@JWALLER DEBATES Trad Con Woman On Monogamy
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Summary
Lila Rose confronts Justin Waller on his sexual morals and why he doesn t believe in monogamy. She also asks him why he thinks it s a good thing to have multiple families and why it s better to have a single dad than a stepdad.
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Today I'm reacting to whatever podcast Lila Rose confronts Justin Waller on sexual morals.
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Justin, do you ever see yourself getting married?
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I believe in love and marriage in regards to taking care of a woman fully and your responsibilities as a father and a provider and provider and protector, 100%.
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In fact, I think that's probably what's broken about the world.
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But in regards to letting the state get into all my businesses that took me over a decade to build, absolutely not, no.
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How do you think you're going to get to the place of that marriage you want with that family and that lifelong love?
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So you want to keep it private is what you're saying?
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No, he's saying he doesn't want the government involved.
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So you can do the ceremony, do the rings thing, but why does the government need to be involved?
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Do you think that's a good thing to have multiple families?
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I think it's good if there's one dad and there's not a bunch of step parents involved and the dad can be the hero and those five families live a 10x better life than they would have otherwise.
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But you don't think that it will be ultimately an opportunity for jealousy or disharmony amongst the other family?
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Women have been jealous all the way through time.
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You know, it's interesting how, like, she automatically makes it about her.
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She's like, well, I'm not jealous in my marriage.
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But, you know, and I'm someone, you know, I believe one.
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I think it's really hypocritical for the Christians to shame men about monogamy when women are not monogamous nowadays.
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Because, again, 95% of women are not virgins on their wedding night.
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So it's like they'll say, well, why don't you practice monogamy?
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But monogamy used to be one partner for a lifetime, not one partner at a time.
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So when you think about it, most Christians are not practicing monogamy.
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And I also think it's silly to not, to say the situation that he's describing is, like, subpar or can't work when it has worked for hundreds of thousands of years.
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Like, Muslims have done that for so long that there has to be a way to do it that is effective.
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I'm going to run my situation exactly how I want to.
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And generally, when I do that, that's when I have the most happiness, let's say.
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And it's interesting, too, because I bet you she comes in and, like, shames him for this, right?
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And it's interesting because whenever men are traditionally masculine, right?
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Because he's saying, I'm going to live my life on my terms, then women always want to come in and, like, shame them for that.
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To act like women are going to be, like, traumatized forever from this stuff.
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It's just like, one, a lot of women pick cheaters.
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And two, two, you know, they've done it in the East for generations.
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Please do not misconstrue this as me saying to do it.
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I live my daughters that are overly spoiled and educated in every way and have friends
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all over the world and world-traveled in the best schools in the world.
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If they have a problem with me at the end of the day, then they can kick rocks too.
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But you notice how when she tried to shame him, how he was unaffected?
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So obviously, I know there are some people that if you try to shame them, they might feel
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But like I said, like, if you are a man who knows your stuff, you know yourself, you know
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who you are, it's very hard for people to shame you.
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But if they grow up and turn into a person that doesn't want to get in line with me or...
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Give them the skills so they can live on their own terms and give them choice.
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If they choose not to make me part of their life after I've given them those things,
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But I guess I'm asking if you're comfortable answering, obviously.
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But are you wanting to be a role model for your kids?
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So now she's like insinuating that he's not a role model.
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A father should show up in every way for his children.
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I think I'll be better than most fathers, regardless of how many children I have.
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But you think part of being a role model, it's okay for your kids not to know even your relationship
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They will know their relationship status with me and their mother.
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But you have other relationships with other women, too.
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But you don't think that's a problem for your daughter to know that about their dad?
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Well, but my question is, whenever this comes up, like, what about the kids in that situation?
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The kids would only know if the mother cannot control her emotions and tells them.
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And Jay Waller has been very open about his views on things.
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So any woman that picks that knows what she's getting into.
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But do you want your daughter to have a guy like that long-term?
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If he takes care of her in every way and she has a much better life because of it, yeah.
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And that's the other problem they don't talk about is women are not, you know, even, I don't know how many kids she has, but I guarantee it's less than four.
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But, you know, it's probably, if we're going off of stats, it's probably two.
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And the average woman used to give a man five kids.
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So if a guy wants ten children, how does he get that when women today won't give it to him?
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So, again, a lot of times men adapt to the market and then we whine about how they adapt.
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So there's too many dumbass people having kids.
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Dude, is Justin low-key about to repopulate the world?
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Is Justin about to single-handedly reverse the declining birth rate?
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They got all these single women out here talking shit about shit, man.
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Now, part of it is being a smartass right now, right, to be honest.
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But, look, if a guy decides to have a bunch of children, I mean, you see it happen all the time.
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Ends up getting a divorce and then goes and has babies with the next chick.
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Doing the same thing I'm doing, except I'm not a lying coward about it.
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Yeah, that's the other crazy thing is men do it all the time.
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They just have the wives at different times in their lives.
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But I'm just thinking, like, there's no way the whole eastern side of the world has done it for generations.
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And there's not a way to do it without the kids being traumatized.
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Because we have more mental disorders now than we did a hundred years ago.
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But I think the big question is, I mean, it seems like you're really focused on self-improvement, which is awesome.
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And so I guess my question would be, is it ideal?
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Like, what are we striving towards individually, right?
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And I think kids want to know their parents love each other and are committed.
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But do you think it would be a little bit confusing for one of your kids if they found out, let's say, theoretically?
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No, because if they trust me enough to come to me, I'll just tell them the truth.
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It seems like you're challenging because you have a problem with it.
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So your kids, you're saying you don't care if they find out you have multiple mistresses.
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If I had multiple women and then my kids came to me, then I would just talk to them like an adult.
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If they're adult enough to ask, I'm adult enough to tell them.
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As your mother, you're supposed to protect your kids from this information.
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So, one, any girl that signs up to be with him knows what she's signing up for.
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They find out because the mothers go talking to the kids.