Mysterious and his long time wingman Rob Bexter discuss the Red Pill Game and how to get beautiful women into bed. They discuss how they got their start in the game and how they've gone on to become some of the most successful pickup artists in the world. They also talk about the importance of the 7 Attraction Triggers and how you can use them to your advantage in the dating world. This is a must listen for all of you who are looking to get a head start on your dating life. If you haven't checked out their book, The Mystery Method, you should definitely do so. It's a must read book that covers everything you need to know to be successful in the pickup game. I can't wait for you guys to read it and give it a listen! Stay tuned for Part 2 of this interview coming soon. - The Pickup Artist Podcast - How to Get Beautiful Women into Bed - How To Get a Headstart on Your Dating Life - The Red Pill game - The 7 Attractions Trigger How to get Beautiful Women Into Bed - What's the secret to getting beautiful women in bed? - What to do to get them into bed? What to look out for in a relationship - What are the keys to getting a headstart on your sexual relationship? - What should you be looking out for when you re in a pickup game? What do you want to learn from a woman you re trying to get into bed with? How do you know you can get beautiful in bed with a beautiful woman? and how can you get her to give you the most beautiful woman you can have a good time? Let me know what you can do to improve your chances of getting a good night with her into bed tonight? I ll see you in the next episode of the podcast! Thanks for listening and I'll see you next week! - DM me on the next one! Timestamps: 5:00 - The mystery method? 6:30 - What s your best tip? 7:00 8:15 - How do I m looking for a girl? 9:20 - How can I get beautiful? 11:15 12:30 13:00 How to start a relationship with a woman I can get a girl into bed faster? 14:00 What do I know about a woman that s good in bed 15:40 16:00 Can I have a girl in bed soon? 17:00 Are you ready for a good bedboy?
00:02:05.000We're here with Mystery and his wingman, Rob Bexter.
00:02:07.000Guys, this is an interview two years in the making.
00:02:11.000This is probably one of the most, I would say, requested, anticipated, and for me, from a personal level, important interview that we've ever done.
00:02:22.000When you talk about the Red Pill game, You know, female psychology, dating, all this other stuff.
00:02:29.000It always originates with one name and that name is Mystery.
00:02:32.000And we got his longtime wingman in the house as well.
00:04:10.000By the time I got 25 years old or so in Toronto, I found myself having success with women, and I started teaching my friends my secrets.
00:04:23.000I also wanted to extend myself to meeting other pickup artists that would come and visit me or that I would go and see.
00:04:33.000And that led to friendships with pickup artists around the world, getting a chance to watch them gain, as well as them getting a chance to learn from me.
00:06:25.000So while that book is about the structure of a pleasing love story, the structure of a pickup from meeting her to beginning a sexual relationship, what we call courtship, that book is strongly Focused on the structure of pickup.
00:06:44.000But there are additional keys to proficient pickup.
00:06:54.000The material is the stuff we actually say in field, in the nightclub environment, to the groups of people that we interact with.
00:07:03.000That material is something that you can find If you don't know what to say, for instance, on how to open, I have written a book on openers called Hey Guys.
00:08:59.000You can save the step of having to get to know, or rather, a woman can save the step of having to get to know you if she sees that you are attractive to other women.
00:09:14.000If they see you with women, you have what we call pre-selection.
00:09:19.000And that is, in my opinion, 80% of attraction.
00:09:25.000Now, there are additional attraction switches.
00:09:28.000There's leader of men, protector of loved ones, having a willingness to emote, and showing that you're a successful risk taker.
00:09:38.000Those are the top five in my book, literally.
00:09:43.000Guys, in the chat, get your pens and papers out because we're going to be talking about a bunch of stuff like this.
00:09:48.000So risk taker, leader of men, protector.
00:10:53.000So, you mentioned, you know, being a risk taker, protector of loved ones, pre-selection, leader of men, willingness to promote, which, you know, kind of, you can say that's like charisma, charm, being animated, being someone that's able to convey a story in an interesting manner.
00:11:07.000Now, when you, in your book, you talk about approaching sets, which a set is like, you know, multiple women for the audience that might be wondering.
00:11:16.000Multiple women, maybe there's even some guys in there.
00:11:19.000And what you're doing is you're coming in, introducing yourself, and you're telling stories that demonstrate these five things.
00:11:25.000Attraction triggers that you just mentioned.
00:11:27.000And you're kind of like humble bragging about it.
00:11:29.000And people can come to that logical conclusion that you exhibit these traits through the story.
00:11:34.000But then there were other things you mentioned as well, like pulling them to another venue.
00:11:40.000Can you kind of go through that process real quick?
00:11:42.000From opening a set all the way to closing the deal?
00:12:52.000Attraction, then comfort, then seduction.
00:12:56.000The idea behind this is scientific in nature.
00:13:01.000It's backwards rationalized from that which worked.
00:13:05.000It's logical to trigger attraction first, mutual attraction, so you can demonstrate that you're attracted to her as well, and then move on to comfort, building a growing comfort, familiarity, intimacy, At the very least,
00:13:22.000connection, which is really the core of comfort, is building connection.
00:14:16.000So, let's now zoom into the first three phases, which is the beginning, middle, and ending of the attraction stage.
00:14:25.000The first is A1, the second is A2, the third is A3. I've just named them, so we can talk about them.
00:14:34.000So we can then, once we learn the objectives of each of these phases, we can Take material, these are the gambits, the words we say, the material we use to convey our personality, and we bolt them into the proper phases.
00:14:52.000So A1, the objective is simply to open, to initiate a conversation with a group of people you haven't met before.
00:14:59.000Now, two-thirds of all approach scenarios are the three set, are the group of three people, guys or girls, that's a mixed set.
00:15:10.000So you're going to have to work groups.
00:15:11.000So focus instead of trying to pick up a girl all by her onesie and you never meet her friends, she never meets your friends, which is quite, you know, odd.
00:15:22.000It feels uncomfortable, almost damn near creepy.
00:15:25.000Meeting her friends and then Her friends meeting your friends, and you're getting to know each other that way, that's much more, it gives more potential to a love story in my opinion.
00:15:38.000Following A1, opening the set using the material of openers, and we have, I've written a book, hey guys, it's a book of openers, 60 plus openers, more than enough to handle a myriad of approach scenarios.
00:15:52.000Once we've done A1, we've opened successfully, 15 to 30 seconds in is all it takes, we move forward to A2, which is the core of attraction, where I'm going to demonstrate higher value, DHV,
00:16:09.000demonstrate higher value to her, and elicit, draw out of her, IOIs, and her meaning the woman of interest within that group.
00:16:22.000Once I have two or three indicators of interest, that's, you know, a pattern is forming that she's demonstrating interest in me, I will then slow it down and say, is there more to you than meets the eye?
00:16:47.000But that's one example of a qualifier that Qualifying is so important, by the way, that it is a phase, not just a gambit, not just a game piece.
00:17:00.000But if you run four or five gambits that are qualifier gambits in the third phase of A3, you will complete the objective of the phase, which is to allow her to feel like you're attracted to her.
00:17:15.000It's the mere opposite of A2. In A2, You're DHVing and she's IOIing, giving indicators of interest for you showing value.
00:17:46.000Three phases of pickup, and that completes attraction.
00:17:53.000Once you've done that, once you've finished qualifying her for 8 to 12 minutes on average, you will move into a lock-in position, a sit-down position, grab yourself a seat with her and her friends if necessary, if not isolating her from her friends, you know,
00:18:08.00010 minutes in with permission from the peer group.
00:19:09.000And everyone that you know that's in this space that's helping guys with getting women typically is following that structure to some degree.
00:19:17.000This is like the main rubric that a lot of people built their game off of.
00:19:22.000So just to recap, attraction, comfort, seduction are the three big components.
00:19:28.000And then within attraction, you break it down to three other levels.
00:19:31.000You got an A1, which is opening the set, approaching them, saying hello with your opener, whatever it may be, which mine used to be, hey, you're almost as cute as me, haha, right?
00:19:38.000Break it with kind of a funny situation, like a funny pickup line, right?
00:19:42.000Then you demonstrate value, not necessarily brag about yourself, but do it through telling stories or whatever, and then She shows indicators of interest.
00:19:51.000I know there was a bunch that you would put in your book.
00:19:53.000Touching her hair, if I'm not mistaken, you'd call that preening.
00:20:00.000There was some other IOS you had mentioned in the book.
00:20:03.000And when she shows this, then you qualify her, and then you try to move the set, get her to follow you, and then have that one-on-one conversation to build comfort.
00:20:11.000So that's kind of a summary of what he was just saying, guys.
00:21:21.000You're going to meet a guy with beautiful women on his arms, and you're gonna have beautiful women on your arms, and the two of you are gonna wink at each other knowing that you guys are living good lives.
00:21:35.000And that's how you'll meet your next wingman.
00:21:41.000Actually, that's kind of like how me and Fresh met, because we both were dealing with the same situation, like with the same types of girls here in Miami, and we instantly bonded over that, because it's very rare to find another guy that knows his way around, you know, women.
00:21:56.000So when you do find it, you're like, okay.
00:21:58.000If this guy's here at Women, he clearly knows what he's doing because it's so few guys can actually do it.
00:22:04.000So that's actually a really good indicator to see if someone knows what they're talking about.
00:22:17.000That a lot of guys kind of mess up where they build too much comfort and the girlfriend zones them or they don't build enough comfort, they hook up with the girl and then she gets buyer's remorse and she doesn't want to necessarily see you again because you didn't build up the comfort.
00:22:31.000And I know if I'm not mistaken, please correct me if I'm wrong, the comfort building stage is about seven hours?
00:22:36.000Seven hours if I'm not mistaken in your book?
00:22:39.000Well, you know, a general solid game pickup that is not a fool's made pickup where you win chess in four moves and think you're a master when your opponent is merely naive.
00:22:51.000Playing a solid game is roughly four to ten hours.
00:22:56.000If you're under four hours, you're compromising her comfort levels.
00:22:59.000Remember, it's based on her comfort levels.
00:23:02.000So don't think you're a master because you've vetted her in one hour for her to get buyer's remorse then, right?
00:23:08.000And unless you have multiple sexual liaisons with her, it's not a sexual relationship.
00:23:16.000So, in other words, if you have a one-night stand, And you can't be with her again because she chooses not to see you again.
00:23:23.000To me, that's still an abysmal pickup failure.
00:25:39.000You get her number and a reason to see each other again.
00:25:43.000And then you bridge over the time apart so you can continue gaming with her, right?
00:25:50.000C1, you just have to build enough comfort to get to C2. C2 is its own comfort building location, like for instance, Mel's Diner on Sunset Boulevard.
00:26:01.000The neat thing about that place was that it was right underneath Project Hollywood where we lived, and you perhaps heard about Project Hollywood in the book The Game by my good friend Neil Strauss.
00:26:17.000Think how logical that is when we then bounce to C3, which is my living room.
00:26:23.000So we would just have to walk up the road from our comfort building eatery to get to C3. Following C3, where you're becoming intimate with her.
00:26:38.000See, in C2 it's connection, but in C3 it's intimacy.
00:27:47.000Yeah, dealing with LMR. Yeah, it's actually, in many ways, maybe it has to be reviewed again, LMR, because you shouldn't be getting LMR. The only reason why you get LMR is because she has some discomfort, and usually it has to do with not knowing you well enough.
00:28:07.000One of the game plans you can have is instead of working a set, we call it working a set, and then isolating your woman of interest and just sitting with her for five hours,
00:28:24.000I would rather move the set, move the girl and the set to many different locations to create more memories.
00:28:36.000Like the smoking section, or upstairs to meet my friends, or let's go to the bar to grab my next drink.
00:28:44.000Let's go check out, if the DJ is someone I know, things to do in the club.
00:28:52.000But also, you can say, we're going to the next venue.
00:29:03.000At the end of the night, she'll be in bed with you, wondering, do I really know this guy?
00:29:08.000And she'll be flooded with memories of interactions that have taken place.
00:29:13.000So when you meet a group of people, you're going to want to merge that group at some point into other groups, not only for social proof, but to create greater memories for everyone.
00:29:24.000Because each new person that she meets is another memory.
00:29:28.000And you get to be the social butterfly and introduce her to others.
00:29:32.000So it sounds like you're giving her experiences where she's going to remember you as a person giving her that experience.
00:29:40.000You escalate slowly but surely to the end point over time.
00:30:18.000Then you go into seduction, S1, arousal.
00:30:21.000Then S2, dealing with last minute resistance, LMR. And then S3, obviously, is closing the deal.
00:30:26.000So that is kind of the overview that I would say pretty much any guy that's dealing with chicks or is a coach to some degree or whatever, they're typically following this rubric to some degree.
00:30:37.000Every success story you've ever had, Has gone through those phases.
00:31:32.000There's several gambits for moving the set.
00:31:34.000We're going to need comfort-building gambits.
00:31:37.000These are clever stories and jokes to get laughter in your set because, after all, the best pickup artists in the world have a laugh track.
00:31:50.000They all have a laugh track in their sets.
00:35:07.000I made my decision of what was important at that time.
00:35:11.000Following that, I then started traveling with this joker here, Bexter, and we have traveled the world doing, just like in the TV show, teaching men the glorious art of the cold approach pickup.
00:36:13.000That's thanks to doing talk shows such as Jimmy Kimmel, Chelsea Lately, Conan O'Brien a couple times.
00:36:21.000Those did, in fact, change the way people treat me.
00:36:27.000Come up to me, knowing me, and they know that I'm a social being, so they come with their best foot forward, wanting to meet me and having read my materials.
00:36:38.000I'm very grateful that people are giving their best selves to me when we meet.
00:36:43.000We do picture exchanges, Instagram exchanges, getting them back into the fact that we're training around the world, and they could be a part of it.
00:36:55.000So, if you want to be a part of, for instance, next is Barcelona, go check out AskMystery.com.
00:37:03.000That's where we begin the process of pulling you into the world Of cold approach pickup and it opens doors.
00:37:16.000You know, obviously you mentioned that you were a figure from the 2000s, which, yes, I would definitely agree that you were all over television in the mid-2000s, definitely pioneering something new that no one knew about.
00:37:32.000But now, in 2024, with the explosion of the internet, social media, dating and meeting women has changed significantly, right?
00:37:43.000The days of going out and cold approaching, people still do it, but there's a lot of, you know, more and more people are meeting each other online.
00:37:49.000How would you say you've adapted your game and your structure to the new normal in which we live in a social media world?
00:37:58.000Well, I think that the social media world is largely an excuse to not getting to the party.
00:38:05.000You can come up with many excuses why you're not going to get dressed and go to the public gathering and interact with other people in real time, live.
00:38:25.000Right now my children are sleeping upstairs.
00:38:28.000But two weeks ago, you know, dad being single, I was in Hollywood with Bexter.
00:38:33.000And after the nightclubs, we'd go up into the Hollywood Hills, to the Hollywood Hills parties.
00:38:38.000And you don't have to show up if you don't want.
00:38:43.000Those parties are happening with or without you.
00:38:45.000But I'm telling you, they're great parties.
00:38:48.000So you're going to want to play cold approach pickup if you're going to want to draw beautiful women into your life and not have to somehow try to convince yourself that pressing keys is going to lead to sexual adventure.
00:39:03.000So, do you think cold approach is still the best methodology to acquire leads versus, you know, using dating apps?
00:39:12.000Because I remember back in the 2000s, like if you had a dating app profile, people laughed at you.
00:39:57.000That's a level two game where you can merge sets together and be a part of a crowd around you and entertaining two sets together and letting them mix and merge and mingle and occupy each other so you can isolate your selected interests.
00:40:14.000Level three game is allowing last night's successes to assist you in this night's successes.
00:40:19.000That is, bring people to the public gathering with you.
00:40:22.000Women you've met the night before, the week before.
00:40:51.000And then level five game is something that I've played on VH1 and that is pop game or a celeb game demonstrating higher value and uploading DHVs into people's heads prior to your arrival.
00:41:04.000And people do that now with Instagram.
00:41:07.000So that There's a lot of room for play in all of that.
00:41:14.000That is all a part of cold approach pickup.
00:41:18.000So to say that some guy looking at swiping pictures one by one, not seeing the face, designing the face that you want, and finding specifically within the database those who look as close to the image as possible,
00:41:40.000They have you swipe and offend you with girls that clearly are not your type, but the algorithm doesn't know your type, so you just go through.
00:42:53.000Yeah, and the other thing too, which I've always liked about cold approach, is you're kind of able to deal, like let's say you're not the most attractive guy.
00:43:02.000Well, if you meet her in person and you're charismatic and you're able to tell good stories, you'll be able to make up for that, you know, in person by being charming and charismatic.
00:43:11.000Which, real quick, mystery, just so the audience can get an idea.
00:43:15.000Can you take us through maybe what, like a DHV story, like one of the short DHV stories that you would use in field?
00:43:21.000Maybe one of your openers, it's a DHV story, et cetera, so people can get an idea of how this actually works.
00:43:26.000Because it's actually a very, people might think, oh my God, this is so complicated, A1, A2, A3. But you actually naturally do this anytime you deal with a woman if you get laid.
00:43:34.000Like you actually did all these steps to some degree.
00:43:37.000Maybe some are more accentuated than others, but if you're closing girls and going on dates and everything, you're doing this.
00:43:42.000So can you give the people like an example of what it would look like?
00:47:46.000You demonstrated so many different things just by doing that, right?
00:47:49.000So you demonstrate being playful, funny, sense of humor is disarming.
00:47:53.000Because most guys that approach girls, they're coming on some creepy type stuff, right?
00:47:56.000So if you're able to do that, it shows social calibration.
00:47:59.000And then you add to it, and you're like, oh, I was just messing with you guys, but I actually can do magic, which I wanted to talk to you about that as well.
00:49:39.000And I really want the audience to grasp this because, like, here we're just joking around, right?
00:49:43.000Like, you know, you're saying this to the girl or whatever, but what guys don't understand is, like, when you do this with women and you're playful like this and you have the wittiness to be able to do this and you're able to, you know, take a very mundane question that 99% of guys answer in a boring fashion and you're able to spice it up and make it interesting,
00:52:06.000People who stand out, women do it especially well, and when you go to A mall, you'll see they have so many clothing options, but men have less clothing options.
00:52:18.000That's why we need to get creative and out.
00:52:22.000It takes more social savvy because, you know, when I paint my nails black, people are going to say, why do you paint your nails black?
00:53:04.000And if I'm not mistaken, please correct me if I'm wrong, you generally recommend that every man, when they go out and they're running game, to have at least one piece of peacocking clothing item, whether it's a necklace, maybe jewelry or something like that.
00:53:22.000Do you think that they should still have one piece or should they have more nowadays to stand out in a very competitive dating marketplace with the internet around and social media?
00:53:28.000How should men go about peacocking in today's day and age?
00:53:33.000Well, the idea of wearing one is to say to people, wear at least one interesting item, and it could be a necklace, so that if a woman wants to approach you, you're giving her an open invitation to by her saying, oh, that's really nice.
00:54:08.000We've got lots of footage, infield footage examples of me running around Las Vegas in a fur coat, and while it looks ostentatious, it really drew a crowd.
00:54:25.000It allowed people to come in, meet me, interact with me, hug me, touch my fur, ask if it's real, and I say it's unreal, or do you know how many polyesters died for this coat?
00:54:39.000So I have my sound bites that are connected with my peacock gear.
00:54:46.000And you should have sound bites ready to respond to when they ask you about your necklace.
00:54:50.000It should be more interesting than, I bought it at the mall.
00:57:07.000What are some of the most common IOIs that guys miss?
00:57:10.000Because there's so many times where girls are giving guys hints.
00:57:14.000Guys might not have their social calibration or skill set to be able to identify these IOIs and make a move or escalate, right?
00:57:20.000Or they're scared to escalate because they don't see them.
00:57:23.000What are some common IOIs that guys miss?
00:57:26.000Well, I think that you don't have to kiss the girl in C1. You don't have to.
00:57:32.000You can say to her, expect nothing but great conversation in order to get the contact exchange.
00:57:38.000And then you preserve her comfort so that you can see her on a day two rather than kissing her too soon and she gets buyer's remorse.
00:57:48.000So it all depends on her whether you're going to kiss her in C1 or in C2 or you're going to again wait until C3 when you're in a private location and that's the first time you're kissing.
00:57:59.000But you should have some keynote escalation.
00:58:01.000You can't kiss her if she's uncomfortable holding her hand.
00:58:14.000Yeah, Iowyes that guys often miss from women and that are a little bit more subtle.
00:58:20.000We've talked about some common ones like touching her hair, looking up at you, laughing at your jokes, touching you, maybe scratching your arm like this.
00:58:27.000But what are some other ones that guys often miss?
00:58:32.000Well, they could be mirroring and matching you as well.
00:58:35.000Okay, can you explain what mirroring is real fast for the audience?
00:58:38.000Yeah, when they're literally copying, say they're sitting in front of you, they're copying what you're doing.
00:58:43.000You fold your arms, they fold your arms.
00:59:01.000There's many ways, but say that you're the other side of the bar, across a long bar, and you don't want to go round and talk and it's loud and so on.
01:00:27.000You were really big, and this is something to this day I still use and I still talk about.
01:00:32.000If I call the portrait girl, I'm never standing right in front of her.
01:00:36.000I always have my body bladed as if I'm about to leave.
01:00:39.000And potentially set up like a false time constraint or whatever.
01:00:41.000And I learned that from you, actually, Mystery.
01:00:44.000Can you talk about the importance of...
01:00:47.000When you approach a girl, you don't want it where you're directly in front of her and might make her feel intimidated, but you also want to kind of let her know that, hey, this interaction isn't going to last long.
01:00:57.000I think a lot of guys kind of mess this up and they make themselves almost too available where the girl doesn't know if you're going to sit there and try to talk to her for three hours or she doesn't know if you're going to leave.
01:01:06.000Can you talk about the importance of, like, blading your body a certain way?
01:01:08.000You just did the over-the-shoulder one real fast.
01:01:10.000Little subtle things like this, how it makes a big difference?
01:01:13.000I use it maybe 20% of the time in the night.
01:01:17.000You know, I'll do over the shoulder a couple times in the night, certainly.
01:01:21.000But it's important to note that what we've just structured here is a hypothetical situation of me approaching a girl.
01:01:29.000Women of beauty are rarely alone, usually in groups.
01:01:33.000So if we're going to fantasize repeatedly, instead of fantasizing and practicing and training and preparing for some future event, Where she's alone, we're not going to be meeting girls alone.
01:03:32.000And then there's the far more maneuver, it gives you far greater maneuverability.
01:03:37.000It's far more powerful, in my opinion, and that's opening indirect.
01:03:43.000And that's the indirect school of thought.
01:03:46.000So opening a group of people, if one of the people in the group is the woman of interest's father, for instance, well, then you're going to have to win over the father.
01:03:59.000For instance, my 17-year-old daughter has a boyfriend, and he's totally won me over.
01:04:06.000I think it's a wonderful match, a wonderful union.
01:04:10.000He comes over and hangs out, and he's a part of the family now.
01:04:14.000So, you know, he didn't just pick her up, he picked me up too.
01:04:41.000And what I've noticed is when you get permission from the guys in the group or you talk to the guy that seems to be the leader of the group and you kind of speak with him first...
01:04:49.000He'll tell you, oh yeah, no, she's single, man.
01:04:51.000Or, oh no, that's my girl, but this one is single.
01:04:54.000Since so many guys don't have that social awareness to do that, they'll almost throw you at the girl sometimes because that girl might be cock-blocking someone else or annoying them.
01:05:03.000So it's amazing how sometimes you're starting a conversation with that guy and being polite and trying to ascertain what's going on.
01:05:09.000They'll actually help you out a lot of times.
01:05:18.000And it reminds me of, it's a gambit, you know?
01:05:21.000It's a soundbite that you use, but it's an actual gambit in order to find out the information you're looking for, right?
01:05:29.000Another gambit is, and one that I am now going to, we talked about earlier that I'm going to give you, is how do you sit at a table that you haven't Bought a bottle at.
01:07:44.000I have a good game plan when you have a wingman with you.
01:07:50.000Instead of the two of you opening a set together, What happens is one guy talks while the other guy shuts up and stands behind the other guy.
01:09:00.000And I'll do the same for one of the girls, you know, the prettiest, generally, or the one that I think is the most compatible with my best buddy.
01:09:21.000And I'm assuming that, you know, Bexter has a type, you have a type, and he's kind of looking for that while simultaneously looking for his type at the same time, or do you guys just kind of go, are you guys not as picky with the women, or how does that go?
01:10:39.000I think it was about eight or ten cities around the world.
01:10:43.000On the second day, on Saturday, in a queue up to the club, he meets a girl, goes inside, gets two others to sort of fight over him verbally and grab him and kiss him for ownership.
01:10:56.000And that was his girlfriend for three months.
01:10:58.000So we had to change the tour marketing.
01:11:00.000But it was fun while it lasted for one night.
01:11:19.000Because you're real big on telling stories.
01:11:21.000Obviously, you've got the skill set with magic too, which is fucking, you know, that's literally a deadly weapon right there because very few people know magic and be able to do that in a club in front of girls.
01:11:51.000Mystery, can you give us an example of a DHV story that you would tell maybe somebody in the audience can kind of tinker with and use it as their own?
01:13:43.000And if you look at women who aren't as attractive, but they have personality, you know, like Drew Barrymore, she's just a wonderful, wonderful human being.
01:14:06.000So there's beauty in any imperfections, right?
01:14:10.000And that's something that my girlfriend at the time didn't have.
01:14:14.000But we went up there and we looked down from the Hollywood sign and we saw the perimeter.
01:14:20.000We saw the puzzle that is Hollywood for her.
01:14:23.000And looked down and knew that everyone you're going to have to impress, everyone that you're impressed by in the movie industry is down there.
01:15:07.000You went up and touched the Hollywood sign.
01:15:09.000You're in Los Angeles, which shows social proof to a degree, especially being with an actress.
01:15:15.000Pre-selection, because you have a girl.
01:15:21.000I think you pretty much touched every attraction trigger besides protecting a loved one because you were bigging her up, speaking well about her.
01:15:32.000Willingness to emote I would say is probably because you're able to identify with her not getting the role and feeling bad for her for not getting the role because you feel that she earns it.
01:15:40.000All of the five triggers were shown during the course of that story.
01:16:22.000And then you're off into comfort with her where she legitimately likes you for reasons that she's witnessed or has heard from you that she is responding to.
01:18:04.000When a topic doesn't hit, instead of giving up, like a comedian, like a pro-comedian, you know, he doesn't get the laugh, he doesn't get the laugh.
01:18:13.000An F. He just moves forward to the next one.
01:18:17.000But it's the amateur that gives up when he doesn't get a laugh.
01:18:21.000Rather than move on to the next topic and keep the show going, the show must go on.
01:18:27.000People just shoot themselves in the foot by going in and hoping to get IOIs rather than eliciting them.
01:18:34.000And what happens when they open and they don't get these IOIs, they get They feel like they're being rejected because, oh, she's not interested in me.
01:18:46.000You didn't make her interested in you.
01:21:33.000They're from Finland, they're from Sweden, they're from Russia.
01:21:36.000Those are some of the most beautiful women that are in Hollywood.
01:21:39.000Or the tourists that you'll find even all the way to Indonesia.
01:21:43.000If you go to Bali, you're going to find Russian clubs.
01:21:48.000Entire nights with Russian music and beautiful Russian girls who are on vacation.
01:21:54.000You know, we're looking for the tourists, generally.
01:21:58.000When we travel Even to Spain, we're doing a boot camp in Spain next, I'll be focused mostly, you know, respectfully, on the tourists that show up there.
01:22:11.000Yeah, so anywhere in the world will do, as long as it's a target-rich city, a target-rich venue that we go to.
01:25:39.000I love South Beach, but it's its own animal, its own game.
01:25:44.000You know, just like New York is its own game, getting up to those rooftop patio bars, you know, getting in is very different from Las Vegas.
01:25:54.000That has its own game too, you know, for good or for bad.
01:26:21.000When you come back, you'll see it's changed significantly from back then.
01:26:26.000It's actually becoming a major city now because all the New Yorkers are moving down here in general from the cost of living being too high in New York and everything else like that.
01:28:49.000Last thing from me before we read the chats.
01:28:52.000Rob, you met Mystery back in the day, but what told you, like, obviously you know he was with girls, you met him in the game, but what told you, you know what, this guy right here is going to be my partner, we're going to ride out to the sunset, make seminars,
01:29:07.000make people happy, change their lives.
01:29:09.000What told you that Mystery was that guy for you?
01:29:12.000Well, I mean, I was working as a director in a pickup company already in London and Mystery was doing a book tour And I was running VIP clubs all over London as well.
01:29:30.000And afterwards, everyone could just party in the VIP club.
01:29:34.000So Mystery came down, met over 100 people, did a free two-hour talk, did photographs, pictures, and then we met a couple of girls, bounced somewhere else, and then somewhere else, and decided to be...
01:33:56.000Yes, Toronto has some beautiful women there.
01:34:01.000But I'll tell you, generally it's a great city if you go with a girl to that city and you go explore it together, I think you'll have way more fun than going there specifically for pickup.
01:34:12.000The difference between going to Las Vegas for a weekend versus going to Toronto for a weekend, it's different.
01:34:19.000You know, and you want to spend more time in Toronto.
01:34:22.000There's a lot of things to do that are good dating, you know, mutual scenarios that you can do on a date.
01:36:19.000Not just a numbers game to get lots of girls, but rather because some of them had tough times getting girls with the game that they were using, so they had to develop game.
01:36:31.000So, you go into a nightclub environment like a dojo, like a practice ground.
01:36:36.000In order to socialize, get your social skills up to speed for a time in the future when a woman of particular quality comes along, you'll then have the skill set to attract her.
01:36:51.000Well, I would definitely like to do a part two in the future.
01:36:54.000I think we gave you guys just kind of a snippet of, you know, the structure and the game and everything else like that.
01:37:00.000But I don't want to take up too much of Mystery's time because, guys, he's on UK time.
01:38:25.000So thank you for pioneering a movement, man, and helping guys understand women.
01:38:28.000Because really, you guys did what a lot of psychologists and psychiatrists can never do, which is crack the code to attraction when it comes to intersexual dynamics between the genders.