JustPearlyThings - August 14, 2023


How FEMINISM And FEMINISTS Are Hurting MEN


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Length

9 minutes

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216.09671

Word Count

2,020

Sentence Count

183


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 So would you say that this is like technically just a woman's problem then?
00:00:04.420 Because it's women that, it's not technically men that put down women, you know?
00:00:07.380 It's women that put down women.
00:00:08.600 The women trying to be men are hurting the feminine, not the feminine, the beta men, right?
00:00:14.520 That's hurting beta men.
00:00:15.660 That's why we have beta men.
00:00:16.840 It's because of the masculine women.
00:00:18.320 Well, I think it becomes a problem because you have 80% of women screwing 20% of men.
00:00:23.300 So then women don't respect the average guy.
00:00:25.380 I did a show the other day and like most women said they wouldn't date a bus driver.
00:00:28.540 They're above a bus driver, average chicks.
00:00:32.020 And it's why you have average chicks saying they're at the level of a celebrity, no offense.
00:00:36.460 But like it's like you have average chicks thinking they're so great when it's like literally you are average.
00:00:41.760 You're average looking, you're an average mindset.
00:00:43.360 Most people are average.
00:00:44.800 And men will accept this, but women won't.
00:00:46.700 It's like an insult for us to be normal.
00:00:49.220 So then you won't see normal women dating normal men.
00:00:52.420 But do you feel like that is because social media has a lot to play for it?
00:00:55.940 They feel like there's a lot more accessibility.
00:00:57.600 I think it's social media and dating apps.
00:01:00.460 They feel like they've got more accessibility to higher people.
00:01:03.780 I mean, they do.
00:01:05.520 Because the issue nowadays, because this is what made me think about this.
00:01:08.900 I'm like, how would you find a good woman?
00:01:10.580 And I was thinking about this and I made a chart and I had like the body count of a woman on one hand.
00:01:15.580 And I had the looks of a woman on a one hand.
00:01:18.460 And so I was like, a woman that's 8 to 10 with a low body count, good luck keeping her.
00:01:24.440 Do you know what the list is going to be for a girl that's like that hot?
00:01:27.800 With like, the competition is crazy.
00:01:30.440 And so it's like you could be dating a woman and if there's high competition for her, Drake could slide in your girl's DMs.
00:01:37.040 100%.
00:01:37.520 Or maybe it's not Drake, it's the town whoever, right?
00:01:40.080 And then I was thinking about it and I was like, unless a guy sleeps with a lot of women, how is he going to know the difference between a woman that's been with everybody and a girl that does it, has it?
00:01:49.240 They never do.
00:01:49.940 They can't.
00:01:51.020 No, they can't know unless they've been with a lot of girls.
00:01:53.600 And I'm like, it's kind of unfortunate because it's like the only solution for the men seems to be to sleep around, which I don't think is, you know, great for society.
00:02:02.900 But it's like it's women's fault because we're the ones doing the sleeping.
00:02:05.800 But do you think that men should have more than one woman?
00:02:09.640 I think that it's silly to date certain men and expect monogamy.
00:02:16.400 So I think it's silly to date, say, Jason Derulo, Chris Brown.
00:02:20.120 These are extreme examples.
00:02:20.960 But there are certain men that it's very silly to expect it because he's never been monogamous and they never will be.
00:02:27.680 I think monogamy in general is better for a society.
00:02:30.840 Forget the higher.
00:02:32.100 I'm even talking on average men, normal men on a day to day.
00:02:35.500 Because obviously you said earlier on that there's more women on the earth than men.
00:02:40.220 So on average, how we are naturally, do you think that the average man should have one woman?
00:02:47.860 I think that it's better for society if monogamy is better because you get like a growing, having a lot of sexless men usually causes society to collapse.
00:02:59.580 So I think monogamy is better by and large.
00:03:01.700 But I think that a certain percentage of men are always going to be non-monogamous.
00:03:06.020 And that's kind of the way it's been the last like two million years.
00:03:08.400 Because 85%, it's like the last, I don't want to say how long it's been like this because I don't remember off the top of my head.
00:03:14.600 But I know like historically they always, it seems like all of society has been non-monogamous because 17 men reproduced for every one, 17 women reproduced for every one man like 8,000 years ago.
00:03:28.300 And on top of that, there's like two women have always reproduced for every one man.
00:03:31.120 But it's actually, our 40% of men have never reproduced, our 40% of men, I'm sorry, I'm butchering this.
00:03:37.780 But the 85% of, like 85% of society has generally been monogamous where the top 15% of men have just been like slaying.
00:03:46.240 Is it?
00:03:46.800 Yeah.
00:03:47.340 Well, okay.
00:03:48.260 Like concubines.
00:03:49.160 You do a lot of stats here.
00:03:50.380 Yeah.
00:03:50.540 I know a lot of average men out here that's probably not on these stats doing the same thing.
00:03:55.020 And when I say a lot, I'm talking, if you're just talking average men in London, obviously London, I don't know about America and that.
00:04:01.000 Average in what?
00:04:02.240 In sleeping with a lot of women.
00:04:04.260 No, like average looks, average money, would you say?
00:04:07.380 Average looks, average job.
00:04:10.300 I can even give you examples of a few average men that are big in weight and just got normal jobs that are dealing with a lot of women across the board.
00:04:19.800 Well, there's a couple things.
00:04:21.440 So, I mean, typically, again, like there's been studies on dating apps and in person where women find 80% of men is ugly.
00:04:28.900 Not okay, not average.
00:04:31.020 They think ugly.
00:04:32.140 He is unattractive.
00:04:33.500 Ugly.
00:04:34.240 Would you say the top percentage of men are on these dating apps?
00:04:39.100 Yeah, maybe.
00:04:40.720 Yeah, I don't know.
00:04:41.460 I don't believe so.
00:04:42.680 Ask catfish.
00:04:43.300 But I think that if you look at the numbers, social media is the number one way people are meeting.
00:04:53.220 100%, yeah.
00:04:53.820 So, social media and dating apps.
00:04:56.200 And like when you look at, so then the question is, if that's where people are meeting, what do the numbers look like in the dating apps?
00:05:01.400 Well, women only swipe right 5% of the time.
00:05:04.220 So, that means on the number one way people are meeting, we're sharing men.
00:05:09.140 100%, because it's always going to be free men, because we're the hunters, so we're always going to have to.
00:05:12.560 100%.
00:05:12.740 Wait, say that again.
00:05:14.100 It's always going to be men, because we're the hunters.
00:05:16.500 We're always going.
00:05:17.400 We're going to be the higher anyway.
00:05:18.660 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:05:19.280 Yeah, but when you're saying the average men that get women, they probably get women over the age of 30, because women tend to go for looks.
00:05:26.320 And so, in their 20s.
00:05:27.660 I fully agree with that.
00:05:28.560 You know why I agree with that?
00:05:29.600 Because I feel like in the 20s.
00:05:30.440 Or single mothers.
00:05:31.420 You're 100% right.
00:05:32.200 But between 20 and 30, women are very selective in what they do.
00:05:35.640 And then when they get to the age, you start wheeling off a lot of stats about pregnancy, geriatry.
00:05:41.080 When they start realizing that.
00:05:42.980 And they go for the average man.
00:05:44.460 They feel like they can come back to the average man.
00:05:45.920 Or even go back to a man that was trying to get them when they were 18, 19, and feel like they can go back to them.
00:05:51.640 But obviously, with men, it's a bit different, because men at 30, we start peaking.
00:05:56.620 We get fed up.
00:05:57.660 Yeah.
00:05:57.780 So, we start.
00:05:59.380 There's a change.
00:06:00.300 You get what I'm saying?
00:06:00.900 Yeah.
00:06:01.100 Yeah.
00:06:01.360 And so, that's why I say women pick non-monogamy in their 20s when they have the most leverage.
00:06:06.040 Yeah.
00:06:06.320 And they pick the 20% of men.
00:06:08.240 Then in their 30s, we tend to pick the rest, basically.
00:06:13.860 And so, the issue is when women cheat, who do they typically cheat with?
00:06:17.500 You guys know?
00:06:18.040 Anyone?
00:06:19.260 Their exes.
00:06:20.200 Correct.
00:06:20.560 100%.
00:06:21.120 Correct.
00:06:21.580 So, the issue that a lot of these guys are getting into, and this is why guys don't, like, typically, like, a lot of guys will say, I don't date women over 30.
00:06:28.720 And it's not a looks thing.
00:06:30.040 It's that if she's 30, like, how many relationships has she had?
00:06:33.740 Is one of those guys better than me?
00:06:35.800 And does she want to be with him?
00:06:37.100 And the odds are, he probably is, because in her 20s, she had more leverage than her 30s.
00:06:41.020 So, what are the odds in her 30s she can get a better guy than in her 20s?
00:06:44.760 Likely, right?
00:06:45.840 And I feel like...
00:06:46.560 And he was probably top 20% of looks.
00:06:48.320 And I feel like, slightly, when they have that relationship from 20 to 30, there's always that one guy that can always come back in the background.
00:06:55.900 Yeah, no, I've spoken to women that have had, like, I don't know, six-year situationships on and off, or between every relationship.
00:07:03.540 And that's, like, how they keep their, like, body count low or whatever.
00:07:07.140 It's, like, a say-so.
00:07:08.340 They'll, like, go back to the last.
00:07:09.980 And it kind of, so, it kind of makes sense.
00:07:13.200 You know, keeping your body count low 100%, but you don't have to do that.
00:07:16.160 You can just use a toy.
00:07:16.740 Ain't that toxic?
00:07:17.880 Yeah, no, no.
00:07:20.180 Yeah, because, like...
00:07:20.980 If you're going back to past situations, that may have not been good.
00:07:23.460 That's toxic.
00:07:24.060 Yeah.
00:07:24.500 So, then you meet a new guy going forward.
00:07:27.060 To relive your trauma.
00:07:28.260 That's too much toxicity that you're going to bring to the new guy that you may meet.
00:07:32.060 And then your trauma.
00:07:33.720 Yeah, and, like, and any time you mess up, he's sitting there waiting.
00:07:37.900 Sitting there waiting.
00:07:38.760 Sitting there waiting.
00:07:39.660 It's a mess.
00:07:40.580 Now, you've got to get rid of all the exes, you know.
00:07:43.200 Everyone's got to come off.
00:07:44.480 Yeah, but they are usually, usually the guys are the ones that are on standby.
00:07:49.580 They're waiting, and...
00:07:50.600 You know why?
00:07:51.420 Men will always be on standby.
00:07:52.880 They're always...
00:07:53.400 And I know what they want.
00:07:54.920 I'm not saying that I'm fooled, but...
00:07:57.240 And you know why it works for women, yeah?
00:07:58.080 They're always there.
00:07:58.940 You know why it works for women?
00:07:59.960 And men will always be there, because men don't talk to men.
00:08:02.500 But I'm not going to go to Ted and, like, yo, Ted, I'm dealing with Pell, you know.
00:08:07.160 Boom, boom, boom.
00:08:08.200 Whereas women always want to go to women about stuff.
00:08:10.180 Yeah.
00:08:10.580 So, you lot, in terms of, you can always have your exes there, because my man will just
00:08:14.920 wait in the background.
00:08:15.860 In the shadows.
00:08:16.500 Yeah, in the shadows.
00:08:17.300 Like, all right, cool.
00:08:18.040 When you're done with my...
00:08:18.960 Yeah, yeah.
00:08:19.540 Come back and...
00:08:20.400 You get me?
00:08:20.780 I'm going to say nothing.
00:08:21.920 Yeah.
00:08:22.200 But women...
00:08:22.720 Trust.
00:08:23.000 We try to have that one in the background.
00:08:25.080 Now she won't be the main one.
00:08:26.660 And she'll want to go to the main woman and tell her, yo, we've been together.
00:08:30.120 How long?
00:08:30.980 Rare, Rare, Rare been in the background.
00:08:32.420 I've never had that.
00:08:32.920 You know what I'm saying?
00:08:33.420 I'm going to read.
00:08:34.560 I'm going to read.
00:08:35.100 This was a...
00:08:35.760 I think this is like a $50.
00:08:37.280 I don't know the conversion.
00:08:38.180 But Pearl, listen, all these discussions are pointless.
00:08:40.620 Walk outside and you will see the majority of men don't leave their homes.
00:08:43.300 This phenomenon first started in Japan.
00:08:45.380 We are just a few years behind.
00:08:46.860 I went to Japan and all I see is women outside.
00:08:48.660 My main point is you cannot bring back most men outside of their rooms.
00:08:52.160 If you have to waste time arguing, debating with modern women, society will collapse.
00:08:55.980 Just like Japan, women will say it's expensive to have kids.
00:08:59.420 Tee hee hee children.
00:09:02.460 But...
00:09:02.980 Men are indoors with corn?
00:09:04.100 Or what is it implying?
00:09:08.240 I don't know, to be honest.
00:09:09.820 I just read it.
00:09:12.000 I mean, I think in general, people aren't leaving.
00:09:14.360 And especially like now they're going to have AI.
00:09:17.120 And like, I think there's just more people aren't going outside.
00:09:19.980 It's his main point.