High Value Men Find This Repulsive
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Summary
This is a list of things that men are looking for in a woman, and what they don t want. It's a short list, but it's a good list. I hope you can relate to at least one of these things.
Transcript
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A couple months ago, I made a list of the things that us as women should stop doing.
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Now, this is not to say that I am perfect and have never said anything on this list.
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However, I just felt like this was a very, very good list.
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So this is the things that men look for, basically, or don't want.
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It's like want, don't want kind of a combination.
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Your hobbies cannot be going to the bar every weekend and going out all the time looking like a hoe.
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Men want women that work hard but not too hard and at the right things.
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They do not want a girl that wants a career more than a family.
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Equals, I want to do no work and still get the outcome I want.
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Equals, I like cheaters and toxic men and I will choose them and be toxic as well and
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not admit my part that I had any part to play except quote unquote giving too much.
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I make the same mistakes that my parents make and I'm too dumb to learn from their mistakes
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and instead I will make the same mistakes but blame it on them.
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Equals, I take no accountability for the negative part that myself or any women play in relationships.
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I feel like I'm a traditional when I am single.
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I will be submissive for the right man who hurt you.
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He needs to add to what I have going on in my life.
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Not all women equals that is a problem with women but I won't admit it's a problem.
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So if you guys have anything you want to add to it, you know, feel free.
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Get in the bedroom and drop your pants before you go to work.
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Well, you know, we can add more if you have things you want to add.
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I think that whatever you say, honey, that's the only thing.
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It can be a little bit like, oh, you know, like, oh, I have to do it again.
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If you're with the right woman, that won't happen.
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If you're with the right woman, if you're with the right man, that won't happen.
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I think women that say this, because I hear this a lot, it typically means I am disagreeable
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Or, like, something, like, I like bums, basically, is the other, like, it's like a trend.
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Well, some women pick men who are, I think, for their character, too masculine.
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I don't want to say that, because then you're going to be, like, feminine.
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No, like, too, you know, like, she's not feminine enough.
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So she's in her feminine most of the time, but sometimes she's like, oh.
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Yeah, I knew you were going to pick that up, girl.
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It's just, it's like these women that go on Instagram, and they'll say, oh, I'm a feminine.
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I hope that's not what you do, but, like, it's like, I'm now a femininity coach.
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The ones that I see that are full of shit, because men actually look to solve problems.
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So if you look at, like, men's improvement, it's very practical.
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So it's very much, like, go to the gym, screw a bunch of girls so you know how to, or do,
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you know, like, I don't even, there's an ex-corn star that's been on my show.
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Not my thing, right, but, like, or they'll do, like, go to the gym, make more money.
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Women, it's very, like, broad, like, soft life.
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I've only had one, like, femininity coach give me, like, real concrete steps that isn't
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Actually, I have something to say about feminine coaches.
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They operate from, again, energy, but, like, what is to be feminine?
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They tell you be creative, like, focus on things that make you tap into that traditional
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Like, try to, I've been in touch with some of them.
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They tell you, like, listen to music, dance, or create something with, like, a painting
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And to me, this sounds like nothing useful to a guy.
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Like, I'm just, I just have, yeah, there's only been one femininity coach that, like, actually
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And she helped me write most of these, like, words to add.
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In the short term, it might seem that it's not helping, but imagine on the long term,
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rather than a woman being in her, as I say, masculine energy, which is, like, shouting
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She learns to be submissive, but, like, step by step.
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First of all, by tapping into these skills, then to be comfortable just doing, even something
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such as cooking, they tell you cooking makes you tap into your feminine energy more and
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I think cooking, yeah, I don't think cooking's bad, but I just, you can't convince me.
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I agree that it shouldn't matter, but we need these now because a lot of women and men as
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well forgot that natural state, you know, what's your natural state as a woman?
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I don't know, because I get really confused, because I hear these, like, women talk about
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But, like, our great-grandmothers really didn't have a soft life.
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They were milking, like, at least I'm from the U.S., they were milking cows.
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Well, when you ask where all the women, good women, went, I mean, to me, they went to confusion
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And this confusion is a diffused awareness, because of primal nature, right?
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And a woman is diffused, because she only has a certain amount of daylight hours to get as
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She can do it way quicker than a man, apparently.
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And so, it is kind of obtuse and broad when we think about how we go back into our
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So, we're not, you know, in this CEO role of our families, of our relationships, of
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And then we got to come home and then deal with the reality of, like, you know, being
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a partner, which is a totally different energy.
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Like, yeah, you've got to get the meal on the table.
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And my grandmother and my mother, they worked really hard as homemakers.
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But my generation and our generation now, that's very, it's a lot of confusion.
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She made a tune called Single Ladies, all of these things, with a ring on her finger.
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Yeah, but from the night, to be honest, you'll say you're right.
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From the 90s, 2000s, whatever, there's been a lot of independence, independence, do your
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Someone said modern-day gathering has turned into shopping.
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Yeah, but why do you think women are having burnout, endocrine disruption, cancer, depression?
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I mean, there's all these issues with women's health because they're trying to be a man.
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No, I spoke to, like, a hormone doctor about this.
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He said, like, women and men don't handle stress the same.
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And it really messes up our hormones being, like, high-stress positions.
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And you know, Madison, if you stay in your feminine energy and you come home and you
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look after your partner, your man is going to want to look after and do everything in
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Like, as long as you stay in your feminine and you look after that man, he's going to
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do everything for you, regardless, like, naturally.
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But earlier with what I was saying, if you're not showing certain things to him, he's going
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But if he sees you're making effort, like, even cooking, cooking is, if you want to
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get through to a man's heart, it's through his belly.
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