In this episode, we have our first guest on the show, Dani Banks. Dani is a social media influencer and Only Fans creator. She is a dancer at Sapphire and has a Bachelor degree in Merchandising at the Art Institute of Miami. We talk about what it's like to be in a polyamorous relationship and what it was like growing up in a polygamous household. We also talk about her experience with birth control and how she dealt with it growing up. We also get to hear from her boyfriend, Andrew Wilson, about his experience in a Polyamorous Relationship and how he dealt with the pressure of being in a monogamous relationship with his ex-wife. We get to know Dani a little bit and get to learn more about her and her boyfriend's relationship status and what he does for a living. Tickets are on sale now for our live show on April 26th in Miami, Miami Beach! Tickets are selling out fast! Can't wait to see y'all in Miami? Click here to buy tickets now! If you want to attend the live show, click here to get tickets and meet us live in Miami on the 26th of April in Miami Beach, Miami, Florida, you can do so here! Thank you so much for listening and supporting us! We appreciate you! Love ya, bye! XOXO, Kristy, Dani, Natalie, Dania, Natalia, and Andrew Wilson and the boys and gals! xoxo, Krista, Natalie and Andrew, . xo XO, Natalie & Andrew, Daegan & Michael Sartain , ( ) & Michael, , Dania Love you all so much love, . . . ( ) & the rest of the team! , Thank you for listening to this episode we appreciate all the love and support you guys so much! & all the support you all of the love you're being here! Thank you, bye, bye. , Krista & Andrew :) - Thank you SO MUCH LOVE, MYSELF! - JUICY, JUICE, KAREN, MALAYA, RYANNA, JAMIE, JACOB, JEANICA, JAYE, JORDY, EJOSSA & DANIA
00:09:26.000I moved to California from Pennsylvania and I worked at a winery in Temecula and he worked there and we dated and then I left, I came here, got wild and then came back and then we got back together.
00:10:12.000I've been perfecting my game since 2016 and I predominantly want to teach girls how to like if they're gonna do it because girls are gonna do it I want them to do it in a safe way I want them to avoid being manipulated and I want them to get the most bang for their buck no pun intended Isn't it the other way around,
00:11:49.000So, one, it's partially art of seduction, but two, I've also noticed that men, when you tell them your age, they come in with preconceived notions.
00:12:52.000So, they're going to go ahead and investigate, because I know there's going to be like 10, 20,000 people watching right now at this moment.
00:12:57.000If they come back with a different age, I'm going to kick you off the show.
00:14:01.000Like, imagine dealing with someone who knows everything.
00:14:04.000Not only that, it's disrespectful to the other girls on the panel that do give their age, and you're trying to show and infer, oh, I'm better than y'all.
00:18:40.000At what point does one become a porn star as opposed to just a porn actress?
00:18:48.000What makes you able to call yourself a star in that industry?
00:18:52.000When you shot for major productions and you have an agency.
00:18:57.000I'm not saying you, but one has shot for major productions and they have an agency.
00:19:01.000I mean, they're signed from an agency.
00:19:03.000For example, I might sell boy-girl videos or just porn, nude things on my OnlyFans, but I've never shot for major companies and I don't have an agency, so I'm not a porn star.
00:28:14.000And I have this super, super fucking offensive podcast called the Michael Sartain Podcast, where we go over evolutionary psychology, but we use science, so it makes you even more angry.
00:29:58.000Ladies, raise your hand if you would give up all of your social media, including OnlyFans, in exchange for a man that you're going to marry.
00:30:54.000Well, before, because I know you guys are talking about this, but I have a question here.
00:30:57.000It might take you a second to think about it, but what I want you to do is I want you to tell me, or think about, right, how has your career affected your ability to meet a man and be courted?
00:31:07.000I want the good, the bad, and the ugly.
00:31:47.000How your career choices has affected your ability to meet and be courted by men.
00:31:51.000Honestly, I don't think there's no bad or ugly in my situation because I feel like ever since I started dancing and doing OnlyFans, my life's been very positive.
00:32:03.000Have you met any man who has judged you at all for dancing that you've been attracted to?
00:32:09.000Yes, I was actually talking to this other guy.
00:33:04.000But, yeah, so like we were all on the same page, but like I was willing, but like, yeah, he like broke up with me a week ago, but he was the only one who judged me with everything I did, and he was like, oh, y'all support your OnlyFans or whatever, but I don't think he liked it because like he just broke up with me like a week ago.
00:34:30.000I don't like to tell people that right away because I do feel like they have a preconceived notion since we are getting to the point of people judging and such.
00:35:22.000So I would say the good being in being ambitious and going for different things in my life, I would say intimidate certain types of men, and that's totally okay.
00:35:31.000The good parts, I would say it's empowered me to be very independent and learn what fulfills me, what I'm into, and then I would guess the ugly would be Kind of going back to that insecurity or intimidating, you know, trying to be two alphas in the household or two bosses in the household doesn't always work necessarily.
00:35:51.000So I have to find someone that can kind of put me in my place since I'm used to always being like, you know, in charge.
00:35:59.000I feel like it takes finding like a real man, like a man's man that is completely comfortable in his own skin and has no qualms about bullshit and today's society there's the men I feel like are just caught up and in the women too I'm not I'm not putting one or the other I'm just saying I feel like the priorities of the male have gone where I just it's not it's tough So the good is you're ambitious and independent.
00:36:24.000The negative is men are intimidated by that.
00:40:47.000And that's what girls need to identify when there's this aggressiveness and they're always attracted to the same alpha men, but then they go with them for a minute and they're too aggressive and the guy's just like, bye.
00:40:54.000You could be a badass, confident woman, but you don't have to be aggressive.
00:41:32.000So she's actually sitting next to a boss, but she's not a boss.
00:41:36.000And I think that's why she got so uncomfortable when she said, how can I get out of here so that I don't have to deal with this level of conversation?
00:42:05.000I don't necessarily agree with everything you have to say, but I can respect you enough to hear your point of view and hope that you vice versa.
00:42:19.000Now we know she was lying and frauding because how is it that she's more mad than you are and I was talking to you?
00:42:26.000Well she's obviously triggered by her own issues and I felt for her because I understand what she's trying to say and I can agree to her points.
00:42:35.000I think like me I had to learn how to articulate my points of view in a way that truly made a difference versus making a scene or making Emotional.
00:42:45.000You know what I think the difference is between you and her is that you have some level of competence and personality to where you can actually do something other than sex work.
00:42:54.000Then you have others who can only do sex work.
00:42:58.000And as far as personality, they actually have some sort of disorder.
00:43:01.000But as a female, you never realize because people are busy staring at your breasts and your butt cheeks.
00:43:06.000And so you think you're getting on in the world just fine when really most people don't like you.
00:43:12.00099% of men won't be honest like you're being right now, too.
00:43:15.000They'll just simp to these girls and kiss their ass.
00:43:16.000As he was saying, you disagree with his points?
00:45:01.000I think a lot of women still allow themselves to be triggered because I think they haven't fully come to terms with what they're doing versus I love what the fuck I do.
00:45:11.000Like, there's no any negativity about that.
00:45:15.000I think it's amazing and it's empowering and brave and freaking badass.
00:45:18.000Like, Fifty years ago, a young lady like that, she would have went through high school, probably struggled through, and then once she got her high school diploma, she would have looked at her prospects and she would have done what most women were doing, which is get a man who can provide, be a housewife,
00:45:37.000Now in this modern world, not having access to that and that not being a typical model, then she goes out into the marketplace and says, how can I make money, A, and then B, how can I make money at a level that my lifestyle is Instagrammable?
00:46:11.000So for you, I know you're married, but I guess prior to you meeting your guy, or maybe you can even say within the confinements of a relationship, how has your career field impacted your situations, the good, the bad, the ugly?
00:46:24.000Yeah, I would say that while I was single, because I was single for a while while doing it, I was trying to find my passions, my solace, what I wanted to be empowered, well, try and do.
00:46:56.000It made me very happy, and it fulfilled what I needed at the time.
00:47:00.000Obviously, I would say that the good was that I met him, because if I wasn't myself, I don't think that it would have ever happened like that.
00:47:58.000The good, the bad, the ugly when it comes to meeting men and being courted?
00:48:03.000I want to put an emphasis on being courted.
00:48:05.000The good is, you know, I found confidence in myself and I was able to see past fuckboys and all that and I have been able to meet very Intelligent men have helped me with my business.
00:48:20.000The bad is fuckboys, men who are infatuated with you and not really with you for the right reasons.
00:51:28.000You know what's a funny thing, though?
00:51:30.000It's ironic that you say guys meet you and they have trust issues, and our number one issue with you in the podcast is you telling the truth.
00:51:41.000Do you think that perhaps they look at you and they rightly assess that you're not a straightforward person?
00:51:46.000I am straightforward, though, because I tell them I don't.
00:51:50.000So you're real estate agent Ariel, huh?
00:53:36.000I thought you said this is not a date.
00:53:37.000What's happening right now is that we are on a live podcast where a lot of people are watching and if I'm going on dates with men and I'm telling them that I don't disclose my age and you guys are like, what's your age?
00:53:48.000And I'm telling them they're going to know.
00:53:51.000Sure, but you were asking why it was important to them.
00:54:19.000We ask girls this, we keep data, and we do it for a reason because there's a body of data that we keep to help guys as far as understanding how women move in the West.
00:58:04.000So I feel like when you're dating someone, like, progressively, it's okay for me to tell you the age, but when you first start off, it's like you're trying to figure out my age so you can, like, perceive what I'm feeling.
00:58:21.000Have you been on a date where you would not tell the guy your age, but later on you dated him some more and then you did tell him your age?
00:58:28.000Yes, often when we travel and they book flights, I have to give them my information.
00:59:32.000So you do understand that biology is somewhat misogynistic, and women past the age of 40, they have a less than 5% chance of carrying a child to term.
00:59:41.000If a man wanted to know how much longer, I hate to be so clinical here, but if a man wanted to know how much longer your reproductive career was, realistically, wouldn't that be a reason, if he deliberately wanted to start a family, for him to know how old you are?
01:01:33.000But in the United States of America, Mississippi and Louisiana are about as important as North and South Dakota, and they're not what defines American culture, Western culture.
01:01:43.000They've never been at the helm of anything that we viewed as good.
01:01:47.000So what I'm saying is, yes, that's your culture, but that doesn't mean that it's a good thing or it's something that should be kept alive.
01:03:55.000You don't ask a woman's age or her weight, but you also don't ask a man how much he makes.
01:04:01.000There's some questions that women are not supposed to ask.
01:04:04.000And there's a reason for that is because women need to have some sort of mystery, some sort of obscurity as to whether or not they're somebody that's worth sticking around for and reproducing with, right?
01:04:14.000Because if she is older, anything that makes her older makes her less fertile, right?
01:04:22.000Men tend to select for fertility and youth and beauty.
01:04:26.000We talk about this all the time on here, right?
01:04:28.000So why wouldn't it be poor form to ask a woman who is, say, 36 years old and say, how old are you?
01:04:35.000Well, the thing is, most men don't need to ask that.
01:05:18.000And those are the things that, as I said, we need to be a conscious designer of culture moving forward because people talk about matriarchy, not realizing that we've already been under the matriarchy.
01:05:28.000And I also want to promote beating up simps.
01:05:34.000I feel like you kick your husband's ass all the time.
01:06:19.000Because they're so emotional, when you don't give them what they want or when they don't feel secure or when you don't make them feel like a man...
01:07:48.000In your case, How has your career choices affected your ability to meet men?
01:07:54.000I guess we could say prior to meeting your guy, maybe, I don't know, the good, the bad, and the ugly.
01:07:58.000Yeah, so I also used to work poker games in LA, and I think being in a room with a bunch of celebrities that are playing poker, you get their network first off, and that is just knowledge that you can't replace.
01:08:17.000A lot of people don't get to be in those rooms.
01:08:19.000And they're talking about everything that they're doing, so you just listen.
01:08:23.000A lot of girls want to drink and do whatever, but I always just listened.
01:08:27.000I think the bad is that for myself personally, because I'm around people who have so much money sitting on the table, sometimes I feel like when someone gives me something, it's never enough.
01:08:41.000It's not about anything else but myself.
01:10:03.000I would say the good is I've recently, in the last few months, chosen not to date while I'm scaling my company, but prior to that, the good would be I have I've been able to meet a lot of men that are also successful when I do my sales pitches to get contracts with other companies.
01:10:27.000So I'm coming and I want to talk to the big dog.
01:10:31.000Let me talk to whoever that is, he, she, whatever.
01:11:36.000The traditional man that I'm looking for would be, you know, just because I am successful as well doesn't mean that I don't have expectations, the classic expectations of a man, and I am willing to, you know, fulfill my side of things.
01:11:51.000So the bad is it's hard to find a traditional man that's a provider for you in 2024.
01:14:03.000I'm talking about I have nothing but you.
01:14:04.000Yeah, my daughter and I have nothing but you.
01:14:06.000That's not going to happen because I feel like you're trying to lock me in in a way, whereas your actions as a man should lock me in with you.
01:14:14.000I don't give a fuck if you're a billionaire.
01:14:15.000My dad set the standard high long ago.
01:14:59.000I know your answer, but I'm more so asking for the live audience.
01:15:04.000I'm going to say something weird real quick, but if I was a single mother, never thought I'd say that.
01:15:12.000But if I was a single mother and I meet a gentleman, you know, presuming he's a good guy, and he says, hey, and I don't care if he's a billionaire, he could just be a hundred thousandaire.
01:16:05.000So why not dive into that and say, hey, I'm going to live a soft life and focus on my child and give them the best life because once I have a child, it's not about me.
01:16:14.000You know, that is something very valid.
01:17:35.000The pool thickens because they have access to all the women.
01:17:39.000Not only are they as hot and hotter, and I'm not saying you're not attractive, but as hot as you and hotter, they're also younger and have no kids.
01:17:48.000And you can go to whatever country you like and find them as submissive as you'd ever want them.
01:17:52.000Yeah, I think the difference was it was very, it actually was a difficult thing for him because he wasn't, his goals were, like, he's, okay, I'll just tell you, he was obsessed with rocks.
01:19:10.000Now, he may have loved rocks and had corks and maybe he shows up on Valentine's Day and he got you a rock that was worth like $3 million and you didn't even know it.
01:20:29.000When he signed with, he went independent for a while.
01:20:33.000And then whenever we decided not to get married, he was like, well, I would rather have less free time since I was only keeping my company that way, like private, I mean, in its own sector for, you know, whatever.
01:20:55.000He signed contracts with banks when they wanted to work with him, and those were very, very big.
01:21:01.000And so he's getting a plethora of that, then he'd go invest it, and then he was great with numbers.
01:21:06.000So as Myron said, you basically just didn't like him that much.
01:21:09.000I didn't like the way he wanted me to be because if he would have said, hey, I want you to have more time with your daughter and be able to be softer.
01:21:15.000No, it was, nope, you don't need to have this.
01:21:18.000When you do this, we're going to do this with the money and it's not going to be in your name.
01:21:51.000They want a guy that can lead, but look at most of these guys.
01:21:54.000What he says before, like when women say, I want a guy to buy me flowers, she wants someone she's attracted to to buy her flowers.
01:21:59.000When she says, I want someone to be expressive to me.
01:22:02.000No, you want someone who's attractive to you to be expressive to me.
01:22:04.000And when women say, I want a man to lead or I'm a boss bitch, what she's saying is, she's looking at 85% of the men she encounters and she's like, I am not going to follow this weirdo here.
01:22:13.000And then if the right man comes, then his masculinity allows her to be feminine.
01:22:19.000And that's probably what she's looking at.
01:22:20.000I think they think that, but one thing I know for sure as a business owner is when someone comes onto a job, the first thing you have to do is train them.
01:22:29.000The person that's easiest to train is the one who has prior experience.
01:22:33.000So if you've lived 30 odd years and you have not been submissive and you've not been following a man's lead, Then you're going to come into that relationship with a lot of baggage.
01:22:43.000A lot of training is going to be required.
01:23:04.000I think we sometimes forget because we're around higher level dudes that we aren't around these guys, but you see a lot of these guys are just not capable of leading.
01:26:26.000My explanation is that he wanted to put me in a box that only he could control.
01:26:29.000It wasn't about the benefit of myself and my daughter.
01:26:32.000It was this is what I want you to do because I don't want you to be able to leave if I fuck up and everyone's human and everyone makes mistakes.
01:27:43.000The thing is that you might get two or three good guys that come through in a lifetime for you, and the more things you have that are against you, I call them handicaps.
01:27:52.000You're older, you have kids, you have a questionable past, you're involved in some type of profession that might fuck you up.
01:28:48.000If a man really loves you, truly, truly, truly, if a man really loves you, really wants to be with you, really admires everything that you are in totality, not just who you are, everything that you do, everything you aspire to have,
01:29:04.000everything you aspire to gain from your profession, your livelihood, everything else, he would never Tell you what to do with your money.
01:29:13.000Tell you how the money situation is going to happen.
01:29:24.000But when it's selfishly fueled and you're telling me something that you wouldn't tell one of your client's granddaughters to do with a man, now I see manipulation.
01:29:33.000He's dating you, not his granddaughter's clients.
01:29:38.000If you're giving me advice with you, you're telling me I should make you my end-all be-all no matter what, and if you fuck up, I can't go anywhere.
01:32:47.000It's funny because we talked about this last week.
01:32:49.000Anytime you guys are paying a woman for her affection, I have a ton of friends and the female friends will tell me, this guy is paying me for my affection and they're always laughing at him.
01:33:00.000There's always something funny that he did.
01:33:02.000They're calling him autistic, calling names behind their back.
01:33:04.000And there's always another guy she's having sex with who isn't paying her.
01:33:08.000And there's always that situation that's happening.
01:33:15.000Yeah, but my point is, I knew when you said, oh, some guys pay you, that there's also going to be other guys that are like, they would never pay.
01:33:22.000And you would never consider asking them to pay you.
01:41:54.000When I was going through this and I was looking at all the good for all the girls, Every single one of them alluded to being able to meet men of a higher status and being in rooms with people, etc.
01:42:03.000And I was like, oh wow, you're able to meet all these guys.
01:42:32.000So, me being able to get in a room with successful men means I need to be able to provide some kind of value to be allowed to be in that room.
01:42:38.000You have to be one of the successful men.
01:42:44.000You just tried to make an argument and conflate that a man being in a room with a bunch of millionaires is the same as a woman being in a room with a bunch of millionaires.
01:42:52.000You try to conflate the two and I'm telling you, one has to be skilled and the other one doesn't.
01:43:20.000Let's say I took your skill set, took your brain and put it in a man's fucking body.
01:43:24.000Do you think you'd still be able to get into those rooms with those successful millionaires that you've met with and traveled and done all this?
01:44:34.000And that's why I said we need to start beating up sex.
01:44:36.000So we're fighting against human nature.
01:44:37.000All I'm saying is that when all you gave the good, Pretty much all of you alluded in some degree to being able to meet higher status, successful men, and getting in certain rooms.
01:44:49.000Yeah, but without me doing porn or without me being a successful porn star, I would never even meet those people because they wouldn't care about me.
01:44:55.000They wouldn't care about a random girl on the street.
01:47:18.000But the point is, we can identify a unique value ad that is unique to us.
01:47:23.000So if a woman chose to be with Myron, Fresh, or Marquette, or anyone else here, they would say, okay, this thing about him really turns me on about him.
01:47:33.000Whereas if you just limit yourself to saying, this is my value, one, it's ironic because you're objectifying yourself as a woman, and two, you're limiting your value to something that every single other woman has.
01:47:55.000I had two female squadron commanders in the Air Force.
01:47:57.000There are some times where women do have a burden of performance.
01:48:00.000There is no man who doesn't have a burden of performance.
01:48:03.000Unless you are born incredibly rich or you live in your mother's basement and you've totally chosen to take yourself out, we all have a burden of performance.
01:48:11.000And so there are occasions where a woman is either very, very attractive or she's sitting there as a wife where she doesn't have a burden of performance.
01:48:19.000And the thing is, as a man, if we do that, then we end up with no sex, no money, no nothing.
01:48:26.000The reason why I said that I found it interesting that all of you have been able to be in rooms with successful, attractive, handsome men, etc., That are worldly, etc.
01:48:34.000Only one girl here, I think, is married.
01:48:59.000I don't think we should be objectifying ourselves.
01:49:01.000I think a lot of women that are beautiful and they don't have a brain, they use their body and that's what they have to give.
01:49:06.000And there's a lot of beautiful women that have a brain and there's also women that aren't good looking and then they'll go and they'll get success.
01:49:13.000It's like the men who are five foot and then they end up being billionaires and we'll settle for them because they got that.
01:49:20.000That's what they're bringing to the table.
01:49:21.000That's what you're bringing to the table.
01:50:22.000I'm not talking about you, Lucy, specifically.
01:50:29.000When we talk facts and opinions, that's an opinion when I said it's a fact.
01:50:33.000There's nine billionaires in the state of Nevada, and four of them are divorced women, or one of them, Sheldon Adelson's wife.
01:50:40.000So in that case, my point is, I think often, most of the time, when I hear women say, I've dated a billionaire, they're dating some guy maybe worth two, three...
01:50:57.000I'm just saying I hear way too many women tell me that they're dating a billionaire and they don't know what that number means or how rare that is.
01:51:44.000I go, if you looked around at all those guys that were there, I mean with the exception of maybe Justin Waller, like if you looked at those guys just walking on the street, you would not say, that guy's a billionaire.
01:52:06.000Ken McElroy is the only billionaire I know.
01:52:08.000You know how much property you have to control?
01:52:09.000To have a net worth of a billion dollars?
01:52:11.000That's why in my head I was like, there's no way.
01:52:14.000He's probably worth maybe a hundred million, two hundred million.
01:52:17.000There's some other things too, but I was nervous and I didn't want to go on a tangent, but...
01:52:24.000If you're a woman making $60,000, you have not the foggiest idea of even what a millionaire is, and that's mostly what the case is.
01:52:36.000We have a lot of OF girls who are exaggerating their earnings, and they go on podcasts like this, and all of them act like they're bawling.
01:52:43.000The average earning is $150 per month.
01:52:47.000For OF. Yeah, and women, because they don't pay for things, especially when they're dating bosses, they don't know what things cost.
01:55:53.000And it just annoyed me because I was like, see, we worked so damn hard to get in position and you can never appreciate it because you do not comprehend.
01:57:19.000And then the other one is the guy who's doing something illegal or knows he's got to get his money out of there quick or doesn't want to pay taxes on it.
01:57:50.000Does someone else have a question or something like that?
01:57:53.000I had a question for the guys because I was wondering if you guys were able to make $2.5 million through OnlyFans and stripping and doing porn all together because there is some girls that Yeah, it's like two or three characters.
01:58:29.000That's how you measure the man the same way you measure the woman because there's a lot of women who I know women that are shaped like an ocho, you dig?
01:58:41.000I remember when I was getting into boxing and shout out to real fighters, real champions.
01:58:45.000I love combat sports and then my buddy's mom called me and They're both Jewish, and she said, Marquette, you went to Berkeley, you went to Johns Hopkins.
01:58:53.000Do you think it's smart to get punched in your fucking head for money?
01:58:56.000You think that's what people like us do in our class?
01:58:59.000No, that's what lower class people do because that is their best option.
01:59:10.000What if you don't do it for the money?
01:59:16.000So when I first got out of university, I wanted to help kids make something of themselves, because America is the land of opportunity, even still.
01:59:23.000And when I would have those little girls in my class, 10, 11 years old, and, you know, hey, what do you want to be when you grow up?
01:59:28.000Not one of them said, I want to sell my body on the internet.
02:00:14.000But one thing we do have to acknowledge is there's a number of people, and I think you had said, you know, like that's what they have to, no, you said that's what they have to offer.
02:00:22.000Like we all have different things to offer.
02:00:24.000There's some women I've met, there's one Moroccan chick I'm thinking of in particular right now, Jeremy, was not good at anything.
02:00:49.000But what we cannot do is have the masses of females thinking that the best route for them is OF. It takes a bad bitch to be an only bad model.
02:00:58.000It takes a certain caliber of a woman...
02:01:00.000Let me play devil's advocate here really quickly.
02:01:02.000You should never advocate for the devil when you're talking to the saints, but go on.
02:01:21.000Very much a needed profession in our society, especially right now.
02:01:25.000You can at least recognize how much investment in education you would have to have in something like that.
02:01:32.000The money that would be involved in you taking out student loans.
02:01:34.000To be able to do, you know, you've got to go to college, you've got to go through all this training, you've got to be certified to teach, you've got to have all the special stuff.
02:01:41.000So you're investing maybe four, six, maybe even eight years of your life into that.
02:01:49.000There's many ways you can find yourself in a classroom, even a special ed classroom, with insignificant levels of education and investment, but go on.
02:01:57.000But the thing is, we've also interviewed women who are surgical nurses, women who get into very high-end professions.
02:02:04.000Hell, you could even talk to some attorneys, right, who got into following the profession that I dreamed of becoming when I was a young girl, and now I want to be an attorney, I want to be a surgeon, I want to be whatever it is, right?
02:02:17.000And then they realize that those start them at maybe $86,000 a year.
02:02:23.000They start doing OnlyFans and they're making that in a month.
02:12:36.000I know college is irrelevant and useless, but you might go to masseuse college to learn a skill to perform a skill.
02:12:44.000And a lot of these things take time to accumulate a skill or to get connected with someone who can give you product or you need initial capital to buy the product, to sell the product.
02:12:51.000There's a lot of things stacked on top of it.
02:12:54.000But here's how we know your skill and your offering as an OnlyFans person or as a porn actress is so minimal.
02:13:17.000Because as a prostitute, if you wanted to get paid $100 or $200, $300 for a guy to lay down with you, if you were 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20 and all the way through to maybe about 40, you could get that guy to lay down with you and pay you and you don't have to have any skills or knowledge whatsoever.
02:13:33.000You could literally just lay there because guys are that disgusting and they will pay you and you can get that lined up every day and make a million bucks doing just that.
02:13:44.000Compare that to all the other scenarios where you have to have initial capital or you have to have skills or you have to have the product.
02:13:50.000So how in the world can you compare what you do with something you're born with to where other people have to go out in this world and find, take out the time to get that education, go get the capital to get that product to sell or go build the skills to offer the service and you just have your body.
02:15:37.000So I'm saying if I sell tits and ass and digital products, I can turn that product, I can turn those digital products onto merch and I can make an e-commerce store and I can do a business and I can do the same skill set that I did in selling tits and ass and all this other stuff where I don't have to do that.
02:15:55.000So why does the average OnlyFans woman make $150 a month?
02:16:10.000What will happen to most females if they try to go into that industry, not only do they make just $150, but then they ruin their reputation and they remove their future earning potential and they embarrass their whole family.
02:17:52.000You have middle class girls flooding into OnlyFans.
02:17:55.000You have girls who have education flooding into OnlyFans, only to figure out that they cannot make a living there.
02:18:01.000So what we're speaking of is preventing them from being deluded into thinking they can make a career out of something that is merely making them an embarrassment to themselves and to their family.
02:18:12.000If women got into stripping, they will figure it out and they will see that there's resources that they can make a successful living at it.
02:18:53.000So if this is digital prostitution, guess what?
02:18:57.000We're living in an age where women are living in a society where they can do this and they don't have to be at risk of getting diseases, STIs, whatever.
02:19:32.000Just like selling drugs, you shouldn't do it.
02:19:35.000I think that what we have to acknowledge is that the women who can pretty much only do that are going to do it and it's fine.
02:19:41.000I just don't want everyday decent women to be flooding into this chasing after money because they're not going to get what they're seeking.
02:19:47.000I think he's saying like setting up the average woman up for success.
02:19:51.000I think what he's saying is I think a lot of the women in this industry give a false or Delusional experience to the average woman that might be curious about getting into it instead of giving the good, the bad, and the ugly, as he said earlier.
02:21:03.000Am I willing to forego future happiness for temporary pleasure now?
02:21:07.000And I don't think women understand that if you go ahead and you make that money and you become successful, since you make 2.5 million doing that, you're gonna have to get some level of renown, which means fame.
02:21:15.000Which means people know who the fuck you are.
02:21:17.000Which means no one will take you seriously that's a guy that actually has a name to him.
02:21:23.000And if I'm willing to forego a family, a relationship, having people respect me as a dutiful woman, If I want to forego that, cool.
02:23:53.000And you know I'm not talking about your daughter.
02:23:55.000When I said, in shaming you, I save your daughter, which is to say all of the young girls, when they hear that they see the stigma, oh, the society thinks this is bad, they're less likely to go into that.
02:24:06.000And you yourself earlier said, hold on, don't interrupt.
02:25:21.000If your daughter was watching this podcast and she's listening to what I'm saying about OF, OnlyFans, pornography, prostitution, and she's listening to what you're saying about it, would she be more likely to do OnlyFans listening to you or listening to me?
02:25:34.000Who would lead her down an OnlyFans path between the two of us?
02:26:05.000So I said if she was watching the podcast and you're promoting it, and I'm saying it's bad, if she was watching the podcast, is she more likely to do OnlyFans listening to you?
02:26:14.000My daughter will not watch this podcast.
02:26:29.000Well, I was just going to make a point.
02:26:31.000It's kind of off the topic at this point, but I was just trying to say that I think that it also could be incredibly shameful.
02:26:37.000To go through your life doing what you think is necessary to get yourself the amount of money that you would get from the education that you have to lead in a job that makes you have a certain status.
02:26:49.000And the entire time you are just so unhappy.
02:26:52.000How about those people who have backdoor lives?
02:26:54.000All those people who have success, they have backdoor lives.
02:27:02.000The guys that are really like, oh, having great jobs and having all the shit that you're talking about, we get to meet their real version of them.
02:29:09.000Promoting good decisions, self-love and mental health, I think that aligns with you saying, hey, let's be real with ourselves and let's be honest and let's see things.
02:29:20.000I am not against sex work by any means.
02:29:47.000I think you're really selfish trying to show off your kid, and I don't agree with that.
02:29:51.000There's things about parenting that I don't agree with, but I think the most important thing to instill in children is being real with yourself.
02:30:06.000The message is, I love myself enough to say, hey, this is a means to an end and I made this decision and I live in it and I live in my true self and my whatever empowerment that I attach to this for the moment.
02:30:18.000And then when you grow past that, make sure that message is clear too as to why you chose to grow past that because that's going to change the future generation and that's going to put good thoughts into these kids to see, hey, the easiest way out, whatever you think that may be, I'm just being very general in that sense.
02:30:34.000That's not going to breed you to be the best person that you can be or the happiest.
02:30:39.000We all want better for our low generation after, you know?
02:30:42.000Yeah, I remember my dad told me, I told you guys he's old, he's 84, he has a brother that's less than, no, not less than a year younger, 15 months, okay?
02:30:50.000My dad's Giovanni, his brother is Michael.
02:30:52.000So I asked my dad, I said, Dad, why have you always take the straight and narrow with business?
02:30:57.000You know, we're Sicilian, you can get indoors.
02:38:41.000Be stereotypical, but putting air in my tires, car, sports, like, all of the above, handyman shit, like, anything like that, I do not try to sit here and think, like, I got this, I'm going to figure it out.
02:38:51.000I'm going to call a man, and I'm going to ask a man.
02:39:00.000I don't know like based on my experience thus far I would say that probably like financial security a lot of women don't know how to handle their money correctly throw it all around the room pretend like it doesn't exist like forget about it emotionally so yeah I think that that's like I think it's a great thing to ask a man about what about you To ask a man about,
02:39:27.000definitely financial stability and you know just more like labor things around the house or A man's touch, basically.
02:40:00.000I also agree with everything the other lady said.
02:40:03.000But perspective, sometimes, not sometimes, women were emotional, so we look at things through a different lens oftentimes.
02:40:11.000And sometimes it's easier when you're, like how you said, you're freaking out and you're like, ah!
02:40:16.000And it's like, okay, you're going to grab me up, let me have my moment, and then we're going to have a talk, and you'll probably be able to explain the logical side when I'm in the emotional state, and then maybe we could get to a better ground, not just relationship-wise, in any scenario.
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02:44:34.000We'll get the last thoughts from the ladies.
02:44:36.000Ladies, last thoughts, comments, questions?
02:44:40.000I think that both as men and women, I mean, we'll always like kind of agree to disagree or just disagree to disagree till the end of time.
02:44:48.000However, I think as a collective society if we were able to find a way to understand that both of us can learn from each other and provide each other things that perhaps the world would become more balanced and I think we're just so out of balance that it's just like we're so far apart that We're just speaking two different languages.
02:45:08.000I think the reason why we're the problems that we have now is because we go off the female way of thinking.
02:45:12.000And we don't go off the male way of thinking anymore.
02:45:14.000I think that's where the problems actually lie.
02:45:16.000Is that we care way too much about how women think, how they perceive the world, looking at the world from a female perspective, when I think we need to go back to looking at the world from a male perspective because To be quite honest with you, if you put women in control, they fuck everything up.
02:45:49.000Legislatively, the way politicians run, the way advertisers market their products, the way everything is done now, it's all done from a female perspective.
02:45:57.000When was the break, is what I'm saying.
02:46:24.000It's Angelina Jolie and Denzel Washington.
02:46:25.000In the movie, she's a cop, and her boyfriend, who she was sleeping with, is a guy that is, you know, he's saying, oh, why aren't we in a relationship?
02:46:53.000It started in World War II when we were engaged in global warfare and we were sending our young men out to die.
02:47:04.000Then we needed people producing spare parts, munitions, weapons of war.
02:47:09.000Well, the men were out fighting, so then we had Rosie the Riveter making a muscle, even though it's pathetic to look at a woman trying to make a muscle, because mostly it's not there and it's not strong if it is there.
02:47:18.000So we put you guys in the factory and told you that you should be a worker instead of a housewife because your husband was gone, and then we never put you back into the kitchen after the guys returned from war.
02:47:29.000It was a whole blockade of propaganda.
02:47:31.000The government also influences and funds Hollywood as well, which is a fact.
02:47:36.000So this was the start of the decline of Western civilization, specifically the white male patriarch known as the white Anglo-Saxon Protestant.
02:47:45.000We saw the decline of religion and much else.
02:47:48.000And that is when the female started to get outside of the home and into trouble.
02:50:51.000You know, we can agree to disagree and there's different perspectives and I'm appreciative to be here on the show and talk to everybody here.
02:51:03.000I think that you know in order for us to keep society being a decent society we need to make sure that our children are protected and it's one thing to do sex work but it's another thing to condone it and then publicize it because I actually saw a thing that said that over time our children will no longer be children anymore there will be no childhood there will be young individuals but there will not be childhood anymore and there's nothing wrong with doing what you need to do to be in survival to get it done but to turn that And say,
02:51:33.000okay, like, this isn't the best thing that there is.
02:51:36.000I think that is completely wrong, and I just really hope that we really change our perspective.
02:51:40.000Did you have the same mindset as some of the girls earlier on the podcast, like retarded Danny Banks, etc., before you got married?
02:51:49.000Okay, so you knew like, alright, I gotta get the fuck up out of this and find a man versus I'm a boss and I got a lifestyle to maintain and all this other shit.
02:51:58.000I actually never even tried to be a boss in that situation.
02:52:01.000I would work until I made what I needed to make and I'd never even try to go over it because I would try to heal myself in the moments that I had off to get back to where I was to do it again.
02:52:57.000We should be making more money these days anyway.
02:52:59.000We should be being mothers and being in the household, being cooks and getting back to how it used to be and having the men be on the battlefield.
02:53:06.000See, but most girls would tell you you're lazy and you're stupid for saying that.
02:53:17.000Like you have a soul and there have been some soulless individuals here that frankly are just energy suckers and it's like they almost hate you for having a soul and just side note I actually probably should mention like when I said I was selling drugs I was 12 years old.
02:55:57.000Fast money is an addictive thing and that's why I think your mental health is really important because you need to have the discernment to know, hey, this is my plan.
02:57:38.000It definitely is more laborious and requires a lot more mental strength and just requires more of me, which for me, I like the challenge because I want to live up to my highest potential and that's what makes me truly feel fulfilled.
02:57:52.000But I had to live the life and come full circle to fully comprehend and live that.
02:57:56.000If you guys talk long enough, that truth eventually comes out.
02:57:59.000Because earlier you guys said that it was hard work being in the sex industry.
02:59:15.000So yeah, just basically, because guys are simps, man.
02:59:17.000A lot of times they'll let girls walk all over them, talk to them crazy, etc.
02:59:20.000Matter of fact, a lot of the girls I kicked off the podcast, the reason they behave that way is it's a byproduct of the men that they've had in the past, allowing them to behave the way they did.
03:00:04.000So I'm like, yo, I'm not gonna tolerate this fuckery from you because you are not prepared to do physical combat with me and I'm not gonna do physical combat with you because you're a fucking woman.
03:01:05.000Sometimes it's necessary, because when you deal with combative women like that, they're not rational.
03:01:09.000They're whores, they're stupid, they have lower IQ. You have to deal with stupid people in stupid language, and a lot of times you gotta speak their language back to them.
03:01:16.000No, you stupid bitch, get the fuck up out of here.
03:01:25.000Well, I think there's a way to be diplomatic.
03:01:26.000You're very diplomatic in a way of checking someone, but in an intellectual way that maybe doesn't make them feel absolutely just disrespected like they're a piece of fucking shit under your shoe.
03:01:42.000I was actually wondering who was meaner.
03:01:44.000At the beginning, I was like, who is meaner?
03:01:46.000I was like, I think it's me right now.
03:01:47.000Yeah, it's because women are emotionally erratic, so it doesn't matter, because they care about how things are said to them.
03:01:54.000They don't care about the information conveyed, even if it's 100% correct.
03:01:57.000They care about how it's said in tonality and shit like that.
03:01:59.000So, a lot of times, the girls come in here and they act that way or whatever, so I just have a very low tolerance for female disrespect, because I look at it like...
03:02:07.000I don't think men and women are equal.
03:02:08.000I think we're superior to you guys and I think we're the leaders and women need to listen to men and follow men and I don't look at you the same because if I looked at you the same, then I would say stupid shit like, let's go have fun to Bill.
03:02:53.000So the other thing too is with this hyper-masculine woman, they're never going to really find a man.
03:03:01.000Well, they might find a man, but he's going to be feminine.
03:03:03.000But they're not going to find a masculine man who's actually going to put them in their place and guide them.
03:03:08.000Because the thing is, let's just look at the Bible.
03:03:10.000If the Bible says, we fear God, but God is the Father.
03:03:14.000So we need to fear the masculine energy and allow that energy to lead us, which means we need to get off of our high horse, let go of us being hyper masculine, step into our femininity, and get soft.
03:03:39.000You're going to push away those masculine men because one of the biggest foundations of being a masculine guy and having your shit together is not tolerating fuckery from women.
03:03:47.000So they're not going to sit there and fucking negotiate with you like, hey, I need you to do this.
03:04:39.000One of the things he talks about in his books is as men...
03:04:42.000Gain more advantage, more leverage in the sexual dating, in the sexual marketplace, then women will lose and vice versa.
03:04:48.000And that's what we see a lot of times.
03:04:49.000If you listen to a bunch of men give other men really good advice on how to make women attracted to them, to the normal public, it's going to sound toxic.
03:05:00.000And if you gave a bunch of women the opportunity to explain to other women how to go ahead and take advantage of men, listen to Cardi B, you know, I don't cook, I don't clean, whatever.
03:05:10.000If you listen to that, it's always going to sound offensive to us.
03:05:13.000The difference is, societally, it's not that bad.
03:05:16.000If women warn other women about men, that podcast is awarded.
03:05:20.000And if men warn other men about women...
03:05:23.000Then all of a sudden they're considered to be misogynist.
03:06:16.000Really, if I had just maintained some level of a boundary, then all of a sudden this thing that she told me she didn't want is actually the thing that made her the most attracted to me.
03:07:17.000Like men need to be men and women be women and I respect that and I get that and I think that's lost on a lot of women because we hear Something and it feels like an attack and it's like no They're saying fuck the sims too.
03:07:29.000Because women are the real narcissists.
03:07:30.000Yeah, I'll explain to you during the course of this conversation We've stated many times.
03:07:35.000This is a general fact This is an objective fact in the general and most of the women internalized it felt attacked like Danny for example You weren't even talking to her.
03:07:47.000A couple of the girls, especially the girls that got kicked out, they internalized it, got angry, and then were like, well, what the fuck, blah, blah, blah, because what ends up happening, right?
03:07:55.000If I were to say here with the guys, most guys are fucking fat losers.
03:07:59.000Not one guy's going to start an argument with me.
03:08:01.000They're going to say, yeah, you're fucking right.
03:08:04.000They're not going to say something stupid like women do, which is say not all men are like that.
03:08:08.000No, they understand objective reality, and in general, most guys are losers, and they're okay with that.
03:08:13.000But with women, if I make a criticism of females, they immediately attribute it to themselves, and then they respond as if I'm talking to them.
03:08:19.000That's a narcissistic trait, by the way.
03:08:21.000And the thing is that the other reason, too, why I say women are far more narcissistic than men are is because you guys have to be.
03:09:28.000I think one of the reasons why we have such a disconnect right now, especially, Taylor, from what you were saying, We want guys to be, we want them to man up, but yet for the last really 60 some odd years we've told them to man down.
03:09:42.000And we've just systematically demasculinized men at the same time we've like masculinized women.
03:09:49.000And one of the, I think the more insidious parts of that whole process Is that we've made, we've turned women into the men that they want to marry in the first place.
03:10:20.000Or girls, you know, that call themselves.
03:10:22.000I'm going to tell you why they call themselves that.
03:10:26.000Because they see what alpha men do, alpha males do, and that is a source of security for them that they have been taught, systematically taught, that they can't trust and men are just inherently untrustworthy.
03:12:31.000And the answer is always going to be no.
03:12:34.000And so as a result of that, now we've got to get into college.
03:12:37.000Now we have to have Title IX. Now we have to have all of these special dispensation for women over the course of four or five generations, right?
03:12:44.000And so we get to 2024 and women are like, I'm an empowered woman.
03:13:26.000Because that guy lays down the good dick.
03:13:28.000And that's really all they need, or they think that they need, because they're already in control of their own long-term security over the course of...
03:13:40.000I mean, myself, I've stopped subscribing, if you will, to the constant rhetoric of over and over again, men ain't shit, this, this, this, because I feel like it's reflecting in my own universe versus trying to take off these glasses and look at the world through my own eyes.
03:13:56.000The toughest part for women is, can you trust a man?
03:14:41.000We're better together than we are apart, but we've been taught to distrust one another because men cannot be trusted for long-term security.
03:15:14.000There are a plethora of women who are beautiful.
03:15:16.000There are a plethora of women with good pussy.
03:15:18.000There's a plethora of women who have education and want to go get things done.
03:15:22.000But for a man to be able to lead a woman to greatness who doesn't really have anything at all, which is a lot of us, that is the prize.
03:15:32.000I wanted to know what would you categorize the men that are like, I don't want you to need me or want me for my money or for my success or for my status.
03:16:02.000Well, it's because the majority of women that have been with them in the past probably only wanted them for that because they're lacking in sexual market value.
03:16:08.000That's nine out of ten times when guys have money but they don't have anything else.
03:16:11.000They're square, they're ugly, they're not in shape, they're not masculine, they're not confident, you know what I mean?
03:17:35.000The group that's most at fault are males.
03:17:39.000It's the simps who are actually funding the women who become boss babes and they're empowered and become multi-millionaires through OnlyFans and they promote their degeneracy.
03:17:50.000Which is why I'm going to make a t-shirt, if someone would remind me, beat up simps.
03:17:54.000We need to start a culture of keeping these fellas in line, which is the leadership class has to do this, the real men.
03:18:01.000And we're beyond a time of compromise.
03:18:04.000People who say that they're savages, it's actually time to go into savage mode.
03:18:08.000We have to force the weak males and the simps to behave.
03:20:39.000I also want to thank our producers back here who stayed fucking hella late, and they're going to be doing a 24-hour podcast marathon after this.
03:21:54.000I'm playing in a Madden tournament at 1.30 today.
03:21:57.000So you guys want to make sure to check that out.
03:21:59.000Also, remember, on the 18th, we're doing Halfway to Halloween in Los Angeles.
03:22:02.000And on the 20th, we are collecting stuffed animals for children in orphanages in San Diego for the Bunny Ball, if you guys are interested in that.
03:22:09.000And we're also doing an animal rescue charity May 18th in Miami.
03:22:13.000Florida at Hyde SLS if you guys are interested.
03:22:16.000Yeah, I'll be there to support you, Mike.
03:22:17.000And then we have an event April 26th in Miami.
03:22:21.000You guys welcome us as well from the guest speakers.
03:22:28.000Check out Jake Shields on X if you guys want to know what we were talking about earlier with feminism and the root of all the problems in the world.