EX Girlfriend Turns Her Boyfriend Gay
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about dating in Miami, what dating is like in the city, and what it s like to be a woman in the modern dating culture. We also talk about why women are turning to other men to be men, and why men turn to other women to be women.
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so today i want to learn about what is dating like in miami right yes yes
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wow there's no gaydar actually going off you might you might i'm gonna i'm gonna give this
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to you she turned him gay oh she turned him think about that you're such a bad girlfriend that
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your boyfriend went yay what do you buy so he's yeah he likes both yeah does that happen no there's
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no such thing as bisexual men you're homosexual no if you like does he look show him does he
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look gay to you he doesn't look gay to me yes really what what gives it away what is it
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yeah he doesn't talk let me see yeah yeah yes yes i'm i'm telling you look at his look come
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on jesus that looks that looks great that looks crazy okay see that i said let me see i said
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the same thing but see do you see let's see all the all the men all the men could point
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it out so i guess this is why you ask the guys the way we would look at it is i wouldn't
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hang around that dude yeah i wouldn't hang out with him no i wouldn't hang around him just
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the way he looks yeah you would i'm telling you he's that person now because you already
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gave it away that's my question oh that's the reason why i mean i have three dudes i hang
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with i don't really hang around dudes anyway so yeah men no circle's really small but yeah
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like he he gives me the the radar man i just couldn't probably probably he's too beautiful
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wow you think he's too beautiful you know when a guy's like too good you think he's too
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beautiful oh yeah when a guy's like too good looking they're gay yeah but he wasn't that's
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what like he wasn't perfect how does it i don't how does it feel that like us women are doing
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so bad that the men are turning to other men to be women better thank you
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men have been uh doing this for forever yeah now it's just more open because it's accepted
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like that's why they're doing it more it's accepted by women it's accepted by no men don't accept
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but let's not forget that women are going turning into men because women are more masculine than ever
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nowadays in the west you're pointing at her but you gotta no he's making a good point okay but
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why why are women more masculine yeah why why have they been tricked by what's going on in society
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with everything that's going on it's trick no they've been put in the position on the feminist
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movement but yeah i can go on and on all night for that okay i would argue it's because um women
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have just decided to be men and we suck at being men yeah yeah yeah i don't think it's about us
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deciding to be men i think that we have literally been put in a position because men used to stick
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around men used to take care of the household no women leave overwhelmingly now now because they're
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not in a position to where they need so so now already it's already it's men's fault we're only
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like two minutes in and it's men's fault it is men's fault you know the men the men the men aren't
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hanging around in the home though because you guys started leaving like in the 70s you guys started
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most divorces are initiated by women yeah so in this day and age but men started creating single
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moms back in the 80s 90s where men started leaving relationships what percent what percent of men
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create single mothers i don't like have multiple baby mothers oh i'm not sure i don't know it's funny
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it's funny that it's men's fault it's funny that is if if it's men's fault it's because it's under
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men's control yeah so at the end exactly so at the end of the day you still need men for it to be
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their fault that's what you don't understand you don't need men to be for it to be their fault it's
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your fault because you guys are leaving the home you guys are creating you guys create and if you
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don't need if you don't need men are the ones leaving men aren't leaving if they're leaving see
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her argument her argument is that the reason a woman had to stick around in order to live the life
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that she wanted to live because like she couldn't work that's not necessarily true like there was um
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there were still instances of divorce even before the 60s i know but not as much as now because now
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we're in a better position like there's there's right now there's writings who gave you that
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position though the 1800s of women like of men complaining about divorce court it was just more
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culturally shamed honestly and women tend to go with like what the culture does so it's not it was
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really like imposed by society the culture religion and everything back then wasn't it and those
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things have slowly eroded over time and now it's kind of a free-for-all so now we're in miami and
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everyone's just partying and fucking each other and you know we're in this kind of card cardi b world
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now that we all inhabit but but no women are the ones leaving so i think so i think it's women's
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fault it's not women i don't i also don't think i also i would imagine i mean we'd have to check the
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stats of this but i i can't see that it was always men leaving back then and now it's suddenly
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majority women i think it was probably women who were getting dissatisfied in marriages even back then
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yeah i think it's both but i'm saying a lot of men were not stepping up to be fathers that's why
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we have so many women that are single mothers because men are quick to leave that's not true
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women are women are they get what what is making the men leave like they're just walking out they
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just wake up one day and say hey i'm gonna leave or is the women's the fact that they have too many
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opportunities there's only only only 10 of men report having more than one sexual partner in a
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year yeah that's what i was gonna say that so even even if you even if you even if you double it that's
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still only 20 of men like 30 30 of men and um have said that at some point in their lives they'd have
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they've had multiple sexual partners in a year but only 10 in a given year will say they've had
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multiple sexual partners but that was done that was that that was surveyed um in the past year and
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it was over 5 000 men so it was a relatively large sample size it was the united states yeah yeah see
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like i'm talking about like here in miami like in florida in florida yeah don't guys leave there's
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too many options they don't stick around well but again but i'm saying that's like only what percent
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of men even father multiple kids a lot most of them no no it's like 15 percent of men it's because
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again you guys are all swiping you're all dating the same guys so that's why so it's like if you
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want a guy that's six foot what percent of men is that 15 if you want a guy that makes six figures
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what percent of men is that 10 if you want a guy that's good looking what percent of men is that
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you only find 20 of men attractive so a guy that's got all three that's five three two percent
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so so that's my point but it doesn't take away the fact that men are leaving like men yeah but again
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you're looking at this you're looking at this student you're looking at this through the miami filter
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again though because you're saying oh men have got these opportunities and they're going to leave
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because they've got these opportunities that is really the very very top percentile of men i mean
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like five percent probably less than five percent of dudes have those opportunities a lot of those
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guys probably do live in miami or maybe they live in la or new york or whatever but the vast majority
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of men are invisible to women so the vast majority of normal dudes they don't have all these multiple
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opportunities that they think you do but you guys don't see those men because you're not you know
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you you're barely visible to you because that you're not attracted to them you don't think
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they're cool so it's not the case for most guys no i'm saying back in the um 1980s 1990s
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men the the family dynamic changed men started men started cheating a lot more they started not
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even being they get women what what evidence do you have of that it's just it's just facts no no
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it's just facts it's just facts everyone knows that like tupac even like wrote admission in one
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of his songs tupac yeah tupac tupac tupac tupac hey tupac died tupac died at 25 his brain wasn't
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even fully developed as a man tupac was young reckless and dumb that's why he got killed and
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you're basing your facts off of tupac no i'm just saying he made a statement about it when because
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he was back in that time okay what was the 90s um uh we're having a race of babies that don't
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hate the ladies or something like that you're quoting a rap yes because back then the family
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dynamic miss you're quoting the family dynamic was already disintegrating back then it's only
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gotten worse over time that's what i'm saying you know you know why the problem though i'm gonna i'm
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gonna tell you something all of this stuff is just painting a picture to lie to you and to make
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to to create a gender war and make us think that men are the problem and really we're the problem
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you know they they make millions and millions of dollars off leaving this bullshit like it's not
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i've tried to save her for the last few months she's unsavable i promise you bro both unsavable
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even if we go based off of facts right again this is a 2023 study or it's either 2023 or 2022 so
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relatively new and they they serve it 5 000 men only 10 of men report having multiple sexual
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partners in a year so it's only 10 of men that are sleeping around like that no it's not she's
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telling you the fact she's telling you a fact that she researched she took the time to research
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and you don't believe these guys went on there and said that they just said it well okay okay i'll tell
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you i'll tell you how we know it's a fact because you you use multiple data sources so then you back
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that up with dating app stats where five percent of men get most of the swipes that that backs up what
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the men are also saying then you find other other surveys that say the same thing in different areas
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it's roughly 10 maybe some you'll find 15 maybe we'll even go crazy and say it's 20. can we circle
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back real quick on when you said that most women are the ones that are leaving the relationship it's
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not men do you have an answer as to why why do you think women are choosing to leave relationships
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because they get bored and they want to something else they want the next shiny shiny bright thing
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hypergamy that is not choice you're failing hypergamy okay wait wait actually i want i want
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her to say that go say that on the mic yeah yeah so why do you why do you think why do you think women
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are leaving the reason why i think women are leaving is because back then women were put in a position
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to where well men had set the life up to where they had more power women needed a man to live the life
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or provide the life that she wanted now that women can provide the life that they want they don't have
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to stick around when a man is being disloyal disloyal to you he's not being honest he's in and
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out of the house and living life on his own accord okay also trying so so your your impression is
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that 50 50 of marriages fail right and on top of that if we included long-term relationships most
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fail do you know the statistics for how long relationships last so so it depends if it's if
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you don't if you get married it's like seven eight years if you're in just a normal relationship it's
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roughly three okay so so and your impression is that they are just disloyal men that are failing
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well no i think it's just men before women were put in a position to where they needed a man more
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now we're not in a position where we need it as much so we're so we're quicker to leave because we