JustPearlyThings - November 16, 2023


Modern Women HATE Hearing Truth


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Length

29 minutes

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169.46005

Word Count

5,079

Sentence Count

350


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Like, I have my own life and my time. I'm giving it to you.
00:00:03.120 If you're gonna sit there telling me the whole, the same circular argument,
00:00:06.640 that's actually disrespectful to me.
00:00:08.240 Like, if you really, genuinely want to get pregnant, sort your diet out.
00:00:12.560 And now, guess what? She's doing great. That's it.
00:00:16.240 So she's better looking now, would you say, now that she's lost the weight?
00:00:19.580 The objective was to get pregnant and her weight was a massive thing.
00:00:23.140 But it was, I mean, that's actually, that's the way that her weight loss has helped her.
00:00:28.340 And the bonus is that she's actually attractive.
00:00:30.880 So the goal wasn't to get attractive. The goal was to get healthy.
00:00:34.240 And, you know, by a result, she became attractive because she is healthy.
00:00:39.040 Does that make sense?
00:00:40.000 And I told her, I'm a friend. I would consider myself quite feminine and a woman.
00:00:45.200 And I told her, you're fat, you're ugly.
00:00:46.660 And I think it's the human thing.
00:00:48.020 I think we get too caught up with masculine energy, feminine energy.
00:00:51.740 What's human to do is to look out for somebody.
00:00:54.280 I think women are kind of more socialized to kind of beat around the bush.
00:00:59.080 You know what I mean?
00:00:59.880 Like to be coy.
00:01:01.520 It's kind of rewarded when women are like, oh, look, they're not as like, oh, I want this, this and this.
00:01:06.200 I think women are rewarded in romantic relationships and friendships and relationships with people in society.
00:01:11.360 So if you know that, why would you still purposely or willingly do it?
00:01:15.500 Willingly.
00:01:16.180 So you just said that women are kind of socialized to behave a certain type of way.
00:01:20.740 And you know that way you're socialized is negative in terms of creating a better outcome for all.
00:01:26.240 But yet you still sat here and still went.
00:01:28.780 I think I still do this because obviously that's what I'm used to.
00:01:33.460 I find it extremely uncomfortable to go to someone and call them fat or call them ugly.
00:01:38.080 Even if they asked you, so if I said, am I fat?
00:01:39.900 And I was visibly fat.
00:01:41.160 You'd find it uncomfortable to be honest with me and be like, do you know what you are?
00:01:43.800 I would find that really uncomfortable for me.
00:01:45.640 I feel like the words.
00:01:46.480 Say the words out loud, like I can think certain things in my mind, but to directly say to someone straight up, like, I think you're ugly, especially if it's in negative terms, it would be very difficult for me.
00:01:56.140 So we're friends.
00:01:57.300 Yeah.
00:01:57.860 So if I said, if I said, if I gained, let's say if I gained 50 pounds.
00:02:01.940 Yeah.
00:02:02.280 And I said, did I get fat?
00:02:05.540 This is different.
00:02:06.480 Because you're Pearl.
00:02:09.080 Yeah.
00:02:09.880 Pearl can handle anything.
00:02:12.200 She wants you to be so.
00:02:13.700 Pearl had German au pairs growing up.
00:02:16.960 She's a German nanny, so I know she can handle it.
00:02:18.860 So, okay.
00:02:20.240 People don't understand what German nannies.
00:02:22.820 German nannies.
00:02:24.440 Fum.
00:02:25.140 Fum.
00:02:25.780 So I feel like it also, you have to have a bit of tact and I feel like you need to gauge the person as well.
00:02:32.940 Let's, let's, let's role play.
00:02:34.680 Okay.
00:02:35.280 Oh, here we go.
00:02:37.040 I'm beluga.
00:02:37.840 Okay.
00:02:38.380 Okay.
00:02:38.840 Okay.
00:02:40.080 Set the scene.
00:02:41.000 I just got rejected for the 10th time in a row.
00:02:49.740 Um, and he said it was because I'm too thick.
00:02:53.760 Did I, did I get fat?
00:02:56.080 I know I ate one or two brownies.
00:02:58.460 Okay.
00:02:58.980 Or 10.
00:02:59.980 But am I, am I fat?
00:03:02.480 What's your BMI?
00:03:03.580 I don't know.
00:03:04.280 I haven't, I haven't, I don't weight myself.
00:03:06.320 Do you have scales at home?
00:03:07.780 No.
00:03:08.660 Okay.
00:03:09.040 I have scales.
00:03:09.640 I avoid them.
00:03:11.000 Like the plague.
00:03:12.100 No, it just gives me anxiety.
00:03:13.500 I can't get up the scale.
00:03:14.940 Okay.
00:03:17.060 Interesting.
00:03:17.740 What do you think your BMI is?
00:03:20.140 I don't know.
00:03:20.940 I just, I don't even know how BMI works.
00:03:23.180 I just, I think it's like a scale that's like not real.
00:03:25.620 So I feel like they just make that up, you know, doctors to be mean.
00:03:29.460 Okay.
00:03:30.080 Do you think you're overweight?
00:03:30.920 I mean, I question it a little bit, but that's why I came to you to get the truth.
00:03:40.180 Okay.
00:03:42.680 You see how this is really hard for me?
00:03:44.380 You see how like I went to every other option.
00:03:46.340 That was a 101 or beating around the bush.
00:03:48.460 I was doing so well.
00:03:50.420 I came with a BMI.
00:03:51.260 Like she could have got on the scales.
00:03:52.500 We could have worked out together.
00:03:53.420 Okay.
00:03:53.540 Let me, let me, let me try it with Eddie.
00:03:55.000 Let me try it with Eddie.
00:03:57.420 You're like, all right.
00:03:58.260 It's going to be so short.
00:03:59.760 So, so this is, you know, I'm at, you know, I'm just like.
00:04:03.800 Shaking all over the place.
00:04:04.800 Yeah.
00:04:05.300 Eddie, it's been a minute since I've seen you.
00:04:07.520 How are you doing?
00:04:08.140 I'm good.
00:04:08.640 Are you telling me?
00:04:09.640 What?
00:04:10.020 I'm good.
00:04:10.480 How are you?
00:04:10.940 I'm good.
00:04:12.360 I'm good.
00:04:14.700 Anyways, I, I, I was walking here and I, and someone called me a whale.
00:04:18.940 A whale?
00:04:19.700 Yeah.
00:04:20.040 Yeah.
00:04:20.300 Did I, did I get fat?
00:04:21.500 I ain't gonna lie.
00:04:22.040 When I did see you, you was looking a bit more chunky than the last time I seen you still,
00:04:26.000 but looks all right.
00:04:27.740 The cheeks are grown.
00:04:28.540 Oh, okay.
00:04:28.960 Okay.
00:04:29.220 So just chunky.
00:04:30.000 I'm not, I'm not fat.
00:04:31.340 No, I ain't gonna lie.
00:04:32.040 You put a mad weight in it, like drop a few, drop a little something, something in you.
00:04:36.300 Oh, but mad weight.
00:04:37.880 What does that mean?
00:04:38.480 Am I, am I fat?
00:04:39.280 You're fat.
00:04:40.940 That took a while.
00:04:42.540 He kind of beat around the bush too.
00:04:43.980 Nah, nah, nah.
00:04:44.540 I kind of like the way you said it though.
00:04:47.100 It was playful.
00:04:47.820 I'm like, you was very playful with it.
00:04:49.660 You were just like, you're fat and ugly.
00:04:51.500 Yeah.
00:04:51.900 That's pretty crazy for me.
00:04:52.860 Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
00:04:53.500 I didn't say she's fat.
00:04:54.220 No, okay.
00:04:55.340 Everybody scroll back.
00:04:56.700 And then, did I say, quote unquote, she said fat and ugly.
00:04:59.500 I feel like, no, I think, I think me, me, not you.
00:05:02.780 I don't know.
00:05:03.740 No, I, I didn't.
00:05:04.620 You can find out.
00:05:05.180 Have a look.
00:05:06.060 Wait, wait, hold on, hold on.
00:05:07.420 If I said she's fat and ugly, I said she became attractive.
00:05:10.860 Because she's, because she's healthy.
00:05:12.620 And that means she would have stayed ugly.
00:05:14.380 No, but you said like, I think you said, like, you quoted yourself.
00:05:17.980 He's like, no, you said you think you have to say, I know.
00:05:20.780 I know.
00:05:21.580 Oh, okay.
00:05:22.060 Look back.
00:05:22.540 Okay.
00:05:23.180 Can we bet some money or something?
00:05:27.180 But now I'm playful with it.
00:05:29.180 I guess, I guess I respect you actually.
00:05:31.820 Oh, thank you.
00:05:32.540 Because it's good to have a friend like you that will call it straight.
00:05:36.380 Even if it hurts, you, you're the most respected friend.
00:05:39.740 I have to say, the thing is that there needs to be context.
00:05:42.380 Okay.
00:05:42.700 So this, she tells me this over and over again.
00:05:45.980 And I tried to, you know, in a polite way.
00:05:47.900 And like, the thing is, like I said, I am not, my existence isn't to just pacify you, you know?
00:05:55.980 And if you're saying that, oh, you know, I have this issue and my weight is this and everything.
00:05:59.100 And I was like, you know what? I have to cut this crap. You are fat.
00:06:02.460 And her radical acceptance is the most powerful thing.
00:06:05.580 That's when change actually ensued.
00:06:07.660 She got healthy and she had a baby.
00:06:09.500 That was the objective.
00:06:11.420 So, so much problems were avoided with me just being honest with her.
00:06:16.780 And if she's an adult, she's gonna take that.
00:06:19.020 I think not just suddenly forget who I am.
00:06:21.420 I'm a good friend.
00:06:22.380 I 100% agree with you.
00:06:23.420 I think there's a way of like doing it with tact so you can be playful about it.
00:06:26.060 But if you're honest and real-world person, it won't affect your relationship.
00:06:29.020 I wasn't mean.
00:06:29.660 I was like, you're fat.
00:06:31.020 You're fat.
00:06:31.740 That's it.
00:06:32.300 I feel like if you're honest with someone and factual with the person,
00:06:35.100 a relationship cannot be destroyed.
00:06:37.100 I feel like if someone's real with you and tells you something straight,
00:06:40.700 if it was a real friendship, I don't think it would affect it.
00:06:42.940 It's why you don't do it for fear of losing that relationship with the person.
00:06:46.540 The reason I don't do it is that I find it extremely uncomfortable.
00:06:49.660 I don't think I'm not used to doing it.
00:06:52.140 I don't practice it.
00:06:53.980 I don't know.
00:06:54.460 Would you like people to be honest with you?
00:06:55.820 Maybe not. No.
00:06:57.980 Oh, you're not people to lie to you?
00:06:59.820 Mind them, lie to them deals and sell dreams.
00:07:03.340 No, because I all believe those dreams.
00:07:05.260 Oh yeah?
00:07:06.060 And I don't see a problem with that.
00:07:08.060 Like think about it hypothetically.
00:07:09.260 Let's say if I think that I'm like really crazy, amazing,
00:07:14.860 like really, really beautiful and someone's selling me dreams
00:07:17.660 and I believe the dreams he sells me happily ever after in my delusion.
00:07:21.340 Why pop the bubble?
00:07:22.860 So I have a question.
00:07:23.980 Are you cool with getting cheated on if you never find out?
00:07:27.020 Oh, that's a hard one.
00:07:28.860 I don't want to ever be quoted on this, but I feel like...
00:07:32.140 Actually, let me drink first.
00:07:35.180 Have you seen that TikTok that it's like,
00:07:37.260 when you catch your billionaire husband having an affair
00:07:40.700 and you're like, ah, I didn't see anything.
00:07:44.940 Because if you never find out, it doesn't affect you
00:07:46.940 and you're just believing the lies.
00:07:48.380 I think that's the thing.
00:07:51.820 After he sold you the dreams, then what?
00:07:53.500 What was his intention of selling you dreams?
00:07:55.660 He wanted to wife you.
00:07:57.260 He just wanted to wife you and have side pieces.
00:08:00.300 If he wanted to wife me and he didn't want to have side pieces,
00:08:02.620 then I'd be okay.
00:08:03.500 No, no, no.
00:08:03.900 I said, he's lying.
00:08:04.700 He's selling you the dream as we said.
00:08:09.100 But he's selling a lie.
00:08:12.780 You like being lied to.
00:08:14.700 Don't burst my bubble.
00:08:15.740 Yeah.
00:08:16.140 Never burst my bubble as in if someone's like,
00:08:17.900 oh, I find you really attractive and beautiful,
00:08:19.820 like crazy beautiful.
00:08:20.620 You're like a model, duh, duh, duh.
00:08:21.980 And I'm like, okay, I believe this too.
00:08:24.140 I believe this narrative.
00:08:25.820 That narrative doesn't have to involve cheating.
00:08:28.140 And if it doesn't, why burst that bubble?
00:08:30.380 And maybe, oh, she's, you're five.
00:08:32.700 You should be with like a five too, you know?
00:08:35.180 You know what?
00:08:35.900 A guy can't get with you if he's approached you like,
00:08:39.340 you know what?
00:08:40.300 I think you're all right.
00:08:41.100 You're pretty decent.
00:08:41.820 But you know what?
00:08:42.300 I like you anyway.
00:08:43.260 You're going to be like, what?
00:08:44.220 Like, you're not getting a chance unless you're obsessed with me,
00:08:47.420 unless I'm like the best thing you've seen.
00:08:49.420 Like, that's it.
00:08:49.980 There's also that as well.
00:08:51.180 So you-
00:08:52.140 Because there's always someone that will treat you that way.
00:08:54.620 Yeah.
00:08:55.020 There's always someone that will treat you what way?
00:08:57.980 I don't know.
00:08:58.380 Like, treat you like,
00:09:00.940 they really value you.
00:09:02.140 Like, if you tell someone like, yeah, you're okay.
00:09:06.060 It just seems like-
00:09:07.980 Do you think we like the guys that put us on pedestals?
00:09:10.460 I think we really enjoy that.
00:09:11.660 Yeah, really?
00:09:12.620 Do you think that gets guys laid?
00:09:14.620 No, no.
00:09:15.020 I feel like women enjoy being on the receiving end,
00:09:17.260 of being put on this pedestal.
00:09:19.340 Yeah.
00:09:19.580 Like, I enjoy it.
00:09:21.900 Women have like a group of men who are just for attention.
00:09:25.740 And then there's the guy that they like,
00:09:28.700 who they want attention from.
00:09:29.820 And there's all the guys that feed them constant attention.
00:09:31.900 That makes them feel validated.
00:09:33.420 Yeah.
00:09:34.860 That's the friend zone.
00:09:35.820 That's the guys in the DMs.
00:09:37.100 I don't like none of these guys,
00:09:38.140 but they make me feel good about myself.
00:09:39.660 Yeah, the ones that don't have a chance,
00:09:41.260 but it's just like, there you go.
00:09:43.020 Yeah, thanks anyway.
00:09:44.140 If I wanted to, I could, but nah, not today.
00:09:49.340 Do you think guys can move out of that zone?
00:09:51.500 Out of the friend zone?
00:09:52.780 Once they're in it?
00:09:53.740 I think if a woman has decided something,
00:09:55.980 she won't change her mind.
00:09:57.340 I don't know, you know.
00:09:58.540 I've seen a lot of guys escape it.
00:10:01.980 There's a particular type of guy
00:10:03.660 who is just very, very patient in it.
00:10:07.420 If you wait for the right opportunity to strike,
00:10:09.260 like, cool, you've been friends with this girl.
00:10:10.780 She's going through breakup after breakup
00:10:12.300 because you're always making bad decisions.
00:10:14.220 You just have to be there at the right time.
00:10:15.660 That's so icky though.
00:10:18.620 Listen, you put them there, innit?
00:10:20.060 It's more of a long-term investment strategy.
00:10:23.020 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:10:24.300 Like, let's say, okay, that does happen.
00:10:25.900 They hook up one time and she wakes up.
00:10:29.180 That girl must be feeling like...
00:10:30.460 He won though.
00:10:30.940 He won.
00:10:31.420 He still got to blow her back out.
00:10:32.220 Yeah, exactly.
00:10:32.700 Yeah.
00:10:33.420 He still got like a little taste.
00:10:34.860 His CV improved.
00:10:38.140 Wow.
00:10:38.940 You need to see that, a sketch from Chris Rock
00:10:42.060 when he says why women keep a lot of like guy friends and stuff
00:10:44.940 because they're all back up.
00:10:46.060 We get...
00:10:46.700 Really?
00:10:47.020 Yeah.
00:10:47.500 Oh my God.
00:10:47.980 Glassing YouTube it.
00:10:49.100 It's such a funny sketch.
00:10:51.020 Yeah, we can.
00:10:52.060 We can.
00:10:53.100 We'll give him a second.
00:10:53.980 Yeah, I can't remember what it's called.
00:10:55.180 Ultimately, there comes a time where a woman has to
00:10:57.660 choose between what they always go for,
00:11:00.460 which I think is probably not the best partner for them.
00:11:04.060 Yeah.
00:11:04.380 It's probably just the, like, maybe like the bad boy.
00:11:06.380 You know how like women are always like,
00:11:07.820 men are trash, men are trash.
00:11:09.020 But it's like, no, you need to change what you go for.
00:11:11.740 There's a difference between arousal and attraction.
00:11:14.140 Attraction is like the guy that you could take home to mom and dad.
00:11:18.380 And he's like the good boyfriend.
00:11:19.740 Like you're attracted to him from that way.
00:11:21.100 And arousal is like the bad boy.
00:11:23.180 And I think most girls want like a mix of the two if they can.
00:11:26.220 But typically, like there's no mix.
00:11:28.620 It's usually one or the other.
00:11:30.060 You think so?
00:11:31.740 Yeah.
00:11:31.980 I mean, like, I don't think most,
00:11:34.780 most like stable guys also have that bad boy side to them.
00:11:38.860 And I think if you find one, you try to hold on to them.
00:11:42.380 Yeah.
00:11:42.540 Because you know what they, those stable guys provide peace.
00:11:45.500 And obviously peace doesn't mean continuous, uh, stimulation of happiness.
00:11:49.660 But you're aroused by the drama.
00:11:51.820 Yeah.
00:11:52.060 Yeah.
00:11:52.620 Yeah.
00:11:53.180 And I don't think girls, this is a much more honest like panel.
00:11:56.380 Because girls like, we don't like to admit that.
00:11:58.540 Like, admit what?
00:11:59.660 Like, okay.
00:12:00.380 Like, why do girls, okay.
00:12:03.900 Girls like getting cheated on on some level.
00:12:07.100 It's not, it's not fun.
00:12:08.620 But like, why is every girl obsessed with the ex that cheated on her?
00:12:12.700 That's always the one she goes back to.
00:12:14.300 Yeah.
00:12:14.620 And I feel like you should, when you're going into something new,
00:12:16.780 you shouldn't be talking about, oh my God, like my ex done this and that to me.
00:12:19.740 You need to, no one needs to know where you wasn't valued.
00:12:22.700 You need to be completely healthy and just really just listen.
00:12:27.500 This is what I expect.
00:12:28.700 That's it.
00:12:29.180 Anything less, regardless of my feelings, I need to, I need to leave.
00:12:33.340 You need to put your feelings aside.
00:12:34.460 But then girls also go for guys that they know are likely to cheat on them.
00:12:38.460 So there's the ex who cheated.
00:12:39.500 It's excitement.
00:12:40.220 And there's the new guy.
00:12:41.100 He's just like, you know, this guy's probably going to cheat on me.
00:12:44.140 But in your head, like, I can change him.
00:12:45.500 I can make him a better man.
00:12:46.540 Or maybe, maybe he won't.
00:12:47.660 Or maybe he won't do it to me.
00:12:49.100 Like, I'm me.
00:12:50.300 Because you ask girl, like, what value do you bring?
00:12:52.220 Well, I'm me.
00:12:52.780 Well, that's, and that's the thing, like, because women are kind of narcissistic.
00:12:56.220 Because they, like, like, we think we can, we're the one that's going to change him.
00:13:00.460 But it's like, are you, there's a million.
00:13:03.820 There's a new girl turning 22 every day.
00:13:07.900 Okay, we're going to watch Chris Rock.
00:13:10.140 This is, um.
00:13:16.540 Sad, sad, sad.
00:13:30.460 This is so cute.
00:13:55.020 So, okay, this is a sign.
00:13:56.700 Thank you.
00:14:26.700 It's a five, you can do the whole thing.
00:14:49.540 You can do the whole thing.
00:14:51.240 You can enjoy it, yeah?
00:14:52.740 Yes.
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00:17:26.700 it's true though i mean go up to your guy friend and just be like listen like i need something
00:17:53.260 from you but i don't know like what are you gonna do if i put it on you right now what are you gonna
00:17:57.740 are you gonna tell me no exactly he is bending over you could even say the word ben over
00:18:05.420 literally he's slamming cheeks asap have you guys ever had a guy make it out of the front zone
00:18:12.300 um there's been i mean are they really in a friend zone if they're really in the friend zone then i'll
00:18:18.140 be like oh what are you doing but then if they if it's like a half-hearted friend it's like a will
00:18:23.500 they won't they it's like you guys had a work husband before okay would you
00:18:29.580 you don't know what workers yeah yeah it's like it's like yeah it's like the person you hang out
00:18:34.140 with at work all the time it's like the opposite but you've never done anything yeah like i think
00:18:39.020 that's more i think that's more likely to happen than a friend zone okay would you agree i feel
00:18:44.060 like for girls there's three categories there's like absolutely yes absolutely no and maybe yeah
00:18:50.140 yeah like it was everything the absolute maybe would be um like like i like like the maybes are
00:18:59.100 like oh he's kind of cute but is that what is that but yeah it's like a but where the yes is like
00:19:05.500 yeah that's what he's talking about where at some way at some point you took a wrong turn and landed
00:19:09.980 in the friend zone so it's like you were going in the right direction when you've done something that
00:19:14.300 didn't quite tick the box so you're a maybe yeah there's a chance one day in under the right
00:19:18.940 circumstances but for now you can chill there i've got or i've got better options available right now
00:19:25.020 so i can put you the back burner interesting and guys will wait as well so 100 it's crazy that
00:19:32.140 girls will wait but i find that quite they're not waiting they're not waiting they're doing their thing
00:19:36.940 yeah it's just men are opportunistic so it's like it's like cool if if i got a girl i'm serious about
00:19:43.020 like okay i want you and i know you're not going to give it up to me easy i might still be doing the
00:19:47.660 nice stuff breaking it down little by little but i'm still breaking it down i'm breaking it down just
00:19:51.900 chipping away slowly but i'm still at it cock on shoulders like you know what i'm saying you think men
00:19:56.700 like that sorry do you think men like um moving from the friend zone to something more i think that's
00:20:02.620 one of those it's a proud moment it's a proud moment is that more satisfying than like hooking
00:20:06.700 up with somebody you meet at the club yeah yeah yeah it's like it's like in sales when you've got
00:20:14.060 the sales reference when you've got them deals that stretch for ages and you fight you close the deal
00:20:18.780 and you close it you're like oh my god i closed the deal it's gas you want to go out on a friday
00:20:22.460 night drink with the boys do you ever i hear some guys say though they'll get like resentful in a way
00:20:29.980 because they're like i waited all that time for that yeah because they built it up in their heads
00:20:34.780 yeah yeah yeah because they wanted to keep grafting it never lives up to your expectation
00:20:38.940 that's why now i probably like the chase more than the outcome i agree with you i like the chase
00:20:43.900 more than the outcome interesting no like like you know when you're seeing someone like let's say
00:20:49.500 work husband hypothetically scenario it's like a will they like will we won't we that's more
00:20:55.180 exciting than like if we just date straight away and i know okay he's definitely attracted to me
00:21:00.380 he definitely wants to see me as a girlfriend then if it's like i don't know is that why people like
00:21:06.380 cheats what do you mean like if they get comfortable with somebody and then that's why they want to go
00:21:11.500 chase somebody because you've got that now but i think it's the difference between um after sex are
00:21:16.220 you cuddling or are you not what do you mean right like as in uh the chase now you've got you fulfill
00:21:23.260 the chase uh what comes next are you gonna are you still interested or was it just about the chase if
00:21:28.620 it was just about the chase now he's got what he's won so i think he's gonna bounce i think from the
00:21:33.900 female side um part of the attraction of a guy is mystery it's about trying to understand and find
00:21:39.420 out about this guy so the guy has a an element of awe a bit of mystery about him he's this fascinating
00:21:44.540 interesting thing that you want to acquire i think in that scenario once you've discovered what that
00:21:49.580 mystery is so i i have sex with him excuse me and then the the error the air of mystery is gone and
00:21:56.620 you're no longer interested i don't think that's true definitely like if someone's like mysterious
00:22:01.340 or there's like an air of mystery to them i don't feel like hooking up with them one time would mean
00:22:06.940 that like i'm not interested in them anymore no maybe that's just my perspective of that from the
00:22:11.260 thrill of the chase perspective because most women like a guy who's mysterious like a guy who they like
00:22:17.580 it's a hard nut to crack type thing they like to just know that i think a lot of women like that
00:22:22.620 like i only have access to this man not like in like a possessive way but like he's only showing this
00:22:28.700 side to me i feel like a lot of women appreciate that and i feel like when that is revealed then i guess
00:22:34.300 that a law and excitement yeah that's why when a guy with women want a guy that to be more emotional
00:22:38.780 and all stuff like that and then he gets when he is and then they get on and then they get turned off
00:22:43.100 by him okay i'm gonna read super chats um thank you guys for um all the donations all the donations
00:22:52.060 are going towards getting blessing an 8k camera i think we can swing it this month um it's actually
00:22:57.180 really cool because we're going to start um bringing in some other creators and helping them
00:23:01.500 build channels so um we're going to announce next week i'm going to give you guys the link to
00:23:06.620 auntie's new channel um and there might be one or two more which is really exciting round of applause
00:23:11.740 round of applause um okay so i'm going to read these uh christopher surdak as rollo tamasi has said for
00:23:17.980 decades if a woman makes you wait for sex the sex is never worth the wait it's just a consolation prize
00:23:23.500 for both of you megtao by logic a woman's bc equals how many bodies does a woman need for you for your
00:23:30.540 friends to call her a slut minus one you're welcome boys um k maul parasite an organism living in on or
00:23:39.100 with another organism in order to obtain nutrients grow or multiply in a state that directly or
00:23:43.980 indirectly harms the host you got me fellas yeah um wrong the harpooner the hormone oxytocin allows
00:23:51.020 pair bonding which allows to pair bonding woman's release woman's brain release it during sex and
00:23:57.580 child's worth having many partners alters the mechanism in the woman's brain that's why more
00:24:01.900 partners hurts women um clifford range if the truth doesn't hurt then it's not the truth um that they
00:24:07.500 want to be lied to but complain about men lying to them hey ken um memigolu um it's funny bolt it's
00:24:15.180 funny and tragic to see the double standards please keep up the great content um brick cormier pearl i bet
00:24:20.780 if you put up pics of men there i but i bet if you put up if you put pics pictures of men up there
00:24:28.380 these women could rate them without an issue faster if you put up pictures with their height women
00:24:32.860 can somehow slice through all the bs when it comes to rating men's looks however
00:24:36.780 rating other women is well it's how they feel migtao by logic stop lying lizzo isn't in the room she can't
00:24:42.380 say she can't hear you say it she's fat just say it silent observer there are rules to objective
00:24:47.820 reality delusion is simply a smokescreen towards the truth feelings are fleeting chaos and chaotic
00:24:53.100 depending on the present circumstances facts may be painful but they provide feedback about the
00:24:58.140 physical reality migtao by logic i'm not gonna lie that was a lie god damn it stop um lover for
00:25:04.940 one hero to all the inflation of women's value is so bad that a basic teacher can have a pet
00:25:10.860 man named fluffy and another man she has sex with that live in the same house
00:25:15.100 migtao by logic just stop lying god damn it we can't have real conversations without all the
00:25:19.740 lying lying is ruining society and the ability for men and women to form relationships stop it
00:25:24.300 christopher surdak can the can the girl in the middle complete a sentence without using the word
00:25:28.540 but lover for hero all men care about women so much that we'll devalue ourselves to make you happy
00:25:34.140 majority of men male heroes get belittled nerfed bum downs for the hero ends migtao by logic
00:25:40.220 women demand the best man and complain they're being asked to settle but if you're only with one
00:25:45.180 man but if you're only with a man better than you hypergony is by definition settling women date up
00:25:51.340 all the time and and still cry about it clowns okay um let's do the last clip uh blessing thank you
00:25:59.660 oh yeah this this actually had nothing to do with the topic i just thought this was entertaining
00:26:13.260 wait what yeah this is oh is it quite graphic no yeah i just was like this is nuts
00:26:29.900 no girls are on smoke you know but that is a bit crazy though which which part of it all right
00:26:35.260 running someone over oh my god please no
00:26:42.540 wait look at that freeze frame wait wait no wait that's an old man with a cane no
00:26:50.220 oh my john over two people
00:26:51.580 this is so sad this is so sad
00:26:56.860 well you have to replay that though yeah you can give me the first you can you can do it again
00:27:02.380 i don't know if he died or not it doesn't say in the comments
00:27:05.340 does it say in the description blessing did he die
00:27:07.420 oh he passed away did they run over anyone else
00:27:21.740 oh wow so the other person died too
00:27:23.500 two murders
00:27:24.940 but do you think that is still related with the whole situation or do you think she actually has
00:27:27.820 like a mental illness excuses no because that's not normal that's like do you tend to happen i
00:27:35.020 mean do you think if the roles were reversed we'd be asking that question if it was a man who ran over
00:27:39.500 a woman because i would say it's like no he would need a really good lawyer to come up with that
00:27:44.780 argument what which argument uh that if he had a mental illness mental problem is that to really you
00:27:51.820 know bring back people to not be uh to be impartial and not be gender bias because it happens like it
00:28:00.220 doesn't matter what we feel it's it's definitely women unfortunately get away with it a lot more than
00:28:05.660 men does it say what her like she gets sentenced um i don't know if she goes to council of murder
00:28:13.100 will face the charge so um it says chapman will face one charge of aggravated murder two counts of
00:28:20.700 murder two counts of felonies felon felonious assault one count of attempted murder and one count of
00:28:27.260 endangering chill were the kids in the car oh goodness or maybe the kids were nearby
00:28:33.500 on august 31st chapman allegedly drove her car into the father of her child her intended target also
00:28:39.260 and also hit the 58 year old christopher scott who died at the university of cincinnati medical center
00:28:45.420 from his injuries chapman then got out of the truck's car and began physically assaulting
00:28:50.300 the man with whom she had an eight-year-old child um an eight-month-old child that child was inside
00:28:55.900 the vehicle when chapman hit two men according to hayman county prosecutor joe devers while he was in
00:29:03.020 kroger she apparently went through his cell phone and believed that he had an inappropriate relationship
00:29:08.380 with her sister and said deters during a press conference can we look at the source um wcpo.com
00:29:16.300 can we can we oh you can click it yeah you can click it click a blessing i'm so sad
00:29:30.060 aww
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