Man SHUTS DOWN Woman With This Fact
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss what men are looking for in a woman and what they want in a partner. We also discuss the importance of purity and what men look for from a woman. We discuss our own experiences with purity and how we have dealt with it in our own relationships.
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so tell me why did you say 120 K I just think that's like what like the from
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being married and stuff like that that's where our financial position was so
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that's kind of like my baseline mm-hmm you don't do you but I'm not assuming
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that I'm not earning any money at this point and he's like I'm also working and
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providing it like equal yeah but men don't care about your money it's like
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nothing to them yeah but we're talking about my opinion on it not therapy no no
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but I'm saying you just said that you would be working to and I'm saying to the
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guy like they wouldn't care okay do you not do you not care I'm a little bit I
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mean I've been quite fortunate to date girls that earn a decent amount of money
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especially when I've been younger it is nice but it's not like I put it's not a
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it's not a major deal I mean like I could happily date a girl that works at
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McDonald's if she was a nice girl okay what do you guys think that men look
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for so if you had to list like five things that men look for what would you
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say god I've really been out the game for a while so I think I'm not the right
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person to ask yeah you're in it now so what do you get this guy right you got to
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know your target your mark like it's too soon it's too soon I'm working on me but
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you didn't learn anything about like what your husband liked if you're married
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that long not me anything how long were you married ten years to you you were
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married you got for ten years you didn't learn anything about men clearly not
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because he left so I don't know I don't have to answer that question okay what
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do you think men want I think they want a woman that gives them space to be them
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hmm I also think they want someone that like supports them I always believe I
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think I come from quite a traditional and background in terms of like family
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and like how things run I'd say and so I think a woman that allows him to be the
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head but still can be the neck that holds him through whatever it is that you
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both need to go through and I think someone that's his peace you know someone
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that can bring some form of tranquility into his life when everything feels like
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it's all over the place or to just actually just you know just be at peace
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and not bring so much like problems or always moaning or plucking things that are
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thinner to make something happen from past trauma or whatever it is I think
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that's what men kind of look and again I'd say that looks or some sometimes it
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could be body but I wouldn't say it is I think it depends on what stage they're at
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in their life if they're willing to just like mess around and just want their
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things I feel like that's what they focus on but I think when they're ready to
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settle down it's just a woman that can ground them what do you think I feel like
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I wouldn't be able to say like just five things like I feel like in my
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relationship I know that like my boyfriend tells me that for him it's
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important that I can give him space that he can grow into the person he needs to
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be but as long as he knows that I'm gonna be there to wait for him to get to
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that point then he feels secure in that you know I mean so I feel like men want
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somebody who's gonna be there with them because for men they want to be able to
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turn around and say yeah I went through ABCD but this woman stood by me the whole
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time so that's why she gets to reap the benefits now so loyalty yeah loyalty is
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really important for men like obviously everybody wants to be with a loyal
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partner like men or women but for men it's really important like it's so so
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important that they can have somebody who grows with them because they want to
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build with their women they don't want to like just make the money and then get a
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girl who's only come after the money you know I mean they want somebody who's
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been there the whole time so that they feel like this person actually deserves now to
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reap the benefits of what I've made because they've been there the whole
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time anything else that you have other than loyalty the dog's loyal I think
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I think how she carries herself as well like if you're somebody who's you know
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you don't carry yourself well in public you have a bit of a reputation for
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yourself it's gonna make the men look at you a bit sideways like do I really want
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this person to be associated with me so like purity yeah period as well you want to
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come from a good place you want to have good like morals and stuff like that so
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it's not it's like if you know one day you end up having to meet their family
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and stuff their family don't feel like they have anything to like pick at you
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about like you've got good morals you come from a good place you know you've got
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yourself together and they can see that as well then that's what they're looking
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for okay what about you I'm definitely men want love 100% loyalty they want peace
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they want you to be their piece so how can you give it because I always hear
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women say that like I want to be his piece but I never hear any specifics it's
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in terms of like you know leaves the house but work stress got stereotype stress
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um and then you come home and then you're probably moaning about something
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that he he didn't call you today like I bring peace to my partner and I'm not
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just saying that but I I I know that because when he come home and we're
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together there's this where he can just relax his shoulders basically and not
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have to be this tough or or watch his back or kind of be like there's a lot of men
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have to carry a lot basically so the fact that you can be a shoulder to lean on
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listen to them support them it's almost kind of like therapy but not in that sort
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of way men want their women to be therapists not therapists not in that way
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but men want to have somebody that they can open up to as much as they feel like
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they want to be tough they want to be they want to have their person and that and
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their partner is that person we're not judged not feeling like they need to be
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something that they have to be on the road in the house that sort of thing um and
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men want love they want genuine wholehearted love um because you know it's
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that sort of thing you can tell when a guy's in a good relationship how they act
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and when they're in a bad relationship it affects their whole world around them as
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much as they might be tough or not so that kind of deep genuine love is one of the
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things that they're looking for because when guys are in the young age and they're
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sleeping around they're not looking for those um um they're looking for family
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orientated um a strong woman somebody like all those things that they're looking
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actually i have one question do you think women like men that are opening up to them
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emotionally um i think so yeah funny enough um i know someone who she appreciates that
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um because you get to know the real person when they open up um in terms of partner because
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there's a lot of things that shape a man you know like family history um what they went
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through childhood adulthood like there's a lot of things that shape them so when they open
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up to a woman that's how they get the full picture of a man for example my mom always
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said when i started dating a man can only act for so long so he might approach with this
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tough exterior and then or he's chasing after something and then he can't act for that long
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and then he kind of realize who that real person is