JustPearlyThings - July 22, 2023


Modernity Destroyed Women's Relationship


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8 minutes

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216.29916

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1,903

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146


Summary


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00:00:00.000 I'm going to read you guys some stats.
00:00:02.100 Some of these are from the U.S., some of these are from the U.K., so, you know, take them
00:00:06.680 with a grain of salt.
00:00:07.380 But one in four women have an STD.
00:00:09.800 Zoinks.
00:00:10.420 One in three women have had an abortion.
00:00:12.740 38% of kids are born into single-parent homes.
00:00:15.680 The average age of first child is 26, and the average age of first marriage is 30.
00:00:20.900 45% of marriages end in divorce.
00:00:23.580 The average number of sexual partners for a woman is between four and eight, and after
00:00:28.740 women have slept with more than five people, she has a 20% chance of having a happy marriage
00:00:33.240 after 10 years.
00:00:34.820 If men get divorced, they can be financially ruined and their kids can be taken from them.
00:00:40.660 70% of women are overweight.
00:00:42.660 90% of women have used contraceptives at some point in their reproductive years, and most
00:00:47.660 have used more than one method throughout their lifetime.
00:00:50.460 So it's like, how do we look at these numbers and say we're doing well as a whole?
00:00:53.900 You know?
00:00:56.580 And I'm not saying, you know, that, like, because they'll always say, what about them?
00:01:01.820 I'm not saying men don't have issues, too, but it's like, we can't even talk about our
00:01:04.840 problems without people always having to point out the men.
00:01:07.760 Like, we can never even just have a conversation about the issues that we have as women without
00:01:11.740 simps or women coming in and saying, but men have problems, too.
00:01:15.820 Like, we can't even have one conversation about it.
00:01:18.100 Whereas back in the day, women used to actually sit down together and discuss things.
00:01:21.900 Or they'd say, you're not dressed well, you're not, like, you need to, like, leave.
00:01:26.500 Yeah, we used to actually, like, catch each other up on stuff.
00:01:29.380 Like, you know, oh, you're showing too much, like, you're presenting yourself this way.
00:01:33.340 Or, you know, even something silly, like, you didn't brush your hair.
00:01:36.360 Like, I feel like nowadays, like, girls sort of tiptoe around each other and they don't
00:01:40.480 even want to, like, tell their friend, like, oh.
00:01:42.180 It depends what type of girl you are, though, if I'm completely honest.
00:01:44.780 I think if you're insecure and you're unhappy with what you're doing yourself, then you're
00:01:48.580 going to be bit too to other people.
00:01:49.700 If you're happy and content, you've got to support, do you know what I mean?
00:01:53.360 So I think it's the individual.
00:01:54.400 I don't think supporting, I think real supporting is being honest.
00:02:00.240 Yeah, but that's what I mean.
00:02:01.140 Like she said, you might not tell your friend if they haven't brushed you up their hair or
00:02:04.900 something.
00:02:05.200 I would tell my friend.
00:02:05.520 Yeah, no, I would as well, but some girls wouldn't.
00:02:07.700 But that's because they're like, oh, well, I'm going to look better than you.
00:02:09.960 Yeah, they kind of want to see you.
00:02:11.160 Do you know what I mean?
00:02:11.800 Fail, almost.
00:02:12.860 Because they're unhappy with themselves.
00:02:14.280 Which goes back to what I said, a lot of times a woman's worst enemy is another woman.
00:02:19.200 Because a guy would point out the fact that, uh, your shirt's kind of inside out.
00:02:23.220 Cool.
00:02:25.100 I believe like chastising someone in public is different.
00:02:28.820 Like, I don't think you should do that in front of other people.
00:02:31.000 Yeah, of course not.
00:02:31.500 But you should take, if that's your real friend, you should be able to take them to the side
00:02:34.100 and say, hey, you know what, fix up, fix up, fix up, fix up.
00:02:37.720 And we can respect that.
00:02:38.960 And we won't look at that as like, you being bitchy on it.
00:02:40.920 It's like, you know, when you eat something, you've got something, your teeth are, please,
00:02:43.980 please, please tell me.
00:02:45.160 Tell me.
00:02:46.140 Please tell me.
00:02:47.060 Like, even if you go, just tell me, you know what I mean?
00:02:50.500 So I think, you know.
00:02:51.980 Because even at the beginning of my relationship with my girl now, I had to tell her, we had
00:02:56.880 a conversation where I was like, if there's an issue that you see, please just tell me
00:03:00.220 right there and then.
00:03:00.860 And I don't want this whole passive-aggressive thinking about it for two weeks, don't bring
00:03:05.380 it up, and then vixing, talking to your girlfriends about it behind my back, and this whole fucking
00:03:09.840 month period, I had no idea this whole, this is an issue that you had.
00:03:12.800 All right.
00:03:13.120 With that, are you able to accept the delivery of her problem in any form?
00:03:19.840 Yeah, I don't care about delivery.
00:03:20.940 It's just about, it's just about what gets said.
00:03:22.940 Because if, with me, it's like, if I disagree with what you're saying, then we have a discussion
00:03:28.080 about what I disagree with.
00:03:29.440 But like, delivery is one of those things.
00:03:30.680 I'll give you an example, right?
00:03:31.680 Let's say, for instance, it's in the bedroom, something that's sensitive, right?
00:03:34.420 Something like, boom.
00:03:35.660 Ah, you're not doing this, right?
00:03:39.800 If she thinks about it, and then she kind of, let's say you're having a stressful week
00:03:44.600 at work or whatever, and then she kind of puts that into her mind and thinks, all right,
00:03:49.220 cool, maybe I approach it in this way, as opposed to just be like, oh, you can't do this.
00:03:53.340 If she expresses the frustrations then and there without thinking about it at all or seeking
00:03:59.060 some kind of advice, then do you not think that can have some kind of detriment to how
00:04:04.220 you're able to get over that?
00:04:05.400 Or are you saying that regardless of how she comes at you, with whatever she comes at you,
00:04:08.720 you're going to be able to swallow it and move on as normal?
00:04:10.900 Kind of.
00:04:12.140 I get where you're coming from, but then I have to equate that to like, all right, let's
00:04:16.360 talk about, like, equate that to like football.
00:04:18.780 If your manager says you need to be there, you're going to be upset with him because,
00:04:23.200 ah, my mind, I'm having a really bad week at home, so my manager has to talk to me a
00:04:28.500 certain type of way.
00:04:29.220 If the information with me per se, and I know I'm a very black sheep when it comes to this,
00:04:34.200 my girlfriend always says to me, you have the emotional capacity of a wooden spoon, because
00:04:37.960 I don't really care about, like, emotions too tough.
00:04:39.800 If the information is necessary, please tell me, and I will do the same.
00:04:43.320 Yeah, but he's talking sexually.
00:04:44.880 You mean you ain't fully pleasing your woman, right?
00:04:48.200 And then the worst thing with a woman, a woman would tell you, a lot of women talk with each
00:04:52.640 other about their sex.
00:04:53.940 That's why I want to go first.
00:04:55.040 And the size of their partner's this, and what that partner's doing, and what you're
00:04:58.400 not doing, and then that girl, your partner would bring that in the bedroom and go, oh,
00:05:01.940 well, my friend tried this, and blah, blah, blah, and if you ain't satisfying her in a certain
00:05:06.000 way, if you come at me in, like, an aggressive kind of way, like, it will hurt my feelings,
00:05:13.040 because remember this, when you're having sex with someone, you're completely vulnerable
00:05:17.760 with each other.
00:05:18.940 Okay, which hurts more?
00:05:21.560 So when you're talking about, like, when you met your partner and you always said, oh,
00:05:28.740 like, no matter what, just tell me whatever.
00:05:30.700 Like, you can tell me, but you need to, if it's sexually, like, you need to tell me in
00:05:35.260 a certain way, because I feel like I'm doing the best I can do.
00:05:38.340 Okay.
00:05:38.920 So, if I'm not doing the best I can do, let me...
00:05:42.180 I need you to maybe...
00:05:43.440 Let me ask, let me ask a question.
00:05:45.440 Which would hurt more?
00:05:46.680 Her directly saying, you need to do this better because you're not really doing that that
00:05:50.140 much, or her going through all of her friends and eventually saying to you...
00:05:53.580 She gonna go through her friends regardless.
00:05:55.740 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, eventually her saying it to you nicely, but now you know,
00:05:59.020 all of her friends know.
00:06:01.000 Before you.
00:06:02.060 Remember this, when you...
00:06:03.760 Sex is a thing where people...
00:06:05.120 Where girls talk, bro.
00:06:06.280 Exactly.
00:06:06.680 So it's like, if you didn't fulfill her fantasy the first time, she already told her friend.
00:06:10.320 So she probably told her friend first, and then she's already come to you.
00:06:13.680 Her friends already know.
00:06:14.860 That's what I'm saying.
00:06:15.580 I want to be the first to know.
00:06:17.360 Yeah, but it's too late, because girls talk.
00:06:19.440 She already told her friend when you messed up the first time.
00:06:21.840 That's why you bring up a relationship where they tell straight out.
00:06:24.200 But you don't know that.
00:06:24.760 You're not in control of that.
00:06:25.680 A woman's in control of that.
00:06:26.660 Of course.
00:06:27.060 Women talk.
00:06:27.780 You're not in no control of what a woman thinks and the way she talk.
00:06:32.160 Women talk.
00:06:33.120 Yeah.
00:06:33.280 No matter what you do, you could be the best guy, the best at whatever you're doing.
00:06:36.740 They are going to talk.
00:06:37.440 I'm talking to my man, because he's been in them rooms.
00:06:39.320 I know.
00:06:40.280 I'm talking from experience.
00:06:41.860 I know.
00:06:42.440 I'm talking from experience, because, listen, me, I would only do certain things on birthdays,
00:06:46.840 Valentine's Days, and Christmas.
00:06:48.460 Anyone that's been with me knows what I'm talking about.
00:06:51.300 Now, if your friend or whatever gets it whenever, once a week, it's a downfall.
00:06:58.620 And I'll be like, yeah, but you know, I do the best I can do on a celebration.
00:07:03.800 It's something you look forward to.
00:07:05.200 And we bring out the roses and the petals and the whipped cream and the chocolate sauce.
00:07:09.200 Blah, blah, blah.
00:07:10.460 Crazy.
00:07:11.580 Crazy.
00:07:12.680 You know what I mean?
00:07:13.860 I'm going to take a second to read Super Chats for a second.
00:07:18.400 Guys, make sure you like the video.
00:07:19.960 We're almost to 500 likes on this chat, so make sure you hit the like button.
00:07:24.700 It's good to hear.
00:07:26.420 Sorry.
00:07:26.700 What?
00:07:27.480 That's making noise.
00:07:29.280 Okay.
00:07:30.120 Also, guys, make sure you send them to our Google form.
00:07:34.340 That should be in the chat for the events that we're going to do in the U.S.
00:07:39.160 Aaron, Pearl and Blondie are spitting so much fire right now.
00:07:42.960 It's crazy that you're both laying out common sense, but that's so controversial these days.
00:07:47.080 Clown world.
00:07:48.300 Baby.
00:07:49.020 I see young boys walking home from high school with these girls just yelling, waltzing, talking, acting 304s.
00:07:55.660 It's damaging to a boy's psyche.
00:07:57.800 Glenn, Bible tells the husbands to love their wives like Christ loves the church.
00:08:01.840 It also tells wives to submit in respect to their husbands.
00:08:05.140 Nowadays, wives love husbands, and husbands submit in respect to wives.
00:08:12.840 Winter.
00:08:13.540 Wait, am I missing something?
00:08:14.720 Did the woman do wrong?
00:08:15.740 She won the lottery, and then she got sued.
00:08:17.780 A baby.
00:08:18.820 There is no partnership in a relationship.
00:08:20.960 A team can only have one leader.
00:08:23.320 Divided leadership always fails.
00:08:26.060 Also, men are more in touch with reality.
00:08:28.840 Hi, Donovan.
00:08:29.420 Women only refer to God when they're talking about what they won't do for a man.
00:08:36.880 Go subscribe to Donovan's channel.
00:08:38.680 He does reactions to my stuff all the time.
00:08:41.560 Barrett, churches are starting to become a part of the world.
00:08:44.620 Oh, I read that one already.
00:08:45.720 I'm going to refresh it real quick.