JustPearlyThings - April 02, 2023


Pearl's Thoughts On Pr0n


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

191.05858

Word Count

1,557

Sentence Count

2


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.080 man the relationship stuff's very tricky especially now everything's so easy to get
00:00:06.640 energy from or contact with a girl on any app if you want to meet somebody it's for you maybe
00:00:12.720 a lot a lot of guys have trouble with that do you think so one out of three men are either virgins
00:00:17.520 or haven't had sex in the past year under 30. that's hard to believe especially with this day
00:00:22.320 this day and age well yeah because how tall are you five ten five ten that puts you top like
00:00:29.120 25 percent of men average guys five eight maybe thirty why does that put women off do you think
00:00:34.960 shorter men um i think it's because we have an instinct like to be protected so like i think
00:00:42.240 it's just like natural the same way that like men are repulsed by women with high body counts
00:00:46.720 it's like the same thing what do you think of porn of porn yeah i've never seen porn yeah why why
00:00:53.680 because i don't know i feel like you should avoid things you can become addicted to
00:00:57.200 um and it's kind of interesting i feel like porn has saved a lot of marriages because the dudes
00:01:03.360 don't cheat as much um i don't really have a strong opinion either way i think it's
00:01:10.560 like you should just be careful of anything you can get addicted to is my opinion because
00:01:15.280 one bad addiction can ruin your life and so that's why as many things as like i can just stay away from
00:01:20.800 that i could be addicted to i try yeah because it darkens the amygdala in the brain porn oh does it
00:01:27.280 so people see the world differently and i think it's over 80 percent upon as sexual abuse oh wow
00:01:34.080 yeah so that's why i think a lot of people gravitate towards it because it's rewarding the brain
00:01:40.640 it's a reward system so if they're people are masturbating whatever and it's with their brain and then
00:01:45.600 we see people's objects we don't see them as human beings but it's up what what about sexual energy
00:01:52.240 exchange do you know about that like people having sex and the exchange that comes with that do you
00:01:58.000 believe that can because i've watched some of your videos and that's where why i reached out with
00:02:02.320 i think is it five if a woman sleeps with five men it lowers her chances of having a happy marriage
00:02:08.560 is that correct how did you how do you know this um rollo tomasi yeah do you know who that is he did
00:02:14.960 a whole episode on like the effects of body count he links all the studies in it um and that's one of
00:02:20.160 the ones he talks about so what about body counts so if a girl's been with five men at lower chances from
00:02:27.920 is it 80 to yeah if she's a virgin it's 80 after 10 years if she's slept with five or more it's down to
00:02:33.840 i thought it was 25 i used to say 25 it's 30 i got that five percent off but um yeah i mean but
00:02:42.320 for guys it's funny like their marital satisfaction goes up like it's the best when they're both
00:02:47.680 virgins but like a dude if he's slept with like i can't remember the exact number but it's like roughly
00:02:53.760 four and then roughly 10 the dude that has had 10 partners is happier than the dude that had four
00:02:59.040 done it i mean i think it's just common sense like i i a lot of stuff that i say i feel like
00:03:06.640 it's just common sense like men always have been able to sleep around women always haven't been able
00:03:12.480 to sleep around and just because we have birth control now and we can do it it doesn't you can't
00:03:16.320 undo biology the same way women are attracted attracted to success height muscles like they don't
00:03:22.560 tell us not to be attracted to those things but they tell men they can't be repulsed by hoes
00:03:27.520 but you can't undo like biology but back in the day then women were virgins were apparently like
00:03:33.520 everything we read could be all bullshit but they say they were virgins men used to get people used
00:03:37.600 to get married off 16 17 have kids without women do you think that's why relationships lasted longer
00:03:43.120 because it was more of a a bond a bond um yeah you could well i just think there was consequences
00:03:50.000 like i just think there's shitty people and there's good people but if you take away consequences
00:03:54.640 more people do the wrong thing so when birth control was developed in the 1960s like that
00:03:59.440 allowed women to sleep around if more women get the opportunity to sleep around because they can't
00:04:04.640 get pregnant more of them are going to do it and then you pay them to be single mothers you put in no
00:04:09.520 fault divorce you take away all the consequence and so even like people that you know might be on the
00:04:14.720 fence about leaving their husband if they're getting paid to do it bye why do you think so many people
00:04:21.280 are cheating now um i mean i think people have always cheated i mean i think 8 000 years ago it
00:04:29.600 was like 17 women to every one man so men have always had multiple girls always throughout all of
00:04:35.680 history it's crazy though because you've got some marriages who can have four waves you get some men
00:04:40.880 who struggle to keep one that who what's right or what's wrong that there's so much information out
00:04:47.520 there it confuses people yeah but i believe it confuses people that even with the porn thing and
00:04:53.200 people watching porn people having relationships and when i was growing up it was cool to as many
00:04:58.080 birds as you want it was cool and that was me to get numbers on the bedpost and have a number and beat
00:05:05.920 not realizing the extent it has in your mind because it never makes you happy in my own opinion like
00:05:11.040 it never made me happy it made me happy for that you have no looked pretty happy yeah but again like
00:05:16.160 was it all do you know what i mean like yeah i get you you know what i mean like is it's kind of
00:05:22.000 cd as well like because we're glorifying people like this like where it's cool and people always women but
00:05:30.640 earlier maybe i was maybe the happiest man on the planet but it just doesn't feel feel normal in
00:05:37.120 my opinions i've got older and a bit wiser and educated myself on certain things and it's to see
00:05:42.160 the world a bit differently but who knows what's your longest relationship um it was two years and
00:05:50.720 how was that for you it was good it was cool have you been brokenhearted yourself oh yeah of course
00:05:56.480 that's painful in itself yeah and then even all researching we can do and all the research
00:06:02.000 that's do you think that helps with someone who come into your life now or do you think it will
00:06:07.040 make you more paranoid um no i mean i think the more trauma you've gone through or like heartbreak
00:06:14.000 you've gone through the worse it is like in the future i mean i like to think i'd learn from it and
00:06:19.520 like get better in the future but i just think in general like the less like my parents have only been
00:06:24.960 with each other and only dated each other and i just think it's better when they don't have exes
00:06:31.280 you know like that's not good for any relationship do you think men can change no well yes yes um i
00:06:38.640 think they usually get worse over time i think people it's funny i asked my dad this because he
00:06:43.280 didn't like one of my ex-boyfriends and um i asked him i was like do you think people like get better do
00:06:50.240 they change and then he's like yes they get worse over time typically it's scary to think though that if
00:06:57.440 you're getting worse over the years like men cheat and they say yeah what is it the same lepers can't
00:07:05.120 change their spots where as if they can't change but people do change people do make changes i've
00:07:10.640 made changes but i still question the old me like were they drinking drugs because every day i still
00:07:16.080 think it getting drink getting coke or just getting having a mad one like yeah but you still are who
00:07:22.240 you are you just don't do those things anymore yeah and i think most people go back to what they know
00:07:27.760 i think there's exceptions and maybe you are but i think like most people i'll give you an example most
00:07:33.040 people get fatter over time i think the metabolism shows down as well but you just you get tested as
00:07:41.440 well you can't be asked as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a
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