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00:05:31.000Yeah, we did a Zoom call just now with John answering questions for you guys.
00:05:34.000That's just one of the things we're going to do, guys.
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00:06:03.000We might start on YouTube and Rumble, but then we're going to go ahead and go to Castle Club.
00:06:22.000For all the idiots out there that say that it's staged or whatever, like, bro, the dude was literally in front of a judge here in Miami-Dade County a couple days ago because he tried to meet with like a 15-year-old.
00:28:49.000okay so you met a year ago and you've been married for six months so okay so you guys got married in six months holy yeah he said me from the first day that he gonna marry me he was dreaming about me he's got a date bro May 27th.
00:35:13.000It's a modern day idea that men have that they prefer to date women from other cultures opposed to Western women and American women because the way that women act and treat their man in other countries is they prefer that over American women nowadays.
00:35:33.000Was that what you were going to say too or do you have a different definition that you want to bring to the table?
00:35:37.000More or less, just men go to other countries because it's cheaper to fuck women in different countries, because women in different countries are cheaper to maintain.
00:35:47.000Like when guys go to Tokyo, the most expensive city in the entire world, they're like, hey, fucking peasant!
00:35:54.000But when men go to, like, Colombia and places like Manajin, and that's what you see on Passport Bros on Twitter, is men going to South America.
00:36:02.000That's what you see, but it's a way...
00:38:28.000Because you were saying that people go and get passports to go to places where it's cheaper to date and cheaper to do things, but Tokyo is the most expensive.
00:38:36.000Yeah, but we were talking about dating, but I'm not going to be combative, you were saying.
00:38:42.000Because you're saying that the only reason men go to other countries is because the women are cheaper.
00:38:47.000I didn't say that was the only reason.
00:38:48.000You were asking what a passport bro is and that's what I understand it to be.
00:38:51.000In the context of passport bros, you said the only reason passport bros exist is to go to other countries where the women are cheaper, assuming that they're for sale.
00:40:32.000I've noticed that you guys have made the comparison from a financial standpoint.
00:40:35.000But what about, and you alluded to this earlier, what about the demeanor and the, I guess, cultural and personality differences between American and Western women?
00:41:20.000If you could travel to a country where guys were taller, successful, give you whatever you wanted, and as well were not, I want to say, demanding, would you go there to meet those guys?
00:44:07.000I think, ladies, what you guys kind of failed to realize is that the traits that Men look for and women aren't really abundant in the United States.
00:44:17.000Women here are fatter, ruder, more crass, more masculine.
00:44:23.000They prioritize their career in traveling and having fun over children and family.
00:44:27.000I mean, I wrote this in my book actually, Why Women Deserve Less, that men are like fifth or sixth on the list.
00:44:35.000And women put men in like fourth or fifth place behind traveling and getting experiences, et cetera, as like their priority of things that they want to do.
00:44:42.000So in general, a majority of women don't prioritize finding a man.
00:44:54.000Like, are you going to actually be the best woman that you can be and protect your value and take care of a guy, et cetera, if it's kind of at the bottom of your list?
00:45:01.000No, you're going to prioritize other things.
00:45:03.000And I think that's kind of shown itself in modern-day society why so many guys are like, you know what, I'm going to go to a country where a woman treats me the way I feel like I need to be treated because women here don't necessarily want to adhere to traditional traits.
00:45:16.000Women want a guy to pay for dates, be tall, be charming, be charismatic, and bring all these things to the table, but they want to be able to say, well, I'm still strong and independent.
00:50:58.000So, if I'm going to spend my money, is it better for me to go ahead and get with a girl that at least I'm getting a return back onto my investment where she's actually a woman, she's feminine, she's submissive, she listens to me, she doesn't give me a headache, etc.?
00:51:09.000If all girls are looking for money, which you just said, which is true, which is true, I agree with you.
00:51:16.000And there's nothing wrong with that, by the way.
00:51:17.000I think women should look for a guy that can support them.
00:51:25.000What I am saying is at least a man gets something in return where he's getting a lady versus another version of him.
00:51:31.000I'm saying a lot of American women are masculine.
00:51:33.000So why am I going to pay top dollar for a girl that behaves like a man when I can go to another country where she has cultural differences, she understands masculinity, she understands being a lady.
00:54:13.000Yeah, and the other point was that, so men, like in America, normally they focus more on their career and they want the woman kind of like to support them, which is great.
00:54:34.000I meant just supporting them with their career and what they're doing emotionally, I guess.
00:54:40.000Sometimes when the woman wants to do that, the guy gets all pissed off and thinks that they're masculine or they're focusing on themselves and not focusing enough on the guy.
00:54:53.000It's not all the time, but that does happen often, where the guy doesn't want the woman to be empowered or something.
00:55:26.000And the issue with it is I feel like women were kind of conditioned to take this role and to be so combative and to be masculine by men because you guys act like bitches.
00:55:36.000The culture here does breed this to happen.
00:55:40.000But let's say you do want to find a man, what's gonna work for you and work for him as well.
00:56:57.000If I'm taking two to three hours to get ready, I spend a bunch of money on fashion, I'm always trying to be the best dressed, I'm going to get manicures, etc., getting a haircut every two days, would that be annoying?
01:00:10.000Yeah, so the same annoyance that you would have for that guy taking all this time to get dressed and being a diva, that's how we feel about masculine women.
01:00:18.000It's not attractive for you as a lady to behave like a man, just like it's not attractive for us to behave like a lady when you're a woman.
01:02:52.000Like, hey, my makeup people are around me at home.
01:02:54.000I don't think you're understanding my point.
01:02:56.000My point is, if he was not a famous actor, he was at home, in his bathroom, still taking the amount of time, still doing the upkeep that a famous actor would do, and still looked that good, I don't see anything wrong with it.
01:03:35.000So, go ahead and reiterate it for me, please.
01:03:38.000I think the other ladies on the panel understood it very well.
01:03:41.000That's why all of them were like, hey, a majority were like, no, I wouldn't want my man to spend more time and resources in getting dressed than me because that's a feminine trait.
01:03:49.000And keep in mind, just because you're okay with it, because you said you're okay with it, right?
01:05:17.000I feel like at the end of the day, dating is preference.
01:05:21.000So if you want to go overseas to date someone and find what you like or what you want to be around or what you want to grow with, then do that.
01:05:28.000If you want to be in America and find someone to fall in love with, then do that.
01:05:31.000I don't think all this getting ready and getting dressed thing, like, I don't think that makes a difference.
01:09:28.000No, it's because as a woman, when you're with your partner and you're arguing with him, what you're essentially doing is you're challenging his masculinity to some degree.
01:12:30.000So should we speak up or should we shut up?
01:12:32.000How you're using the disagreeableness is out of context because you're saying, I'm going to be disagreeable to get a raise, and we're talking about within the context of a relationship, which are two different use cases for disagreeableness.
01:16:38.000Stand next to him, inspire and guide him.
01:16:41.000And he's going to listen, because you're a woman and you are the one who's giving the energy, who's providing, and he needs you, most of all.
01:16:56.000And that's why that balance has to be right, because if you're going to come as masculine, you're going to kill his man inside of him, and he will just step away and find somebody who's going to nurture his masculine.
01:20:23.000I was just going to say, there are some men that they don't understand what true masculinity is, so sometimes they force it on a woman, let's say, and then we kind of like, we have to force ourselves on them because it's just fucking rude.
01:21:14.000But there's women that just naturally exude masculine energy and Girls that exude natural masculine energy are just less attractive to men, especially guys.
01:21:22.000The more masculine a guy is, the more he's able to detect that energy from a female and be like, you know what?
01:22:47.000The whole statement I'm trying to make is that men have to work a lot harder in life than women do to get the same dating benefits or get opportunities given to them.
01:22:57.000Since men have to live a much harder life than women do, and we have to go out there and earn it, Once we actually become attractive and we have the ability to attract a woman, why would we want to sit there and fight a woman?
01:23:09.000We have to fight the world to get to where we're at in the first place.
01:23:13.000The last thing I want to do after working all day and going out there and competing with other men that are masculine is now I have to go and compete with my girl when I get home.
01:24:16.000At least when a girl's beautiful, though she does have to deal with harassment and weirdos, doors open for her that would never open up for men.
01:25:04.000I've said it before, I'll say it again.
01:25:05.000I haven't said it in like a few months now.
01:25:07.000Privilege is invisible to those that have it.
01:25:09.000You know how many fucking male artists would fucking kill to be in a room with a famous music producer or an artist, et cetera, to at least be able to meet them and shake their hand?
01:25:18.000Versus you're saying, well, I hope so.
01:26:43.000Yeah, but the problems that you get are a byproduct of getting opportunity versus the men that I'm talking about don't even get the opportunity.
01:27:44.000I was gonna ask you, give me one right or privilege that men have that women don't besides, and I'll just say it, the ability that men have to have sex for girls and not be judged.
01:27:55.000Name one right or privilege that men have over women.
01:27:58.000To go outside at night and walk by themselves.
01:29:21.000Downstairs in our valet, they hire women as well.
01:29:24.000And I would argue that, honestly, the guys are going to be better because of their experience with cars, but just because, hold on, just because to be fair and as well for you to give you a job, they hire you too.
01:29:34.000But you have to prove yourself as well.
01:29:36.000Male-dominated fields are more likely to hire women than men are.
01:29:53.000I feel like when people think about things like that, they're going to say, okay, we have a woman here that has hella experience, and we have a man here that doesn't really have experience, but he knows about cars, so I'm going to hire him because he knows about cars.
01:30:06.000Well, that's bringing it to the job position, though.
01:30:39.000A skill set might be more important than experience based on their current employee pool.
01:30:43.000You don't know what the boss is looking for.
01:30:44.000They might have a bunch of guys that are experienced.
01:30:46.000They're like, you know what, we need a guy that actually can like, maybe if their car isn't working, can open up the hood and do something.
01:30:50.000You don't know what the employer needs and what they're looking for.
01:32:28.000I feel like men take advantage of women.
01:32:31.000I'm going to say this one more time and then I'm going to go over to her to address her point.
01:32:38.000There is no right or privilege that men experience in 2024 in the United States that women don't also have a privilege or access to besides The ability to have sex with a multitude of different women,
01:32:54.000aka having a higher body count, without being judged.
01:32:57.000In other words, women have every single advantage and privilege that men do, and I would argue even more so.
01:33:02.000Women have more rights and privileges than men do.
01:33:04.000That is why I say a woman's life is easier in 2024 than a man's.
01:33:10.000Now you made the argument of being able to walk home around at night safely.
01:34:44.000Again, and I find it interesting that your boyfriend, you guys met in a stat class, so you should be able to understand simply that if, as a man, you have way higher likelihood of being assaulted, robbed, or the victim of violent crime walking around at night than a woman.
01:35:21.000I thought we were talking about women.
01:35:24.000So since we went ahead and refuted that, can you name another right or privilege that men have over women besides the body count thing that I mentioned?
01:36:20.000I mean, there's a multitude of reasons why we can explain that, but I mean, to your first point about women getting paid less, that's actually not true at all.
01:36:27.000The reason why women get paid less is because they simply deserve less.
01:37:04.000The reason why, and I go over this in excruciating detail in a book, but I'll just simplify it.
01:37:09.000The reason why women earn less money than men is because they go into job fields a lot of times that just simply pay less and they get degrees that pay less by choice.
01:37:17.000Are there women out there that want to be doctors like yourself?
01:38:09.000Yeah, women dominate college attendance.
01:38:11.000But yeah, so and then as far as like female presidents go, I mean, I would argue that's not true because Hillary just literally did a successful presidential when she lost.
01:38:19.000But I would argue even women don't want to vote for a female.
01:40:42.000I find it interesting that after our conversation, the main takeaway and question is, do you hate women?
01:40:49.000When all I've said is just, yeah, they're unflattering facts about females, but that doesn't mean I hate them.
01:40:53.000Yeah, but normally people don't hyper-focus on women in this way.
01:40:56.000At least I haven't seen much content that focuses on women in this light and makes them feel, yeah, like you said, smaller and is so unflattering.
01:41:04.000So I'm just trying to get a better understanding of why you hate women so unflattering.
01:41:33.000But this is the difference between men and women.
01:41:35.000If you guys went ahead and criticized men in here, I wouldn't start crying.
01:41:38.000I'd be like, yeah, you're fucking right.
01:41:39.000Yeah, this is a problem with men in the West.
01:41:41.000But if I criticize women, you guys always go ahead and attribute what I say to yourself.
01:41:46.000No, I'm just telling you objective, uncomfortable realities about females in the United States, which is the whole discussion started off Passport Bros.
01:41:55.000Yeah, I'm just trying to get an understanding of how you reach these uncomfortable realities, but that's a different conversation.
01:42:20.000And if anything, we're harder on men than women, by the way.
01:42:23.000A fact is a fact, regardless of whether you agree with it or not.
01:42:27.000I would argue it's a low IQ trait to say I disagree with something that is objectively true.
01:42:32.000So, like, if you went ahead and you told me most guys are losers in America, and I told you I disagree with that, well, I'd be a fucking retard for saying that because the truth is that most are losers.
01:42:44.000The majority of people are losers in America.
01:42:47.000I'm not going to sit here and get angry and be like, you hate men for saying that!
01:42:50.000Most people don't shed light on this subject, so I was asking why you didn't.
01:42:56.000Yeah, because women are in a privileged position where we can't criticize them.
01:42:59.000We're one of the few podcasts that criticizes and says, We criticize men too, but no one gives a fuck when you criticize men.
01:43:05.000We criticize women about, hey, this is why guys are leaving the United States.
01:43:08.000And most girls, instead of listening and be like, why are the men leaving?
01:43:10.000Damn, why should I write this shit down?
01:43:58.000It's just like everything has to be an argument.
01:44:01.000And it's not all girls like this, but it's a general thing I've noticed among American women typically who come from single mother households.
01:44:08.000And also, you can have your input for a man, 100%.
01:44:10.000But understand, if he's the man you chose to trust and follow, let him lead.
01:44:51.000But I'm saying financially, Financially wise, we both contribute as much as we can and make sure.
01:44:58.000And if somebody needs something, we help each other when we have to.
01:45:01.000That's what I, I didn't say, like, you should be trying 50-50, not that each puts half.
01:45:08.000That you should be giving your everything to your relationship because that's what a relationship is.
01:45:17.000There are ways that my fiancee contributes that I can't contribute because I don't have the know-how that I don't.
01:45:25.000You know the thing is, but I'm contributing in other ways.
01:45:27.000Relationship contribution is one thing, but I'm talking about, when we're talking about equity in the leadership of that relationship, it can never be forfeited to the female, ever.
01:45:34.000I don't think women are competent enough to lead a man in any type of marital or sexual relationships.
01:45:41.000I mean, if you look at the three Abrahamic religions, right?
01:45:44.000Judaism, Islam, Christianity, even other cultures.
01:45:46.000Why is it that in all these different cultures, all these different nations, all these different places in the world, they all have always defaulted to male leadership over women?
01:45:55.000But they never knew each other before the advent of the internet.
01:45:57.000But they all knew, naturally, men need to lead.
01:46:01.000It's because men are designed to lead and women are designed to follow.
01:46:03.000That's why I don't agree with the whole premise of 50-50 relationships.
01:46:15.000What if there's a time when, let's say, a man loses his mom.
01:46:18.000He's going through something completely emotionally hardship, and he's having a hard time.
01:46:23.000So now the woman has to step forward and allow him to take his time, and she needs to lead and handle shit for him until he's able to come back.
01:46:31.000How many times is the mom going to die in his lifetime?
01:46:32.000I'm just saying there are things like that that happen that a woman needs to be prepared to.
01:46:37.000How many times is this mom going to die in his lifetime?
01:46:53.000Yeah, but women steps up for 5%, that's cool.
01:46:55.000But what I'm saying is that in general, the man needs to be the dictator, the leader, and the person that's, you know, orchestrating how the relationship goes.
01:47:04.000How many of you in here want to take care of your man and be the leader?
01:47:07.000How many of you really, really want that?
01:47:09.000Like, you're the provider, take care of your man.
01:48:05.000And I think that's a feminist talking point, and I think that's a big reason why the divorce rate is so high in the United States, is because women think that they're equal to their men.
01:50:29.000I was raised dominantly around men, and I've noticed that since we're younger, girls are told, you're a princess, you're this, you're that.
01:50:38.000Men are already treated harshly, if I'm being honest.
01:50:44.000So, no, I think we're kind of trained to be rude to them and belittle them if I'm being honest.
01:50:48.000And I'm guilty of it as well, like treating my brothers like shit.
01:50:52.000It's, it's, yes, we, we, no, we don't respect them.
01:54:05.000The point I'm trying to display here is you got these guys.
01:54:08.000Paid their hard-earned money to have a random average girl spit in their mouth, put water on them and slap them.
01:54:15.000But if I took a woman that's attractive and I told her, hey, pay money to this average dude to spit on you and slap you, you'd be like, no.
01:54:23.000The only time women accept behavior like that is from, which you slipped up and almost said, 50 Cent, yeah, a celebrity.
01:55:20.000I mean, if you look at the whole sex industry for women, right, whether it's, you know, start to, because I'm not, I mean, I wouldn't consider a waitress in the sex industry, but anything where you're able to monetize your beauty, it's all basically to, you know, finesse guys with their money to some degree.
02:00:01.000Cam Two Times has this question, ladies.
02:00:02.000If you had to choose between two options, would you have Myron's baby and receive child port in a smash-only relationship, or two, be in a faithful marriage with a 50K dude with one child?
02:00:10.000Bro, you know they're going to go with baby now, man.
02:01:01.000Blastoff says, how's it cheaper to fly to a different country and find a girl to date rather than just going to the club and taking out a random 304?
02:04:14.000Yeah, because the thing is that you were talking about these girls earlier that are cheaper or whatever.
02:04:21.000Like, if you're an American woman and you go to, like, a Columbia or whatever, why are they going to sit there, right, and hang out with you when you have all these standards, these Western standards, I need you to make 100K a year, blah, blah, blah, good-looking, charming, charismatic, etc., when he can just get with a girl that's local,
02:04:37.000that's going to cost them less, be more feminine, be more submissive, listen to him, why would he go about that?
02:04:42.000Some men are looking for strong women.
02:06:08.000I'm saying that if you travel to certain places, you're going to have to go to a place like Dubai where the men...
02:06:14.000They still have western ideals and make a lot of money.
02:06:17.000But you can't go to Colombia or Philippines or whatever with your American standards and think you're going to compete with the women locally.
02:07:04.000You're saying it doesn't exist for a woman.
02:07:06.000That's why there's a great exodus of men leaving the United States to the point that it became popular culture in the passport pro movement.
02:07:26.000Like what we require in a man, you're saying it's delusional.
02:07:29.000It's much more difficult because you're already in the most successful country in the world.
02:07:35.000So if you can't find a guy here and you go international, it's going to be a lot harder.
02:07:39.000That's why you would have to go to a Dubai or London.
02:07:41.000You'd have to go to another westernized country that has a high income per capita, but it's going to be difficult for you because guess what?
02:07:48.000There's other hot girls there doing the same shit.
02:08:04.000Because they can't hang with Japanese girls and how feminine they are, how skinny they are, how beautiful they are, how caring they are, how nurturing they are.
02:08:56.000I'm wondering, is it something, you know, a lot of people say it's almost like the apps where you just constantly swipe right because you can't handle just like one thing and kind of, you know, the traditional value was like making something work because that's what you have, you know?
02:09:10.000So does that take away when people have to travel to go find something else and they're not like kind of making...
02:09:26.000I'm just wondering if it comes from like, you know, a lot of people say that guys go on apps and they're constantly swiping right, you know, right, and they're making it quick.
02:09:35.000They're not kind of valuing what they could have.
02:09:38.000Is that, you know, which, you know, I'm not saying that's how I feel.
02:14:22.000So what you're saying is you lack brain cells and you were dropped as a baby and whoever raised you raised you incorrectly because you're saying if you work in real estate, you sell pussy.
02:18:37.000And it's just interesting to me how a bunch of girls on this panel have been trying to argue things or whatever, and it's like, you're not really in a position to argue this, but you're doing it anyway, which I always find interesting.
02:18:46.000But anyway, can you hear me say something?
02:18:48.000No, the only reason that I asked you to look at me in the eye when you were talking to me is because you were talking about me.
02:19:12.000Yeah, it's one mic at a time so that you don't hurt the ears of the people that are listening.
02:19:16.000I'm just saying that you've made points that don't make sense a lot of the times and you've spoken from a position that you don't really understand.
02:19:22.000And it's funny because you said, well, Western women don't like you.
02:19:25.000I would argue on paper most women would.
02:19:28.000He just happens to live in Tokyo, but I think he'd probably do well here in America too.
02:19:53.000If you're successful, you have your money together, you have charisma, charm, etc.
02:19:56.000All women are going to find you attractive to some degree.
02:19:59.000It's up to you how you want to spend your currency of attractiveness.
02:20:01.000You can spend it in the United States where you might not get the most bang for your buck, or you go somewhere else where women admire it more and give you more bang for your buck.
02:20:09.000See, you can't even look me in the eye when I'm talking to you.
02:20:11.000Oh, I'm supposed to look you in the eye?
02:20:28.000You have an issue with masculine authority, which I've noticed throughout the entire podcast, which is fine, but this is going to hurt you in the future with men, just being honest with you.
02:20:36.000Because your issue is that you think you're equal to men, and on top of that, you think you can talk to them any type of way.
02:20:41.000When in reality, the guys here at this table make more money than you, older than you, more experienced than you, better than you in every which way, instead of listening to what we're saying, because you probably want a guy like us.
02:20:50.000So that means you can talk down on me?
02:20:54.000You're saying all of that means you can talk down on me?
02:22:12.000All I'll say, you don't have to say anything if you don't want to respond to it.
02:22:15.000You have an issue with masculine authority.
02:22:17.000Even when it's coming from a position of clear hierarchy differences, you have a position with masculine authority, and that's going to damage your ability to find a man in the future.
02:22:32.000Because the more money and status a man has, the less he gives a fuck about what you think and the less he's going to have the patience to sit there and argue with you as an equal.
02:22:40.000He said earlier, arguing is for poor people.
02:22:48.000Why am I going to argue with a girl when I can find another one that's going to make my life a lot more peaceful, be just as hot, and not a pain in the ass?
02:23:17.000Well, keep in mind that you made the claim that he's not going to be attractive to Western women, and I'm like, well, that's not really true, but that's fine.
02:26:27.000Just like everyone is considered a slut and a dumb person just for being cute, even though half of us are in relationships, half of us are very successful.
02:27:10.000So, for you, do you think that because you work in a profession where not necessarily the most respectable men attend that, do you think you get some disrespect from like a...
02:27:26.000I don't get any disrespectful men that come in there.
02:27:31.000But I think it's the ones that people that are usually in power that are the ones that are disrespectful because they have power, they have money, and they're able to talk to whoever any type of way.
02:29:07.000Europe A ranted from Rumble and says this med student 304 with the bow Instagram is only bikini photos and pics where she's half naked laying on top of other women.
02:30:11.000Because I put a certain image out there, and they judged me on that image.
02:30:14.000They might not know that I'm a Nobel Prize winner, or I'm a doctor, or whatever, because people only judge a book by its cover, and then they decide if they want to open up the book and read the pages.
02:30:38.000There's a difference between assuming and insulting, I believe.
02:30:41.000Because I could assume that you're broke and you're dressed a certain way, but I'm going to tell you, hey, you're a bum, broke fucking bitch.
02:30:53.000You're dirty, you're a disgusting man, you're broke, you look gross.
02:30:56.000Like over and over and over, do you understand what I mean?
02:30:59.000Here's the thing, you don't have to say it, the actions dictate it, right?
02:31:02.000So if a guy comes up to you and he looks a certain way and you reject him, even though you didn't know these other things about him, you took an action and you rejected him because you assumed those things.
02:34:31.000But she's probably gonna go ahead and get more pull on her Instagram or get more attention than a celebrity guy because sexuality sells.
02:34:40.000Like, status doesn't matter to men, but it matters to women.
02:34:43.000So what I'm saying is that if you put yourself out in a certain way and you sexualize yourself, Men are going to sexualize you in response, but the problem is that women never want to take the accountability to understand that, okay, I'm sexualizing myself.
02:35:57.000The difference between me and your boyfriend is, is that if...
02:35:59.000If he was able to say how he really feels without losing you as a girlfriend or whatever, he would probably prefer that you don't have pictures like that on the internet.
02:36:56.000You do understand when you go to med school, you're going to go through a board and they're going to analyze your social media and they're going to want you to have a certain type of professional look, correct?
02:37:02.000And AI is going to be way more developed.
02:37:06.000If you made that argument and you were like an OnlyFans model or you were a porn star or something, you might have some credence to your argument.
02:37:12.000But you're literally trying to go into a very...
02:37:17.000Small, professional world where image matters.
02:40:02.000Let's say you work really hard, you do your 8 to 10 years of schooling and your residency and everything else like that and you finally become an anesthesiologist and you save up a quarter million dollars and you're like, you know what?
02:40:12.000I want to go buy that new Mercedes G-Wagon I've had my eye on, right?
02:40:39.000A week later, the guy that you bought it from, the salesman, comes to your house and says, hey, I know I sold you this Corvette and everything else like that, but look, man, I got to keep the for sale sign on it and I got to be able to show it off when I need to.
02:41:30.000No, they look at it as a prized possession that they worked really hard to get and earn, and they want to be the only one to drive and show it off.
02:41:38.000Well, I guess I have a different kind of man.
02:41:47.000The thing is, is that men that actually care about their girl put boundaries and regulations and rules in place to protect the girl because they know there's perverts out there.
02:41:57.000They don't want guys all over the place.
02:42:46.000You know, because, like, you get that a lot and they project, like, yeah, there's seriousness and that.
02:42:52.000But then, at the end, it ended up, it was just this fake masculinity.
02:42:56.000And thank God I didn't get rid of literally everything.
02:43:00.000Because, you know, and it was scary, but that happens a lot in the States, like, honestly.
02:43:04.000I travel a lot, I go to other countries.
02:43:07.000I'll tell you, that's called getting finessed, and that's happened around the world.
02:43:11.000Yeah, but, you know, it's not literally just getting finessed, it's not just, like, you know, within, like, a short period of time.
02:43:16.000It's because, like, true emotions are there, and it's not because a guy has money, not because he looks a certain way, it's because, you know, personality.
02:43:23.000Yeah, but also, I don't want to sound like an asshole, but if you're a woman and you're involved in sex work, you're never going to get a guy to take you seriously.
02:43:59.000I think as a woman, right, if you're involved in sex work, you need to have the ability to just understand that most men are, if they ever tell you about taking me serious or whatever, they're lying.
02:44:16.000And you've got to get fun about it up front.
02:44:17.000Yeah, for you, with the Corvette thing, I know you're like, I'm not a car, but I'm just trying to explain to you how men view their women, right?
02:44:59.000I'm just telling you that that is the functional equivalent to cheating for a woman.
02:45:04.000If you have provocative photos of yourself on the internet and you're still with your guy, you didn't make your profile private or something, I'm not telling you not to have an Instagram, but if you have these pictures up and you're with someone, No, because at the end of the day, I'm fucking him.
02:47:11.000When you have photos of yourself like that on the internet and you have a boyfriend, that's like cheating for a man.
02:47:17.000It's common fucking sense in every other country in the goddamn world, but here you gotta get out a goddamn Venn diagram and be like, hey, don't post half-naked photos of yourself because you're gonna attract fucking predators.
02:47:29.000I feel like the same thing that people love you for will turn out to be the same thing.
02:47:33.000Well, men, the same thing that men love you for would turn out to be the same thing that they hate you for.
02:49:28.000And the likelihood that you're going to find a bad female that posts bad pictures on Instagram while she still has a boyfriend is going to be a probability she's going to post it anyway.
02:49:37.000She has the boyfriend, the boyfriend is there.
02:51:46.000If you think you're the main character and you're living in a world of survival of the fittest, wouldn't it behoove you to understand who you're competing against to survive of the fittest?
02:52:59.000But just men in general are just not going to respect them.
02:53:01.000I think if you're a girl that's in a relationship with a guy and you actually love and respect them, you wouldn't pull photos of yourself like that and make yourself available.
02:53:08.000You're effectively keeping the for sale sign on your neck.
02:53:10.000Now you're saying, that's bad bitch problems.
02:53:12.000My argument is there's more bad bitches than there are attractive men.
02:53:15.000So therefore, if you're intelligent, you would go ahead and take those photos down to keep that attractive man.
02:53:19.000Even if you're an aspiring model or if you're in that industry and you're trying to, like what she was trying to say, like if you're aspiring to do that.
02:53:25.000Just like that man had to sacrifice to become the top 1% and you gotta sacrifice some of the shit that you have as well.
02:53:48.000But I'm telling you, as you get older and you do it, more attractive men that have their shit together, they're going to have a point of contention with that profession.
02:54:42.000I had a very tough discussion with my sister.
02:54:45.000I told her, stop being a stupid bitch, because she was in med school and had a mindset just like her, that she thinks, I can weigh that off, and I'm blah, blah, blah, all this other shit, and she ended up saying, you know what, you're right, and she found a guy before she turned 30.
02:54:57.000But I had to let her know, you're not the main character, you're not that fucking special, we don't give a fuck about your career, your education, your status.
02:55:02.000You need to find a guy who's so young and attractive.
02:57:10.000Throughout the course of this podcast, I've had to rephrase the same things I've said three to four times for you to understand and you still can't understand.
02:57:15.000You, by definition, have comprehension issues.
03:00:22.000Tipped $50, Demosthenes 928 ranted from Rumble and says, girl next to Fresh, it's my opinion that slavery was great and should be brought back.
03:02:27.000Like, yo, like, come on, let's just keep it a million.
03:02:30.000Like, people literally sacrifice so much to come here and be in the United States, and then people like you come in and say, it's slavery to be here.
03:02:38.000That's a privileged position to come from.
03:03:49.000Once again, your comprehension skills failed you.
03:03:52.000I said, That she came from a war-torn country to get the opportunities that you're shitting on right now saying, oh, wage slavery, blah, blah, blah.
03:03:59.000At least you have the opportunity in an American passport and an American citizen to be able to come with that privilege.
03:04:05.000I'm saying Americans are entitled, lazy, fucking brats to say stupid shit like that.
03:05:59.000You carry the strongest passport in the fucking world from the strongest economy in the world, and you have opportunities here that other people don't.
03:06:06.000For you to sit there, shut the fuck up when I'm talking.
03:06:56.000Carrie, you live in the best country in the fucking world, have the opportunities that you have, and you're a dumbass gonna come here and talk about a wage slave.
03:13:46.000No, would you rather always be able to find the perfect man but you're not attracted to them or find mediocre men for the rest of your life but you're attracted to them?
03:17:56.000From a Christian perspective, the woman submits to the man, the man submits to the Christ, marriage symbolizes the relationship under Christ, and a woman leads your living in rebellion against God.
03:18:05.000I mean, it's all religions, all cultures.
03:20:09.000I've seen a lot of viewpoints that you guys made and I agreed with some stuff, but I feel like the way that it was put out there was kind of disrespectful, but at the same time, I guess women talk a lot of shit about men,
03:21:49.000Um, I'd like to say, I feel like you and I did an amazing job at getting them so riled up that they sent over 200, maybe like 300 each that we got out of them.
03:21:59.000Yeah, honestly, you guys are fucking welcome.
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