JustPearlyThings - March 23, 2023


Man Marries a Girl Online


Episode Stats

Length

12 minutes

Words per Minute

162.05638

Word Count

2,029

Sentence Count

2


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 how are you doing how are you doing after the divorce
00:00:02.560 i found my lady i'm currently married now but i'm married are you married again you married
00:00:10.480 again yes i am okay i i found her abroad where where did you find her possible bro
00:00:16.940 okay so i'm trying i'm petitioning her to get over here let me let me let me let me ask you
00:00:28.880 a question because people always talk about the passport bras and people going abroad
00:00:32.400 you know to find a woman was she was she a younger woman was she a child because this is what people
00:00:40.880 say they say that you know people are going abroad to find very younger women who are impressionable
00:00:46.460 he's actually five years younger than me i'm 43 oh okay well she's of eight yeah she okay
00:00:53.900 you said you're married she's not here yet she's not here yet no oh okay hang on whoa whoa whoa hang
00:01:02.360 on so you married over there no i married online
00:01:06.680 well this just got interesting how the hell do you marry online bro like what the hell is that
00:01:13.420 so there is this uh gentleman that i was filing on youtube he is actually filipino he married his
00:01:20.980 wife as well this was during the pandemic so then this company from utah they do online marriages and
00:01:30.680 they're actually um legitimate because the board the what's it called the um my bro my bro have you
00:01:38.120 seen this woman have you met her in real life uh yes i went over there for a month in april okay so
00:01:44.000 you met you met her for a month and then you got married online and how we got married before i met her
00:01:50.980 wow okay back back up so you you married a woman before you met her
00:01:57.540 uh before i met her physically yes
00:02:01.680 how why
00:02:04.440 she could have been anybody i she could have been yeah she could have been a catfish too but then the
00:02:11.380 thing is um i i went with that route because i wanted to go with someone that was within
00:02:17.860 my religion that was my problem before all right which is fine you can have your religion but
00:02:25.020 i'm just talking about like common sense type stuff like how can you marry somebody that you've never
00:02:30.640 met right you've never seen you've never touched and you're gonna you're gonna wholeheartedly
00:02:36.460 devote the rest of your life to somebody like that correct so the way i see things is
00:02:44.860 not really like other people say like hey this is the norm um
00:02:50.800 it's definitely not the norm bro it's definitely not the norm you know what i mean and but if you
00:02:59.080 think about it what was the norm back in the days you would go and you talk to the
00:03:03.300 the father the father the father yeah yeah correct but you would but you but you but you
00:03:10.860 but you would have seen his daughter in your daughter but you yeah but you would have seen his
00:03:15.160 daughter you you didn't see online i'm saying yeah come on brava okay so how long have you been
00:03:23.340 married now um it'll be our first our year our year anniversary in january 18th okay and since
00:03:31.680 you've been married how many times have you seen her um just the whole month of april so you've seen
00:03:38.760 her the whole month of april since you've been married and since april and today and right now
00:03:44.340 we're in december you haven't seen your woman since april no but i i'm i'm playing with this
00:03:51.500 whole thing i'm gonna go back again probably march more than likely are you saying are you do you send
00:04:00.000 her money you send her money yes
00:04:02.060 my bro no no no no but i what do you mean by that though what was the question what was the
00:04:12.540 question all right go on go on pa go on pa go on pa i i just i hope it works out i'm not they're
00:04:20.000 they're like i just i don't know if it's wise to like be sending a girl money that you've met once
00:04:26.140 for a month and married and marry like someone online that's not normal like i i i don't know
00:04:34.160 a single married person that's done that you know but no no i hear you i hope it works out for you
00:04:40.000 um it seems like you're already too deep in this really we're really um into the church we're really
00:04:46.980 into worshiping we call each other we worship you know um that's very important to us
00:04:55.280 because at the end of the day let's say we get into an argument well you have to have a standard
00:05:05.260 and you have to be able to look at something to be able to mitigate that argument so we just pray
00:05:13.560 together what do you i mean what do you argue about if you see each other once a year
00:05:17.660 no no i mean there's really you turned up is it like you turned up late for the for the zoom
00:05:25.420 meeting or like is that what you argue about like what the hell no no like for example we had a little
00:05:31.600 argument and say that i i'm i'm trying to do a bunch of things at the same time i'm trying to like
00:05:36.600 tend to my daughter trying to go to school i have two jobs and then i have my wife so i'm trying to
00:05:43.760 petitioner so she's asking hey can you um do this with with respect to the petition i go i can do it
00:05:55.160 yeah i can do it just give me some time what do you mean by petition what do you mean by petition
00:05:58.840 what do you mean petition means uh getting her to go over here to the united states legally okay okay
00:06:03.880 so it's taken from april to december she's still not over here okay yes actually july is when i
00:06:11.660 petitioned her so do you so how old is she when you met her 30 32 36 36 okay so has she got
00:06:21.880 children has she been married before or she's no no children and never been married okay and like
00:06:27.840 how and you just met her through this organization or your church so i i met through the church okay
00:06:34.420 listen i i i hope it all works out for you i'm just saying um
00:06:40.720 that that when i always say passport bros this isn't what we've yeah like this is the thing it's
00:06:48.480 like you i think that men generally need to be a little bit smarter with you know when they talk
00:06:56.300 about going to meet people abroad or finding a woman from abroad because if you've seen this woman
00:07:03.460 once in april and then you got married to her and now you're trying to get her over here and i'm not
00:07:07.480 saying listen i'm not trying to disrespect you um um it just seems like there hasn't been enough time
00:07:15.780 that's been invested into this person on a personal level for you to get married to her and for you to
00:07:24.260 you know i guess trust her to be your wife she's in a whole nother country you're ever you're in a
00:07:29.500 whole nother country you're trying to get her over here i understand that you're trying to get her over
00:07:32.580 here um but yeah it just kind of it just seems a little bit how much how much have you spent on
00:07:41.540 her like sent her money like you send her money every month so um she got a new apartment
00:07:49.140 i want to say four months ago with with your money
00:07:57.480 no um so she was she's working as a registered nurse at the advent one of our uh the religious um
00:08:07.660 okay hospitals the adventist medical center are you seven day adventist and so i'm seven day adventist
00:08:13.740 yeah i i grew up seven day adventist too oh did you yeah i did oh awesome so yeah so over there in
00:08:20.040 adventist medical center manila that's where she works okay uh as a single person you get to live at
00:08:27.000 the dorm for free at the hospital she once they get married they have to go uh abroad and so they have
00:08:37.560 to pay for their own way now okay and what she was doing is uh she was i think she said she was paying
00:08:43.960 like she wasn't for free i think she was paying like 2 000 pesos can i just get this in u.s dollars
00:08:50.020 just like i'm sorry how much how much a month for how long it was like two thousand was like a hundred
00:08:56.260 bucks a hundred bucks a month yeah that's what she was paying okay so that's how much you're sending
00:09:02.780 her every month no no i'm sending her 140 okay okay so the reason i'm sending her 140 is because
00:09:12.200 she found an apartment that i was like i think it was she's your wife does it yeah you know 300
00:09:18.820 she's your wife did the church get like a cut of anything for setting you guys up no no okay
00:09:27.920 the the church had no idea okay i wasn't sure like the organization you guys used or whatever it was
00:09:35.080 no that was just a an online service that was a bunch of denominations but i looked for us
00:09:40.900 when i was seventh day at venice um i wanted to say that my reason for looking abroad was that
00:09:48.120 i noticed that did i hear the i
00:09:50.640 the the whole ideology and stuff like that the the perception of how a man should be how a woman should
00:10:01.160 be i didn't like it i like the laws that they have over there because over there it doesn't matter
00:10:10.680 whether you're seventh day at venice whatever domination you are you can't get divorced for
00:10:14.400 whatever reason you have it has to be infidelity right and it has to be proven right so i already
00:10:21.880 like that fact two in our religion we know that we're not the only way that we're going to get
00:10:28.340 divorce is adultery right or in other words in god's eyes that he would allow you to do it even
00:10:36.340 though he was he that's frowned upon okay because what does he say forgiveness okay so i decided you
00:10:45.420 know what i'm gonna go that route can i can i ask you a question how how how long before she
00:10:51.300 becomes how long before she comes to the country it's already been since july so the vermont center
00:10:59.640 is saying another four months wow so net and so near enough a year before you've seen near enough
00:11:07.460 okay yeah but i i still plan to go over there you'll see uh hi to the in-laws and all that stuff
00:11:15.780 okay yeah it's funny because my even my wife asked me she says babe why didn't you look for
00:11:24.280 someone closer there in the united states i said babe um i know what kind of ladies are here
00:11:33.860 and if i was to look for someone that was close to my age she's probably had already a body count
00:11:41.340 fair enough fair enough i'm not i'm not gonna go that route and my wife did not have a body count
00:11:48.060 she had no body count so what are your final thoughts on this i mean she says she has no body
00:11:54.240 count but you know um well i mean i was with her i can confirm that it was no body count fair enough
00:12:03.460 okay so you you consummated the marriage before the marriage is what you're trying to say
00:12:08.800 no he met her after they're married yeah indeed so oh so you consummated the marriage okay yeah
00:12:14.960 yeah i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform
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