JustPearlyThings - May 08, 2023


46 Year Old Bimbo Got DESTROYED With Statistics


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Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

186.93996

Word Count

1,669

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

13

Hate Speech Sentences

2


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 topic is what would you give up for the right guy and men what would you expect the right girl to
00:00:07.040 give up for you so um what do you give up in a relationship well i have a lot to give
00:00:18.080 so it's a lot to sacrifice because i'm a person of faith i do follow traditional values of faith
00:00:24.960 so there's a lot of me on the line for me to give up and um yeah it's uh it's obviously the
00:00:34.960 sexual side so i uh you know in christian faith you you wait until marriage okay so i'm willing
00:00:44.080 to wait for that man that high value man yeah and that's a lot to give up okay so you would
00:00:52.080 give up waiting for marriage or like not give it um you would like have him wait oh i wouldn't
00:00:58.320 give that oh okay i understood this yeah yeah i'm so sorry i said i understood this yeah so i'm saying
00:01:02.960 like for the right guy what would you let's trace back no no no i would never give up this for any
00:01:09.600 high value man waiting till marriage yeah okay are you a virgin yeah oh really yeah i never thought i
00:01:17.520 would disclose this so publicly but yeah oh okay okay so you want to wait until you're married yeah
00:01:23.360 okay um would you give up let's say like social media yeah that wouldn't be a problem yeah i would
00:01:31.120 give up wait hold on that's actually really good i think i think in that culture is that's what they
00:01:39.360 have to do so i think when she has to um do certain things that they have to give up social media they
00:01:48.080 can't present themselves in certain ways so i think when you say would you give up a high-end man
00:01:54.960 then we have to look at it prospectively above board as how would we do that of women of different
00:02:00.560 cultures so her culture they wouldn't be able to do that well you guys don't have social media no i'm on
00:02:08.560 social media but uh yeah i grew up in a sudanese arabic culture which is very strict however i lived
00:02:15.200 most of my life in germany i live here in a very modern society so i did get influenced from here
00:02:20.880 as well not just from my background but um and in terms of i think it's not the it's high value men
00:02:28.000 we were speaking about this earlier pearl and i would love to have your perspective as well as what how
00:02:32.240 do you define a high value man and how do you define a modern woman because the way i define a high
00:02:37.360 value man may be very different than you define it and then they define it so the way i define a
00:02:42.960 high value man is somebody who is faith driven uh who is a respectable who's got um yeah he's got
00:02:50.960 integrity so it's values but it's also he definitely has to have a job for sure make money but um there's
00:02:59.760 other aspects that i look for in high value men for me to give up something anything what does he bring to
00:03:05.760 the table as well well so i would define high value men as the men that women pick so like the men that
00:03:12.640 women routinely go after and choose um and kevin samuels actually is the one who coined that term so he
00:03:19.040 he laid it out um it's 10k per month he has to have had that for three to five years um other men must
00:03:27.280 accept him as high value he has to have a network of high value men he has to be linked in visibility
00:03:32.080 level and he must be useful to others in the group so that's the definition yeah yeah but we have to
00:03:39.760 take into account different cultures different people's lifestyles how you his is his lifestyle
00:03:47.120 that's not my lifestyle that's not her lifestyle that's not his or his or different cultures so
00:03:53.440 we can have a statistic that says that but you can't truly say that and i think we need to be open
00:04:00.160 when we ask that question because we live in a very diverse world right now i can't truly say that
00:04:05.840 um because women only swipe right five percent of the time on dating apps and we typically pick the
00:04:10.480 same men um so i would say i would go on a dating app and i would never pick my manner dating up and i
00:04:17.120 mean if you if you even at a bar you see women approach or like go after the same type of guys
00:04:23.200 how would you know that unless you're the average woman yeah no no no i don't know how would you know that
00:04:27.840 unless you ask that person that was going to the bar what type of guy are you approached to i can
00:04:33.520 watch you can see who they go after so where do your statistics come from um so where where do my
00:04:39.120 stats come from there's different studies that talk about this it's pretty cut and dry on like tinder
00:04:43.520 bumble hand like there's so many dating and even and even if you wait wait i'm trying to answer your
00:04:48.800 question so and even if you go off of dating apps like i do it on the show where we could go through you
00:04:53.840 guys one by one and put out what you want in a guy and it's usually less than 20 percent of men i think
00:04:58.240 you're assuming that i want in a guy x y and z is that what you're saying no i'm saying in general
00:05:05.280 in general that's i think that is the key point well the average is that your average but that's why
00:05:10.880 she's saying most people are average okay well then i probably made me submit to it but i don't
00:05:16.720 get away from the topic of what people would give up um and i think it's subjective so how
00:05:21.680 would we how would we look at us and add an average woman what would you say is an average
00:05:28.080 woman then because it's not who is average average to me is going to be different to what alex
00:05:32.960 thinks is average to what gary thinks is average it's not even who is the average woman you would
00:05:37.040 want that woman to give like statistically there is an average or like in general i get that but who
00:05:43.520 sets who sets this who sets the statistics you know if you look at the statistics what
00:05:49.680 paul will say like from the dating apps which part are you asking about the women are you asking about
00:05:54.080 the high value so if i said to you i looked at statistically a thousand men and they said to me
00:06:01.440 this is what they would prefer are you going to prefer my report are you going to prefer somebody
00:06:06.080 that's going to say to you well you know what this is what i've done and this is what i've looked at
00:06:10.320 and this is what i found um i would probably go by experience and studies which are usually
00:06:17.120 pretty similar like if i put up lizzo most guys are will probably pass um but if i'm so yes yeah
00:06:27.920 over oversized women are coming back right now and i probably for for women to who
00:06:35.840 well for a man maybe not you but for a lot of men she does
00:06:44.320 sat here laughing and we sat here laughing and like
00:06:50.000 do you know the percentage of the population about how many women are oversized i don't too many do
00:06:55.760 you know too many it's like there's more well listen i work in medicine and sat on weight and stuff
00:07:02.160 and i see a lot more oversized women and they're trying and if you see the adverts that we see on
00:07:07.760 tv from marks and spencer tesco's a lot of them that doesn't mean that they're the women that men
00:07:14.480 desire and that doesn't mean so are you guys here underweight with a six ab that's that's not the
00:07:21.040 discussion here well that's what i'm asking why are you why are you asking them that no stick to
00:07:26.160 the what's your point stick to the facts because if you're commenting on oversized women you're
00:07:31.920 you're trying to decide for men what they like and you're not really in a position to do that i'm
00:07:35.840 trying to not being a man that they shouldn't be um you don't think you don't think you don't think
00:07:41.360 i'm not saying this should either you don't think you should discriminate in who you date
00:07:44.480 i don't think you should discriminate against anybody yeah but so so you want you want to
00:07:50.080 you want a short broke guy five five five okay unemployed why do there's some there's some
00:07:57.760 crackheads down the street i can set you up with okay so that might be your call i'm dead serious
00:08:03.440 well let me tell you i make my choices so i decide to choose who i want to date and i think you decide
00:08:09.280 you want to choose you on a date you do and you do right it doesn't matter what it bases on it's based
00:08:14.080 on what i like as a person as an individual we're talking about what men like well you just
00:08:21.440 discriminated everyone right now that was not the subject about the size of um women yeah we're talking
00:08:27.040 about what a man or a woman would give up for the man do you think do you think you and liz as many of
00:08:32.240 you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform if you
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