JustPearlyThings - July 13, 2023


@JWALLER Calls Out Trad Con On Her BS


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

195.86569

Word Count

2,034

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

14

Hate Speech Sentences

11


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 spiritual fall into they think oh if i'm just pray enough i can make my depression go away
00:00:04.340 right and yes sometimes god does just heal depression like that but a lot of the time
00:00:08.200 god uses natural means like a good therapist you know a good psychiatrist to help somebody through
00:00:13.760 oh no no you're sending them to the crazy ladies and i'm not saying there aren't good therapists
00:00:19.500 but i'm saying that most are pretty shitty most yes the human condition is that things aren't
00:00:26.080 always amazing right we have bad days we get sick terrible accidents can happen and so that's where
00:00:33.500 the power of love comes in a love that doesn't leave a love that doesn't isn't based on feelings
00:00:38.140 or desire but a love that's based on choice and i think deep down we're all wired for that even men
00:00:43.100 even men that like like you were saying justin i want to be with multiple women and everything i
00:00:47.620 think deep down we want a love that stays a love that lasts and it is possible for everyone every
00:00:53.620 single person at this table i guarantee you a thousand percent it is possible for you not for
00:00:57.420 asexual yeah but i would argue that like who are you to tell me that i'm not going to be happy because
00:01:01.280 i don't choose your path yes i don't think i said that that pretty much you read oh you kind of did
00:01:06.820 you're like oh what about the kids i mean in that way so who are you to say that i will say you think
00:01:13.480 i'm going to be less happy than you i think that if you live your life and you said you're not sharing
00:01:18.860 whether or not you're doing this we're all talking in hypothetical so i don't know exactly how you're
00:01:22.460 living right you didn't share that but if hypothetically you live your life where you are
00:01:26.680 starting multiple families with multiple women what if i have one family of 50 girlfriends i think in
00:01:32.940 the end it will bring great unhappiness to your family to your children to the mother of your
00:01:38.200 children that actually sounds like every man's dream i'm not gonna lie like i know like it would
00:01:45.500 come with a lot of problems i'm not even promoting this but if i think of like the typical guy
00:01:51.120 would he want a girlfriend and to be able to screw girls on the side if the wife could control her
00:01:58.560 emotions about it that sounds like a man's dream am i am i wrong maybe i'm wrong maybe i don't know
00:02:05.900 what do you think sounds like a bit of a dream it doesn't sound like reality you know i think there
00:02:15.080 would be problems that come with it but it's like i'm just thinking like would a guy be so upset and
00:02:21.140 like depressed he's like sitting oh my life is so horrible because i have a wife and a bunch of girls
00:02:26.400 like i'm just thinking how this sounds that's like telling a woman if you married rich to a hot
00:02:32.860 successful billionaire you're going to be depressed i think women can find ways to be depressed
00:02:37.940 you understand it's what's said about that it's the equivalent it's the equivalent okay
00:02:46.200 men have always led the world listen let's not act like that's not the case we invent build and
00:02:50.560 maintain society the fact that despite how beautiful you are you're stunning the fact that you can make
00:02:56.380 more money than the motherfucker that paved the road for me to get here is a joke yep it's a fucking
00:03:01.060 joke and it's broken now that's not disrespect to you but one thing i will say about the buy if you
00:03:05.320 bring the buy back up is that you can't do that shit in the buy okay no you no you can't you can't
00:03:10.760 even get on a porn site in dubai if you wanted to and i one thing i think they do to you in dubai
00:03:15.360 you just can't do it no no they they they take it away and for that i will say when i'm in dubai not
00:03:23.040 only is it safer but you see more families in dubai you see more you see kids you see things like this
00:03:28.400 it's a beautiful thing and you know i'm all about people having their free rights and everything but i do
00:03:33.640 think dubai gets that right because if america doesn't do something to save the men so men can
00:03:37.640 be good enough to get good beautiful women like you ladies then we are always going to have this
00:03:41.880 problem regardless of religion this is why we should ban porn in america i'm about it i'm for it
00:03:47.420 i could get behind that i could ban i'd ban birth control and porn yes and divorce in pearl's world
00:03:56.260 look look if we agree on anything i'm about but i'm all about banning porn it's so funny it's so
00:04:03.300 funny how the women are more upset about it than the guys right now well no well look look because
00:04:07.760 we're trying to freaking see this but the point is this it's happening what is it listening but i
00:04:12.100 hold on go ahead one quick thing is um perhaps the women at this table haven't been hurt by
00:04:18.020 a man cheating on them or a boyfriend or something cheating on them and look
00:04:22.260 porn or cheating with another person but i know people that have been hurt and probably we know
00:04:28.220 people who have been hurt i haven't yeah exactly so so and that's the point like what's the golden
00:04:33.780 rule right do unto others how you'd want them to do okay then delete your instagram this is
00:04:40.280 what i what i i'm not pro cheating and i hate i hate that i've now become an advocate for cheating
00:04:46.540 what i hate is the shaming of men for doing something that women do all of the time in
00:04:54.440 relationships even religious women have open instagrams that men can message them on
00:05:00.500 i do not like the hypocrisy that's what irritates me if we are going to shame j waller for cheating
00:05:10.020 i would like the same level of shaming to a woman with an open instagram that posts
00:05:16.520 bikini pictures and even not even bikini pictures because when you think about it when you're
00:05:23.120 taking a picture of your face you're saying look at my face this is my beauty you're showing your
00:05:27.000 beauty to the world and i understand we got we got brands we're like you know doing all this stuff
00:05:32.900 and i understand i understand it but my point is we don't have the same level of like shaming for
00:05:40.360 something that is the same thing in a different way maybe not the same i was thinking about this maybe
00:05:44.600 it's not the same level of it but it's still the same thing in a different way and that's what
00:05:50.060 irritates me right and so i think that's really you mentioned a crisis of masculinity i think there's
00:05:56.080 a crisis of femininity too because you know we set the standard as women right like that's part of
00:06:01.580 i agree with this i i think i think i agree with where she's going in society of saying like
00:06:05.600 we're gonna have boundaries we're gonna have standards for the men
00:06:08.340 wait wait wait wait wait she did it again wait wait she did it again
00:06:16.660 it's so in the language listen that's part of our role in society of saying like we're gonna have
00:06:21.760 boundaries we're gonna have standards for the men and that they need to rise to the occasion for us
00:06:26.980 they need this is the whole point they need to rise to the occasion not for themselves
00:06:32.540 but for women you hear it it's like and i'm sure i've used this language at some point in my life
00:06:39.720 but it's like it's so programmed like into the language she didn't even say we need to have
00:06:44.940 boundaries or standards for ourselves she said for the men why why why would you have
00:06:50.620 it's it's very backwards thinking in my opinion it's like it's almost it's like pointing at the
00:06:58.280 um speck in someone's eye when you have a log in yours yeah well and i'm thinking like wait
00:07:03.980 what about let's have higher standards so we can be more pure for our husbands
00:07:09.980 yes and so it's funny because it's still like the me me me culture where even when she's like speaking
00:07:16.860 about how to be better women it's still for me me me me it's not for him isn't that crazy
00:07:22.680 how about and or how about we have better standards for ourselves so that we can attract
00:07:28.280 because if you look at it men pursue women attract right so if you're attracting you can you can only
00:07:37.200 set standards for people you are going after you can't you can't it's like you need to set standards
00:07:42.260 for yourself since you're attracting and then whenever whoever comes to you obviously if they don't meet
00:07:48.800 if they don't match who you are as a person then they don't match but it's like you are not even
00:07:56.500 you don't even match the standards you're setting for the guy but i would argue there's just as many
00:08:00.800 male feminists as there are women yes those pussy motherfuckers are the ones that's messing
00:08:05.060 everything up they're all same young beautiful girl would be much happier if there's a man that you
00:08:09.160 could be inside of his frame and not be talking to weirdos on the internet i know you make a lot
00:08:12.800 money and i don't blame you for doing it 70 grand a month that's good money but ideally for you if
00:08:18.880 there was a man that but the problem also is the standards do you know what i mean like what would
00:08:24.420 she be willing to go live with a masculine man in an apartment while he saved up so they could buy a
00:08:31.900 house no no not when she's made not when she has made 70k in a month or in a year before i've always felt
00:08:40.900 like money doesn't really change you it just shows you who you are like even just like alcohol just
00:08:50.560 like substances they don't make you a different person it just just it removes inhibitions so you
00:08:57.240 have all these walls built up then when you take alcohol you remove the walls and then your true self
00:09:03.900 comes out it's the same with money yeah yeah well because i was thinking about how i was thinking about
00:09:10.280 myself and i was thinking about my dad how neither of us like have really been into like designer or
00:09:15.660 all that stuff and it's kind of like if you spend your money when you're broke on that stuff you'll
00:09:20.020 do the same thing when you're rich it just keeps going yeah and i was thinking what i don't know what
00:09:25.600 her lifestyle is but i understand why men are so frustrated that they feel like they have to maintain
00:09:31.040 a lifestyle because especially because i think about these things because i don't i don't do them
00:09:37.820 um like when it comes to like i mean some of it but like the nails the fake hair the botox the
00:09:44.280 the lip filler all that shit that the bbls all that stuff like it's so expensive that i often wonder and
00:09:50.320 the new clothes the fashionable like in style clothes i always think i'm like how do they afford it
00:09:55.320 they they can't they have to be living off of credit cards or something because the average chick's
00:09:59.760 making like 35 40 000 a year and and this is why once a woman gets sucked into that life she really
00:10:08.260 can't be with a regular guy anymore yeah because a regular guy can't afford to maintain that lifestyle
00:10:14.020 for her yeah and she'll resent the one that can't because again she feels like she's better than the
00:10:20.600 men because she's being subsidized by beauty