JustPearlyThings - October 23, 2023


Pearl Says Modern Women Can't Handle The Truth


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

197.42091

Word Count

2,128

Sentence Count

243

Misogynist Sentences

36

Hate Speech Sentences

13


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 I think as women, we're too soft, and we need to get thicker skin.
00:00:03.180 And especially if he's making fun of something that you can change.
00:00:06.780 Because we make fun of short men all the time.
00:00:09.520 And until we stop doing that, until we stop doing that,
00:00:13.640 we have no right to tell men what they can and can't prefer.
00:00:17.920 But it was a peak America experience, too.
00:00:21.100 Because basically, I went to America, and a fat girl got mad at me because she was fat.
00:00:26.120 Well.
00:00:27.180 I was just like, you know.
00:00:28.300 And that's the thing.
00:00:28.840 Because if there was no truth in that, you weren't a bit of angry as she was.
00:00:33.260 Did you trigger her anyway?
00:00:34.940 Oh, she was super triggered.
00:00:36.220 But did you trigger her?
00:00:37.120 What did you do?
00:00:37.940 We need to at least hear this.
00:00:38.920 Because a fat person will not get angry if you don't.
00:00:41.860 I wrote those three things in the chat.
00:00:43.580 That's all I did.
00:00:43.960 Sometimes the truth needs to be told.
00:00:46.360 Some people need to.
00:00:47.520 I agree.
00:00:48.260 And the other thing I don't understand is like,
00:00:51.420 celebrities like Lizzo will lead with their weight.
00:00:54.820 Yes.
00:00:55.100 And that's what she's leading with.
00:00:56.680 Because she's in these super scantily, like, she's wearing basically nothing.
00:01:00.880 And that's what she's leading with.
00:01:02.440 And then she gets mad when people comment on her weight.
00:01:05.280 Adele was overweight.
00:01:06.420 Nobody commented on it.
00:01:07.600 Also.
00:01:07.700 Because she didn't lead with it until she lost it.
00:01:10.800 Then they commented.
00:01:11.680 She just had a good voice.
00:01:12.640 And then they said that she might have not been well when she lost the weight.
00:01:16.560 Yeah.
00:01:17.140 That's like Fat Amy as well.
00:01:19.040 Like, she's known as Fat Amy.
00:01:20.420 But like, she's lost all that weight.
00:01:22.540 And she looks amazing.
00:01:23.640 The one with the blonde hair.
00:01:23.960 Are you talking about pitch?
00:01:24.880 Perfect pitch.
00:01:26.020 That was from walking.
00:01:27.280 Yeah.
00:01:27.720 All she did was walk.
00:01:28.600 And even Lizzo, she wore like a thong to a basketball game with kids.
00:01:34.000 No.
00:01:34.180 And it's like even.
00:01:34.800 But I think that's a separate thing.
00:01:36.200 She should have just covered up.
00:01:37.240 If you look at her Instagram, she knows kids follow her.
00:01:39.840 It looks like soft core porn.
00:01:41.500 It literally does.
00:01:42.200 I'm not upset for that.
00:01:43.660 I'm not done with that.
00:01:44.440 It's like if an Instagram model leads with her body and men call her a slut.
00:01:49.580 You've got to expect the criticism.
00:01:50.640 Yeah.
00:01:50.960 If you lead with.
00:01:52.420 Like if an Instagram, even a thin one, it's like an Instagram model.
00:01:56.120 She's wearing nothing.
00:01:57.020 And then people call her a slut.
00:01:58.220 Well, you're leading with that.
00:01:59.500 So let me ask you a question then.
00:02:00.740 So I'm sitting here.
00:02:02.020 I'm wearing.
00:02:02.700 I don't know what this is called.
00:02:03.720 But it doesn't have.
00:02:04.740 A boob tube.
00:02:05.420 Boob tube.
00:02:06.020 There we go.
00:02:06.560 Boob tube.
00:02:07.340 I don't know my fashion.
00:02:09.000 So if I had a smaller chest, people probably wouldn't pick up on the fact.
00:02:14.440 But I'm wearing a boob tube.
00:02:16.360 Right.
00:02:16.700 But because I have breasts and they are quite large, someone might go, oh, she's got big boobs.
00:02:21.720 And she isn't.
00:02:22.300 She dressed a bit funnily.
00:02:24.040 Like she's putting her weight out there.
00:02:25.880 Am I putting my weight out there?
00:02:27.720 Or am I just wearing clothes?
00:02:29.080 I mean, I would say you're putting your boobs out there.
00:02:31.560 Like if you have them out.
00:02:32.720 Yeah.
00:02:33.100 Are you putting your boobs out there?
00:02:34.360 I would say no, because I'm not built the same as you.
00:02:37.140 Okay.
00:02:37.420 So it's subjective.
00:02:38.720 No, it's based on what we can see.
00:02:40.760 So if you can't see my boobs and we can see yours.
00:02:43.660 But am I leading with my weight based on what I've put onto it?
00:02:46.320 I wouldn't say you're leading with your weight.
00:02:47.960 I'd say that like your boobs are very, like they're out.
00:02:50.520 Yeah, they are.
00:02:51.460 Lizzo is way more sexualized than you are right now.
00:02:54.120 She absolutely is.
00:02:54.820 We're not saying you're that.
00:02:56.800 But her point is valid though.
00:02:58.340 If you see a woman walking down the street in that top with your size breasts compared to
00:03:03.600 someone with a 32 double A, you are not going to look at that woman in the same way.
00:03:08.820 Same way.
00:03:09.700 I just think the other woman.
00:03:10.900 But I think life isn't fair.
00:03:14.780 I'm tall.
00:03:15.520 So things are short about me.
00:03:17.220 I'll tell you a story.
00:03:19.580 When I was in high school, I got kicked out of homecoming because I had like a day to
00:03:23.040 find my volleyball dress.
00:03:24.380 And I couldn't find one that fit me because I had just waited too long.
00:03:27.820 And so it was way too short and they sent me home.
00:03:30.400 And I could have whined and been like, oh, poor me.
00:03:33.260 No, like I waited until the last minute and that was the, that was the hand dealt.
00:03:36.940 But there's an, there's in regards to like, you know, like what Sophie said, you know,
00:03:42.080 Sophie, right?
00:03:42.620 Yeah.
00:03:42.860 Yeah.
00:03:43.120 So Sophie said earlier, like she just ignores guys that are like five foot five.
00:03:46.960 Like I'm the same way when I see a woman's a cup.
00:03:48.860 I'm like, I don't see anything here.
00:03:50.040 Like, you know, and they, and they did a, they did a, they did a study too.
00:03:54.420 Like the way women like disproportionately desire a man that is super tall.
00:04:01.860 Cause like tall men are really, really short, a small percentage of the population.
00:04:06.200 That's the same way guys want women with big breasts.
00:04:09.160 Did you know that?
00:04:09.900 I agree.
00:04:10.880 Like the big breasts, like, cause they, they did a lot of, um, data based upon men's
00:04:15.300 preferences.
00:04:15.640 And then like the guys who are ordering sex dolls, the average breast size they wanted
00:04:23.060 was American D cup or larger, you know, I'm a boot man myself too.
00:04:29.420 I'm old school.
00:04:30.120 I don't, this whole new ass thing.
00:04:31.400 I'm not about it.
00:04:37.340 But you know, it's so interesting.
00:04:39.460 People would call you misogynistic for that preference.
00:04:41.980 I have a question on, on preferences.
00:04:51.580 So if I said, Hey guys, men don't like old fat, single mothers.
00:04:58.920 Is that offensive to you?
00:05:01.920 Well, if they don't, they don't.
00:05:03.540 There's no old fat single mothers here.
00:05:05.080 I would want to know why what's, what's because men just don't typically pick women that are
00:05:12.160 older.
00:05:12.720 Their, their options go down on dating apps.
00:05:15.560 Men don't typically pick women that are fatter.
00:05:18.200 Their options also go.
00:05:19.400 Wait, wait, wait.
00:05:20.140 Men also don't typically pick women with kids.
00:05:23.840 Their options go down.
00:05:25.220 Okay.
00:05:25.620 So I'm, I'm, I, I have children.
00:05:28.220 Although they're adults, um, I'm an older woman.
00:05:32.580 Yeah, but you're sexy, you're sexy though.
00:05:38.740 They're different.
00:05:39.380 These are a lot of pride to you.
00:05:41.260 You're clearly an exception to the rule.
00:05:43.420 Those rare cases.
00:05:46.640 So who are we speaking about here?
00:05:48.760 Non-sexy women.
00:05:50.100 I'm just talking about, no, I'm talking about it.
00:05:51.940 We all carry sex and people, sexiness differently.
00:05:54.940 It's just whether you're not, you, do you think you're equally like, do you think if a guy
00:05:59.080 had you at 20 with no kids versus you now with four kids, who are they picking?
00:06:04.520 Four grandkids.
00:06:05.260 I think just three kids.
00:06:06.100 Oh, sorry, sorry, sorry.
00:06:07.100 Three kids, four grandkids, right?
00:06:08.700 Probably now, but not because of the way that I look, but because I'm a very much a healed
00:06:13.060 person of the person I used to be.
00:06:14.640 The way you are.
00:06:15.500 The way I am now and who I am now.
00:06:16.900 I, I, I'm telling you most of men will just, just for sex only.
00:06:20.380 For sex only.
00:06:21.340 For sex only, well then obviously more now.
00:06:22.980 There we go.
00:06:23.500 I get that.
00:06:24.540 The majority.
00:06:24.920 The majority.
00:06:26.060 Because again, it's eye candy, isn't it?
00:06:28.000 We all want a bit of eye candy.
00:06:29.540 Yeah.
00:06:30.040 You know, when I look at a man.
00:06:30.720 Men think sex first, relationship after.
00:06:33.160 I got a friend, I got a friend.
00:06:34.580 I got a friend that actually likes older women.
00:06:37.920 Yeah, older women.
00:06:38.620 But listen, I'll push, I'll push back on that.
00:06:42.860 So there's two sides to the men who like older women.
00:06:44.840 It's a little dark.
00:06:45.700 So one side is like, they may have been, you know, touched by an older woman when she
00:06:53.600 was younger or, or older women is all he can get.
00:06:59.260 So he fetishizes it.
00:07:00.860 He's like, I like older women.
00:07:02.740 Because I know a few people on social media, myself, that prefer older women.
00:07:12.020 Your, your male friends prefer older women.
00:07:13.960 Some of them.
00:07:14.620 How old are they?
00:07:15.320 Are these guys like good looking chads?
00:07:17.740 Are they like good looking chads?
00:07:18.700 He's good looking.
00:07:19.600 Not gonna lie, I would go there with some of them.
00:07:21.760 Yes.
00:07:21.980 Is his mother present in his life?
00:07:24.360 I don't know that much.
00:07:27.100 Well, my friend.
00:07:28.120 Older women sometimes want younger men as well.
00:07:30.440 For example, I'm 43, yeah.
00:07:34.780 So.
00:07:35.160 You don't look it.
00:07:35.740 Girl, guys my age.
00:07:37.480 I'm younger.
00:07:37.940 Don't necessarily look that great.
00:07:39.360 So, I would not really pretend, like, I would not really have a choice.
00:07:45.240 My choice would not be older men.
00:07:47.440 But.
00:07:48.000 If I had the choice, I would go for younger because I personally believe that younger men
00:07:53.020 just look better than the guys my age.
00:07:54.880 Look better or perform better?
00:07:57.240 I agree.
00:07:57.300 I agree.
00:07:57.360 I agree.
00:07:57.480 But it's.
00:07:57.560 I agree.
00:07:57.860 But it's.
00:07:58.360 I agree.
00:07:58.860 But it's.
00:07:59.360 It's actually, it's actually a, it's actually a normal, like, that happens a lot older women
00:08:05.120 with younger men.
00:08:05.820 Yeah.
00:08:05.920 But it's because men don't have as much leverage on the sexual marketplace.
00:08:09.900 So, men, like, their, their peak, if you look at dating apps, where they have the most options,
00:08:14.700 it's, like, roughly around, like, 35 to 37, where women have the most options, roughly
00:08:20.000 around, like, 22.
00:08:21.520 Yeah.
00:08:21.800 Yeah.
00:08:22.160 Yeah.
00:08:22.400 Yeah.
00:08:22.420 Imagine, for me, I, I'm, the men that I attract now, I mean, there's a variation in ages, but
00:08:28.540 a majority, they're not, they're not even as old as my older son.
00:08:33.400 Younger.
00:08:33.940 Right?
00:08:34.240 No.
00:08:34.460 They are.
00:08:35.180 I know.
00:08:35.400 They are young.
00:08:35.840 I know.
00:08:36.280 Right.
00:08:36.760 That's the point because they don't have as many options.
00:08:39.100 When men are young, they can't, they can't sleep with as many women.
00:08:41.880 They have less options.
00:08:42.800 So, it's, like, the older women have less options and the younger men have less options.
00:08:46.680 So, they tend to go together.
00:08:48.300 That's interesting.
00:08:48.900 Yeah.
00:08:49.180 Where it's, like, the, the 35-year-olds, like, typically date the younger, the younger women.
00:08:54.580 And I'm not saying, like, how am I, like, like, I think the average age gap is, like,
00:08:58.140 like, each prefer, like, five to seven years difference.
00:09:00.960 But, but it starts with looks and men find 22-year-olds the most attractive, roughly.
00:09:04.760 I will say this, too, at, at right now, because with the way society is structured,
00:09:08.880 like, men are just being slammed with sexual images nonstop.
00:09:13.960 Like, the moment we wake up, like, how about some sex?
00:09:16.700 You know?
00:09:17.460 Yeah.
00:09:17.700 And so, this has caused male thirst to be at an all-time high.
00:09:22.200 Yeah.
00:09:22.560 And so, dudes are, like, you know, when guys get good with game and, you know, getting
00:09:28.160 with a bunch of women, that sex, that ejaculation, that hunt is all based upon dopamine.
00:09:33.760 And so, you got these guys that are just searching for that next dopamine hit.
00:09:38.520 You know what I mean?
00:09:39.460 And then, also, I don't think we've ever had a period in time where older women were doing
00:09:44.360 their best to stay sexy.
00:09:47.680 You know what I mean?
00:09:48.560 I agree.
00:09:48.840 I think, like, back in the day, they'd be like, you know, yeah.
00:09:51.740 You know, you have, like, the J-Los, and you got all these different women.
00:09:56.020 I don't keep up with celebrities, but J-Lo's the only one I know.
00:09:58.580 But, like, you know, they're older women in their 40s and 50s, right, that are, like,
00:10:03.780 trying to be super sexy.
00:10:06.200 So, when you're sexy, you know, guys are dogs.
00:10:08.960 Guys are fucking dogs.
00:10:10.300 And so, they're going to come after you.
00:10:12.320 Yeah, but I also think it doesn't really count until you're married, really, or in a long-term
00:10:18.340 relationship with kids, because that seems to be the new marriage nowadays.
00:10:21.860 Because I think a lot of times, as women, we'll mistake sexual attention for relationship
00:10:25.500 attention, and they're not the same.
00:10:27.300 That's huge.
00:10:28.180 Yeah, because a lot of women, they'll conflate the fact that a million dudes are in their
00:10:32.500 DMs, right, and, like, hollering at them.
00:10:35.460 But I would say 99% of those dudes, they're going to fuck you a couple times and disappear.
00:10:40.440 Yeah, and then you're going to be like, oh, I thought you liked me.
00:10:43.540 No, I am guilty about, like, nothing like people do it.