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00:14:12.000So, I used to live in the Bay Area, and I was in a very much corporate world environment, and then got tired of it and said, you know what, screw it, I want to model, and I want to move, and I want to do different things in life, because the rat race was not for me.
00:31:25.000And I used to, like, you know, when he used to come home from work, because at this point, I was working at a luxury mat before I started stripping.
00:33:59.000So basically, like I said, I was walking distance, but we was in two different, like, cities.
00:34:04.000I was in Lotter Hill, he was in Lotterdale Lakes.
00:34:06.000So when he called the police, he went to Lotterdale Lakes, you cannot do nothing to be in Lotter Hill, because I was in Lotter Hill by the time the police came.
00:37:08.000I've never had a male best friend, but I have male friends and I could see how someone would find them attractive, but I'm really into personal life.
00:37:15.000So you never had one that was attractive to you?
00:37:18.000Um, I'm like more so like, uh, I have to have feelings for you to like even go there, I guess.
00:44:20.000So I grew up with a brother too, and I was also the girl, one girl with a lot of male friends, but as long as you can put boundaries there, and as long as you know where you stand, no one is going to cross the line.
00:44:31.000And I do have a lot of best friends, not a lot, two best friends that nothing has ever happened.
00:44:35.000Like, we've been in places, we travel, we got drunk, like, whatever, wherever you could possibly cross the line never happened, because you have a boundary.
00:44:43.000But do you think if you allowed them to, they would sleep with you?
00:47:49.000Yeah, like wisdom, like numbers, things with like numbers, like real estate or like crypto, like math stuff, because I'm not really good at math.
00:49:45.000Overall, it could be relationships, it could be work, it could be life, it could be philosophy, it could be anything, but overall, who provides more value to you, your male friends or your female friends?
00:54:47.000And that kind of, that perfectly dovetails into what I was gonna say.
00:54:51.000I don't think men should ever be friends with women because...
00:54:54.000With all due respect, I think you guys are, most of you, not all, but a majority are absolutely useless as a friend to a man, and I'll tell you why.
00:55:01.000So as a guy, right, when you hang out with a girl, you're giving her masculine energy.
00:55:05.000Some guys go even further and pay for things, you know, take them out on dates.
00:55:09.000You get basically a boyfriend experience without having to fuck the guy, which I look at, because girls love attention, and they love being able to get admired and stuff like that, and a guy friend is able to give you all that boyfriend energy Without you having to give anything back in return.
00:55:23.000So I think it's ridiculous for you as a guy to sit there and sit in the friend zone with a chick unless you're having sex with her because I genuinely believe that most women can't give you their best unless they're hooking up with you unless they give their body to you because that is their ultimate commodity.
00:55:35.000Unless she has a really good personality.
00:55:38.000What if I help out financially sometimes with my best friends or maybe they don't have mothers anymore and they need that woman support until they find their wife?
00:55:46.000Women aren't designed to provide for men financially long term.
00:55:51.000It's not long term, but if they need it as like a friendship or...
00:55:54.000Well then you'll not be attracted to him because that's not masculine behavior to have a girl pay your bills and shit for you.
00:55:59.000Let me ask you, so sex is something that's crucial to a man?
00:56:24.000You were able to quit your tech job and just go ahead and say, you know, I'm gonna travel and go to Atlanta and hang out, et cetera, right?
00:56:29.000That's an experience that I will never get, he will never get.
00:56:31.000Men in general, we don't get these benefits.
00:56:34.000She says, I'm able to TikTok stream in clothing and do chores and make money doing it.
00:56:39.000That's something that none of us can ever do.
00:56:42.000Women live in a different reality than men do.
00:56:44.000And with all due respect, you guys live easier lives than we do.
00:56:46.000So what do I look like getting advice and speaking to someone and consoling with someone that quite frankly doesn't understand our experience and our struggles?
00:56:54.000I think on the other way, though, men provide a bunch of utility and advice to women.
00:56:58.000Hence, all of you guys said it for me.
00:57:00.000That's why I asked the questions first before I give you guys my thesis on this.
00:57:03.000They provide you value from numbers, advice, giving it real, support, financial aid sometimes, helping you with guidance.
00:57:12.000Men are able to provide way more value.
00:57:14.000So I look at it like, why the hell am I going to shortchange myself and be friends with a girl that's not even smashing me?
00:57:19.000When I can just be friends with a guy that's going to understand my perspective, understand my experience.
00:57:22.000I don't have to dance around using certain words because women are very emotional when you have conversations with them a lot of the times.
00:57:50.000And I would argue what makes you intelligent versus being a moron is your ability to ensure that all of your relationships is a value exchange that actually benefits you.
00:58:03.000The better you are at working or the more value you provide, the less you have to work or less time you have to devote to said work to make more money.
00:58:10.000Versus if I'm going to go ahead and have a value exchange with a woman where I'm giving her all this value, she gets my masculinity, my presence, if something were to happen while we're together, I'm probably going to be expected to protect her, right?
00:58:20.000Someone steals her purse while I'm with her.
00:58:22.000Most guys are going to jump to her defense and go get that purse, even if she's not her girlfriend.
00:58:26.000So you're telling me that I'm expected to potentially put myself in danger and die for a girl that's not even sucking my dick?
00:58:44.000What I'm trying to explain to you is that if I'm not getting your primary commodity, why the fuck should you be entitled to my primary commodity?
00:58:54.000And it's interesting how I said, if someone stole your purse and I chase after them and I can die, you just said yeah.
00:59:08.000Do you not see how ludicrous that sounds?
00:59:10.000No, I mean, obviously, if it's a girl that doesn't have...
00:59:14.000Any, like, personality, any value, like, you just, like, want her for her body, but you're doing everything for her, like, okay, like, I can see what you're saying, but if a woman is valuable and she does have more to her, you know, like,
00:59:29.000she can provide you some value, right?
00:59:32.000Then, of course, if you guys are really, like, good, valuable people...
00:59:35.000I didn't say all girls, but I'm saying a majority of situations where men are friends with women, the women almost always Benefit significantly more than the guy does from that friendship.
00:59:47.000A lot of times, but this goes into a whole other thing with women and their value.
00:59:53.000I feel like a lot of women don't see their value in the world.
01:00:56.000I'm a type of female, like, I know, like, males, like, my male friends do be benefiting me in some type of way, but also I'm big on 50-50, like, feel me?
01:01:14.000I think you missed the point of what I was trying to explain.
01:01:16.000What I'm saying is that I think it's ridiculous for a man to be friends with a woman and if something were to happen, more than likely he's going to have to go to RA from a physicality standpoint and put himself in danger for a girl that he's not even hooking up with.
01:03:03.000And you like her energy and you like her presence and she's pretty and she's smart and she can talk and she, you know, just very interested.
01:04:07.000So, yeah, that was my question, that if she is having sex and she's bringing everything else that you like, are you going to keep her around, or...?
01:04:15.000Yeah, I mean, obviously, you know, if the girl adds value and she's not a pain in the ass and she's pleasant to be around, you can elevate her to girlfriend status, but...
01:08:26.000You know how many girls I know that are fucking losers, but have met celebrities like Future and Drake and get invited to parties and get on the yachts and still get flown out by dudes and still get certain situations given to them?
01:08:37.000Bitch, when no future ends up meeting Future?
01:08:52.000And this is why I really, and I don't mean to sound like an asshole, but this is why I really don't value a lot of female perspectives because they don't come from the same cloth.
01:09:00.000They don't understand what it's like to be a man.
01:12:07.000So the difference between men and women with this is that we're never gonna go on a date with a girl that we don't find attractive.
01:12:15.000But you guys will gladly go on a date with a guy when you don't find him attractive.
01:12:19.000So what ends up happening is you waste time.
01:12:22.000Remember that value exchange I told you guys about before?
01:12:24.000What kind of value exchange is it where I'm going out with a girl, I'm expected to pay the bill, I'm expected to create this experience, I'm expected to plan everything out, etc.
01:12:52.000Just become attractive enough where a majority of girls will find you attractive and then kick girls to the curb that don't like you because, you know, not selling an asshole, but I've always said girls will waste your time if you let them.
01:13:02.000And like, you were about to do it just today!
01:13:37.000My brother just got back on Bumble, and he's been just recently divorced, and I tell him, you're going to be used for dinners, you're going to be used for drinks, be ready.
01:14:18.000I prefer a blunt person to keep something up front with me like, oh yeah, I just want to do this instead of me coming around and making a drinker.
01:14:47.000So, what I'm trying to say here is that when a girl tells you, let's be platonic friends, or let's just be friends, that's the equivalent to me telling a girl, let's just fuck.
01:15:22.000The fact that you put yourself in a position where someone has to tell you let's be friends, that's, again, that's kind of telling you that you don't have that.
01:19:49.000Probably means you have some kind of status if you're able to get all these women to show up to your party, et cetera.
01:19:54.000There's a reason why all the girls are concentrated in the nightclub and the VIP sections, right?
01:19:57.000So there's safety in numbers and women tend to look at that.
01:20:00.000So what I'm saying though is that you as a female don't understand that he had to build up the status, he had to get the invites, he had to procure the mansion, he had to know the people that were throwing the party in the first place.
01:20:10.000Like, women don't understand any of this stuff because you guys just get to enjoy the fucking pizza, aka the attractive man.
01:20:15.000But you don't understand that the man had to get a certain dough, he had to boil the water at a certain temperature, use certain sauce, get these cheeses imported from Italy, etc.
01:20:22.000Like, women really don't know what it takes to be attractive as a guy and create a certain environment, or what you guys call vibe, for you to feel safe.
01:20:29.000That feels like a Diddy party, though.
01:20:48.000The point I'm trying to make is 99% of women are going to feel safer in a social environment where there's an abundance of women over an abundance of men.
01:23:27.000Okay, so this might sound weird, but I do see girls that are in the industry, like you're in the industry, and they prefer guys that are not in the spotlight because for them it's like, I make the money anyway, so I don't care.
01:23:37.000However, if it's inexperienced, then it makes no sense because he needs experience in the bedroom at least to make you come, right?
01:27:28.000She says she never left any guy that she's been with.
01:27:30.000No, they left me, but of course they try to come back, but then I set the boundary, like, okay, well, you know, because I was never okay with the girls, but I was desperate to keep him.
01:27:39.000But I was never okay with, you know...
01:27:41.000A guy with men and girls turns you off, so...
01:39:23.000Red Pill Overdose goes, I love how women bend over in front of men and dance on poles for $1 bills and do OnlyFans show everything on there, but you ask them their body count and it's quiet.
01:43:37.000The point I'm trying to make is, it's just incredible to me how girls will do something that Is not admirable, but they'll dress it up in a way where they make it sound admirable.
01:52:00.000Because, one, honestly, I'm gonna keep it a B. Like, I got a homeboy who had to, like, he had to do that with one of his other female friends, and I expected him to pick his girlfriend because at the end of that day, bitch, you better doggy peddle.
01:54:37.000All right, you say women cope with saying they're tens, but watch what happens when you tell a man he can't cheat or share you have a thousand bodies.
01:54:44.000Some men will do anything to admit they don't get...
02:03:27.000Realistically speaking, if I posted a photo of myself of my physique, and you posted a photo of yourself with a bikini, who do you think is going to get more messages?
02:03:39.000It depends on what your body's like, because some guys go really crazy with their body.
02:03:44.000I date dad bods, but I mean, you know.
02:03:48.000You genuinely believe that if a woman posts a photo of herself in a bikini, that there's a potential that a guy can get more messages from the opposite gender than she can?
02:04:26.000Even the girls are going to like the girl.
02:04:28.000Okay, so wouldn't it be fair to say that since the woman is going to get a ridiculous about more of attention that she needs to protect that to a degree and there's different rules for her than for the guy?
02:04:48.000A man that could tell his woman what he likes and what he doesn't like regardless of what she thinks or a guy who's scared of what she's going to say and doesn't tell her the truth?
02:05:09.000The man who tells his woman what it is, what his boundaries are and standards, regardless of what she responds, or the guy who's scared of what she's going to say and doesn't say anything.
02:05:24.000If you don't say anything, it's gonna come out some way.
02:05:33.000Ladies, can we not operate on 50 IQ for two seconds and get out of your feelings?
02:05:41.000Logically speaking, who's more insecure?
02:05:45.000The man that can't tell his girl what he wants to tell her because he's scared of the consequences or the man that will tell her what the fuck it is and doesn't care what she says?
02:06:19.000But that's precisely why I said once you're in a relationship.
02:06:22.000Once I'm in a relationship, I feel like, I mean, if I was doing it before you came in a picture, what's the purpose of me stopping out?
02:06:28.000Only thing I got to do is not- Okay, but before the relationship, you were also going out with guys on dates and meeting them and talking to them.
02:06:33.000But that's why I said, that's why it also takes.
02:06:36.000Once you're in a relationship, that shows your loyalty.
02:06:39.000It's up to you being loyal to that man.
02:06:43.000Yeah, I can post what I want, but it's up to me not to respond to nobody and keep my loyalty with you instead of posting and be like, oh yeah, you think I look good?
02:07:33.000You got your dream car, you're driving it around, you're fucking excited, woo, taking pictures with it, all that shit, right?
02:07:38.000But then three weeks later, it passes by, and the seller comes to you and says, yo, look, I know we sold you the car and everything, but we gotta put a for sale sign on it, and we need to be able to put it on the lot every now and then.
02:09:17.000What she did before is one thing, but if she still puts photos like that of herself on the internet and is being provocative, when she's in a relationship with you, that's fucking disrespectful.
02:14:04.000Because a woman can't serve two masters, she's not smashing you, she's probably smashing someone else, or thinking about smashing someone else, which, even if she's getting to that point, it's infidelity.
02:19:17.000And it's like, no, y'all all have the same mindset.
02:19:20.000And humans in general are way more alike than different, but it's just, I find it interesting how girls constantly say, I'm special and I'm different, then I bring y'all on.
02:19:28.000And regardless of education, regardless of background, regardless of nationality, regardless of skin color, whatever, women generally have the same beliefs.
02:20:38.000And what they did was they took men that are average looking, right?
02:20:43.000And what they did was they told the women what their professions were.
02:20:46.000So for the first set, they told them, okay, this guy works at McDonald's, this guy works in a retail store, etc., right?
02:20:55.000All the girls found them less attractive.
02:20:57.000Took those same fucking pictures and then said that this guy's a scientist, this guy's a doctor, this guy's an entrepreneur, etc.
02:21:05.000Then the women said that they were more attractive.
02:21:07.000However, when they did this with men and they showed them pictures of women and they told them their career paths, right, and what they did, made zero difference.
02:21:16.000If they found them attractive, they found them attractive.
02:25:32.000You can see what they say about us if you think that's bad.
02:25:35.000No, but I agree with a lot of things that you're saying and I think it's a good perspective and I don't think that it sounds like men versus women.
02:25:44.000And I think social media messed us up to the point where women have to fulfill ourselves with like, okay, we're this valuable, we're this and this.
02:25:52.000But, you know, we have to be our own cheerleaders to an extent.
02:25:55.000So that's why a lot of times when it comes out, you know, we're the best.
02:25:59.000It's because we're trying to get there.
02:26:02.000Do you think that's destructive though?
02:26:03.000When you're telling, like, because I notice that girls a lot of times cheer each other on even when they're doing stupid shit.
02:26:09.000And like they kind of reinforce, they positively reinforce bad behavior.
02:26:14.000It is destructive and I think it's all about taking accountability and that's why, again, it's hard for me to have girlfriends because I'm very honest and sometimes when they do something I say, listen, you're not doing this because this girl was messing around with a guy.
02:27:47.000I just want to say thank you for having me.
02:27:50.000I think this was a conversation more, you know, like the outside surface level things, but there is much more deeper things, you know, real things in life and people.
02:27:58.000I know you weren't talking about going deeper, man.
02:28:00.000Every time I ask you to elaborate on things, you couldn't do it.