On How Entitled She is
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about how to deal with a man who is tall, how tall is too tall, and how tall should you be? We also talk about a woman who accused her ex-boyfriend of being a bully and how she handled it.
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Okay, what percent of men do you think are 6'1"?
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Well, he had his own houses and a business, he sells cars.
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Okay, so roughly, how much do you think he made?
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I know about his business and, you know, and things like that, but I don't know the figures.
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Okay, so if he owned a house, he probably made at least like 60, 70, I guess.
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You guys would know London prices more than me.
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Probably, because buying a house in Essex is cheap.
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So you had a guy, top 10% height, top 20% income.
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So in women, so you know women, we find 80% of men is ugly.
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So if you find him attractive, that means he's top 20%.
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No, he's been trying to holler at me, to be honest.
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And I saw in certain behaviors that he was portraying.
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So like, you know, he was very aggressive sometimes.
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Okay, so he shoved you one time and then you died.
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Yeah, and it was petty and he lied at the time as well.
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And I knew he was lying about picking up his kids when he wasn't...
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So I spent a couple days with him and I was supposed to say the last day
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and then all of a sudden he's got to go and pick up his kids.
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And so it's like, you're making me feel like you don't want me to stay anymore.
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So you don't have no physical evidence of that?
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You'd think I'm crazy if I go into it right now.
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Literally, and he tried to drag me for real for real.
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Why do, why do a lot of women, they like, they accuse a man of being like the bad guy,
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the guy that hurts them, the guy that beats them.
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But then the reason they, like, they made, they caused the reason.
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Because if you physically don't move in certain spaces, a police...
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It's the way, it's the way you speak to someone.
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It's the way you conduct yourself in that situation.
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Okay, but if you're in, this has happened to me before.
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Um, no, there was a girl here and I asked her to leave and she didn't like the way I
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Um, and then, um, well, we didn't have security then, but my security would have just picked
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But then it's like, the way you're saying this, it's like, what other options do you have?
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See, this is the thing, I wouldn't have done that.
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But when it's an emotional, sexual connection, you've got other feelings.
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Like, you feel rejection, you feel like you're being violated.
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So, basically, like, you were kind of overbearing because you thought he did something and
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Okay, but you've never said two things that contradicted yourself ever.
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But, you know, it's very easy to say the wrong thing if you've been cross-examined.
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When you say earlier on where men are analysing women and women are analysing men, he's looking
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at you like, rah, so you're going to argue against me picking up my kids.
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It don't matter whether you know he's not or it is, yeah?
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I'm telling you something about my kids and you're arguing against my kids.
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Maybe there is something that he just didn't want you to know.
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Like, you know, I mean, like, baby mama situations can be tricky.
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Like, sometimes guys don't want to get you in on all the drama.
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But it's like, you're going into it in bad faith so you're assuming the worst when maybe it wasn't the worst.
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But I also feel like it's just the way you conduct yourself in a sensitive situation as well.
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Because it's the way, like, you didn't listen when he said leave.
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So it's kind of like, as women, like, we kind of have this double standard where we make him the bad guy when it's like, you kind of started it.
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Also, the reason was, like, I've stayed in the house by myself before.
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And at this point, like, he didn't want me to stay.
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So it's like, if you love me, why can't I stay here while you go and pick up your child, do what you need to do, and I'll stay here tonight and you come back.
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Like, if I own this apartment, if I want anyone to leave at any time, I have the right to do that.
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It was just the way it happened and the things that he was saying and the way he was speaking to me.
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No, okay, but this is like a lot of problems with women in relationships.
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And so a lot of times, like, we think something's aggressive, but men are just more aggressive than women.
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And you said in the beginning that the men that like you, you don't want.
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No, but that's like, that's what any girl that's single, it just means the men you want don't want you.
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The thing is, it's actually crazy because there's no one I actually want.
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I'm attracted to like someone, but he's like a celebrity figure.
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You know, like sex appeal, but there's no one I actually want.
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Okay, do you think you're on like the level of a celebrity?
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I think I'm an amazing person if I'm being honest.
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I think I'm beautiful without the Botox, without the money, without all that money to do myself
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Like, it's like you think because they have money, they're beautiful when they got there.
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But if you look at Margot Robbie before fame, that girl was a 10.
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But then you're doing selectiveness because there's enough girl that go there and the money
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Can we just talk in general instead of exceptions?
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Most celebrities are top 20% of beauty in general.
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But most people in Hollywood were the top 20% of beauty wherever they're from.
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I just feel like there's a difference in behaviour.
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I really like my independence, but I just know there's a certain way that you will handle
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In terms of looking up, do you know how to look after a man?
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No, because you're saying certain things that in a relationship, it's like...
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If you saw a relationship with your mum and dad growing up, then there's certain things
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you wouldn't do in a relationship, you get what I'm saying, to keep the man.
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Every man that's been my boyfriend has returned, and they haven't found better.
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I haven't had that experience yet, but I've had similar.
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Do you think that men go out and buy promise rings?
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Okay, so the whole point is like you're counting things that don't count.
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It doesn't count if they don't want to marry you.
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I know what you mean, but you know, shit happens.
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You know, I've had guys say, I want to marry you.
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I don't know why as women, we count things that don't count.
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So you've been proposed to a couple of times or...
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But did he say it was a promise ring or did he say it's an engagement ring?
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Financially, he was trying to get the property.