JustPearlyThings - August 05, 2023


Based Woman Tries Explaining This To Modern Women


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10 minutes

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181.42485

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00:00:00.000 you don't think good wives know that you know we can be crazy we can be emotional so we put
00:00:05.360 the family before us feelings yeah yeah yeah anyone disagree with that no okay okay so good
00:00:13.920 wives have sex even when they don't want to yes or no i think that's a connection
00:00:18.160 yes yes she doesn't she's fighting it she's fighting it it's hard because i don't agree with
00:00:33.520 it so yeah i'll say yeah yeah but you guys are saying yeah but but i i it depends on what kind
00:00:43.520 of time of frame you're like time frame that you're talking about if you just mean in general
00:00:49.600 yeah they should even if you're not feeling totally up to it but you haven't had it in a while it's a
00:00:56.320 respect thing like you're married to them give like i would want the same from them so yeah back and
00:01:03.200 forth in it but if there was some underlying i know irish wouldn't we get a london slang
00:01:11.600 but yeah yeah i think if if it's a just you know it's a back and forth in it like you have to
00:01:21.120 another question okay how many meals if we're talking a student the best wives how many meals
00:01:28.000 should a good wife cook for her husband a day a good a student no how many one oh that's an a
00:01:39.360 okay what about you one one that's an a student okay i'm gonna say two that's okay that's an a a
00:01:46.080 okay how many meals yeah how many meals there's three minutes lunch and dinner yeah how many meals and
00:01:51.680 snacks snacks you're actually getting up for breakfast you're gonna oh are you sometimes um
00:02:01.600 i'm gonna say it's one and a half like
00:02:06.080 you do the prep he does the cook yeah all right what about you um i quite like cooking so i do three
00:02:12.320 three good wife okay don't what would you say that a good husband pays 100 of the bills a plus husband
00:02:22.160 no no no a plus like like this is the the ideal like again we're always i'm talking about i do
00:02:28.000 ideal i don't think you should pay for everything like okay okay i think his money is our money my
00:02:35.040 money is my money and his money is your money high five oh no i'm sorry but i found the day way that's
00:02:42.800 way okay do good wives look at their money as the family money or is their own money
00:02:48.480 the a plus wives family family yeah like where does this where does this meant like you don't
00:02:56.240 think that's a selfish mentality it is yeah it is if i if i can't be a's in everything it's all
00:03:03.520 oh my god good yeah so like um if my husband has money and i have money like it's for the family okay
00:03:10.080 basically and you you high-fived her why why um because i kind of agree with that like yeah like
00:03:20.400 my money is my money he knows that i can do what i want with that obviously because i'm a good wife
00:03:26.480 i am gonna invest that in yeah i'm gonna i'm not gonna spend it i'm probably gonna invest it in my
00:03:30.720 kids i'll maybe have like 20 for me to go get my hair done i gotta look good for my man you know
00:03:36.560 of course so would you anyway can i can i in return he gets one meal a day
00:03:43.360 he's gonna have to buy the food he gets one meal a day all right he gets two he gets lunch and
00:03:48.560 dinner but breakfast is off the cards i wake up late so would you spoil your man would you spoil
00:03:54.720 your man yeah because you said that your money is your own so would you just spend it yourself or
00:03:58.240 you would you know i'm gonna spoil my man spoil my man what do you mean like special occasions
00:04:03.360 you know you see something that he really likes you're like you know what i'm gonna get this one
00:04:09.440 yeah yeah with my money are you gonna are you gonna buy it and let's say yeah what's an expensive
00:04:14.480 watch like buy him a nice watch listen honestly if i'm making that type of money i will buy him his
00:04:20.640 favorite one yeah okay now another question do good wives give up their careers for their children
00:04:25.600 i think yes yes yes yes she doesn't like it definitely yes no i don't i'm talking a plot
00:04:35.920 remember this is i'm not saying everyone's got to be an a student and everything no no i don't give up
00:04:41.200 your careers no good good wives should go to work instead of spend time with their kids no for a
00:04:47.200 certain amount of time yeah you know i get it you know staying home with your kid but definitely going
00:04:52.720 back i mean so i'm talking about when push comes to shove your kids need you yeah so if you're gonna
00:04:58.720 have children they should always come first regardless whether you're a man or woman i totally
00:05:03.280 i mean yeah yeah okay this is this is the problem with society at the minute this is the problem with
00:05:09.040 society now no but it is they they have children and they focus on career if you want to have a child
00:05:17.200 you're gonna have to sacrifice whether you're a man or a woman you have to sacrifice because so many
00:05:22.640 children so many children are emotionally neglected because they're passed off to to nannies or they're
00:05:28.880 passed off to au pairs yeah and if you're willing to have a child you need to have the financial
00:05:34.640 support to be able to go i'm going to take a step back i'm not going to quit work you don't have to
00:05:38.960 quit it yeah just take a step back to be able to go this child needs me emotionally for the next 17 years
00:05:45.360 of its life you know what i mean the gestation period of humans is much longer good good wives
00:05:54.320 are happy to give up their careers to spend more time with their children yes okay yeah okay yes you
00:06:01.440 agree yes yeah okay why why aren't you why wouldn't like why wouldn't you be to give up your like i'm
00:06:07.440 just curious like why why wouldn't you want to give up your career for a kid i mean i of course i would
00:06:12.880 like in the beginning they're growing up i have to be there um but i don't believe in like completely
00:06:18.960 cutting off your career just because of your kid of course you love your child that is do you get
00:06:24.240 that's you you gave birth to that child i understand that but completely neglecting your career something
00:06:29.760 that you've like worked for maybe you've gone to university um you know you've you're driven in this
00:06:35.920 you love it and you've given it up i just don't believe in that why you know because why would
00:06:41.360 you do because your family is more important yeah 100 it is like you're gonna and you wanted this
00:06:46.640 family right yeah most of the time you can come back to it though yeah but not for 17 years i'm not
00:06:51.360 going to take a break oh no no i i never say i never say just drop the career you shouldn't you
00:06:56.880 don't think good wives would want to like good wives if they could take 17 18 years off to raise the kids
00:07:02.640 what's so good about i mean a lot of jobs are pretty crap anyway to be honest i mean what's so
00:07:06.800 good about like we're the only species on the planet that work and paid to live on the earth
00:07:15.440 if you're going to raise something that's so natural you should be willing to drop some of
00:07:19.680 that materialistic aspect i don't think you're if you have the support surrounding it but i think it
00:07:24.480 works both for a man and a woman i don't think you should if if you're a single dad you should and
00:07:30.000 you have the financial support there you should definitely want to spend more time with your
00:07:33.680 child and maybe put your career as a second second best yeah i mean surely what is the ultimate
00:07:40.320 purpose that we're on this planet it's it's it's other people isn't it it's children it's family it's
00:07:45.200 all of those things right i mean so so why is any of us why is any of us men or women why are we
00:07:50.880 saying oh just going to work in a cubicle is more important than that you know i have another
00:07:56.000 statement okay good wives don't leave no matter what i'll give you please don't say abuse please
00:08:06.400 i will give you no i will give you abuse but good you know what good wives believe in separations they
00:08:14.640 don't believe in divorce what do you mean when you say separation you mean they would separate do you
00:08:21.520 mean legally basically living in the same house but not being married that's pointless like connect
00:08:27.600 emotionally i i had that growing up i had that growing up with my parents and i and i that's
00:08:32.800 normal to me actually no i have to say that's more painful it was definitely the minute they they got
00:08:38.560 divorced for me it was as a child it was so much nice saying not you don't legally get divorced but i i'm
00:08:46.080 saying yeah but you live separate in two different houses so that's basically the same no sometimes
00:08:50.720 you live in the house yeah that's how we were we lived in the house that's what happened to me
00:08:58.160 so tell me your thoughts do good wives leave yes or no and good wives only believe in separation
00:09:02.560 they don't believe in divorce you can go it's all right you can disagree that's what do you what
00:09:06.960 do you think tell me why you're um i mean if you want to leave leave honestly it doesn't make you a bad
00:09:14.880 person i just just leave like if i don't know it can be really it or this or you're just not feeling
00:09:21.760 anymore like both of you it's a mutual thing or okay just leave i don't believe in that separation so
00:09:26.640 a good wife can leave yeah okay go ahead uh yeah i do agree with you um only because based of my
00:09:36.240 personal experience and watching my parents be like that i always grew up wanting them to actually get
00:09:42.240 a divorce because it was so damaging to us as children so i feel like life is way too short to
00:09:50.880 stay in a marriage with someone that you are not happy with and to continue living a miserable life
00:09:57.360 yeah why why put yourself through that why put your kids through that as well if kids are involved as
00:10:02.080 well so i do think you can still be a good wife but you can also leave
00:10:14.720 you