JustPearlyThings - May 01, 2023


Men Logically Break Down Cheating To Women


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Length

8 minutes

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183.24368

Word Count

1,601

Sentence Count

13


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Have you ever been cheated on and have you ever cheated?
00:00:04.960 Yes, I've been cheated on and
00:00:07.540 I never cheat. You never cheat. How did you find out he cheated?
00:00:13.480 Painful
00:00:15.680 Well, I find out I
00:00:18.520 Don't know it's just like sometimes
00:00:21.540 God loves me too much and they just show me little things. You're right. God God
00:00:30.000 And I knew he was cheating because I think men when they are cheating they they are way
00:00:40.200 They feel guilty and then try to make it up to you
00:00:44.280 So he was he was like buying you stuff and treating you well
00:00:48.820 Okay, and so then how do you get evidence or well? I just I'm not a person that go into someone's phone
00:00:56.400 Okay, so far. Yeah, but it just it just happened
00:01:00.220 For me to see okay, you saw like a message and I saw a message and then from there obviously I checked and yeah
00:01:06.680 And then like what it was him like messaging yeah over or something
00:01:11.460 No, it was more I can't really say it because it's a bit inappropriate
00:01:17.000 So it was like some sexual stuff. Okay. I feel like we got to qualify the question
00:01:22.000 What do you mean by cheating as in going the whole way or?
00:01:25.140 Mmm, what's cheating is such a loose that's a good that's a good question when I think of cheating. I think of like stuff
00:01:32.400 That's like sexual, you know, I would say kissing someone else is cheating
00:01:36.600 Yeah, but unless you're in like an arrange it's not cheating if you guys agree to the you know
00:01:41.420 What if it's like a just a flirty text message? Yeah, like text messages
00:01:46.100 Instagram that you replied to something
00:01:48.100 But from there it's starting right premeditated
00:01:50.620 Not necessarily
00:01:51.120 Not necessarily
00:01:51.960 Because for me there's also emotional cheating like if you invest your most emotional energy in someone else
00:01:56.520 That's also cheating because I could be with a guy and then I'm investing my emotional energy into another guy
00:02:01.220 You're still cheating. I think I think that emotional cheating. That's a that's a woman thing. I think, you know
00:02:05.720 Like just you don't really care as a man, isn't it? See men men when it comes to men men cheat for different reasons
00:02:11.240 From when women cheat you understand what I mean
00:02:13.400 Yeah, that's why when women cheat people say that it hurts more. It hurts the man more, you know, I mean, because men
00:02:20.340 It's like our penises kind of talk for us
00:02:24.220 Like our penises are the ones that are making the decision certain times, you know, and once you've bust that nut and
00:02:31.220 You're like you snap back to normal
00:02:33.220 You can go about the love of her
00:02:35.220 I still love her though
00:02:36.220 Yeah, yeah, you bust that nut, you're like, oh, what am I doing here?
00:02:39.220 Yeah, you come to your senses
00:02:41.220 You come to your senses, no pun intended
00:02:43.220 So that's why you're saying man do it, just to go bust there, and then after they come to me
00:02:47.220 There's a double standard for sure
00:02:49.220 Guys can have sex with our emotions
00:02:51.220 But with females, they
00:02:53.220 It's different, they need emotions
00:02:55.220 Men can have full-blown sex with a woman and feel less than a woman sending a flirty text message
00:03:01.220 Like we can be more upset over them sending a text message than us having full-blown sex with a woman
00:03:07.220 My mum broke it down from a practical standpoint, right? This is genius
00:03:10.220 If you let someone into your home, that's slightly more personal than you going into someone's home
00:03:15.220 And women from a practical standpoint, they are allowing you access to their insides
00:03:21.220 You're just visiting, you can visit a hundred houses in a day
00:03:24.220 Not that I recommend you do that
00:03:26.220 But I don't condone it, I don't suggest you do it
00:03:36.220 That's it
00:03:37.220 I'm trying to, there's some study, I'm trying to find it that like backs up what you guys are saying
00:03:42.220 Where they asked like married men that cheated if they still loved their wives
00:03:45.220 And it was like 85% or 80% roughly still said they did
00:03:49.220 I mean, it's not like they don't love them anymore
00:03:53.220 It's like maybe they want to try something different
00:03:55.220 It's true
00:03:56.220 Bro, so true
00:03:58.220 Have you guys cheated? Have you guys cheated?
00:03:59.220 Honestly
00:04:00.220 Yeah, I've been a serial cheater man
00:04:02.220 Come on, any man says I haven't cheated they will lie
00:04:05.220 But Paul, Paul
00:04:06.220 Not every guy can cheat
00:04:08.220 That's true, but Paul
00:04:10.220 On the subject that you just said of married men
00:04:12.220 I remember being in the lift, I went to go clubbing with the guys who was in the lift
00:04:16.220 And we seen an older guy, he must have been around about, say about 65 years old
00:04:20.220 And he was like, oh lads, you gonna enjoy, like have a good night tonight
00:04:23.220 We was like, yeah
00:04:24.220 Then he was like, yeah, I'm on a prom looking for a woman tonight
00:04:27.220 And we were like, okay
00:04:28.220 He was like, I'm married by the way, but I'm bored
00:04:31.220 He was like, she don't do nothing for me
00:04:33.220 But I love my wife
00:04:34.220 A friend of mine once said, behind every grey looking woman is a man sick of shagna
00:04:38.220 And I'm sorry to like, I know women don't want to hear that
00:04:42.220 But like, and it's not all true
00:04:44.220 Like, obviously there's exceptions, there's good guys out there
00:04:46.220 But I do feel like, men, we are programmed to want to multiply
00:04:52.220 That is like, it's not a choice
00:04:53.220 We wake up every morning with a full sack and we're ready to go
00:04:56.220 And unfortunately for women, if you're not there
00:04:59.220 Like, that's why women unfortunately have to be on their A-game
00:05:03.220 It's not fair, but it's just the way it is
00:05:05.220 I beg to differ on that one
00:05:07.220 For the simple fact of, you can be that woman, or that man
00:05:13.220 Absolutely
00:05:14.220 And you could be everything that he dreams of
00:05:16.220 I agree
00:05:17.220 And yet still, somehow, some way, I can be submissive
00:05:22.220 I can give it to you as and when you want it, multiple times out of the day
00:05:27.220 But the truth is, if you want to go out and do that, you're going to do it
00:05:32.220 That works both ways though
00:05:33.220 No, and I was going to get to that point
00:05:35.220 Sorry
00:05:36.220 You know, to me, it's like, I've always looked at cheating
00:05:41.220 I've been on the receiving end of that
00:05:43.220 And I've been there multiple times
00:05:47.220 Now, it does two things
00:05:49.220 It makes you look inside yourself and think
00:05:51.220 Okay, have I done something in order to not satisfy him?
00:05:57.220 What drove him to look at me, but you're telling me that you love me
00:06:02.220 You care for me
00:06:03.220 Oh, you know, you're my world
00:06:05.220 Okay, show me that I'm your world
00:06:07.220 But then you still show me that
00:06:09.220 But then you still feel, alright, I'm going to go out and demand him
00:06:12.220 Yeah, different area cold, they ain't going to know
00:06:15.220 No, it's not about that
00:06:17.220 Do you understand what I'm saying?
00:06:18.220 And it's the same with women as well
00:06:19.220 Women, I believe, if you feel that you have to get to that point where you're cheating
00:06:25.220 Why are you still in that relationship?
00:06:27.220 Why haven't you sat down and had that A and B conversation?
00:06:31.220 Okay, well I could flip it on you and say
00:06:33.220 Why did you choose the wrong men multiple times in a row then?
00:06:35.220 Okay, no, no, no
00:06:36.220 No disrespect
00:06:37.220 No, no, no, and that's a fair question
00:06:39.220 Because there are good guys out there
00:06:40.220 No, no, no, and that is a very fair question
00:06:42.220 But you just said every man cheats
00:06:44.220 No, I said every man has the urge in them
00:06:46.220 They're programmed to want to fuck every day
00:06:48.220 That's, well, generally
00:06:49.220 I'll answer because women in general like men that cheat
00:06:54.220 It's true, it's true
00:06:56.220 I mean, from an average
00:06:58.220 No, I don't like that
00:07:00.220 No, I don't like that
00:07:02.220 I wish my ex-girlfriend was like you
00:07:06.220 No, no, no, I'm not
00:07:08.220 I'm not, I'm not proud of this
00:07:10.220 Like it's not like a good thing that makes women look good
00:07:12.220 But look at who women pick
00:07:13.220 Like two women have always reproduced for every one man
00:07:16.220 And while there have been, there have been monogamous
00:07:18.220 Like throughout the last two million years
00:07:20.220 There have been monogamous societies
00:07:22.220 And the majority like of the population has been monogamous
00:07:25.220 But the top 15% of men have never been monogamous ever
00:07:30.220 And now what's the difference today?
00:07:32.220 Women now are completely in control of sex
00:07:34.220 Which has never happened in all of history, right?
00:07:36.220 And what has happened since we've gotten in control of sex?
00:07:39.220 We have been sleeping with a smaller and smaller percentage of men
00:07:42.220 So what does that mean?
00:07:43.220 We could have the monogamous guys, but none of us pick them
00:07:45.220 So, and we don't when we have the most youth and the most beauty
00:07:49.220 Because usually like we do go into monogamous relationships
00:07:52.220 But we do it in our 30s
00:07:54.220 Because the average age of first marriage is in 31
00:07:56.220 So that means we're non-monogamous in our 20s
00:07:58.220 I have a question for them
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