JustPearlyThings - July 17, 2023


FEMINIST gets the SHOCKED by FACTS


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00:00:00.000 in a way because because i i really think it's a result of feminism because feminism implies we're
00:00:06.880 equal and and i don't think we're equal i think men are above women i think they're better at us
00:00:11.440 at everything yes why yeah because every stat shows they are name something women are better at
00:00:19.040 well it depends what you mean by men and women are equal because we're equal in the sense that
00:00:23.760 we deserve respect but in terms of our strengths for example there's been studies that have shown
00:00:27.600 that women are typically better with say empathy women are better with women are more women are
00:00:31.600 more likely to kill newborns than the elderly well women can only have abortions but if you look at
00:00:37.680 even even just newborns i mean it's estimated they killed a quarter of their kids like a hundred
00:00:42.800 years ago like this idea that women are more empathetic it's like saying it's like saying
00:00:47.120 one per one party has a gun it's not that women are more empathetic it's that typically women are
00:00:52.160 usually because of the way the female brain is wired we're more suited towards things like
00:00:55.760 cooperation that's where there's a higher level of women and things like the art but that's
00:01:00.160 that's why i think that women can only be great under the authority of men because when we're on
00:01:04.720 our own we just don't do well well we don't want to you know be like undermining women i mean we can
00:01:09.280 say that women have strengths and men have strengths as well no i'm saying like i can't think of a way
00:01:14.480 that women are their best selves without men like i think women say the same but men also need women
00:01:20.160 no so there's you can have examples of history of men that have been great did advancements in
00:01:24.960 society and didn't they like they avoided women so they could they could um like i think isaac newton
00:01:30.640 died a virgin there's some women are better at men than child's child bearing yeah i mean they but it's
00:01:35.520 equal it's equal value because men like men you need a sperm and an egg that's 50 50. so there have been
00:01:42.560 some societies for example that were matriarchal that were matrilineal in which there was a big presence of the
00:01:48.160 the mother and that was passed on by the grandmother that stood the test of time well not in the west
00:01:52.800 for example like in small tribes like for example in india in china in fact in china there's still a
00:01:58.960 tribe i think it's called the massua tribe and you have this very kind of female-led tribe and it's
00:02:04.320 not really feminist because it's not it doesn't stand the test of time though plus keyword keyword
00:02:10.000 small tribes they don't advance that's the point well yeah because they keep the whole society within
00:02:16.720 the frame of the tribe so it's not really the same but they don't but they don't advance that's the
00:02:21.200 whole point so so what i think i think that women women genuinely are not the best versions of
00:02:26.080 themselves unless they're under the authority of the men look at what happens when we raise kids by
00:02:29.440 ourselves we suck as single moms yeah well look what happens when we we try to start companies
00:02:34.080 ourselves it's like we can't even i couldn't even do what i'm doing without being in the in the building
00:02:39.440 that a man built it's like women cannot be great without men but feminism tells them that we should be
00:02:45.440 equal to men and so basically feminism is saying we are equals when they are our superiors and i
00:02:51.360 think it translates into relationships and now you have women thinking that they should be leading
00:02:55.680 relationships and having an equal say men men uh men do better work when women are watching that's
00:03:02.800 been noted and studied yes it has also as well boys as well in school are much better when there are
00:03:08.800 goals and that's absolutely that's actually not true that's absolutely the opposite uh but men
00:03:13.280 perform better at sports when there are female spectators men give more money to charity when
00:03:18.240 there are women this has been tested in fact like something like 20 females on a working team
00:03:23.360 increases the performance of the team but it really increases the performance of the males right
00:03:27.520 so you also need women for men to compete amongst themselves to be selected and to be the best
00:03:33.920 version but none of the things you mentioned actually build society where are the women watching
00:03:37.920 the men building the buildings where are the women cheering on the people come on we all work a little
00:03:41.760 harder when a girl is in the room no but where are the women where are the women you know i'm not
00:03:45.600 making that argument i'm not making i'm not making that argument yeah you know to me like the way that
00:03:50.800 i look at the way that i looked at let's say i sort of had to rationalize through this again because
00:03:54.880 you know as as we grow up we all have to like find our place in the world like where we fit in and how the
00:03:59.040 world relates to us and i had to like really think and understand like what women represented for me
00:04:04.080 i mean again a personal anecdotal thing but for me it's like women were the feedback that were sent
00:04:09.360 by the universe or by whatever higher power you believe in to tell me how i'm doing in life you
00:04:14.000 know women are for a man like women let me finish that point i'm serious i'm serious i'm serious because
00:04:21.520 like if you're a guy and women are not choosing you like that's a problem and that's your problem
00:04:27.600 like it's your damn problem if women are not choosing you right so there's definitely a feedback
00:04:32.400 mechanism that women give to men and what women are saying to a man all the time is like here's
00:04:36.880 how you're really doing man here's how you're really doing in society here's how you rank among
00:04:40.480 you know women don't have realistic standards today sure and and so i don't i don't think i'm not making
00:04:46.880 this as a relative argument saying on an absolute scale no but no but you're saying you're saying you're
00:04:50.640 saying today that women will tell you how you're doing in life so but i'm saying but i'm saying that argument
00:04:56.640 might have worked wait wait let me finish that argument might have worked a hundred years ago
00:05:01.200 but i'm saying i don't think that works today it does it's just way more polarized because women
00:05:06.240 because women um it's like our standards are crazy high we only swipe so you're telling me if we only
00:05:12.800 swipe five percent of the time on dating apps 95 of men are not good enough well so so the standards
00:05:18.800 i'm not saying the standard is fair anymore it's changed good enough used to be good enough right
00:05:22.880 good enough is not good enough anymore now there's a more sort of a binary look at this
00:05:26.720 it's like you're either in the top 10 or you're damn not right but the point is we cannot have a
00:05:31.120 function like i just don't like shitting on the average man and i don't i don't like saying like
00:05:35.040 that they're doing something wrong when we could not have a society without them like i i genuinely
00:05:40.400 think we need to be thankful for the average man and saying they're not doing good enough because they
00:05:45.040 have an average i'm not making that argument no no but you're saying that like women like will tell you if
00:05:49.360 you're doing good enough and like well good enough but therefore therefore women are are the primary
00:05:54.320 like they get to decide what's good enough but i think it's men i think men decide what's good enough
00:05:59.520 well i'm talking about like just and and also women and women criticize like we totally i mean there's
00:06:04.640 a reason they put a muzzle on all of it all everything you're saying is 100 correct i'm just saying the
00:06:09.600 outcome of it today like yes back let's say a hundred years ago more men would fit into the category of
00:06:16.080 being given some positive feedback for their contributions to life and society obviously
00:06:21.280 right obviously today's standards are skewed and and completely like delusional obviously right
00:06:28.000 obviously i'm talking from my experience growing up i had to think like why are women treating me this
00:06:32.960 way and and then at some point i have to realize well if every woman is treating me this way then maybe
00:06:37.920 i'm the problem i'm the lowest common denominator in all of these expressions okay so no i agree with you
00:06:43.280 though the standards are are completely who was it somebody said on your show maybe it was sterling
00:06:47.280 cooper that like a woman has no a man has to work four times harder to get a woman that's like
00:06:51.760 four times of lower quality than your grandfather that's 100 correct but so my my whole point is that
00:06:56.800 men and women aren't equals i think men are our superiors and i think right now we treat them in society
00:07:01.920 like we're equals when none of women all the jobs we do we could not do without men even when like like women
00:07:07.760 can be great wives and mothers but i think a woman's natural role is to be a guy's help make
00:07:13.040 whether that's in the workforce whether that's in the house like i i just think like women cannot be
00:07:17.520 the best versions of themselves unless they're under the authority of a man even even me with like
00:07:22.400 running this like my i listen to my dad like 90 of the time what he tells me to do i think the
00:07:27.280 point he makes about like women being there as a really good motivator for men is good but also
00:07:32.560 saying that men are superior to women really negates all of the qualities that women bring
00:07:36.880 because i personally think that women should learn to have more responsibility and i think this is a
00:07:40.400 problem that feminism brings it doesn't make women have responsibility actually undermines women
00:07:45.120 because it turns women into victims it says that we're victims of the patriarchy rather than teaching
00:07:49.760 women to recognize our innate feminine power and if we look at the power of women you know women do have
00:07:55.120 a level of raw power it's just a power it's not it's not saying but it's not it's not saying it's not
00:08:01.120 saying that we don't have power it's not saying that we don't have great qualities it's just saying
00:08:05.840 i i think that men in general are superior i cannot i cannot find one thing that is evidence
00:08:11.440 based that women are better at than men i was gonna say beauty pageants but that was proven wrong
00:08:16.240 recently well apparently men are better than that well you could argue monetizing beauty but usually
00:08:21.840 the only way you can monetize beauty is through things that men made the men run the industries men
00:08:28.080 run the infrastructure like if women left the workforce tomorrow men would be okay men even
00:08:33.440 raise better children there's some well men perhaps are needed to raise children for certain relationships
00:08:38.320 but women are certainly better at raising children and and before you interject i'm not i'm not making
00:08:45.440 the argument for single mothers at all i'm saying that like so let me explain something so i was
00:08:50.240 can i can ask you a question please yeah so why do you think that when the data shows that single
00:08:55.200 father homes turn out better than single mother homes i agree data definitely shows that single
00:08:59.360 father homes definitely so why would we but but i'll tell you what is so so i was doing some research
00:09:04.000 for the book i'm writing and um i was looking into the gender pay gap right and of course like women
00:09:09.440 make 76 cents of the dollar the man i'm like huh that's interesting and i started looking into more
00:09:13.200 multivariate analysis and more like actual academic studies not just some angry raging feminist writing
00:09:18.320 about things they don't like and i learned the highest paid subgroup within any subgroup were lesbians
00:09:23.680 they make way more money than anybody else i'm like oh that's interesting right well they have
00:09:26.560 some call they're disagreeable etc etc but then i looked at one other study and then i kind of
00:09:31.440 followed the trail and it said that once you introduce working hours into the working relationship
00:09:36.320 like men outwork women on average 160 hours a month and 99 of the gender wage gap can be expressed
00:09:43.680 because of the fact that men simply way outwork women and then i looked at myself i'm like i'm a worker
00:09:48.160 right like i'm high conscientious high disagreeable so i work work work work work work all the time
00:09:52.320 and like i can handle inordinate amounts of stress in my business that like most people think is insane
00:09:58.240 and then i look at my wife right and we got four kids and they're nine and down nine seven i guess
00:10:02.960 four and two and it's insanity at home and it really only takes me about 20 minutes of a screaming household
00:10:08.400 of kids before i'm like i'm going outside to sit on the porch and smoke a cigar i can't put up with this
00:10:13.120 but the patience that my wife exhibits with children and i understood something right there's a natural
00:10:18.000 ability for me to participate and act strong in my war which is my business but there's a significant
00:10:24.000 natural inclination for her to be able to put up with children she's under your authority though
00:10:28.640 correct fair but that's that's the whole point well she's just better women but no but my whole point
00:10:33.360 is women are not the best versions of ourselves unless we're under a man's authority well you could
00:10:37.840 very easily say for example in india it's rather common actually this is very common in asian societies
00:10:42.480 as well in fact most non-messen societies for the man to defer to his wife in fact this is how it
00:10:47.520 always was and actually you could turn around and say well actually men need their wives they need to
00:10:53.760 almost the factors is that in the home is that the the man does what he does to care for his wife and
00:10:59.840 you could say that is the power of the feminine that is the man defers to his wife the man does what
00:11:04.720 he does to love and care for his wife so this brings it back to the idea that men are not superior to
00:11:08.960 women and women need each other because they're supposed to i think i think men are superior to
00:11:13.760 women i think they're because every everything like well they can't have children okay but but we
00:11:19.760 can't like i'm so tired of hearing women say like because we're a godsend because we have kids dogs have
00:11:24.800 kids okay are we do we do we worship dogs do we say the dogs are are so no come on so so the the kid
00:11:31.840 part is equal we need an egg we need a sperm giving birth equal equal equal equal because and if you think
00:11:38.080 about it men can impregnate a bunch of women women can only carry one child so in a way like what what
00:11:44.720 what's really more yeah but a man doesn't go through the nine months of carrying a baby exactly that's a
00:11:49.840 lot it is carrying carrying a child is a lot but my but my my whole point is it's still equally do we
00:11:56.640 need the sperm and the egg equally yes or no it's equally because it takes two people to tango but
00:12:01.760 the woman still carries a lot more because she's if there's carrying the baby for nine months okay
00:12:07.680 she has to deal with a sickness she has to deal with and the pains and what's the man actually doing
00:12:13.600 he just should be working through that time okay but what's what's what's harder to give birth or to
00:12:19.200 raise a kid why would you want to believe that men are superior to women because i haven't given birth
00:12:24.400 but from like speaking to my friends i think giving birth is a lot like labor and everything
00:12:31.040 is crazy like they've come out of it i would argue i would argue 18 years is worse than a day
00:12:38.320 like that's that's what i would argue but i don't but like why do we have to have this gut reaction
00:12:43.280 like oh it's a bad thing if there are superiors we are your boss is your superior you're almost
00:12:48.960 power of the feminine and if you look it's not negating the power of the feminine again
00:12:53.120 your boss is your superior does that mean you hate your boss you're you're when you when you talk
00:12:58.320 to a police officer you listen to them because you look at them as we've just listed ways in which
00:13:02.880 men are not superior to women and i know you haven't you haven't listed you haven't listed anyway
00:13:08.160 you haven't no you have not you have not