JustPearlyThings - July 21, 2023


Modern Woman Gets SHUT DOWN For Saying This


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

204.12859

Word Count

2,070

Sentence Count

1


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 i'll tell you something though and i all do respect to you right but men will find it at
00:00:06.440 least the men that i'm surrounded by and i'm 32 and i i'm surrounded by loads of men especially
00:00:11.660 how quality men coaches blah blah blah but anyway men will find it very difficult to get married to
00:00:17.000 a prostitute just because of her work period and other way around i think woman is the same
00:00:24.640 right some men will marry a prostitute but on the promise of like okay she will change her job blah
00:00:29.720 blah blah but you will find it very difficult for a man to settle down with a prostitute
00:00:33.860 i've dated a lot of strippers for instance like they were like reversing it but did you get married
00:00:38.280 to them no but like i had a lot of stripper girlfriends in different places yeah girlfriends
00:00:41.480 is different when you're married and having children to a stripper or a prostitute now listen
00:00:46.860 there's there's a lot of prostitutes that are amazing girls then they're out there doing that
00:00:52.040 job to support their families and their circumstances is just different a hundred percent now but they do
00:00:58.900 get pushed down or like not looked at because they're prostitutes or strippers it's the same
00:01:03.840 for men the quality of men and he can make a lot of money whatever it is wait you think it's the
00:01:08.580 same for men when they've slept around when they slept around and openly sharing about it and it's
00:01:13.800 just everyone knows about it the quality you go for it are women skeptical and reluctant to sleep with
00:01:21.860 drake now here is the thing right this is the thing um definitely i will just answer your question
00:01:30.260 it's a no-no right and they're not yes what about i'm gonna ask you another what about rappers
00:01:35.820 ballers nick cannon look at nick cannon he's got all the baby but here's the thing who are they going
00:01:40.320 for yeah listen if they're going for a certain type of girls that's like unknown they earn less than
00:01:47.820 them um they kind of like structure yeah they will not hesitate in two seconds and drake had a kid
00:01:57.100 with a stripper but high quality women will definitely not sleep with drake and so many
00:02:02.660 other rappers and they'd be i don't know if i would agree you don't have to you don't have to high
00:02:09.200 quality women like let's say what is but that's the thing like what is a high quality i will tell
00:02:14.140 you like i'm sorry i'm just like people from the parliament people in the in the in the politicians
00:02:20.240 they won't do that they would don't want their names associated with what they just keep it
00:02:24.680 they keep it low-key but here's the thing the other men they keep it low-key you there's a respect
00:02:30.500 put respect on the name you realize like and put the respect on my name as well nba players have
00:02:35.500 women that like actively pursue them to the point they'll like buy hotel rooms like at the places
00:02:41.500 look to look for where they hang out and also like know everything about like they literally
00:02:46.480 pursue them this is what they do i'll tell you what they do right
00:02:50.180 watch out this info because i okay i know i know about this info because i have personal assist a lot of
00:02:59.640 influencers and some celebs in the uk so i've seen some behind the scenes of what goes on and how it
00:03:07.200 works is that i don't know like an artist or an nba player so i've never worked with mpa but i'm just
00:03:14.640 saying someone of that status will go through someone else and say i'm requesting a girl that's
00:03:21.220 this age this and this they will scout for the girl oh yeah they will say call this person um
00:03:27.280 wants you for the night they require x y and z and that's how it works it's not even always it
00:03:34.000 wouldn't be just drake himself they all do it they all do it contracts and all that right there's so
00:03:39.600 many contracts and that contracts will have nda to not mention their names that's what i'm saying
00:03:43.660 yeah but this is what i'm saying about it sharing about it openly does damage your partner name
00:03:48.700 and their you know quality of who they are now not necessarily it depends on your lane right but if
00:03:55.860 you're going to so many serious i would say um position it will impact you you know i'm not saying
00:04:03.380 man don't cheat woman cheat most of the time you don't know about it and just life keep going on and
00:04:08.920 you said you're okay with that right like not not to like use him as an example but like if he
00:04:13.340 were to cheat and you didn't know about it would you be okay with it would i listen logically right
00:04:17.320 i come from a culture when right i would i'll be angry if i knew but like i will accept it i will
00:04:26.000 accept it i have to say there's so much qualities about my partner if he done one mistake in so many
00:04:32.300 years i'll just keep a blind eye i get one pass can i ask you a question do you feel like
00:04:38.440 do you feel like you respect your i don't know how long ago your previous girlfriends were when
00:04:44.440 you was living together but did do you think you respect them the same as you do your now girlfriend
00:04:49.140 yeah why no equally her a lot more okay because she's changed she's like everything i'm looking for
00:04:56.240 like in terms of you know like she's very intelligent she's hyper analytical like me so are these other
00:05:01.160 girls just fantasies sorry babe no go on these other girls just fantasies like fat you're like like your
00:05:07.140 playground oh the the side girls yeah yeah because i i enjoy going through almost like someone that got
00:05:13.260 good at chess and it sounds i just have one question for you when you was looking for a wife
00:05:18.020 did you want to be with someone that was bisexual to allow those things yes that's a requirement yeah
00:05:24.800 that's that was like your requirement yeah there's like a whole list of it has to come from a good
00:05:29.160 family that's why it works so if you're happy yeah and i was up front with it and she could have left
00:05:33.980 yeah i like the fact that you're up front with it yeah i think there's authenticity i think everyone's
00:05:39.040 relationship is going to work for them i just wonder how it would work sorry i'm curious girls who who
00:05:44.580 would sign up for something like that anyone i personally wouldn't in that exact dynamic but i would
00:05:51.380 like to say i respect you so much because you had to in a way lower your ego to be able to have
00:05:57.340 him happy if he's happy then that's what makes you happy and i feel like in our society now that's
00:06:03.180 women's problem including myself the fact that we don't want to lower our ego in order to make our
00:06:09.320 partner or our boyfriend or our husband happy because we're always trying to level level up even
00:06:13.940 be on the same level as them or be even higher and that's ruining our relationship for me it's not
00:06:19.180 like lowering my ego i don't feel like that i feel like i don't i don't i i'm sorry if i don't
00:06:25.020 understand you properly but i don't see this as lowering my ego whatsoever because it's like
00:06:31.060 i'm seriously okay it's like because i believe that for men that's my concept that's my belief
00:06:38.880 i believe for me like oh no you like to bang go bang that makes it happy so go be happy she's like
00:06:46.000 very selfless as well like she it's not something that's gonna be like oh my god is
00:06:50.500 oh you are talking to no sometimes like like you see a girl like a beautiful girl walking and say
00:06:56.940 oh my god she's so beautiful it's like i think sometimes it it's like uh we miss empathy it's
00:07:04.760 like you know when you go like to nightclubs and like someone is like doing bad like he's in a bad
00:07:11.000 moment i always see like something that i like to see i always see like girls coming up to that person
00:07:16.120 and say hey dude are you fine yeah hey can i get you something or someone in the bathroom can you
00:07:21.080 know and like you see in that environment because people are like relax you know and so when i say
00:07:27.480 like oh go be happy it's not that i'm trying to like make a learning but it's like i believe like
00:07:35.080 if you're both like in the same page like what do you like we can like do things together and keep like
00:07:41.480 easy because i think like the world outside is already so hard yeah it's like it's already gonna
00:07:47.160 try to beat you to beat you so much if you cannot get home and like be with a person that like truly
00:07:53.080 like like understands you like have you by your side you know to be like peaceful is gonna be really
00:08:00.120 hard you know yeah i think you can be like more like empathic like this you know so if he if he was um
00:08:07.480 banging other girls and accidentally he maybe got one impregnated i have a vasectomy
00:08:14.520 oh okay since 2014 so almost 10 years okay question answered that solves that problem yeah stds
00:08:20.680 oh um i mean i've run you know like most of the guys i know that i've been you know with a lot of
00:08:24.600 girls like usually it's like chlamydia like one to five times or something i'm not like bragging about
00:08:28.120 it but like gone in a week with a pill not that big with you i've done videos on stds one and two
00:08:32.920 people get that yeah it's pretty common but like she also gets like turned on like hearing about me
00:08:38.280 with girls and she wants to see like what would the girl look like and stuff like that i i think
00:08:43.400 the way you've gone about it i say more power to you you know i think there's a lot of men will be
00:08:46.920 watching this thinking this guy's a little he found a good one really the honesty and coming to to terms
00:08:54.840 with like the rules and stuff like that like i'm not getting emotionally attached with these other
00:08:58.120 girls yeah i'm not taking them how do you stop that though what if you just meet someone that's
00:09:01.720 incredible and you know but men can easily detach but people think that men don't have emotions you
00:09:07.800 do what if you just met somebody just thought i just want to spend time with her more and more
00:09:11.400 we've had that we've had that happen a couple times so it has like the argentina there was an argentinian
00:09:15.560 girl that was like she was like argentinian polish and ukraine ukrainian so like eastern european with
00:09:20.840 the south american yeah she was like great so you fell in love with her no i didn't fall in love but like
00:09:25.560 i was like seeing her a bunch and like she got jealous of liz because she liked me a lot yeah
00:09:30.520 the thing is usually they get jealous of me not me getting jealous i open my house it's like you
00:09:36.120 want to come like yeah it's like no not because of this because i believe like dude if they are both
00:09:42.600 cool so okay you're very powerful you've clearly done a hell of a lot of work on yourself to be that
00:09:48.520 powerful emotionally and then like she got there and i was like okay like but she knows at the end
00:09:54.440 of the day like like we have we have like a very loving relationship and like all the stuff that you'd
00:09:58.520 expect like with from a partner we have all that i know there's like this other thing on the side
00:10:02.520 but it's not but it doesn't really detract it's just like something it's a special circumstance it's
00:10:06.440 it's my job yeah