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00:16:15.000This is a flower crown, so in our Ukrainian tradition, one woman is single, she's not married, she was wearing the flowers on her head, and men see from far away that she's single.
00:16:28.000I wish it was like that in America, bro!
00:30:38.000I've been honestly going week by week.
00:30:40.000So I've been spending a week in Miami, a week in Pittsburgh, a week in Miami, a week in Pittsburgh because I'm trying to get more clientele for my catering business and my makeup down here.
00:36:54.000Other states, real states, New York, Connecticut, etc., they typically require, you need to have a master's degree if you're going to be a full-on teacher.
00:37:00.000They'll let you get in with a bachelor's, but it's contingent upon you completing your master's degree.
00:40:14.000And it was a lot of fun, so I did a Cold Harbor Recordings Night and Black Hole Recordings Night, and then I did Marcus Schultz Open to Close.
00:54:46.000When you watch Maury at Paternity Court and the result says you are not the father, do you feel more sorry for the mother being a single mom or the guy being led on?
00:55:00.000Okay, but who do you feel more sorry for?
00:55:02.000Do you feel sorry for the guy that got like lied to and told that he was a baby and life upside down or the woman that accused him but now she doesn't know who the father is?
00:57:00.000And basically, he's asking the question, if they came up to that point where they're asking who's the father, and the kid wasn't the guy's father, would you feel sorry for the guy or the woman?
00:57:10.000Who do you feel sorry for in that scenario?
01:06:19.000I could tell, like, when a man is hypersexual.
01:06:21.000Like, from, like, the first conversation, if you really analyze, like, a man, like, if you really sit down on that date and you talk to that man, not just because, like, he's paying for it or, like, whatever he has going on.
01:06:30.000Like, if you really analyze the situation with that person, you could definitely tell, like, if they're hypersexual or not.
01:06:35.000Even with my female friendships, right?
01:06:37.000Like, I could definitely tell, like, when my girlfriend is, like, hypersexual.
01:06:41.000Because those sex topics come a lot sooner than...
01:06:50.000I can tell you, most men are really hypersexual.
01:06:56.000I'm 32, so I've been around the sun a couple more times, and I can tell you, I believe men are hypersexual, and they're laughing because they can agree.
01:07:06.000But wouldn't that just mean that most men turn her off then?
01:07:09.000Well, most men would turn her off then.
01:07:11.000She's not saying that it's not a lot of men.
01:07:13.000She's saying that that's what pisses her off.
01:07:15.000I understand, though, but I'm just saying she's going to run into a lot of that.
01:07:19.000But the thing is, I'm not running into a lot of men because I don't...
01:09:15.000And then the pandemic also, like, really affected our relationship because I had a child, like, two days before, like, the pandemic was, like, my thing.
01:09:22.000So it was just, like, he was always at home.
01:09:24.000Yeah, I was like, oh, my God, you have to go to work because I cannot stand you at the house.
01:11:11.000Alright, so I guess, so you're kind of in a strange middle ground because the man that you're seeking is more than likely, not every single time, but they're more than likely going to also be pretty sexualized.
01:11:52.000Um, just like support, like being trauma informed, being able to like know that people come with baggage and being able to reassure someone if they're in a place where they're feeling anxious about the relationship.
01:12:23.000But like, as far as the question is concerned, yeah, like not having, not him not being able to or not wanting to or putting the effort into dealing with those emotions.
01:12:34.000But that also comes from a place of, like, as a woman being able to, like, know that you're spiraling sometimes and, like, lock in, you know what I'm saying?
01:15:52.000BAM! I mean, if he's making money towards it, he's elevating, he's trying to advance that business, but, like, if he's just sitting there like, oh, I'm selling plates, I'm gonna keep it at that, and I'm making money, like, okay, but if he's not trying to be a, like, celebrity chef or try to network and try to go and travel...
01:17:23.000Anything, like if you tell me, like the generic ones, like if you don't like me, if you try to tell me to change my outfit, like you're crazy.
01:19:53.000No, but specific to the two people and the point of life you're at because what is my job?
01:19:58.000Like, what if he just got fired and now I can step in?
01:20:01.000I'm talking about, in general, would you want this man to be the predominant breadwinner, protector, and provider for you in the household where he is handling the majority of the bills?
01:20:30.000Okay, so if you're having a 50-50 relationship, that means that protection and provisioning and everything else you mentioned is split down the middle.
01:21:52.000So, by that logic, that means that the person that's in charge of protecting you actually does have the authority over you to tell you when and where you can go.
01:22:01.000I'm just using the example of the President of the United States' most powerful person in the world, which you are nowhere near.
01:22:06.000However, you think that you can dictate to a man how he's going to protect you.
01:22:12.000That's directly what you said because the example you gave was no man can tell me how to dress.
01:22:16.000And I'm arguing with you, not arguing, but I'm challenging your viewpoint that him telling you how to dress is a component of him properly protecting you.
01:22:53.000I mean, that's an extreme example, but that's when women tend to listen when I talk about serial killers.
01:22:57.000What I'm explaining to you is that if a man is charged with protecting you, then that means that he needs to have some degree of authority over how he's going to protect you because he has that responsibility.
01:23:07.000If you have responsibility, that means that it comes with authority.
01:23:12.000So how can you dictate to a man who's responsible for protecting you how you're going to go out into the world dressed when he is the one that's tasked with protecting you?
01:23:22.000Because I would say that I can go out there and I can wear this outfit and that's not on me if someone comes after me for that.
01:24:01.000He's not going to talk to you about it.
01:24:03.000My kind of man would talk to me about it and say, Hey, I'm nervous for your safety because I know that this serial killer is out here looking for you dressed like that.
01:25:10.000So you don't want a man to like, you want it to just get it, right?
01:25:13.000You want it to just like know what triggers you, what turns you on, what doesn't, understand, arouse you naturally, make you feel good, and you don't have to think about it, right?
01:25:21.000You just want to be able to be pretty and show up.
01:25:23.000Well, yeah, because that's why it wouldn't work with everyone.
01:25:26.000So then, explain to me how you want a man to turn you on without you telling him, but at the same time, he's supposed to sit there and negotiate with you about how he's going to protect you.
01:26:42.000Then I would consider it and I probably would listen.
01:26:45.000And I would like the authoritativeness of that, but there's also an emotional intelligence where you're not just saying to me, take that off and wear something else and talking down to me.
01:28:26.000Articulate my point to refute yours unless I understand your viewpoint.
01:28:29.000What you're trying to say is, I want to be a strong, independent woman when it suits me, but at the same time, I expect you to protect me based on what I think.
01:28:37.000What I'm telling you is, if I'm the one that's tasked with protecting you, I'm gonna protect you on my terms because you're a woman.
01:28:42.000You don't understand combat, you don't understand violence, you don't understand what men are capable of.
01:28:45.000You don't know anything because you're a female.
01:28:47.000Stop, stop, stop, stop, that's not the point.
01:28:49.000What I'm explaining to you is, women are not capable of the violence that men are capable of, because most women have never been in a fist fight with a man before, and if they have, they probably got fucked up.
01:28:58.000And then they realize, damn, I need to listen to my man.
01:29:00.000So what I'm trying to explain is this.
01:29:03.000You're the same girl that will sit there and say, you better not tell me what to wear, but you want a guy to pull you by the hair and say, you dirty slut when he's fucking you.
01:30:26.000Empathy is when you can put yourself in someone else's shoes in a serious way and then also then come back into yourself and act accordingly because you understand exactly what they might be going through.
01:30:41.000Wouldn't it be fair to say that you lack empathy right now because you don't understand the concept that I'm tasked with protecting you, so therefore you must be put in my shoes.
01:30:47.000But you don't know it, by the way, because you're a fucking woman.
01:30:49.000And I am responsible for protecting you, so therefore you don't understand the male perspective.
01:30:56.000So you are really not as empathetic as you think you are.
01:33:45.000Saying what attracts a woman versus what attracts a man and keeping it at that basis and saying, based on the attraction piece alone, the five-second interaction and what they have to figure out and empathize with in that moment versus what has to go on throughout an entire relationship to keep a man,
01:34:01.000I think that that's an unfair comparison and that's an unfair way to say whether it's...
01:34:11.000But that's an unfair way to say that women or men are more empathetic because there's a lot more that goes into it.
01:34:18.000There's a lot more interaction that's untalked about there.
01:34:21.000So all we're talking about is the first initial interaction and then when we talk about keeping it, that's where more of the woman's interaction and where more of the woman's empathy comes in.
01:34:32.000I'm on your side because at the end of the day...
01:36:37.000I'm going to go ahead and go through with this because it's very interesting how...
01:36:41.000When we listened to you guys talk back, you weren't able to extrapolate what was actually being discussed and the points that mattered.
01:36:46.000You guys only remember the points that gave you an emotional trigger, which is actually fascinating because this podcast has proven that time and time fucking again that women don't care about the facts.
01:44:48.000Well, I said there's opinions and then there's facts, and quite frankly, she's been giving some opinions that are incorrect, and we called it out, and we systematically debunked it.
01:44:57.000Can you stop with the fucking ad-libs, man?
01:47:34.000You don't know that a fact can be independently verified through other sources, so let me go ahead and let you pick how you want to dress to go out into a dangerous fucking world and do whatever you want.
01:47:43.000No, this is why women need leadership.
01:48:39.000Bro, if the President of the United fucking States, the most powerful man in the world, doesn't move unless his protection tells him to move and how they move, what makes you think you have more authority than the President of the United States?
01:49:44.000Like, I'm not sitting here debating with you.
01:49:46.000And all you guys watching the fucking podcast right now, all 25K of y'all watching, this is why you don't sit there and negotiate with women, guys.
01:50:18.000They use this podcast, and I've seen it before, in feminist studies classes and psychology classes to show the difference between how women and men think.
01:50:25.000I've seen people literally play this podcast in a psychology class.
01:50:28.000So if you know that, if you know that, why do you try to battle...
01:50:53.000Y'all better sit up here and prove their point, though.
01:50:57.000Y'all, from the beginning, from the first conversation, from the first conversation, y'all got y'all assed up, started doing emotional shit.
01:51:05.000She's, like, way too emotional to respond to a question.
01:51:08.000Like, this junk is getting embarrassing.
01:51:18.000Even though you're trying to be like the big me and want to be, like, supporting them shit, you're hella emotional because Because you can't even control your outburst.
01:52:57.000I think what you meant to say, because you said if you know they're going to be illogical, I think you meant to say, if I know, why do I debate with women knowing that they're not going to be illogically sound?
01:53:56.000To make it simple, what this podcast proves...
01:54:00.000Is that regardless of woman's socioeconomic status, her background, racial, parenting, etc., I've come to find that there's a very difficult time with them understanding a male's perspective and making logically sound arguments in a logically sound world.
01:54:17.000They typically tend to look at the world through an emotional lens, which a lot of times doesn't serve them well, which is why I genuinely believe That if a woman doesn't have a strong dad, a strong brother, or some kind of masculine figure to let her know how the fuck the world really works, she's gonna be lost.
01:54:32.000Because you guys are headed for destruction without instruction from a male.
01:54:37.000I genuinely believe women need male leadership, and if they don't, it's just a matter of time until they fuck up.
01:54:42.000And then you wonder why you become single moms.
01:54:53.000Anyway, with that said, of course, there's more educated women that are able to formulate arguments better, etc.
01:55:03.000But what I kind of realized, regardless of women's education level, we've had doctors on here, PhDs, master's degrees, etc.
01:55:08.000Hell, there's some educated women on the panel today.
01:55:29.000So she's more concerned with me telling her, can you dress this way instead of, yo, the important part of the conversation is don't dress this way because it's a dangerous world out there.
01:55:37.000She's more concerned with how I give her the instruction versus the instruction, which is why I laugh and I say, bro, we don't negotiate with y'all.
02:02:05.000I'm going off of what I observe through the whole day.
02:02:08.000Yeah, but she made a whole other point.
02:02:11.000Like, she stretched the point where, you know, the joke was, oh, we don't suck dick over here like men pay, and they do for us, and that's what we do over there.
02:02:25.000But the main point that she made that I think is very important, and I think all of you ladies here on the panel that are from the United States should really understand, is that there's a ridiculous amount of men That are leaving the United States.
02:02:39.000It's called the passport bill movement, by the way.
02:02:40.000They're going to places like Ukraine, Colombia, Philippines, all over the place.
02:04:49.000So that's all I was going to say is that what she just touched on was like a microcosm of a bigger problem.
02:04:54.000A lot of men, especially men that have money and status, are leaving the United States to find more submissive feminine women that actually act like ladies outside of, no offense, the behavior that was exhibited tonight.
02:05:05.000No, no, I was just going to ask, like, I mean, do you guys know any of these passport bros and the women that they're with and how, well, not necessarily just the male perspective, but the women that they're with and the quality of these relationships?
02:05:34.000They're better because the leadership dynamic is automatically instilled in the woman.
02:05:40.000So, for example, if I say, you're not going to go out dressed like that, she's not going to argue with me and give me lip and say, no, nigga, or anything else like that, or I'm going to do what I want, or you need to talk to me different, like she's just going to say, oh, okay, and she just does it.
02:08:01.000And what you find is when women are able to pick what they really want without any outside pressure or friends telling them what to do, etc.
02:08:07.000They pick the same fucking guys over and over.
02:08:08.000But I think we have to acknowledge the demographic of dating apps.
02:08:13.000It's a very superficial way of dating.
02:08:16.000And the group of people that you're taking this statistic from are a very superficial and shallow group of people.
02:08:24.000Dating on a screen is very different than being in person, I feel like.
02:08:28.000And so when you're talking about the statistics that you're talking about, you also have to factor in the demographic that we're talking about.
02:08:35.000And I also will acknowledge that a lot of women...
02:08:38.000Well, remember, the demographic, the way women select, all I'm saying is that it's sensationalized on a dating ass, but it doesn't refute the fact that women are selecting for these traits.
02:08:46.000Height, good looks, income, profession, etc.
02:08:50.000But that's just the percentage of women that are on that dating app, and the quality of women that are on that dating app is also in question.
02:08:57.000Can we ask, like, what does everybody expect out of a man?
02:09:09.000No, no, I'm definitely hearing what you're saying.
02:09:14.000Women typically have the same archetype of men that they like, despite the fact that they sit there and try to say, I'm different or I'm special.
02:09:20.000But you guys are all typically chasing the same small demographic of men.
02:09:27.000But that does not refute the fact that this is what women want.
02:09:30.000So the evidence that you're presenting, though, with this dating app thing, and I understand that that's just one example that you have, and I'm sure you have others, but since that's the one that was brought up, then I want to talk about that one.
02:09:42.000So I feel like with the statistic that you brought up with the dating apps, it's showing a skewed and very small modicum of women.
02:09:50.000I think that you're speaking very generally and very majority, when I'm not going to say that majority of people are on dating apps.
02:09:59.000What I'm saying is that nowadays, the way women are getting married and meeting men, one of the fastest ways is through online.
02:10:06.000One of the fastest ways is through online.
02:10:07.000So that means it's extremely important and pertinent to the conversation and pertinent to the conversation.
02:10:11.000It's pertinent to the discussion about what women find attractive in men.
02:10:15.000But our majority of women on dating apps.
02:10:17.000Okay, let's go back real quick to see how we even got here.
02:10:21.000I'm making the argument that Men and women are different, and we select for different things.
02:10:25.000A man can go to a third world country, find an attractive woman that has nothing, and elevate her, increase her status, and he's okay with that.
02:10:44.000Because you're going out of America and you're going to find someone that you deem, I would say, more pliable, someone that will listen more, someone that is just, I mean, and I'm going to say this,
02:10:59.000I'm not trying to talk down on women that are submissive, but like weaker women, weaker minded, less willed women, and I find that pathetic.
02:11:09.000I think that you're looking for someone who's an easier target.
02:13:29.000They take the purse, and you're okay with chasing after that individual and dealing with him physically, and you're okay with him if he just stood back.
02:15:56.000I suspect that you're being facetious here because you understand that I'm about to put you in a position where I'm about to destroy your argument, which is fine.
02:16:03.000You could be on your protection, but you fucked up, and I'll tell you why.
02:16:05.000I'm not trying to be defensive right now.
02:18:05.000But what I'm saying is women want a man that's stronger, taller, more dominant, and a leader.
02:18:12.000Wouldn't it be fair to say that men and women are different and we want the opposite?
02:18:15.000If we're expected to be the protector, the leader, and the provider, wouldn't we want a woman that's going to be the protectee, the follower, and submit to us?
02:18:22.000Yeah, and my argument is that it's just not every woman, it's not every man.
02:18:51.000So, do you not see how, like, your argument is flawed?
02:18:53.000Because on one end, you're okay with women wanting this in men, but then when I give you the opposite of what men want in women, which is the biological want, by the way, it's the opposite of what women want.
02:19:02.000Like, if I went around and I said, women are short, stupid, incompetent retards that want a man that's better than men in every regard, I would be a complete moron for saying that because that is what women want biologically.
02:19:13.000I can't argue with what a woman wants biologically.
02:19:16.000It's either up to me to rise up to that occasion or complain and cry about it like a bitch and not get any women.
02:22:26.000Anyway, yeah, so what I was saying is you're trying to shame men for what they look for naturally in women and I'm telling you that these things are more prevalent in foreign countries where women have these things built into them and American women simply don't.
02:22:40.000You're a fairly masculine woman based off of how you view the world, which I think if you softened up a bit and you understood that men and women are different and you look for a man who's better than you in every regard instead of trying to argue with that man and trying to compete with that man, you'd probably get a lot further.
02:22:53.000Because, I'll be honest with you, a lot of my friends are successful.
02:23:00.000And I don't think that we should argue if we're in a relationship.
02:23:01.000When women are rambunctious and try to give their opinion, if I'm going to be very, very blown with you, and I'm sure Ms.
02:23:06.000Ukraine will agree with this, men don't give a fuck about your opinion.
02:23:09.000And the more money we make and the more status we have, the less we care about your opinion and the more we want you to be quiet.
02:23:14.000The reason why I got annoyed with this girl so much is because she's interrupting me and shit when I'm trying to speak, and that's very annoying when it's like, bro, you're saying a bunch of nonsensical garbage that makes no sense.
02:24:33.000If you did, you would absolutely claim him publicly because when girls are in a relationship with a man they love and mind and respect, they let everybody know they got a man.
02:24:40.000I have a very private man, so that's why I choose not to expose our personal business on this podcast.
02:24:46.000But if you talk to me in my personal life, and if you talk to any person I know, I talk about him all day.
02:25:18.000I'm just saying that to say that I'm just trying to keep things private because this is a very public platform so I just think that's an unfair conclusion to make on me just then.
02:25:29.000I feel like that shows a lot of respect for you.
02:25:51.000And the people in my life will understand.
02:25:53.000But I'm just saying to the point of me being rather masculine, to the point of me, you know, if I shit the fuck up, you know what I'm saying?
02:26:01.000My man with X, Y, and Z. I don't think that we should...
02:27:47.000I didn't think coming on the podcast was to be agreeable.
02:27:50.000I thought we were to have a conversation, disagree, maybe you prove me wrong, maybe I prove you wrong, and have a dialogue.
02:27:57.000I will be agreeable with my men because we are getting to a point where we sit down, we talk, we have a conversation, and we get to a place where we agree.
02:29:36.000No, you're absolutely right in stuff, because it's like, like, women outside the United States are more feminine, because here, it's like, you know, television programming, it's also, you know, what you see in the news, and then people like Lizzo, You know,
02:29:52.000so it's like, you know, big is not beautiful like Lizzo.
02:31:32.000No, y'all are, and I'm going to tell you why.
02:31:34.000Living in the United States, you listen to Cardi B, you listen to dumbass rap music, you believe in going to college and getting a career and making money and just being okay with divorcing your man and all that.
02:31:50.000My happiness overrides everything, but the reality is like, no, bitch, stay in a relationship with your man and your fucking kid regardless of your happiness.
02:31:56.000People usually get married for duty, but now women get married because of Instagram posts and the lifestyle that they can get from their man.
02:32:02.000So, the problem is that Western women are kind of doomed because you guys bought into feminism.
02:32:08.000You guys bought into getting a career.
02:32:19.000It's going to be tough because a lot of y'all are programmed this way and y'all are not about to change and follow a man's lead after 20 years of being told niggas ain't shit.
02:32:28.000So women are indoctrinated to think this way.
02:32:30.000And it's interesting that we have someone from a foreign country here that kind of tells you guys like, well, in my country, we look at it like this.
02:33:45.000Would you prefer a man that makes $200,000 per year, has his life together, is good to go, or would you prefer a guy that makes $20,000 per year and you think you can fix him?
02:34:33.000But even with the foreign situation, because somebody, like, there's certain men that even go to foreign women that get into, like, situations that are not good.
02:34:47.000If they really want to change and they actually do the steps to change, I think women can change as much as they want to change for themselves.
02:53:28.000Because you were agreeing with her earlier when she said that women are more empathetic and I made the argument that women are not more empathetic.
02:53:34.000I feel like women are empathetic in a way where it's like a mother.
02:53:37.000You just demonstrated it by your answer that women are not empathetic.
02:53:40.000Okay, let me explain to you why I thought that.
02:53:45.000Because as a mother, I feel like I'm very empathetic to children.
02:58:02.000You know girls, I understand why you're so like that.
02:58:06.000Because you invest so much money, how to be more sexy, how to do better sex, but you don't invest money to improve your brain, to improve your soul, to raise your spirit, because you have nothing to propose to the man, because this man treats you like a shit, because you have nothing to give to him.
02:58:22.000Because with the right woman, the man will be different.
02:58:26.000You know, I met many men who can be very bad with you, but he will be completely different with me.
03:13:20.000Yeah, I didn't think I was ever going to be on the show where the women, which I was a part of, were really arguing damn near about a fight.
03:18:04.000No, I didn't say you had AIDS. I thought you said it was AIDS. I said the show was AIDS. I thought you said I had AIDS. I was like, what the fuck?