JustPearlyThings - June 12, 2023


Cat Woman HATES ANDREW TATE for THIS!


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

227.20854

Word Count

2,199

Sentence Count

1

Hate Speech Sentences

13


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 when's the difference between good business and manipulation because let's say you work in a nine
00:00:05.620 to five job and your managers suggest if you don't do a task properly you're going to be in trouble
00:00:11.100 so would you agree that's some form of mental abuse or does that not make the the sort of
00:00:16.300 because that causes a lot of stress that can put someone in a certain way but as soon as we um
00:00:21.480 come away from the work aspect and it comes a bit more personal why do the why do things change in
00:00:27.320 that respect i think everyone has a motive like you can kind of throw it with the work example you
00:00:32.340 just had if you're working a nine to five and if you haven't done your work which is like in your
00:00:36.080 contract and there's naturally there's going to be backlash because you're being paid to work if
00:00:40.540 you're taking that same stance for being at home for example and it's like your husband or wife said
00:00:46.340 oh if i come home and the washing up isn't done then there's going to be consequences but it's the
00:00:50.460 same concept i'm saying your manager's saying to you before you even started the task if you don't
00:00:54.860 do this you could possibly be fired so is that not a form of abuse i think i think i think we
00:01:00.680 obviously again this is the lovely thing about having these debates because there's different
00:01:03.980 definitions right for me personally i think if it's at the detriment to someone's human dignity yeah
00:01:09.420 yeah that's abuse so dignity as in like then what is your is your well-being or earning money on the
00:01:15.880 day so i definitely define that as abuse anyone at work that will tell me something's going to happen
00:01:20.600 to me before i've even done it but then we we make it a lot more different when it comes to
00:01:25.380 relationships and i'm not saying that that's what you ladies are fighting for but i just find it
00:01:29.120 interesting that's what we do as humans yeah i think humans are super complex this is why it's a great
00:01:33.820 thing to discuss emotional abuse and involves attempts to frighten control or isolate you that's
00:01:40.080 what they says online it's cool so about that definition everything everyone's kind of said
00:01:45.040 does fit into it i wouldn't say lying that would really fit into it i mean but i mean what's the
00:01:51.400 line what's the ends yeah well i think then and this is why your point about intention comes up
00:01:57.420 you know intention what do you mean so tam was making a point about kind of like motivation and
00:02:03.900 intention behind stuff so i guess is the lie to exert a sense of control yeah power i think i think
00:02:13.500 intentions is stupid because you're never going to know someone's intentions so you can't you can't
00:02:19.300 mind read you can't mind read someone's intentions right i think sometimes some people don't even know
00:02:24.940 what their intent is yeah but i would even i would argue with you i'd say uh intention does matter
00:02:29.680 like to say who cares is is not it's not fair because even like in the law intention matters
00:02:35.080 like if you slip and fall and someone dies as a result you didn't intend to do that you don't go
00:02:39.780 to jail in the same way that if you plan that so i think intention matters figuring that out is a
00:02:44.440 different thing but it's hard it's i wouldn't agree with you to say it doesn't matter who cares
00:02:48.780 yeah i guess because for example let's say you're walking and say you're at carnival um someone throws a
00:02:56.440 bottle at you at one of us it hits your head and then you're oh my gosh i'm i'm hurt right now and
00:03:02.340 they say oh there's no intention there it was an accident it doesn't matter i guess does it matter
00:03:06.440 how do you feel at that i guess you're right in the eyes of the law but like i just think the results
00:03:10.740 matter yeah like i don't really give a shit like okay if somebody hit me with their car on accident
00:03:15.740 or on purpose i don't give a shit i got hit by a car yeah because that comes the same so and you're in
00:03:22.500 the eyes of the law sure but just personally i'm like i don't really give a shit yeah yeah you hit
00:03:27.500 the nail on the head there you hit the nail on the head because the outcome is the same which is pain
00:03:31.620 no no but let's let's try this i like what you said because so you know let's use that with the
00:03:35.820 andrew tape situation like if he's intentionally trying to like mentally or whatever abuse someone
00:03:40.640 we can say he's an asshole but if he's just like walking home and saying like hey like i have this car
00:03:46.120 this whatever and someone's you know persuaded in a certain way and that might be abuse or whatever i mean
00:03:51.780 he's not an asshole in that sense i would just disagree that he mentally abused anyone he allowed
00:03:56.140 those women to be millionaires i mean i'm not i'm not even yeah i'm so curious because this is why
00:04:01.140 this is such a great conversation you seem to be like quite a proponent of some of his viewpoints
00:04:06.020 what is it that you like about the things that he's saying um i think that he i think a lot of the
00:04:12.460 stuff he says makes sense like for example he talks about how men and women are different and they
00:04:16.020 have different roles i think a lot of times in society we have women that want to be men and men that
00:04:20.260 want to be women and i think it leads to people being unhappy in the long term and it's a lot of
00:04:23.720 bad advice um and he just says that men are different and women are different um i think he
00:04:29.080 says a lot of things that are true they're uncomfortable like old women are less desirable
00:04:33.040 women that have slept around are less desirable but it's true no dude wants a girl that's been ran
00:04:37.300 through by the whole football team they just don't in general um i mean there's exceptions but i think
00:04:44.420 like he's at least honest okay um and i'll second that he's merely stating things that most of society
00:04:51.040 thinks behind closed doors so and to then point your finger at him and be like you shouldn't be
00:04:56.260 saying that i think is very hypocritical because there's a lot of influencers there stating their
00:05:01.080 views i think there's a there's a young lady that's being compared does anyone know her name i think
00:05:06.100 she's latina descent and she's really big on tiktok and she's making statements about men left right
00:05:12.240 and center and no no banning of any sorts been going on but i think yes he's he's extreme in how
00:05:18.260 he says it but this is what people think but you know sometimes it's an like goes back to the saying
00:05:23.080 it's not about what you say it's how you say it and sometimes when your delivery is very
00:05:27.260 straightforward very aggressive very you know straight to the point sometimes it comes across
00:05:31.800 quite aggressive and people will just be like oh just write you off straight away whereas if your
00:05:35.380 delivery was a bit different i wonder if andrew tate's delivery was different if people would
00:05:39.960 if he wouldn't wouldn't have been banned on social media and if he would have taken him differently
00:05:44.380 i think that's a woman's point of view i think that's a woman's point of view though because men
00:05:48.140 communicate differently than women yeah and again it goes back to like women trying to make men
00:05:52.780 women but they're not they're men yeah and then communicate differently than women they're more
00:05:57.700 direct they're more honest typically i mean like how many times like i mean i've had so many
00:06:03.000 girls on the show tell me that lizzo is like above a five which is just like crazy it's lizzo
00:06:09.740 but every i think everyone's scale is different at the end of the day what your five is someone else
00:06:16.340 yeah someone else yeah i mean i think i think objectively like if you're 300 pounds you're below
00:06:22.460 a five that's your opinion though that's your opinion i mean it's that's your opinion but it's based
00:06:28.840 off of reality which women don't like to live in because even this is like not reality and you know
00:06:33.920 it on some level because you know if you walk into a bar with lizzo you guys are all going to get more
00:06:37.480 attention than lizzo like not necessarily like if you're looking for exceptions it's not the rule
00:06:42.220 like you could take you could take you could take dating app data where we like let's like put your
00:06:46.100 profile in lizzo's profile who's going to get more attention it's going to be you we could go to
00:06:49.640 a modeling con a modeling agency and say who are they going to sign you or lizzo in general unless you do
00:06:53.900 that victoria's secret type like you know the new the new body positivity type shit i know again
00:06:58.520 again exceptions but whenever you go anywhere where there's like an objective standard of beauty where
00:07:02.560 like people are fine this the most attractive in general your you guys are all prettier than lizzo
00:07:07.480 and that's not that's my question is and i think yeah you make some again interesting points around like
00:07:12.960 it's really helpful to see that like i i don't know if you guys always see like the stats that come out
00:07:17.860 from certain dating apps don't know if i'm allowed to say certain names but they they produce these stuff
00:07:22.280 right like who comes out as the most desirable woman my question would be and modeling agencies
00:07:27.860 and modeling agencies yeah um by whose beauty standards i was just gonna say that i mean i
00:07:32.820 would say like collectively society as a whole so if you survey if you survey if you survey men and
00:07:38.260 women as well and you if you survey men and women as a whole in general in most societies
00:07:42.920 they put in london and they put in most and most societies throughout the world everywhere i guarantee
00:07:49.380 like just like just based that way let me let me finish in most societies throughout the world
00:07:53.720 everywhere if we put a picture of you guys and a picture of lizzo if you ask most guys and most
00:07:58.320 girls they would find you more attractive in west africa and except yeah they always this is what
00:08:02.940 this is what girls do like so i've been doing this a couple months not you personally but like
00:08:07.000 like this is what they'll do they'll bring up the one exception in that one society in in west
00:08:11.860 africa you're right there's one society in west africa where that is the exception
00:08:15.760 but everywhere else that is the rule i think that's such a eurocentric way of viewing beauty
00:08:22.040 you look at the size of africa it's look at the size of europe i won't even do all that i won't
00:08:25.900 even do all that i think what we can also look at is just beauty standards shift right like i was
00:08:30.200 10 years ago having a like a fat ass was like okay you but nowadays it's like if you don't have
00:08:35.320 a fat ass you're not attractive exactly but that stays a while wait talk talk and you're talking
00:08:39.620 to you sorry it stays a while when there's a standard set so um let's say 10 years ago being
00:08:44.800 a supermodel model thin was in fashion it will stay there for a little bit then there come another
00:08:49.180 trend yeah it's not like it just changes but but but the point i'm making is that the issue that i'm
00:08:54.320 having is and i agree with you it's weird i didn't think i was going to disagree with you as much as
00:08:58.200 i'm doing today but um when it comes down to that number of like or you're a five and below it's
00:09:03.640 like okay 10 years ago if i had a fat ass i'm a five and below but i didn't say 10 years ago i said
00:09:09.620 today but i'm just saying like it shifts so for you to say like oh like i i'm not gonna comment on
00:09:16.160 lizzo but for you to say that so definitively that if you're over this you're that i think that's
00:09:21.680 what people have a hard time dealing with and on top of that it's like we connect that what's that
00:09:25.440 five mean okay do you think do you think in most of human history okay well there probably wasn't
00:09:30.340 even women over 300 pounds in most of human history but since since the development of like
00:09:36.520 obesity has obesity ever been desired by and large by ben