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00:25:10.000Me, personally, me speaking, I said, honestly, if it was my dream man and he was everything I asked for, that I asked God for, I would give everything to him.
00:26:52.000Shout out to Fresh and Fit for saving lives out here.
00:26:54.000Grew up without a father and learned from this podcast last nine months more than having 100 fathers keep up the good work and happy business.
00:27:56.000And I learned a lot of lessons during that experience.
00:28:01.000But in regards to me, who I am now, I like to believe that I offer a really nurturing environment for the man.
00:28:09.000So that means, obviously, like, Agreeing with you and the house duties always having you know food and a clean house and offering more of a peaceful environment for him to be able to come home to because I understand that life in general for everyone but especially for men because there's a lot of like weight on you guys's shoulder that it's important to have an escape when you're home.
00:28:32.000I'm curious for your current man what do you give to him?
00:28:39.000Whatever I think in the home, it's like, that's what I focus on most in providing just a very relaxing, calming, open, So you don't nag him?
00:28:53.000The only thing, so no, like, I'm really cool with a lot of things.
00:28:56.000Like, I've walked in on him watching porn, whacking his shit, whatever.
00:29:00.000Like, I'm okay with that because I understand it's fine.
00:29:02.000But I'm not, like, I'm a little, I like to believe I'm a little bit open-minded, but that's because of what I learned from my first relationship.
00:29:10.000My first relationship, I used to nag a lot.
00:29:12.000And I think that was, and if I'm taking responsibility on my mistakes in that relationship...
00:29:18.000That is probably where I flawed a little bit, where, like you also said, or no, you did, in regards to leaving a little bit of an openness for a man so he can feel comfortable.
00:29:29.000There's something I've always learned that when you know you can't do something, that's when you want to do it even more.
00:29:36.000If your man was caught smashing a girl...
00:30:09.000No, I mean, in a situation where sometimes he has bad weeks or whatever, a bad month, that's when I think it's fair for me to come in and pick up the slack because it's a team effort.
00:30:30.000If I was to extrapolate over a long period of time.
00:30:32.000He's the one who takes care of it, which I like because then I'm able to be in my feminine state and be able to provide that nurturing environment that he needs.
00:30:42.000From a more literal sense, what is the difference between you catching him whacking it off to a chick on the internet versus him fucking another chick?
00:30:53.000I think that sex is a very serious thing and it's not expressed enough in today's age what it does spiritually to you.
00:31:11.000Yeah, I agree because you guys aren't the one who's, you guys are putting something in someone else.
00:31:17.000For us, it's different because someone is devouring us.
00:31:21.000So wouldn't it be fair to say that you're looking at sex from a female standpoint and not a male standpoint and using your female logic to go ahead and attribute it to him as a man when it doesn't affect them the same way?
00:32:30.000If he was fucking someone else, yeah, I mean, I'm understanding to the point where you have your life, you can do that, but it's up to me to decide if I want to be a part of that.
00:42:20.000Based on Bass's experience, I guess, pretty much is, all right, see the girl that he's eyeing or checking out, and then I will do my part to, all right, find out what it is that she's doing, go up to her and do my little thing, like find out who she is, find out what her little hot spots are,
00:44:14.000But if she was kind of open, like friendly and you know, whatever, then I'm going to come back and be like, yo, her energy was good, whatever, you should come up to her.
00:44:23.000If she's giving me that I'm outside vibe, then what's up?
00:44:35.000I see what you're saying, but it's just interesting because there are a good amount of girls that just don't like women.
00:44:43.000So they might respond negatively to you, but if your homeboy went up, they would be interested is what I'm trying to say.
00:44:48.000So it's kind of like a faulty test because you go up and you try to be friendly and flirt a little bit and they're like, bitch, get away from me.
00:44:53.000I don't like girls because there's a good amount of women that don't like women.
00:44:56.000That's very true, but based on my experience being a woman, not only just being a woman who likes women, being a woman who has been in the scene with other straight women and straight men, being that person who is...
00:46:14.000You have to at least get yourself confident enough to even talk to a woman.
00:46:20.000If there's something in the back of your mind going, like, I don't have enough money, I'm too fat, I'm too this, or I need to do this, or I need to work on that, it's not likely for you to get a woman.
00:46:31.000Or you can, it's just the quality of a woman is not going to be that good.
00:46:35.000Also, you have to pay attention to the environment where you find your women.
00:46:39.000Obviously, if you go to a strip club, you're just going to get fucked.
00:46:43.000That girl really just wants you for your money, truthfully.
00:47:07.000So what I could do to help him is, you know, I guess he can just figure out exactly what it is that's holding him back within himself so that he can be confident enough because that's really what it is.
00:47:53.000Most women are grossly unaware of what it takes to be attractive to women as a man, right?
00:47:58.000You might know how to flirt as a girl.
00:47:59.000You might know what girls like as a girl.
00:48:02.000But in general, women don't understand that when they interact with a man, it's a much...
00:48:06.000Different dynamic and there's certain unwritten rules that you as a man have to abide by to be attractive to women that girls might not necessarily do, right?
00:48:22.000See how it's more fluid with your situation?
00:48:24.000In a male-female dynamic, the man should be the breadwinner for it to actually work out.
00:48:30.000What I've noticed with bisexual women that are lesbian a lot of times is women don't hold other women to the same standard when they're in a relationship with a woman.
00:48:37.000However, they will hold the man to a standard.
00:48:39.000For example, you go out on a lesbian date, cool, we can split this date half and half.
00:48:43.000You are not going to accept that from a man, though, a lot of the times.
00:48:46.000So, men have to bring something to the table, mandatory-wise, versus, like, with girls, if you're dating another girl, it's kind of like, eh, it's elective if they have to bring something to the table.
00:52:08.000So actually, yes, what kind of connects to that?
00:52:10.000I think that from the experience, not specifically, but from the experience that I have had, I think that I have a little bit more...
00:52:20.000Maturity a little bit experience and like in one way open-mindedness because I've been through it before and I've I've learned a few lessons many So I like to believe that yeah maturity I think so you think you what you're different from other girls is you're more mature and open-minded I think so yeah But you have issue with your guy having other girls Yeah,
00:52:58.000So you're open-minded until it compromises your feelings.
00:53:01.000So open-minded, but I have my limits as well of what I want and what I don't want.
00:53:07.000And open-minded in a ways, I'm saying like, I understand everyone has their own path.
00:53:13.000You do what you want and what is best for you.
00:53:15.000And in that meantime, you're making that choice and it disrespects what I personally want for myself, then I'll exclude myself from the situation because it's not what I personally want for me.
00:53:28.000So is your man like a traditional man?
00:53:42.000And does everything, I guess, I'm assuming since you guys are in a relationship, he probably makes you happy, satisfies a bunch of the masculine stuff that he's supposed to.
00:53:49.000And he gives you a monogamous relationship.
00:54:09.000Since I've been in the relationship, we...
00:54:12.000I definitely haven't made much content...
00:54:15.000But any content that I did make, it had to do with him and he's involved in the part of OnlyFans that it involves communication with other people as well.
00:54:26.000So he's aware of what's going on and it's just him that I do content with when I do do it.
00:56:47.000Would it be fair to say that most girls at your age group, though, at 30 years old can also say that because they're experienced and went through it?
00:56:53.000So it doesn't really set you apart at all?
00:56:56.000Maybe for some, but I don't think all.
00:56:59.000I think there's people dying that are still toxic as fuck.
00:57:04.000But what I have realized is, because we've interviewed 1,900 women on this show now at this point, there's a stark contrast between women in their 20s and girls that are in their 30s on the panel.
00:57:12.000A lot of the times, girls on the panel that are older in their 30s typically understand our talking points a lot better than the younger girls.
00:57:19.000We tell them things along the lines of, find a man now when you're young and beautiful, don't believe in feminism, a career isn't going to satisfy you to the same degree as a man and children, etc.
00:57:36.000So in saying that, the question is, what makes you special or different from the other girls?
00:57:41.000You're saying you're not as toxic anymore, but I would argue women in your age group, a lot of them are less toxic because of their experience.
01:00:12.000Kind of my ability to create space for others and create kind of an understanding to accept other people's consciousness and to adapt, my adaptability.
01:03:18.000Listen, listen, that exercise basically described that women really don't have to bring much to the table to attract the opposite gender, versus men have to.
01:03:26.000Like, could you imagine if I walked around and told girls, yeah, I'm me.
01:03:29.000And like, no girls gonna fuck with me, I'm me.
01:04:16.000Any guy that says that bullshit is going to be like, I mean, are you just going to tell them, oh, I got money, so that makes me a good guy?
01:06:53.000Due to the environment of girls' trips and what my sister told me, I don't think it would be a good move on our relationship or I don't feel comfortable not coming with you.
01:07:05.000How about I take you there and we go, you and I, that way we can vibe together instead of you doing your shit with your girls who might not be on the same page as we are in our relationship.
01:07:14.000Do you think it would be attractive for him to say, yo, my sister told me you about to be a hoe, bro?
01:08:14.000If the relationship means enough to you, I think your friends would understand as well that this is something that you look forward to in your future.
01:08:21.000And if you're building a relationship, then it's something, you know, a friend should be your friend regardless.
01:08:26.000And she should be able to understand, especially if it's because of your relationship.
01:08:30.000Your relationship with a friend, your relationship with your man are two different things.
01:08:34.000If you have friends, she should be able to understand that you're not going to make it due to the respect that you have with your relationship.
01:08:40.000Okay, so you would tell him, and what if she says, no, I want to still go?
01:10:37.000It's like if she has the intelligence to understand that I'm giving coochie to another man rather than my man, then she should be able to understand that that's wrong and she should keep it in her pants.
01:10:50.000Okay, but that's operating on 20-20 hindsight, but of course you got drugs, you got alcohol, you have peer pressure.
01:12:10.000Girl's trip and being an idiot is two different things.
01:12:13.000Being drunk and acting like you don't know who you are, that's idiot behavior.
01:12:19.000But I'm saying, if you have enough intelligence to understand where you're at, what priorities you hold dear, then you should know this relationship is important to me.
01:12:30.000I made this commitment to this person.
01:12:33.000I shouldn't go overboard and I shouldn't But why even put her at risk?
01:14:10.000Now, what would you tell your brother if his girl, your little brother, if his girl said, I want to go on a girl's trip to Miami, what would you tell him?
01:14:17.000If you trust a girl and you understand that, you know, this is important to you and you can trust her, then I would say let her go.
01:14:25.000But if you can't trust her, you shouldn't be dating her.
01:16:09.000So wouldn't it be fair to say that you're putting yourself in a very dangerous situation by having those habits exacerbate them with alcohol along with peer pressure in a vacation destination where promiscuity is rampant?
01:16:20.000But are you trying to say that all women are promiscuous and cheaters?
01:16:23.000No, but all women are fairly emotionally erratic, unstable when it comes to, you know, alcohol being used, peer pressured by their friends, go with the flow, etc.
01:16:33.000So all these things are almost a recipe for disaster.
01:16:38.000Well, I'm just saying, if she can handle herself like an adult...
01:16:59.000If she's the type of person to go on vendors, go party every weekend at the club, obviously this type of person is not the person you should be trusting your relationship in in the girls' trip.
01:17:08.000I'm saying if she's the type of girl to be, you know, very straightforward, you know, goes to work, gets up every morning, you know, does what she's supposed to do, I don't see why she can't, you know, enjoy some time with her friends.
01:19:25.000You know, and I know that the normal trips that the girls from Miami do, they get sugar daddies, the sugar daddies pay the trips to Dubai, and Europa, and everywhere, and that's okay.
01:21:25.000So, what you're saying is that forget about your girl, let her go on the trip, don't say anything, manifest that she's going to be loyal, and then go out with you.
01:21:33.000Exactly, because she's seeing that she's going to miss him.
01:24:01.000And she says, but no, me and my friends, we haven't seen each other in three years, and one of us is going to get married, or one of them is going to get married.
01:24:08.000Oh, they see each other when they come back from the trip.
01:26:06.000So you're saying allow the issue to potentially happen?
01:26:09.000No, I'm not trying to allow the situation to happen.
01:26:13.000Like I said, if you know she's a cheater and you establish these rules and boundaries with her or whatever the case may be, she's a cheater or not, whatever, and you establish these rules and boundaries with her and you're being truthful and she's being truthful with you while she's on the trip or whatever the case.
01:26:29.000How many times have people done things that they normally would never do while sober?
01:26:32.000They weren't a cheater when they were sober, but when they were out drunk or maybe high or peer pressure, the music, whatever, it got to them and next thing you know, I'm sucking some random dude's dick in the bathroom.
01:27:00.000I never said anything about drunk or sober.
01:27:02.000No, because you kept saying if she's a cheater, she's a cheater.
01:27:04.000What I'm saying is that even if she's not a cheater and she's loyal, the right amount of alcohol with the right people and the right environment can lead to things that are not right.
01:27:14.000And I'm saying if that happens, kick rocks.
01:30:52.000Honestly, I'll be like, it's up to you.
01:30:54.000At the end of the day, I would tell him, either you trust her and you want to move forward and see what happens, or you decide not to and you want to play it safe and, you know, have that card in your pocket.
01:31:40.000I mean, if you want to use that as a specific example, but you're trying to say, like, oh, well, you have a card honors, now you can go ahead and go on a guy's trip, but realistically speaking...
01:31:49.000If one party were to commit infidelity on a guy's trip versus one party were to commit infidelity on the girl's trip, which would hurt the relationship more?
01:31:56.000Oh, but that's not what I'm talking about.
01:31:58.000But that's the overall premise of the question is, this is protecting the relationship, correct?
01:37:22.000Well, it depends on how they feel about each other, like who's more involved emotionally, but I feel like the woman because they're more emotional.
01:37:29.000And then now you're saying that you think it's a girl?
01:37:32.000I would say because guys just, like you told me the last time, you're more a variety, whereas women, we're more so, you know, they want to make the connection.
01:38:26.000Okay, how should you go about not doing it?
01:38:28.000Just say, like, you know, or if you really, if you really must, I would say, hey, girl, we got to check up, you know, you can FaceTime me if he's like feeling like that kind of way, like check up on me every couple hours so I can, you know, feel comfortable with this.
01:38:41.000Do you think that would realistically help though?
01:38:43.000I mean, it might, because the girl will probably feel some type of way.
01:38:47.000If I have, you know, not every girl, but if I'm calling and checking up on my dude every couple hours, me, I'm not going to be likely to fuck another dude just because, you know, in me personally, my mind is going to be on the other guy.
01:43:25.000I've been packing the kids' lunch, and when I've been packing the lunch, I've been seeing your comments saying, why you put so many snacks in the bag?
01:45:36.000I think that's a long time to be away.
01:45:38.000But then, to your point, you know, if you're dealing with this, if you're my husband and you're away all the time and I don't see you as much, then I feel like you should be spending time with the kids for these amount of days, yes.
01:45:50.000But it's not going to come out like a...
01:45:53.000Like vengeance or me trying to get back at that.
01:46:05.000Personally speaking, like, personally, 21 days, no, not 21, 20 days is a lot.
01:46:13.000Like, I wouldn't even be that, like, far away from my family.
01:46:18.000But if it was, like, a meditation type of thing, get away from, like, the situation about what was going on, all the stress I was, like, piling up, like, with her, I'm pretty sure, like, the whole, like, Instagram got crazy, tweets got crazy, everyone was bashing her,
01:46:33.000like, whatever the case may be, right?
01:46:35.000And if you need to take a trip, so be it.
01:54:14.000So, what I think, because he has children with her, they're married, I think that the relationship, the dynamic of the relationship is really different.
01:54:24.000I don't have kids, so I wouldn't know, but I think in some sort of way, when someone's married...
01:54:31.000With kids, they might have, they may or may not have a special connection with their spouse.
01:54:38.000So if she goes on that girl's trip, even though knowing that he cheated, you know, he probably know that he put her through a lot of shit.
01:54:48.000It would just be one of those things like, yeah, you know, karma does eventually, you know, eat back at you, you know, when you continue to do wrong things.
01:54:57.000So it would just be more of the things like, If I were him, I don't know.
01:55:49.000I mean, if I made her feel some type of way because I cheated on her and I put her through a lot of shit and she's taking care of my kids, probably.
01:56:02.000I deal with the consequences, but then going forward, we would have to make different changes and adjustments to make the relationship work.
01:57:50.000So here's my thing when it comes to girl strips.
01:57:53.000Ladies, I mean, this might be offensive, but I'm just going to say it.
01:57:57.000Girl strips in general are an excuse for women to enact on all their darkest desires under the comfort of their thought friends in an anonymous location.
01:58:05.000If your girl wants a girl strip, in my eyes, she's effectively single.
01:58:36.000The reason why I asked you guys, what would you tell your little brother, because I want to see what you guys, what type of advice you guys would dispense as a woman, right?
01:58:43.000Because people think, oh, they're women.
01:58:45.000They know how to behave and how to deal with other women, but the reality is all of you guys gave terrible advice.
01:58:50.000So I've said it before, I'll say it again.
01:58:51.000Women rarely know what to do As a man dealing with a woman in a relationship.
01:58:57.000Y'all know how each other think or whatever, but it's amazing how when it comes to male and female dynamics, you guys have no clue.
01:59:02.000And all you guys gave pretty much bad advice.
01:59:04.000Except for you, but then you kind of went back a little bit.
01:59:06.000Well, maybe she might get fucked or whatever.
01:59:09.000And then you gave kind of like half-assed advice.
01:59:11.000The reality, ladies, is if your brother comes to you and says, yo, my girl wants to go on a girl trip to Vegas.
01:59:30.000However, my problem is the environment.
01:59:32.000So, for example, if his girl, right, is going on a trip, she may be trustworthy to him, but her friends, they want to have fun, they're single, hey, you know what, girl?
01:59:44.000And that environment with some alcohol, music, good vibes, hot guys, maybe on an island or maybe in Miami, things happen.
01:59:51.000So we're just saying as a guy, if Michael says to me, hey, I want to do a trip with my girls for a couple days in Miami, you know what I'm thinking?
02:01:45.000And the reality is, ladies, is that when you deal with a man who's a somebody that has status, power, and money, you have to deal with the consequence of that.
02:01:51.000And that means you're going to have to share him.
02:01:53.000You can't get back at a guy who's better than you in every regard.
02:01:56.000But if she was a woman of high status?
02:02:09.000Because she has an even lesser chance of replacing him.
02:02:12.000So you're saying, in a sense, Jay-Z cheats on Beyonce.
02:02:16.000Beyonce has to stay faithful to Jay-Z, even though she's Beyonce.
02:02:19.000I wrote a whole chapter on this in my book.
02:02:21.000Beyonce is probably one of the biggest cappers on Earth.
02:02:24.000She says, I could have another you in a minute.
02:02:27.000You're replaceable, all the single ladies.
02:02:30.000She basically makes all this, yeah, book coming very soon, Why Women Deserve Less.
02:02:33.000And in this book, I talk about how Beyonce has indoctrinated so many modern day women to think that they can replace their man, be single, be independent, be strong, whatever.
02:02:41.000But when push came to shove and Jay-Z cheated on her, her ass stayed put right there.
02:08:34.000And to that point, I was going to say earlier, like, when I thought about it, and I'm like, damn, I want my partner to go on the trip with me.
02:08:41.000Like, I want to spend this time and have fun with my partner.
02:11:59.000But if I'm being submissive and I'm giving my full trust to this man and I say explicitly, I want a monogamous relationship and he cheats on me with 20 women, it's disrespectful and he doesn't respect me.
02:15:58.000Men understand they must earn everything they get.
02:16:00.000So you're trying to tell me a man earns status, he earns income, he earns respect from his peers, he earns a title, and you expect him to go ahead and take you seriously when you didn't earn shit as a woman?
02:19:54.000Guys, come on over to Rumble right now.
02:19:56.000Guys, we're going to move over to RumbleRumble.com slash Fresh and Fit Man and then we're going to turn it to a lady to ask a question because I know she had something about monogamy which is hilarious.
02:22:40.000If you're cheating, I mean, if she's cheating and she's already mentally checked out to the point where she can cheat, if we're emotionally creatures and you have it in you to cheat, then just leave, I think.
02:23:24.000If you mentally checked out and you no longer love this person, the best way for y'all to move forward is to leave, not to cause more drama.
02:27:16.000I feel like if he's done, it's not a definite thing.
02:27:19.000But we're talking about if I cheated, let's say I cheated on you because that's a definite thing that happened, then it's my fault that I cheated on you because I committed the act.
02:27:29.000But you're saying that if I go on a girl's trip, you have the fear that I might cheat.
02:27:34.000No, but not all the facts from today, from your arguments, from your statements earlier, and to the fact if women cheat, they don't have much remorse, so to speak.
02:27:49.000I think it's the partner's fault that she cheated.
02:27:53.000And the reason why is because as the man, you're the leader.
02:27:56.000It's your job to vet the girl for at least one to two years.
02:27:59.000I tell guys all the time when you date a girl, vet her for a year before you give her anything as far as the title goes.
02:28:04.000And if she has promiscuous tendencies, such as wanting to go on a girl's trip, showing her body all over the place, wanting male attention, etc., you don't take that girl seriously.
02:28:13.000So I think it's on the guy for not vetting the woman properly.
02:28:16.000If a girl cheats on you, a lot of times it's because you're inadequate in something, and on top of that, you didn't vet her properly.
02:30:35.000Your girl's got to be like third or fourth on the priority list.
02:30:38.000It's got to be your business, you focusing on being the best version of yourself.
02:30:41.000Then your girl comes after that because what made you attractive to her in the first place is what you need to continue to maintain.
02:30:47.000Now, what you mentioned, oh, well, what about, let's say she falls out of love with you or some other crap like that.
02:30:51.000Well, if you're always working on yourself and you're the best man, more than likely she's going to be chasing your validation and she's not going to cheat on you.
02:30:58.000Which is why I also say your girl needs to like you more than you like her.
02:31:01.000Even though that goes contrary to popular belief.
02:31:03.000But the girl needs to feel happy to feel lucky to have you.
02:31:07.000When it goes the other way around, girls think that they can go ahead and do whatever they want.
02:31:11.000But basically, women are terrible people when they have leverage.
02:35:50.000Women don't offer much utility as friends.
02:35:52.000The only time men actually are stupid enough to allow a girl to friend zone them is when they're trying to have sex with a girl, aka ulterior motives.
02:36:00.000Here's the difference between men and women.
02:36:01.000You keep looking at things from a female perspective.
02:36:03.000It doesn't matter because I don't want to fuck them.
02:36:06.000Men have to understand women to fuck them.
02:36:08.000You don't have to understand men to fuck them, which is why you can live in a delusional world that you're in right now saying that, it doesn't matter if they want to fuck me because I make the final choice.
02:36:42.000He's got to be charming, charismatic, turn you on a little bit but not be too creepy, smell good, maybe be taller than you, have a little bit of money, show you that he could take you on a date, court you properly, be able to properly touch you so you don't feel uncomfortable but at the same time still show you that he's interested.
02:40:37.000And if you don't want to deal with someone that's overweight or you don't like the appearance or whatever the case is, that's your choice.
02:40:43.000And if you don't want to deal with someone that has kids because you know it's responsibility, step-daddy role, or whatever the case may be, that's valid for you to not want to do that.
02:41:16.000Well, my uncle, I'm saying it from other perspective, because he can't have children, like, he can't come, you know, like, so it's like, of course, he wants to take care of a girl with a children,
02:44:22.000I honestly think you need to appreciate him more.
02:44:23.000And if he wants to fuck another bitch, bro, you better stick around because you ain't going to find somebody else to take care of you like that.
02:45:18.000Roughly 45 to 50% of marriages end in divorce.
02:45:21.000Women initiate 70 to 80% of the divorces.
02:45:24.000And alimony is paid about 90% plus of the time from men to women.
02:45:29.000And on top of that, 90 plus percent of the time, the children go to the woman.
02:45:34.000Now that you have these raw numbers, can you actually advise your son to go ahead and marry a woman that has children that aren't his, she could divorce him, take his money, and he probably will never see those children that he doesn't have any legal rights to anyway?
02:46:25.000So if a guy does take it, I think women need to have a newfound appreciation if a man's willing to come in, take care of you, your children, and be the breadwinner.
02:56:04.000How is she going to be emotionally damaged when she has other females that she could be friends with, that share common characteristics, being with a man, being together, so she gets her camaraderie and friendship from the women, she gets the relationship and security provisioning from the man.
02:56:18.000How is that emotional damage she's being taken care of in every which way, emotionally and financially?
02:57:38.000Are you okay with a more average man, then?
02:57:41.000If it's the case that I'm not getting my dream guy, if I'm not getting my dream guy and I have to settle, I'd just rather not marry, period, and just be successful by myself.
02:59:48.000He decided he wanted to have three women, and one of them he's been with her for about 15 years, the other one about maybe 10, and the other one maybe 5.
02:59:59.000And he, based on what I've understood based on them and what he said, he doesn't really step out, but he does look for other wives if they add to their relationship.
03:01:31.000I've been in a trouble with two women and each of them provided something different for me and I provided something different for each of them and we all had our own kind of relationship with each other and we all had our relationship ourselves.
03:04:14.000For the ladies on the panel, how much do women benefit in terms of saving money when there are so many men supplying all dinners and outings?
03:04:22.000In other words, do you find yourself saving a lot?
03:06:53.000But honestly, bro, if your girl is like that where she wants to always get attention from dudes, she wants to do girl's nights, girl's trips, whatever...
03:09:01.000There's too many problems that could arise from committing to girls like that.
03:09:05.000Well, my question wasn't her, you know, selling her sexuality, just kind of, she's at an event doing something business related and her friends are saying, okay, let's get some food and get a drink.
03:11:31.000The answer says it all y'all need to know.
03:11:33.000What he's saying is that a man can make that kind of money and date a girl that makes $25,000 versus a guy that makes $25,000, a girl $100,000 a year won't even look his way.
03:12:37.000Do you think Middle East has more simps than Western world since girls there are mostly virgins and won't give you box unless y'all get married?
03:12:47.000Okay, so what he's saying is that are men out in the Middle East more simps?
03:12:51.000Well, there's a lot of dudes out there in the Middle East that are simps, but what I will say is that you're not going to be punished to the same degree for being a simp in certain places.
03:12:58.000So, for example, you go somewhere like Romania, Ukraine, Colombia, etc.
03:13:54.000I'll rather have a guy who's nice than have a guy who has a lot of money and doesn't look at the little small things because what if one day he loses all that money?
03:14:05.000Then I'm going to be left with this guy.
03:14:34.000So eventually, yeah, but that was like, and I'm not, I would never put him on blast in any type of way like that.
03:14:40.000But he, you know, him being, he was nice when I met him, but his flaws, which the reason why I ran him over had to do with him personally and his own mental state.
03:15:00.000I just think, you know, whatever personal reasons, circumstances, in his life that happened caused him to act certain ways under the influence of certain drugs, alcohol, and that's when he would change.
03:15:22.000The basic premise here, what I'm saying is that being a gentleman in other parts of the world where women are more traditionally feminine will go further than being a gentleman in the United States where women are more hyper-masculinized.
03:15:35.000You know, you buy a girl flowers, you know, in Colombia, it might go a little bit further than if you did that shit here in the United States, where girls are going to look at you like you're a sucker.
03:16:07.000Like, just because he's a lawyer, he was, like, a little guy, you know?
03:16:11.000Just because he's a lawyer, like, I felt, like, questioned, like, and I saw myself, like, I got mad, and I was, like, look, this is your chicken.
03:17:45.000I think I'm kidding around when I say women don't respect guys that are nice, bro.
03:17:49.000This lawyer comes in successful, probably makes money, gave her flowers, and all she did was give her some chicken and tell him, get the fuck out of my house.
03:17:56.000No, he didn't even cook the chicken, but how the fuck?
03:27:21.000Maybe he doesn't have the looks or wealthy or whatever it is that if the person doesn't have the full package that you mentioned, should he still be able to?
03:27:30.000Or is that when you say that some men just...
03:27:38.000You said not every man gets the opportunity to do that.
03:27:41.000Men are only as faithful as their options.
03:27:46.000So if I tell you that it's raining outside and I give you an umbrella and you choose to go outside without the umbrella and you get wet, who's stupid?
03:28:00.000I'm telling you that more than likely at some point a guy is going to cheat or maybe an exercise is an option on you.
03:28:05.000Maybe he gets quality, maybe he doesn't.
03:28:07.000So I think it's better to just, yo, if you love the guy, you respect the guy, you want to be with the guy, he provides everything for you, it's probably better to just accept it.
03:28:14.000And what I would say is, as a woman, if you have children, if you're not the most attractive, or if you have bad habits or you have any of these traits, you have to be more willing to conceive.
03:28:24.000Because you might not necessarily qualify for that man that has everything.
03:28:32.000What I've noticed about women is that they want a man that's exceptional and then they get mad when they realize they don't qualify for that man.
03:29:26.000So that is something that I guess the show definitely changed my...
03:29:30.000So I guess in a way, yes, I would appreciate from the beginning of the show to the end of the show, I did appreciate him in the beginning, but now, in a sense, I would appreciate him more, considering that all men do cheat, and at the end of the day, I'd rather be cheated on with someone who's nice to me and is doing what he's supposed to as his role,
03:30:18.000It'll help you appreciate your guy more.
03:30:20.000I think that's something that more women need to kind of look into is like, yo, if you're in a good relationship, bro, these streets are cold, man.
03:34:33.000Which gender would you blame for the fuckery?
03:34:36.000I blame it on the fucking men and you know why?
03:34:38.000You know why I'm going to tell you that?
03:34:39.000Because y'all start girls off really fucking young.
03:34:42.000How many of y'all girls in here have been hit on by a dude older than you by the time age 15?
03:34:49.000Y'all start us off fucking young when we're vulnerable and then y'all, you know, a lot of girls want to find love and want to be accepted and y'all fucking do that to us.
03:39:00.000What that means is you need to exercise critical thinking, go into the man's life, see where the weak points are, come and augment those points, and become indispensable where he can't operate at 100% or 102% without you by his side.
03:40:16.000And the guy's got to have his leadership on point to be able to direct and get the girl to follow.
03:40:21.000The man also has to have leadership skills.
03:40:23.000But the woman's got to be submissive and cooperative to be able to take that coaching.
03:40:27.000If a girl tells me some dumb shit like I don't listen to men or whatever streets, you're sucking dick only and you're getting out after this.
03:42:01.000Okay, so what I'm saying is, I'm trying to, like, as a woman in a relationship, I want to protect my man from STDs, from bullshit, from all kind of stuff.
03:42:11.000So, I particularly would like to be in a monogamous relationship.
03:42:16.000However, if he's like, man, I just want to go fuck a girl so bad, and I'm just, you know...
03:42:22.000Okay, what's wrong with me watching, being there while you do it?
03:43:25.000Yeah, but if she really loves the guy, like, say she really loves the guy, and she wants to do everything to make him happy, but they have to make some sort of agreement.
03:44:07.000And I'll be honest with you, the guy that actually has the capability of fucking multiple girls will look you dead in your face and say no and laugh at you.
03:44:14.000Guys that are dominant that can pull girls like that, don't let their girls boss them around, bro.
03:44:18.000If me and you were in a relationship and you said that, I would laugh in your face and say no.
03:44:22.000If you're in that level of that relationship where you're going to allow that, you already have succumbed to him saying that shit.
03:44:29.000The point of me saying that was that guys would rather just do things in secret.
03:45:39.000Anyway, going back to what I was saying, number one, men control who gets relationships, women control who has sex.
03:45:45.000You saying that I'm not in a relationship because I don't want to be is like a dude that's a virgin saying I haven't had sex because I don't feel like it.
03:45:59.000I've asked this question to hundreds of women and most of the time they say the girl he lies to is the one he loves more because women can't handle the truth in general.
03:46:09.000So if I know that most women can't handle the truth, I gotta go on what's probable versus what's possible.
03:46:13.000Just because you can't handle the truth doesn't mean that 95 other women can't.