JustPearlyThings - June 06, 2023


Modern Woman Says The Most Racist Thing To Pearl


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8 minutes

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215.26973

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1,797

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1


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00:00:00.000 name one double standard outside of body count that does not benefit women you give me one and
00:00:06.960 i'll be able to disprove it because that's what one that does benefit women we get drinks for
00:00:11.400 free we get free on the first dates we get into clubs for free women women get drinks where like
00:00:17.300 from at bars from men we get our first first dates are free there are specific grants that
00:00:22.840 are offered to women that are not offered to men there are women's shelters there are not men
00:00:26.980 shelter not not there are grants that go out to you no no no there is not there is not specific
00:00:32.720 there are not specific grants for white males what specific why should there be why why should
00:00:37.820 there be they have higher suicide rates that could possibly be one reason and then maybe
00:00:42.880 because of all the privileges going their way and they know that it's not equal and all the privileges
00:00:48.180 excuse me my brothers are white males so i don't i don't say i'm giving you another but i'm saying
00:00:53.240 i've had i've had two brothers that tried to commit suicide and i'm saying it's not they didn't try
00:00:59.160 to commit suicide because and i'm not sorry i don't try to bring in personal situations i shouldn't do
00:01:03.960 that but but like it's not because like they they were thinking oh i have privileges it's because life
00:01:09.960 can be hard as a man there's there's there's a lot of privileges offered to women that men do not
00:01:15.200 get and i'm giving you examples but it's like i'm asking i'm asking you with white men and why they
00:01:21.100 should be getting no no i said i said this is a privilege that women get that men don't often
00:01:26.200 get and privileges so and as a woman who are young as well what does that have to do with anything
00:01:31.540 because grants are given to people who are 18 to 25 so somebody over that can they be like oh no
00:01:37.540 they're okay grants are given to people all the time grants are okay let's take quotas that's across
00:01:42.640 all ages so i'm giving you specific examples where women are benefited and men are not so there are
00:01:47.420 quotas that's at any age that are given to women that are not offered to men so i'm saying give me
00:01:52.780 an example of a privilege that is given to women that is not given to men outside of body count you
00:01:58.460 can't don't say sleeping around one double standard that does not benefit that does not benefit women
00:02:04.620 i'm trying to think of one yeah i'm trying to think of like all of the different disparities
00:02:13.740 that are there and i could say that that's why let's let's answer actually women get three times
00:02:19.180 the amount of jail sentencing for the same crime that men do women can go to the police you mean men
00:02:24.780 get yeah oh sorry sorry sorry reverse yeah yeah men get three times the amount of sentencing for the
00:02:29.020 same crime that women do women can go to the police and say he hit me and they'll take him to prison
00:02:33.500 that's true so so i'm asking like where then all of that gets screwed when you add in a black person
00:02:39.820 into there so when you're coming but i'm talking but today but you're moving the goalposts no no
00:02:43.820 because we're talking about we're talking about gender right now we are talking about i'm saying it's
00:02:48.780 very different i can only talk as a black woman but but it's very different within the black community
00:02:55.100 if a black man does something and a black woman does something it's not the same treatment is
00:02:58.220 different no no no let's give a real example so if me and you was on the street right now me and you
00:03:03.340 yeah and you slapped me is anybody gonna react if i slap you what's gonna happen next yeah it's a
00:03:09.340 madness it's a bad example done then that's the privilege i am a black woman and i could still
00:03:16.700 get done for that but also there is the strength issue in there as well so when a woman but when a
00:03:23.340 woman hits a man so we all agree that men are stronger than women yeah of course if i hit you
00:03:28.380 and you hit me the effects are going to be really good let's have an example that's that's the thing
00:03:33.180 okay that's the nuance of it no no okay okay let's have an example you go up and you punch dwayne
00:03:38.380 the rock johnson in the face he's stronger than you yeah yeah does anyone feel bad for you when you get
00:03:43.900 hit back no why do why do women get an excuse if a weak man hits a strong man and gets hit back
00:03:49.660 nobody feels bad for him why is it that if a weaker woman hits a stronger man and she gets hit
00:03:54.300 back say that again say that again so if a woman hits a man no your argument was strength so you said
00:04:01.180 you said women women are not as strong as men yeah but i'm saying so if he goes up to dwayne the rock
00:04:07.900 johnson big jack dude yes and it's and hits dwayne first yeah nobody is going to feel bad for him when
00:04:15.100 he gets knocked the out because you shouldn't have messed with him why do women feel like it's
00:04:19.660 acceptable no they wouldn't why i'll wake up a lot because i'm stupid yeah
00:04:27.500 that doesn't negate from the issue i'm not saying that women should go around hitting men
00:04:31.340 like absolutely but i'm asking a man and he hits you back you hit him first yes but the point is
00:04:37.420 because he is stronger the penalties are going to be harder they shouldn't be the law sees you as
00:04:42.860 equals right it shouldn't be the point is it doesn't is it but why is it feminists aren't fighting for
00:04:48.140 that equality i don't care what feminists are fighting for but the whole point was i asked you for a
00:04:52.940 double standard that doesn't benefit women outside of sleeping around okay so i get that yeah and the
00:05:00.140 the counter that i was offering is because there is the weakness of a woman so when she hits a man
00:05:06.860 why it's not seen as as impervious as a man hitting a woman because there is the strength
00:05:16.140 he looks way stronger to me right yeah if he hit you and i hate you would i get less time or more
00:05:19.820 time because he's stronger than me both of you are men and you but he's stronger than me it doesn't
00:05:23.900 but the point is i'm the weaker one yes but i'm weaker than him so is he going to get more time
00:05:33.100 because he hit you no it's going to be two black men and you're going to know but that's the point
00:05:36.620 that's the point we're trying to make it's not about strength it's about what i'm trying to say
00:05:40.300 that you've contradicted your argument but how because it's not about men hitting okay so what about a
00:05:46.300 woman who is like a bodybuilder what if he's a big skinny what if i was skinny and she was stronger
00:05:51.100 than me and she could deadlift bench more than me bro there's some big women out there that nuance
00:05:56.060 should be taken but it won't should be look what you're saying people will laugh and say you got
00:06:00.300 punched up by a girl exactly they'll be laughing so what so what are we gonna do so like if if a man
00:06:05.020 and a woman are fighting what are they gonna do put them both on the scale what if she weighs more than
00:06:08.220 me then what does it mean bro then i knocked her out i'm saying gender should not be taken into
00:06:24.380 consideration if you hit anybody you should expect to get hit back and the law should let you say that
00:06:29.980 you were acting in self-defense but i'm saying but i'm saying that's not how it is if i if i hit him
00:06:35.980 and then you knocked me out how who would the police take into custody no but i'm saying if
00:06:42.060 if it was dwayne the rock johnson sitting here and he hit dwayne the rock johnson and he hit him
00:06:47.820 and then he hit him back and gets knocked out the police would ask questions they wouldn't just assume
00:06:53.660 arguments like this is is why amber her can do what she did arguments like that is what i'm going to
00:06:58.220 do what she did because you can't be saying that oh i hit you but i didn't i didn't really hit you
00:07:03.500 did i i'm a girl so i didn't close my face they'll be like i can't hit as hard as you but it's about
00:07:11.100 the intent that's right that's what it's about like you knew you couldn't hit harder than me when
00:07:15.420 you hit me do you know what i mean and then you got a receipt for your purchase and now what you
00:07:18.860 say it's a bit you know what i'm saying it doesn't make sense sorry we're using extremes to
00:07:21.500 accentuate the point to you that you can't just say because you're a woman and you know statistically
00:07:27.260 you're you're less strong than i am yeah that if you hit me you didn't intend to hurt me as much
00:07:31.980 i am given a reason for why the law but that's that's the way it is that's not why it's just
00:07:36.380 because society coddles certain women and the law shouldn't be alive it's got nothing to do with
00:07:41.340 strength no it should it shouldn't it shouldn't though it shouldn't whether it does or not we
00:07:45.180 don't know whether it does probably shouldn't say it shouldn't but that is why it is there but if you
00:07:50.620 want equality why not you again i'm not talking about you specifically but if feminists want equality
00:07:55.740 why are they not fighting to speak to feminists about but because i'm not about equality i'm about
00:07:59.740 equity and that's very different right but the the whole point is like i'm asking you to name
00:08:03.580 a double standard that doesn't benefit women because you're not quite getting what you're
00:08:07.260 talking about i don't think i mean i don't think there is that's the truth that's the truth so i have
00:08:13.020 i have a stat for you guys give me harvard so this is you would you say harvard can gather research
00:08:18.460 effectively it depends what i saw oh good okay