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00:01:56.000FNF Super Chat's a little bit easier, especially since we're on the road because we got Mo in the back.
00:02:00.000Back in Miami, monitoring it for us so that we can read them for you guys.
00:02:03.000But yeah, I guess, Fresh, anything else?
00:02:06.000Ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, your body count.
00:09:38.000So, we work with patients with known or suspected heart disease.
00:09:41.000We do things like program pacemakers, exercise treadmill tests on Premier League footballers.
00:09:46.000We put stents in coronary arteries, like people who've presented with heart attacks, and yeah, just like that.
00:09:53.000So, like, do, just so I understand, like, so they go see a doctor or a cardiologist, whatever it may be, follow-up care, et cetera, you guys handle that?
00:10:57.000But they're facing a lot of backlash from the actual junior doctors because here the junior doctors, or the doctors in general, they go through at least six years worth of education.
00:11:31.000Imagine you go to med school in America, which costs hundreds of thousands of dollars, and this guy's over here prescribing people medicine and stuff like that, just like you would do, and they would have half the schooling you do.
00:11:41.000But they do a lot of the doctors, we say, kind of like dirty work.
00:12:01.000So you guys do the follow-up care from whatever the cardiologist suggests?
00:12:05.000Yeah, the diagnostic care, and then we refer them to whatever they need to write reports to the doctor, and the doctor then does the diagnosis.
00:19:26.000Young children, yeah, high school level.
00:19:28.000When they're having issues, emotional issues, social issues, they come to me and I equip them with emotional management tools and autonomous learning.
00:19:36.000Are we talking like teenage kids like in secondary school?
00:21:25.000Advising on policies and things like this to make sure that they're doing things that are productive and actually sustainably successful for the community.
00:22:04.000Yeah, because you have to understand the United States is a superpower, so you have to have interest in understanding their foreign policy to understand what happens in the world.
00:23:03.000The only thing that's changing now is maybe, like, the political, you know, influence that is going more towards BRICS rather than the Western influence.
00:24:54.000Come on, I'm sure many guys would wish that girls would say these things, because then they can play their games alone, have their own space, and not have headaches all the time.
00:25:20.000I don't actually entertain men like that, but there's a lot of men that are courting me and they're trying to kind of get me towards that stage.
00:27:52.000But it's cheaper than in the US. Yeah, in uni here, you get student loans that allow you to kind of go to university up until master's level.
00:27:59.000They have the same system in Barbados as well.
00:36:12.000And it's just me like researching why that is and like telling stories of men that have really been negatively affected by the court system.
00:36:26.000And yeah, I will say Yeah, being put in you guys' shoes, oh my gosh.
00:36:32.000Yeah, because everyone turned on you over some bullshit, too, after doing an interview.
00:36:37.000Well, and I used to think you guys were really harsh, but it is so hard to control a room.
00:36:42.000I used to not understand why you didn't say things nicer, and then I was in your shoes, and I'm like, oh my gosh, this is impossible.
00:36:49.000Yeah, it's something that very few people will ever understand or grasp, like when you're running a podcast with a bunch of people that aren't creators themselves and don't have mic etiquette, it's a different world, but I mean, I get it.
00:36:59.000And there's a bunch of other things, too, that Pearl's been helping us out with behind the scenes.
00:41:39.000They'd be like, yo, Rihanna's a painting, you know?
00:41:43.000So yeah, so it's been going viral on Twitter.
00:41:49.000This guy basically divorced his wife because they were together for two years.
00:41:53.000No, they didn't have sex for two years.
00:41:54.000I think they were together for a total of five, if I'm not mistaken.
00:41:57.000But either way, she hadn't given him sex for two years, and what she was doing was when she did offer him sex, he would have to complete chores to do it.
00:42:04.000So in other words, she would, you know, You know, you need to pass my compliance test to get sex.
00:47:07.000If we go by, you know, what I heard Pearl saying, the Catholic values of marriage, he should not have left.
00:47:13.000He should have endured not having sex with his wife, try and communicate through the process because divorce is bad on either side, correct?
00:47:58.000I think, well, if he cheated first, and then his actions caused her to have that reaction like that, to not want to be intimate with him, so I think he should be more understanding to her.
00:48:21.000I think he was within his rights to leave.
00:48:22.000I mean, I'm not saying he was right to cheat, but the fact is he cheated and then she continued the relationship, but then it seems like she was holding it over him as a kind of a leverage.
00:48:33.000So under those circumstances, I think he was within his rights to leave.
00:48:38.000I just think if you're gonna, okay, if you get cheated on, it's an L, all right?
00:48:41.000It is an L. But, I mean, you can either take it and fix it or leave.
00:48:46.000So it's like, why is she staying in the relationship and then holding it over?
00:50:22.000I swear because you guys, I don't remember what you guys said when I came on your show, but I don't remember the exact conversation, but I couldn't believe in my year of interviewing people, I would always ask girls if after they caught their boyfriend cheating or their husband cheating,
00:50:38.000whatever, if they stayed, and it was like 90% of the time, they said, yeah, they never leave.
00:50:59.000You say men have the power but what I've noticed in our culture as well is women actually tend to have more power but you always respect your man and there's always a respect between two people and that is something healthy and I feel like the power should be split equally so sometimes a woman has to take 80 the man gives 20.
00:51:19.000Sometimes the man is the one that gives 80 and the woman gives 20.
00:51:23.000If the roles can reverse But as long as you've got something healthy I feel like it should always be an equal thing, but what I've noticed is women always tend to have more power.
00:51:34.000A woman can look at her man and he will know straight up.
00:51:38.000Let me stop drinking too much because I'm drinking too much.
00:51:43.000What I've seen, especially in my family, in my culture, the women have the most power, but we will respect our man and we make sure we take care of our man.
00:51:52.000As long as you are respectful to us and you're taking care of us, we take care of you.
00:51:57.000But the one that rules the house, the bills and everything like that, it's always a woman because we don't spend recklessly.
00:52:04.000I've noticed that in Asian households as well.
00:52:07.000Is that though because the guys feel that they haven't got options to, you know, they feel that they're beholden to that woman because they don't have any options?
00:52:27.000They're going to treat that woman that way.
00:52:29.000And they're not going to do anything to put her in a position of jeopardizing their relationship.
00:52:33.000So therefore, she holds a certain power to an extent and vice versa.
00:52:38.000But the woman tends to take care of her.
00:52:41.000But that's because the woman, especially the Portuguese woman, and even the Angola woman, they're very kind of subservient to their men in the sense of, They'll do anything.
00:52:53.000Especially the Portuguese woman, which means that as the man, you are so comfortable and so attached to that woman that actually you will respect her.
00:54:36.000What do you think is the more conducive strategy to keep a man?
00:54:39.000Their strategy of flipping out if you get cheated on?
00:54:42.000Or yours where it's like, well not yours, but like your culture where they kind of just accept it and kind of know what comes with the territory?
00:54:49.000In Ghanaian culture, marriage is held very highly.
00:54:52.000So if you're not married after a certain age, it gets embarrassing.
00:59:01.000I would say it really depends on kind of where you are in life.
00:59:05.000So for example, in African culture, right?
00:59:09.000You can have like 10 children with the same woman, but then it gets to a point where the woman, number one, she's tired, she's taking care of the kids, she's busy, she's doing her own thing, that's your wife, right?
00:59:18.000So you, as a high-value man, especially because I'm talking from the perspective of successful men, okay?
00:59:23.000You can go outside, you're doing your business meeting, you're doing all this.
00:59:28.000And the thing is, and what I've noticed from observing this sort of situation is that the respect comes from the fact that the woman remains the queen and the it.
01:00:34.000See, now kids are growing up thinking, oh yeah, in my African culture, it's okay for me to do this at some point to my baby mum or to my wife because she's tired or whatever and I'm out here still.
01:00:49.000That's not okay and that's one thing that needs to really be decoded from these generations.
01:00:56.000No matter what culture you're in, no matter what it is, if it's not part of your...
01:01:01.000I know that there's a culture where men have multiple wives.
01:01:16.000If you want to go out and have your fun, go and have your fun, but don't be having someone else in the back you're committed to, and they're thinking, and they're being 100% loyal to you, and you're out here being a trash.
01:02:32.000Because it's like she's almost setting it up where it's like, yeah, the person I will end up with, which is like she's already pre-setting like, I need to get my fun now before I go with the boring guy.
01:03:24.000I'll explain to you what I mean, okay?
01:03:29.000The type of man that I like is the type of man that can walk down the street and every single man will look at him and be like, yeah, that's the guy.
01:03:38.000But he's also incredibly submissive in a relationship.
01:03:42.000No, that doesn't mean submissive in a relationship.
01:03:44.000That means that you're quiet enough, even me.
01:03:46.000If every guy, you're walking down the street and you need to talk and everybody can recognize your power, how am I, as a woman, not going to recognize him?
01:03:53.000I want a man that is able, with just his presence and his energy, to not even have to talk just to set his masculinity, just by being there.
01:04:09.000Okay, so you guys understand that the metric that men use to respect each other is far different than what you guys use to respect each other, correct?
01:04:23.000No, you guys respect each other on beauty.
01:04:25.000You guys don't give a fuck about status.
01:04:26.000Like, for example, if Oprah Winfrey walked into a room with a bunch of Instagram models, no one gives a...
01:04:31.000They might be like, oh, cool, Oprah Winfrey's in here.
01:04:34.000But at the end of the day, the most attractive woman understands that I'm the most attractive and she has the most status in that room because...
01:04:40.000We don't like from a sexual market value standpoint, right?
01:04:43.000So like you mentioned that you want a guy that like he could walk into him and other men respect them, right?
01:04:48.000Well, men respect competence and meritocracy.
01:04:50.000We don't respect the same things that you guys do and a lot of that comes down to your ability to earn money.
01:04:55.000Yeah So if you want a guy that could command the respect of other men, that means he has to be extremely accomplished, and he's probably a high earner, which means he's gonna come with other women, too.
01:05:04.000So, for example, me, a lot of the men that I do know, they are extremely respected, especially in their community, and not because they're rich, because they're real men.
01:06:12.000No, well, my question, because like I said, you said you want a guy that can command respect from other men, and a big component of being able to command respect from other men a lot of times, well, not even a big, it's the main thing, it's competence, and a lot of times your competence is shown through your ability to earn resources and currency, right?
01:11:46.000so maybe a bit less than I would want to pay a bit less also because yeah because this is hilarious you ask a russian woman a question like this she'll know what to say yeah wait what 50 50 what is that i break him yeah what about you no no you would not do it what about you would you go 50 50 or no would you want to pay a majority of the bills If it's temporary,
01:12:30.000So, you know, this perfectly proves what I said because a lot of you guys were saying, like, I look for ambition, I look for that, blah, blah, blah.
01:12:37.000But when I asked you guys would you be okay, right, with paying a majority of the bills, all of you said, no, I want the man to do that.
01:12:42.000Most of you don't even want to go 50-50.
01:12:44.000And I say this quote, a lot of girls get mad when I say it, but I say it all the time.
01:13:06.000So, whether you guys want to admit it or not, women like to dress up finances in other terms to not come off as gold diggerish, but all women are gold diggers to a degree.
01:13:15.000Somebody's better at hiding this shit.
01:15:14.000What I think is that more women are going to be single and they're going to just recreationally have sex like they're doing now but at a higher level.
01:16:24.000You can say the role is shifting and women are earning more, so therefore it's going to shift and women are going to be the higher rate.
01:16:29.000But women aren't going to respect a dude, like, ultimately long-term, who is earning less, okay?
01:16:34.000So in the end, what it means is that it's going to be the guys who are earning more, the guys at the top level, who are going to be getting a bigger slice of the pie.
01:18:39.000And financially, this is the reason why, wait, I haven't finished.
01:18:43.000And financially, the reason why I actually don't care whether or not you have got money right there and then is because if you are intellectually superior to me, and politically superior to me, but this is the thing.
01:18:55.000If you treat me nice, if you treat me nice and they need to hit these boxes, I don't care if you got money because at some point we're going to make it.
01:19:01.000I would rather, I'm not going to lie to you.
01:19:03.000I've experienced- You know that so many guys don't make it.
01:19:08.000And that's the pessimism that will get people to not actually go for men that are really nice, but unfortunately they may have hit a bump on the road and you're judging them because they ain't got thousands in their pocket, but tomorrow they could.
01:20:47.000Then you go ahead and perfectly describe the traits and potential to make money in the future.
01:20:54.000So, money does matter, but what you're doing is what a lot of women do.
01:20:57.000You're dressing up something that is unflattering to hear, I care about money, and you're trying to conceal it in the cloak of potential, which is what a lot of women do.
01:21:06.000But this is what I mean when I say females in general have an issue with being direct and saying what is really on their minds or what they really want, because if women were honest and said what's really on their mind or what they really want, you would look like shit.
01:21:19.000If you said, I want a guy If women were honest about what they really wanted in men,
01:21:36.000which everything I just described is what women want, we wouldn't fucking respect y'all, which is why, hold on, which is why you guys can't be honest because the things that women are Actually aroused by and attracted to, don't sound good when said out loud.
01:21:49.000Matter of fact, when I described all these things, all of you were uncomfortable.
01:21:52.000Because you guys know deep down I'm fucking right.
01:21:54.000But men are very direct about what they want in women.
01:24:48.000So I've actually been with someone and we straight up just said to each other, we've known each other for time and we was like, look, we don't want anything serious.
01:25:42.000And the thing is London is such an international city so you get girls from Italy, you get girls from Brazil, you get girls from all over the world, it's the same.
01:25:51.000You guys are actually kind of gassed because you're talking shit like that.
01:25:55.000But when you are telling me about a man being broke, I simply told you I don't care about money and I don't really expect you to put me in those categories.
01:26:03.000I'm telling you right now, I am the daughter of a woman that raised four daughters on her own, which means that I was taught to not give a damn about money from men.
01:26:21.000You just said a second ago, you literally just said you don't want to pay a majority of the bills and you don't want to go 50-50.
01:26:30.000What's required for you to not go 50-50?
01:26:33.000What's required for you to not go 50-50?
01:26:35.000Let me tell you why I said that because I made sure I added this at the end because as a woman my life will have to adapt and go through different moments because for example women you have children which means that you're not going to be in a position to pay bills 50-50 Because you may be off work,
01:26:51.000especially if, let's say, you have three, four kids in a row.
01:28:01.000She mentioned something about you don't want girls with high body counts, but you're talking about having sex with the guy early on, is what she was saying.
01:28:11.000I think, you know, when guys call us things like gold diggers and things like that, that's where kind of the problem also is because not all women are gold diggers.
01:28:26.000I just went around the panel here and asked all of you if you would be okay with going 50-50 or and or the man paying the majority of the bills and all of you said yes.
01:28:49.000Okay, so if you want to pay a minority of the bills, or maybe 50-50, or whatever it is, you still want a man that makes more money, so you're still a gold digger to a degree.
01:28:59.000There's a difference between wanting to be comfortable and looked after.
01:29:02.000You just don't like the word, but you're still a killer if you kill 100 or one.
01:32:17.000But what I would also say is, and Myron, I don't know what you guys take on this, it seems to be like the dating market is getting increasingly transactional anyway.
01:32:25.000And I don't think that's a fucking bad thing.
01:34:58.000So at the end of the day, at the end of the day, men do the same thing as women do.
01:35:04.000So we can't say that it's just one gender and keep putting it on the women and say that women are gold diggers, but men are not gold diggers.
01:35:11.000You haven't answered my question, Pearl.
01:35:47.000No, I like to keep my shit personal because that shit ended up being domestic.
01:35:51.000So not only did he fucking abuse me mentally, yes I did actually, ABH. I have all the photos, I have all the proof and I was supposed to take him to court but I dropped the charges because of his little girl.
01:36:05.000So don't try to come to me when I can actually get all the proof and I can get all the emails up and I can get every single fucking thing up.
01:36:21.000I'm not about to take a father away from a child.
01:37:34.000Everybody shut the fuck up for two seconds, okay?
01:37:37.000Let's go, yeah, because you guys talk too goddamn much and it's hurting my ears and the audience.
01:37:41.000I'll just objectively say this and then you guys can go back to saying what you're saying.
01:37:46.000But studies have shown this, that typically when there's abusive relationships, nine out of 10 times, it's both parties are beating on each other.
01:37:53.000And if there's one party beating on the other, right?
01:37:56.000Most of the time, not saying this is your situation, so don't get triggered, but most of the time when there's one party beating on the other, it's typically the woman beating on the man, not the other way around, contrary to popular belief.
01:38:07.000A lot of people think it's the man beating on the woman, but nine out of ten times if the man's beating on the woman, it's the woman also beating on him.
01:38:21.000And I'll tell you what, I'll tell you what.
01:38:24.000i i couldn't believe women never file police reports in these evil abusive men if they're so abusive file a police report why would you want an evil abusive man out there he could hit but why didn't you press charges i don't know i don't know you personally so i maybe you're the exception doubt it but it's like but it's like okay literally you can go to the cops and they can put these guys in jail if they're abusive why don't you go do it they never do Well,
01:39:33.000I know those that have been in domestic relationships themselves.
01:39:37.000But when it ended up happening to me, I was shocked because it happened out of nowhere.
01:39:42.000When it comes to the mental and the emotional, that was already hard enough as it is, and I was trying to break away, and I was trying to get myself away from that person.
01:39:51.000But there is so many things behind the scenes that I don't want to go into, and I won't go into, that played a massive factor.
01:39:59.000But then why would you bring it up if you don't want to go into it?
01:41:02.000No, because it doesn't matter if they're professionals, if they don't know shit, because the problem Feminists get into these institutions and they change the definition of word.
01:43:00.000And so what they did was they expanded the definition and what they did in the family court system was they made it a balance of probability.
01:43:11.000So meaning one judge can go in there and say if it's more likely that she was abused than not more likely.
01:44:39.000What's more dangerous is you talking like this, same thing as Pearl is saying, because now you're taking the voices away from people that actually need it.
01:44:54.000What I find very interesting is that, for example, Pearl, you have a lot of experience sitting here for one year speaking to so many different men, but you've probably only had like one or two relationships that probably were not that serious.
01:45:04.000When it comes to the emotional connection with a man, that experience of yours might just be limited.
01:45:55.000You don't have to be a mathematician to say one plus one is two.
01:45:57.000I know, but can I tell you why I said that?
01:45:59.000Because it's the same way that you can't attack and discredit a person because she is a woman, because women are stupid, or because women shouldn't vote, or because women shouldn't, because women are more emotional.
01:46:08.000No, but in general, you are generalizing.
01:46:10.000So when you generalize to discredit women that are talking about abuse because women are more emotional, then I'll discredit somebody that's saying the same thing but doesn't even have the experience that she should have.
01:46:31.000When I'm fucking talking, shut the fuck up!
01:46:34.000I don't know what you guys think this is, but I gotta fucking put my foot down because you guys are hurting the crowd of the show and just fucking yelling a bunch of nonsense.
01:50:30.000But the problem is with our generation of women, we want to legally, okay, a guy's controlling everything you do, and maybe something happened you didn't like.
01:50:40.000Now you want to take it to court, take his kids away, take half his shit, and then go around on the internet and call him abusive.
01:50:45.000If that's what I wanted to do, why did I take the charges off?
01:51:50.000But the problem is, the problem is, women used to take our L's and just move on.
01:51:53.000You know, we would take an L, maybe something happened in a relationship we didn't like, but now we go to the court system and take away his kids and half his assets.
01:52:01.000So my question is, what do you know about family law?
01:52:04.000What do you know about the court system?
01:52:06.000I know quite a bit still, due to the fact that my auntie is a lawyer.
01:55:43.000One man that I interviewed that I would not be surprised if he...
01:55:50.000I would not be surprised if he took his own life because the mother of his kid said he touched the child and she never took him to criminal court.
01:56:20.000I'm not talking about you, but Denalva was saying that these men kill themselves in divorce court because they're not opening up about their feelings.
01:56:28.000No, it's because women are financially ruining them.
01:56:45.000So you're going on about it and picking up about it.
01:57:01.000What she's saying she's speaking in general which means she's not talking about you she's simply telling you hold on be quiet be quiet man holy fuck bro she's not talking about you she's speaking generally And also understand,
01:57:17.000ladies, because that's another thing too, a good point.
01:57:20.000Family court and criminal court are two different things.
01:57:22.000In criminal court, there's a way higher burden of proof, right?
01:57:26.000I don't know what it is in the UK, but in America, I'm assuming in the UK, it's very similar, right?
01:58:04.000I just want to say that it was quite an interesting point.
01:58:09.000I didn't know that and I definitely do believe that there are women who play the system to their needs.
01:58:15.000Men ultimately do suffer because the default reaction of many judges and people in power are to believe People who they perceive as less powerful, which in this case are women, but that doesn't take away from the fact that there's a multitude of factors that constitute to abuse and lead up.
01:58:33.000If you're saying the physical part of it is what is abuse, there are loads of different factors that then ultimately contribute to that final event.
01:59:09.000The majority of police reports that are filed when it comes to rape, SA, all of that stuff, they're not pursued, meaning they don't have enough what?
01:59:20.000Because women are emotional, which is the point that we've all been trying to make, more times than not, women are emotionally, you know, if you've had the man's kids, you've known him since you were 17, you've grown up together, you are afraid to take that step and ultimately see him go down for that.
01:59:36.000Like she was saying, it's the woman's fault.
01:59:40.000Fine, but it shouldn't have happened in the first place.
01:59:45.000I'll tell you, but the problem we have in this society is we automatically believe women when women's nature is very deceptive.
01:59:53.000And so naturally, I don't think we should believe women.
01:59:56.000I actually think we shouldn't believe women.
01:59:58.000Because the thing is, if I really believe that someone was abusive, a criminal, all of this stuff, why wouldn't I go to a criminal court or lock him up?
02:00:05.000We take into account that, listen, relationships are multifaceted.
02:00:10.000They're not as clear-cut as we are making it out to be.
02:00:15.000But that leads into what I'm talking about, the subjectivity.
02:00:20.000When we're talking about these other forms of abuse, like coercive control, and I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but how do you define that?
02:00:25.000And how do you know it's not a subjective opinion?
02:02:42.000So if you have unilateral control of who gets born or not, and you decide, I'm going to have this child against the whims of the man, you should pay for it.
02:02:49.000Okay, then that's the same reason why women get most custody and then get full alimony, isn't it?
02:07:40.000But in general, what we're saying is true.
02:07:42.000The court system does favor women over men.
02:07:45.000They win most of the custody battles, even though they might not necessarily be a better parent on paper.
02:07:49.000She literally just told y'all the woman is going to get custody most of the time because she spent more time with the child and the child rearing years, but that might not necessarily make her a better mother because the man was doing his job, which is protecting and providing, which is what y'all all want, by the way.
02:08:00.000So the court system is heavily in favor of women.
02:08:04.000And then men, 90% of alimony is paid for men to women.
02:08:06.000So it is absolutely true that everyone knows that the court systems in the West in general are fucked and geared towards females, which it is what it is.
02:08:41.000But most men, I would say, definitely want to see their kids just that they don't have the opportunity to.
02:08:45.000Because a lot of women use kids as a weapon and weaponize them against the man to get compliance or just hurt them because they're mad about some shit.
02:08:54.000So again, you guys got really emotional about this abuse thing, but everything we've said is fact.
02:08:58.000They have changed the definition of abuse for a while.
02:09:45.000Well, let me tell you, a lot of these studies that these people pick up on are simple sizes of a hundred, or a thousand, when there's billions of people in the world.
02:10:25.000If you go into prison and you look at the inmates, if you look at drug addicts, if you look at homeless people, if you look at degenerates in general, alcoholics, all the fucking vagrants of society, most of them come from single mother households where there wasn't a father there.
02:10:41.000In America, I generally believe that it might be, correct me if I'm wrong, but the majority of the population that's incarcerated is black men, isn't it?
02:10:49.000Well, what does that say about black men if that's a stat?
02:10:53.000They commit a majority of the violent crime.
02:10:56.000Because you guys are trying to say that women use the court system to, you know, manipulate men.
02:11:02.000And what you're trying to do is to create this whole idea that because women are the ones that have the children most of the time, most of the time, if the woman is getting divorced, then women must be just assholes the same way that black men must, the majority of black men in comparison to the West.
02:11:45.000Well, my argument precisely is simply to say, it doesn't matter what studies you're talking about because they don't actually reflect the real reality because studies and all these statistics are based on a limited pool on a normally limited demographic.
02:12:37.000With the plethora of studies, meta-analysis, which combine other studies that show that single mother households absolutely contribute to the degradation of society.
02:14:24.000With those 1,000 people, you will test a few things, and then you'll see 50% of these people said this, and 50% of these people said this.
02:14:32.000Based on this limited pool of information that we have got, of this limited pool of people, we can assume that 50% in general of people in general in the world do this.
02:14:42.000That's how people use stats, and that is not true.
02:14:44.000Because when you actually analyze real life and demographic of things, there's way too many variables that will completely destroy every statistic that you use, depending on the context that you put it in.
02:14:53.000That's why I don't need to listen to you tell me statistics and say nine out of 10 and this out of 10, because depending on the context, it does not make sense.
02:15:04.000Explain to me how most prisoners, most drug addicts, most losers in society, most degenerates come from single mother households when polled.
02:15:12.000Well, it depends on the pool that you use for, first of all, the prison.
02:15:17.000It depends also on the circumstances of the single motherhood.
02:15:38.000There are a lot of people that come from families where they have the father who is also a drug dealer or whatever and they also go into that road despite having two parents.
02:15:46.000So all I'm telling you is you need to actually analyze the pool of information that you're checking before you start saying all these big words like they're facts because they're not facts.
02:15:54.000They're facts depending on what you're looking at.
02:15:57.000But you're basically saying all studies are flawed.
02:16:00.000Not every single study has got a thousand participants.
02:16:06.000There's a plethora of studies that demonstrate this.
02:16:14.000We're not talking about one study with a thousand people.
02:16:16.000It's irrefutable that two-parent households, like the degradation of the nuclear family is what's led to the decline of civilization.
02:16:25.000Well, I don't know what to tell you, but the reality is when you look at every degenerate in society, from prison all the way to homeless people, drug addicts, everything, most of them come from single mother households.
02:16:36.000I think the degeneration of society comes really more to the weakening of men.
02:17:12.000It's done by scientists that are more educated than you, by the way.
02:17:14.000Listen, there's a lot of scientists that are more educated than me, that do a lot of rubbish, and because everybody is so educated than me, the world is so perfect.
02:17:22.000And they went out in the streets and they went ahead and polled these people.
02:17:25.000Scientists, the same people that made the vaccines for COVID. Scientists have been scaring people and using those sorts of techniques.
02:19:26.000But not necessarily, because the problem is we're talking about studies that we're not even looking at specific studies here, but if he's saying in general terms, if there's an absent father in the household, that leads to degeneracy, criminality, etc., etc., what is the common thread?
02:20:16.000I'm in general quite interested in the statistics.
02:20:20.000What's the percentage of men Who go to jail for violent crimes or crimes against children, pedophilia, all of that, in comparison to women.
02:20:29.000Okay, so I actually, I think that women are more violent than men.
02:21:40.000All I know, and I'll tell you what, I googled it because I was curious the other day, and it just said that police rarely ever find a male person that killed a baby within the first year.
02:21:51.000But I'm asking for the statistics, the numbers.
02:22:05.000I mean, to back up what you said about women being more violent, lesbian relationships have the highest rates of domestic violence by far, way, than everybody else.
02:22:14.000Okay, but that's the dynamic between two women.
02:22:17.000But that's what she's trying to explain, is that women actually are more prone to violence.
02:22:21.000It may be in a dynamic between two women, but...
02:22:24.000When men commit crimes, it's for a reason.
02:22:30.000I'm not saying it's a good reason, right?
02:22:32.000Like, for example, one reason that I've heard is respect.
02:22:35.000Like, you know, they'll fight each other for respect or whatever.
02:22:38.000But I think you can really see, you know, who's more violent?
02:26:15.000I think a lot of the time women do make the wrong choices in terms of Picking men, but we also have to account for the fact that by nature, women innately want to have families.
02:27:51.000I remember now, so sometimes people change in the span of a year.
02:27:56.000Someone can change drastically depending on financial circumstance, you know, mental health change, physical health change.
02:28:02.000We as women and as men, we can't predict, we can't preempt what someone's going to do to us in 10 years time based on the facts that we have now.
02:28:10.000The man may be the most responsible, loving person as he is right now, but I can't then Travel 10 years down the line into the future and decide, oh, you know, how's he going to treat me?
02:28:23.000If I know that he's going to divorce me, if I know that he's going to be a deadbeat dad, obviously I'm not going to jump into that relationship.
02:29:41.000How many times have you dated a guy and all your friends said there was a red flag your parents said it was a red flag they said no don't do it don't do it don't do it i've done that i've done that yeah correct correct yeah so he was the same but you tried to change it typically that's typically what happens and i'm not i'm not saying i'm any better than any woman i'm not saying i've never done that like okay okay but i'm just saying that's what we do men men they just want us to stay the same They just want us to not change.
02:30:31.000The rules are women just like to eat more.
02:30:37.000So I've noticed in your line of defense, you know, women don't want to go to the police because of, you know, they've known them for a while and their feelings or they're getting into relationships because they're hoping for better or they're hoping the man can change in the future.
02:30:52.000All of your rebuttals really take accountability away from women.
02:30:56.000At the end of the day, like, and this is why, you know, arranged marriages were a thing for so long.
02:31:18.000But what I'm trying to say is that women now, right, have basically...
02:31:25.000It's crazy to me because you guys are so selective now and you want the best guy and you're like, we don't need to tolerate XYZ blah blah blah and then you meet that guy because he's exceptional, he's attractive because you want the best and then you get mad when he fucks another bitch.
02:33:22.000It's either A, women are bumbling retards that don't deserve rights and shouldn't be able to pick their partners and men step in and do it like before and arrange marriages, or you guys can go ahead and continue to pick your partners and then stay single into your 30s like we have now.
02:33:34.000But I swear it's the man that picks who he marries.
02:34:14.000Because guys don't get a relationship.
02:34:17.000But the guy's not going to get into a relationship unless he's been sexually selected by women, and women are the ones who do sex.
02:34:22.000And this actually proves my point earlier, which she alluded to, because she was saying, like, just be honest and I'll give you sex if you say what it is.
02:34:28.000And then I asked, okay, when she gave an example, and I said, repeat that sentence, and then she said, oh, I've known this guy for a while.
02:34:34.000And women tend to always disqualify all the work men have to put in to attract them.
02:34:48.000No, but we didn't spend like a year like together or spending time like that, no.
02:34:54.000It's like we had spent time with each other briefly, and then life, we didn't see each other, and then before you know it, when we reconnected, it was like, okay, cool, but we just laid out on the table like, look, I ain't looking for anything because I just got out of this.
02:36:32.000You can step outside right now and go, and the dude starts with sex with you.
02:36:45.000You being able to get sex and a man being able to get sex don't even come close like It's not the same and and again, it's hard for men to get sex So it's like when girls say this like oh just be honest if I tell you I just want to fucking don't want to give your relationship 99% of the time I'm not gonna get it and then you even in your example Well,
02:37:01.000we kind of had an understanding and you know we just fucked but he had to know you for a year and be extremely Of course he was hot So he had to reach
02:40:18.000No, there's ugly men with money and they've got girls.
02:40:21.000When they did that college study, when they got interviews to go out, they got male interviews to go out on a college campus and say to a bunch of women,
02:41:26.000It's driven by Instagram, the global dating marketplace, etc.
02:41:29.000It's just like, and here's the thing, man.
02:41:32.000I don't expect them to understand, but girls are never going to get it that it's way harder for men to get attention, even attention from females.
02:42:03.000You don't know that they had to get the cheese imported from Italy.
02:42:07.000You don't know that they had to get the dough at a certain temperature to make it taste a certain way.
02:42:11.000You don't know that they imported the sauce from a certain place to have a distinct taste.
02:42:15.000You don't know that the oven that they got was thousands upon thousands of dollars to fry it, to cook it just right.
02:42:21.000You just enjoy the end product, but you don't know the process that it took to create that pizza.
02:42:26.000When you see an attractive man, when you see an attractive man, that man has spent a lot of the times, years if not decades, to create that package that you're currently enjoying.
02:42:34.000But you don't understand what goes into it because women don't have to build themselves up at all.
02:42:38.000You guys just exist, 18 years old, invited on a fucking yacht.
02:44:17.000I'll tell you why, because I'm a woman and I know the work it takes for a woman to get to a stage where she can even be attractive to a man.
02:44:23.000Don't think that women don't do anything, they don't just wake up and go by the bed, you know?
02:48:05.000And the bar for women, like he said, the reality is the bar for women to be considered attractive, not hot, not super beautiful, whatever, but attractive enough is significantly lower than it is for men, right?
02:48:16.000You know, a girl, as long as she's kind of slim, she's kind of pretty, she's in the room.
02:48:39.000And this is why I don't respect, like, when you guys sit here and say, oh, I want to do this or whatever, like, women don't have to earn their value.
02:48:45.000Like, if you meet a top-tier guy and he doesn't commit to you, you suck!
02:48:51.000Why can't we tell them you just suck, like you're not attractive?
02:48:53.000Because if you go on a date with a guy, right, and you have good girlfriend traits, you're not annoying, you're not a fucking bimbo, you're not stupid as fuck, you're not fat, you're not crass, you're not obnoxious, you're not...
02:49:04.000Like, a guy will probably wife you, bro.
02:49:07.000So my thing is, like, if you can't get wife, that's your fault as the woman.
02:49:10.000But at least you get the opportunity to meet the man.
02:50:12.000No, because that was something that I thought when I first came on the podcast was that, you know, not all women are like this.
02:50:19.000And I just kind of thought that Myron and Fresh were just interviewing Miami girls until I moved to London across the pond and I got the same responses from women from Africa, from Italy, from literally all over the world that they get in Miami.
02:51:11.000And I'm telling you for facts in modern day, the same way you guys can complain about women is the same way we complain about men.
02:51:19.000For me, I find it to be, I actually find it very difficult to even speak to men.
02:51:23.000Not just because of what I look like, it's also because of the fact that a lot of the time men will be thinking, okay, she thinks like, you know, she's comfortable, she's very much, you know, established in herself and they tend to challenge me for no reason.
02:51:37.000The same way you complain about women, I complain about men.
02:51:39.000Yeah, it will be easier for me if I want to have sex with a man, but it will be much harder for me to be able to respect a man to a point where I will say, yeah, I would marry you.
02:51:47.000Oh yeah, I would give the opportunity to even get close to me that way.
02:51:50.000Because a lot of men are letting themselves down And what it even means to be a basic man.
02:53:35.000But all I'm simply trying to say here is because you're saying, oh, well, I can complain about men too, blah, blah, blah, all this other stuff.
02:53:42.000You do understand that at 31 years old, being a fairly masculine woman and having a higher education, etc, actually hurts you when it comes to finding a man, right?
02:53:52.000What I'm doing right here is I'm talking to you, somebody that I don't necessarily agree with, but I don't surround myself with people like you.
02:53:58.000So the people that I am around, that are more like the people that are my type, we don't need to disagree.
02:54:04.000In fact, I don't have this experience with other men, I only have it with men that come on this podcast.
02:54:09.000So really, I'm not going to sit here and act like I'm the problem.
02:54:11.000Maybe I'm looking at you guys and think that you probably just don't understand.
02:54:22.000If you're in your 30s and you haven't found a man that you love, admire, and respect and that's going to take you serious and reciprocate, you failed as a female with the plethora of options that women have nowadays.
02:54:32.000Well, to be honest, I'm not going to lie.
02:54:36.000Jordan B. Peterson said that the higher intellect or the higher IQ a woman has, the more likely it is for her to find it more difficult to find a partner because of hypergamy.
02:54:45.000So, listen, I'm not going to lie to you.
02:55:10.000Anytime, and I found this very interesting, anytime a woman prefaces a statement with a real man, it's always followed with him lowering his standards or dealing with some fuckery.
02:55:20.000For example, you're saying a real man would be able to tolerate me, etc.
02:58:22.000The reason why I said if a woman's 30 plus and doesn't have a man and she's an objective, the reason why I say this is because we know that women derive pleasure, right, from family and children.
02:58:32.000And you kind of gave yourself away a second ago.
02:58:34.000You didn't say, I'm not chasing a career, I'm just chasing happiness, right?
02:59:50.000I'm not talking about me, myself, as Mario Gates.
02:59:51.000I'm saying, why would a man that's attractive, that's at the top of his game, get with a 31-year-old woman who's lost her value, no offense, because we value age and youth and beauty.
03:00:20.000So the question stands, would that guy that you described want to get...
03:00:26.000One of the things I said first was, I don't give a damn if the guy's got money or not, as long as he's not an absolute idiot and he's able to want to build himself to a point where he can help me as the partner that he's meant to be when, for example, we have children, when things happen, when life happens.
03:04:00.000Listen, as much as you're talking and saying all of this, you're the person that says the reason why you come here is because you don't complain.
03:05:15.000I'm very picky and I know what I want.
03:05:17.000And it's like, although someone's maybe perfect for me on paper and, yeah, he treats me like a princess and things like that, there's things that I need.
03:10:48.000In the start, tell me I'm not okay with you going to these places.
03:10:52.000Don't come to me two weeks later and then suddenly try and, you know, This is actually a really good learning moment for the audience out there.
03:11:10.000This is an example of having money but still being a bitch and you lose your girl.
03:11:14.000She only tolerated him because he had money.
03:11:15.000That's the only reason she tolerated him.
03:12:13.000So ultimately, it was your path, not his path.
03:12:15.000I don't want to be an asshole, but I said this in my book.
03:12:16.000Most women want to get married, but they don't want to be wives.
03:12:19.000No, how about you say that that's showing me that he's perhaps not making mature decisions and being quite reckless and maybe putting my life at risk.
03:12:50.000Dudes that got money, a lot of the times, like, even the biggest simps will have some money somewhere else that you don't fucking know about.
03:12:56.000He might have had some money somewhere else.
03:13:01.000If he made an investment like that and he made the money in the first place, trust me, he probably knew what he was doing.
03:13:06.000And I find it amazing how he has more money than you, more competent than you, more successful than you, but you're trying to dictate how we invest the money that he worked for and say, that was the good decision.
03:13:16.000When the reality is women are 80% of the consumer base and you guys control three quarters of debt.
03:13:20.000Y'all don't know how to spend no fucking money.
03:15:09.000And I chose him because he was loyal, he was honest, he had all these amazing qualities.
03:15:14.000But it was when he started behaving like this and switching up and doing things like this, I was like, I can't marry this guy, this is scary.
03:15:21.000I want to tell you something I noticed.
03:15:23.000Whenever women use the traits that you just said, like loyal, like the stuff that you just said, they always dump them.
03:15:30.000Like I've just noticed that the past couple of years.
03:15:32.000But the intention was not to dump him.
03:15:44.000And so if you're listing, like, he's loyal, he's honest, he's this, men are going to hear that and say, oh, well, if I'm loyal and honest and this to her, then she's going to dump me too.
03:15:53.000I mean, they're kind of not, with all due respect, they're kind of anti-seductive qualities in a sense.
03:15:58.000Because if you think about the archetypal bad boy that women supposedly want, right, the James Bond, you know, the Daniel Craig, you know, is he loyal?
03:17:08.000Because when I'm loyal to you, especially sexually, what that basically says is I can only get sex from you and therefore I am victim to whatever you want.
03:18:38.000What's that got to do with the situation?
03:18:42.000If I tell you that all men are going to cheat in general, most men are going to cheat in general, your culture actually braced you for this.
03:20:53.000Even the guys that'll get on these podcasts and argue so vehemently that it is wrong, they always have something.
03:21:05.000If there's one thing you ladies are going to take from this podcast for me, because I probably triggered you and you don't like it, that's fine.
03:21:11.000If you're with a guy that you like and mind and respect, and he does everything else right, and he fucks a bitch every now and then, and you leave him, you're a fucking dumbass.
03:22:51.000Want to have multiple women, it's just that they don't have the sexual market value to do it, and sexual market value encompasses many things.
03:22:56.000There's rich guys that can barely pull it off.
03:22:59.000Or they gotta pay escorts or they gotta sneak around.
03:23:01.000I'm not sneaking around in my own fucking house.
03:23:50.000You want to be with a brokie that might cheat on you anyway, or a guy that has money but is a simp and can't enforce boundaries so you're not sexually aroused by him.
03:23:57.000Yeah, but then between brokie and rich, there's so much in between.
03:24:00.000So I wouldn't want to be with a man like you, for example.
03:27:14.000Like I mean in the grand scheme of men or like we we know a good amount but obviously our own personal uh anecdotal experience is like limited right in the grand thing.
03:27:24.000I'm just curious like what what can we as women do to be more attractive to high value men?
03:27:43.000Quiet, not argumentative, not a pain in the ass, et cetera.
03:27:48.000Men make money and have to fight the world, especially super successful guys, so the last thing they want to do is come home and fight with their girl.
03:27:57.000Troy, we all think the same about this shit.
03:28:00.000It's just that what it really comes down to is your status and your money It determines how hard you can put your foot down on your standards.
03:28:28.000I think that both men and women and all the other genders etc should just like be more understanding towards each other so you're not so there's a truth in everything everyone said you know so women should be more understanding of some of some masking qualities and men should be understanding of our qualities and yeah I sound a hippie but you know yeah but the difference is here's the difference men have to understand women to attract them women don't have to understand us to attract us There's
03:28:59.000basically a lot of unhealed, manipulative, narcissistic women, and they probably traumatize some men, etc.
03:31:39.000That's where you have to have the critical thinking skills and be able to come in and be like, what I call like an indispensable component to his life.
03:32:08.000And I use the video example not to like flex.
03:32:10.000I use it to show how it's a ridiculous, kind of like on paper, like what the fuck, you want your girl to play video games to play with you?
03:32:16.000That doesn't make, but we're like streaming, so we need another person.
03:32:19.000But I said that to show every guy is different and they're gonna need different things from you and you need to be able to rise up to the task.
03:32:25.000So she's been like playing five hours every day.
03:32:27.000I told her, yeah, I need you to play four to five hours.
03:32:29.000Get good because you're trash and women suck at video games, right?
03:34:05.000So he was like, I've got girls flying in from Paris, New York, Miami, just to sit with me for 40 minutes and you don't even want to drop your schedule.
03:37:21.000If we were sitting here in four years' time and you still haven't found a guy, would you be thinking, oh fuck, maybe I should have actually given that dude a chance?
03:37:32.000But how many of these dudes are going to come, not to you personally, but just to women in general, how many of these dudes are going to come along?
03:38:08.000And you have access to these higher status guys, right?
03:38:11.000And they're hitting you up, which was my point earlier, by the way, which I fantastically made.
03:38:15.000And you think, right, that your value is on par, if not actually higher than the men's, which is why you're rejecting them and saying, I'm busy.
03:38:23.000When in reality, they have way more...
03:38:32.000The fact that you've been getting hit on by all these guys, thanks to the internet or whatever it may be, I've always said a woman's behavior with men is directly tied to her mindset about men or abundance with men.
03:38:43.000If a woman has a lot of options, she doesn't respect the men as much.
03:38:47.000She doesn't respect the options as much.
03:38:49.000The crazy thing is I would have respected him if he had just been like, okay, you let me know when you're free.
03:38:54.000You said you had flaked on him a million times.
03:38:56.000No, no, you said literally earlier you had flaked on him a bunch of times, then he got frustrated and responded with that.
03:39:33.000And I can tell from the way you speak, your tonality, etc., which is fine.
03:39:37.000But understand that if you're going to behave that way and you want a certain caliber of guy, That's gonna come with certain things, and you need to humble yourself and understand that you're not as special as you think you are.
03:39:48.000But, you know, you think that, oh, I have a bunch of rich guys hitting me up, so I'm gonna behave however I want, blah, blah, blah.
03:39:54.000You know what ends up happening when you do that?
03:39:55.000They just fuck you and never take you seriously.
03:39:57.000Myron, can I tell you something that I've kind of observed about men quite a lot?
03:40:12.000Well, number one, those are men you don't respect.
03:40:14.000And then when they do pursue you like that and you treat them like shit, you know what they do a lot of the times?
03:40:18.000They sell you a dream, have sex with you and leave you.
03:40:20.000Oh, good thing I don't entertain it, but I'm just saying, treat them in, keep them keen.
03:40:25.000And I want to know why, because obviously you say all of these things, but my reality as a woman is so different because you guys are talking from, you're not just being men and amongst your bros, As a woman, what you experience from a man is very different.
03:40:39.000We see a totally different side to you guys that you're not even honest with each other about.
03:41:32.000If I whacked off to Pornhub every day and busted a nut watching porn every day and I came in here and said, yo, I got a bunch of options, would you look at me like I'm crazy?
03:41:49.000Well, I would ask you, what do you mean by options?
03:41:52.000I got a bunch of options with girls on there that I could whack off to, man.
03:44:06.000It just continues to make you look crazy.
03:44:10.000Men, respect me outside of this space because I'm dealing with you and obviously, like I said, you're a different type of rich asshole that I've not met before, but They wanna fuck you.
03:44:35.000Listen, it's up to you what you want to say, bro.
03:44:51.000It also comes to say, my substance as a woman to be respected and to be spoken to how men speak to me that I don't see them speaking to other women is because I work for myself to be who I am.
03:45:00.000And it takes a lot of effort because I'm not the same person as a Becky that goes to the club and gets moved to and a guy has the balls to go up to her and say, I want to fuck you.
03:45:08.000God forbid a man would ever say that to me in real life.
03:45:10.000Do you remember the original argument that we started this off on?
03:45:37.000I'm simply telling you that there's too many different things and too many different variables for me as a woman, an individual that will actually impact how people go towards me.
03:46:02.000If you walk into a nightclub, men are going to approach you simply off of you being there.
03:50:06.000I remember Pearl's piece and don't believe she's genuine RP. However, I respect the fact that she invested money in defending you at your lowest.
03:51:57.000It's four in the morning, so we'll give it to you.
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03:54:48.000And the whole thing about the whole contraceptive stuff, I think it's more like when it comes to the contraception, I don't think it's equally the man's.
03:54:58.000Because at the end of the day, the woman is with child, is with child for, you know, 18 years or whatever till the child grows and the man will just go, you know, the man doesn't have to be a part.
03:58:57.000I think that there's a lot of men that have almost like an innate kind of urge to protect a woman because that's meant to be a natural role as a man anyway.
03:59:05.000Masculine men don't need to protect only the woman they sleep with.
03:59:08.000They protect the villages of women sometimes.
03:59:32.000You're entitled to say that it's stupid, but I'm just saying there's a lot of people, there's men that are generous with that kind of attitude.
03:59:37.000In fact, there's men that even go into pimping because they were trying to protect the woman to begin with.
03:59:42.000I know quite a few of those, you know?
04:01:43.000See, like I can't, you know, because all you want to do is just intimidate everyone.
04:01:48.000That's how I think or feel or whichever way it is, because anything like I or someone else says, like just twist everything around and, you know.
04:04:50.000You're basically mocking her for the fact that she first said, you said that she said, I think, and then you even went on to then talk about her accent.
04:04:57.000And in fact, the three of you have been talking about her accent or picking on her along the show.
04:05:17.000You're being unwelcoming on your show when somebody came to even give you views because you're shouting ahead saying all the things that she's still there.
04:10:30.000But the problem is, you've got to live in reality, haven't you?
04:10:34.000Because it's like, I could say, well, women should understand me as a guy, they should understand my needs, I should understand women better, and so on and so forth.
04:10:40.000And yeah, absolutely, in a utopian world, for sure.
04:10:43.000But unfortunately, we don't live in that world, you know, so we have to sort of look at the reality as it is.
04:10:48.000Yeah, no, I appreciate the guys for telling us the truth.
04:10:51.000Sometimes, I do believe that women can be emotional creatures.
04:11:09.000Then this girl goes ahead and doesn't know the definition, and then she goes ahead and defends a point that she literally disagreed with earlier.
04:11:16.000I think she didn't quite understand that you were trying to compliment her, and then it just...
04:11:19.000No, no, but it got even funnier, because he called her out like, yo, did you say words matter earlier?
04:11:25.000And then she goes, and you stand on that, and she's like, yeah, I did, but I didn't like the X, Y, Z. So you're sitting here arguing a point that you don't even agree with.
04:11:32.000The girl don't even know what emotional intelligence is.
04:12:44.000She's talking about the billionaire dude or the guy with the private jets, and then she's, you know, swerving him because he's asking her to give up the time and stuff like that.
04:13:13.000Oh, I'm gonna cover them because I want to.
04:13:15.000Like, bro, I'm telling you guys, average women have options like that.
04:13:18.000That's why they don't respect most men.
04:13:20.000That's why they behave the way they do.
04:13:21.000That's why they're entitled to like, oh, I got options.
04:13:23.000It's like, I mean, it's not viable options, but That's what, like, for the guys, like, yo, this is a world, we're in fucking London, we're across the country, across the pond, and it's the same prevailing issues that I've talked about forever.
04:13:37.000I would have dropped everything if Future invited me out.
04:13:41.000Yeah, but what I'm trying to say is that, like, because I tell guys all the time, you've got to get your money on your point, become the best version of yourself, because Average chicks have access to exceptional men.
04:13:52.000And the thing is, is that they think that they're better than you now.
04:13:54.000This chick thought she was better than a multi-millionaire and she put her time above his.
04:13:58.000This bitch had the audacity to say, well, my time is valuable.
04:14:01.000Bitch, you're on a podcast with million plus subscribers.
04:14:55.000I think it's needed more, and I think, not to be an asshole, I think we need to be more honest with women, and women need to be bullied even more.
04:15:03.000Your brother bullies you, but from a point of love, and he tells you he was never going to get with you, you're fucking delusional, you're stupid, that was dumb, and girls need that shit.
04:16:27.000Yeah, you saw it coming from a while ago?
04:16:29.000Oh, yeah, yeah, because I could just...
04:16:33.000i don't know like what i notice when girls describe the guy they're with if they start with like what he does and like his resources i've noticed that's like why they're with him but if they start with something else it tends to be or like if it's like a sigh like oh yeah it's like she if she's not beaming when asked about you Yeah,
04:17:24.000If a chick is super successful and graduated from Harvard and shit, she has a good paying job, but another chick is married to a dude that did all that, the girl that's married to that dude, she might have zero accomplishments, but she's going to be more respected Like, by other women for having that guy as her husband versus the girl that got her on her own,
04:19:42.000I have a YouTube channel called Just Pearly Things, and I'm on Instagram, Just Pearly Things 1, and on Twitter, Pearly Things with a Z. I was on TikTok, but I was banned like seven times, so now I'm not on TikTok.
04:21:18.000What do you think, Myron, just on that point before I was saying about the transactional nature of dating, do you guys think it's getting, from Miami, do you think it's getting more transactional?
04:21:26.000Do you think it's increasing year on year?
04:22:32.000Whether she's a bottle girl or a stripper or on OnlyFans or puts her fucking cash app on her fucking Instagram profile, like, very rarely do you not see a girl that doesn't monetize her beauty.
04:22:43.000very rarely is what i've noticed especially and then you compound that with like being in an expensive city like a miami in la a london a dubai etc anytime you have hot girls in a major expensive city they're always not always but 90 percent of the time they're monetizing their beauty yeah well it's i've been blown away by how many girls i've met the last I feel like I was so sheltered before I did this show.
04:23:06.000And how many girls I've met that are low-key on OnlyFans, doing cam work, sugar.
04:24:04.000I think 100%, Troy, where we're headed, my future, and I will close this thing out, my prediction is I think it is going to become more transactional.
04:24:13.000The guys that aren't going to have a transaction are the top-tier guys that are not only physically attractive, but they have their money on point, and they have framed.
04:24:19.000They could put these women in their place, and they have what I call...
04:24:25.000I want to give him credit, but he calls it being a dark gentleman, which is you have the provider traits, the chivalry traits that women like and are attracted to, but you also have the domineering, Machiavellian, asshole traits that women are aroused by.
04:24:40.000So you're able to kind of burn the candle from both ends and keep her Yeah, and that's probably what that guy did.
04:25:35.000We're going to get to a point, I think within the next 50 years, probably sooner, but where it's going to be common for a guy to say, Oh yeah, I have an OnlyFans account on the side or I do some type of XYZ professional on the side selling my sexuality and it's going to be totally socially acceptable.
04:25:50.000Tusk was telling me something about girls billing guys for their time.
04:25:53.000You know, they turn up on the day and if she doesn't like him then she's like sending him a bill and some of these guys are actually paying the fucking bill.