JustPearlyThings - December 29, 2022


Money does this to men...


Episode Stats

Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

234.82797

Word Count

2,746

Sentence Count

263


Summary

In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the and talk about the difference between men and women when it comes to sex. Is sex a sacred thing, or is it just sex?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 I'm not trying to sit here and advocate for men to run around and fuck a bunch of women, I'm not saying that.
00:00:03.340 That's what you're doing, man.
00:00:04.160 No, but I'm not.
00:00:04.880 No, no, no, let him explain, let him land, let him land, it's about to come.
00:00:08.400 Now, sister, let him land, though.
00:00:09.880 No, but I'm not, I'm not.
00:00:11.320 What I'm actually trying to do is describe the baseline unfortunate realities of human dynamics.
00:00:16.980 And I'm trying to explain now to the world that any woman can get a man who will not cheat on her
00:00:21.700 if she's prepared to sacrifice a bunch of other things, perhaps, right?
00:00:25.800 In the olden days, it was different.
00:00:27.360 The world was a different place.
00:00:29.160 It was a completely different place, and it was better.
00:00:31.460 Now it's all fucked up.
00:00:32.840 It's fucked up on every level.
00:00:34.380 And men, especially the high-status men, most of them have struggled so hard to become high-status.
00:00:39.880 They've been through so much shit to get where they are.
00:00:42.320 It's like telling him, if you climb this mountain, you can go to a candy store.
00:00:45.700 And he climbs to the top of the mountain, and the second he's in the candy store,
00:00:48.520 after one piece of candy, that bitch is saying, no, no more candy.
00:00:52.240 He's like, no, I just climbed this mountain.
00:00:54.040 I just got rich.
00:00:55.120 I just went through X, Y, Z.
00:00:56.880 I finally got here.
00:00:58.040 I'm finally in the candy store.
00:00:59.280 Now you're telling me I can only have one piece of candy?
00:01:01.020 Okay.
00:01:01.280 What man should have a deal with that?
00:01:02.500 Do you think that men owe a woman loyalty if she was there from the beginning?
00:01:07.380 Absolutely.
00:01:08.040 They absolutely owe that woman loyalty.
00:01:09.880 Oh, sorry.
00:01:10.060 Sexual loyalty.
00:01:10.960 That's what I meant.
00:01:11.560 Sexual exclusivity is different.
00:01:14.300 Men, sorry.
00:01:14.960 I mean, sexual exclusivity and loyalty are completely disconnected for males.
00:01:20.560 Nobody wants to talk about this, but it's the unfortunate reality.
00:01:22.520 It's true.
00:01:22.960 I'm telling you, you can get a man, he can go on a holiday, can fuck some stripper, can
00:01:29.220 come home, and you can lie detector test him.
00:01:31.300 Do you love your wife?
00:01:32.140 Would you die for your wife?
00:01:33.180 Would you take a bullet for your wife?
00:01:34.680 He'll pass the lie detector test.
00:01:36.380 He loves her with all his heart.
00:01:37.480 He'd do anything for her.
00:01:39.060 It's just pussy.
00:01:40.180 It's not a big deal.
00:01:41.160 It's different.
00:01:41.560 I feel like, I guess my question would be then is, like, how do you view sex?
00:01:45.780 Because I, like, sex at the end of the day is spiritual unification.
00:01:49.880 I feel like I've gone through a lot of different stuff.
00:01:51.820 I've had a lot of different experiences where I did not value myself, so I never had a man
00:01:55.880 that valued me.
00:01:56.900 So it's like, yeah, you rack up guys, and guys, you shouldn't be texting back or whatever.
00:02:01.320 But I feel like there, I understand that there is a difference with how men view sex
00:02:06.080 and how they move around in the world, but it's like, sex is a sacred thing, no matter
00:02:10.480 a male or female is doing it.
00:02:12.340 So that's why, for me, like, my biggest, like, the hardest for me to understand is, like,
00:02:17.580 this is such a sacred thing, and it's just being, it's like taking a piss for a guy.
00:02:22.240 Can I just say something?
00:02:23.300 Are you sure you weren't making love to somebody that was having sex?
00:02:26.380 I'm sorry?
00:02:27.020 Are you sure that you weren't making love to somebody that was just having sex?
00:02:31.400 A and T, that's what it sounds like to me.
00:02:36.080 It sounds like, as women, they make love to men that are just having sex.
00:02:42.920 Right.
00:02:44.020 That's the difference.
00:02:44.880 That's not the point.
00:02:45.660 But my thing is, okay, not all the time.
00:02:48.500 So I think when men hear that, though, it's like, if it was sacred to you, you would have
00:02:51.840 waited until you were married.
00:02:53.080 But it's like, I get that.
00:02:55.440 But the reality is, is that the world is not so black and white.
00:02:59.040 So I understand that there are these things in place that worked and made sense, and now
00:03:03.420 we're approaching an era that we don't know what's going to happen, but there's gray area.
00:03:07.300 You've had sex.
00:03:08.040 I've had sex.
00:03:08.640 She's had sex.
00:03:09.280 We've had sex with different guys.
00:03:10.540 That doesn't mean that we're damaged goods.
00:03:11.980 We're used goods.
00:03:12.580 I understand status is a big part of that.
00:03:14.260 I understand that sex is viewed differently.
00:03:16.000 But I feel like you should not, if you're looking at face value, I can understand why you'd
00:03:21.480 be judged from your past.
00:03:22.640 But if I'm a guy interested in you, I don't care about what you've done.
00:03:26.240 But that's the thing.
00:03:27.660 Men do, though.
00:03:29.060 That's the thing.
00:03:30.540 A virgin's more valuable to a man than a girl that's had sex with multiple men.
00:03:35.780 It just is what it is.
00:03:37.100 There's a limit.
00:03:37.720 But the modern man's solution is not a virgin.
00:03:40.780 A modern man needs a partner, somebody that's actually smart and can survive in the world of
00:03:44.280 today.
00:03:44.480 And that's going to be a lived woman.
00:03:46.560 The men with the most choice are going to pick women that are more pure, in general.
00:03:50.280 The ones that are already self-made, I guess so.
00:03:52.440 But that's the thing.
00:03:52.960 The reality is that there's a lot of men out there, especially in the world that we live
00:03:57.680 in today, that need a partner.
00:03:59.000 So it's time for those masses of men to start respecting women for the role they can play
00:04:02.880 in their lives.
00:04:03.380 I don't think average men expect women to be virgins.
00:04:06.300 Do you know what it is?
00:04:06.840 But it's this rhetoric that actually then is pumped into these minds and creates what people
00:04:10.720 now complain about, the misogynistic world.
00:04:12.840 That's what it is.
00:04:13.680 Even in schools, it's like permeated through it all and perpetuated.
00:04:16.640 Why is it misogynistic for men to prefer women that are more pure?
00:04:19.300 It's not that it's, but it's not, that's not the problem.
00:04:21.680 The problem is now, listen, the maths is very simple.
00:04:24.580 You've got people like Andrew Tate talking about these things with such clarity and it
00:04:28.580 makes so much sense because it is true, right?
00:04:31.000 And then you have men that are in these situations where just average, working an average job and
00:04:35.960 they cannot fulfill whatever definition is called to be a man in these definitions.
00:04:40.440 Yes, they can.
00:04:41.120 And that's what he said.
00:04:41.980 He did say that.
00:04:42.740 Yes, they can.
00:04:43.660 A nine to five man can do it.
00:04:45.100 But then again, but wait, wait, this is the thing.
00:04:48.120 What we're talking about as a man, and this is why I say it's very important for us to
00:04:51.200 understand the person that we're speaking to.
00:04:52.600 And I'm very glad that you've clarified everything that you mean.
00:04:55.020 Not every man is like Andrew Tate.
00:04:56.960 Not every man is going to be able to even realistically demand for certain things from
00:05:01.920 a woman.
00:05:02.220 So the same way women need to compromise if it comes to a man who is going to cheat
00:05:06.540 on her because he's a top G, is the same way men are going to have to compromise and
00:05:09.920 stop blabbing about purity when they can't demand for that.
00:05:13.500 You just didn't get none of what you were saying.
00:05:16.300 I made my point.
00:05:17.060 That was the whole point.
00:05:18.080 What point?
00:05:19.040 Well, duh.
00:05:19.700 Because you just quoted him.
00:05:20.880 You just said about his thing and you didn't know.
00:05:22.240 Not only did I get clout, I made my point.
00:05:24.660 I said the average man does not have what he takes to demand for a virgin or no more.
00:05:30.180 Hang on a minute.
00:05:31.140 He already said that.
00:05:32.220 He already said that.
00:05:32.980 And I reiterated in my own words for my own content for my page and so what.
00:05:36.480 Do you know what it is, right?
00:05:37.100 Is that too many women, they see regular guys and they feel they're settling.
00:05:40.540 You're not settling.
00:05:41.680 You're getting what you deserve.
00:05:42.980 But you can't be asking for a virgin, though.
00:05:45.000 You're not settling.
00:05:46.020 But the difference is men know this.
00:05:48.380 Like most average men aren't demanding.
00:05:49.960 The average men never say they want a virgin.
00:05:52.680 Kind of.
00:05:53.720 But the difference is average men know they don't deserve a 10.
00:05:58.960 They know they don't deserve an 8.
00:06:00.200 They know they don't even deserve a 7.
00:06:01.760 And they still go messaging them on the stories and all this dumb stuff that is just ugly.
00:06:05.720 Most men in history haven't even reproduced.
00:06:09.160 And so it's like men know.
00:06:10.700 But the women are the ones that are delusional.
00:06:13.060 There's regular men out there.
00:06:14.180 Shooting a shot at Chris Hemsworth.
00:06:16.980 Chris Hemsworth.
00:06:17.840 There's regular men out there that will have you down.
00:06:20.940 She's a 2.
00:06:21.340 A 2.
00:06:21.600 Yeah, but can I just say, people are watching 10.
00:06:23.680 Not understanding that Tate is part of that 1% of success.
00:06:28.060 And they think that they can demand the same thing.
00:06:31.280 They can demand purity.
00:06:33.080 One second.
00:06:33.500 One second.
00:06:33.940 One second.
00:06:34.200 Sorry, sorry.
00:06:34.740 I understand the point you're all making.
00:06:35.900 But let's understand something.
00:06:37.820 To the sexual marketplace, females have always been, and still to a degree, are the gatekeepers.
00:06:43.720 It's men will, you can think about it in a very simplistic way.
00:06:46.960 This is not the case, but let's simplify it for the sake of argument.
00:06:49.820 Imagine men will run around and fuck anything.
00:06:52.040 And women are the ones who say yes or no.
00:06:54.260 You are the gatekeepers that have all the power.
00:06:56.660 And this is what's actually truly interesting about the sexual marketplace.
00:06:59.320 Because whenever women go, there's not enough good men.
00:07:02.040 Then why are you fucking, of course, why would they be good if you don't make them be good?
00:07:05.320 You're a fucking loser.
00:07:06.020 So you're talking about, I'm saying that a man at a certain level can't do certain things.
00:07:12.880 If you were with Joe Schmo and he wasn't treating you the way you believe Joe Schmo should treat you,
00:07:17.360 then why are you with him?
00:07:17.900 Leave.
00:07:18.720 Sis, leave.
00:07:19.180 Women have the gatekeeping.
00:07:21.200 So if you get Joe Schmo and he treats you like you're his queen, treats you perfect, good.
00:07:25.500 If you get a fucking guy at the absolute upper echelons of value and you still aren't happy with what he's giving you,
00:07:31.220 then leave.
00:07:31.720 Women are the gatekeepers.
00:07:32.900 You women actually have all of the power.
00:07:35.140 This is what's beautiful about the whole thing.
00:07:37.120 Women are constantly complaining.
00:07:38.720 You have all the power.
00:07:40.200 You're the ones who get to choose.
00:07:41.740 Do you know who you should be mad at for all this shit?
00:07:44.740 I'll tell you who you should be mad at.
00:07:46.080 Do you know who threw away all the female power in the sexual marketplace?
00:07:49.900 Promiscuous females.
00:07:51.320 Because now you got chicks who will bang anybody without trying.
00:07:54.440 So why should a dude get up and try?
00:07:55.960 Do you have any idea how hard it is to actually be?
00:07:59.840 Let me make this clear.
00:08:00.840 Go on, sir.
00:08:01.180 Do you have any idea how hard it is to actually be?
00:08:04.500 No bullshit.
00:08:05.540 A man.
00:08:06.280 And I say this and women go, oh, yeah, dude.
00:08:08.160 As soon as most women encounter any kind of problem, the first thing you do is turn to a man.
00:08:13.620 Their man, their dad, the mechanic, the police, a man.
00:08:16.420 If you actually put a woman in front of a problem and go, no men, they're like, oh, whoa, fuck.
00:08:20.880 It's a mental breakdown.
00:08:21.940 Men, day after day, especially if you're a high-level man.
00:08:25.880 Let me make something clear from my life.
00:08:27.060 I'll talk from personal experience.
00:08:28.500 I'm not just looking after me.
00:08:30.080 I'm not just looking after my chick.
00:08:31.700 I'm the guy in about 300 people's phone books that they call when anything big goes wrong.
00:08:37.500 You get arrested in Russia.
00:08:38.760 You need extraction from Ukraine.
00:08:40.320 You need a million dollars.
00:08:41.680 Whatever it is, Kazakhstan, abduction.
00:08:43.900 They call me.
00:08:44.720 I'm the first phone call.
00:08:45.960 I'm fixing 400 different lives.
00:08:47.980 I'm a problem solver.
00:08:49.140 Chicks can't fix fucking any of this shit, right?
00:08:51.780 This is how hard it is to be a man.
00:08:53.540 And it's amazing because society expects it of you, but so do women.
00:08:57.960 If you had a man, be honest.
00:08:59.700 You had a man and you went to your man and said, oh, I've got this problem.
00:09:03.140 I can't fix this.
00:09:04.060 It's broken.
00:09:04.500 The car tire's broken.
00:09:05.300 And he went, I don't know.
00:09:07.340 You would dry up.
00:09:08.680 You'd be like, well, fuck it.
00:09:09.400 What the fucking point are you?
00:09:11.120 That's the truth.
00:09:12.180 You could sit here and go, oh, we'd call a mechanic.
00:09:13.800 No, you wouldn't.
00:09:14.220 And you'd look at your man and go, what do you mean you can't fix it?
00:09:15.840 I'll do it myself.
00:09:16.700 Waste, man.
00:09:17.220 And this is what she's saying about your man will get up and go.
00:09:19.880 And you know what's beautiful about masculinity?
00:09:21.660 A bunch of times a man will go up and he doesn't have a clue how to fix it himself.
00:09:24.480 But he'll go, don't worry, baby.
00:09:25.660 Okay.
00:09:26.040 And he'll stand up with no money and no clue.
00:09:28.420 And he'll go out there and fucking try and find a way because as a man, you need to be useful.
00:09:31.640 It is so difficult to be a man.
00:09:33.560 You have no idea the amount of pressure that we're under from society and from the women we even want to associate with on a whole.
00:09:39.900 It's difficult.
00:09:41.020 You have to keep all these things in mind.
00:09:42.320 It's hard.
00:09:42.760 You see what you just said about, yeah, the top G that if they had money, you can fly planes and fly that.
00:09:50.200 Drop it down to if you were earning, like, say, 50,000 a year.
00:09:54.760 Couldn't you be that same person amongst your peers?
00:09:57.380 A hundred percent you could.
00:09:58.220 That's what I'm trying to say.
00:09:58.960 A hundred percent you could.
00:09:59.700 And also, also you have to.
00:10:01.760 Money doesn't make you a top G.
00:10:03.240 No, money is an amplifier.
00:10:04.880 So that's the first thing about money.
00:10:06.040 Money amplifies.
00:10:07.120 Men can make money.
00:10:07.880 Money does not make men.
00:10:09.040 If you're a dork and you get rich, you're a rich dork.
00:10:10.820 If you're a G and you get rich, you're a top G.
00:10:13.820 Right?
00:10:14.100 So that's the first thing about money.
00:10:15.320 And I agree with you.
00:10:16.480 But traditionally, and this is the baseline.
00:10:18.980 And once again, when I say these things, I'm not looking to be attacked for being misogynist.
00:10:22.280 I'm just commenting on how I view the world and how I see things.
00:10:24.740 Traditionally, a man primarily gives his attention to a female to get sex.
00:10:31.180 And she gives him sex back to get the attention.
00:10:33.200 That's the swap.
00:10:34.000 Right?
00:10:34.480 So if I'm a dude and I want sex from a girl, I give her attention.
00:10:38.320 I talk to her.
00:10:39.020 I hang out with her.
00:10:39.940 I spend time with her.
00:10:40.740 Eventually, I get the sex.
00:10:41.560 That's how it works.
00:10:42.580 But the higher value you are as a man, the more valuable your attention is, the more
00:10:46.100 valuable your time is, the less you have to give.
00:10:48.400 It's like potency.
00:10:49.740 Right?
00:10:49.960 So I can give five minutes to a chick, and that's worth two weeks of some other dude's
00:10:54.600 time.
00:10:55.140 But that's the reality.
00:10:56.060 So where you are on the scale is just basically how much of your time you have to give.
00:10:59.460 Now, you can still give all your time to a woman, treat her like a queen, be respected
00:11:02.260 by your peers.
00:11:02.920 She can be happy with you.
00:11:04.080 I'm not saying she will be any.
00:11:05.340 In fact, I'll argue she'll be happier with that man than she'll be with a fucking guy like me.
00:11:10.200 I'm not even out here saying I'll make chicks happy.
00:11:11.620 I'm not even saying that.
00:11:12.700 I'm saying that she'll get the amount of time that she's going to want from that man.
00:11:16.180 The amount of attention is linked to his status.
00:11:18.240 But at a true high level status of man, it's two DMs.
00:11:22.320 10 seconds.
00:11:23.000 10 seconds.
00:11:23.960 10 seconds.
00:11:24.900 Done.
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