JustPearlyThings - April 05, 2023


Feminist Tries To SHUT Him Down For Spitting Facts


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11 minutes

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198.51482

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2,201

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Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 for me personally it's easy for you to say that but if if i was in a position where my partner
00:00:05.860 cheated on me however that affects me it can affect me forever long i can't i would i would
00:00:11.240 hate for somebody to say put that aside for the because of the kids in a woman's sake i would
00:00:14.880 argue i would absolutely argue it's because they are far more emotional but either way either it's
00:00:20.940 natural it's easy for you to do something to hurt somebody and say i'll get over it for them because
00:00:25.100 of the kids i feel like that i understand where you're coming from but if you're the one causing
00:00:29.320 that pain you can't then be the same one saying get over it but you but you but you can mask it to
00:00:35.200 the point where the kids don't need to suffer in both cases that's what i'm saying i'm saying it's
00:00:39.780 about the kids it's not about your personal feelings it's about your children yeah so i can i just
00:00:45.280 clarify that so we've got married you know if you cheat that i can't cannot stay with you because
00:00:51.100 it will kill me inside it'll make me a whatever oh my god terrible so you cheat we have kids you cheat
00:00:58.100 it is selfish to cheat no no i know i know what you're saying so you he's cheated i i haven't
00:01:05.020 done anything i'm at home playing with my kid with our kids okay i've done something so he's
00:01:08.560 cheated but and then if i leave it's my fault okay whose whose feelings are more important the kids or
00:01:17.440 you everyone's no whose feelings are more important because me and the kids that's that he does not
00:01:23.340 matter no answer the question whose whose feelings are more important the kids or you
00:01:27.300 it has to be the kids okay okay so say i let it go once then for the kids
00:01:33.760 what happens if you cheat again this is just the same questions they'll pose to you
00:01:37.920 i'm not holding on for nothing i've got the car keys i'm out of there
00:01:45.840 hold on all right so every month yeah a woman has a period yeah yeah as men we deal with this
00:01:52.880 oh oh please i have not even wait let me land bro i'm still in the air like what my man said
00:01:58.720 let me land hold on you see this this this is what this this is so hard for a man to explain
00:02:05.400 because wait wait all right do you go through periods every month yes do you chemically change
00:02:11.040 every month yes are you emotionally unstable every month yes no no no don't answer like a girl
00:02:19.920 come on come on this guy do you have a point as well he's making a point but listen you have a period
00:02:26.380 listen listen i've been around to be honest oh come on no no to be honest but we have to be honest we
00:02:32.760 can't just we can't general speaking to the mic we can't generalize i've had many girlfriends many
00:02:37.460 links many whatever just as you have but in my personal experience they've never treated me
00:02:42.040 differently or acted differently to a point where i can say you're emotionally unbalanced because
00:02:47.120 you're on your period to me listen i'm not saying it doesn't happen i'm not saying it doesn't happen
00:02:50.940 but in my experience in general why are you shaking your head he said not in general but we're dealing
00:02:56.800 on the cheating topic right i'm saying we just need to be honest right if i'm in a marriage and
00:03:12.300 my wife takes a penis in her vagina and i leave i can't be the one to blame for breaking the would
00:03:19.020 you take would you carry the blame if your wife cheated and you and you divorced just yes do you
00:03:24.040 want me to answer the question before i've even landed on my main point oh sorry i mean i don't
00:03:27.680 know yeah but it's shifted so because you're you don't have a period so you wouldn't know if a woman
00:03:35.480 has an emotion i mean um what do you call it uh a different chemical experience from a period yeah
00:03:41.200 which they release a hormone yeah which makes them chemically different that okay you don't that
00:03:46.760 doesn't change that's facts yeah that changes all right so i'm saying yeah so i'm saying as a man
00:03:52.940 when a woman goes through that certain time of the month yeah we are conditioned to kind of
00:03:58.900 adjust navigate her feelings yeah so a woman in her brain does understand that a certain time
00:04:07.520 a chemical changes in her head where she does not act normal but yet she can't understand the same
00:04:13.780 chemical not the same chemical but a same chemical reaction happens in a man where he can't control
00:04:19.460 but you can't control yeah you can control because you can control because when you're at work and
00:04:24.440 you're in your period pain you could be very nice to your boss but as soon as you come home to your
00:04:27.780 husband it's like ah it's like no no you know you know how to control where you're getting that from
00:04:33.320 yeah i don't know where you're getting that information from which part of the information
00:04:36.480 if i'm on one time if i'm on one i'm on one everywhere like no no one is is like everyone
00:04:42.700 so you're trying to tell me if you're on if you're on your period and you're feeling very irritable
00:04:46.500 you're going to take it out on your manager 100 come on man is that is that is that is that
00:04:51.360 is that the average okay you don't know how to control your emotions at work
00:04:55.120 i i don't have to if i if i if i don't want to i won't i don't know man i feel like it's
00:05:04.640 incomparable i feel like i feel like the concept the concept of a person feeling hurt because you've
00:05:09.880 broken a marital vows and in comparison to and and and her being put in a condition where we're
00:05:17.300 telling her to deal with it in comparison to a man dealing with his partner on her period is
00:05:21.200 very they're very different can you answer the question please about um if so the marriage is
00:05:27.140 there we're all happy families yeah and i've went out yeah and i've cheated yeah so you're gonna stay
00:05:34.080 with me no that's what i'm so all i'm trying to say is on a human level right everybody would be hurt
00:05:49.220 if i'm in a marriage my wife doesn't have to have sex if she kisses a guy if she sucks his dick and i
00:05:54.520 know and i leave do you think i'm going to accept from society that i'm the one who brought
00:05:58.680 anyone who says that be realistic realistic i think in all situations it would be on the woman
00:06:05.660 like they would say she broke she broke up the family no no forget i'm saying you if you leave
00:06:11.220 okay first of all if your wife sucks another man's dick yeah what are you doing staying or leaving
00:06:17.320 i'm leaving guys guys it has to be one at a time we've ruining the quality of the show we've got
00:06:26.580 we've got we've got away from something as a man you can leave and the kids can still not suffer
00:06:32.060 because if the woman has cheated and the man leaves yeah how she conducts herself and how the
00:06:37.460 man conducts himself around the kids will be what dictates whether the kids suffer or not it's not
00:06:41.860 about whether you leave or how she treats the kids afterwards or how she is around the kids
00:06:45.800 whether she's hurt i agree but the topic was based on the woman dealing with the effects of
00:06:50.260 the man cheating and the blame being on her if she acts differently so on that same topic if you
00:06:55.320 act differently if your wife has had another man's dick in her mouth naturally you would there's no
00:07:00.540 there's no man yeah it's completely different let me explain to you why my brother first of all
00:07:09.020 yeah more than likely you're the person going down on one knee so you have decided that a that's my
00:07:16.280 wife right yeah she could wait until kingdom come for you to go down on me and you don't have to go
00:07:20.760 down on me right so that means you've committed to her yeah yeah right and she's accepted your
00:07:24.520 commitment yeah yeah knowing who you are and she knows what a man is like already she knows you're at
00:07:30.540 a predisposition yeah correct or no yeah right so when you act out on that predisposition that she
00:07:36.100 already knows of she is already calculating in her head the way out of it because she's already
00:07:41.800 high pergamos so i'm going for a rich man knowing that he's going to cheat knowing that i'm going to
00:07:46.880 take him for half his stuff no no okay hold on hold on yeah i know that i'm going to i'm going to go
00:07:53.640 with a man that's highly likely going to cheat correct or no not necessarily ask these girls and
00:07:58.680 they'll tell you highly likely a man is going to cheat or a man is thinking about cheating so it's
00:08:02.680 hard you're saying when the woman is saying yes i do or yes i i i do want to marry she's already
00:08:07.720 considering it that one woman is wait i i agree with him in this in the point that a woman will
00:08:13.820 know the type of value man she's getting with has the ability to exercise his options i don't know
00:08:21.120 hold on everybody knows that so so yeah she's weighed up a risk as to whether this is possible
00:08:29.060 now here's my here's my point the guy if i'm getting married to rihanna i'm weighing up my
00:08:33.380 risk are you going to marry a hoe of course i'm not going to marry right so but she's going to
00:08:36.720 marry a hoe though yeah yeah right but she's not basically hold on hold on look think of that
00:08:41.860 understanding you're not going to marry a hoe yeah she would marry a hoe and that's the difference
00:08:47.100 guys man okay let's say that's that's the case but you can't eliminate human emotion and human
00:08:53.120 reaction you can't say because you knew he's a man and he's not naturally monogamous it's you
00:08:58.820 should have known that there was a high chance of this is ridiculous like listen listen guys you
00:09:03.920 have a son and you have a daughter in the exact same situation the guy the daughter's husband
00:09:09.240 cheats the son's wife cheats it doesn't matter who's a male or who knew what you're both feeling
00:09:14.640 for you're feeling for them equally regardless of the whether one's a male one's a feet like
00:09:18.620 you're not giving them i'm giving them different advice though yeah of course but i'm saying you're
00:09:22.160 removing the human reaction just a natural response but but we're not taught like it's just why are you
00:09:27.740 bringing the emotion into it no because like because we're talking no because like it's just like i feel
00:09:32.820 like i'm a girl like why are you bringing this into it obviously obviously they're gonna have an
00:09:37.340 emotional reaction we know you guys are overlooking the emotional reaction and saying it's the woman
00:09:42.760 the woman is to blame no breaking up yes i'm saying i'm saying i'm saying women leave 70 to 80 percent
00:09:48.240 of the time 90 of their college educated and i'm saying women put their feelings before their own
00:09:52.560 kids you knew you married dude you knew he might cheat on you then he cheats on you and then boo
00:09:59.300 who poor me i need to break up the home and put put my feelings before my kids you know who you married
00:10:05.760 i agree but what equally what i'm saying is if that happens to a man the man would leave the marriage
00:10:11.440 equally whether i knew she was going to whether i didn't know all those things are just do you think
00:10:16.020 men and women are the same no okay so you see you understand why they're different you're 50
00:10:20.800 there so let me just let me just lost your job would you leave her no right but many women would
00:10:25.580 leave their men because they lost their job yes right because the women are different what they what
00:10:29.760 they what would keep them in a relationship is different to what would keep us in a relationship
00:10:33.260 yes yes yes you're a cheerleader man ish you are the biggest cheerleader over there
00:10:38.240 but i'm a lion though if only he had a camera
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