didn't get me that, does that mean he doesn't love me?
02:26:21.000It's like, you don't know what that guy that's buying the Chanel bag, he probably bought her Chanel bag, her Chanel bag.
02:27:01.000But how many girls can you imagine that watch that shit, I want this, I could do better, might have broken up with their guy, et cetera, hoping that they'll be able to find that guy that provides his lifestyle, whatever, and be monogamous.
02:27:12.000And then they leave a guy that was great because they thought that they could do better, and then they get that guy, but they're not prepared to deal with better guy problems, which is other chicks stepping out, giving other women gifts and all this other shit.
02:27:31.000I don't understand why every time we talk about a girl who they have Instagram, they show their body, they make sure they look good, but no one talks about the guys who only show their money for having a girl, and after they start to cry, oh, she was with me only for my money, but you only show that,
02:29:20.000That's why it sounds fucked up, but this is why men don't respect girls that put it all out there on the internet because we know that it's easy for y'all to do it.
02:30:26.000My man literally said, if you do not know, cause I own a catering business too.
02:30:30.000He was like, if it was not for your food, See, to answer your question, and I'm not a guy, so they could probably answer it better, but you seem like a really sweet girl.
02:30:45.000You seem like you're not one of these typical Miami whores, but you're also, what did you say, 31?
02:30:51.000I'm 30, so I'm going to be 31 at night.
02:30:53.000And ideally, like, if you're in a city like Miami where people come to party and they're just surrounded by models and, like, the hottest women in the world are here in Miami, like, is a guy...
02:31:04.000And I'm not saying this to be disrespectful because, personally, I think that, like, it should...
02:31:07.000There should be more to it than just your body and your looks.
02:33:39.000You know, and the thing is, is that, like, and this is where women kind of fuck up sometimes, right?
02:33:44.000Like, if you put yourself out in a certain way, what'll happen is they'll put you in a box before they get to meet you and know you, and then you might have missed that opportunity to get them to know you.
02:34:05.000That's a competitive market, you gotta compete, that's fine.
02:34:08.000But what I'm saying is that like, unfortunately, sometimes what will happen is like, and girls, I be trying to warn girls about this sometimes.
02:34:16.000Like, if you have a certain look or you're very attractive or you're too sexy or you put yourself out in a certain way, you'll ostracize yourself from certain men that you would have had an opportunity with had you presented yourself in a certain fashion.
02:34:29.000And then the other thing, too, is that you might say, oh, well, they just get to know me, blah, blah, blah.
02:34:33.000You might not even get the chance to meet them to even show your thing.
02:34:35.000Because I'm sure if a guy met you, you'd be like, oh wow, you're really pleasant and sweet, etc.
02:36:00.000Like, vacationing somewhere luxurious, if we see you in foreign cars, if we see you talking to celebrities like this, we see you associating with celebrities, et cetera, a lot of times, guys will assume, oh, she's probably fucking him.
02:36:09.000But little do I know, I know, but I'm telling you how men think.
02:36:13.000I know, it's like, this is how we think.
02:37:06.000I don't know your doctor, do I? We don't know.
02:37:08.000So we assume that sugar daddies, we assume the worst.
02:37:12.000And I hate to say it, like other women fucked it up for you.
02:37:15.000Where we just think if you're experiencing luxurious things, you're around celebrities, whatever, you're a groupie or you're a sugar baby or whatever.
02:37:22.000And we don't know you want to sweepstakes.
02:37:24.000We don't know that you were a video vixen or something.
02:37:28.000Or we don't know that you're a mechanic and you paid for it yourself.
02:38:13.000When I was asked, like, values that women should have if they want to be better, modesty.
02:38:16.000Like, how do you expect a high-value man, whether that is like a subjective term, right?
02:38:22.000Like, we all have our definition of what it means to be a high-value man.
02:38:25.000How do you expect a high-value man or somebody you'd want to marry to take you seriously if you're posting photos of yourself in bikinis online?
02:38:32.000But the thing is, I was never like that.
02:39:25.000I agree with you because what I did with my page like I took a lot of like my artist connections that because I felt like I was attracting the wrong type of people whether they were wanting me for my connections or wanting me because they think I was like a groupie or whatever yeah so as I got When I got to 30,
02:39:44.000I just recently turned 30 in December, I was like, okay, I need to take some of that down, because I'm trying to find me a husband, I'm trying to move differently, and I felt like I attracted a different type of people when I did move like that.
02:39:55.000Okay, but the thing is, I want to do concierge medicine so that I can have a family, and a lot of that is advocating for health, beauty, glamorous lifestyle.
02:41:14.000But they are an escort or they are very bad.
02:41:17.000So I don't know why people are going to judge in Instagram because you can put like some picture in a bikini and just work for yourself and or studies.
02:41:25.000And even about a picture with DJ Khaled, like why someone, if someone's going to see that picture, they're going to say, oh, she gave her ass to him.
02:41:32.000No, maybe she just likes his music and she's going to, she want to take a picture with him and that's all.
02:46:13.000You must realize that in order for real men to come back, it is essential to embrace traditional values and roles, including being in the kitchen.
02:51:50.000Well, if you take a look at my podcast, Caught Up With Candice, you will see that we actually touch base on very important topics like mental health, finance, relationships, and business.
02:52:01.000You talk about how to avoid jail, too?
02:53:21.000Being gathered around, hearing so many different opinions from so many different people from around the world, different cultures, different backgrounds.
02:53:38.000Yeah, guys, this was very unorthodox, like, as far as what I'm used to with interviews and stuff, but I had a lot of fun being able to share my opinion and talking to other women and, you know, the fellow gentlemen on here.
02:53:51.000And I just thank y'all for giving me a platform and listening.
02:53:55.000So you guys make sure you go stream our album, Single But Taken, and follow us on Instagram at BrookeXKoda.
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03:03:18.000And the reason why I say that is because if you smoke weed all the time or you drink all the time, that's effectively going to destroy your productivity.
03:03:24.000And as a man, your job is to be productive.
03:03:26.000We don't get the benefit of just being pretty and being able to sit on our ass all day and have a man take care of us.