Bimbo Tries To Check Aunty Jenny
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Summary
In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the discuss the difference between being a 'traditional' woman and a 'modern' woman. Do you have to be married to be a traditional? Do you need to be in a relationship to be considered 'traditional'? Is sex outside of marriage a part of being a traditional woman?
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No, I'm saying was this date before you met your this partner?
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And what have I said to you that it was a date when I had my partner?
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No, but you're asking for a stupid reason because it should.
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No, because you said old people, because obviously I'm trying to say.
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No, no, but I just thought that you went, like, obviously if you went in your even early
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It's only because you said, oh, as old people, you know, you didn't know what the back was.
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No, what I'm saying is that you're missing the point.
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Because if I'm saying to you that I'm in a relationship and I've been on a date, you're
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No, because you're saying you're a traditional woman, so I know that's not the facts, right?
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I'd say that I'm old and I've got a bit of wisdom.
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Because traditional means that you have sex in a marriage and that you're married.
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I might behave traditional, but I'm not traditional.
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Only because obviously when you were saying being a traditional woman is better, whatever,
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I was asking you because when you said about the modern and the traditional.
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Because you stand a dance of being traditional because you're married.
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But as far as I'm concerned, when you're not married, when you get divorced and you move on,
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You've got a chance to be traditional because you've got a ring.
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If you get divorced now, in my view, you're not traditional anymore because you're divorced.
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So between you and me, I would say traditional values doesn't make you traditional.
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Can you be traditional again even after a divorce?
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If you get married again, will you then be a traditional woman?
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No, traditional is you're a virgin and then you get married.
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I have traditional values as in I prefer like old school.
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I don't like all the dating apps and stuff like that.
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But I wouldn't be able to say I am traditional because I've had sex out of wedlock.
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I have a very modern life, but I just deep down it's when it comes to love and stuff like
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So I have a question for the panel, for the ladies actually.
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If a guy had everything you wanted, could you look past him stepping out from time to time?
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Not, not another wife, not another like main chick.
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You need to weigh up what options you would have because yeah, he might be cheating every
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You want him to be with you, but you have everything you want.
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But also getting everything you want should you then sacrifice happiness that is cheating
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You know, wouldn't you rather be with someone that isn't cheating on you and maybe gives you
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some things you want and then you work for the other things you want yourself.
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See, I would rather have my partner have a full partner than have women.
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I think, I do not like seeing in this day and age, I feel like the realest no bullshit
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thing is whether a man has money, whether he has a Porsche, whether he has whatever,
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That's the, like, if I'd be lying to myself, if I said to this question that I was going
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to say, you know, oh no, I'd rather have a man that doesn't cheat because if I go to
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the man that I think doesn't cheat, he's going to cheat as well.
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But like, Arnie's generation, she's that bit older where it makes that difference.
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It's very, very, very rare that I'm going to find a man that's not going to cheat.
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One out of three men are virgins or haven't had sex in the past year, but it's just the
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Like, is it just in England or is it the whole?
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Like, I think when people have more options, like women sleep with a smaller and smaller percentage
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But like, like in the countryside, the men are a lot more traditional.
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I've come from Lincolnshire and I can promise you now is 10 times worse.
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Like we're out by the seaside or you can be out in the sticks, like middle of nowhere.
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I don't, I don't necessarily like think all men, like my dad's like top 1% earner.
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And so like, you kind of have to be realistic with what your like values are.
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And especially if you want a guy that's like really good looking and gets girls.
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No one here, other than auntie, maybe Eddie, just about myself, just about, has the life experience to say that all men cheat.
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When you're 23, you've, you've hardly lived an adult life.
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But I'm saying for my generation, I'm not, do you get it?
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So to say that all men cheat at 23, it's like you're setting yourself up.
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And can I just say that when Po asked that question, she said if a man had everything that you want.
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None of that thought about, you know, I'm thinking, can he fix the sink?
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No, but the first thing I actually thought was, is that everything I want?
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You see the cheating part, is that something I want?
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Is that something you should give up your happiness for?
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So I know in myself, if I find a man like that and he cheats, I'm not going to be feeling
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I might just, you know, I might just turn around just because, but I will say this, when
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like what auntie said, when Pearl asked that question, a lot of people think of materialistic
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Is he giving me financial freedom without me working for it?
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The generation in general, it was always straight away money.
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But like, see, see me as personally, I make my own money.
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Do you get all these things that a man I'm asking for, I've got myself.
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I claim universal credit and I'm asking for a man with a fucking Ferrari.
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So why is it that, you know, I can't ask for a man with the same level as me, as well
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Why do I have to say I want love from a man in a relationship?
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I feel like it should go without saying all these attributes, like loyalty, all of that.
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The standard has been changed and outlined by a younger generation of women that the standard
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the standard is you have to have materialistic things.
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Men adjust themselves to accommodate the women in society because their biological response is to breed.
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Women get BBLs and surgery for men to look at them, but they'll say it's for them.
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No, you did it because you want a guy to tell you.
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You're playing into a man's biology, but then you're angry when a man talks to you that you don't like.
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But if it's the average guy down the road driving a, I don't know what, or riding a bike, it's not for you.
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