JustPearlyThings - December 25, 2022


Modern Women HATE Hearing The TRUTH


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

196.11496

Word Count

1,649

Sentence Count

1


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 do you think that's lonely no no you guys really lack community like and i'm not saying like you
00:00:05.140 specifically i'm saying like i i'm able to find so much satisfaction and joy and peace and goodness
00:00:11.340 and and fulfillment in in my friends and and my other relationships i think that's easy as a
00:00:16.380 young woman i think the point he's making is the world treats you different after like 45 or 50
00:00:20.920 i believe that so as a young woman like you're treated better by the world and so because you're
00:00:27.420 young you're attractive you're pretty and so and so it's like you're gonna hit 45 50 the world's
00:00:32.540 gonna look at you different you start to be treated like a man no i'm i'm serious there's i'm already
00:00:38.880 bald i'm halfway there the moment mandem stop buying you drinks you're gonna see the world differently
00:00:43.700 it's done you're going to the club right now and man was like oh can i buy you a drink oh you're
00:00:48.820 so beautiful and all that kind of stuff listen the moment you hit 35 that's gonna stop i i
00:00:54.340 can someone like stop him like this is like what is this man saying i love the i'm speaking
00:01:02.140 reality what i love the concept of what's your what's your issue with what he's saying everything
00:01:08.840 okay he's first of all he's being so heteronormative like the like these are a lot of assumptions
00:01:13.840 that he's making right now that is what is hetero i don't know what that means heteronormative is
00:01:18.140 just making making an assumption that someone is heterosexual first of all so as your this entire
00:01:23.580 line this whole monologue he's doing is assuming that she's only interested in men and that
00:01:29.000 she's only interested in what a man wants or what a man could see in her i mean i think that's
00:01:35.360 not that's like that's that's just not what life is like i i mean i'm not gonna it's like
00:01:40.700 not just you're just making a lot of assumptions and running down the street with them and i understand
00:01:46.420 the logic behind where he's coming from like i'm not saying that he's being like he's being
00:01:50.580 illogical but because he's basing all of his from my perspective a lot of where your sounding
00:01:57.300 board of information is is your foundation is heteronormativity misogyny and the fact that
00:02:04.500 like so what and it's just not it's just not in alignment okay wait it's just not in alignment
00:02:09.120 with where i where i find my foundation so i'm like pushing back on the opinions that he has
00:02:14.920 so heteronormative i i still think it would be sad if you're a single lesbian woman so like
00:02:21.300 like i think like personally we're like we're also like making assumptions that she's single
00:02:25.880 she didn't say that she just said that she doesn't want to have children
00:02:28.580 or yeah oh fair enough but like this like whole conversation was under the perspective of whether
00:02:33.740 or not she would be happy without having children and then the second the second yeah i mean it's a
00:02:38.020 it's a valid question i think yeah your answer could be i would be perfectly happy but i just
00:02:43.020 which is what she said over and over and over again and he's trying to like break down why she's wrong
00:02:48.960 and all these possible scenarios i mean i think he's just putting out points that maybe she didn't
00:02:52.380 think about and maybe she has and maybe like but i i think that's what we're supposed to do on a
00:02:56.280 podcast and i'm and i'm exploring the idea that i think he's wrong okay so what do you what do you
00:03:04.660 think uh what what is it that he said misogynistic i think that like making the the assumption that
00:03:10.680 like her the prospects of her life her future happiness is based upon whether or not a man
00:03:17.200 and objectively a man would find her attractive after the age of like what 35 that he said for me is
00:03:23.560 like is like is misogynist oh i think that's true i don't this i told that i think that's your opinion
00:03:31.140 yeah i mean i think it's true i think most women aren't happy that are that are single childless
00:03:36.180 over the age of like 45 they're the least happy demographic i that's interesting that's interesting
00:03:40.960 i just i just could not get behind that i was asking if you have statistics on that really yeah
00:03:46.120 there's like multiple stuff what about single black women yes do you have statistics all about black
00:03:51.340 women like because like i feel like and i the only reason i'm asking this is because i feel like
00:03:55.840 we like black women from my perspective again i'm only speaking from my perspective we are very we
00:04:04.020 have such a strong like sense of community that like i i just we don't have i just feel like our
00:04:10.660 our culture is different so those types of statistics i think aren't going to be applicable
00:04:15.980 across i think what like what it would be black women i must say i think it's applicable very
00:04:21.120 genetically and biologically very very i think i think biologically can i just say one thing real
00:04:26.520 quick right understand people like i'm five foot six give or take half an inch in it so like
00:04:32.480 at the end of the day my entire life i have felt the effects of not being the societal standard
00:04:40.840 of what women expect to you feel me so at the end of the day like for example i'm a man like i can
00:04:47.020 either cry about it and be like oh no women don't like me because i'm short whatever or i can do
00:04:52.620 something about it for for example for me personally i started boxing you feel me so like i started boxing
00:04:58.260 and i tried to show that you know what i'm on the shorter side of things but i can still protect you
00:05:03.460 do you get it and like at the end of the day life throws certain things at you and you just kind of
00:05:09.800 have to deal with it now as a woman there are certain things and i'm so sorry to tell you this
00:05:15.540 but there are certain things you can do that can completely ruin it for you for example
00:05:20.540 if you're a woman and you have only fans i'm sorry but i'm not going to take you seriously
00:05:26.200 that's your opinion do you get it here's the thing here's the thing look understand i'm an average man
00:05:32.320 i'm not a rich guy or anything like that but i can tell you right now a millionaire if he's looking
00:05:37.400 at you and he knows you got only fans he's not going to take you seriously because there's
00:05:41.340 certain things us mandem look for you feel me
00:05:43.140 you feel me nah i'm curious any any guys any of you take an only fans model seriously
00:05:49.380 no way no way no no no i've not but you know what like
00:05:54.380 what don't say what
00:05:56.520 girl you want to make
00:06:01.760 um sorry go ahead so no guys here so go ahead no so personally i think you can always argue like
00:06:13.700 like people would never take them seriously and your value goes down but it depends what kind of
00:06:18.500 value you're looking at so like their financial value goes up their sexual value goes up no yeah
00:06:24.680 well in terms of for women
00:06:27.340 sexual value
00:06:28.820 can i just quickly clarify how does their sexual value go up
00:06:32.820 once people see you've got only fans there's always going to be people in public they'll say
00:06:37.620 nah i'd never be with someone from any fans but check their dms
00:06:40.660 nah most will be there for a night
00:06:42.260 yeah but check their dms and you'll see i'll give you an example like look at lana
00:06:49.340 roads she can't even keep a man
00:06:51.060 that's like she used to be my favorite
00:06:53.080 that's like i don't know look at that's one person from that i know but that's like what
00:06:59.780 one of the most i would argue one of the most i would argue one of the most yeah i would argue
00:07:02.740 one of the most beautiful women i mean i don't know i don't i'm not a consumer
00:07:06.020 of that content we don't eat cool but is that part of because i feel like it changes across the demographic
00:07:11.540 obviously that's someone that we've looked at from a different one but there's people like
00:07:16.260 you i'm not sure if any of you have heard of ruby rose someone else yeah but there's people and
00:07:20.900 people look at her and still be like that's still a no no no no no no no no but she's got only fans
00:07:27.620 she's got only fans so that's what i said her sex her sexual value went up but you'd still smash
00:07:32.420 i didn't say you'd want to be in a relationship with her but i said her sexual value yeah wait so
00:07:36.660 your your your your sexual value but your relation like what guys gonna take you serious
00:07:40.580 i know but then some people might i think no no no i'm sorry i mean i can't argue for everyone
00:07:46.020 i mean wait wait and i mean i i mean a sim a sim might i know yeah see but see this is sim culture
00:07:53.540 people are gonna be like ah do you know what you're only fans i see you
00:07:56.500 as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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