Pearl COULD NOT Believe This
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Summary
In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and co-worker, to talk about her experience with Pregnancy and Infant Loss and Pregnancy scares. We talk about what it's like to be a single mother and how to deal with it.
Transcript
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Why do you feel like it's more on the women than you?
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being innerly irresponsible and consciously irresponsible.
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I know, it's a guy that, I wouldn't say his name.
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Because it's just to me, I was just like, how do you,
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Seven? Like, how do you get seven baby mothers?
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Yeah, but, like, you didn't know that after the first,
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Well, you say 17, that's like, well, it's like every other year.
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I said by six years, because the last one was four.
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So over a span of six years, it's just like that, yeah.
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Um, man's, man is, um, did you learn anything from it?
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Like, do you, are you more responsible now, at least?
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after the first, the first time, I don't know, you don't know,
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My last, my last pregnancy scare was, uh, shit, October of 2022.
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And, uh, but this, this, I actually liked this female
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because I believe, I don't care if you're married,
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I don't care, like, if you've been knowing somebody
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So this is the one that I was actually, like, looking to keep.
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And, uh, I asked her, I was like, oh, you know,
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seven, eight weeks, I'm, uh, I want to, uh, get a DNA test,
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Yeah, and she was like, uh, instead of taking a DNA test,
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That only let me know she, that could be for somebody else.
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Why would I waste my money to try to find out who this kid for?
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It's actually wild to me that it's, yeah, it's just,
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I don't know a single person with, like, even two baby mothers
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So it's, like, it's just crazy to me that one person can have
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They, look, they, they take trips to Jamaica to find men like me.
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And, um, why do you think modern women are so irresponsible
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Because they have a, uh, a system that would, would back their ass
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to fuck up, child support, got different type of welfarers,
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different type of government assistance that, that favors single mothers.
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So if they are irresponsible, they know there is a system
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Do you think that they would have, those women would have acted
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The, I think more women would be, be asking, uh, asking men to marry
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them before they even try to even bear a child, which it should be
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I really, I really, I really think and prefer women to, you know
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what I'm saying, kind of taking consideration the type of dudes
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that you might meet, because you might meet me.
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And if I don't want you like that, and I don't like you like that,
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and I accidentally get you pregnant, I don't want a kid with you.
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So I think, I think women should be more, or, or, or conscious
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about who the men, who the, who, which man's they sleeping with,
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and, and hold some type of moral standards, at least have a dude
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At least, if you don't believe in marriage, at least, at least have,
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at least have a dude, you know what I'm saying, buy your
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motherfucking house or something, you know what I'm saying?
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So you can have some type of stability to raise a motherfucking child.
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So I, I really believe we should get back to this, to, to this,
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uh, uh, uh, uh, marry before you carry type of shit.
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I, it sound hypocritical, but it's in the middle.
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Yeah, I was going to say, isn't that hard to say when it's like
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Yeah, it, it is hard to say, but shit, somebody's got to learn
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someday, and, and, and, and the message's got to get out there,
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But you got to think about the things in the past.
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Didn't they say it's better to, it's better to, uh, to raise a
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Like, do you think you'd ever want to meet any of your kids?
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Would you ever want to meet your kids, like, when they're older?
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I'm not against it, but like, I, I don't have a desire for kids
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Do you think more men, um, do you think it's more common for men
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to be deadbeats, um, and not want to be in their kids' lives, or do
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you think it's more common that the mom's not letting them see
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the kids when it comes to, like, single parent homes?
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What do you think's more common, um, men in your situation where
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they don't want to be in the kids' lives or where women don't let
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It might be more deadbeats, because most, more, more men, like,
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if they're having a situation like I'm having, and they're having,
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like, like the encounters I'm having with just fun, sometimes you
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Women, because if, if a woman not allow a man to see his child that he
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want to see, she is indirectly making him a deadbeat.
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And that can turn, that can, that can, that can turn, that can turn men
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Especially the ones that want to, I feel, I feel bad for the men that
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actually want their kids and actually want to be a father.
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And it's with a woman, potentially like the ones that I left behind.
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I, I heard somebody say to, to one of my, uh, partners from high
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school, because he was going through this shit.
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And his dad told him, do as much as she allow you to do.
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And that just let me know, men don't have no rights for their
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And then it's an issue when a dude like me don't want to deal with
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But when a man, this dude fought so hard to, to try to get even
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It is, it's like, it's like you want to force them to be fathers,
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but you're not trying to back or help them up once they want to be
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But I was going to say to, um, to any parents that's even watching this shit.
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You can do the best you can do with your children.
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It's a, it's a good chance that they're going to be raised up in your morals.
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But it's a, it's a point in their life that they might stray from that shit.
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So parents that see they, they, they children being things that they didn't teach them to be.
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My mama say if, if a woman ever come and say, that's my, that's my grandbaby.
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So my, my parents don't agree with this, but they can't control what I do.
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