Pearl DEBATES Modern Woman On Equality
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the Chris Brown and Rihanna case, and how we should have a court of public opinion when it comes to the Rihanna and Andrew Tate case. We also talk about if self-defense is ever justified in the case of domestic violence.
Transcript
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But if they didn't have the money at the moment,
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I would say it matters only for their personality.
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I don't want to be with someone just because I've got money.
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But his personality was the deadest thing on the planet.
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And he had money, but I was like, no, you are dead.
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Yeah, I can get you nice things, but on a one-on-one situation.
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After I heard what he's done, if it's true, he's wrong.
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The truth is, you know, there's always three sides of a story.
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Do you think that there should be a court of public opinion?
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Like where we're deciding if it's true or false before the court case has happened?
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But if the public could choose, I think that would be really important because however many people they choose to be in a court, it's like such a minority.
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You don't think like media could misconstrue something?
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Like similar to Chris Brown and Rihanna, they didn't talk about that she hit him too, right?
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Like do you not think that he like smashed her face in?
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I can agree that she was maybe aggravating him.
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But as women, we can be a bit difficult sometimes.
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Like he was never, ever, ever justified to hit her.
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I mean, I think if I hit a guy, I should expect to get hit back.
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If I push him, I should expect to get pushed back.
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Because the way you're doing it, I'm thinking it's friendly.
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See, but I'm thinking like if you really try to attack a man, like I would expect to get attacked back.
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Do you really think Rihanna stood there and was like, do you know what?
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You don't know the ins and outs of the situation.
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But nothing ever justifies her putting her hand on him and him putting his hand on her.
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I would say like if I punch someone, I should expect to get punched back.
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Because if I hit somebody, fair enough, they might want to hit me back.
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So do you think if it's two women, right, and one woman's stronger than...
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So if some girl hits me, should I not hit back because I'm stronger?
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But it's different when it's different genders.
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As a man, as a man, why are you throwing your hand at a female?
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Yeah, you're gonna tell me I don't, but yes, I do.
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So in most domestic abuse situations, it's two-sided.
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But in one-sided domestic abuse, where one person's hitting the other and they're not hitting
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back, it's actually more likely that it's the woman hitting the man.
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Because if you hit each other, just leave each other alone.
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Alright, raise your hand if you like Andrew Tate.
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I think some points he makes his valid, but I feel like from what's portrayed him in
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He knows what to do to get people's attention and to draw people in, and then that's how
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No, just because of how much he's in the media face.
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Why do you think as a society we're so quick to put a guy in jail off of an accusation,
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or deem him guilty in the court of public opinion?
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I feel like people just push the bad things that he says, but they disregard everything
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else that he's saying, but the media just focuses on the snippets of the things that
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he says that they know will be controversial and will bring attention to him in a bad way.
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I think when people are doing good in this world or are successful and the world can't
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work out why, I'm not saying that everything he does is right, but they want to shut him
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They don't know how he does the things he does.
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Do you think that the women are victims if they freely chose to do cam work?
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I'm not sure there's any evidence, so I don't want to say the way because I feel like I
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So I don't want to say yes just because I don't like him.
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Most people should wait until the facts come out.
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But a lot of times in the court of public opinion, even with Chris Brown and Rihanna,
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Later on, they released some evidence to kind of show that it was quite both parties' fault.
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Whereas when it first came out, it was very much Chris Brown, Chris Brown, you know,
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Who do you think's believed more as victims, men or women?
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