JustPearlyThings - October 22, 2023


Pearl Is Brutal With Modern


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

187.3272

Word Count

1,626

Sentence Count

188


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 When I was dating, right, I'm 37 now, so when I was 25, there were men that I was dating.
00:00:04.760 Good job, and I would be like, yo, I want to get married.
00:00:08.520 What was the response?
00:00:09.600 Were you a wife?
00:00:12.120 Was I a wife?
00:00:12.920 Of course.
00:00:13.640 Okay, were you raised to be a wife?
00:00:15.560 Yes, I was raised to be a wife, yes.
00:00:17.020 Okay, so what skills do you have that are like wife?
00:00:21.220 Because the whole show you've been talking about how you were raised to work, which is fine.
00:00:25.120 I'm not even judging you about it.
00:00:27.100 But it's possible that maybe they just didn't see you as wife material.
00:00:32.080 I was raised, so my mother never worked, okay?
00:00:36.760 So my mother taught, instilled in me, okay, you have to cook for your husband.
00:00:41.260 I did cook most of the family meals growing up.
00:00:43.400 You have to cook for your husband.
00:00:44.280 You have to make sure you serve him first.
00:00:45.620 Before you and your brother eat, he will eat.
00:00:48.340 You have to clean the house.
00:00:50.020 So these are things that I grew up doing.
00:00:51.780 But at the end of the day, I still have to survive.
00:00:53.480 I have to take care of myself.
00:00:54.540 Right, and there's nothing wrong with that.
00:00:56.500 And I'm not, like, I don't know your situation, but I'm saying, like, if I'm trying to get married
00:01:01.480 and all the men are saying, no, I don't want to marry you, no, I don't want to marry you,
00:01:04.600 like, maybe it's just something you've got to fix.
00:01:07.100 Like, I'm not even talking about you personally.
00:01:08.600 I'm just talking about women in general.
00:01:10.240 If the men don't want to marry us, it's like, maybe we need to improve.
00:01:14.320 But women will blame the buyer instead of fixing the product.
00:01:18.080 Well, yeah, but I think maybe women are actually, it's kind of, they're going for the wrong market.
00:01:25.100 Like, all the women are throwing themselves at, like, a small minority and often players, you know,
00:01:32.420 they're really belligerent.
00:01:33.580 And how hot is that?
00:01:34.560 Correct, correct.
00:01:35.360 But, you know, whereas there would be plenty of men who would be good husbands.
00:01:41.900 Yeah.
00:01:42.160 But the thing is, enough to go around.
00:01:44.240 But that still goes with, like, that's the marketing, right?
00:01:47.180 You know what I mean?
00:01:47.740 Like, instead of it being everybody else, like, maybe we, if we're not, if we're not.
00:01:53.080 Yeah, but it's like, it's like the product is good, the marketing, you know,
00:01:56.720 I mean, the product isn't always good.
00:01:58.380 It's often suspect, but even when the product is good, it can be marketing issues.
00:02:03.540 You know, because for a while I was like, why are the men upset?
00:02:06.300 But then I started reading the numbers.
00:02:07.920 I was like, God damn, this doesn't make us up.
00:02:10.280 But it's really harsh.
00:02:12.060 When you think about it, right?
00:02:14.260 In my 20s, it's not that a lot of men might say, in your 20s, it's not that most men are saying,
00:02:18.560 I don't want to marry, you're not marriage material.
00:02:20.920 What they say is, I'm not ready yet.
00:02:23.560 I need to build my, I need to make sure I'm solid before I can now provide for a household.
00:02:28.380 Because marriage is not no simple thing.
00:02:30.260 It's a business contract.
00:02:31.680 You now, we're going into business together.
00:02:34.100 So at a younger age, unless you decide to date older, if you're going to date in your age range at 25,
00:02:40.120 most men are going to want to wait until they are established, they have the money.
00:02:43.700 Weddings are expensive.
00:02:44.960 Marriage is expensive.
00:02:45.880 And I agree with you.
00:02:46.920 But again, that's trying to make a guy that's clearly not ready to be a husband, a husband.
00:02:52.900 Sometimes if that's all you have to pick from.
00:02:54.700 No, but it's not all you have to pick from.
00:02:57.400 Sometimes that's all you have to pick from.
00:02:59.120 I don't know why you keep, like, it's not all you have to, you know it's not all you have to pick from.
00:03:02.200 It's devil's advocate.
00:03:03.340 We're having, you know what I'm saying, devil's health conversation.
00:03:05.840 We got to, you know, off camera, it might be a different story.
00:03:09.020 But, you know, this is, you know, I'm always going to always think different.
00:03:12.540 I'm always going to defend women.
00:03:14.080 I'll defend men too sometimes, but I will always defend women because it is not everybody is just privileged to certain situations.
00:03:21.000 So we have to, we're going to speak about women and speak about all women.
00:03:23.500 I want to, I want to say women are all privileged.
00:03:27.120 We have, we have female privilege in the fact that we have.
00:03:30.900 Poom pooms.
00:03:31.940 Yes, yes.
00:03:32.940 The world is kinder to us than men.
00:03:35.220 We do have female privilege.
00:03:36.820 Yes.
00:03:38.480 Can you read the super chats that have come in?
00:03:40.520 I can't read them because my laptop died.
00:03:42.220 We're ready for the hate mail because, you know, it's going to be like that delusional girl in the green.
00:03:50.320 Yeah.
00:03:50.860 That's great.
00:03:51.900 I'm ready.
00:03:53.180 Yeah.
00:03:53.620 Can you read it?
00:03:54.340 Because I just like.
00:03:57.100 Let's go.
00:03:58.460 First time reading super chats.
00:04:00.060 Let's go.
00:04:00.980 It's hard.
00:04:01.340 It's harder than you think.
00:04:03.520 I think I'll do better than you do.
00:04:05.320 Shut up.
00:04:05.780 Okay.
00:04:09.600 Esoteric nightmares.
00:04:10.980 A 37-year-old baby mama, bartender blaming men is peak delusion.
00:04:18.800 Them eyes.
00:04:19.700 You can't have your cake and eat it too.
00:04:22.220 You make bad choices, you get bad results.
00:04:24.960 Dog MPA.
00:04:25.640 If she's a bartender and can go wherever she wants, when she wants, who's taking care of her daughter?
00:04:31.500 Is she leaving her daughter with the grandma?
00:04:34.600 Them eyes.
00:04:35.220 This is the reality.
00:04:36.900 Just listen and learn something, ladies.
00:04:39.700 The Happiest Gilmore.
00:04:41.020 Hey, Pearl.
00:04:41.680 I want you to know, even though you are not married, your show has made me a much better wife.
00:04:47.780 I'm 38 and have been married for 14 years.
00:04:50.400 We have never been happier.
00:04:52.320 Thanks for helping women.
00:04:56.520 Robert Carney.
00:05:00.460 President Pipe Piper.
00:05:02.420 The people have the power.
00:05:03.480 Communist and socialist is the female energy and simps of the inverted truth called lies.
00:05:11.000 Andrew JMP34.
00:05:14.500 I work in education and there are no gender-specific incentives for men to be teachers.
00:05:18.900 That's absolute cap.
00:05:19.980 Emmanuel Christ Eon.
00:05:24.200 The guy's New York dates barely break five figures annually, maybe even biannually.
00:05:31.360 Just a professional struggle boss.
00:05:33.640 Laugh out loud.
00:05:34.380 Great job on Piers Morgan Pearl.
00:05:36.260 God, who in the office would put up with that?
00:05:41.640 Robert Carney.
00:05:42.780 Ladies, lady on the left could not define love.
00:05:45.780 Love definition biblically is the Ten Commandments.
00:05:51.000 Love is not a feeling.
00:05:52.040 It's the truth.
00:05:53.340 It's truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.
00:05:56.200 Why the Adam and Eve judgment is what we are experiencing.
00:06:00.920 The inverted truth called lies.
00:06:05.420 Pharaoh Housewife.
00:06:06.780 As a married woman, you know when they don't pull out.
00:06:10.440 Just saying.
00:06:13.620 Jacob Joseph.
00:06:15.220 Some of the best advice I ever got.
00:06:17.380 Never love your job because your job will never love you back.
00:06:20.180 I like my job.
00:06:20.940 I don't love it.
00:06:22.900 Jesus.
00:06:23.380 Okay.
00:06:26.460 Jesus.
00:06:27.140 Lady in the green.
00:06:28.460 The 50-50 concept is the result of feminism.
00:06:31.040 This is what you want.
00:06:32.160 This is what you get.
00:06:33.180 But if she was 20, I bet you men will line up to pay for her meal because there is a chance
00:06:37.660 one can keep her conservative.
00:06:41.400 The Savvy Ninja.
00:06:43.100 Stop making the black community seem like ignorant, ain't got no money, can't do anything
00:06:47.360 or figure out how to do anything, lady.
00:06:51.380 Darius Horton.
00:06:52.160 Lady, stop.
00:06:53.380 Kids go to school.
00:06:54.360 They have computers.
00:06:55.100 Okay.
00:06:55.280 I think we've read that, right?
00:06:57.280 I don't remember.
00:06:58.120 Yeah.
00:06:58.400 Yeah.
00:06:58.420 I think we've read that.
00:06:59.300 All right.
00:06:59.540 That's all.
00:07:00.220 Okay.
00:07:00.700 Thank you, King.
00:07:01.700 Very good.
00:07:02.120 Very good.
00:07:02.620 Super chat.
00:07:03.120 Yay.
00:07:05.020 I actually do think you did it better.
00:07:07.020 Men do do everything better than women.
00:07:09.480 You know what I mean?
00:07:10.100 Even like being women, like women of the world or women of the year, that's it, isn't it?
00:07:17.480 I was trying to think of one thing women could do better.
00:07:20.320 This is how I came to this.
00:07:21.280 I couldn't think of anything.
00:07:22.320 So I was like, well, we're better cooks.
00:07:23.960 Then I looked up the Michelin chefs.
00:07:25.600 I'm like, damn it.
00:07:26.160 They're all men.
00:07:27.060 And then I was like, well, we're better parents.
00:07:28.780 And then I looked up the stats on like single mother versus single father.
00:07:32.240 I was like, damn it.
00:07:33.400 And I couldn't, I literally couldn't find any.
00:07:35.960 Let me know if you guys think of anything.
00:07:37.520 I just couldn't think of one thing.
00:07:40.000 Where like the top, like it was always dominated by men.
00:07:42.560 I'm finding out we need two teachers to do what one man could do.
00:07:47.140 Who runs the internet?
00:07:48.720 Probably a man, right?
00:07:50.240 So when you do that Google search, something that's in favor of a man is probably always
00:07:54.040 going to pop up first.
00:07:55.940 So if you go deeper in, I'm sure there'll be different statistics.
00:08:00.260 That's what I'm saying.
00:08:01.460 It's not.
00:08:02.560 I'm pretty sure it will be.
00:08:04.660 It's not.
00:08:05.540 I don't live by statistics.
00:08:06.740 I live by real life, real situations I live in.
00:08:09.780 The real life, real situations I live in, that's what I go back.
00:08:14.080 I don't go by science, statistics.
00:08:17.080 What's real life?
00:08:18.060 What are we seeing?
00:08:18.840 What are we doing every day?
00:08:20.680 That's what I'm going to go off.
00:08:21.220 I see men doing things.
00:08:22.580 Yeah, men, yeah.
00:08:23.760 We need men.
00:08:24.620 We need men.
00:08:25.620 We need men.
00:08:26.540 Men do things, but that's not diminishment.
00:08:28.300 We're going to do final.
00:08:30.020 I'm not diminishing anybody.
00:08:32.240 I'm just saying we're not as important as we think.
00:08:34.540 I didn't say unimportant.
00:08:35.520 I said not as important as feminism has deluded us to believe.
00:08:40.280 That's my.