00:01:11.000We know people think, you know, the grass is greener.
00:01:13.000And if you're in that circle, like, you're, I guess you're, what you're, like, the people you're, you've got accessible to, you know, are different.
00:06:01.000Would you rather you lose your money, yeah?
00:06:04.000And you don't have to deal with that woman that's weighing you down for the rest of your life and you can make some more money and be happy and content.
00:06:33.000Even, I don't necessarily know what it is for divorce, but from, I've heard a lot of like, I get DMs from people constantly and I've gotten horror stories from men in the UK.
00:06:42.000And I do street interviews, horror stories of child support.
00:07:07.000The reason that this is a law is because the courts have decided, not women, that it's fair for women, especially where they couldn't maybe have an income back in the day.
00:07:54.000And again, coming back to the cultural differences, me, myself, in my faith, when you get married, the woman has a dowry and that's the only thing she's entitled to.
00:08:04.000When she's married to the man, he pays for her upkeep and her life of what she had.
00:08:08.000So if she started off as a millionaire's daughter, he needs to provide that lifestyle.
00:08:11.000If she started off as on $10 a month, that's the minimum he has to offer.
00:08:15.000When they get divorced, she's not entitled to any of his money or assets while she's working in the marriage.
00:08:36.000So naturally, I come from a thing where we have like a prenup, let's say.
00:08:40.000Because a woman can't marry as a gold digger.
00:08:44.000This country, this or these concepts have come from where courts have decided it's fair for women to get this much because when they're left, they're left with nothing.
00:08:52.000Yeah, but it's called business because men pay into.
00:10:21.000But I can flip it back to the earlier conversation when we were saying about the whole dynamic that we were talking about, where it was I, I, I, I, I.
00:10:28.000And that comes into play because the woman is not thinking about the children.
00:10:32.000She's thinking about herself, how she feels at that given time.
00:10:38.000But based on looking through the phone, getting angry, all these feelings, what's happened, the projections that have happened, the lack of, no, emotional management.
00:10:50.000When you're in the courthouse, remember, you have to provide evidence in court for why you want to see your children.
00:10:57.000Right. If a woman says, this is, I don't want my partner or ex to see my kids because he's abusive, he's toxic.
00:11:03.000He sent me these messages on social media.
00:11:05.000He did this, this and this and screenshots were given to the court.
00:11:09.000She could put in an injunction without that, just that evidence alone.
00:11:13.000Now that man has to pay to get the injunctions removed, prove his innocence, then pay to see his kids and pay, pay for his children, even though he's not seeing them.