JustPearlyThings - November 10, 2023


Her Hypergamy Got EXPOSED In REAL TIME


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

204.19891

Word Count

1,741

Sentence Count

244


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Say either your boyfriend now or your last boyfriend, let's say.
00:00:05.000 How tall is he?
00:00:07.440 Just an irrelevant height.
00:00:11.980 Let's say.
00:00:13.160 Come on, come on, be honest.
00:00:15.020 Hypothetically, I would not tend to tip if he go below six foot.
00:00:18.780 Okay, so six foot.
00:00:19.920 How much money does he make?
00:00:21.560 Typically rich, but...
00:00:24.100 Okay.
00:00:25.840 Hypothetically.
00:00:26.760 Would you say he's good looking?
00:00:29.280 Very.
00:00:29.520 This is the thing.
00:00:30.800 That's very subjective, isn't it?
00:00:32.480 Because for me...
00:00:33.320 But the pause is telling.
00:00:34.360 Okay, okay.
00:00:35.140 I know.
00:00:35.560 It's true.
00:00:36.340 The clarification is telling.
00:00:38.620 I'll tell you why.
00:00:39.140 Okay, fine, fine.
00:00:39.980 Let's just say he's ugly, even if he's ugly.
00:00:42.020 Yes, to you.
00:00:42.860 Six foot.
00:00:43.200 I don't believe he is, but let's just say he is.
00:00:46.440 Just for stats.
00:00:47.560 Possibly, yeah.
00:00:47.900 For stats.
00:00:48.580 Okay, so this, does he make over six figures?
00:00:53.940 You said rich, so I don't know.
00:00:55.300 What is rich to you?
00:00:56.140 This is the thing.
00:00:56.980 He's a ballpark figure, isn't it?
00:00:58.140 To one person's rich.
00:00:59.300 Give me, okay, okay.
00:01:00.240 He's poor.
00:01:00.660 Over six figures.
00:01:01.640 He's a midget.
00:01:02.160 He's poor.
00:01:05.000 She's cupping out.
00:01:06.540 No, come on.
00:01:07.180 Don't cap out.
00:01:08.060 Be honest.
00:01:08.520 Be honest.
00:01:09.020 Just to say he's of average height and of average income.
00:01:11.020 Let's go.
00:01:11.200 Okay, okay.
00:01:12.140 No, no.
00:01:12.520 I want you to be honest.
00:01:13.540 I don't want to say let's just say.
00:01:14.880 I just want, I want to have an honest, like a real conversation.
00:01:17.220 But we're a hypothetical person, aren't we?
00:01:18.520 No, no.
00:01:19.160 Yeah.
00:01:19.760 Because she's single.
00:01:20.840 She's a missing person.
00:01:21.500 What's the point?
00:01:22.240 What's the point?
00:01:22.820 I know you're not answering the question because I'm going to prove a point.
00:01:26.400 You said over six foot.
00:01:27.560 Even by that alone, you're only going for 15% of guys.
00:01:30.840 15% of men are over six foot.
00:01:32.560 This is general because I have had partners of different heights.
00:01:37.060 And they're probably top 10% good looking because women find 80% of men ugly.
00:01:42.080 Depends on your perception of good looking.
00:01:44.020 It's not depends.
00:01:44.900 It's not depends.
00:01:45.500 Of course it is.
00:01:46.120 Some people might think I'm hideous.
00:01:47.820 Some people might think I'm attractive.
00:01:48.860 No, there's nobody thinking you're hideous.
00:01:50.760 No, women tend to, so they've replicated these.
00:01:53.480 Beauty is more objective than you.
00:01:54.680 Yeah, they've replicated.
00:01:56.020 Oh, thanks, guys.
00:01:57.020 They have replicated these studies and like dating events.
00:02:00.800 So like when people go one-on-one and do like speed dating, you can even see these studies
00:02:06.800 in real time if you watch like The Bachelor or The Bachelorette, if you watch any of those
00:02:10.740 Love Island shows, they're always competing for the same guys.
00:02:14.160 I've had some guys that people think are actually hideous looking and I think they're the sexiest
00:02:19.340 thing, but...
00:02:20.780 Yeah, we can't really go...
00:02:22.520 But that's because they're probably rich.
00:02:24.680 Don't play with us.
00:02:25.540 That's because they're probably rich.
00:02:26.240 Guys, guys.
00:02:26.680 No, but even if there's a little bit of a disagreement, if you think...
00:02:30.800 Oh, he's all right looking, he's still in the top 20% of men.
00:02:35.800 The reality is, if women really thought beauty was subjective, women won't be swiping right
00:02:43.220 5% of the time on Tinder.
00:02:45.120 This is the thing, when you give someone, it's more than just looks, yeah.
00:02:48.680 You need to have that sex appeal and confidence.
00:02:50.520 For me, that's what I need, right?
00:02:51.800 But the reality is dating apps tell the truth when it comes to beauty standards.
00:02:55.400 Well, I'm telling you my opinion.
00:02:57.440 I've never been on Tinder.
00:02:58.840 But guys, you could do the same thing with Instagram.
00:03:02.040 You could do...
00:03:02.480 Everyone has Instagram here, right?
00:03:03.720 I'm assuming that's how you got recruited, right?
00:03:05.740 By the way, I would say what they just said is an argument for people doing cold approach,
00:03:10.160 like approaching real life.
00:03:11.180 I mean, maybe you disagree, Paul, because you'll say the real life studies sort of bear out the
00:03:15.640 online stats.
00:03:16.440 But I do think when you approach real life, you tend to get a few additional points as a dude.
00:03:20.200 Yeah, definitely.
00:03:21.200 You're not going to get 100%.
00:03:22.200 You're not going to get 100%.
00:03:23.200 It's a completely different interaction.
00:03:24.960 Because I feel like...
00:03:25.960 In a picture, you might not be...
00:03:26.960 You might not be phylogenic.
00:03:27.960 To that point, any guy who is confident enough to approach a woman in public is probably top
00:03:33.620 10% of men because he has been doing it.
00:03:35.660 No, not true.
00:03:36.400 I'll tell you why.
00:03:37.720 I'll tell you why.
00:03:38.660 A guy who is not attractive and who doesn't get women is not just going to, out of the
00:03:43.360 blue, approach a beautiful woman.
00:03:44.880 Lies!
00:03:45.200 Because I'm telling you, that's the fact.
00:03:47.600 You guys don't live the life of a man, I'm telling you.
00:03:50.720 King, we live the life of women that men approach.
00:03:52.920 Yes.
00:03:53.920 And I'm telling you that the men that approach you have been successful at approaching other
00:04:00.480 women.
00:04:00.780 I have children.
00:04:00.800 I have men.
00:04:02.280 Allegedly.
00:04:02.880 Uncles.
00:04:03.280 Because sometimes...
00:04:04.320 Okay, okay, okay.
00:04:05.060 Okay, I have a question.
00:04:08.080 So you really think that if a man has approached 100 women and all of them have rejected him,
00:04:12.640 you would accept him?
00:04:13.780 No.
00:04:14.320 It's possible.
00:04:15.200 It's possible.
00:04:16.020 It's actually impossible.
00:04:17.600 Why?
00:04:18.040 I'll tell you why.
00:04:19.040 I never...
00:04:19.440 For the fact that 100 women...
00:04:21.380 No.
00:04:21.800 Unless you're telling me, think about it, think about it like this.
00:04:24.180 It's not impossible.
00:04:24.760 We get chatted up all the time.
00:04:26.420 King, Pearl wanted to say something.
00:04:27.880 What did you want to say, Pearl?
00:04:30.160 So, question.
00:04:32.120 I like ugly men, by the way.
00:04:33.560 Just seen it.
00:04:33.980 Who here?
00:04:34.360 Who here has had a boyfriend that's cheated on them?
00:04:37.840 Cheat.
00:04:38.560 Okay.
00:04:39.060 Probably.
00:04:39.520 All right.
00:04:40.340 Everyone?
00:04:41.060 Shit, me too.
00:04:41.820 All right.
00:04:42.980 We're sharing...
00:04:43.620 That's the point.
00:04:44.220 We're sharing men.
00:04:45.080 We're literally sharing men.
00:04:46.780 Yeah.
00:04:47.400 But who has cheated on their man?
00:04:49.340 Mm.
00:04:50.220 Right.
00:04:50.540 When I was young.
00:04:51.380 When I was young.
00:04:52.120 I was young, but I cheated.
00:04:54.180 Look, if we want to argue that women...
00:04:55.660 I was not young.
00:04:56.580 If we want to argue...
00:04:58.060 If we want to argue that women are promiscuous, this is the show.
00:05:01.380 I'm just saying everyone cheats.
00:05:02.680 I can actually get to finish my class by the...
00:05:05.340 No, no, no.
00:05:05.900 But the point, the point, the point is, the point is, it's still a small percentage of men
00:05:10.740 that we are going after.
00:05:12.120 That is the point.
00:05:12.980 Yes.
00:05:13.200 And my point is, you are lying to your friend.
00:05:16.060 You're lying to women.
00:05:17.280 I'm not.
00:05:17.580 I'm not.
00:05:17.900 I'm also lying to you.
00:05:20.340 What's the lie?
00:05:21.120 What's the lie?
00:05:21.560 What's the lie?
00:05:22.120 Right now, with the way society is set up, you can't...
00:05:25.960 It's not...
00:05:26.420 I don't call it lying.
00:05:27.880 It's the way that society is set up, you can't tell somebody that they're unattractive or you
00:05:32.420 need to go and use weight or...
00:05:34.160 Because, no, you can't do...
00:05:35.160 But she's not unattractive.
00:05:36.280 She's beautiful.
00:05:36.820 But the problem...
00:05:37.500 Yeah, exactly.
00:05:38.320 And that's the problem.
00:05:39.460 Because you tell everybody they're beautiful.
00:05:40.980 But the problem you're having is...
00:05:44.020 But I'm saying, like, you need to be honest with women.
00:05:46.980 And I'm saying, I don't understand why you keep arguing for the exception.
00:05:49.680 No, but I was honest.
00:05:50.540 I told her she's fat.
00:05:51.720 I said that.
00:05:52.360 Okay, but would you also be able to tell her that the majority of men...
00:05:56.160 Oh, you're beautiful.
00:05:56.760 If a man sees you on your Tinder and he sees your body shape, because you show it on your
00:06:02.240 pictures, and he wants to go on a date with you, when he sees you and he'll laugh, he'll
00:06:05.780 be like, oh, she's fat.
00:06:06.760 No, you can see you're fat.
00:06:08.140 But her pool of potential dudes would be bigger if she slimmed down a bit.
00:06:13.100 And that's by the by.
00:06:14.300 But the point I'm making is when she...
00:06:16.060 If she wants to maximise her opportunities...
00:06:18.540 Her question to me was, do you think when they meet me, they'll be like, oh, she's fat?
00:06:21.940 And I said, no, because they can see you're fat from your pictures.
00:06:24.680 And if...
00:06:24.980 Sorry, babe.
00:06:25.240 And they've still chose to go on a date with you, so they must like fat girls.
00:06:29.440 No, no, but that's not what I was...
00:06:31.440 I was referring to during this show.
00:06:33.880 I keep saying that men don't like fat chicks, and you keep arguing with me.
00:06:37.480 I said some men like fat chicks.
00:06:39.020 You're right.
00:06:39.400 You keep arguing with me for the exception, and I'm saying that's dishonest.
00:06:44.100 So if I say that...
00:06:44.860 If I say that, and I'll tell you why.
00:06:46.420 If I say that women like rich men, you know, you could say, but some women like broke men.
00:06:52.500 You know, that would be...
00:06:54.060 I've been the breadwinner in relationships.
00:06:57.040 I don't know if that's a flex.
00:07:00.260 But my question is, are you with them now?
00:07:03.840 No.
00:07:04.080 Exactly, exactly.
00:07:05.860 I'm not with rich guys.
00:07:06.880 I didn't either.
00:07:08.000 But my point, if they had the things you were looking for, you'd be with them.
00:07:13.060 Women don't leave the men that have the things they want.
00:07:15.260 Yeah, but money wasn't the thing.
00:07:16.260 And lack of money wasn't the thing.
00:07:17.760 It was obviously something...
00:07:18.480 And weight wasn't the thing.
00:07:18.940 It obviously was something else.
00:07:20.700 Because I'd still be able to...
00:07:21.280 Okay, tell me, what was it?
00:07:22.780 What was it?
00:07:23.720 What was it?
00:07:24.340 Okay, I know I want to hear.
00:07:25.260 What was it?
00:07:25.600 So the last main relationship I was in, I just found him a little bit emotionally detached.
00:07:30.500 Emotionally detached.
00:07:31.620 So this is what I call things women make up when they don't like the guy.
00:07:35.700 Because he doesn't do well enough.
00:07:38.040 I'm very tactile.
00:07:39.140 I'm very emotional.
00:07:40.260 I'm very loving.
00:07:41.160 And I just found him not to be that type of person.
00:07:43.120 Doesn't make him a bad person.
00:07:44.480 Just makes us very different people.
00:07:46.320 And that's okay.
00:07:47.380 You can come to that conclusion.
00:07:48.880 Without knowledge.
00:07:51.520 Yeah.
00:07:52.000 How long were you together for?
00:07:53.240 Doesn't make him come to that conclusion without knowledge.
00:07:55.180 Yeah.
00:07:55.520 Okay.
00:07:56.460 I gave it a good run.
00:07:58.400 We gave it good innings.
00:07:59.400 It didn't work.
00:07:59.960 It's okay.
00:08:00.520 So obviously, come on stripper, how long was you...
00:08:03.860 How long has been your longest relationship?
00:08:09.600 About six hours.
00:08:11.840 Do you like...
00:08:12.800 About six hours, 49 minutes when I was flying from New York to London.
00:08:17.660 And most of it was conducted in the...
00:08:20.560 Toilets.
00:08:21.040 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:08:25.700 The physical intimacy didn't last for the six hours, by the way.
00:08:28.220 I think it's just that.
00:08:31.180 But...
00:08:31.520 But...