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00:11:37.000But what's more important than that, how many people I've helped by just not being a soft advocate.
00:11:41.000Badass bitch like half the people in the comments who swear the fuck they could ever fuck with a motherfucker in person because they're badass keyboard horror motherfuckers.
00:11:59.000I'm going to do that here in a little bit.
00:12:00.000I haven't cut my hair yet either, sorry.
00:12:02.000I'm a former US Air Force captain, did counterintelligence for a while, flew a KC-135 as a navigator, and I have a very, very offensive evolutionary psychology podcast along with a male performance coaching program.
00:12:34.000Who the fuck are you when shit's not going your way?
00:12:37.000There's so many cupcakes out here that don't realize their life is so comfortable, so fucking easy, that they're whining about not getting their way.
00:12:48.000So in the penitentiary, you have real adversity.
00:12:50.000Some people out there in America or around the world right now are actually facing problems.
00:12:55.000But most of these motherfuckers are really just not getting their way.
00:12:58.000They're crying about not getting their way.
00:13:00.000And that's the biggest fucking crock of shit ever because when you get your way, you start to get weak.
00:13:06.000And my whole thing is I've lived a life purposely from penitentiary till I exited to the street that was based off of hard daily tasks that I didn't want to do so that every day I made myself proud.
00:13:19.000Everything I do each day is very difficult.
00:14:09.000Who the fuck's gonna come out of prison?
00:14:11.000Like, not even have live this life that everyone's living out here and make as much money as I did and rise to where I'm at today and still never break.
00:14:20.000I made a commitment to myself and the commitment was deeper than anything.
00:14:25.000So everyone really worries about how I react and I speak.
00:14:30.000What about in the morning when you don't get up and your bitch ass lays back down?
00:14:33.000What about all you pussies who literally think you're going to kill it in the gym and you quit after two months?
00:14:38.000What about everybody who starts a business and doesn't follow through on their business plan?
00:14:43.000The whole thing is, I don't give a fuck about how I feel, I get it done anyways.
00:14:48.000So being stoic means you don't care about your feelings, you'll get the work done anyways.
00:14:52.000And I mean, it's the easiest way to measure who someone is.
00:14:56.000When it comes down to it, the work that needs to be done, do they get it done or not?
00:15:11.000So I'll read stuff like that, or I'll read these guys who are like, they'll say, okay, I've got like 12 tips for, you know, to live a better life, right?
00:15:17.000Was it a unscripted, you know, like how to go from like nothing to everything?
00:15:21.000And usually it starts off with sort of this Batman origin stories.
00:15:25.000Like, you know, I was born a poor black child in the inner city and suddenly, you know, if I can do it, you can do it too.
00:16:13.000And I've said on this show several times, the first place you want to start, if you want to read all these self-help things, if you want to get all this sort of positivity mojo thing going on for yourself, the best thing you can do is stop sedating yourself.
00:16:25.000And that's the number one problem I think I see with most young guys, especially the latter half of the millennials and most of Gen Z right now, is they sedate themselves with pornography, they sedate themselves with alcohol, with prescription opioids, weed.
00:16:39.000The moment weed became legal in states and everything, it's like the productivity and everybody is listless and lazy and they don't want to do anything.
00:16:46.000Like Wes here, it's like, I don't drink.
00:16:50.000I used to, before I did, before I became Rola Tomasi, that's all I did.
00:16:53.000I was working in liquor, in the liquor business for a long time.
00:16:56.000And I've seen guys go from, like, being very productive people to being very, like, just listless, lazy, and just, you know, go downhill.
00:17:03.000And it was right around the time I was writing my fourth book, Religion, I said, you know what, I'm going to stop drinking until I finish this book.
00:17:10.000And because I was more productive as a writer, I was more...
00:17:15.000I never had a DUI. I never had any problem with it.
00:17:18.000It's just that I wanted to be more productive and I couldn't do that if I was drinking on a Friday and then recovering on a Saturday and then trying to pick myself up on a Sunday again.
00:17:26.000It was just not pragmatic to do it anymore.
00:17:29.000It just made sense not to do shits like that.
00:17:32.000And that's what taught me Like, leaving these sedations and leaving, like, if you have a, if you're shitty, if your online life is, you know, your escape life, whether it's video games or whatever it is, if your escape, living that escape life is better than your shitty life,
00:17:55.000I said, you know what, I'm gonna stop drinking until I'm done with this book, and then three years later, because it took me a long time to write the book, you know, I thought, okay, well I'll just, you know, then I'll celebrate with a drink or something like that, and I got to three years, and I'm like, I don't want to.
00:18:07.000I just simply don't want to do it anymore.
00:18:09.000So you mentioned vices that we all have as men.
00:18:11.000You mentioned the P word, you mentioned drinking, weed, and us as men, we have this issue all the time because we're here in the world, things are gonna happen.
00:18:18.000How do you deal with vices growing up as a man?
00:19:10.000Leisure time and then get back to work afterwards.
00:19:12.000And that's what the vast majority of people do.
00:19:13.000But that live time, that is the time that you have that can be the most productive, that's where you need to hunker down and that's where you need to focus on right there.
00:19:23.000So when you're in your live time, you're building something.
00:19:29.000If you're an ideas guy, work on that idea.
00:19:31.000If you're an artist, if you're a musician, if you're an entrepreneur, that live time Once you start investing in that lifetime, that lifetime will help you get out of the dead time that you're in right now and that will help you transition out of being sort of this 9 to 5 wage slave into somebody that can actually focus on a brand and has time for themselves so that they can develop that into something greater than what they were before and then escape from that shitty life that they have into something better.
00:23:16.000So, just going back, the first question, when we talked about stoicism, and then the second question, when we talk about diversions, right?
00:23:25.000The thing happens is, like, the further we get away from a survival scenario, where we were surviving as humans, like, say, 50,000 years ago, there was no time for porn, there was no time for...
00:23:41.000And when you, the human brain was built for that because the majority of our existence was a very, very rough, brutal existence up until about 8,000 years ago.
00:23:54.000Violent men, violent industrious men have constructed huge cities that we've chiseled out these little safe areas where we can go on YouTube and talk shit.
00:24:29.000And so you lose that part of your brain and then the other part is you are rewarded for accomplishing goals.
00:24:34.000And you have to accomplish those goals Because you have a wife and a family to take care of, and because you have a job you have to do.
00:24:41.000If you work in, let's say, law enforcement, construction, whatever, if you're sick, your wife leaves you, you still have to go to work.
00:24:47.000So we as men have a burden of performance, and we have to do that thing even if we don't fucking feel like it, which is stoicism, which is why I asked the question before, is the idea that even when it sucks, we still have to do that thing.
00:24:58.000Because the alternative that we have is to be weak and slow and dumb, Which is something that we're afforded now because we live in a softer society than our ancestors did.
00:25:38.000The one thing I've learned about coaching men is you gotta inspire them, and you're not gonna inspire them by talking monotone like this, and I think you need to go to the gym and exercise and eat well, because if you don't, you're probably gonna be fat.
00:25:49.000When you're passionate about, because I've seen you before get excited about improving men's lives, and we've had guys come on here, they've called me, they've called him, they've called you about not taking their own life.
00:25:58.000When you passionately respond to that, that's still stoic.
00:26:02.000Because you're motivated about accomplishing a goal.
00:26:06.000Again, when you express yourself in the gym by lifting more weight, you can still have energy towards accomplishing a goal.
00:26:14.000The reason I'm a good coach and I help people is because if someone says that they're suicidal, they're going to take their own life.
00:26:22.000I tell people in my group all the time, if you died in front of me, I'd step on the back of your fucking head and walk over you into the gym and handle the rest of my fucking day.
00:28:30.000Everybody's got so much advice to give and so little results, and that's the problem with the internet and the world.
00:28:35.000So if anyone comes up to you, and they're not living the life you want, just tell them to shut the fuck up and get away.
00:28:41.000And there's not one person that will ever come up to me in person Face to face, and I will not tell them the truth.
00:28:48.000That is what I think all men should start doing, and women, so they don't feel so used, so walked over, so fucking resentful towards people that fucking wrong them.
00:29:01.000And I was also gonna say, too, just to finish my thought, like, you know, they say, oh, broke the stool, so blah, blah, blah.
00:29:06.000There's a reason why when you're in the military and you're training for war, and you can speak to this, Mike, They're not sitting there saying, oh, well, you know, you should do some push-ups and we're going to go run for a few miles and we're going to come back.
00:29:16.000No, it's, hey, you fucking maggot, drop down and give me 50, etc.
00:29:19.000Because men respond favorably a lot of the times to being yelled at and ridiculed because it makes you urgency and then also the need to compete, right?
00:30:35.000And every time I get a little bit impassioned about stuff that I talk about, especially when it comes down to the shit that's going on with the DHS and the NGOs and shit, I'm basically being fucking ratioed by the government right now.
00:30:47.000So if I get a little heated about that, it's not because I'm like, oh, here's the rational mail, you're supposed to be it.
00:31:12.000So the thing is, as far as Wes is concerned, it reminds me of this, I think it's a quote by Jerry Rice, who said, today I will do what others won't, so tomorrow I can do what others can't.
00:31:23.000And I think those are pretty good words to live by.
00:31:32.000A lot of people say, for example, okay, I want to be successful, but it's a journey you got to take.
00:31:37.000These motherfuckers, they act like they're straight family men and shit, and then they can't even look at their family and realize they're underperforming for their family.
00:31:48.000Like literally, how the fuck are you not trying to be a superhero for your fucking wife, your kids, or anyone?
00:32:58.000I'm just gonna beat everybody around me.
00:33:00.000I'm gonna be more jacked than I'm, I'm gonna have better cars, I'm gonna have more money, I'm gonna fucking speak better, I'm gonna have a better fucking Instagram, all the shit that matters, and I'm gonna beat them.
00:34:42.000The biggest thing to the internet is this.
00:34:43.000Like, I'm somebody's vision of what they want.
00:34:46.000If I ain't your vision of what you want, then pass the fuck on.
00:34:49.000But I'm someone's vision of the life they want.
00:34:51.000And then I show the actions to get it, and the words I speak are their self-talk when they're going through the actions and needing the motivation.
00:34:59.000So a lot of people don't realize that they actually, like...
00:36:00.000If you really believe someone has great information for you, but they haven't done anything in life, you're the stupidest motherfucker ever.
00:36:10.000There's too many people who don't apply the knowledge they know, and they sit there and just talk their whole fucking lives away.
00:36:17.000If you don't have results, you need to fucking shut the fuck up until you have them.
00:36:28.000Because motivation, you'll have it for a few days and then it'll just go away.
00:36:31.000Have you ever seen somebody go to a Tony Robbins seminar and then they go right back to the mother's basement?
00:36:36.000Motivation only lasts for a certain amount of time.
00:36:38.000So what I recommend to people first is gratitude.
00:36:40.000Guys, if you ever read Steven Pinker's Enlightenment Now, you realize how lucky you are to live in a time after antibiotics when you can live.
00:36:47.000Do you understand the wealthiest man in the world, Henry VIII, died of gout, which is something that's easily curable now.
00:36:55.000Before the year 1850, half the earth's population died before the age of five.
00:36:58.000When you consider all these incredible hard lives that these people lived more than 200 years ago, how incredibly fortunate you are, you should have gratitude.
00:37:08.000The second is when you think about professional athletes making $40 million a year and they still don't come out and play defense, it's like they need to be motivated.
00:37:14.000It's insane that you would have that, but you don't take, it's like my man Brad Lee says, would you take $10 million to not wake up tomorrow?
00:37:40.000If you're fat and you realize you need to recognize your fat, it's the people who don't recognize their fat, they keep eating the same shit and keep thinking that they're just going to have a skinny mindset and the shit's going to go away.
00:37:50.000And the third one is the total and complete acceptance of your own mortality.
00:39:47.000No, but for the whole planet, when you consider something like half the Earth's population lives on less than $5 a day, then you realize you're in top 1% just making $30,000 a year.
00:39:56.000Just the fact that you guys live in North America, even if you're in Mexico, you have no idea how good you have it compared to people who live in places like Nepal or Sub-Saharan Africa.
00:40:05.000It's so fucking hard in some of these places.
00:40:21.000Let me take something onto that real quick.
00:40:22.000Because, like, there's a lot of guys that I know and that Mike knows who sell courses, like online courses.
00:40:26.000And there's also a reason why, like, self-help books, like, that's, like, the biggest section in, like, you know, Barnes& Noble right now.
00:40:32.000The reason for that is people want that instant gratification.
00:40:35.000They want to know that if I buy this product, if I buy this pill, if I buy this course, whatever, that once I do that, that's going to solve whatever I think my most immediate problem is.
00:40:45.000We live in a time where we're so used to having something immediately there for us, whether it's our playlists on our phones or if it's fast food or whatever the fuck it is.
00:40:55.000We're so used to being able to satisfy those needs really quickly that If we encounter something that it takes longer to actually achieve, like if you want to go from being a white belt to being a black belt, you've got to put in all the time to get from the white belt to the black belt.
00:41:10.000Or if you go to the gym, it doesn't happen overnight.
00:41:12.000You have to go and consistently be doing things over and over and over again.
00:41:16.000So when you get into these courses, what happens is when you buy these courses or you buy these books, what happens is people don't complete those courses.
00:41:24.000They'll buy it because they think that the act of buying that course, it tricks their brain into thinking that they've already completed that course.
00:41:30.000Or they can always come back to it when they're ready for it, so it has this act of completion kind of like psychological effect.
00:41:36.000When you get that course or you get that book or you get whatever it is that you think is going to be your magical cure for whatever is your most immediate need, Then suddenly, and if you don't deliver on that, and this is something me and Myron run into quite a bit, is if you don't deliver on that, if you don't get the supermodel,
00:41:52.000Myron and Rolo teach a course that guarantees that we're going to be able to fuck supermodels, right?
00:41:59.000We're going to get nines and tens immediately, and if I don't get that, then these guys are charlatans, and these guys are, you know, these guys are so much to go.
00:42:06.000Don't say we sell a course even though we don't.
00:42:09.000And so what they're saying, because they've already made up in their minds, you know, in their heads, they've already made up their minds that I'm going to take this course, I'm going to read this book, I'm going to do these things, these step-by-step things that this guy is selling me, and if I don't get that effect, like, overnight, then these guys, then fuck these guys.
00:42:25.000The thing is, we all kind of just address the masses of idiots too much, and that's what they want.
00:42:31.000The whole thing is, they're so fucking stupid, they want to just be contrarians for fucking, for attention.
00:43:10.000Your before and after pics have to be the quality of other men.
00:43:14.000Just because you have money doesn't mean you're exiled from getting a six pack, you fucking pussy.
00:43:19.000And the thing is, they post them Just because they have money, there's bodybuilders in the comments going, great job, you fat piece of shit.
00:43:27.000And it's like, dude, why are you guys applauding this guy?
00:43:53.000Do you guys realize, do you guys understand that by us accommodating your shortcomings, we make you weaker?
00:44:00.000So everybody who has a problem with someone like me, I would just smack you so many times that you will forget that you're even able to even speak until you have a result.
00:44:09.000And when you have one, when you have a result that I give a fuck about, guess what I'll do?
00:46:35.000He wanted him to become the best because if that's what you want and you're committed to that, then I'm going to kick your ass into the fucking ground until you become the best jazz drummer on the planet.
00:46:42.000We only give a fuck what you're doing wrong.
00:46:44.000You're supposed to do what I'm telling you, motherfucker.
00:46:47.000I'm not going to applaud you for doing what's right.
00:46:49.000I don't think enough people realize how much investment you have to have in yourself to go from ordinary to extraordinary.
00:46:56.000And it's only like, you know, people don't get it.
00:46:58.000And once you're like there to get to the next level, even though it's just like 1% difference, it takes a ridiculous amount of work.
00:47:05.000Dude, does anyone even realize, and let's make this about me right now, my favorite subject.
00:47:09.000Does anyone even realize how many times over and over people thought I was at a certain level and then I just straight buttfucked that level into another level?
00:48:11.000I'm like, I showed you a process of removal to tap into a message coming from above that's more powerful than all these lames on the planet combined.
00:48:22.000As soon as you tap into this message and you follow it wholeheartedly, which I call conscience congruency, God speaking to you and supplying your path.
00:48:29.000As soon as you do that and you get the fuck out of the way, everything you do will be perfect.
00:50:11.000EasyMoneySniper says, Sethfellas, can you guys recommend any real estate rental property invested on books, WFNF? I recommend Set for Life.
00:50:17.000It's a pretty good-to-read book for anyone that works as an employee job.
00:50:38.000You know, I've always said obsession is a term that Lazy used to describe the dedicated, and that's just what they do.
00:50:48.000It's like they look at someone who is very successful and he has weird little quirks or whatever about him, and they're like, oh, this guy's weird, but it's like, yeah, that's exactly why he makes more money than you and more successful than you, stupid.
00:51:02.000When people tell me not to post that, not to do this, not to do this, I'm like, bro, if I posted content that you fully agreed with, I would smack myself.
00:51:11.000It'd be the dumbest thing to make sure all you guys agreed with me.
00:51:40.000Yeah, I mean, you just gotta understand that wildly successful people have quirky, strange behavior patterns that you might not necessarily align with or be like, what the fuck is this?
00:51:49.000But that's exactly and precisely why they're where they're at and why you're where you're at.
00:51:54.000The first time I heard Ilama speak, I was like, God damn, I think he's a fucking billionaire.
00:51:59.000I'll tell you what's funny, Elon Musk doesn't care if he's couchsurfing on his friend's apartment because he's focused on what he's doing at that time.
00:52:06.000It's just like Steve Jobs did not care about any furniture in his house.
00:52:41.000If you have success, I think you should share it.
00:52:43.000You should almost fly a flag that shows your success.
00:52:46.000Most of those guys are in those positions.
00:52:48.000They don't do those things because they're too busy fucking doing their job.
00:52:51.000Like Jeff Bezos does not go and do like masterminds and shit like that because he's too busy making fucking money or Elon Musk goes and does what he does because he's too busy doing his thing.
00:52:58.000You know why they don't want to do it?
00:54:36.000Yeah, for me the the transition was because I was still like when Wes did something similar where he was posting every day on social media even before he got out of jail I was very heavy on social media before I got out of the military and I was actually like working in nightlife part-time So the transition wasn't as hard the thing is like you can become irrelevant if you want But you can choose to stay relevant even when you're in the military.
00:54:57.000It's up to you You just have to be a little bit more careful about the stuff that you post Honestly, I don't like 99.9% of people.
00:55:18.000I'm so triggered and so bothered by how big a pussies everyone is that I have to create people that I can genuinely look at and say I respect this man right here and not have to be fake.
00:55:31.000So everyone I don't respect I tell the truth to.
00:55:34.000I don't fucking like anything that you do.
00:56:17.000I'm like, you're gonna have to create people and build people up.
00:56:20.000And that's what self transcendence is.
00:56:22.000Like everybody's in a phase of self-actualization, making themselves awesome, building the best version of themself.
00:56:27.000But once you fully transcend self and you realize you've put the work in for a very long time, your next job, Either you're going to sit there and critique everyone around you, and it's going to erode your mindset, and your mood's going to just always be pessimistic, or you're going to take it upon yourself,
00:56:43.000extreme accountability, to change what's in those people so that you can genuinely respect them.
00:56:48.000And most people are just massive liars.
00:56:50.000They don't respect much about themselves or people around them, but they just lie.
00:56:56.000It was eroding my mindset to be around weak fucking people, so I just had to weed them out by telling the truth all the time.
00:57:04.000Yeah, I mean, the biggest thing you're going to have to acclimate to is just you've got to understand that most people are normies and you're just not going to want to be like them.
00:57:10.000The worst thing you could be is normal, right?
00:57:11.000People say, oh, well, you're just a normal guy.
00:58:35.000I know, but the best part is, you idiots don't realize, when my cars have Montana plates, you can't finance a vehicle and put it under a Montana title.
00:58:46.000The car has to be purchased outright to have Montana plates.
00:58:49.000When you see supercars around here, and you see these other vehicles, and you see my Phantom out front with Montana plates, a Mansory Phantom, my G-Wagon with Montana plates, every other one of my cars with Montana plates, what is it?
00:59:53.000When you believe you're supposed to pull up like that, that's what all you motherfuckers need, is to really believe you're worth that shit like your boy Wes Watson, motherfucker, straight up.
01:00:57.000New surveillance footage obtained exclusively by CNN appears to corroborate some of the allegations of abuse against music mogul Sean Diddy Combs.
01:01:06.000The video, captured on multiple cameras, shows Combs assaulting his then-girlfriend, Cassie Ventura, in a hallway at a Los Angeles hotel in March 2016.
01:01:17.000A lawsuit filed by Ventura in November last year and settled the next day referenced actions that seemed to match those seen in this video.
01:01:29.000According to the complaint, Combs became extremely intoxicated and punched Miss Ventura in the face, giving her a black eye, which according to the lawsuit prompted Ventura to try and leave the hotel room.
01:01:42.000The surveillance video obtained by CNN begins as she enters the hallway.
01:02:44.000Ventura declined to comment on the video, but her attorney told CNN the gut-wrenching video has only further confirmed the disturbing and predatory behavior of Mr.
01:02:56.000Words cannot express the courage and fortitude that Ms.
01:03:00.000Ventura has shown in coming forward to bring this to light.
01:03:03.000The video hasn't been seen publicly before and comes on the heels of a series of civil lawsuits alleging Combs' involvement in sex trafficking and sexual abuse.
01:04:26.000The point is, you guys don't understand.
01:04:29.000You shouldn't be doing it in any way unless a girl has a knife to my son.
01:04:33.000That's the only way I'm hitting a woman.
01:04:35.000But what I'm saying is, in this case, I keep trying to tell people, in your house, you should have cameras in case somebody tries to run some bullshit and say you did such and such.
01:04:44.000I was going to go that route, but people talk so much shit.
01:04:46.000I had a thing where someone tried to say that I was assaulted to one of my exes.
01:04:52.000And she's the only one who has a domestic violence restraining order on assaulting me.
01:04:56.000But I never went online talking shit because I don't do that shit.
01:04:59.000But the thing is, a lot of guys get fucking just straight...
01:05:03.000Manhandled in that situation especially and a lot of you guys who are like real low-class and you suck and your chick wants to leave anyways She's probably not gonna say that you did a bunch of fake shit But I mean guys when the chick doesn't want to leave and the guy leaves her she goes talking shit Yeah,
01:05:18.000so I mean low-level loser guys have never if you haven't had a chick say you didn't do shit Oh, he can't fuck his dick small.
01:05:27.000He has no money He's actually a queer like all this shit If you haven't had a chick say that about you, it's because she wanted to leave willingly and you're a lame.
01:05:36.000Any woman's gonna be heated if you leave her and talk shit.
01:05:50.000This video just highlights like how much things are in in the dark no pun intended for sure and Just nowadays because a camera you know social media is coming up to light and this 2016 like you said earlier Imagine now how many cameras are that's in 4k with multiple other angles Like I said before,
01:06:07.000I have cameras in my apartment in case somebody wants to say some shit happened that didn't happen, number one.
01:06:13.000And number two, whenever I go out somewhere and somebody tries to buck up to me, I immediately hand my phone to somebody and I'll be like, you gotta hit me first and we're gonna get this bitch on camera because you're not gonna come back and fucking sue me later.
01:06:23.000They'll still sue you even if they attack you.
01:07:58.000There's a financial investment in there.
01:08:01.000We know from looking at studies, et cetera, as well, when there's domestic violence, most of the time, it's both parties attacking each other.
01:08:09.000It's actually very rare it was just a guy attacking a woman.
01:08:12.000It's usually both parties attacking each other in most cases.
01:08:15.000And then on top of that, also, I think the big reason why, because if you guys remember, she launched this lawsuit on him and, like, In 24 hours he capitulated.
01:08:23.000And I was in my head like, wow, she must have had some shit.
01:08:25.000I guarantee this video is part of the discovery.
01:08:27.000And she probably showed it to him like, hey, we got this video.
01:08:39.000And this was probably given to the feds as well.
01:08:42.000Because I know for a fact Cassie probably cooperated with the feds on their investigation.
01:08:45.000So it could easily have been leaked by law enforcement, could have been leaked by the U.S. Attorney's Office, by prosecutors, whatever the fuck it is.
01:08:53.000But you best believe that Cassie's legal team probably had this footage and she used it to get them to capitulate.
01:08:58.000So being former HSI, do you think the hotel was paid off by they need to keep it hidden until now?
01:09:04.000Or do you think they had it from before and it just didn't drop it?
01:09:06.000I think Cassie probably, if she's smart, well, no, I already know this.
01:09:45.000Like a lot of dudes who are always snitching on themselves.
01:09:47.000Whoever you're friends with now or whoever you're dating now, when you're not friends with them anymore, all of your secrets are up for sale.
01:09:54.000This is something I learned in the intelligence community.
01:09:56.000It's like, while all of a sudden you're not cool with that person anymore, like if I go up to a girl and she used to be friends with some other girl, She...
01:10:02.000They just can't wait to fucking tell me all the secrets.
01:10:08.000As soon as your closest friend isn't your closest friend anymore, everything you ever told them in confidence is up for the highest bidder.
01:11:31.000Yeah, and that's why alcohol is a devil.
01:11:34.000And also, stoicism is like when you're dealing with a woman that you're in a romantic relationship with, you don't sit there and argue and cause a huge issue.
01:11:40.000I mean, even in your situation, this bitch tried to call you, right, and get you to say some shit, and you were really calm on the phone.
01:11:46.000Okay, well, if you don't want to do that, then that's fine.
01:11:59.000So I think with Diddy, him chasing after her like that, right, and doing all that stupid shit, number one, it shows the, you know, the evil of alcohol.
01:12:06.000And then number two, shows a lack of stoicism, which is bringing him a lot of trouble now.
01:12:11.000I would argue this is a major L. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:12:14.000Now, we've all taken L's on this platform here, all of us here.
01:12:17.000And someone watching here could say, you know what?
01:12:39.000The other thing you need to understand is every time I tell my guys, when you're texting a girl, if a girl sends me nudes, I'm like, go with God.
01:13:53.000You've got to be even more careful with the stuff that you do.
01:13:56.000I made a joke on X. I said, check me out on Unplayed FedEx, by the way, on X. I said, he chased after her because she said, all eyes on me is better than ready to die.
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01:16:24.000I just don't believe once a girl hits you, bro, it's dead, man.
01:16:27.000Because what you don't get, dude, is once you get into a physically abusive relationship with a girl, obviously what you guys saw with the Diddy situation, that's what's going to end up at the end of it.
01:16:37.000Because what you've effectively shown to that, well, number one, if she hits you in the first place, she'll respect you.
01:16:42.000And then number two, you're just setting yourself up for, you're cruising for a bruising, because what might end up happening is you, she could hit you in the future, you could like, just push her off you to defend yourself, and then she'll call the cops, they're gonna take your dumb ass to jail.
01:16:55.000Most states have a mandatory arrest clause, man, so it's like...
01:18:14.000Just type in the Rational Mail, and you'll find all of them.
01:18:16.000And if you want to contact me, you can find me on, I'm mostly active on Twitter, so I am Rational Mail, the Rational Mail, or Roll Tomasi at Rational Mail.
01:19:28.000And I think it's important also, it's the voice that comes to you when you're not on drugs or alcohol or whatever, man.
01:19:34.000It's really important to be sober, man.
01:19:36.000You don't earn any of, you don't tap, you're not an antenna, you don't tap into these messages and the voice that you should be hearing to guide you through life if you're fucking around with drugs, alcohol, or even overeating or anything like that.
01:19:48.000Anything that's not aligned with you being a great advocate of the message.
01:19:52.000So once you're a proper advocate to actually deliver this message on earth, you start hearing it greater.
01:19:57.000And that's why everyone always, they always trip on like why religious people become so successful.