JustPearlyThings - March 17, 2023


Pearl DEBUNKS the ＂PATRIACHY＂ fallacy


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

225.63452

Word Count

2,018

Sentence Count

1

Hate Speech Sentences

6


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 on and on the patriarchy everybody's to blame about behavior the patriarch you think there's
00:00:04.620 a patriarchy no these all these females are just lazy i'm so tired of this yeah they say that they
00:00:10.420 say oh everything's the patriarchy it's a male structure and i'm always so held back with a
00:00:14.220 million youtube subscribers i know my god i'm like girlfriend you put a bikini on you walked around
00:00:18.980 the block and you got like more followers than a guy got all year so like i don't understand when
00:00:24.400 they say the patriarchy i'm like media is on your side the news is on your side the magazine covers
00:00:29.720 are on your side you mentioned on the vice panel you talked about how there's quotas when it comes
00:00:34.000 to employment so i would love to know like the the patriarchy's got you down how tell me delineate
00:00:39.280 they never can they never the only answers they really give are men can sleep around and women
00:00:44.840 can't but you're doing it you aren't you you sure sure can i was like you know i respect the sugar
00:00:50.740 babies more than the hoes at least they're getting money y'all are giving this out for free do you have
00:00:56.240 a lot of women on your show that that's that outright are out in it for the cash and say it
00:01:00.220 uh i have a couple sugar babies on my show that we talked like it's not a general topic so even if
00:01:06.360 there are on there it doesn't really come up but there's like one or two i bet you there's more that
00:01:11.480 are they're just in it for the cash that don't want to vocalize that but there's got to be a whole
00:01:14.700 lot oh my gosh can i wait i need to tell you something yeah i just feel like we're gonna be on
00:01:18.220 the same wavelength okay so i went on sauce cast yesterday yeah and they're talking about how much
00:01:23.960 money you need to maintain yourself like as a girl like be a girl these girls said two grand
00:01:28.820 a month and i thought this was crazy what are they doing for two grand okay and then they're like
00:01:33.860 that's low and i'm like you know what though i'll tell you what it's not low if they're doing the
00:01:38.240 botox the fillers the lip stuff all that that's very expensive i don't do any of that stuff so for
00:01:42.660 me it's like i go get a facial and i'm good to go i i would just rather look like myself and not
00:01:49.940 have to like i'll just get what i get why are y'all are trying to do all this just to get a guy
00:01:54.840 that's like one maybe two point just get what you get like no guy wants to go to bed and wake up with
00:01:59.000 a whole different i needed to bring this up because i just felt like you would i'll tell you what it is
00:02:02.980 though it's the botox the fillers it's the nails because the nails are constantly not only that you
00:02:08.120 see those long your nails look beautiful and i do mine short too but you see the long pointy extent
00:02:12.920 i don't need to look like claws it's not a weapon it's not a weapon it's the hair extensions is that
00:02:18.480 stuff really does add up if you're doing all that and then you know once you do that stuff the botox
00:02:22.840 all that toxic shit then you're addicted to it well i remember my show would be like pearl you don't
00:02:27.140 wear makeup and i'm like i wear a little bit i can attest there is makeup yeah but then i'm like
00:02:32.320 it's just compared to the other girls because it's like yeah okay the difference is though you wind up
00:02:38.420 getting a boyfriend whatever and you wake up next to him the next day and he still knows it's you
00:02:42.740 that girl it went from halloween costume then the costume came off and he's like
00:02:47.340 scared yeah so you don't want to scare him in the morning two grand it's a lot of cash but i was
00:02:53.960 thinking about it i'm like that's that kind of speaks to our culture because it's when you have
00:02:58.120 a family like the that's like a college fund yeah so it's it's like you're kind of putting the money
00:03:04.140 like towards you instead of for the family you know also like save some of that for yourself i mean
00:03:08.960 invest in a home and i mean it's ridiculous i just i don't care how much money i make you won't
00:03:14.080 catch me spending two grand a month on what on what i just told you what it was on but you're
00:03:18.780 not doing any of that stuff but so were they saying they expect guys to pay for that for their
00:03:22.760 yeah they were saying if they like stayed home basically like that's how much they'd want the
00:03:27.340 guy to give them a month like because they're he was asking me if i was to stay home like how much
00:03:31.460 a month i would need and i've never really calculated i know it's not two grand i don't know
00:03:35.640 what it is but two grand um they're like gym memberships i'm like 50 bucks does your apartment
00:03:41.180 not have a gym like most apartment buildings have a free gym to boot so this is i don't know
00:03:46.980 they're doing a lot of stuff pearl there's a lot going on in the frozen face area is all i'm gonna
00:03:52.680 say all right let's then they come out like like you know yeah or the bug eyes or like you know the
00:03:58.540 weirdest thing about that i talk about that all the time i should have you back next time you're here
00:04:01.500 we'll talk about girly stuff but like the weirdest thing about it is a lot of women in my age bracket
00:04:05.880 do that stuff because they're trying to look younger and i always say like young people's faces move
00:04:09.780 like i'm looking at you right now you're how old 26 your face moves when you talk now mine does too
00:04:14.500 i haven't done any of that stuff but like the the clearest giveaway that a woman is old getting old and
00:04:19.220 she's unhappy and insecure is the frozen face like no young person has a frozen face well and it's like
00:04:25.200 i just felt like this is when i was younger i was like do i go the botox route i'm not gonna lie
00:04:31.260 like i've thought about it and i was just like you know i'm gonna focus on everything else before
00:04:35.700 i ever go down that route like why wouldn't you do you know like most of y'all would probably benefit
00:04:41.500 more from just eating like cutting out sugar oh yeah sugars ages the skin a lot yeah yeah i love
00:04:46.900 this is a whole other topic for another deli's like how do we get into this and how do i get out
00:04:50.480 of this room somebody said it's gonna be like a help me sign that you're gonna see up here above
00:04:55.660 deli's head in a second all right let's go to 31 40 we talk about judgment i may have bled into this
00:05:00.460 but let's see i do that sometimes forehead on the forehead is that the solution the world needs
00:05:06.520 maybe to andrew tate yes but to the rest of society i feel like it's definitely a no
00:05:12.680 um i i don't think that everybody should know how many people that you slept with i feel like that's
00:05:19.100 kind of your personal information and for you and you only right i mean unless you'd like to share it
00:05:24.500 then obviously that's great right if a guy asked you your body count like a potential romantic
00:05:30.100 partner would you refuse to answer that question um i think it depends on the relationship that you
00:05:36.480 have with that person i mean if it's just like someone that you're gonna hook up with okay and
00:05:40.060 they ask you so should they answer that should people answer that question is that information
00:05:43.800 that they should give away i mean it depends like are you being honest or do you want the best outcome
00:05:49.020 if a girl slept with 30 40 50 got wide earth would she answer that yeah if she wants the best outcome
00:05:54.180 see i think they can tell though yeah i know you can that's what that's what i'm saying like are we
00:05:58.660 going like what they should do or what would give them the best outcome because those are two different
00:06:02.300 questions the right the right thing to do is to be honest in my opinion but i feel you got to be
00:06:07.360 honest because if it starts popping up like if you say oh two and then he starts hearing about well
00:06:13.340 there was this guy and there was that guy and he scrolls down your instagram and there's all this stuff
00:06:17.020 going on or it's very clear that there was a lot of play going on on the instagram like they say
00:06:21.560 three and then there's 10 ass shots it's like no honey it's more like 13 and you and i both know
00:06:27.420 so i think that's that's like guys aren't dumb yeah so you may as well tell the truth because
00:06:32.620 they're gonna and then if it if they find if you tell the truth and they stick around maybe they're
00:06:37.020 one of those guys that doesn't care that much it's gonna be rare but if you lie then it's gonna be
00:06:41.480 over then he's gonna think you're lying about everything so that's interesting all right here's what i
00:06:45.640 want to do i want to go to 40 27 deli we're gonna skip one
00:06:49.720 like i don't know the more i think about it the more i realize like how negative it is because like
00:06:56.540 i think the reason and we talked about this in the car too the reason why like men care i think at
00:07:03.480 least like about low body counts is because i think they like i'm not saying this is all men but i'm saying
00:07:09.420 that a lot of men like to have that like sense of ownership like oh like this is like untouched
00:07:13.720 like no one else like saw this besides me you know and i think that's like for men i think that's
00:07:18.800 like such a i think it would like if that were if like my body count was broadcasted on my forehead
00:07:24.000 or like any what girls was then i think that would like just create more of like this society where
00:07:30.800 like what do you think about that let's pause it do you think it's about ownership though that was an
00:07:34.240 interesting choice of word she used to me like a guy wants to own you and he wants a woman that's
00:07:39.560 like not been seen naked by another guy thought of immediately when they said owning her souls or
00:07:45.240 stealing her soul that's what i thought i'm like some guys i mean sort of in a way like it's kind of
00:07:52.800 in the same way that andrew tate is would say that um like she is my property like when you say it it
00:08:01.220 kind of sounds bad but it's like a guy kind of wants to know that like you're his yeah like what
00:08:06.740 you want like you're my girl yeah and not belong to everybody so in a way yeah i think she's right
00:08:12.900 um i think she's kind of trying to do it with a negative connotation but i think she's right
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