JustPearlyThings - October 09, 2023


Only Fan Lady Gets ROASTED for Arguing with a Lawyer on Marriage Law


Episode Stats

Length

35 minutes

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220.11107

Word Count

7,835

Sentence Count

784


Summary

In this episode of Only Fancast, I am joined by my good friend and documentary maker, to discuss the controversial topic of who should get half of a partner's money in the event of a divorce. Is it a prenuptial agreement or a prenup? What does it mean and why does it matter?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 I've personally met, like, guys, like, I literally met a guy actually once in a pub, and he was trying to, like, chat to me and stuff, and he was, like, trying to, like, ask me to go out with him, and on his lock screen, he had a picture of him at his wedding getting married to his wife with his children in the picture as well.
00:00:16.600 And I just think that, like, marriage doesn't, like, stand for anything, like, it doesn't mean anything, really, I don't think it really means a lot, and you also said earlier that if you're married, you get half of what your partner has, but that's not true either, because you can actually, a guy can actually sign all his money to himself and not give his wife any of that, so.
00:00:38.580 That's not true.
00:00:39.640 Yes, it is true.
00:00:40.400 No?
00:00:40.660 Because I know someone that's done it, yes, it is true.
00:00:42.540 Was it a prenup, or are you saying that this was a court ruling?
00:00:45.480 No, it's not a court ruling, I'm saying that they can do that before they get married, so it doesn't really mean you get.
00:00:50.240 Yeah, so it was a prenup, yeah, so that means.
00:00:51.740 Why does that, that's not relevant, it doesn't matter.
00:00:53.020 Yes, it is relevant, because if it's a prenup, or it's determined by the court, it's different.
00:00:56.180 Right, but why does it matter?
00:00:56.840 You can still get married and not have a partner's money.
00:00:58.020 Are you really arguing, okay, I have a question, I'm just, I'm just curious how you think.
00:01:02.600 So, you know, usually if I'm in a room with someone that knows more than me, I'm not, like, okay, so she's a lawyer, you're on OnlyFans, and you, you think, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait,
00:01:15.120 it's not about money, it's not about money, so you're talking about the legal system, and I know a good amount because of the documentary I'm doing on the legal system,
00:01:25.300 but if she told me something, I would probably believe her, just that she's, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, so, so, but, but I'm saying you're arguing with a lawyer.
00:01:36.120 I'm not arguing with her, I never said that it was, I'm saying, yeah, I'm just, I just, I just, I just want to understand how you think, lawyer
00:01:46.300 OnlyFans worker, you think you, you know more than her.
00:01:49.100 Did I say that?
00:01:50.060 You acted like it.
00:01:51.440 No, I didn't, I don't even know what she's talking about, I just said that I know something.
00:01:54.300 That's what you're talking about, I'm saying, I'm saying that I know someone that's married, and that, as, as, obviously, doesn't give all,
00:02:02.080 You, you heard it, okay, let me, let me, let me just, let me just repeat this, let me just repeat this.
00:02:06.960 It's called a premium.
00:02:07.440 Heard it, let me, let me just repeat this.
00:02:08.880 I didn't know what it was called, I don't know what it was called.
00:02:09.420 Let me just repeat, I'm going to repeat this really quick, really quick for us.
00:02:12.980 Heard a story, works in the legal system as a lawyer.
00:02:17.060 I haven't heard a story, I know someone who doesn't give that why.
00:02:19.560 Okay, okay, who told you what?
00:02:21.420 I'm not saying someone told me, I know someone personally.
00:02:24.500 That, okay, so you know someone that told you a story?
00:02:27.740 No, I never, I never said that, I know someone personally.
00:02:30.400 Were you at, were you at the court hearing?
00:02:32.200 That none of his money goes to his wife.
00:02:33.860 Were you, were you at the court hearing?
00:02:35.000 Why does it matter, like, what are you talking about?
00:02:36.820 My point is, I don't understand why you have this gut reaction to argue.
00:02:41.700 Because you're saying that I said that I'm right and she's wrong.
00:02:44.220 No, I, I said that you argued with her, and I don't think you understand how you're coming across.
00:02:49.400 Okay, I don't really care, I'm just saying what I know.
00:02:51.620 That's clear, that's clear.
00:02:53.220 All right, okay.
00:02:53.740 So, I'm, I'm saying I don't understand why you're acting like you know more than a lawyer.
00:02:57.440 I never said that, I know more than a lawyer.
00:02:58.440 So, I would love to, okay, so shh, shh, shh, shh, okay, thank you, shh, okay.
00:03:02.380 So, can you tell me more about how it works?
00:03:04.460 I'm curious.
00:03:05.580 So, okay, so what you said was that you know somebody who had a situation where they signed
00:03:10.740 their money away in a certain way so that the wife didn't get the money.
00:03:14.100 Yeah.
00:03:14.240 So, maybe what you didn't understand is that in order to do that, you would have to sign
00:03:17.920 a prenuptial agreement.
00:03:19.380 That is not the default, that is not the default outcome in a divorce system.
00:03:23.500 So, in our family law system here in the UK, everything, the division of the assets is
00:03:29.320 assessed by the court and it's all ruled by legislation.
00:03:31.900 So, when your friend or whoever that happened to, that was a case-by-case basis based on
00:03:37.420 a prenuptial agreement that they both agreed to before they got married.
00:03:40.660 In the family law system, right now, they will take into account who earns what, who contributed
00:03:46.180 what, what assets they have and that will be divided depending on what they've done and
00:03:50.620 what they've contributed and what they haven't.
00:03:52.040 It's, so what you're saying is actually an exception and it's also completely different
00:03:55.740 from the norm.
00:03:56.700 It's, it's, it's a.
00:03:57.980 It's a contractual agreement.
00:03:58.680 It's a contractual agreement.
00:03:59.680 That's what I was trying to say.
00:04:00.860 It's still a thing.
00:04:01.420 It's still a thing, but what maybe, what you didn't understand is maybe that it's just
00:04:05.180 case-by-case, that's what happened to them because they did a specific, they did a specific
00:04:09.080 contractual agreement before, but for the majority of people who don't do that, that's not
00:04:13.260 how the law works.
00:04:15.680 Okay.
00:04:16.160 So, I'm, I'm curious who, you're the only one married, right?
00:04:20.160 Everyone else.
00:04:20.880 No, okay, who here wants to be married?
00:04:23.340 Raise your hand.
00:04:26.600 Okay, so.
00:04:27.980 Undecided.
00:04:28.900 Okay, and I'm curious, when would you guys want to be married by?
00:04:31.940 So, remind them what your age is and when you'd want to be married.
00:04:35.900 Yeah, so, you're all talking about like, in the, I'm in my 30s, 35, so.
00:04:40.880 Ah, I'm just kidding.
00:04:41.980 Yeah, I know, I know, I'm like, too late.
00:04:44.980 Yeah.
00:04:45.260 Forget it.
00:04:45.940 But, um, really sort of, when I find someone that I, that I like, so I don't know, in the
00:04:54.900 next few years, whatever, but it has to be someone that I, um, that we really like each
00:05:00.400 other.
00:05:01.400 Okay.
00:05:02.400 I don't just want to get married just for the sake of it.
00:05:03.400 Okay, what about kids?
00:05:05.020 Do you want kids?
00:05:05.960 I mean, yeah, if it's, if it's meant to be, yeah, I would.
00:05:08.980 If I, if I'm with a partner, yeah.
00:05:11.420 Okay, are you okay with not having them?
00:05:13.500 Yeah, whatever will be, will be.
00:05:16.020 Yeah, okay.
00:05:16.800 Well, I don't understand that.
00:05:18.880 Yeah.
00:05:19.220 Isn't it, isn't it like what you.
00:05:20.580 I've never really, I've never really been in a situation where I've had to think about
00:05:24.300 that, because I would only think about having a child with someone if I'm really getting
00:05:28.960 married to someone in a situation like that.
00:05:31.400 So, I've been, I haven't had to worry or think about it, and it hasn't been something
00:05:35.360 I've grown up, like, oh, I must have kids, I must be married by this age, I must be that.
00:05:40.120 I, I've just, like, if I, if I find the one that I'm married to, then I would assume and
00:05:45.480 want, yeah.
00:05:46.040 So, if you, I'm just curious, um, how, how much roughly do you make a year?
00:05:53.400 You, you don't have to give me, like, more than, more than 60,000?
00:05:56.660 Yeah.
00:05:57.340 Okay, more than 70?
00:05:58.840 Yeah.
00:05:59.340 Okay, so you actually make enough that you could retire by yourself?
00:06:02.760 I mean, not in London, oh my God.
00:06:04.960 Okay, so, so what's your, if the government doesn't bail you out, what's your plan?
00:06:09.700 If you don't get married?
00:06:11.140 Um, so, my plan if I don't get married is basically to have a property, which I already
00:06:18.160 do, um, but, and then just, just explore the world and see what's going on and just be happy.
00:06:24.880 But, no, I do, I have other things that, it depends on work.
00:06:27.560 Well, well, yeah, because, like, let's say you live to be 90 and, like, you can't really
00:06:32.060 work after, like, 65, 70.
00:06:33.960 So, it's, like, what, what do you do for that 20 years if you don't get married?
00:06:37.980 Like, most people need two incomes to retire.
00:06:40.400 Yeah.
00:06:40.540 You can get into OnlyFans.
00:06:42.640 Oh, girl, no.
00:06:44.300 Only, only 5% of OnlyFans, it's either prostitutes or OnlyFans are after, like, 40, 45.
00:06:50.340 You don't really have that option.
00:06:50.960 Oh, you can still go into it, definitely.
00:06:52.420 I know a woman that's, like, 70 and she doesn't.
00:06:54.060 Yeah, there's, there's a lot of MILFs on there and stuff like that.
00:06:56.080 Also, one of.
00:06:56.820 They're not making the money you guys are making, I promise you that.
00:07:00.040 Also, one, um, one of my, um, jobs, um, they asked me if, uh, if I'm on OnlyFans because
00:07:06.820 they were not going to give me the job if I was on OnlyFans because it's, um, it's.
00:07:11.340 Negative.
00:07:11.840 Yeah, negative press.
00:07:13.020 Not a bad reputation.
00:07:13.460 And, uh, so, yeah.
00:07:14.680 Sex work.
00:07:15.620 Now, I understand that, but, like.
00:07:17.740 Actually, that's one point that I would like to, to point out.
00:07:20.360 So, um, in certain law firms that I've worked at before, when we are going through people's,
00:07:25.480 um, finances, say for, if, for example, if they're buying a property, we have to go through
00:07:29.180 the.
00:07:30.180 Yeah, we, when we've got, when we've had people that they're getting their money through
00:07:34.600 OnlyFans, a lot of the time it can preclude them from being able to go through with a property
00:07:38.420 sale because OnlyFans is potentially a high risk, um, company and there's also ties to child,
00:07:48.140 child porn, sex trafficking and things like that.
00:07:51.020 So a lot of women don't know this, but when they go to buy a property and you're asked,
00:07:55.140 okay, what are your source of funds?
00:07:56.300 What are your source of wealth?
00:07:57.260 And it turns out that this is where your money is coming from.
00:08:00.080 It's highly likely that you may not be, it depends on the law firm and it's really up
00:08:03.700 to them, but you may not be able to get a property because your money is potentially
00:08:07.760 coming from an illegitimate place.
00:08:09.560 So there's the potential for money laundering and you know, a law firm does not want to
00:08:13.920 be involved with any illegitimate source of funds.
00:08:16.280 So it's something that you have to consider.
00:08:17.780 Yeah.
00:08:18.780 Well, I was lucky to be able to like buy outright, so it wasn't too much of a problem.
00:08:22.520 I mean, obviously it's like, cause you can't like easily then snap up like 10 houses, but
00:08:28.060 I guess then like buying outright, you know, you've paid for it.
00:08:30.940 So.
00:08:31.940 But that's the thing you're right.
00:08:32.940 Like the people who came to us at that time, they, they were able to buy the properties outright,
00:08:37.900 but we had to turn them away because our firm didn't want to be associated with a company
00:08:42.320 that promotes child exploitation and sex trafficking.
00:08:47.000 Yeah, no, it does come with a lot of problems, but you know, I recognize that and that's something
00:08:51.280 I'm willing to do.
00:08:52.280 And I just think, I mean, it's, it's good that you know that, that you're aware, but
00:08:56.380 I think a lot of girls aren't aware and they don't think about the future consequences of
00:08:59.840 what could happen to them.
00:09:01.520 And I think that it's sad because it's like fast money, fast attention, but it could really
00:09:05.660 preclude you from getting property in the future and then possibly preclude you from getting
00:09:09.140 married as well, because men potentially don't want to sleep, but they probably want to sleep
00:09:14.000 with you, but they probably don't want to marry.
00:09:15.260 Yeah, no, I agree.
00:09:16.260 There's a lot of repercussions to doing OnlyFans and that's why I always stress if someone wants
00:09:19.900 to start it, they should think for it like thoroughly.
00:09:21.840 I thought about it for like a year before I actually did it and stuff like that.
00:09:24.980 But I know obviously a lot of girls these days are just kind of going into it because they
00:09:28.440 think it's going to be quick, easy money, which, you know, it can be, but it, you know, later on in life
00:09:33.740 then they come up with a lot of problems.
00:09:35.740 Yeah.
00:09:36.740 Exactly.
00:09:37.740 So how old are you?
00:09:38.740 22.
00:09:39.740 And you said you wanted to be married around 30.
00:09:41.740 Yeah.
00:09:42.740 Well, it depends.
00:09:43.740 Obviously, like you said, like, I'm not going to just settle like you can get married at any
00:09:47.740 age.
00:09:48.740 And at the end of the day, like, you know, I'm only 22, so I've got a long life to live,
00:09:52.180 to spend that with someone.
00:09:53.180 So I don't want to get married too early.
00:09:54.740 What is what is settling?
00:09:56.740 And being with someone that you don't necessarily like, I don't know how to explain it.
00:10:02.740 You're not necessarily like really in love with or, you know, there's problems already
00:10:07.740 in the relationship.
00:10:08.740 Okay.
00:10:09.740 So if there are problems you're settling?
00:10:11.740 Yeah.
00:10:12.740 I don't know what the right answer is.
00:10:14.740 Do you think marriage comes with problems?
00:10:17.740 Yeah.
00:10:18.740 Yeah, no, definitely.
00:10:19.740 But I mean, as in like, you know, if you find a guy and you, you know, you kind of like
00:10:23.740 them, but, you know, you've had issues or something like that.
00:10:27.740 Do you think in marriage you're always going to be madly in love?
00:10:30.740 No, no, no.
00:10:31.740 I think marriage takes a lot of hard work.
00:10:33.740 My parents went through counseling and stuff like that.
00:10:35.740 So why is it settling if we have problems and you aren't madly in love?
00:10:42.740 Isn't that just normal?
00:10:43.740 No, I think you should always be in love with someone before you get married to them.
00:10:48.740 Do you think there's not ups and downs in a relationship?
00:10:52.740 No, I don't disagree.
00:10:53.740 But I mean, as in like, you know, if there's red flags from the start and there's little
00:10:58.740 bits that already like annoy you, I wouldn't then want to get into a relationship with someone
00:11:02.740 for the next 50 years of your life.
00:11:03.740 Do you think you're annoying at all?
00:11:05.740 Yeah.
00:11:06.740 Yeah.
00:11:07.740 I don't disagree.
00:11:08.740 So isn't it kind of like you're going to annoy each other at times?
00:11:10.740 No, but I think I can find that person that like isn't always annoyed at me.
00:11:14.740 I mean, like doesn't.
00:11:15.740 It just seems like this is based a lot on feelings, which like come and go.
00:11:19.740 Is that not what marriage?
00:11:20.740 No, no, I think it's based on values.
00:11:23.740 I think.
00:11:24.740 And, you know, character.
00:11:25.740 Love is very feelings.
00:11:26.740 What?
00:11:27.740 Like being in love is very feelings.
00:11:29.740 Obviously, I think that's what they tell us.
00:11:30.740 I think it's a choice personally.
00:11:32.740 I think it's an action.
00:11:33.740 I think you should definitely have the same views on things because obviously, you know,
00:11:38.740 you want to make sure that you're going to cooperate like later on in life.
00:11:42.740 Like you should always have that conversation before.
00:11:44.740 Like how many kids you want or like this or not.
00:11:47.740 And you don't want kids?
00:11:48.740 No.
00:11:49.740 So why would a guy get married to you if he's not going to get kids out of the deal?
00:11:53.740 Because he wants to live a long, happy life with me.
00:11:55.740 Yeah, but can he do that without the marriage?
00:11:57.740 No, but I just believe in marriage, like that you're then like bonded to the person.
00:12:03.740 Oh, okay.
00:12:04.740 So, but marriage is traditionally like a virgin.
00:12:07.740 Yeah.
00:12:08.740 So you don't think it's like, like I'm just.
00:12:10.740 That's long gone.
00:12:11.740 Yeah.
00:12:12.740 Right.
00:12:13.740 But I'm saying like, if you believe in marriage, you know, you don't think it's a little.
00:12:16.740 You have to be a virgin.
00:12:17.740 My parents weren't a bloody virgin.
00:12:18.740 So I don't think that matters.
00:12:19.740 Well, if we're going to go to traditional marriage.
00:12:21.740 No, I'm not.
00:12:22.740 But I'm asking.
00:12:23.740 That means you can't get married because you're not a virgin.
00:12:25.740 I'm asking, I'm asking what he would get out of marriage.
00:12:30.740 Cause you know, you know, with most women, most women you'll get kids.
00:12:34.740 Right.
00:12:35.740 So I'm asking like with you, like what would.
00:12:36.740 But some men don't, not everyone wants kids.
00:12:38.740 Like men, not all men want kids.
00:12:39.740 I'm not saying all men want kids, but usually men get married for kids.
00:12:44.740 Yeah.
00:12:45.740 And not all of them do as well.
00:12:46.740 But that's why we see more men not getting married.
00:12:49.740 They have 60% or 70% of men under 30 aren't even looking for relationships.
00:12:54.740 I mean, that's calm with them, but I want to get married and not have kids.
00:12:57.740 And I think I can find, there's like billions of people in this world.
00:13:00.740 Well, I just, I think you might, I think you might underestimate how difficult it's going to be to find a guy you actually, no, no, no.
00:13:07.740 That you actually like, it's not, it's easy to find anyone, but that you actually like to, to get married.
00:13:13.740 Because the guys you like are going to have options.
00:13:16.740 And they don't typically want to marry women.
00:13:18.740 I think there'll be one, one person in this.
00:13:21.740 She's really young yet.
00:13:22.740 She's not old enough to know what she wants in the long, in the grand.
00:13:25.740 Right.
00:13:26.740 I'm not saying she's not, but I'm not, I'm not saying she's not, but my point is I'm asking like what he would get out of marriage that he wouldn't get out of a girlfriend.
00:13:35.740 Fucking hell, look at me.
00:13:36.740 Why does it matter?
00:13:37.740 You keep saying like, you need to get, like, you talk strongly about marriage, so I don't understand why you're trying to ask her that, like.
00:13:43.740 No, I'm asking because she wants to get married.
00:13:46.740 Yeah, because she wants to, like.
00:13:48.740 But I'm asking.
00:13:49.740 I just want a nice fucking wedding and have to go on holiday.
00:13:52.740 It's so interesting.
00:13:53.740 It's so interesting because it's like you're kind of showing your hand because I keep asking about what the guy gets and you keep switching it to what you want.
00:14:00.740 I don't know what you mean by that.
00:14:02.740 Because I'm asking you to think about things.
00:14:04.740 Maybe he just wants to get married with me.
00:14:05.740 I'm asking.
00:14:06.740 What's wrong with a guy who just wants to be with me?
00:14:08.740 And I'm saying men can be with you without being married.
00:14:11.740 Yeah, and they can get married to her as well.
00:14:13.740 So I'm just trying to do a thought exercise where we think of things from the men's point of view.
00:14:17.740 This is just a clear example that shows that women actually don't know what men want and they don't care.
00:14:23.740 They want a tight pussy and I've got that.
00:14:25.740 Yes, but it shouldn't always be conditional like, oh, I only marry her because I want to have kids out of her.
00:14:29.740 Like, you should actually have a connection with her.
00:14:30.740 It shouldn't be conditional until it's your conditions.
00:14:33.740 That's what you want to say.
00:14:34.740 But it should be about connection.
00:14:36.740 This is why a lot of marriages don't work.
00:14:37.740 It's not just because of the woman.
00:14:38.740 It's because the man doesn't care about connection.
00:14:39.740 They care more about, oh, what's her reputation?
00:14:41.740 How many bodies has she got?
00:14:42.740 It's ridiculous.
00:14:43.740 Like, that's why Sineko's never getting married.
00:14:44.740 Because he's got that mindset.
00:14:46.740 Sineko will probably get married.
00:14:48.740 And I will Andrew Tate.
00:14:49.740 Even though I like them.
00:14:50.740 You just keep proving the point.
00:14:51.740 You just keep proving the point.
00:14:52.740 You don't know men.
00:14:53.740 You don't know what men want.
00:14:54.740 Even the men that you claim want to marry.
00:14:55.740 Well, they've said what they want, but they ain't going to get married still, are they?
00:14:57.740 No, they don't.
00:14:58.740 I'm telling you.
00:14:59.740 And I'm trying to even communicate to you.
00:15:00.740 You're not even interested in listening.
00:15:01.740 You don't care.
00:15:02.740 The way you're sitting.
00:15:03.740 Like, you just don't care.
00:15:04.740 And that's the fact.
00:15:05.740 It's the fact.
00:15:06.740 I know what you want.
00:15:07.740 And the reality is, the reality is, this is the problem that the Western, and I say specifically
00:15:11.740 the Western world is plagued with.
00:15:13.740 Women, one, don't have values.
00:15:16.740 They don't understand what men want.
00:15:17.740 I have values.
00:15:18.740 They don't care what men want.
00:15:19.740 No, you don't.
00:15:20.740 Yes, I did.
00:15:21.740 I'll study politics.
00:15:22.740 It's not even a dig at you.
00:15:23.740 It's just reality.
00:15:24.740 I'm just observing facts.
00:15:25.740 So women don't understand values.
00:15:27.740 They don't understand realities of life.
00:15:29.740 Because even when the other lady at the back was trying to explain to you about
00:15:33.740 what the realities of prenup and what things that could come up when you do only.
00:15:38.740 You kept bringing it back to yourself.
00:15:40.740 Because you actually are very selfish and you think about only yourself.
00:15:43.740 You don't even care about the other women.
00:15:44.740 And I wanted to raise a point.
00:15:46.740 This is a clear example.
00:15:48.740 When men do things that are quote-unquote illegal or quote-unquote bad for society,
00:15:54.740 you would never see a man come out on a public platform to promote it to other men.
00:15:58.740 But you always see women come on platforms to promote silly things, promiscuous behaviours.
00:16:04.740 I don't say illegal.
00:16:05.740 It's not illegal.
00:16:06.740 If you had to see a man that was selling drugs and was probably making his money.
00:16:10.740 I only found that selling drugs isn't the same thing.
00:16:12.740 No, I'm trying to make a point.
00:16:13.740 Because if you had to see a man that was probably selling drugs or was into fraud or whatever,
00:16:19.740 that makes his money like that, even if he promotes it as his lifestyle,
00:16:23.740 you would never hear him say like, oh yeah, I would advise my son to do that or I would advise my brother to do that.
00:16:28.740 Men don't do that.
00:16:29.740 Because we understand that as a man, you're responsible for yourself and you're responsible for your actions.
00:16:35.740 And your actions have a direct repercussion on you and the people that surround you.
00:16:40.740 So you would always like to keep that to yourself.
00:16:42.740 But I know this is a trend among women that you actually don't care.
00:16:45.740 Maybe you don't care. Maybe you don't know.
00:16:46.740 She did say earlier that she said that if she was a girl and she was thinking about doing it to think about it properly
00:16:51.740 and for a long time, she never promoted it.
00:16:53.740 Right, okay. That's like saying I would think, think long and hard before you sell drugs.
00:16:57.740 You both said that you would want your daughters to do OnlyFans.
00:17:00.740 Oh my God. No, we didn't say that.
00:17:01.740 No, I did.
00:17:02.740 You did.
00:17:03.740 Yeah.
00:17:04.740 I didn't say that.
00:17:05.740 What is wrong with OnlyFans? It's not illegal. It's not harming anyone.
00:17:08.740 It's safe. It's better than prostitution.
00:17:10.740 Yeah, it's harming her brain though.
00:17:11.740 Why would you still promote her to do that though?
00:17:14.740 If she wants to, she can. People can do what they want.
00:17:16.740 We're not begging her to do it or saying, oh, do OnlyFans. We're just saying.
00:17:19.740 No, of course not, but are you going to say that your life mentally is better?
00:17:23.740 Yes, I have a good life. I enjoy my life.
00:17:25.740 I didn't say that. I said mentally. You're not listening.
00:17:27.740 Yes, I'm very mentally stable. I've got great mental health.
00:17:30.740 Are you? Yes, 100%.
00:17:31.740 Honestly, you might say that, but I beg to differ.
00:17:34.740 You might not show it, but I can't get into your brain. I can't depict it.
00:17:38.740 But truthfully, I did OnlyFans, so I can speak on this.
00:17:42.740 That's your perspective though. I think everyone has issues and everyone has down days. It's quite normal.
00:17:48.740 I personally have great mental health and I think a lot of girls who actually enjoy it don't have mental health issues.
00:17:55.740 Honestly, you guys, I see it all the time.
00:17:58.740 Why do you act like that?
00:17:59.740 You act like a fool on the show the whole time.
00:18:02.740 Because I'm here to promote my OnlyFans. I'm here to act like a fool.
00:18:06.740 OnlyFans workers are fine. They're fine when they're younger, sort of.
00:18:12.740 But it's like, I see them, they go crazy.
00:18:15.740 Whenever they stop being hot, they just go absolutely insane.
00:18:19.740 Oh, that's when you're going to be hot.
00:18:20.740 That's when you hit the plastic surgery.
00:18:22.740 That's when it comes to timing.
00:18:23.740 I've never been on the website.
00:18:24.740 Before you start losing your looks and getting older.
00:18:27.740 What do you do on it? I know that sounds really stupid.
00:18:30.740 I know we've talked about OnlyFans for like forever.
00:18:32.740 So I actually have never been on the website.
00:18:34.740 I actually don't know what you do on it.
00:18:36.740 Well, wouldn't you like to know what you do on it?
00:18:37.740 I don't know.
00:18:38.740 So I, obviously it's all levels.
00:18:39.740 Like I personally do everything.
00:18:41.740 So basically you subscribe and it's like an Instagram kind of thing.
00:18:44.740 Like that kind of feed.
00:18:45.740 And then, you know, you can pay more.
00:18:47.740 You can, you can really, world's your oyster.
00:18:50.740 You can do like, you do like private chat.
00:18:53.740 You know, you can do FaceTimes.
00:18:55.740 You can do live streams.
00:18:56.740 Like it's really anything.
00:18:57.740 It's sex work.
00:18:58.740 Right.
00:18:59.740 So what were you saying?
00:19:01.740 Completely forgot.
00:19:02.740 I know.
00:19:03.740 Yeah.
00:19:04.740 That's when you got to time it.
00:19:05.740 Like before you start maybe losing your looks.
00:19:07.740 But that's a fetish for everything.
00:19:09.740 So my more question was like, what's your plan for the second half of your life?
00:19:13.740 Because you need 2.5.
00:19:14.740 Wait.
00:19:15.740 Okay.
00:19:16.740 Please don't enter.
00:19:17.740 I see it.
00:19:18.740 I see it.
00:19:19.740 Okay.
00:19:20.740 You need to retire.
00:19:21.740 And your plan is to get married, but most guys don't want to marry OnlyFans workers.
00:19:25.740 And so it's going to be difficult for you.
00:19:27.740 Yeah.
00:19:28.740 So I'm just curious if you don't end up getting married, what your plan is for the second half
00:19:33.740 of your life?
00:19:34.740 Personally, I own a property and rent it out.
00:19:39.740 What is it called?
00:19:40.740 Landlord.
00:19:41.740 Okay.
00:19:42.740 So I already do that.
00:19:43.740 And obviously I'd like to build on that with my money.
00:19:44.740 Like I don't just throw my money away.
00:19:46.740 I invest it.
00:19:47.740 What do you invest it in?
00:19:48.740 Properties.
00:19:49.740 And like obviously-
00:19:50.740 How many properties do you have?
00:19:51.740 One currently.
00:19:52.740 Okay.
00:19:53.740 And then I also have-
00:19:54.740 So it's like an apartment, house?
00:19:55.740 Yeah, it's a house.
00:19:56.740 Okay.
00:19:57.740 And you rent it out to like tenants?
00:19:58.740 Yeah.
00:19:59.740 And then I also like invest in like Bitcoin.
00:20:01.740 My brother kind of deals with it, you know, like online stuff.
00:20:04.740 So you at least have some plan.
00:20:05.740 Yeah.
00:20:06.740 Seems like.
00:20:07.740 And then, but to be fair, I've always said I'll do OnlyFans until I'm unhappy.
00:20:11.740 And I think that's going to be a while from now.
00:20:13.740 And like I said, like there's a fetish for anything.
00:20:16.740 Like people do want to see like old women and old grannies.
00:20:19.740 I know it's probably not-
00:20:20.740 No, I'm not-
00:20:22.740 Look, I'm not discounting that men will pay for any type of sex.
00:20:26.740 But you are not going to be making the same amount of money.
00:20:29.740 And I think it's-
00:20:30.740 I think I disagree.
00:20:31.740 Both.
00:20:32.740 Okay.
00:20:33.740 Do you-
00:20:34.740 Do you-
00:20:35.740 All of the top porn stars are under 30.
00:20:38.740 And if they are over 30, if they are older, it's because they built their following when they were young.
00:20:44.740 And it's still they're not over 40.
00:20:46.740 Porn's different to OnlyFans.
00:20:48.740 A lot different.
00:20:49.740 I think it's like the same thing.
00:20:51.740 It's not because on OnlyFans you can get to know like your subscribers on a personal level.
00:20:55.740 And that's why guys like to subscribe to.
00:20:58.740 With porn, they're just watching it.
00:21:00.740 It's not speaking to someone, etc.
00:21:02.740 So I think it's very different.
00:21:03.740 Same gratification though at the end.
00:21:05.740 Yeah, but then they can get to know the new 22 year old.
00:21:08.740 Yeah.
00:21:09.740 Yeah, but not all guys fancy fresh fucking meat.
00:21:13.740 Sure, they'll get to know the 40 year old when you're 60.
00:21:16.740 Some guys have vegetables for older women.
00:21:19.740 I'm curious, what do you guys make a month on OnlyFans?
00:21:21.740 Personally, I don't like to say.
00:21:23.740 Yeah, same.
00:21:24.740 Okay.
00:21:25.740 Is it over six figures a month?
00:21:27.740 Yeah.
00:21:28.740 Okay.
00:21:29.740 Is it over six figures?
00:21:30.740 I just said I'm not saying.
00:21:32.740 Okay.
00:21:33.740 Fine.
00:21:34.740 So did you, you don't want to.
00:21:36.740 Why does every, every time I come on a podcast, everyone always asks me, asks for that question.
00:21:40.740 Don't they?
00:21:41.740 Because we want to know.
00:21:42.740 It's actually quite amazing how much you guys have.
00:21:44.740 Yeah.
00:21:45.740 It's enough.
00:21:46.740 It's not, it's not.
00:21:47.740 I wouldn't do it if it wasn't enough.
00:21:48.740 She charges more than she does per month.
00:21:50.740 The brunette charges more than the blonde per month.
00:21:52.740 So if she's working six figures, she's got to be in it more.
00:21:54.740 Logically.
00:21:55.740 But it depends on like following and stuff like that.
00:21:58.740 And like, obviously you do a little bit less, don't you?
00:22:01.740 And stuff like that.
00:22:02.740 It just depends.
00:22:03.740 I mean, I don't fist my arsehole, but if you want to see that, subscribe.
00:22:09.740 She gave me a tutorial on how to do it.
00:22:11.740 She starts with one finger, then two, then three, then four, and then the whole fist goes in.
00:22:16.740 Wow.
00:22:17.740 Did you, you said you didn't want to be married, right?
00:22:19.740 Me?
00:22:20.740 Yeah.
00:22:21.740 I don't really mind.
00:22:22.740 If I, like the thing is like, if I meet someone and like, I feel like it's the right thing to do, then yeah, I'd get married.
00:22:28.740 But if not, like, I don't really think marriage is like really that important.
00:22:32.740 Okay.
00:22:33.740 Like, I'm just curious what your plan is for your life.
00:22:35.740 So you want to do OnlyFans till...
00:22:37.740 No, I've got plans.
00:22:39.740 I invest my money into other things.
00:22:41.740 So, I mean, I've, I've actually got my life set out.
00:22:44.740 I might seem really dumb on this podcast, but I'm actually very smart and everyone that tells me that.
00:22:48.740 So, but yeah, you guys might think I'm dumb.
00:22:51.740 I can see you laughing in the back, but I'm actually quite a smart girl.
00:22:54.740 Like...
00:22:55.740 Who's laughing?
00:22:57.740 The lawyer or whatever she is.
00:23:00.740 Yeah, I'm a lawyer.
00:23:01.740 Yeah.
00:23:02.740 Okay.
00:23:03.740 So, so what's your plan?
00:23:04.740 So you're invested in what?
00:23:05.740 Like stocks, Bitcoin?
00:23:07.740 I don't really need to share what I do, what I'm invested in.
00:23:10.740 I've got my life plan out.
00:23:11.740 It's not really anything for you to worry about.
00:23:13.740 I'm not worried.
00:23:14.740 I'm just curious.
00:23:15.740 I just, I don't know why this is like a secret.
00:23:18.740 Like...
00:23:19.740 It's not a secret.
00:23:20.740 I'm not asking.
00:23:21.740 I didn't make you say how much you made.
00:23:22.740 I'm just curious what your plan is.
00:23:24.740 Cause I meet so many OnlyFans workers, so I'm just curious what the...
00:23:27.740 Yeah, I think a lot of OnlyFans girls, like they get a lot of money and like they don't like spend it wisely and then they see all their money disappear.
00:23:35.740 And it's...
00:23:36.740 I just think like if you do OnlyFans, you have to be smart about it as well.
00:23:39.740 Cause you need to invest your money in other things.
00:23:41.740 And you need to realize that when you are older, you might not be able to get a normal job like other people say because of what you've done before.
00:23:48.740 And you need to...
00:23:49.740 Would you guys be okay if OnlyFans got banned tomorrow?
00:23:52.740 Yeah, because there's other platforms.
00:23:54.740 Yeah.
00:23:55.740 I mean, I wouldn't...
00:23:56.740 I definitely wouldn't make...
00:23:57.740 No, what if they...
00:23:58.740 What if they just started cracking down, they're trying to ban...
00:24:00.740 Then I'd go to the streets.
00:24:01.740 Okay, so you'd become a hooker.
00:24:03.740 Yeah.
00:24:04.740 Wow.
00:24:05.740 Okay, what about you?
00:24:06.740 That's different.
00:24:07.740 Oh, pass your judgment on.
00:24:08.740 Jesus.
00:24:09.740 Wow.
00:24:10.740 It's not judgment.
00:24:11.740 It's just like...
00:24:12.740 Can I tell you what?
00:24:13.740 That was shock.
00:24:14.740 I was literally shocked to hear that.
00:24:15.740 No, I think that's what most...
00:24:17.740 I kind of expected that.
00:24:18.740 Like...
00:24:19.740 I personally wouldn't.
00:24:20.740 What else are you gonna do?
00:24:22.740 Um...
00:24:23.740 I actually think...
00:24:24.740 I'm not saying it's good, but...
00:24:25.740 There's a difference between OnlyFans and prostitution.
00:24:27.740 Again, I don't do it.
00:24:28.740 I never have Partog in it.
00:24:29.740 But again, selling an image of yourself, you know...
00:24:32.740 Talking to the mic.
00:24:33.740 Sorry, presenting yourself in an image in a certain kind of way
00:24:36.740 is very different to spreading your legs and getting paid by random to...
00:24:39.740 Yeah.
00:24:40.740 I mean, that's very different.
00:24:41.740 Like, you've got to be a certain kind of woman to, number one, do that.
00:24:44.740 Number one, to deal with the mental stability.
00:24:46.740 The fact you've had loads of random men coming in you.
00:24:49.740 Because that's what it is.
00:24:50.740 I do that at the weekend anyway.
00:24:51.740 Yeah, but have some self-respect, hun.
00:24:54.740 Like, be better than that.
00:24:56.740 I think if you want to do it, just go for it.
00:24:59.740 Yeah, just think, do what you want in your life.
00:25:01.740 Like, I don't need judgment from you guys.
00:25:03.740 It's not even legal.
00:25:05.740 It's like...
00:25:06.740 Prostitution is not legal.
00:25:07.740 It is.
00:25:08.740 Yes, it is.
00:25:09.740 Please educate in the UK.
00:25:10.740 It is.
00:25:11.740 Escorting and prostitution is very different.
00:25:13.740 Escorting and prostitution are very different.
00:25:15.740 Escorting is paying for your time.
00:25:17.740 Sex is optional.
00:25:18.740 I'd definitely just go more into the sex work.
00:25:21.740 Wait, what?
00:25:22.740 Escorting isn't sex?
00:25:23.740 Escorting is, you know, spending time with you.
00:25:25.740 Whether or not you choose to have sex and that is your decision.
00:25:28.740 Sorry, escorting.
00:25:29.740 Sorry.
00:25:30.740 Spending time with someone is your decision.
00:25:32.740 That's where they're paying for your time.
00:25:33.740 You choose to have sex with them.
00:25:34.740 Oh, yeah, that's what I do.
00:25:35.740 Okay, you choose to have sex and that's your decision.
00:25:37.740 That is what borderline is prostitution.
00:25:39.740 So if you're setting sex, you've sprained your legs and you're getting paid for it,
00:25:42.740 that is prostitution.
00:25:43.740 That is illegal.
00:25:44.740 And also, do better.
00:25:46.740 What?
00:25:47.740 Chill out and suck of crap.
00:25:49.740 Jesus.
00:25:50.740 No, no, no.
00:25:51.740 Honestly, no.
00:25:52.740 Prostit...
00:25:53.740 What?
00:25:54.740 Prostitucing isn't illegal.
00:25:55.740 Hun, hun, hun.
00:25:56.740 You're telling me your parents will be fine with sparing your legs and a lot of men come inside you.
00:25:59.740 Yes.
00:26:00.740 Well, they don't love you enough.
00:26:01.740 I'm sorry, they don't.
00:26:02.740 But they used to use a Johnny though when you have prostitution sex, I guess.
00:26:04.740 Honestly, there's no morals or boundaries or staffers back in this room.
00:26:07.740 It's shocking.
00:26:08.740 Like, as a woman...
00:26:09.740 I think so.
00:26:10.740 As a woman, 32 year old, if my daughter said that same...
00:26:13.740 It's not that shocking.
00:26:14.740 Yeah, it's not that shocking.
00:26:15.740 For me, it is.
00:26:16.740 It's shocking.
00:26:17.740 For me, that's what you're saying.
00:26:18.740 Like, yeah, I know this is normalised, unfortunately.
00:26:20.740 Especially in America.
00:26:21.740 You know.
00:26:22.740 It's too normalised.
00:26:23.740 I think they're just wanting to get paid now.
00:26:25.740 I get it.
00:26:26.740 It's still like, wow.
00:26:27.740 I love that.
00:26:28.740 So why would I not do it for work?
00:26:29.740 I get you want to get paid, but isn't there not a line lead cross?
00:26:32.740 It's not even the money.
00:26:34.740 I just...
00:26:35.740 I love sex.
00:26:36.740 Like, I've always been really high.
00:26:37.740 So you want to be a whole?
00:26:38.740 Do you...
00:26:39.740 Oh, she did say she was super sexual.
00:26:40.740 Yeah, yeah.
00:26:41.740 Okay, okay.
00:26:42.740 So, I'm gonna...
00:26:43.740 I'm gonna go to the next one.
00:26:44.740 I'm gonna go to the next one.
00:26:45.740 Okay, do you want to be married?
00:26:47.740 What, me?
00:26:48.740 Yeah.
00:26:49.740 Uh, yeah.
00:26:50.740 Okay, what age?
00:26:51.740 How old are you?
00:26:52.740 You're...
00:26:53.740 I'm 19.
00:26:54.740 Oh, wow.
00:26:55.740 Oh, you're only 19?
00:26:56.740 Shocking, isn't it?
00:26:57.740 Wait, and you said you're on...
00:26:58.740 Is that what you said?
00:26:59.740 Yeah.
00:27:00.740 Okay.
00:27:01.740 Now, I'm just curious.
00:27:02.740 How many sugar daddies do you have?
00:27:03.740 Is it one or is it, like, multiple?
00:27:05.740 Uh, probably about three or four consistent monthly allowances.
00:27:08.740 And do you...
00:27:09.740 Do you have to, like, do sex stuff with all of them, or how does it work?
00:27:13.740 It's an option.
00:27:14.740 Yeah, it's an option.
00:27:15.740 Yeah, it's an option, yeah.
00:27:16.740 They don't all, like, want me to have sex with...
00:27:18.740 Well, they probably do all want me to have sex with them, but I don't all have sex with
00:27:20.740 them, so...
00:27:21.740 Okay.
00:27:22.740 How many do you sleep with at a time?
00:27:24.740 Four.
00:27:25.740 She just says she doesn't do it.
00:27:27.740 No, she said she doesn't have to.
00:27:28.740 She said she doesn't have to, but cool, she does.
00:27:30.740 I don't, unless they're Leng, which I do like old men with grey hair, to be fair.
00:27:34.740 Or Arabs, I find Arabs sexy as well.
00:27:36.740 No, I'm just, I'm just kind of curious how it works.
00:27:39.740 So, how much do they send you a month?
00:27:42.740 Well, I've only been doing it for two, three months, but...
00:27:46.740 I mean, I've only got two consistence, two more potentials, but over 15k.
00:27:53.740 Did you see that do buy port-a-potty?
00:27:55.740 Wow, so you get...
00:27:56.740 But I don't...
00:27:57.740 Do you have, like, a line of, like, something you won't do?
00:28:00.740 Do buy port-a-potty.
00:28:01.740 I don't do that, to be fair.
00:28:03.740 I mean, if it was enough money, if it was enough money, I'd do buy port-a-potty.
00:28:05.740 Actually, I'm curious.
00:28:07.740 What is that?
00:28:08.740 What is, like, a line for you three?
00:28:10.740 Is there anything you wouldn't ship for money?
00:28:12.740 You won't ship for money?
00:28:13.740 I asked her, actually, because basically we were having this conversation.
00:28:16.740 I got offered, like, a lot of money to sleep with a guy.
00:28:19.740 And I said no.
00:28:21.740 Lily said she would do it, but, like, I wouldn't do that personally,
00:28:24.740 because, like, I feel like I would feel really horrible after,
00:28:27.740 and, like, I feel like it would have a lot, like, a really big effect on my mental health.
00:28:31.740 And, like, I don't really sleep with guys anyway,
00:28:33.740 so I wouldn't really sleep with a guy for money because, like, I don't know,
00:28:37.740 like, I feel like to have sex with someone, you've got to kind of, like,
00:28:39.740 have, like, a connection with them.
00:28:41.740 And I just feel like sleeping with someone that you don't have a connection with
00:28:45.740 and a random person, like, I just think it's a bit weird.
00:28:48.740 Okay, so you won't do sex for money?
00:28:51.740 Not prostitution?
00:28:52.740 No, I don't do, I don't really, like, the thing is, like, I have a limit.
00:28:55.740 Like, I don't do everything.
00:28:57.740 But, like, yeah, some, obviously some girls can, like, do it, but I just wouldn't do it.
00:29:04.740 Okay.
00:29:05.740 And for you, if the price is high enough, you'll...
00:29:09.740 Oh, yeah, I'll get shitted on if it was, like, 50...
00:29:11.740 Oh, I would probably get my chest shot on, yeah, for, like...
00:29:14.740 See, no, I wouldn't do the shit thing.
00:29:16.740 Yeah, see, she would rather have a copy of the guy, but I wouldn't.
00:29:18.740 She's a prude.
00:29:20.740 See, I don't get that.
00:29:22.740 Like, I want to know, like, would you rather have someone shit on your chest?
00:29:25.740 I think Louisa Men would do that for 50k plus, to be honest.
00:29:28.740 I don't disagree with you.
00:29:30.740 Okay, so you want to do the sugaring thing for how long?
00:29:34.740 Long enough until I've saved to buy assets, I guess, maybe.
00:29:39.740 Okay, so how much do you want to save?
00:29:42.740 100, 200k.
00:29:43.740 Okay, and are you on track?
00:29:45.740 Are you saving most of it?
00:29:47.740 Yeah, that's pretty fair, yeah.
00:29:48.740 Okay.
00:29:49.740 I've only been doing it for, like, three months.
00:29:51.740 So, what, 200k?
00:29:52.740 That's, like, two...
00:29:53.740 I can't do math.
00:29:54.740 Like, three years?
00:29:55.740 Maybe two, three years, yeah.
00:29:56.740 Anyone do math?
00:29:57.740 No.
00:29:58.740 That's women in the room, you know what I mean?
00:30:01.740 I mean, I'm good at maths.
00:30:03.740 Okay, and then when do you want to be married?
00:30:07.740 Before I'm 25.
00:30:10.740 Okay.
00:30:11.740 So...
00:30:12.740 I already know she's gonna marry a rich man six years.
00:30:14.740 It doesn't matter how much she makes.
00:30:16.740 She's gonna marry an old, grey, rinky cock man.
00:30:19.740 Yeah, I'm curious.
00:30:20.740 What made you go down the OnlyFans route?
00:30:22.740 Why didn't she...
00:30:23.740 Sorry, sugar...
00:30:24.740 It's all the same to me.
00:30:25.740 The sex work route instead of, you know...
00:30:28.740 Sex worker.
00:30:29.740 I mean, what else is sugar?
00:30:30.740 It's all sex work, isn't it?
00:30:31.740 It's all sex work.
00:30:32.740 That's how the world looks better.
00:30:33.740 Personally, I actually don't think there's a difference between OnlyFans and prostitution.
00:30:36.740 I'm not saying I'm prostitute because I'm not.
00:30:38.740 But I think it's the same thing because tech...
00:30:40.740 I think most girls that do OnlyFans don't just do it because of the money.
00:30:43.740 I think most of them do it because they do like attention as well.
00:30:45.740 Male attention.
00:30:46.740 I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:30:47.740 But I do think most OnlyFans girls don't do it just for the money.
00:30:50.740 I think that's ridiculous.
00:30:51.740 Look at Anna Paul, for example.
00:30:52.740 Anna Paul could be making millions from TikTok, but she chooses to do OnlyFans because they
00:30:57.740 like the attention as well.
00:30:59.740 But personally, I think women that do the sugar daddy stuff, they literally just do it for
00:31:03.740 the money.
00:31:04.740 I don't really care about the attention from older men.
00:31:07.740 I disagree because I think prostitution is very different to OnlyFans.
00:31:12.740 Causes the same destruction in society though.
00:31:16.740 The same bad effects of society.
00:31:18.740 It causes the same thing, men to cheat on their wives and pay for sex, pay for wanking.
00:31:22.740 You can't cheat on your wife by OnlyFans.
00:31:23.740 You can.
00:31:24.740 No, you can't.
00:31:25.740 So you think subscribing to a girl on OnlyFans isn't cheating?
00:31:28.740 It's not cheating, is it?
00:31:29.740 You would be okay with your husband?
00:31:30.740 No, I'm not saying it would be okay, but it's technically not cheating.
00:31:32.740 Cheating is putting a dick in someone else.
00:31:33.740 I think it's the same thing.
00:31:34.740 It's still unloyal.
00:31:35.740 I honestly think...
00:31:36.740 I think...
00:31:37.740 Actually, I'm curious because this is going to be a question.
00:31:41.740 If I found out I was dating someone and he was spending like, let's say, a good
00:31:48.740 chunk of change on an OnlyFans chick, like two...
00:31:51.740 That's fun.
00:31:52.740 I think I'd rather have him fucking...
00:31:53.740 I would rather have him fucking go in real life, at least if he can get goals.
00:31:57.740 Yeah, I think I would.
00:31:58.740 I think like finding out...
00:31:59.740 It's kind of embarrassing.
00:32:00.740 I mean, if it was like five bucks a month, okay?
00:32:03.740 But I'm like, if he spent good money, I think I would pick...
00:32:06.740 All right, so who here...
00:32:07.740 No, I do.
00:32:08.740 I understand that.
00:32:09.740 I want to raise the hands.
00:32:10.740 I'm just curious.
00:32:11.740 He cheats.
00:32:12.740 Would you rather have him...
00:32:13.740 I'd rather have him...
00:32:14.740 Shhh.
00:32:15.740 Can you wait for me to do the hands?
00:32:16.740 Can you...
00:32:17.740 Thank you.
00:32:18.740 All right.
00:32:19.740 So option one is he...
00:32:21.740 He spent...
00:32:22.740 You found out he spent two grand on an OnlyFans chick.
00:32:25.740 Oh, that's a wet one.
00:32:26.740 Option two is he slept with another chick one time when he was drunk.
00:32:30.740 Who picks option one?
00:32:32.740 Oh God.
00:32:33.740 Who picks option two?
00:32:34.740 Wow, telling.
00:32:35.740 Telling.
00:32:36.740 Can you ask the question?
00:32:37.740 Telling.
00:32:38.740 Can you ask the question?
00:32:39.740 Would you rather your daughter do OnlyFans or would you rather your daughter be a prostitute?
00:32:44.740 There is a difference because it's physical, right?
00:32:46.740 Yeah.
00:32:47.740 One is physical, one is...
00:32:48.740 One's better for the guy and one's better for the girl, so it's kind of like...
00:32:51.740 The girl can still be hoeing around doing physical stuff.
00:32:53.740 Yeah, but I think the point...
00:32:55.740 It's all the same category to regular people.
00:32:57.740 It's sex work.
00:32:58.740 Yeah.
00:32:59.740 I disagree strongly, but...
00:33:00.740 I mean, you can disagree, but I'm telling you how the world sees it.
00:33:03.740 For someone who doesn't are OnlyFans, I agree.
00:33:05.740 Again, it's borderline, isn't it?
00:33:06.740 Yeah, I mean, it's slightly better, but it's like all the same to me.
00:33:11.740 The difference is you get money off it, whereas the people in porn don't get the money.
00:33:14.740 It's the directors, the producers who get that money.
00:33:16.740 So again, you're the smarter ones out of that kind of scenario.
00:33:19.740 Yeah, because I mean, I don't...
00:33:20.740 Porn stars don't actually make that much money now.
00:33:23.740 They used to, but they don't now like...
00:33:25.740 Because of OnlyFans.
00:33:26.740 Yeah, because of OnlyFans, so...
00:33:27.740 It's readily available everywhere.
00:33:28.740 Yeah.
00:33:29.740 And frequently.
00:33:30.740 Okay.
00:33:31.740 I'm curious.
00:33:32.740 When do you want to get married?
00:33:33.740 I'm not even sure if we want to get married.
00:33:34.740 Okay.
00:33:35.740 I don't like the language of marriage, so...
00:33:37.740 What would your ideal situation be?
00:33:40.740 Hang out with a lot of chicks.
00:33:43.740 Okay.
00:33:44.740 Single and just running through chicks.
00:33:46.740 Yeah.
00:33:47.740 When I've had enough, it's done.
00:33:49.740 Is it just like, what about a kid?
00:33:51.740 Do you want one or nah?
00:33:52.740 Yeah.
00:33:53.740 I mean, no, not really.
00:33:55.740 No.
00:33:56.740 I'm not even sure.
00:33:57.740 No, I think a lot of guys feel this way, to be honest.
00:34:00.740 Yeah.
00:34:01.740 After a kid, that's just...
00:34:02.740 Like, such a commitment.
00:34:03.740 How old are you?
00:34:04.740 41.
00:34:05.740 Really?
00:34:06.740 You've aged really well.
00:34:07.740 Yeah.
00:34:08.740 Wow.
00:34:09.740 Thanks, my love.
00:34:10.740 I don't even think Botox could pay at age like that.
00:34:11.740 My dad's age.
00:34:12.740 I don't know if they want to fuck you now.
00:34:14.740 What?
00:34:15.740 Ah.
00:34:16.740 All right.
00:34:17.740 What about you?
00:34:18.740 Your age and when you want to get married?
00:34:20.740 I'm 32.
00:34:21.740 I wanted to get married when I was like 25.
00:34:23.740 Okay.
00:34:24.740 And what do you felt like stopped you from getting married?
00:34:27.740 Just circumstantial.
00:34:28.740 Just you've got to be with someone who's compatible, who share the same values and morals, basically.
00:34:34.740 And if you're not with that person, you're not going to make that commitment.
00:34:37.740 So why weren't you with that person?
00:34:39.740 I was.
00:34:40.740 Oh, I was and I wasn't at the same time.
00:34:42.740 Again, we just decided we're very different people.
00:34:44.740 Okay.
00:34:45.740 Who decided that?
00:34:46.740 Him or you?
00:34:47.740 So you decided you were different.
00:34:48.740 What was too different?
00:34:49.740 Um, I just decided that I was a different person.
00:34:54.740 I wanted different things, I suppose.
00:34:56.740 Okay.
00:34:57.740 So like he wanted to get married and you didn't?
00:34:59.740 No, he proposed.
00:35:00.740 I just decided not to get married to that particular person.
00:35:02.740 Was it just, I'm just curious like what it was about him.
00:35:04.740 Was it like a feeling or?
00:35:06.740 Gut feeling, just circumstantial.
00:35:07.740 Like he worked in a very similar place.
00:35:09.740 He put himself in a situation where I wouldn't put myself nor expect my fiance or future husband
00:35:13.740 to put themselves in that situation.
00:35:14.740 What kind of situation?
00:35:15.740 I'm not a nice up in the wrong girls buying them drinks.
00:35:17.740 That's not my man.
00:35:18.740 If my man is with me, my man is with me.
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