JustPearlyThings - July 07, 2023


Pearl SCHOOLED This Modern Woman


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8 minutes

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187.04793

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1,655

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00:00:00.400 is loving your job a privilege would you agree with the sentiment loving your job is a privilege
00:00:07.120 not a right oh 100 yeah but actually i think um that there is a level of ingratitude that is um
00:00:17.680 not helping people i think that people are not sufficiently aware that work really is a part
00:00:24.720 of the human condition that we need for its own sake just you know to feel useful to have a reason
00:00:31.680 to get up in the morning to be part of a team um those things are inherently good for us
00:00:39.280 so i think maybe people complain about jobs a little bit too much although you know i do think
00:00:45.520 there is a toxification coming from having too many women in the workforce i agree with you and
00:00:53.440 disagree with you loving your job is actually a necessity because if we love our what we do
00:00:58.560 we are good at it and we want to strive in it and we enjoy it and as simple as that it's easy for us
00:01:03.760 to do and we can give more to the society it's definitely a privilege because most people don't
00:01:10.000 like where they work but if you like you said uh if you actually love where you work it won't feel
00:01:15.440 like a job it only feels like a job when you don't like it so i agree it's a privilege it's not a right
00:01:22.320 you're you're privileged to even be employed with so with unemployment rate being so high you better
00:01:28.880 be blessed and thankful you even have that job complain all you want but you better be thankful
00:01:32.160 you have it yeah and i think um we often hear people not enjoying their job or the workplace the
00:01:39.680 people they work with and i think when you catch yourself in that mindset perhaps just remind yourself
00:01:45.200 what it allows you to go and enjoy outside of work and you know in that sense it is a privilege to be
00:01:51.040 able to to go to work to do that yeah there's some research that shows i think it's seven in ten
00:01:58.720 men are work centered and so the you know part of their life that they get the most satisfaction from
00:02:06.800 is work but that still leaves three in ten who actually need to work for various reasons including
00:02:13.760 psychological but there are other parts of their life from where they're getting more satisfaction and
00:02:20.240 then it's like four in ten women or something like that and so you know women are not prioritizing
00:02:27.920 needing to love their jobs um you know some some do and that is lovely and i think you know it is there
00:02:36.480 is so much utility in having people who are they have a calling and they're following their passion they
00:02:44.720 really do give so much to society but that's not all of us and that's fine we all strive to grow
00:02:51.360 right in our personal lives in our relationships and education in careers and things like that so
00:02:57.440 if there is a necessity to have a job yes i will do any kind of work cleaning our barista whatever
00:03:02.320 it's it's all jobs are a wonderful thing to have but eventually i will try to grow and develop into the
00:03:09.520 things i enjoy doing in life and i'm good at if i have a talent in singing i want to be a singer
00:03:14.800 eventually right so just just be yourself and grow and give yourself time and be proud are women
00:03:22.080 advancement programs sexist of course no i have no idea you are discriminating against men like
00:03:32.320 discrimination is it's not discriminating it's just saying hey here's a program we need more women
00:03:39.920 in this field so we offer this program as an incentive come on why are there no male um advancement
00:03:47.200 programs in industries like only fans and modeling it's called the nba the nfl the mlb those are no no no
00:03:59.520 i asked you i asked you i asked you you don't answer my question i asked you in um female dominating
00:04:05.040 industries why are there no incentives for men to get equal pay there are advanced like teachers no no
00:04:10.800 i was going to just say that teachers there are there are big incentives if you are a especially in
00:04:16.320 in the black no no i asked you about modeling and only fans but this is not a real job no no i asked you
00:04:22.640 i asked you modeling and only fans we could do modeling that's a real job there are plenty of
00:04:27.600 of of there's no there's no there's no incentive programs and men make significantly less money
00:04:33.040 than women and modeling correct anything in monetizing beauty women kill well think about it
00:04:39.520 women in the acting field males still dominate everything in that so it's one and one entertainment
00:04:45.440 field modeling only so i asked you i asked you modeling that's what i so i asked you in industries
00:04:51.200 that are female led why are there not incentives how many men want to model how many women want
00:04:58.480 how many women don't know but but how many women want to be engineers we could do the same thing
00:05:04.240 but no so i think a lot of men will okay okay guys guys i work in fashion industry i'm just curious
00:05:14.000 four random guys if you guys could just take pictures for money would you do it i have a field modeling
00:05:19.840 career so i'm hiding you would your dream job be a model
00:05:28.000 if you get paid a lot of money take money out no i asked i asked if they got paid to do it
00:05:33.440 of course i literally said i had a field modeling career i'm not i'm not lying about that yeah that's
00:05:38.160 what i'm saying i'm hiding you but what i'm saying is that most men are not going to sit there and be
00:05:42.400 like yeah i want to be a full-time model like they're going to want to go it's like it's so funny you
00:05:47.680 use the same argument like most women don't want to be engineers yeah but they're not good at it i'm
00:05:53.040 shit at being engineers so i don't want to be but if you told women if you told more women like hey
00:05:58.400 if you become an engineer you can have a six-figure job you really need to go after the modeling
00:06:03.520 and really if we told both of them the same thing they both would go for it if you told more women
00:06:07.840 you can make over 500 grand a year why isn't it just what people like to do like in no in no industry
00:06:14.880 are you going to get 50 50. like certain groups like certain things based on the culture one and
00:06:21.120 two based on your gender your abilities also yeah based on your gender you are going to just like
00:06:26.560 certain things like why do we need to like fix it like why do we need to change it why like there's no
00:06:31.680 law stopping anyone from doing anything so why do we need to encourage people to do other things why
00:06:36.720 don't they just do what they like yeah then we'll have nothing to argue about but that's the thing
00:06:40.000 you got to remember growing up you did not see women in wrong wrong it's so wrong because in the
00:06:46.880 media that's all we have like watch any tv show it's always a woman doing a job that she would never
00:06:53.840 never do like you have all these women in the ceo no look at the media the last 50 years it's all
00:07:00.400 women's empowerment the last 50 years let me tell you something when i was young you know what i saw
00:07:06.720 things like married with children right stay at home mom dad who goes away i saw every single
00:07:12.880 family every cosby shows homer simpson he's the stupid dad the smart mom family guy the stupid
00:07:19.520 dad the smart mom but and those still show that dad's going to work and mom is kind of a homemaker
00:07:25.840 but they always paint the dad as dumb and the woman knows everything i i'm saying like the media like
00:07:31.360 why are we trying to push people when there's no barriers anymore people do what they want to do
00:07:37.200 so why do we need to change it people do and why do and why like don't feminists and women like yourself
00:07:43.520 have the same energy for the men and female oriented careers i have the same energy no you don't
00:07:50.640 listen if i grow up right growing up what the what do they encourage women to do be a teacher be a doctor
00:07:56.960 these are fields they encourage you to do now with women advancement programs they're now saying we
00:08:02.080 don't have to keep telling you go for these same five jobs there are other jobs out there you guys can
00:08:07.200 go for and the women say no thank you still not i mean it depends yes not all the time exactly if you
00:08:16.240 sit there and tell somebody right if i come from a poor household you sit there and tell me i could make
00:08:22.240 500 grand a year let's say as a engineer guess what i'm doing signing up for the first engineer class
00:08:27.200 right yeah but you know what else you're doing after you've got into the engineer class and maybe
00:08:31.760 you know spent a lot of taxpayers or parents money or whoever like whatever you are meeting a guy there
00:08:37.760 who's so amazing and you are getting married and you're dropping out of the workforce so you've just
00:08:42.240 wasted your time is that what happened to you in canada i wish in canada but no it's it's just sort
00:08:48.480 of you know quite a statistically common thing