In this episode we talk about Emotions and how to control your emotions. We discuss the difference between women and men when it comes to dealing with emotions and how we can control our emotions. Also, we discuss how to deal with emotional breakdowns and how important it is to be emotionally available.
00:00:00.000Where we're like kind of deviating is because we're speaking about emotions, you know what I'm saying, and that's where, like, again, not to say you are or you're not, but the emotions start to jump out of you, you know what I'm trying to say as a man, you know what I'm saying, is to be able to control your emotions, you know what I'm saying, cry or don't cry, you've got to be able to control your emotions, and what we've seen there is you've got emotions, the mic's out, you know what I'm saying, so you're not necessarily controlling your emotion, and that's where in today's society, a lot of men
00:00:29.980are emotional, you know what I'm saying, that's why they do an erratic thing, that's why they're going to punch up this and do that, but when you're in control of your emotions, you know what I'm saying, you're not really going to be thinking irrational, because when you're, women, like, get emotional, and then they'll throw a cup at you, oh, you're a bastard, you're a bastard.
00:00:47.180But I'm saying, that's generally, yeah, women are more emotional, and they're going to do their things, they start to rip your jacket, because it's emotional, you know what I'm saying, but men are not really like that, but if you're a man and you know how to control your emotions, you're not really
00:00:59.900going to be losing it here, there, and everywhere.
00:01:02.000Controlling emotions comes down to the individual's character, do you know what I'm saying, someone goes through certain trials and tribulations, traumas, and stuff like that, and then, like, they'll be able to, like, if they go through, like, for me, for instance, yeah, I've gone through personal issues, like my dad had cancer, yeah, recently, yeah, and I went through that, and obviously it hit me hard, but obviously I've been using the gym, I've been working on myself mentally, I've been managing emotions through differently, do you know what I'm saying, too?
00:01:22.360So I think there's a time and place also to, like, you know, break down and stuff like that as well. I don't think, me personally, I wouldn't go, like, if I was, like, seeing someone, I wouldn't go to the girl and break down to her, so it's not my character, I would just do it in my own time, because I like to self-reflect as he is a man.
00:01:38.460But I feel a lot of guys I know, a lot of my friends, they will be a bit more emotional, they will break down and, you know, they want me to handle certain things, and I think a lot of females do put a time limit until when, okay, cool, you've been crying now for, like, three months, when are you going to go and get your shit together?
00:01:52.360So I feel a lot of females will say, oh, I want a guy to be a bit more emotionally available, but when he's way too much emotionally available, then it's like, okay, cool, I've lost the spectrum, you know, you've been down for, like, three months, when are you going to get your shit together?
00:02:03.380Women want strong men, but I feel, but there isn't a lot of strong men, though, that's the truth.
00:02:08.120Because me and me, but, you know, the truth is, though, the truth is, you know, the truth is, you know, the truth is, you know, the truth is, you know, the truth is, you know, the truth is, you know, if I was, I'm a girl, I feel like I'm a strong man, you understand? I feel like it, I move like it, if I cry, does that make me weak?