JustPearlyThings - April 30, 2023


Pearl Calls Out Destiny On This...


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6 minutes

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228.30171

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1,580

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00:00:00.000 so in the u.s the average bmi for a man is 26.6 and the average bmi for a woman is 26.5 oh i
00:00:06.840 stand corrected and that means the men probably have 40 to 50 pounds more because they're taller
00:00:10.420 right but i think it's just fat people stay with fat people there's always this like i feel like
00:00:14.500 there's this it's so strange in these shows they present it as like poor women are going off and
00:00:18.740 getting married to millionaire men that doesn't that's not happening and then like all these
00:00:22.100 attractive men that are trying really hard to stay finished are having to settle for this like whale
00:00:25.380 women i don't think that happens that's so common though it's not it is it is i've heard i've seen
00:00:33.400 so many girls get a ring and get fat like there's so many girls i went to high school with and there's
00:00:37.360 guys that get a ring and get fat the guys just get like skinny fat like it's not i mean they're not
00:00:42.120 in great shape and the women are getting skinny fat what do you mean oh no they're not getting skinny
00:00:45.600 they're getting fat okay well the data on average says that everybody is about on average and it's
00:00:50.620 just the women are fat on average they're all about as fat as each other like that's the stats
00:00:54.800 but it still it still goes back to like the things that women value from men and men value from women
00:00:59.780 well it depends on because men it's more looks and women it's more we agree with that right like women
00:01:04.660 it's more just more so it doesn't mean there's nothing right but women it's more resources and men
00:01:11.480 it's more looks in in general the trend is changing but in general yes in general yeah okay it can be
00:01:16.960 yeah okay i don't know how much it so and i do agree that women value resources but i think it's
00:01:21.980 to a certain point right i don't think it's like all women want millionaires yeah you're gonna be
00:01:26.520 realistic stable yeah you're gonna be realistic about what you can get not working at mcdonald's
00:01:30.900 like it's not that i don't think that it's as high but men's superficiality can get quite bad i don't
00:01:36.920 know when i ask girls it's usually around like um in order they'll say in order to fully submit it's
00:01:44.420 got to be like 90 to 100 here but they're gonna work with like 60 to 70 roughly what's the average
00:01:53.880 here in the uk it's got to be like 35 or something right 35 40 that is exactly what i'm saying yeah
00:02:01.700 but you're talking to exceptional people in your show right whether you think it or not they are
00:02:06.140 these are believe it or not it's not bad if you want to have kids i feel like a lot of women that
00:02:09.800 don't want kids we'll probably be okay with a bit lower sure but i just like people are presenting
00:02:13.920 as like women that are making like 15 20 care only looking for guys making like six figures or more
00:02:18.420 but the reality is yeah poor people marry poor people you would be surprised if you look at the
00:02:22.860 numbers poor people marry poor people middle class people marry middle class people when do they marry
00:02:27.360 them that's the whole point is like the girls will go after the guys that make a lot of money in
00:02:32.120 their 20s and their 30s get married to the guy that they because they want a kid no i don't agree
00:02:36.920 with that i think that's a i think that's an artifact of women putting off marriage more
00:02:41.120 because they are going to school they're working and they have birth control now now that's been
00:02:45.320 spun into like they want to ride the cat the carousel of like chad dicks uh until they settle
00:02:50.120 for a man but i think the reality is women are just in general putting up i mean you've never heard
00:02:53.480 like women go for bad boys when they're younger like even my grandma would would tell you that
00:02:57.600 like oh well jesus okay yeah never mind if pearl's grandma said it then i mean what am i to say
00:03:03.120 women are attracted to confidence but confidence and and the problem is a lot of assholes are
00:03:08.060 confident and it requires learning this process to be like i like confidence but i don't like
00:03:13.020 assholes but i have to date someone to figure that out that's what they're talking about though
00:03:17.100 yeah but don't guys also so she's she's she's validating what i'm saying yeah i agree you go
00:03:21.720 for dumb women when you're young but but you know not dumb women no no guys make bad choices for women
00:03:26.720 women tend to go they have to learn that the confidence is what they like not the assholeness
00:03:31.220 yeah i agree but it's not just women that do that it's men that do that too
00:03:34.880 women go after dumb men when they're young but men also but it's like every time we have a
00:03:39.500 conversation about women you always have to put but men because and so yeah because i have to because
00:03:43.800 on your show you blame like 95 of the world's problems on women i'm saying yeah women do do this
00:03:48.500 but men do it too it's not exceptional because my whole point is that like i'm sorry men and women
00:03:52.400 i think are way more in common we have way more commonalities and we do differences so like yeah but
00:03:56.720 wouldn't you agree there's some biological differences no i think we're exactly the same
00:04:01.560 yeah obviously there's differences the way you talk it's like it's like we're like there's no
00:04:07.400 biological difference no of course there are some biological there we make different types of
00:04:11.060 mistakes i already told you earlier that like men are more likely to gravitate towards attractive
00:04:14.640 women and women versus like men that have like money or whatever i don't think there's any
00:04:17.660 commonality with women getting fat after they get a ring that's not a common i think everybody can
00:04:22.060 let themselves go after they get a ring would you you think it's equal though yeah that's what the
00:04:26.640 data seems to say okay otherwise the bmi of women would be way higher on average than the bmi of men
00:04:31.120 no okay making it the extreme okay so that's what my grandma said what would happen to a woman that
00:04:37.400 you wouldn't be with her anymore i guess if your standards are really low then maybe you wouldn't
00:04:41.260 care but again this isn't a man versus woman i think it's a high standards versus low standard if
00:04:44.460 your only standards i need you to cook and i guess not cheat on me then sure i mean you can find a lot
00:04:48.680 of people that will fit the bill and then again like if i if i and my partner are what are your
00:04:53.620 standards uh i like people that are reasonably intelligent i like somebody who has a high level
00:04:58.240 of confidence um i prefer somebody that works like in my industry so that it's easy for us to
00:05:02.680 communicate um i prefer somebody to be in an open relationship because i want to fuck around
00:05:06.340 um i like somebody that's pretty flexible so they're able to travel and adapt a lot because i do
00:05:10.660 like a lot of crazy stuff um i need somebody with a high degree of emotional tenacity because i have
00:05:15.740 a lot of insane events that are going on in my life um i need somebody that is really independent
00:05:19.460 because i can spend time traveling or get really into my work um yeah i might i have a lot of there's
00:05:24.440 a lot of weird stuff you have to deal with when you date me what about for you pearl yeah what are
00:05:29.360 my standards yeah that no man has managed to meet yet let's hear it see if we can find you someone
00:05:34.260 yeah thank your future husband could be listening to this show right now so tell him what you're looking
00:05:41.200 for um i mean i like guys that are family oriented um i don't see i feel i feel like he's so ready to
00:05:49.620 just i'm not there's no wrong answers here okay no um i like guys that are family oriented conservative
00:05:56.180 um not i like you know i have a height thing he doesn't have to be taller than me he could be a
00:06:02.400 little shorter but it can't be like crazy okay um yeah um family so just 5 11 conservative 5 9 5 10
00:06:15.620 5 9 5 10 okay conservative family oriented yeah you haven't found that guy yet
00:06:22.140 i'm surprised yeah too many things seems like there's a lot of people out there that would
00:06:29.440 match up there's look i don't want to get into too much detail no i don't want to get into too
00:06:34.380 wow okay all right okay okay geez i'm curious we got some weird requirements as many of you know i was
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