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00:03:48.000Guys, we're going to be moving a lot of content to Castle Club, guys.
00:03:52.000Just so you guys know, more than likely, right, for us to be able to stay independent and do what we do.
00:03:56.000You guys know that we're very controversial.
00:03:58.000We say a bunch of stuff, and we want to be able to continue to say the stuff that we want, and you know censorship kind of sucks.
00:04:03.000So we're going to be moving parts of both of the shows, whether it's daytime, nighttime, if I bring on certain guests, or we get into certain topics, you know what I'm saying?
00:18:25.000Just do a poll while I continue asking questions and getting the girls' info.
00:18:29.000Okay, so y'all been together for four years, cool.
00:18:32.000Your parents are not together, no birth control, and okay, then you said that your body count is one, so you're the only person you've been with.
00:25:58.000Before we play this video, can we fire it up real quick?
00:26:00.000Actually, no, I should recharge for that.
00:26:01.000Yeah, let me read chats and then we'll play up the video that we're going to react to.
00:26:05.000Okay, Chris says, ladies, for the rest of your life, 60K per year working only 10 hours per week or 250K per year with only 4 hours of sleep per night?
00:26:14.000Okay, let me ask this question to ladies real quick.
00:26:17.000We can go around on this one real fast.
00:26:18.00060K per year working only 10 hours per week or 250K per year with only 4 hours of sleep per night?
00:26:42.000So you're only sleeping four hours a night, but you make a quarter million a year, or you make $60,000 per year, but you only work 10 hours a week, so you work one day a week.
00:34:57.000First off, my bad FNF crew, but you bum-ass niggas that came in last minute after Myron mentioned the giveaway and are coming at me for saying you leeches shouldn't get a chance at it.
00:36:35.000I would say it depends because Diddy is Diddy and all these little allegations he got going on about him unalive and well having that being had.
00:36:48.000So, maybe she was scared or something.
00:37:34.000I feel like if it happened the first time, I maybe would've...
00:37:39.000I'm the type of person to always try to first communicate with my partner, but if that's a problem that keeps happening, then I'm obviously gonna go.
00:37:48.000He gave you uppercut You're on the upper Face stop Coco Punch I'm going to defend myself I'm not no Yeah You say that, but if he decide he wanna drag you right now, we done for.
00:39:32.000Obviously, when Vitalian and Aiden are doing their streams, for the ladies that are wondering, what they basically do is they have some decoys, some guys that look very young, message these people on these...
00:39:45.000Apps, dating apps, I won't say which ones, but they use dating apps.
00:39:48.000And they message them and they say, hey, I'd like to get together, blah, blah, blah.
00:39:52.000And then they tell the individual, hey, I'm 15, I'm 14, I'm 12, I'm 13.
00:39:56.000And the guy's like, oh, okay, we'll still meet up anyway.
00:39:59.000So we go ahead and we set it up where we have the guy show up.
00:40:03.000He meets and then we bust him and then we come in, you know, we do some kind of, we make fun of him a bit and do some weird shit.
00:40:08.000Like we brought an alligator out one time and he was like, what the fuck?
00:40:11.000And then another time we brought out like a fake check and like, oh yeah, you won $10,000, $69,000 lol, but he really didn't.
00:40:18.000And then, you know, I used to work in law enforcement.
00:40:22.000I used to interview these weirdos, these pedos.
00:40:24.000So I kind of get in there and I get some more information out of them and everything else like that.
00:40:27.000And obviously we have to tell them, hey, you're free to leave and all this other stuff because you don't want them to feel like they're being held against their will or some shit like that because then you can run into some legal issues.
00:40:38.000You got the side where you want to entertain the audience, right?
00:40:41.000And then you also got the other side that if you want actual, real, fruitful prosecution on these individuals, you have to gather the evidence in a certain way where you're not putting the individual under duress.
00:40:51.000So it's like a delicate balance where you're trying to entertain while simultaneously still trying to present a case.
00:40:55.000So that's kind of why I'm in there to make sure that like, hey, you know, if we want to actually secure prosecution on these guys, we got to do it a certain way.
00:41:00.000Fortunately, here in Florida, they take it pretty seriously.
00:41:02.000When I was in LA last week, they don't really take it as seriously.
00:41:06.000Fortunately, on one of the cases that we had, I think we did a really good job and the police ended up taking it.
00:41:10.000But then the guy got released like a week later.
00:42:04.000Florida doesn't play with that stuff, so it's good that we were here versus being in California, California, your state, I know, where they don't do shit.
00:42:12.000Okay, so, and guys, just a quick reminder, because obviously more people have joined in.
00:42:17.000Guys, CastleClub.tv, guys, we're going to be moving some of the content over there, man.
00:43:22.000This is actually from going viral from an NFL kicker.
00:43:26.000His name is Harrison Butker, who is actually a three-time Super Bowl winning kicker.
00:43:32.000He's actually been going viral lately because of his speech that he did at Benedictine, yeah, Benedictine College.
00:43:40.000And they're saying he was basically talking about congratulating everyone, but also giving them words of advice about family values, Christian values, Catholic values.
00:43:52.000And he was saying, you know, he's encouraging people to say, okay, all right, guys got to take care of the household, women help them.
00:44:52.000It is only in the past few years that I have grown encouraged to speak more boldly and directly, because as I mentioned earlier, I have leaned into my vocation as a husband and father, and as a man.
00:45:03.000To the gentlemen here today, part of what plagues our society is this lie that has been told to you that men are not necessary in the home or in our communities.
00:45:11.000As men, we set the tone of the culture, and when that is absent, disorder, dysfunction, and chaos set in.
00:45:19.000This absence of men in the home is what plays a large role in the violence we see all around the nation.
00:45:24.000Other countries do not have nearly the same absentee father rates as we find here in the U.S., and a correlation could be made in their drastically lower violence rates as well.
00:45:34.000Be unapologetic in your masculinity, fighting against the cultural emasculation of men.
00:45:44.000Maybe you should lean into that over something that you might think suits you better.
00:45:49.000I speak from experience as an introvert who now finds myself as an amateur public speaker and an entrepreneur, something I never thought I'd be when I received my industrial engineering degree.
00:46:00.000The road ahead is bright, things are changing, society is shifting, and people young and old are embracing tradition.
00:46:07.000Not only has it been my vocation that has helped me and those closest to me, but not surprising to many of you should be my outspoken embrace of the traditional Latin Mass.
00:46:15.000I've been very vocal in my love and devotion to the TLM and its necessity for our lives.
00:46:21.000But what I think gets misunderstood is that people who attend the TLM do so out of pride or preference.
00:46:27.000I can speak to my own experience, but for most people I have come across within these communities, this simply is not true.
00:46:34.000I do not attend the TLM because I think I am better than others, or for the smells and bells, or even for the love of Latin.
00:46:41.000I attend the TLM because I believe, just as the God of the Old Testament was pretty particular in how he wanted to be worshipped, the same holds true for us today.
00:46:50.000It is through the TLM that I encountered order and began to pursue it in my own life.
00:47:15.000For the ladies present today, congratulations on an amazing accomplishment.
00:47:20.000You should be proud of all that you have achieved to this point in your young lives.
00:47:24.000I want to speak directly to you briefly because I think it is you, the women, who have had the most diabolical lies told to you.
00:47:31.000How many of you are sitting here now about to cross this stage and are thinking about all the promotions and titles you are going to get in your career?
00:47:39.000Some of you may go on to lead successful careers in the world, but I would venture to guess that the majority of you are most excited about your marriage and the children you will bring into this world.
00:47:49.000I can tell you that my beautiful wife, Isabel, would be the first to say that her life truly started when she began living her vocation as a wife and as a mother.
00:47:59.000I'm on this stage today and able to be the man I am because I have a wife who leans into her vocation.
00:48:06.000I'm beyond blessed with the many talents God has given me, but it cannot be overstated that all of my success is made possible because a girl I met in band class back in middle school Would convert to the faith, become my wife and embrace one of the most important titles of all, Hallmaker.
00:48:29.000So interestingly enough, the women there clapped, but obviously this got a bunch of backlash, calling calling them misogynist, toxic, etc. - Yeah, yeah.
00:49:08.000Mind you, he's obviously delivering this speech after these ladies worked really hard for a four-year degree to obviously pursue a career, not necessarily be a homemaker, presumably, right?
00:49:50.000I get the paradigm of giving the speech at a graduation where women are going to go into their career, but I thought it was actually refreshing and kind of, I thought it was very beautiful and lovely.
00:50:02.000I don't see why there's such a huge backlash, but like I said, I get the controversy, you know, time and place, I guess, but I thought overall it was beautiful.
00:50:16.000I get the why there's some controversy because of the being at the graduation, but I think in general like you don't hear things like that enough and I thought it was actually refreshing and different and traditional and old-school and I did think it was beautiful, truly.
00:50:37.000I forgive his mindset because we were raised basically in a pre-chirrocco society, but I forgive his mindset because to him he feels like it's right, it's traditional, he's not unconventional, so I understand his perspective.
00:50:51.000You know, it was a little passive, it wasn't like aggressive, so I guess, I mean, I could agree to disagree because he was respectful about it, it's like he doesn't even know any better, that's how he was raised, traditional.
00:51:02.000Okay, so you disagree with the message?
00:51:42.000Telling a bunch of girls that are getting their...
00:51:43.000I mean, how would you feel if a guy went up on your graduation day and said, Hey, I know you worked really hard to get this degree, but you should be in a house.
00:51:54.000I don't feel any type of way about it.
00:51:55.000You don't feel any type of way about it?
00:52:35.000Because, I mean, it is cool and all when you get your own degree and you do all that type of stuff, but it is funner when you're just home and you get everything you wanted.
00:52:47.000Like, you have to work, like, getting your degree meaning, like, you still gotta work.
00:53:21.000I feel that, first of all, like you said, it's a Catholic school, so if you attend a Catholic school, you understand how important it is, everything that he said, how it meant to him.
00:53:33.000You can also tell by his emotion that he really meant what he was saying and he wasn't trying to say it in a bad way.
00:53:39.000It's truly what he believed in, and if you are going there and you've been in school for that long, You should have thicker skin than that.
00:53:44.000If you believe you want to be in the workforce or you want to do whatever it is you want to do, someone telling a speech at your graduation shouldn't really affect it.
00:53:52.000Okay, so you're saying given the type of school they went to, they should expect that?
00:54:19.000And I feel like in the way he said it, maybe why people were backlashing was because he said it in a way that sounded like he was belittling it.
00:55:16.000Like, I support women that want to stay home and do that, but I do not support the way that people are putting it out, saying that they're belittling women, like the way that you referred.
00:55:46.000Yeah, I also feel like it's how you take it because you, as a female, you should want, like, going back to the kitchen thing, you should want to know how to cook.
00:56:08.000I feel like there was a lot of controversy with it because most of the women there have that mindset already that they're independent.
00:56:19.000They literally did all these years of school and they got this dude Congratulating his wife over there about what she not doing and what they done did.
00:56:29.000So I just feel like that's why, you know, it hurts some of they feelings.
00:56:33.000Cause it's like, they could have a husband doing it for them, but they don't.
00:56:37.000And they husband not up there on stage doing it for them right now.
00:58:57.000No baggage that social media likes to bring.
00:59:01.000Or she says, I can pursue my occupation that I prefer my whole life and not have any kids.
00:59:07.000As a mother, would you like your daughter to be with a husband, with a family, you eventually have grandchildren, or do you want her to pursue that occupation until she can no longer pursue it?
00:59:53.000Like, how Nira was saying, like, you know, the Catholic girls in the school, they have a whole completely mental, I don't know, it's just, like, different.
01:00:00.000Like, I'm independent right now, I don't have kids and stuff like that, but for the future, but for the future, I don't have kids right now, or anything, but for the future, yes, that's what I want.
01:02:27.000Okay, I'll read the chats real quick, we'll switch, and I'm going to give you guys my take, because these are some very interesting opinions here, but I want to ask the girls some follow-up questions here, especially.
01:02:56.000Blackest Panther says, why does it seem that women are women more likely to stay in a physical abusive relationship and even try to justify it than to stay in a relationship when the guy steps out?
01:03:12.000I got a couple more questions for the girls, and we're going to do a little bit of a debate here because we got some interesting takes on this.
01:03:35.000Guys, once you super chat in multiple times a show, you can just do that one time and just donate on Castle Club instead and it'd be way cheaper.
01:05:07.000Obviously, human beings are equal, right?
01:05:08.000I'm not talking about human dignity and anything else like that.
01:05:11.000I'm talking about within, you know, from a more relationship slash biological slash intersexual dynamic perspective, are men and women equal?
01:05:49.000Well, I'm only saying that because it's not from a spiritual perspective, because I'm spiritual, but in terms of, I don't know, societal standards, yes, because both sexes play parts that both benefit from each other equally to me personally.
01:08:15.000Yes, but what I'm saying is that, I don't know if you know, like, I'm just being funny here, but like, a majority of women want everything I just mentioned, their guy to have.
01:08:24.000So, I find it funny that girls say, I want an equal partner, I want a guy that's equal to me, but the reality is that you want a guy that's actually better than you.
01:08:32.000So, if you get a guy that's better than you, would it make sense for him to treat you as an equal?
01:08:38.000So if it's materialistic things, I am rich in love, happiness, spirituality, and everything, and I don't need a man for that.
01:08:49.000Because you're comparing me, you're comparing me, I'm rich in love, I'm rich in happiness, I'm rich, I'm rich, but if you're just rich in money...
01:09:31.000I think they have, like, okay, I feel like you guys don't want to say you want a man better than you because it gives the gold digger, but you're not going to say, if I go to work every single day and I come home and my man is laying on the couch every day or playing a game, you're not going to be happy about that.
01:09:51.000Just for argument's sake, what about...
01:09:57.000So recognizing that you want a man that's all of those things, but also recognizing that you want to be equal in the sense that you want to strive to make just as much money and be just as strong and be, you know, is that...
01:10:11.000Why would you want to actually compete with your man?
01:10:37.000If you make the same amount of money as him, it's going to be tougher.
01:10:40.000But as a leader, wouldn't you want your partner?
01:10:43.000As a leader, wouldn't you want, in any situation, wouldn't you, in any sort of team or partnership, wouldn't you want the other member of your team to be just as good?
01:10:55.000Why, as a leader, would you then want your teammate to be...
01:11:07.000And this is where there's the issues here.
01:11:11.000See, so let me give you my take on this situation with this speech.
01:11:14.000I think that speech was fantastic and I think more women need to hear it.
01:11:16.000And I wish he had done it at a more liberal school like a fucking, you know, NYU or one of these schools where we got all these liberal women that use spirituality and love and all this other weird stuff.
01:11:36.000There's a president, there's a head coach, there's a captain.
01:11:39.000Then there's people that are workers, people that are lower level, etc.
01:11:43.000When you get in a relationship with a certain type of caliber of man that's a leader, that's dominant, that goes into the boardroom and makes a bunch of money and is successful, etc., And he's worked his way to be there, right?
01:11:55.000And you as a woman didn't really have to work your way to be there.
01:12:26.000And the reality is that women are not attracted to their equals.
01:12:29.000They're attracted to men that are better than them in every single regard.
01:12:32.000Now, the reason why I think this was a fantastic speech to give, especially to college, is because when women go to college, what do they do?
01:12:38.000They get indoctrinated to think men and women are equal.
01:12:41.000They think I'm gonna be independent like this young lady here.
01:12:43.000I can be a teammate, all this other stuff.
01:12:46.000And it lies to you guys, because the reality is, the more money you make, the more educated you become, the more success you become, The less attractive you become to a majority of men that are what you are looking for.
01:15:51.000So why is it that you would never accept me If I spent four years going to beauty school being the most handsome guy ever and looking fucking good, right?
01:15:59.000You would never accept me, but you expect us to accept you guys for making a bunch of money and being successful.
01:16:44.000Yes, but I think coming from a super, super successful, as a super successful man, which most men in this generation and stuff are not bringing that.
01:17:02.000Would it be fair to say that like, and obviously yes, a bunch of guys are fucking bums, et cetera, but that's your job as a girl to detect that.
01:17:08.000Because I've seen it where girls meet guys that are successful and do have their money on point and are, you know, mask and whatever, but then the girl tries to compete with them.
01:18:11.000And I know this might be the first time you've heard this or whatever, but what this guy's speech basically embodies is that men are looking for a girl to kind of be an aide.
01:18:20.000We don't really care about you making money, you're being successful, your title, your careers.
01:18:24.000And I know some of you guys are going to college and shit, which is cool.
01:18:26.000I mean, I'm not gonna take that away from you, but understand that men don't care about that shit.
01:18:33.000I think going to school is good, getting your degree is good, but that shouldn't be a selling point.
01:18:38.000Like, oh yeah, I'm independent, I have a degree, look at me, it's more like, alright, I'm gonna be a wife to you, what do you need as a man?
01:18:45.000I wouldn't even, if I was a girl and I went on a date, I wouldn't even talk about my schooling, unless he really was interested and asked, but I would stay away from that and talk about other shit, because Bro, it's not that it's who cares, it's that, and here's the thing, even if a girl doesn't tell me what she does for work or education, just from her behavior, I could tell.
01:19:04.000If she's super masculine and aggressive and shit like that, I'm like, man, this chick works in law enforcement or some shit, or she's a business lady or some shit.
01:19:12.000And because people that are successful that make money, they have certain mindsets, they don't want to be told no, they have an A-type personality, that's very unattractive to us ladies, very unattractive.
01:19:38.000No, but I'm saying that's not the world we live in now.
01:19:41.000So it's like I almost feel like we're stuck between a rock and a hard place because it's like, okay, yes, I would prefer to have a high-value man, that I don't have to have an education, that could be a leader, that could be a provider, that could be a man of God, and all of those things.
01:22:06.000But the problem is that those same men have also passed on me because I have a degree, because I'm a businesswoman, because I can carry myself and be threatening or perceived in competition.
01:24:33.000I've realized that when girls are young and they don't get this mindset early on, this main character syndrome, they're able to maintain relationships better.
01:25:41.000Because if you look at, and it's interesting, if you look at commercials designed for women versus advertisers for men, to the women, they say, you deserve it.
01:25:53.000With men, it's like, you gotta earn it, right?
01:25:56.000With women, it's more like, you deserve it, and then men, it's like, you gotta fucking earn it.
01:25:59.000So, what I've noticed is that that plays into this man character syndrome that so many modern women experience.
01:26:04.000And then I think social media, Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, reality television shows, it's exacerbated.
01:26:10.000The problem made it worse because girls compare their life to the chick on Instagram.
01:26:15.000And they don't know that that girl that's on Instagram with that fucking good looking guy and the million dollars, he's fucking five bitches a week.
01:26:21.000And she's at the house alone all the time.
01:26:27.000They don't even know this shit, but they see the lifestyle and they don't know what comes with it.
01:26:31.000I think women just really need to understand the realities of the decisions that you make and going in on a date, just bring this all full circle.
01:26:39.000When you go on a date, instead of thinking I'm the main character and impress me, nigga, it's more of, okay, I met this guy, I like this guy, let me make sure I'm the best pick for him and these other girls get blown out the water.
01:26:50.000And I think if more women approach dating from that perspective of how can I be an asset to this man, He ain't going nowhere, bro, because most girls are fucking useless, to be honest with y'all.
01:27:14.000And I think the main character syndrome thing is true.
01:27:16.000And I think that it's a problem because people like me spend my 20s, my youth, my prime trying to get that degree and become all these things that Truly, once you get to that point, you get to 30, you get to 35, you really start to see the value in tradition and gender roles.
01:27:38.000And that's not to say, like, ladies, like, we're not equal and da-da-da and all these things and we don't need an education or anything like that.
01:27:45.000But you really start to see that it becomes, there's a switch where it becomes such a disadvantage and all of a sudden everyone's like, but you're a great catch.
01:28:13.000We say, like, you know, I spent, like, for someone like me, like, I spent my 20s, like, trying to do these things that society kind of teaches us.
01:28:30.000Knowing what you know now, if you took that knowledge and I told you, you know what, we're going to fucking push the clock back 15 years.
01:28:37.000Knowing what you knew now, would you give up the degree, would you take this knowledge that you have, and would you go back and find your dream man?
01:29:41.000Has anyone in the past ever asked you that before to give up stuff that you didn't want to give up?
01:29:45.000No, because I feel like, again, we've been groomed into this society of where I'm an independent female, or the guy doesn't want to take that leadership role to say, I value these things and I want my woman to be this.
01:30:01.000The guy is almost, not to be sus, but the guys kind of take this simp role where they're like, yeah, we're all just stuck in a really weird place, but it's...
01:30:28.000That's everything in their parents, their schooling, their generation, their society, social media, Instagram, everything has told them be an independent female.
01:30:36.000Go to school, get a degree, get a college.
01:30:37.000That's what's going to make a man want you.
01:30:39.000And then you get there and you're like, why doesn't nobody want me?
01:34:20.000No, but I know two inches from six inches.
01:34:23.000All right, so typically what I've noticed is the closer the girl is to a six foot, the easier it is for her to discern if a guy is going to be six foot.
01:34:31.000So like, when girls are like 5'10", 5'11", they know right away.
01:35:35.000Statistically speaking, by the way, when a girl is in a relationship with a guy that she loves Virginia to, those typically tend to have the highest marriage rates.
01:35:42.000Also, I feel like it has a lot to do with people see how their parents are raised or come from a background like, I don't want this, I don't want that.
01:35:48.000And for women, it's scary because every woman, I feel like at the end of the day, it all goes to certainty.
01:35:53.000You want to be certain that you'll have a nice life, you'll have a house to come home to.
01:38:18.000So women tend to look at their past relationships as like, A barometer of where they can kind of go in the future, but they don't realize that as time passes, it's harder to make that back.
01:38:28.000So, I think the biggest thing I tell girls in their 30s is like, just pick two or three really good traits that are non-negotiables.
01:38:36.000Like, maybe he's like, if money's your biggest thing, be content with getting a guy that has money that's ugly.
01:38:42.000If good looks is your thing, be content with a guy that's gonna have, you might have to work a full-time job.
01:38:48.000If you want to get as charismatic and charming and loving, be content with the fact that he might not be the best looking and he might make some money here or there, but you're just gonna have to deal with it.
01:38:59.000You're going to sacrifice something of yourself as well.
01:39:03.000That's something like how we were saying before.
01:39:05.000So not only do I have to realize that I'm going to have to accept somebody with kids or this or something like that, but I might also have to sacrifice and become a mom.
01:40:11.000We got some girls here that are 18 that are literally just beginning their lives.
01:40:14.000What advice would you give them knowing what you know now and having this discussion?
01:40:18.000I would say don't be so afraid to embrace Like society has kind of, and I'm not like a super, I'm like a, I'm a very pro women, get your education, get your money, take care of yourself, all of those things.
01:40:33.000But I feel like one major mistake that I made along the way was Putting my value in my education, putting my value, and not to say those things are invaluable, but if I would have had the self-worth that I had now, then I didn't, you know?
01:40:53.000And I sat there and I kept thinking, but when I... Look at her.
01:40:56.000When I find a husband, sorry, when I find a husband, when I get an education, when I lose the weight, when I become a lawyer, when I do all these things, I'll feel worthy.
01:41:06.000And I think if I would have had that self-worth then, I could have not been so afraid of being traditional.
01:41:13.000Like, it's almost like society has groomed us to feel like if we accept a traditional role that we have to negate our independence and we have to negate our education.
01:41:23.000And I... I would think, I would say my advice to you guys would be that you can have, you can have, both of the things are valuable and you don't have to put all your value in all of your time.
01:42:20.000Girls who claim to be spiritual are following the devil as they simply want to cherry-pick aspects of religion that they like and discard the rest.
01:55:20.000We caught a pedophile in L.A., and he was, like, fucking around with, like, the decoys, and he put, like, whipped cream in there and eating pizza.
01:55:26.000And then we came out, and he was naked with whipped cream on him.
01:58:05.000I did a case one time where we had an undercover agent, and she was obviously texting the fucking dude, and she was saying, oh, I have a 13-year-old daughter, too, that we can mess around with.
01:58:15.000We're a prosecutor for that because, well, in this case, he sent child pornography, but let's say he didn't, but he came to meet up.
01:59:10.000Ladies, would you rather be treated like a sexual object and get everything from a man or be equal and get nothing from men, including chivalry?
02:09:07.000I've been seeing this show and I've just always been interested in other women's thoughts because I feel like mine are always a little different.
02:11:51.000It's because it gets into a personal thing, though.
02:11:55.000I started working so that my man prefers me not to work, and my relationship hasn't been stable, so I wanted to work because I'm not going to be relying on someone.
02:12:07.000And then the day that something happens, I'm there having to start from nowhere.
02:12:12.000So that's why I want to be independent.
02:12:14.000Okay, so then not for nothing and not trying to attack your situation.
02:15:55.000You should always respect your man and let everyone know that you have a man as much as you can.
02:16:01.000Honestly, I think if you're in a serious relationship as a girl, your profile should be private, or if you're gonna keep it open, he needs to be at the top so everyone knows, God damn, this girl's infatuated with this guy.
02:27:59.000That's going to be the home base for us, man.
02:28:00.000Like I said before, we're going to ease it in for you guys, and we're going to go ahead and give some discount codes and everything else like that.
02:28:06.000We'll make one for you guys coming up.