@CoachGregAdams Thoughts On Love
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the difference between love and lust, why love is not meant to last, and why children are more important than love in a relationship. We also talk about why men should and should not get married.
Transcript
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Do you think do you think men should get married today?
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Should men get married? It depends on your position.
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So I tell men and a lot of people get this wrong.
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They think I'm against marriage as a principle.
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That's wrong. I'm against state sponsored marriage and I'm against men getting married without information.
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They get married, stay sponsored and they think they're getting married under God or they get married in their church or from their community.
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Then most men get married when they're in a position where they can't provide whatever they need to provide to the to the wife or the marriage.
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And then that's how they get divorced. So they get married and they have nothing.
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They have nothing but love. Our love is like no other love.
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Are you saying that doesn't last? Love? Love is love does not last. It's not intended to last.
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Love is not intended to last. Actually, most people, even people who are pushers of love will tell you that love lasts 18 months, maybe three years.
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But this is why it's important that you actually have something else to build on other than love.
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But if you want to make your decision purely on love, what happens when the love ends?
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And then you're going to have to deal with that. So this is why children are important. Right.
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So if you have love, love is basically, basically lust confusing you to procreate.
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That's nature. It gets this attachment. It feels good.
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I hope everybody experiences this. It's great. As you get older, it's less and less. For men, you'll experience it less and less. This is just how it works.
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But women use love. They use love to manipulate men into marrying them when they've already been ran through. So this is the pair bonding argument.
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So they'll say, but I love you, but she needs rent to be paid.
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That's what people, girls get so mad on my show when I say that.
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It's like they tell on themselves though because they're so angry.
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All I say is just look at the results that we have out here.
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For women, unfortunately, if your sexual partners pass a certain number, what you're doing is manipulating.
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People have to understand, love and attachment are two different things.
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And you can tell by when the relationship ends if you had an attachment or love.
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Have their feelings hurt and then they'll be indifferent to the person.
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But a person that had an attachment is like a parasite.
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They'll hate the person after they broke the attachment because the ego's involved.
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What they'll do is they'll go attack the person.
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So once the host shakes the parasite off, the parasite hates the host.
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And so you're opposed to what the parasite is like to kill the host by all means.
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And so if they loved them, because I almost think like, okay, because when I think of
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girls, like, I feel like the girl, if she hates her ex, she still loves him.
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Because you don't, like, I feel like hate is closer to love than, than like, I feel like
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if a girl doesn't talk about him, like, then she didn't care.
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So, but, but I, my rebuttal to that is you don't destroy something you love.
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Typically, if there's hate involved, she's trying to destroy, embarrass them.
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So what she'll do is drag them through divorce court, take them to child support, trying to
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penalize them and hurt him, take the kids away.
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Oh, yeah, but I'm 25, so I don't, I don't know anyone, I don't, I don't know anyone that's
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been divorced, but I'm just thinking like, like in, in my, in my, in my, in my friend
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group, I know like older people, but I wasn't kind of young, you know what I'm saying?
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The junior college, but my audience will know what that is.
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Typically under the age of 25, between the ages of primarily 18 and 26 is you, your junior
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So we were talking about, you never seen, you never divorced.
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Oh, no, no, but, but I'm thinking like people, girls my age.
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Like, I feel like if a girl hates, like, if she's like, I hate my ex, da, da, da, da,
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I guess younger women would probably have that because they have the ability to pair
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They have that pair bond or she's been imprinted by that man.
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She hates him because, um, he won't give her advantages and let her manipulate.
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You have to figure out what that is, but because you're dealing with a younger group
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of women, they still have been, these are the first few men that they've been with.
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So yeah, the hate can be generally come from love.
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Once they're older than that, 26, it comes from pure manipulation and, uh, uh, trying to
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And women evolve and you got to take the, you got to take that, man.
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Women evolve and a good predator, a good apex predator, a good apex predator evolves as
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Women don't get physical mostly in our society.
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Like think about since 200,000 years, you'd be surprised.
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But typically to survive, they've been able to get underneath survival, uh, mechanisms,
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which would be either government men, cavemen, uh, shelters.
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I mean, in any sense of the imagination, if they all had to get physical, they'd be dead.
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If there was no transactional relationship between men and women, there would be no women,
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but obviously there would be no species, right?
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So with that being said, women are survivalists and they will do things to survive, even use
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The first cave woman, you know, she might've had a nice rack or a pretty face or something
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And she, and then she figured out there's a saber tooth tiger out there.
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Do I want to keep running every day or do I want to go to the guy that got the cave up
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And not only that, physically wise, you can't run faster than I can run.
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You can't climb a tree faster than I can climb a tree.
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And by the way, you can have access to all this down here.
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So you think like at our base, we're manipulative women.
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But we're also participating in a transactional relationship.
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So when I say manipulation, manipulation doesn't mean bad.
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Like for me, I got to go out there and become, you know, a good mover of stones.
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And then I'm also going to say, I'm going to get, I'm going to be the man with the cave
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with at the highest mountain so I can get the best cave bitch or whatever.
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Otherwise, look, look, if I don't need no cave women, I wouldn't make a cave at the top
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But I, when I think of manipulation, I think of something being like dishonest about it.
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But when I think of manipulation, I think of like, I think it's manipulative to lie about
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But I think it's not manipulative if a guy is just like, you become the biggest, strongest,
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But manipulation, sometimes like you can just handle something that's called manipulation.
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When I think of that term, like I think of something's dead.
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So if I had the equivalent, it would be like a guy lying about his money.
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And people use that and they use that all the time.
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I guess I would, I don't think like a guy going to like build him up to be the best, building
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So you're saying, you're saying it's always got to be accompanied by a lie.
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I think they're basically, we're misusing the word.
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And that's because we have a negative connotation to manipulation.
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But, but, but I'm saying is what we're, what we're doing is transacting.
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We're transacting, but the manipulative part is somebody convincing us we're doing that
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That's the manipulation because look, check this out.
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Like if I knew I wasn't going to get no women, I probably be like, what's the point?
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What's the point of going out there and trying to date because look at what I'm getting.
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I'm getting hoes, scat, peeling, skeezers and whatnot.
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So check this out for women, for women, if they don't use love.
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