JustPearlyThings - December 26, 2022


Modern Women RIDICULOUS STANDARDS


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

202.0649

Word Count

1,644

Sentence Count

2


Summary

In this episode of the podcast, we are joined by a very special guest, a man who has been through hell and high watermarks in his life and has managed to find a woman who is willing to take care of him.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 you move outside of the country and the guy won't run like goes to the city yeah i just wanted to
00:00:06.000 say to you because you know i understand your pain for what you're talking about your experience right
00:00:11.440 but you're living proof you have a partner that respects you you have a higher quality partner
00:00:15.840 than a lot of these six foot plus guys yes or no yes or no but here's the thing i have been
00:00:21.360 extremely lucky and here's the thing i know my kids watching this shout out to you babe innit
00:00:26.400 here's the thing yeah you're you're saying it's not luck because you're the man and you've
00:00:31.520 persevered through the obstacles in your life but i think but i think that's i think that's easy to
00:00:36.640 say like what modern women have ridiculous standards yeah women women always want an above
00:00:41.200 average man even if they're average women yeah i understand but this young this guy here young man
00:00:48.000 here this gentleman here he's he's he's told us he's below average height he told us that he was
00:00:54.080 willing to go and learn boxing he's told us he's got a woman that is better than a lot of the women
00:00:59.920 that may be come on this podcast may be better than me i don't know her but she may be she's better
00:01:06.400 than these average women that we're talking about the modern woman she's better than the modern woman
00:01:10.960 yes or no but i understand yes or no no she is but understand at that there's a probability versus
00:01:17.680 possibility in it yeah i'm that one percent a man who managed to somehow find that one girl
00:01:23.440 no no no no but as a man why are you watching what other men are doing you i don't care what
00:01:28.480 other men are doing you fulfilled you fulfilled you fulfilled your position he's got a different
00:01:34.000 goal he's got a different goal he's you've got a partner no yeah are you happy with your partner yeah
00:01:41.280 okay have you got a partner no no you haven't got a partner have you got a partner have you got a
00:01:46.640 partner are you happy with your partner yeah so this means no wait wait yeah so there's how many men
00:01:52.640 five six five yeah well which is which is fine but if they get married the women still leave 70 to 80
00:01:59.120 of the time 90 of their college educated so so wait wait wait don't cut me don't cut me off yeah
00:02:05.280 yeah if women still leave 70 to 80 of the time 90 of their college educated so he could he could get that
00:02:11.120 traditional girl but that doesn't mean she won't leave him later yeah but that's that's a probability
00:02:16.080 that's a risk that's it yeah that's a problem so it's like no no which goes back but like i think
00:02:22.560 that's just not like i just try to empathize with men because if i if i as a woman was going into
00:02:27.920 marriage knowing that i was going to be left 70 to 80 percent of the time 90 if i get a college
00:02:33.200 educated guy shit i probably would say marriage too women i'm living in mass
00:02:39.360 yes please please understand this right i'm in a very unique situation my girl was muslim yeah
00:02:46.640 do you get it so she's got a different like type of mindset when it comes to life in it majority of
00:02:52.080 mandem and the reason i'm speaking on this podcast right now is for the majority of mandem i'm lucky
00:02:57.280 i'm good but majority of mandem are not and how many how many girls did you have to go through until
00:03:02.400 you got oh don't even get me started on so how many how many bad bad girls did you have to date
00:03:10.320 before you found the one oh my listen this is this is not that i could i could stay okay okay just
00:03:16.400 give me a number more than 15. in the mid-20s range you get me yeah until i found one girl who was
00:03:25.040 literally traditional and to the point where i can be like you know what i can take you serious you feel me
00:03:30.320 yeah so how old are you sorry i'm 27 years old you're 27 you went through 15 girls to find the
00:03:35.600 girl that you require right so so so you are you are from what you've said you are the pinnacle
00:03:43.920 you are the pinnacle you're sure yeah you did boxing you built your masculinity in a way you got
00:03:48.960 the girl that you desire you got the girl that you need for now no no but for for now for now
00:03:54.480 god only no no no no i don't i don't i don't think i don't think you understand like like
00:04:00.000 like because men never know if a girl's just gonna up and leave and i just don't like i don't think i
00:04:04.800 think to dismiss it and say oh well you have you're in a interrelate i mean kind of like you're in a
00:04:09.600 you're in a happy relationship now it's like even even if it goes to the distance and he gets married
00:04:14.880 like 70 to 80 chance she's yeah but is that how you live your life do you live your life like that
00:04:21.040 you can't live in reality the reality is you're in a relationship you like your relationship you
00:04:26.160 love your relationship you're willing to work on your relationship you have a good woman so you
00:04:31.040 don't look at your relationship and say oh it might fail so i'm gonna just i do do you get what i said
00:04:37.200 because like i like i said at the start of the relation sorry at the start of the podcast i said
00:04:41.760 yo man's got free youtube channels i'm working very hard yeah to get myself into a position where i can
00:04:47.200 make enough money to have a good family and all that kind of but sorry but at the end of the day
00:04:54.640 like i'm taking a risk here you feel me that's life life is a risk you walk outside you might get
00:05:00.240 hit by a bus okay okay okay okay okay okay okay okay but but it's easy to say that it's it's very easy
00:05:08.000 to say that as a woman oh life's risk or whatever yeah but you're not the one that could potentially sign
00:05:14.000 up to lose in the uk it's up to 70 percent of your you could work for 20 30 years be 50 years old
00:05:21.840 she takes 70 percent of your i agree but then then you follow it and say well life is about
00:05:28.960 risk you can't just be afraid i'm like well if you if i was at a 50 chance that she can leave me and take
00:05:34.400 the kids yeah and and a lot of guys have taken the risk and they've bared the brunt of that but at this
00:05:40.960 point what you're saying is okay get into new relationships don't try that's not what he's
00:05:46.240 that's not what he's saying this is what this is as a generalist statement yeah we know there's risk
00:05:51.520 i'm aware of the risk i can see it's unfair for men but as a man as a woman you must put in effort if
00:05:58.720 you're not putting in effort if you see your partner no no no wait wait i know you're getting angry
00:06:03.680 but the reality i'm not angry but you know i'm i'm saying things that people might say it's
00:06:08.960 contradictory i'm not a man i don't have to live in your shoes i only observe it and i've as i said
00:06:14.720 many times on this show i've had the benefits of what men bring to my table and nobody else can bring
00:06:20.880 them to my table but here's the thing i'll ask a quick question yeah it's like okay imagine you are a
00:06:27.200 man and really really and truly imagining yourself because you're a woman right and like you know all
00:06:33.040 respect to that you're an attractive woman right so your entire life you've probably lived your life
00:06:38.480 mandem come up to you like hey what are you saying girl would you get it like you've lived that life
00:06:42.720 now imagine you are a man right and let's say you are at a disadvantage let's say you are five foot two
00:06:49.840 and you're fat you feel me you're not going to get no attention from girls so you're going to have to
00:06:54.320 put in all that work to become someone yeah that is even worthy of attention not a relationship not
00:07:03.520 bedroom fun yeah attention yeah and that you get it i mean there is there is a girl that pretended
00:07:09.040 to be a man like she was like a feminist and she she dressed up like she basically dressed up as a man
00:07:14.480 for like three years and she killed herself because she couldn't believe how people treat men well she
00:07:20.400 actually got euthanasia but yeah that's a person yeah but she went and got euthanasia that's
00:07:25.600 different she didn't jump in front of me i mean come on man is that is that wait wait wait wait wait
00:07:31.360 how is it how is it different did she not did she not sign up to kill herself yeah she had somebody
00:07:36.720 kill her because she wasn't okay okay okay okay okay we're gonna oh gosh okay okay okay we're gonna as many
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